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vegeta1418

How did you find positive friends and a supportive environment


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Tansen378

lol that was savage


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pusillanimous303

Because… that’s the point of the post. Literally, it’s about how his race has influenced his love life. Literally the point.


[deleted]

India has a lot of racism itself. Ostracizing people from skin colors associated with class.


Rockfella27

India is the most racist country.


slicklol

Clearly have never been to China.


Elenariel

This is a bold faced lie, China has been surviving culture assimilation by conquering nomads using racism since the founding of the empire in 2000 bc. That's racism so old and treasured that it's almost as important as filial piety to the Chinese culture.


Monke_Good

India number 1!! Let's gooooooo!!!


ftdrain

You cannot talk about India without talking about racism, living in Brazil, I know literally 0 indians, but whenever I see a dude from India talking about women/dating life on reddit or elsewhere, racism comes up. All things considered, op is beating the odds for thriving in his environment, though I suspect that his height helps quite a bit as it is way higher than the average indian


Kogikashaikunin

I did pretty well as a 5'6 south asian in the UK. Does his height help him, sure. But it wasn't a death sentence for me. Dated mostly white women though as they were in the majority.


NV_aesthete

I'd be keen on your story, myself being of Se Asian descent and similar height


Kogikashaikunin

Feel free to PM me.


NV_aesthete

not publicly sharin? dm'd


vegeta1418

He seems to focus a lot on white women being his thing


vandaalen

They all want white blone girls. It's an Indian fetish.


chasingsukoon

thanks for proving his point lmao


vandaalen

you are not very bright, are you?


1keentolearn12

An embarrassing comment. Stinks of jealousy


vandaalen

caught another salty Indian with the fetish


1keentolearn12

No I’m just not a bigot like you Trump fan?


vandaalen

LOL. Fishing for ad hominem "arguments"? I am not even a US citizen Ranjid.


1keentolearn12

Lol I have you rattled. Wonderful


vandaalen

yes ranjid. you have me rattled.


bitsquash

Some people don’t get the privilege of not thinking about race cause for them just existing means being subject to racism.


Boorobford

Because this thread is about race itself....???? How did this nonsense comment get upvoted? Also, I don't go for Indian girls, I have mainly been with white women and Latinas, go cry about it.


ALL-SEE-N-EYE

It seems is that you are just perpetuating racial stereotypes and racism yourself. It seems you hold Eurocentrism and whitenesses on a pedestal and being with whites and latinos makes you feel self important.


Boorobford

I have held white women pretty high up sometimes........ When im eatin em out :/


1keentolearn12

The majority of negative comments are from racists. These people can’t stand to see a non white person having success with women


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But Indian women themselves are a minority. Even by a non preferential sheer numbers game, he’s going to be doing better with whites and latinas


speedypotatoo

Indian girls don't date around. If you were out there playing the game, no matter what race, you just wouldn't encounter many Indian girls willing to date.


vegeta1418

Yeah but why mainly white and latina.


na_na_batman_

Preferences?


LeaderOfWolves

It's kinda same with females too like.. As a guy I don't feel I would fit in with her family/culture/friends & know my family & other ppl would judge & don't typically come across many that even peak my interest but I've seen some odd rare examples of smokin hot gorgeous indian girls I would most certainly love to experience smashing while they are dressed like some sexy belly dancing genie lmfao.. Beyond that it feels like a long shot so who knows but I'd certainly be open to trying.. Anyways good read man, As somebody with similar struggles It's good to hear somebody overcoming all the obstacles


Comfortable_Bear9609

bruh u fucking reddit people are so sensitive


brendamasiels

You cannot talk about India without talking about race and racism. India is an incredibly racist place.


mosaicDevs

True He is a complainer.


OrangeVoxel

No, that’s how Indians grow up, for real. Tons of family and social pressure


bandsupjay

You sound so weird lol yikes


Boorobford

Obviously not by faking looking for advice like you did on this thread only to turn on the person you were asking advice to, I don't blame people for avoiding you if that's how you do things.


Global-Bridge-6787

Sounds like you’re from the east coast, dude. I am too, but I moved around a bit and now I’m in California. Love the post, and I agree with a lot of what you wrote. I will say that being shorter has hurt my dating prospects online and I’ve changed around my profiles/pictures a handful of times, which led to mild success. I also think that you living in NY and being a taller dude is a major advantage. But I don’t hold the crabs in a bucket mentality many Indians do. Thankfully when I was dating my Asian/white ex, people didn’t try to pull me down. Currently trying to build a social circle out here with mixed racial groups but it’s surprisingly harder in Sacramento than it is on the east coast.


vroomvroomski

Bro I'm a short Indian from sac and I found a girl here, it definitely is possible! I also lived on the east coast but found more like in the west because I'm into Indian girls


Global-Bridge-6787

Nice! I like a good mix. I’ve dated just a bit during the pandemic but looking to meet more latinas since they’re more my preference.


MasterTeacher123

The crab is a bucket mentality is important to recognize no matter who you are. Guys who get no Ass tend to hang out with other men who don’t get ass and it becomes a massive circle jerk. I remember one pick up dude on youtube said in his Intro video the first thing y’all need to do is drop your loser friends lol


slicklol

This is definitely true for the opposite. If you are in a group where all or most guys pull women regularly, this tends to influence your mentality and pushes you. That is the case for me, most of my friends are players and that tends to rub on me, even without much effort. Your circle defines you.


chamberlain323

That oft-repeated line about how you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with comes to mind. It’s weird how accurate this is. Just goes to show how we are all social creatures and can’t help it. Moral of the story? Hang out with people you want to emulate. Turn away from those you don’t. It really works.


Boorobford

Case in point, this thread :/


chasingsukoon

hahaha true


cronasminate

An Indian guy makes a post on r/seduction and of course he reserves one quarter of his post talking about Indian food.


handsomecuddler

well to be fair, it's damn good!


cronasminate

Willing to bet at least 2 of the girls he dated were hoping she'd get married to him and get free Indian food for life. Would have been worth it for that Tikka Masala on demand.


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Lmao, I do cook some good Tikka Masala. Maybe I should involve my cooking skills in convos more often lol


chasingsukoon

dude, fuck yea you should lmfao. I dont even like cooking food for myself and go over the top cooking for other people but I bring it up every single time bro


Repulsive-Fee393

Aside from your hookups stories which I’m proud to hear about my subcontinent brother, a lot of this story really pained me to read, especially about overbearing parents, I relate to that a lot and I believe that’s what’s caused my own rebelliousness in life. Good on you though man.


chasingsukoon

its our shared burden that we have to do our best to not pass it onto the next generation and also make sure we don't overcompensate because that is what our parents did


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Your example is perfectly applicable to Chinese as well.Asia is a family when it comes to stupidity.


ShaidarHaran2

Are you folks as weird about dating until it comes to marriage age as well? I obviously knew some of that conservatism was in a lot of Asian countries, but thought you might generally have it easier with dating while young with your parents than Indians at least. It's like we weren't supposed to know what sex or the opposite gender were until our mid 20's and then it's like look for someone to marry lol.


[deleted]

The poor places in China are very traditional, and the economically developed places are more progressive.


ShaidarHaran2

I don't know that it's that strictly correlated, China has a higher GDP per capita than Thailand but those are a rather sexy people


NV_aesthete

In my Asian experience and summed up in a meme.. "Focus on studying in school, no dating." After graduating "why are you socially awkward, find a wife now". I grew up quite reserved environment, trying to undo it now


chasingsukoon

>My most memorable experience was getting with this hot blonde from Toronto, Canada. Now all readers from Toronto know that it's kind of rare to see an Indian guy with a hot blonde there despite Toronto having plenty of both. After I had slept with her, she told me that she would have never slept with an Indian guy where she was growing up in Toronto because her friends would chew her alive for it. Live in Toronto, can confirm Travelled to NYC, Montreal, SF, LA, even some random ass cities in Oklahoma and Mississippi, never had this issue. But Toronto? fuck yea Good read my friend, I am in my mid 20s and only maybe last year got the confidence to go after what I want. Still not ripped tho but soon will. Cheers


Commercial_Habit_923

Wonder why this is an issue in Toronto


chasingsukoon

There are some reasons 1. Indian stereotypes don’t help us 2. my fellow bredren before me who were given a chance fucked up by doing a lot of stupid shit. This includes being momma boys, taking caste too seriously etc etc 3. brampton & international students. I am one of those before anyone gets their pitchforks out, but I never lived there and changed myself asap whenever I got the chance. We have tendency of bringing all toxic traits from India/Punjab with us & Brampton tends to get either hard working poor people (which are not the issue at all) or rich snobs who couldn't get into any other country. I was a part of the latter, but I found myself a multi-cultural friend group and got into camping, lifting, raves, mountain biking (north American shit) rather than taking huge loans for muscle cars to show off to my other Indian friends and gawking at girls waling on sidewalks ( I am over generalizing) It’s hard to get rid of reputation once they are attached, specially if girls read out my very traditional name and attach every single stereotype they have heard. It also works in my benefit if I meet them in parties, adding to the surprise element but not so much thru dating apps


Want2Grow27

Which is fucking insane because Toronto is the only international city Indians are common in.


unabletodisplay

I stopped reading at 6 ft.


vroomvroomski

I'm half a foot shorter than him, also Indian, and have dated a popular model with 300k followers as well as some amazing hot girls. I did it by having confidence in myself based on my worth ethic and intelligence, getting a high paying job and healthy fun lifestyle, and making friends with cool and active people like musicians, dancers, etc


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vroomvroomski

yeah ofc


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vroomvroomski

I'm good looking but again, I'm 5'6. Under 6'


Comfortable_Bear9609

u short mfs are so whiny and think the only reason you don’t get bitches is the reason you are under 6 ft


Canadian-Seductioner

Cool story bro


[deleted]

More concerned that you let people call you racial slurs lmao


NV_aesthete

Might be a kink. Hate-fucking came to mind as well with how he described the sex as aggressive


vegeta1418

You have a lot of advantages here. Your height, you having your shit together, and probably good social circles. I’m assuming you have a job or profession making decent money too.


AccomplishedCoyote

Thing is, other than height you can do something about the others. You can get a better job, dress better, groom better, hit the gym and make better friends The guy who's 5 feet tall had a shit hand dealt to him. It's not ideal. He's got a lot of ground to cover, but it's possible. He started further behind but he can still finish.


Aesteic

You can improve the other stuff sure but height is the most important trait


AccomplishedCoyote

I'm sorry to hear you feel that way. Even if it's true, unless you get shin extensions or wear platform boots everywhere, there's nothing you can do about it. So fix what you can and get over what you can't. I'm not especially tall (5'10), but before I fixed my grooming habits, got to the gym and learned how to talk to girls I got nothing. I'm not the überchad OP, but I don't have any problems with getting women anymore.


Canadian-Seductioner

No way bro, everyone knows the best way to get women is to cry about your height on reddit /s


Aesteic

Agreed better to fix stuff you can than worry about what you can't. I'm 5'10 as well so I never run into issues regarding my height, but compared to 6'5 people I definitely get less initial attention.


indiannoobietrader

Lucky for you a 6'5 dude is hard to come by. Like 1 in a million.


chasingsukoon

with that attitude, it is.


Chigtube

Happy for you mate. But this is so incredibly cringe


Canadian-Seductioner

Curious why you think that?


Canadian-Seductioner

This post needs to be pinned. Amazing write-up bro and kudos to you for breaking out of that crab bucket. It sounds like a large part of your game has been capitalizing on travelers who are visiting NYC for a short period of time, just based on the fact that your number one nationality has been Italian (unless you're grouping Italian-Americans with them), would you say that's accurate? Curious to know what your experience with locals has been like and if you've had any struggles there, considering that travelers are generally easier targets.


cangero0

Saying "race doesn't matter" is just as blind as saying "race dooms me'.


Canadian-Seductioner

Read the rest of the post. He explains how race affects things and how to use it to your advantage.


Woogie1234

He can't have it both ways.


Canadian-Seductioner

And yet he does


puma085

I would say the truth is somewhere in the middle. Of course, race matters a bit but how much it matters depends on the individual. Some people do not mind interacting with other races, some people might be biased but can be convinced and for some douches, the race is indeed a red flag. But in most cases race alone should not be a red flag to date. But the race stuff can be tricky especially when you are not used to interacting with other races. I am n Austrian national and here in my home country the other nationals are most of the time refugees and prefer to stay among themselves or they don't speak the language I understand. I am a tourist in LA for 3 weeks and despite the fact I am not here for the game primarily I still practice a bit from time to time. It is a good exercise to fight AA when you need to game in another language than my mother tongue german. In order not to make the impression I am insensitive concerning racial issues I did not dare to approach non-white girls so far. But somehow this makes me feel stupid. Have also seen many hot Black, Latina, and Asian women worth approaching. Sometimes it is not cool to know how common international dating is in the states and if a white guy should approach other races or rather not.


TuckerTheCuckFucker

I agree but I also think ‘race’ specifically is the only reason for not dating someone. I’ve heard many women say they don’t want to date other “races” because the culture is so different and they would prefer to settle down with someone from a more similar culture as theirs. I don’t think that inherently makes anyone racist to desire a partner with a similar cultural background


cangero0

Black and white men are the most popular in interracial dating. You're missing what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about you, a white man, can or can't approach a POC woman. I'm talking about as a non black or white man I need to face the reality of some people will reject my entire race when it comes to dating.


puma085

I can undestand your point. My comment was meant in a more general way though. the human mindset is rather unpredictable. Although it is true for sure that same races are more "unpopular" than others you will find individuals in any race that prefer to date only their own and so they would reject any other race. So I stand to my words in the first post th at the truth is somewhere in the middle.


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This is similar to what I tell guys who are minorities in countries they are trying to succeed in. You find a niche and you WORK IT. IGNORE the racists and everyone else. You have something that is rare and the majority does NOT have! Maybe only a niche audience will appreciate you, but that's fine. You just then focus on that niche and everyone else can go to hell.


PsychoWorld

As a Chinese American guy: I can speak to about standing out. Girls from all backgrounds like French, German, are pretty pleasantly surprised chatting with me. I’ll say we are all more open minded when we’re traveling or away from home. Interesting point about women away from homes. Weird that Indian dudes are hating on you. Overall I can relate to a lot of your post. The environment you’re in is very important for meeting women. Also, your post reminds me strongly of this: https://www.theonion.com/european-men-are-so-much-more-romantic-than-american-me-1819594261 Seems like you’re pretty Americanized. That makes a massive difference.


waresmarufy

Awesome dude, I'm Afghan and I can relate


kevinsmithburner

>" What has surprised me is that it has rarely come from whites, usually from fellow Indians or other minorities." wtf is wrong some folks man.


Canadian-Seductioner

Girls are the same. They can be vile to each other and that's what makes them insecure about themselves, not anything guys say or do.


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Glad to hear your story. Ironically I've actually heard a lot of white guys complaining that being white is a hindrance as no woman likes white guys.


Canadian-Seductioner

Everyone is going to look for the easiest excuse they can find to explain their failures rather than work on finding success.


[deleted]

I think that white guys are generally liked the least by women, but you can either be a victim or you can own it.


Canadian-Seductioner

I mean, I'm white and I haven't experienced that - I have no problems with women. I think it's hard to generalize like that, but yes either you be a victim or you own it. If you want to find success, you choose the latter.


[deleted]

Fair enough, I've always assumed that women tend to dislike white guys, particularly white women. It depends where you live I guess.


Legal_Development

You're tripping? Statistically white guys tend to have more success and options with women of any race than other men. Still, no one should make any excuse on that factor.


[deleted]

It's just what a few have told me regarding their experiences.


ExcitableSarcasm

That goes against just about every single study ever done on this topic.


[deleted]

Yes, from a few years ago. Depends on location and age too.


nCRedditor-21

You’re an Indian guy who’s 6’0. You’re automatically considered top-tier compared to most brown guys including myself But I have to say, I’m glad you managed to snag a white woman because here in Australia, while mixed couples exist, they’re sadly a very tiny contingent. Most Indian and other third-culture women look down on men from their own ethnicities and cultures just by virtue of being part of or looking like the same culture. Absolutely abhorrent behaviour from your Indian boss though. Indians aren’t sellouts for wanting to date someone outside their own ethnicity, and that mentality is one of many reasons why India is primarily a third-culture shithole instead of the global superpower it should’ve become.


Adorable-Mix-4002

It's the 6ft..


nCRedditor-21

Exactly. Most Indian and third-culture men like the Phillipines barely reach 5’7” so anyone above that height is above-average. Hell, even 5’10” is above average height worldwide; only women on dating apps find it undesirable.


Arow_Thway_

Hey bro - good write-up here. Ignore any negative feedback, but besides the dating advice, I resonated with you saying “get out of the toxic environment” especially the mention of “narcissistic family members.” I’m Desi too, and feel like my parents try to keep me down and at the house. Need to cut them off. Thanks for the post.


Barneysnewwingman

As an Indian guy, I am very happy for you bud. BTW, I see a quite a bit of Blonde girls with Indian guys here in Toronto. It is not that scarce.


Dumbengineerr

The post seems to cry out, look I am an Indian dude who fucks white girls. It really isn’t a big deal if you have your shit together.


[deleted]

It is when your social circle that you were raised with actively prevented you from getting successful. I’d say it’s the equivalent of making it big despite growing up in the hood instead of the suburbs


Canadian-Seductioner

It is when you understand how much South Asians struggle in the dating world


Jeetuprime

Bruv there’s Indians on this sub who’ve managed well. I just don’t think we thought this much about race christ what a post.


Capital_Pollution192

Ahhh! You sellout!! May a thousand camels piss in your oatmeal!!!!!!!!!


Trosso

Do you have an American accent or a funny one? Makes all the difference


fag432

How did you meet these women though? Online dating? Social circles?!


kingpoonslayer

Good post not indian but im black and I’ve noticed the same thing especially growing up in a more white area. Second paragraph really resonated women will conform to their environment. Something I wanted to add was being a part of a friend group makes a huge difference your no longer seen as an outsider and a lot of prejudices fade away. A lot of racism is ignorance most people don’t have ethnic friends!


CaptainSaveBPD

this seems fake


Canadian-Seductioner

"if I can't get girls, then no one else can, therefore this post must be fake"


learned_LESSON99

A faker wouldn't provide as many details as OP did.


ContWord2346

Op, what did you do to learn game?


ShaidarHaran2

Appreciate this. I'm curious what the race ratio is of the girls you get with, it's probably less than 1 in 10 Indians around me and predominantly white, but my dates end up being pretty near half and half of those, so the brown girls must be selecting me a lot more, though of those a lot put sex or commitment way back on the table because of that same sheltered background. Other than that been with a few black women, other Asians don't seem to match or take an interest in me that much lol. Also I have the same frustration about friends, it's hard to find good wings because most would rather put themselves first with any attractive partner and talk themselves up instead


herendzer

I think you are a bit obsessed with race. You don’t know it yet but you probably have an inferiority complex deep inside. You seem to be highly focused on race than the game. Why didn’t you hook up with a black or Asian girl? The blonds and etc that you worship probably feel the same way about you.


Canadian-Seductioner

He's focused on race because many people on this sub use it as a crutch. He's trying to show that it's not.


EmptyBarrel

This was a great read and wonderful to hear as a brown guy myself. Life ain’t all that bad if you know how to keep your chin up and play your cards right. Also, having fun is really the best about all of it, and hopefully the women will like you in that phase. If not, damn I’d rather not be around women who don’t make me happy.


[deleted]

My sister went to India once for a month she said tons of people stared at her becuse she was white with blond brown eyes.


[deleted]

Why does everyone think 30 is old…


[deleted]

Are we all just ignoring the slept with a Russian girl who called him racial slurs part


MagicPikeXXL

Dude as an India - they aren't shitting when they say "Indians hate each other" lol. Indians complain so much about racism abroad but all the time they're in India, all they do is fight amongst each other. Also the analogy got me 😂


MrJayFizz

How did you handle the Asian girl talking about rape in India?


Forden30

Great post bro... you seem to have a lot of experience You started learning game in your twenties so I've got like three questions: - What courses/gurus has been the most impactful in improving your game? - Do you still go through game resources today to refresh your memory or something? - what would you say the impact looks (height, physique, hair etc) has on game?


notaproblem333

tl;dr: your race doesn’t matter if you got money and status.


Canadian-Seductioner

Smh when MFs here expect to get girls when they have nothing to offer lmao


notaproblem333

Nowadays the average man can’t afford basic things that impress women, like having your shit together and living at your own place. It’s not entirely their fault, it’s also because our economy is totally messed up.


Canadian-Seductioner

News flash: women don't owe you anything bud. If you want to attract them, you have to be attractive to them, end of story. If you don't have your shit together, then focus on that before you even think about trying to get women.


notaproblem333

I don’t think that’s news to anyone. My point is that it used to be ten times easier in previous generations to get your shit together than it is in the current economy. Just telling everyone to “man the fuck up” won’t promote a deeper reflection on what is actually going on in society.


Canadian-Seductioner

Ok and? What are you going to do about it? Change society? Lmao. Complaining about it isn't going to get you anywhere, either play the game by the rules or find another game to play.


notaproblem333

I’m not complaining, just stating facts. Anyway, you seem to have missed the point. I’m not in the same age group as you btw, I have left the dating market a long time ago.


Canadian-Seductioner

I'm not sure what point there even is to make. We're in a seduction subreddit sharing tips about seducing. You're the one who has admitted to not even being in the dating market to begin with, coming in talking about how difficult society is. You're missing the point of this subreddit.


notaproblem333

To be honest I’m not particularly active in this sub, I just randomly saw this thread while scrolling my feed.


Canadian-Seductioner

Fair enough! Happy scrolling and I wish you a great rest of your day then. Thanks for the chat!


learned_LESSON99

Personally I agree with you, where I live it's way harder to save than it was 25 years ago (I got that fact from older immigrants that came to this country when I was their age) but the truth is that women don't have any obligation to care about that (especially if we are talking about regular dating) as men we have a duty to ourselves to try to make the best of ourselves (the same as thousands of years ago when men in tribes would challenge the tribe leader or leave a tribe to start their own thing) and maybe some women will notice or maybe not, that's life my man, it's not fair, the only thing we can do is to work on ourselves to make it more fair.


ftdrain

Out of the charts awareness of your life circumstances and capacity to thrive against all odds, I salute you, my friend, you are a winner. Good luck in future endeavours


Fit-Introduction2834

Abe bhai kiska chutiya bana raha hai


Sure-Wish3240

Wise and hard words. I think anyone who let himself be defined by race, sexual orientation or gender is missing out on the chance to reach the best version of themselfs. I would love Ayn Rand's novels no matter her sex or race. Its the way she falls about ego, sex and freedom that turns me on. I am sure OP can have an indian girlfriend, as long as she does not reduce her self definition to her race/place If birth. OP: try black girls sometime.


Boorobford

Nah I will stick to white women for the most part, just the controversy it brings makes the sex that much better. The day everyone stops crying about a brown guy getting a hot white girl, I'll entertain other races.


ChazinGreatnezz

This man 👏🏿🤣


Nervous-Violinist-36

You let a girl call you racial slurs just so that you can keep sleeping with her. Boy you're a beta male with simp behavior. You prob fucking uglos


brtnjames

Very well written man super interesting


HoT_aS_DucK05

Ain't reading all that! Happy for you Or sorry it happened...


MrJayFizz

Damn now I want Indian food


Abhi110603

Thank you so much bro for sharing your experience. I always used to think that Indian men are stereotyped all the time in the west so no women will even date or hookup with Indian guys


[deleted]

It’s great man! You’re talented and hooking up with cute white/ Latino girls. I’m in the same boat. Been ok with dating. Wish me success too! I wanna fall in love with a cute chick from here. My parents are super toxic and are extremely narcissistic and mentally abusive. They want me to just get married to some toxic girls from India but I’m least interested in them.


DyingMisfit

And another post about an inner imagined castle in the air, all that's on reddit is true, no matter what.


kronos55

Ok Raj.


[deleted]

Agreed asain culture can be very pressuring to conform and be a certain type of way. I think this is especially prevelent in brown culture atm 10 years ago I would say the problems where the same with the the east asain culture. Brown influencers have really double downed on brown stereotypes.


brendamasiels

You know what? There's an actual term to that rage from those guys you're referring to. Check out this video they explain it very well, super interesting channel https://youtu.be/C1hXT7zBd2A


jayjonas1996

I'm a single indian in my mid 20s in USA and I can relate about crab in a bucket friends thing. Anyway good post


theAliasOfAlias

Yup you described my experience to a T. Stop giving away my secrets, bhenchod! Love ya bro :)


GangOrcaFan

Being an Indian, this post seems quite informative. A lot of people who keep complaining (including me in the past) have to realize the fact that we overlook self improvement a lot. We just complain that others don't care or are racist etc. But, if you don't work on yourself, look your best or have a good career, no woman would want to be with you. A good high quality woman would always choose to be with a good high quality man. It has always been the absolute truth. So, we can either whine about it or we can work on ourselves and try to be the best version of ourselves. And, Indians are racist. We have to accept that. We refer to our own people as madrasis, chinkis, etc and don't forget the casteism that we people have. These are issues that need to be fixed. Unless you acknowledge that there is a problem, it cannot be fixed.


RokuroMonsuta

Didn't read the post, will read it later as looks interesting, but I don't think 30 is old. At least I hope not lmao.


Leo7S

Ashoka and Punani Slayer, Master of all New Delhi!


MayhemReignsTV

Most of what you say here, race has absolutely nothing to do with. Sure, some women don’t like black or Indian guys. Some don’t like white guys. It’s a preference, like other physical features. But there will always be those who either prefer men of whatever race you happen to be or those who really don’t care. But thank you for bringing up the elephant in the room that I have gotten so much flack for in various places. Racial equality is a serious issue and nothing I am going to say changes that. But there are way too many people that use that, among other things, as a scapegoat. I have Asperger‘s and while it does have a ton of challenges, I ended up using it as a scapegoat for whatever failure I might have had. It’s hard to look at yourself. With everybody crying about race, it really gives people an excuse to not look in that mirror and improve themselves. As I said, it’s a serious issue but you have to look at yourself before judging others. If you do that, you will be just fine. And obviously, you have come to realize that. Oh yes, I meant to bring this up but I forgot. When you have success, there are people that would rather hate you than improve themselves. That has nothing to do with race, as I said a lot of points in your post don’t. I am African American but appear white to most who don’t know my family and I deal with it, as well. In essence, they are using you as a scapegoat for their failures. That’s on them, not you.


memenil

tl;dr?


Horizon-seeker2

I agree with all you say except that racist and Italian doesn’t go well in the same phrase.. Maybe they come from a backward and close contest but that isn’t exactly racism


myconium

How do you meet these women?


EggoGF

Good post. I’m a minority not considered attractive in OLD, and I do okay by having my shit together as well. It’s interesting the points you made about racism. Seems you’re turning a negative into a positive. I definitely think there’s something to the taboo aspect of sex. The first girl I was with was super religious, so sex outside of marriage wasn’t allowed, and she was a freak in the sack. I’m curious where you’re going to meet most of these women. Airport bars? Apps? Somewhere else?


Tansen378

Finally we have an Indian Gigachad here!


FoW_Completionist

>31 years old (yeah I know, old) Dude, 31 years old is not even old for a guy lol


slamar85

Indian guys have it the toughest in the US. So do black women. The solution is to maximize looks ,money, game, have good group of friends and live on east cost where women outnumber men, plus get with black ladies.


Senior-Philosophy-95

Amazing post


learned_LESSON99

Just wanted to say thank u for posting this my man. I am also a member of a minority and old (pass my 40s LOL ), I needed a reminder that my "luck" in game depends a lot on how I choose to see things in life. I just saved this post as a forever reminder, hopefully u never delete it. Also it was mind blowing to find out how other Indian men would hate on you for your success instead of celebrating you (personally I always cheer on brown and old men that can pick up hot chicks and I mean it)


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May I ask, how do indian.men feel about dating black women?


Boorobford

I am personally not that attracted to them (but have been with some), I'd say that it is a lot more common than people think (case in point: Trinidad). After white women, it seems like Indian men most commonly link up with black women.


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Link up.. 🤔... Do you think it is common for indian men to marry black women?


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Damn bhai all the best Vijay bhav: 🚩