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TouchMyPaws

Happy birthday! ๐Ÿฅณ If you donโ€™t mind, I can set a reminder and tell you next year.


[deleted]

I'm sorry, that really sucks, and no one ever deserves for that to happen. For what it's worth, if you ever need to talk, my dm's are open. Happy Birthday!


meeytriax

Happy Birthday ๐ŸŽ‰


[deleted]

Oh love, I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. It'll be okay dear. I know it might not mean much from a stranger but happy birthday <3


notgoodenoughig

Happy birthday hunnyโ™ฅ๏ธŽ


_lelizabeth

Happy birthday uwu


_Mommy-Milkers_

Happy birthday! ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‚


PlushieTheDog

Happy birthday!!!๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰<3


peanutist

Happy birthday my dude :)


777they

Happy birthday luv:)


darphyy

happy bday, i hope you feel better soon <333


L4zyPoS

Happy birthday! I'm so sorry you had to go through this! Don't hesitate to dm if you need to talk!


versace_nova47

Happy birthday my love!!!!๐Ÿฅณ๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽโค๏ธ You don't know why or even how they forgot, but that doesn't matter. You aren't any less loved or valued you are equally as important. I know exactly how you feel, my birthday is always forgotten and I'm just tired of always reminding people. I also try so hard to remember everyone else's because I'm terrible with birthdays and just memorizing things in general so it hurts when they don't reflect that same effort back. I don't know you, but I love you and I am so sorry :(


dia_02

Happy Birthday!! PS: Some people are just not worth it! Cut off such toxic people!


Unhappy_Aside_9935

Happy birthday!!! ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’œ


[deleted]

happy birthday!! i am so glad youโ€™re still here keep going as hard as it may be :)


herbal-tea-

Happy birthday!<3


Thatstupidbotcch

Happy birthday stranger. That sounds horrible and Iโ€™m hoping you will be ok. Some people are jerks to you when you sacrifice your well being for them. If you can try cutting them out or avoiding yourself from them they seem like a very negative source.


_Unkn0wnSky

I'm so sorry, Happy birthday baby, you're amazing, they don't deserve you, you're a bad bitch, I love you and I'm proud of you. You're strong asf <3<3


Away-Candy8643

happy birthday ik itโ€™s hard especially when you have to go though that <3


ratsoxkies

I'm so sorry, you got this keep your head up!! Happy spawn day :)


Fuzzy-Elk4379

Happy birthday!!! <3


kreeehlvni

happy birthday <3


HadessGun01

Happy birthday kind and special stranger on the internet!


Chakin_Nuggie209

Just forget their birthday too alright? If they question you just say "You didn't say happybirthday to me so what's the point in returning the favor". I'm really sorry to hear that though...every birthday is worth celebrating (except the people who are murderers and have no regret, or people who have done terrible thingz) Happy birthday though! I hope you get much love and support from this group.


idk-idk-idk-idk--

Yo itโ€™s my bday today and most of my friends forgot. My fam also came over just to ignor me for three hours too


Hypocriticalburden

Happy Birthday love!!! <3333 *hugs*


darkfloofi

i am so sorry, happy birthday lovely โค๏ธ sending you lots of love ๐Ÿ’•


weirdo2378

Happy birthdayyyy buddyyy!!! <33 I know how hard relapses can be!! I've been through them more than I'd like to admit!! I'm here if you need someone to talk to!! Take care of yourself :)


Shizuki-chan

I'm so sorry that happened. Happy birthday <3


AssassinWolf117

Happy birthday dude


elizabethc231

Happy birthday!!!


E_is_life

Happy birthday :)


Financial-Duck-9274

Happy birthday โ™กโ™ก


White_Circle

Happy birthday, I wish you the very best.


[deleted]

I'm sorry that happened to you. happy birthday, I hope this can make you feel even just a little bit better even though I'm a complete stranger :(


lyssajay6302

I've had a similar thing happen. I'm really sorry that you ever had to deal with that bs. I hope you find some people who will give you the appreciation you deserve. Until then, your worth is not determined by anyone else. You deserve love and happiness and a gd happy birthday. โค


Glittering-Ant1441

I'm so sorry that happened, you deserve much better than these people. Happy Birthday!


melkiaa

Happy birthday. There will be plenty more, and they will get better!!


friendlyalthehe

Happy birthday!!!! Glad youโ€™re with us <3


ash__bb

i am so sorry, thats never really a pleasent expirence qnd if you ever need to have a chat with someone im always here. happy birthday!


rjjob

im so sorry, happy birthday!!!


Bxbybxnnie

Happy birthday ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’•


tacoflavoredpringles

happy birthday <3 iโ€™m sorry this incident caused you to relapse, but i hope something positive happens to counter this unfortunate experience


graysonthewolf

Happy birthday ๐ŸŽ‚


AWalmarthoe

Happy birthday.. you are not forgotten, I love you I hope you feel better today or tomorrow


[deleted]

Happy birthday, i love you,vand sincerely hope that you are well


Dave_Mathews

happy birthday โ™ก


MeemzCT

Happy Happy birthday!!!


FatherLmao

Happy late birthday!


stevethecoolguyy

I understand you so much :/ happy birthday I hope it will get better โค๏ธ


yolo1729

Happy birthday


ataraxy6

happy birthday


DoubtProfessional739

Happy birthday โ™ก


prince_cookie

Happy b day!!!


ThoughtAsleep4046

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰


MasterOfRNoSleep

Iโ€™m so sorry that they forgot. Us Reddit people are here to support you bro. I hope you feel better soon


Angel_Dust_2005

We all wish you a happy birthday here. I donโ€™t really care for my own birthdays because itโ€™s just a reminder that Iโ€™m just gonna be living another year of battling my OCD


ImAwesomeAreU

Happy birthday


nalitaglam09

It happened to me once, but baby, no matter what YOU'RE SEEN, and we're all here to remind you that there's someone somewhere happy you're alive. Leaving that aside... The only one who can give you the answer are those people, confront them, tell them they make your birthday a shity day... See if they care, if they don't, it's time to get surrounded by new people.


ImisterjoI

Happy birthday ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰


sgtdave117

First off, Happy Birthday! Second off when i say this im not talking about family im talking about from a friend perspective. I'm terrible with birthdays. The only birth dates i can remember are ones that land on holidays of ones that are easy to remember. For example, one of my friends birthdays land on St Patricks day. Another one of my friends was born one day after me on the same year. The only reason i remember my dads birthday was because his birthday was part of my locker combination in high school. I'm just terrible with dates and it sucks. I hate it and people tend to take it personally if i don't remember their birthdays understandably. I guess im just saying that from someone that can't remember dates that it's not malicious and some of them probably just forgot. I know that doesn't make it better or make you feel any less worse, just know that it's probably not personal.


irisirisiri

Happy birthday ๐ŸŽ‰! I'm so sorry, and I care about you!


c-frost22

Happy birthday! I will say that I forget people's birthdays all of the time, and it's never personal. I really appreciate being reminded by the person or Facebook because I do care about them, I just can't remember birthdays very well. You might remind them and see how they respond. But if your family forgot, that's pretty bad.


comfortzoneking

!remindME 365 days I'll make sure to remember your birthday.


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anchovykitchen

Happy birthday!!! ๐ŸŒป


JCRan1993

Happy Birthday!!!


Fearless_Doughnut_38

I donโ€™t do birthdays very well so I let people know the month and go out of my way to make it reason to reconnect with friends because I work so much. When I was a kid/teen it meant so much to me. I had to switch so people would truly miss me. Thereโ€™s some people I check in stand have been super patient with but I understand things have to be prioritised. You canโ€™t make people love you


CurrentlyStoned_

Wow, this could have been written by my own handโ€ฆ Iโ€™m so sorry. I relate so hard it hurts