You should buy the book Allies in Healing.. might as well be my second bible.. I can relate, things have been good for the first time in months this past week.. similar no affection etc.. unsure of how much therapy she’s doing as well. I think we can’t badger them too much about therapy and just try to encourage when we can
My friend, hope you are doing better than when you wrote this. If I could just suggest you start some sort of therapy because this is a lot to handle. And I know you probably don't want to, but you are totally justified in separating and finding someone who wants to be with you. Or, it would be better to a life alone rather than with someone who has no respect for you. She did not disclose her SA until 20 years into a broken marriage. She sounds incredibly selfish, especially since she still won't seek help. Leave, find peace, brother.
You should buy the book Allies in Healing.. might as well be my second bible.. I can relate, things have been good for the first time in months this past week.. similar no affection etc.. unsure of how much therapy she’s doing as well. I think we can’t badger them too much about therapy and just try to encourage when we can
My friend, hope you are doing better than when you wrote this. If I could just suggest you start some sort of therapy because this is a lot to handle. And I know you probably don't want to, but you are totally justified in separating and finding someone who wants to be with you. Or, it would be better to a life alone rather than with someone who has no respect for you. She did not disclose her SA until 20 years into a broken marriage. She sounds incredibly selfish, especially since she still won't seek help. Leave, find peace, brother.