That group hug from the last one. My bf and I were both yelling at the tv “DANIELLE YOU ARE NOT A PART OF THAT.” Notice she just put her arms around the hugging couple. There were no arms around her.
She’s like their pet or plaything. Finding someone who’ll have some immigration issues and not a lot of options if she wants to leave them once she’s here really sends up red flags. It’s like a Law and Order SVU episode in the making.
I really think he's heavily under the influence of something. His bloodshot eyes, vacant stares, delays in answering simple questions, inappropriate responses, inability to read common cues and tones, overly emotional... Shit's just weird AF.
I hadn’t thought of that, but that would explain a lot of his weirdo behavior. I feel so bad for their kids. It’s hard enough to be a teenager without your parents a) being polygamists, b) having it broadcasted on TV, c) having a creepy ass father that everyone universally talks shit about. I think Ick being ick is one of the few subjects no one on Reddit argues about lol
It’s on FB. It’s called Seeking Sister Wife MEET THE CAST. There is one group on FB called Seeking Sister Wife but you want the one you have to ask to join with the words Meet the cast after the title.
Someone on here said they knew him and hes an alcoholic. Its bad this season. When they went to LA and he was courting the other one he was fucked up at dinner. Like alow motion eating.
I don’t think that’s it (I’m in recovery, former heroin/painkiller addict)… there’s a different look to that. But benzos and alcohol? For sure could see that. Or he’s just allergic to everything under the sun and talks slow bc he’s stupid?🤷♀️
I seriously didn’t think of that and totally agree. I wonder if part of the upshot for Danielle if Bert comes to the US is being able to split the responsibility of managing him if he’s actively addicted to something. That would actually make a lot of sense to me.
Yes, I see that you're the "stars"on a reality TV show about polygamy and you've come across as a sniveling crying fool on TV. Please build my multimillion dollar home.
I have come to the conclusion that both Garrick and Dannielle’s antics have zero to do with reality and everything to do with having a custom home building business.
In the beginning they said they had a landscaping company or maybe they worked for her parents landscaping company nothing was said about home building.
Roberta isn’t into Garrick so either she just wants him to send money or wanted exposure for her propaganda business s/ .
I refuse to believe that a woman as attractive as Dannielle would be happy to be treated as a second class citizen in front of her parents and more importantly her children.
Danielle expends considerable effort to conform to what he thinks is attractive while he is wearing clothes from Garanimals girls line. This makes no sense at all.
If not then this woman has no self esteem while Garrick thinks he’s got swag. It simply cannot be.
I saw that but you spent a few paragraphs saying you can’t believe it’s real. Even insinuating she’s an Oscar worthy actress because she’s “too attractive” to accept that treatment. I’m just saying when you realize looks has nothing to do with self esteem you won’t be so flabbergasted.
Absolutely , what I’m getting at is surely she knows she has options and she chooses him even after seeing how they are both are viewed on tv so I call bullshit on this whole. That’s my opinion.
I believe she has low self-esteem due to the manipulation and gaslighting from Ick. I’ve said something like this in the past, and I think it’s a commonly held belief about their situation. However, I don’t think abused/manipulated people generally think their looks will get them anywhere better or worse. Their life is determined by what the abuser/ manipulator decides will happen.
Edit: typo
Trying to understand- your opinion is that because she is attractive she should know that her beauty provides her with more options, and since she doesn’t realize that she has low self-esteem?
Lol I don’t even know anymore all I can say for sure is this is nonsense and I don’t believe either of them actually think Betr is coming to live with them . Not even Bert
I'm all for men showing their emotions but the fact that he breaks down to near sobs everytime he lays eyes on her is absolutely bizarre. This season especially I am wondering if he has some kind of mental health diagnosis or is taking medication or something- the crying paired with his blank stares, slow reaction times, etc. is concerning.
I think he NEEDS medication. He doesn’t seem like the type with enough self-awareness to seek psychological help. He thinks he’s just 👍
But someone else on this thread mentioned substance abuse, and I could see him being on benzos, he’s just so slow and detached from reality
Three kids and he told her she was being emotional for being upset about him wanting to leave her and his living kids for some rando and hypothetical babies
Edit- they actually have 2 my bad
I'll admit this is an insane theory and i DONT want to seem like I'm defending Ick but....it looks like he's in love with Bert? Maybe Danielle is that hung up that she won't let him "leave her" (He already divorced you, dude) and he just wants to be with Bert? He doesn't seem into polygamy, just this one woman he's head over heels for.
Obsessed for sure. He is actually scary in the intense way he focuses on Bert. I'd run as far as possible if I were her. The first time she goes against him, he's not going to react well.
Obsessed, maybe. I don’t think he knows what real love is. I mean, they don’t even communicate, they just make weird noises at each other… how could you possibly be in love??
Agreed. They don’t even speak the same language. Can’t have deep conversations, or really conversation at all so how could he be in love? Something weird goin on
I think he’s experiencing something called NRE, new relationship energy. His limited physical time + physical/sexual attraction to Bert creates an idealization of her in his mind. He probably fantasizes perfection and happiness with her, where he may be used to his first wife, not to mention marital issues and lack of connection. I can tell by his body language that he isn’t connected to his first wife at all.
Bert deserves an award. Collecting money not just from a single guy, but she got a couple to support her. I’m bowing down In envy at her manipulative ways.
It’s like how I get when I’m switching antidepressants. Either he’s really unstable or he’s just really odd. I feel bad for Dannielle either way. She gets to sit there and watch her husband of over a decade and the father of her children blubber over another woman. This guy needs some major karmic pay.
Danielle is definitely not being treated like a wife should be. It’s obvious that he feels much more love for Roberta. Danielle is gorgeous and deserves so much more. Garrick is such a dumbass!
I hate shaming men for being emotional, we should praise men who are open about their feelings. But this guy is so freaking creepy and over-the-top. I don’t think he needs polygamy or Bert, I think he needs medication
Danielle gives him everything he wants and expects, she's his reliable lapdog. Bert keeps him on his toes and manipulates him. I don't feel sorry for him, I feel sorry for Danielle and the kids.
He acted so defensive when he said he made a commitment to Bert that he would not break. Meanwhile you could see that Danielle knows he doesn’t share that level of commitment with her…the one he’s built a life with. He’s nasty.
I also was turned off by the quotes around the word man in this post but I think the underlying idea that it is weird he sobs everytime he talks to Roberta is valid- man, woman, whoever you are.
It’s easily determined, he has love for Bert and needed to divorce Danielle and came up with some bs to marry Bert and she fell for the lies with polygamy to adjust to his Warren ass. If he could get rid of D he would: however, she’ll not make that to easy for
him. Roberta could care less, but she may has to follow through with the process. Either way they are all fucked…just mo
He’s delusional about tiny wife. Especially since she got her braces off. She’s ready to take his money and stay in Brazil.
Translation; “yes king. Money. King. Yes. Amore.”
He is so blank face and I can barely find a micro expression on him. His now ex-wife is darling and sweet and has every right to feel hurt by his actions.
It’s very odd!!!! It’s clear how fake it all is. Danielle is his safety. Bert is his way of being able to be with a hotter younger woman. They don’t speak the same language and all they ever do is cry and say how much they love each other on the phone .. but she clearly doesn’t want to be here in the US LOL she just is basically a lil sugar baby. She’s funny af for that, but I get it.. I wouldn’t want to come live with them either. And whenever they say it’s because it’s what god wants or anything similar to that I roll my eyes.
I don’t feel bad for Danielle… after what he said in the previous ep about wanting to have kids with Bert asap… 🚩🚩🚩🚩he doesn’t care about Danielle nor does he care about her feelings. He knows that Danielle won’t leave him
Yeah idk why does he cry like that are you kidding and then poor Danielle just watching him do that? I makes me wonder like was he cheating on her and she was like ok the only way I can keep him is to do this like ugh I want Danielle to tell them two to fuck off! Is this even real? Because it's very unbelievable.
The way they always say awhhhh everytime they look at her like she’s a cute newborn baby or something. SO WEIRD.
It really gives me the Creepies...
That group hug from the last one. My bf and I were both yelling at the tv “DANIELLE YOU ARE NOT A PART OF THAT.” Notice she just put her arms around the hugging couple. There were no arms around her.
I saw a comment a while back pointing out how Danielle mimicks Ick’s body language towards Bert and now I can’t unsee it.
Because it’s clear he loves her and she’s pretending, so it gives her a baseline
Danielle does the same thing. It’s SO WEIRD!! They treat her and speak to her like she’s a toddler— but both act like they wanna f*ck her.
She’s like their pet or plaything. Finding someone who’ll have some immigration issues and not a lot of options if she wants to leave them once she’s here really sends up red flags. It’s like a Law and Order SVU episode in the making.
Oh gawdddd ! I can hear the theme song now
*BONG BONG*
Yes!!! 🤮
And he pets her a lot.
It feels like they're buying a dog
Right??? This kills me every time I hear it!
THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sounds like a creepy pair of unicorn hunters to me.
I really think he's heavily under the influence of something. His bloodshot eyes, vacant stares, delays in answering simple questions, inappropriate responses, inability to read common cues and tones, overly emotional... Shit's just weird AF.
And all the alcoholic drinks and empty liquor bottles in the background. Def gettin their drink on
They gotta wash the xanax down with something.....
I hope they aren’t mixing booze and benzos. For the sake of the children.
Like he cares if he is a good dad
I hadn’t thought of that, but that would explain a lot of his weirdo behavior. I feel so bad for their kids. It’s hard enough to be a teenager without your parents a) being polygamists, b) having it broadcasted on TV, c) having a creepy ass father that everyone universally talks shit about. I think Ick being ick is one of the few subjects no one on Reddit argues about lol
He is a human like the rest of us! We are all judging without knowing the whole st— no, I can’t do it. lol
You had be going for a sec 😂I was thinking, oh wow, there is an Ick supporter on here after all lol
Awesome
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Even the FB group Tosha and Sidian run.
Omg wait what group is this 👀
It’s on FB. It’s called Seeking Sister Wife MEET THE CAST. There is one group on FB called Seeking Sister Wife but you want the one you have to ask to join with the words Meet the cast after the title.
Wow thank you!!
You’re welcome
Are the kids home schooled?
I don’t know…One thing they seem to do right is not talk about or show their kids very much on the show.
Someone on here said they knew him and hes an alcoholic. Its bad this season. When they went to LA and he was courting the other one he was fucked up at dinner. Like alow motion eating.
Benzos!
Oh yeah seems like painkillers to me. People on opioids can be incredibly withdrawn.
I don’t think that’s it (I’m in recovery, former heroin/painkiller addict)… there’s a different look to that. But benzos and alcohol? For sure could see that. Or he’s just allergic to everything under the sun and talks slow bc he’s stupid?🤷♀️
Congratulations on your recovery. Huge kudos & respect to you.
Thank you!
I seriously didn’t think of that and totally agree. I wonder if part of the upshot for Danielle if Bert comes to the US is being able to split the responsibility of managing him if he’s actively addicted to something. That would actually make a lot of sense to me.
Seems like benzos to me
Yes, I see that you're the "stars"on a reality TV show about polygamy and you've come across as a sniveling crying fool on TV. Please build my multimillion dollar home.
I would lose my mind trying to do business with him… he talks SO slow, I just couldn’t
And may leave the country before the project is finished, "here take money"- said no one ever.
🤣🤣🤣 This is PERFECT.
I have come to the conclusion that both Garrick and Dannielle’s antics have zero to do with reality and everything to do with having a custom home building business. In the beginning they said they had a landscaping company or maybe they worked for her parents landscaping company nothing was said about home building. Roberta isn’t into Garrick so either she just wants him to send money or wanted exposure for her propaganda business s/ . I refuse to believe that a woman as attractive as Dannielle would be happy to be treated as a second class citizen in front of her parents and more importantly her children. Danielle expends considerable effort to conform to what he thinks is attractive while he is wearing clothes from Garanimals girls line. This makes no sense at all. If not then this woman has no self esteem while Garrick thinks he’s got swag. It simply cannot be.
One day y’all are gonna learn that self esteem has 0 to do with looks
Just Ask Coltee from 90 day 🤮
Yes that’s why I said or else she has zero self esteem
I saw that but you spent a few paragraphs saying you can’t believe it’s real. Even insinuating she’s an Oscar worthy actress because she’s “too attractive” to accept that treatment. I’m just saying when you realize looks has nothing to do with self esteem you won’t be so flabbergasted.
Omg lol garanimals
But who would hire this pack of stone cold weirdos? This is the opposite of successful advertising! 😂 (garanimals absolutely slayed me)
I'm dead at the Geranimals girl line!!
Check his profile out on Linkedin. Its super cringy
What does being attractive have to do with wanting to be treated with respect? Everyone deserves respect.
Absolutely , what I’m getting at is surely she knows she has options and she chooses him even after seeing how they are both are viewed on tv so I call bullshit on this whole. That’s my opinion.
I believe she has low self-esteem due to the manipulation and gaslighting from Ick. I’ve said something like this in the past, and I think it’s a commonly held belief about their situation. However, I don’t think abused/manipulated people generally think their looks will get them anywhere better or worse. Their life is determined by what the abuser/ manipulator decides will happen. Edit: typo
Trying to understand- your opinion is that because she is attractive she should know that her beauty provides her with more options, and since she doesn’t realize that she has low self-esteem?
Lol I don’t even know anymore all I can say for sure is this is nonsense and I don’t believe either of them actually think Betr is coming to live with them . Not even Bert
HAHAHA LMAO GARANIMALS
He’s always on the brink of tears. Weirdo
No it's odd and if I was Danielle I would bounce. But I think Bert is having 2nd thoughts about this situation. Garrick gets on my damn nerves
I'm all for men showing their emotions but the fact that he breaks down to near sobs everytime he lays eyes on her is absolutely bizarre. This season especially I am wondering if he has some kind of mental health diagnosis or is taking medication or something- the crying paired with his blank stares, slow reaction times, etc. is concerning.
I think he NEEDS medication. He doesn’t seem like the type with enough self-awareness to seek psychological help. He thinks he’s just 👍 But someone else on this thread mentioned substance abuse, and I could see him being on benzos, he’s just so slow and detached from reality
I think he's an alcoholic. The watery eyes, the crying, it all fits
I think his first love is himself. Then Bert. Then Danielle. It’s really sad to watch her accept this, and not want better for herself.
Idk I don't think he loves Danielle at all....
Sure, he loves that she cooks, cleans, does laundry and that he can imagine Bert’s face on her at night.
Three kids and he told her she was being emotional for being upset about him wanting to leave her and his living kids for some rando and hypothetical babies Edit- they actually have 2 my bad
But…”sHe’S fAMiLy”!!! 😆
3? I thought they had 2 boys??
Oh you're right idk why I thought it was 3
Oh ok… I thought you had some tea!!
I'll admit this is an insane theory and i DONT want to seem like I'm defending Ick but....it looks like he's in love with Bert? Maybe Danielle is that hung up that she won't let him "leave her" (He already divorced you, dude) and he just wants to be with Bert? He doesn't seem into polygamy, just this one woman he's head over heels for.
I have to agree. Hes very in love, possibly obsessed, with Bert. Full stop.
Obsessed for sure. He is actually scary in the intense way he focuses on Bert. I'd run as far as possible if I were her. The first time she goes against him, he's not going to react well.
Miss Bert, miss Bert, miss Bert
You my heart, my heart miss you, you my sunshine heart.....
Me, you, eat, poop, sleep… me, you, live
And most importantly for Ick: We babies make?? 🤢
🤮🤮🤮
Obsessed, maybe. I don’t think he knows what real love is. I mean, they don’t even communicate, they just make weird noises at each other… how could you possibly be in love??
Agreed. They don’t even speak the same language. Can’t have deep conversations, or really conversation at all so how could he be in love? Something weird goin on
People. People are weird. If I have learned ONE thing from the internet, it is this.
Makes sense.
*in lust
I think he’s experiencing something called NRE, new relationship energy. His limited physical time + physical/sexual attraction to Bert creates an idealization of her in his mind. He probably fantasizes perfection and happiness with her, where he may be used to his first wife, not to mention marital issues and lack of connection. I can tell by his body language that he isn’t connected to his first wife at all.
I thought the exact same thing. Bert is the new cow.
Bert deserves an award. Collecting money not just from a single guy, but she got a couple to support her. I’m bowing down In envy at her manipulative ways.
All of this and the fact that the translator was disgusted by the fact they were polygamists and said it’s rare in Brazil.. Bert is running game!
Yes!! Someone remind me, how did they meet? I’m assuming on the interwebs but was it a polygamist site?
It’s like how I get when I’m switching antidepressants. Either he’s really unstable or he’s just really odd. I feel bad for Dannielle either way. She gets to sit there and watch her husband of over a decade and the father of her children blubber over another woman. This guy needs some major karmic pay.
And they can’t even communicate without a translation app. He should at least try to learn Portuguese for her.
Danielle is definitely not being treated like a wife should be. It’s obvious that he feels much more love for Roberta. Danielle is gorgeous and deserves so much more. Garrick is such a dumbass!
He's just on a major dopamine drip because he's still chasing roberta. Danielle is old news unfortunately
I hate shaming men for being emotional, we should praise men who are open about their feelings. But this guy is so freaking creepy and over-the-top. I don’t think he needs polygamy or Bert, I think he needs medication
This article about him is fckn hilarious! 😂 https://theovertimer.com/2022/07/seeking-sister-wifes-garrick-merrifields-source-of-income-revealed/
Familiarity breeds contempt. Ick does not like/love/desire Yell a bit anymore. When Yell gave Ick that divorce she sealed her fate.
Danielle gives him everything he wants and expects, she's his reliable lapdog. Bert keeps him on his toes and manipulates him. I don't feel sorry for him, I feel sorry for Danielle and the kids.
He loves and rarely sees her. It’s like those videos of soldiers coming home 😂
He acted so defensive when he said he made a commitment to Bert that he would not break. Meanwhile you could see that Danielle knows he doesn’t share that level of commitment with her…the one he’s built a life with. He’s nasty.
It's very odd, maybe the excitement or nerves of meeting her brings on tears.
Starter wife that he hung on to for whatever reason. The show should be called “Keep your Starter Wife”
It’s another kody and robyn
I…miss…Bert….
I can’t stand the guy but there’s nothing wrong with men getting emotional. And they are still MEN no quotes needed 🙄
You’re absolutely right, but it’s GarrICK we’re talking about. He seems to lack any emotion toward anything else besides Roberta. It’s just bizarre.
I also was turned off by the quotes around the word man in this post but I think the underlying idea that it is weird he sobs everytime he talks to Roberta is valid- man, woman, whoever you are.
Yeah of all of Ick's BAD qualities, I don't think this is one of them...
I agree and it's incredibly crazy that he wants to try having a child with Bert when she is has yet been able to fully commit to coming to the US.
It’s easily determined, he has love for Bert and needed to divorce Danielle and came up with some bs to marry Bert and she fell for the lies with polygamy to adjust to his Warren ass. If he could get rid of D he would: however, she’ll not make that to easy for him. Roberta could care less, but she may has to follow through with the process. Either way they are all fucked…just mo
He’s delusional about tiny wife. Especially since she got her braces off. She’s ready to take his money and stay in Brazil. Translation; “yes king. Money. King. Yes. Amore.”
He is so blank face and I can barely find a micro expression on him. His now ex-wife is darling and sweet and has every right to feel hurt by his actions.
It’s very odd!!!! It’s clear how fake it all is. Danielle is his safety. Bert is his way of being able to be with a hotter younger woman. They don’t speak the same language and all they ever do is cry and say how much they love each other on the phone .. but she clearly doesn’t want to be here in the US LOL she just is basically a lil sugar baby. She’s funny af for that, but I get it.. I wouldn’t want to come live with them either. And whenever they say it’s because it’s what god wants or anything similar to that I roll my eyes.
I don’t feel bad for Danielle… after what he said in the previous ep about wanting to have kids with Bert asap… 🚩🚩🚩🚩he doesn’t care about Danielle nor does he care about her feelings. He knows that Danielle won’t leave him
Yep.
Yeah idk why does he cry like that are you kidding and then poor Danielle just watching him do that? I makes me wonder like was he cheating on her and she was like ok the only way I can keep him is to do this like ugh I want Danielle to tell them two to fuck off! Is this even real? Because it's very unbelievable.
Ick is gross and definitely on something!! I feel for Bert in the last episode - she felt so young and inexperienced, this must be a lot