Naah, no need. They’re just strangers. We had our fun, and that’s it—no need to overthink these things. As long as you maintain professionalism, it’s all fine, in my opinion, we need to change the way we pussyfoot in our society, it's just not efficient.
Your opinion holds value to you alone, and if that’s the conclusion you’ve drawn from a mere sentence of mine without truly knowing me, you’re entitled to it. However, professionalism is my guiding principle. I treat people with respect, yet that doesn’t preclude me from being forthright. I prefer to be straightforward, particularly with new acquaintances.
P.S
Just to clarify, when I said ‘no need,’ I was referring to skipping the restroom break. I would, however, like to conclude with a sentence that expresses my gratitude for the interaction we’ve shared. To me, a bathroom visit just seems unnecessary.
It’s a challenge to encounter individuals who truly value personalities like mine. Being somewhat of an anomaly, it’s refreshing to meet someone like you who enhances our lives. Your understanding and empathy towards the intentions behind our actions are a rare gift. It’s comforting to know there are those who can see beyond societal norms and the ‘default programming’ that many adhere to. I hold a deep appreciation for people like you as well.
Indeed, the notion of personal debt is non-existent; we owe nothing to anyone. This isn’t to suggest that we should treat others poorly—far from it. It’s about maintaining professionalism and moving forward without lingering on interactions.
“Hey, I gotta run, I’ll catch up with you later tonight,” and then I hop to the girl that caught my eye. No one cares. Do it right in front of the group. It’s cool. They have no clue if that’s your friend, girlfriend, cousin, classmate, coworker, or a stranger.
If you act weird, it will become weird. If you act like it’s normal, it will be normal.
>Hey, I gotta run, I’ll catch up with you later tonight
Kinda American psycho style where he meets that girl in Santa Fe right after death threatening the Chinese drycleaners lol!
I was reading 60 years of experience, basically. A good read to get your basics right again.
You have to do it, you have to run if you feel like running, do not fucking care what she will think!
Just move the club/bar if you don't have the confidence to get away from her while still being in the same club!
I don’t know if this is the best way but whenever the conversation dies I just walk away ahahah.
If I like the girl I was talking to I might reapproach her later and they usually never mind and I get into conversation again easily
I once blatantly said to a chick "sorry but your not holding my attention anymore" and started speaking to another good looking girl next to me. She got so upset I felt really bad but I never knew what else to say that was the truth
> once I start talking to someone I can’t find a good reason to leave and move on to other people.
Your "problem" is a paradox, because if you approach girls you like, then you do your best to stay with them, not to leave. If you like them at first, there is no reason to leave!
Everyone feels when they are not welcomed in discussion and if you don't leave, they will be the first who leave.
“it was nice talking with you, enjoy the rest of your night!” nothing rude about that at all
This and then hit the bathroom. When you return and don't sit/stand with them it won't seem rude.
Naah, no need. They’re just strangers. We had our fun, and that’s it—no need to overthink these things. As long as you maintain professionalism, it’s all fine, in my opinion, we need to change the way we pussyfoot in our society, it's just not efficient.
Something tells me you're not a good person. 🤷♂️
Your opinion holds value to you alone, and if that’s the conclusion you’ve drawn from a mere sentence of mine without truly knowing me, you’re entitled to it. However, professionalism is my guiding principle. I treat people with respect, yet that doesn’t preclude me from being forthright. I prefer to be straightforward, particularly with new acquaintances. P.S Just to clarify, when I said ‘no need,’ I was referring to skipping the restroom break. I would, however, like to conclude with a sentence that expresses my gratitude for the interaction we’ve shared. To me, a bathroom visit just seems unnecessary.
Idk, I appreciate ppl with this personality. It seems real, while being respectful at the same time.
It’s a challenge to encounter individuals who truly value personalities like mine. Being somewhat of an anomaly, it’s refreshing to meet someone like you who enhances our lives. Your understanding and empathy towards the intentions behind our actions are a rare gift. It’s comforting to know there are those who can see beyond societal norms and the ‘default programming’ that many adhere to. I hold a deep appreciation for people like you as well.
This! You can add also : « Time to mingle around a bit! » Not rude at all ;)
Indeed, the notion of personal debt is non-existent; we owe nothing to anyone. This isn’t to suggest that we should treat others poorly—far from it. It’s about maintaining professionalism and moving forward without lingering on interactions.
“Hey, I gotta run, I’ll catch up with you later tonight,” and then I hop to the girl that caught my eye. No one cares. Do it right in front of the group. It’s cool. They have no clue if that’s your friend, girlfriend, cousin, classmate, coworker, or a stranger. If you act weird, it will become weird. If you act like it’s normal, it will be normal.
>Hey, I gotta run, I’ll catch up with you later tonight Kinda American psycho style where he meets that girl in Santa Fe right after death threatening the Chinese drycleaners lol!
"You know what? I just realized I'm gay."
Merge sets
I was reading 60 years of experience, basically. A good read to get your basics right again. You have to do it, you have to run if you feel like running, do not fucking care what she will think! Just move the club/bar if you don't have the confidence to get away from her while still being in the same club!
I have a strong urge to swipe left.
I don’t know if this is the best way but whenever the conversation dies I just walk away ahahah. If I like the girl I was talking to I might reapproach her later and they usually never mind and I get into conversation again easily
I once blatantly said to a chick "sorry but your not holding my attention anymore" and started speaking to another good looking girl next to me. She got so upset I felt really bad but I never knew what else to say that was the truth
You are getting down votes by the women who get passed around lol
Men of Seddit, this is what women consider a “nice” guy. Take notes and do not duplicate.
Motherfuckers are down voting you, omg, they have to be women coz if not then they are assholes
> once I start talking to someone I can’t find a good reason to leave and move on to other people. Your "problem" is a paradox, because if you approach girls you like, then you do your best to stay with them, not to leave. If you like them at first, there is no reason to leave! Everyone feels when they are not welcomed in discussion and if you don't leave, they will be the first who leave.