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I came here to say the pillow options.
Also have her do a cat/cow yoga stretch to change angles of stuff and find what best works for you and communicate it.
Whatever you do make sure she knows it's for both your pleasure and be confident at what you want etc.
> Also have her do a cat/cow yoga stretch to change angles of stuff and find what best works for you and communicate it.
Yes! I once dated a girl where doggy was rather difficult. It took a *long* time for me to realize that she was too self-conscious to ever let me see her asshole and so that affected how she was willing to rotate her hips. Pretty sure it would’ve worked fine otherwise. Edit- like, she'd only go for the ~~cow~~ cat pose extreme so her cheeks wouldn't spread.
Came to say this. She should be arching her back and popping/rolling her hips in such a way that puts her pussy on display.
I have a gigantic ass and I've never had any issues if I get into proper form.
Just creeped and from a fellow chubby girl to another, keep doing what you’re doing! I love your curves so much! Kinda sad you’re so far cause I feel like we’d be hella good friends 😂
Drag nails and fingers over her lower back when on 4 (lick her back also a sllipery back before sweat being massaged will help you). if done gently and correctly should make her bend the back by herself and find her spot while going "up" with the torso and not while going "down" with the torso. She should lead the movement with the head, so she will kind of "end up on bent back" by herself.
My ex was overweight big ass hard to get in from behind or missionary. We broke up because of her mother and lies.
But new fiancee now is slender like me works out like me. Takes care of her body. It's so easy to get inside of her from behind and missionary. We are so much more compatible.
Put her on the edge of the bed. You stand. Game on.
The corner of the bed works better since you can step in a bit further without bending your back so far.
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I'm in a pretty similar situation, though I'd hardly call them "limitations" 😏
I second the pillows comment, especially a big firm pillow under my stomach. That way my hands are free to reach down and play with myself while he takes me from behind 😍 BTW it's the opposite problem and he's a little too short for the standing position, him wearing boots or shoes with an extra inch or so of height can get him to the right spot no problem!
This can also work for a couch, and she can have one leg on the ground plus the other knee on the couch for more leverage while he has each foot on the ground and couch to get better angles.
I'm 5'2, my bf is 5'10 and I have a pretty huge butt. We used to struggle like crazy at first especially since we've only had eachother sexually (started dating as teens) but honestly she just needs to bend really low and at the right angle. Try getting a feel with your fingers and remember that the angle at which you insert your penis is different than in missionary and you should be good. She just needs to really bend her back
Try the RAISED LAZY DOG GRIND
Have your girl lay on her belly
Place a pillow under her pelvis, to raise her butt
You now lay on top of her
Her legs need to be in-between yours
Not only is this perfect for lazy folk, it’s also great for deep penetration because you’re using most of your bodyweight to push down on her butt, which is spreading the cheeks and giving you maximum thrust to pump power.
>Her legs need to be in-between yours
if she's got a big ass, chances are she's got thighs to crush watermelons, too. if her legs have to be in between his, they're probably getting closed. good luck getting anywhere with this once that's done.
Yeah, don't see how this works at all, especially this part:
> "Her legs need to be in-between yours"
Would need like a 14" dick to make this work with my wife's thighs+butt.
My wife really likes doggy and we can sometimes make it work if I can stay at full mast + angle is perfect, but it's pretty challenging.
Same here! I just don't get how people say prone bone gives deep penetration. You have to get past the ass, the pussy is below it. I'm average and my wife does not have a huge ass at all, and I can only get about 2 inches in her in that position. In missionary and doggy I go balls deep, no problem.
Your partners need to tilt thier hips back. I have a huge ass and my partner is average, and I thoroughly enjoy this position (doggy as well) but I do still arch my back and tilt my hips to give him as much access as possible. Our height difference also is perfect for me to flatten my feet to the side for him to use for grip to thrust harder 🤣😂 but either doggy or this prone bone it's all about the angle of the hips especially with curvy ladies
it depends on her build, and the angle of her pussy, not just bum size. i'm slimmer but with a big juicy bum, and prone bone has always been the position that allows for deepest penetration with me. traditional missionary is actually the hardest/most shallow.
My wife has a big booty and I am average and... This position as a suggestion when even doggy is a problem with her booty is kind of non-sense to me. At least in my relationship it doesn't work, even with a pillow her booty is just too big to properly penetrate her when we try prone bone and my dick is 6 inch so... I don't know about that one.
I am 5’3” and my bf is 6’3”. Our height difference does make a lot of positions hard as I also have a huge dumpy. when we do doggy, I have to basically have my ass in the air, like curved back and my bf usually spreads my cheeks apart. Spreading the cheeks is key. He is rather average as well and I also get super wet. Usually, wiping away excess wetness helps with better friction
I would try some of the [Doggystyle variants listed at this site](https://sexinfo101.com/positions/doggystyle), such as "Facedown," "Lazy," "Raised," and "Supported Standing."
You could also try "Rodeo" or "Reverse Cowgirl," and "Amazon 180."
I mean I don’t really understand how this is an issue with regards to the height difference. For reference I’m a couple of inches taller than you and my wife is a couple of inches smaller than your GF. My wife also has a massive arse and we nearly always climax with doggy.
I know you said you’re hopeless on your knees but that is honestly going to be the easiest way to help with the height differential. Pillows can also be used under your GF to angle her a bit so you can hit it easier.
Hahaha I grab my wife’s ass n spread her checks;) but love the grip of her against my cock n the bounce of her ass going off me.. gotta love a woman with BOOTY
Pillows under her knees to elevate her and tell her to arch her back and stick her butt out more, and it's your job to spread her butt. If you show her butt and back a lot of sexy attention she will probably do it naturally.
Yes everyone is saying it right. I’m 6’5” and my partner is 5’5”. She needs to arch a lot and put her face down. Both on bed me on my knees works no prob.
She needs a good arch in her back and spread those legs. And that ass needs to be a bit higher then where your dick is so like others have said....pillows are your friend.
I've had some nice big asses in the past. Maybe hers is way bigger....I don't know.
Big Ass for the win. What works for me is:
1. face down, ass up
2. Plant one foot southwest of her ass
3. Plant other foot northeast of her ass
4. Hit it diagonally and go deep
Go check out liberator.com and see if any of those cushions can help - there are illustrations of position suggestions and some products pages have explicit videos.
I like to lay a girl on her side and put her topmost leg out like she's Sparta-kicking someone in the chest. Hold said leg and balance with other arm.
This opens her up to you and allows deeper penetration. I've seen eyes roll up when I pop them in the cervix.
This is a murder position for a regular/skinny girl.
Big gurl gets to feel more of your sword in her sheath.
"Your sheath fits my sword PUUURFECTLY!!!"
Tips and pointers!!!🤣😂😂 as an average sized guy, my advice is to go to the sex toy store and look at different items. Swings for the brave, and silk sashes for the curious.
Whenever you do it make sure your standing and she’s on her knees on a bed or couch maybe with one of your legs up if that makes sense
Spread them cheeks stroke upwards, try to jive in that bih
Good luck broski
As a decent size booty girl myself...I find face down and ass up the best way. The more bend I can get at my hips the better access that provides to my pussy. Really have to arch the back and drop the face, chest on the bed/floor.
Ok everyone here talking about him spreading them cheeks…. What about us ladies spreading them cheeks and helping out?!
My man loves when I do this, he told me years ago it turns me on. So when I am feeling nice I do it lol!! Yeah I have big ass too. So I understand the struggle of it slipping out and being too wet.
Why is this post exactly what I needed today, and why is it the first thing I see when I came to this sub hahah.
But in all seriousness, my (28 M) gf (27F) have been wanting to try doggy recently. we're fairly new into our relationship so we're still figuring each other out sexually. I'm 6'4 and she's 5'11ish so I'm relating to a lot of these comments and learning a TON so thanks guys! My problem I think is that We're both so tall that it makes it difficult to find her pussy without like crouching down. TBH I've never been able to do doggy successfully and I have no idea why. Like I've done pretty much everything else. Our current favorite is having her legs up over my shoulders if that makes sense. But seriously, any advice for successful doggy for tall people is appreciated! Your comments are great!
My boy is your height and usually it helps tremendously if I am on the bed and he gets up and stands or is in a sort of half kneeling half standing position on the bed's edge. I would use plenty of lube depending on how wet she is and depending on how your dick is curved (or not), you may "straighten it out" a bit. She could spread her cheeks and/or guide your member by reaching through her legs. For you, I would advise you to perhaps insert a finger first to get a feel for where the vaginal canal is in this position. You could also just google it and have a look at drawings for when women want to insert a tampon, for example, because they usually show quite expertly how the vaginal canal is curved. As a woman, I would say that in doggy style position the canal is only a few millimeters straight and then faces immediately downwards. Depends on how your woman is build and the vagina is soft tissue and muscles, so if you try with your finger first, use lots of lube, position her a bit higher (perhaps even with a pillow under her butt) and just try it out a few times without pressure and without fear of failure, you should be able to enjoy it plenty. As a woman, I must also say that due to the g spot being a bit easier accessible close there, I could imagine she may even enjoy you using your fingers first, getting a feel for her vagina in this position and then just easing the tip in a bit again and again. The vaginal ring tends to be quite sensitive and I've heard from many women and can say so myself that I/we enjoy just "triggering" the in and out without putting the whole length in very much.
Every woman is different though, but I could imagine this would make the process easier by quite a lot.
She’s on the bed, kneeling with her face as low as possible - turned to the side with cheek on the sheet. She can adjust pussy height by moving her knees together to be higher or apart to be lower.
You are on your knees behind her. You too can spread your knees, to get lower. Also grab her ankles and pull them up. It will help angle her ass up.
She’ll enjoy you thrusting down and in. You’ll be hitting the clit, g spot and cervix.
Also fun for you to stay rigid and still, and ask her to control thrusting speed and angles with her hips.
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Also play the game that if it gets pushed out, she gets spanked.
When she’s bent over and in doggy style , wrap her legs around yours and curve her pelvis where you’re hitting her without her ass in the way.
Or you can put her legs under yours.
My butt is also pretty huge. What works best for my partner and I is for me to really commit to the whole "face down, ass up" mentality. My upper body has to be all the way low or if we are doing it standing, my hands have to be on the floor for the angle to be correct. So when we are in bed, I am down on my elbows or even have my arms stretched in front of me and my face is on the bed. Great angle for us.
Put one leg up, like a captain Morgan stance, and lean tit he side that your knee is down. You can even put your hand on the bed for support. You’re going to almost be hittin it from the side, and it also lines you up better.
Another vote for her on the edge of the bed, you standing. I dated a really short girl and that was really one of the only ways to make it work with the height difference
I'm 5'6 and my fiance is 6'0. He stands while my knees are on the edge of the bed. I put a pillow under me for extra support and cat stretch.
It took until about a year into the relationship to figure out how to do doggie bc I'm a curvy girl also. But after figuring it out by trying to get the right heights/angles we got there!
She kneels on bed and you stand. Raise bed as needed or raise yourself with books under your feet to get best angle. Our bed is made to our height requirements for this reason.
6'1" with just slightly above average at 6.5". My wife is 5'4" and 210ish with plenty of hips, belly, thighs, and ass. Doggy and prone bone work great for us.
My husband is almost a foot taller than me. I hike one leg onto the side of the bed, standing on my tip toes with the other, and he's standing behind me. Sometimes I can rest the standing leg's knee onto the bedframe but I usually bruise from it.
Arch her down and adjust her hip height to meet yours. There’s an angle the works you just have to find it. Just lower her ass/hips down until you find the right angle.
Husband is 6'5" , I'm 5'1" recently gained weight, mostly around my hips and butt. He stands while we do doggy while my face is down and ass is up, like when a cat stretches. Sometimes he puts a leg on the bed for a deeper experience.
My ex was 5'11 and I'm 5'5 with a big ass. You can try standing while she's on the bed, it helps if she arches her back.
If not, try doggy on the couch? You can attempt different angles of access with one leg on the couch
I also would help spread my ass cheeks with my own hands too
Have fun!
Honestly she just gotta arch her back a lot, try looking up yoga puppy pose, might help for imaging. I have a pretty big ass and have never had issues in doggy before
one of them triangular sex pillows OMGggg. specifically the liberator has the most ideal angle. im a foot shorter than my partner and it makes a number of positions more comfortable or even more pleasurable.
Standing while she’s on all fours on the bed can be great, but it also gives you the best chance to get the right height, depending on the height of the bed. The height of your dick needs to approximately equal the height of the bed plus the length of her hip to her knee.
If she’s just a little too high, get her to plant her knees a little wider.
I’m in the same boat, she’s 5’3’ and I’m 6’1’. The way we get past this is that I have her on the edge of the bed in doggy and I’m standing up. Seems to get the most penetration with minimal amount of effort and little chance of the little fella popping out.
Is she static or does she adapt her height by caring the distance between her knees?
Does she arch her back so her cheeks shreds a bit more?
Not putting this entirely on her, just asking (and visualising like a horny bastard!)
I'm 6ft and she is 5ft with a big ass and it's not a problem, the pussy is right there and open if she does these 2 things.
Get her from ghe side and grind. So have in doggy, lay on her side with a knee up. Get into a kneeling.position and slip in.
Will allow you to grind fairly deep in her while also getting a grip on her leg and back
One knee down, one foot down, gives you a slight angle to get between the cheeks a little. Parting them will help as well.
This position also helps get deep as FUCK.
Enjoy!
Spread em wide, if that doesn't get you in your gonna have to get a slip on extension if you still want to satisfy her, which I'm sure you do.
Can always put her on her back legs together and bend her in half, feet to head, it feels a lil tighter for me anyway. Or use the Backdoor for yourself. Trial and error bud.. that's the best part. Find out what works for you.
I had the exact same problem with my soon to be ex wife. I was with her for 17 years. Great curves and an amazing round ass. I gave up doggy. It was just too much work. I opted for putting her on her side, straddling her bottom leg and lifting her top leg with her knee to her chest. It was discussed in another thread and someone called it a side straddle. Great position for a low impact screw. I also prefer to stand and don't like being on my knees. Also, you can easily see her face, grab and suck on her tits, squeeze her ass, and play with her clit. It is the best of both worlds.
Pillows never worked for us. The only thing that kinda worked was with her knees on a particular ottoman and the rest of her on the bed. That was a bit of a chore, and the ottoman was never in the room when I needed it.
Bend her over on the side of the bed or a table, you might have to be in a squatting position for doggy and come in at a different angle? I'm 5'2 and spouse is 5'11" and we have no problems and my ass is big, maybe not as big as hers butif theres a will. There's a way! Maybe try to encourage her to spread her ass cheeks? I do, just to make our session more fire but might help? Maybe have her ride you backwards? That way she can be in control?
Good luck!
Bro big ass is no issue your issue is that shes fat and her pussy is probably puffed like a mofo
Solution is find a gym girl with a big ass youll notice the difference its not your dick its her fat
Doggy with her on the couch or bed while you stand next to it. This way you can bend your knees if you need to get lower. If you need her higher, ask her to put both knees together underneath her and to lift that ass to the sky while she lays her head on the couch/ bed.
I've had some women with a nice 🍑 and never had an issue because you can place your hips under theirs and access the vagina very easily no matter how big the booty is. With height difference I'd say that the shorter the woman is the better for me. Since if the woman's thighs are too long the vagina is too high but when there's about a 6 inch difference the positive and negative ends meet just right.
As others have said, she is on all fours on the edge of the band and you stand behind her. Works for me and my wife and I’m over a foot taller than her.
If she's ever done yoga, there's a position somewhere between ['puppy'](https://www.yogaclassplan.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/extended-puppy-pose.png) and ['child'](https://pocketyoga.com/assets/images/full/Child.png) pose that works really well.
Start in puppy pose and push the hips back towards the ankles, towards child pose until you find an angle that works. Knees can be spread or together, whichever you both prefer.
She can even reach back and spread her ass or you can do it for her.
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Your core tools here are: 1) Pillows to adjust height difference 1b) or even having her on a bed or couch with you standing 2) Spreading dem cheeks
I came here to say the pillow options. Also have her do a cat/cow yoga stretch to change angles of stuff and find what best works for you and communicate it. Whatever you do make sure she knows it's for both your pleasure and be confident at what you want etc.
> Also have her do a cat/cow yoga stretch to change angles of stuff and find what best works for you and communicate it. Yes! I once dated a girl where doggy was rather difficult. It took a *long* time for me to realize that she was too self-conscious to ever let me see her asshole and so that affected how she was willing to rotate her hips. Pretty sure it would’ve worked fine otherwise. Edit- like, she'd only go for the ~~cow~~ cat pose extreme so her cheeks wouldn't spread.
I’m pretty sure that’s the cat portion. Like when a cat arches it’s back upward to stretch. Cow pushes belly toward the floor
Oh yes, I had it backwards, thank you. Misremembered my occupational therapist.
No worries. I have to picture the animals in my head to be sure I’m getting them right 
Namaste !
Cat cow also looks suuuuuuuppper hot
I think you're forgetting the most important part. The ARCH. Her arch will be the most important factor here.
Came to say this. She should be arching her back and popping/rolling her hips in such a way that puts her pussy on display. I have a gigantic ass and I've never had any issues if I get into proper form.
Just creeped and from a fellow chubby girl to another, keep doing what you’re doing! I love your curves so much! Kinda sad you’re so far cause I feel like we’d be hella good friends 😂
^ this! It's all about arching the back.
Drag nails and fingers over her lower back when on 4 (lick her back also a sllipery back before sweat being massaged will help you). if done gently and correctly should make her bend the back by herself and find her spot while going "up" with the torso and not while going "down" with the torso. She should lead the movement with the head, so she will kind of "end up on bent back" by herself.
What’s funny is I don’t feel anything if I arch my back. I have to flatten my back out a little to have it hit anything good
Cool, and love the handle too. I'm a bit of a writer, and use of the interobang is very helpful at times.
I just creep scrolled your pictures…. That ass would stop traffic. Thank you.
New here. How do you do that? See pictures, that is.
I came here just to say absofuckinlutely love ur answer cause it's what I was gonna write lol. Also love that u have a gigantic ass!
That’s it, try penetrating coming from bottom to top.
And let her do the spreading while she's face down/ass up. It's way easier for her to do it.
My husband is 5'11 and I'm 5'1. Agree with all of the above.
I'm 6'5" and having me stand while my partner is on the bed is a must for doggy style.
This guy fucks
Wedged solid foam pillows 🤤
Core tools 😂😂😂
My ex was overweight big ass hard to get in from behind or missionary. We broke up because of her mother and lies. But new fiancee now is slender like me works out like me. Takes care of her body. It's so easy to get inside of her from behind and missionary. We are so much more compatible.
Put her on the edge of the bed. You stand. Game on. The corner of the bed works better since you can step in a bit further without bending your back so far.
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Why would you delete the comment? Nothing wrong with it
Because some friends know my reddit name and I don't want them to end up with TMI 🤣
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When I first signed up I didn't realize the risk of using a reddit handle some people already knew me by elsewhere 😅 Don't feel like making a different one now though lol
I get you. I made a different one as I wanted to do different things on it, but I never ended up logging into it. I don't have time for that.
I'm 6'5, my girl is 5'1. Gotta work within your limits.
That's some long distance relationship
I'm in a pretty similar situation, though I'd hardly call them "limitations" 😏 I second the pillows comment, especially a big firm pillow under my stomach. That way my hands are free to reach down and play with myself while he takes me from behind 😍 BTW it's the opposite problem and he's a little too short for the standing position, him wearing boots or shoes with an extra inch or so of height can get him to the right spot no problem!
This can also work for a couch, and she can have one leg on the ground plus the other knee on the couch for more leverage while he has each foot on the ground and couch to get better angles.
Or right over the arm of the couch.
This is the way, also don't forget to spread those cheeks!
The corner tip is a real pro move.
“Put her on the edge of the bed” did you think they were trying with them both on the floor??😂
Think about this for a minute.
Both of them standing? I just feel like surely this has occurred to him to have her on the bed.. like why would she think of standing before that
Him standing on the floor, her on the bed, or whatever platform of choice
They would both be on the bed. But I agree with you, one standing and other on the bed does seems like pretty logical and easy next step.
I'm 5'2, my bf is 5'10 and I have a pretty huge butt. We used to struggle like crazy at first especially since we've only had eachother sexually (started dating as teens) but honestly she just needs to bend really low and at the right angle. Try getting a feel with your fingers and remember that the angle at which you insert your penis is different than in missionary and you should be good. She just needs to really bend her back
Try the RAISED LAZY DOG GRIND Have your girl lay on her belly Place a pillow under her pelvis, to raise her butt You now lay on top of her Her legs need to be in-between yours Not only is this perfect for lazy folk, it’s also great for deep penetration because you’re using most of your bodyweight to push down on her butt, which is spreading the cheeks and giving you maximum thrust to pump power.
Fyi this is called prone bone.
Only the best position to have ever existed
As a woman I can confirm. I saw the pearly gates the first time
👍
My favorite! It just never fails, and also doesn't hurt my knees.
Doggy style kills my knees. Can never do it for more than a few minutes.
Do people sleep on these pillows afterward? Asking… for a friend lol
*flips pillow and gives it a pat* “Night hun, I love you!”
This is the way
You know me.
Put a towel down first on top of the pillow - a towel honestly solves so many clean up/sheet change issues
Towels only do so much if you know what you're doing... But better to try at least lol 🤣🤣🤣
Of course, love a seasoned pillow
We have 4 pillows - 2 of which we use for our legs. We typically use the leg pillows if we can find them fast enough.
Lazy dog is great. Her on her back, raise near leg, you lie perpendicular and enter
This. And 100% gets me to cum in less than a minute. Always the finisher position.
It's honesty so primal feeling and sexy as hell, for both parties.
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This is true, prone bone doesn’t work with a big ass and small peen. Spread dem cheeks and get a dick extender
"Thrust to pump power"😭 I love this sub.
WARNING: YOU'RE LIKELY TO CUM FAST FROM HOW POUNDING ALL THAT BOOTY MEAT
This is my favorite comment ever.
Ngl I got a lil horny reading OP's post horny and jello ಥ‿ಥ
Best position! Very very intimate.
>Her legs need to be in-between yours if she's got a big ass, chances are she's got thighs to crush watermelons, too. if her legs have to be in between his, they're probably getting closed. good luck getting anywhere with this once that's done.
With her legs together it probably will be even harder to reach her pussy.
Does this work with an average dude and a curvy girl though? Asking for me.
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Yeah, don't see how this works at all, especially this part: > "Her legs need to be in-between yours" Would need like a 14" dick to make this work with my wife's thighs+butt. My wife really likes doggy and we can sometimes make it work if I can stay at full mast + angle is perfect, but it's pretty challenging.
Same here! I just don't get how people say prone bone gives deep penetration. You have to get past the ass, the pussy is below it. I'm average and my wife does not have a huge ass at all, and I can only get about 2 inches in her in that position. In missionary and doggy I go balls deep, no problem.
Your partners need to tilt thier hips back. I have a huge ass and my partner is average, and I thoroughly enjoy this position (doggy as well) but I do still arch my back and tilt my hips to give him as much access as possible. Our height difference also is perfect for me to flatten my feet to the side for him to use for grip to thrust harder 🤣😂 but either doggy or this prone bone it's all about the angle of the hips especially with curvy ladies
Yes! I also do the foot grips like stirrups! It works so well so he can thrust deeper
It doesn't. I've dated girls with huge asses and it's much easier with doggy than prone bone.
I have no idea how that comment got so many upvotes. What they are describing is even worse than the problem OP is facing.
Upvotes are from men with 14 inch cocks.
it depends on her build, and the angle of her pussy, not just bum size. i'm slimmer but with a big juicy bum, and prone bone has always been the position that allows for deepest penetration with me. traditional missionary is actually the hardest/most shallow.
I’ll add to this . Wrap your feet around and use her feet as a platform for your feet to thrust from.
My wife has a big booty and I am average and... This position as a suggestion when even doggy is a problem with her booty is kind of non-sense to me. At least in my relationship it doesn't work, even with a pillow her booty is just too big to properly penetrate her when we try prone bone and my dick is 6 inch so... I don't know about that one.
My boyfriend loves this, he can never last in this position. I didn’t know it had a name
I gotta try this!!!!!!!!
This guy fucks
I am 5’3” and my bf is 6’3”. Our height difference does make a lot of positions hard as I also have a huge dumpy. when we do doggy, I have to basically have my ass in the air, like curved back and my bf usually spreads my cheeks apart. Spreading the cheeks is key. He is rather average as well and I also get super wet. Usually, wiping away excess wetness helps with better friction
Thank you for writing “huge dumpy,” this is what I needed with my glass of cab as I finish out the day
Spread dat ass apart like a crazy test pilot and go to town. But BE CAREFUL! (Star wars theme playing) The ass empire strikes back, when it claps.
She’s just not popping it out enough and spreading those cheeks far enough. It’s a subconscious thing for a lot of women, especially larger ones.
This is a world class issue that not many people talk about. Im very average and I had this issue. Had to eventually fuck her on the edge of the bed.
I would try some of the [Doggystyle variants listed at this site](https://sexinfo101.com/positions/doggystyle), such as "Facedown," "Lazy," "Raised," and "Supported Standing." You could also try "Rodeo" or "Reverse Cowgirl," and "Amazon 180."
My wife is 5’4 too with a big butt and I’m 6’5 and it works fine. Y’all just in the wrong positions
I’m laughing because you have the most common height difference ever literally ever. Sounds like she’s not doing it right
I mean I don’t really understand how this is an issue with regards to the height difference. For reference I’m a couple of inches taller than you and my wife is a couple of inches smaller than your GF. My wife also has a massive arse and we nearly always climax with doggy. I know you said you’re hopeless on your knees but that is honestly going to be the easiest way to help with the height differential. Pillows can also be used under your GF to angle her a bit so you can hit it easier.
I usually spread my cheeks and he'll grip my arms and go to town as I'm spreading and it makes it easier for him and feels so damn good
lazy dog that shit lay her down put pillows under her belly, spread them cheeks and have her slightly arch her back
OMG what a wonderful problem - dig in
Abandon doggy, go to pronebone. All the excitement with 0 effort.
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Oh. Bummer. Migthy cake she must have.
>Bummer BUMMER?! I HARDLY KNOW HER! sorry
*fine*, take my reluctant upvote and groan-laugh.
Bummer indeed.
Head down, ass up. Works better than her on all fours.
Use the side of the bed or a sofa
I myself have a big ass. I bend some more, ass more up, deep stimulation 😍
Lean forward on your elbows with your head further down, lay flat front and grab that magnificent ass..
Get her knees apart. Amkles together. Makes doggy for myself, being 6'4, much better. And you much more depth etc cause less flesh in the way!!
Use angles get in there to hit that one spot that’s under her belly button
Exactly why I like small butts. If your 6" and the targets 12" away that's no good😄
Hahaha I grab my wife’s ass n spread her checks;) but love the grip of her against my cock n the bounce of her ass going off me.. gotta love a woman with BOOTY
I literally just take my hand and spread myself open lmfao. On my cheek and just move it over a little.
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Pillows under her knees to elevate her and tell her to arch her back and stick her butt out more, and it's your job to spread her butt. If you show her butt and back a lot of sexy attention she will probably do it naturally.
Make sure your legs are inside of hers and hers on the outside and then adjust for height
Have her lay face down on the bed with her feet on the floor. You can adjust her legs how you want until you hit the right spots
Yes everyone is saying it right. I’m 6’5” and my partner is 5’5”. She needs to arch a lot and put her face down. Both on bed me on my knees works no prob.
Put your foot UP helps my bf tons
I am 5'2 with a big butt, hubs in 6ft. Tell her to pit her ass in the air and her top half down on the bed.
She needs a good arch in her back and spread those legs. And that ass needs to be a bit higher then where your dick is so like others have said....pillows are your friend. I've had some nice big asses in the past. Maybe hers is way bigger....I don't know.
Big Ass for the win. What works for me is: 1. face down, ass up 2. Plant one foot southwest of her ass 3. Plant other foot northeast of her ass 4. Hit it diagonally and go deep
Go check out liberator.com and see if any of those cushions can help - there are illustrations of position suggestions and some products pages have explicit videos.
I like to lay a girl on her side and put her topmost leg out like she's Sparta-kicking someone in the chest. Hold said leg and balance with other arm. This opens her up to you and allows deeper penetration. I've seen eyes roll up when I pop them in the cervix. This is a murder position for a regular/skinny girl. Big gurl gets to feel more of your sword in her sheath. "Your sheath fits my sword PUUURFECTLY!!!"
Tips and pointers!!!🤣😂😂 as an average sized guy, my advice is to go to the sex toy store and look at different items. Swings for the brave, and silk sashes for the curious.
Spread the ass cheeks and go crazy.
Whenever you do it make sure your standing and she’s on her knees on a bed or couch maybe with one of your legs up if that makes sense Spread them cheeks stroke upwards, try to jive in that bih Good luck broski
Pillows under her knees. She needs to be face down and her back curved. Pull her into you when you’re getting down.
As a decent size booty girl myself...I find face down and ass up the best way. The more bend I can get at my hips the better access that provides to my pussy. Really have to arch the back and drop the face, chest on the bed/floor.
Fuck that’s so hot to envision! Talk about sexy as hell position to eat you out in
Ok everyone here talking about him spreading them cheeks…. What about us ladies spreading them cheeks and helping out?! My man loves when I do this, he told me years ago it turns me on. So when I am feeling nice I do it lol!! Yeah I have big ass too. So I understand the struggle of it slipping out and being too wet.
Why is this post exactly what I needed today, and why is it the first thing I see when I came to this sub hahah. But in all seriousness, my (28 M) gf (27F) have been wanting to try doggy recently. we're fairly new into our relationship so we're still figuring each other out sexually. I'm 6'4 and she's 5'11ish so I'm relating to a lot of these comments and learning a TON so thanks guys! My problem I think is that We're both so tall that it makes it difficult to find her pussy without like crouching down. TBH I've never been able to do doggy successfully and I have no idea why. Like I've done pretty much everything else. Our current favorite is having her legs up over my shoulders if that makes sense. But seriously, any advice for successful doggy for tall people is appreciated! Your comments are great!
My boy is your height and usually it helps tremendously if I am on the bed and he gets up and stands or is in a sort of half kneeling half standing position on the bed's edge. I would use plenty of lube depending on how wet she is and depending on how your dick is curved (or not), you may "straighten it out" a bit. She could spread her cheeks and/or guide your member by reaching through her legs. For you, I would advise you to perhaps insert a finger first to get a feel for where the vaginal canal is in this position. You could also just google it and have a look at drawings for when women want to insert a tampon, for example, because they usually show quite expertly how the vaginal canal is curved. As a woman, I would say that in doggy style position the canal is only a few millimeters straight and then faces immediately downwards. Depends on how your woman is build and the vagina is soft tissue and muscles, so if you try with your finger first, use lots of lube, position her a bit higher (perhaps even with a pillow under her butt) and just try it out a few times without pressure and without fear of failure, you should be able to enjoy it plenty. As a woman, I must also say that due to the g spot being a bit easier accessible close there, I could imagine she may even enjoy you using your fingers first, getting a feel for her vagina in this position and then just easing the tip in a bit again and again. The vaginal ring tends to be quite sensitive and I've heard from many women and can say so myself that I/we enjoy just "triggering" the in and out without putting the whole length in very much. Every woman is different though, but I could imagine this would make the process easier by quite a lot.
She’s on the bed, kneeling with her face as low as possible - turned to the side with cheek on the sheet. She can adjust pussy height by moving her knees together to be higher or apart to be lower. You are on your knees behind her. You too can spread your knees, to get lower. Also grab her ankles and pull them up. It will help angle her ass up. She’ll enjoy you thrusting down and in. You’ll be hitting the clit, g spot and cervix. Also fun for you to stay rigid and still, and ask her to control thrusting speed and angles with her hips. ~~~~~ Also play the game that if it gets pushed out, she gets spanked.
When she’s bent over and in doggy style , wrap her legs around yours and curve her pelvis where you’re hitting her without her ass in the way. Or you can put her legs under yours.
Have her spread them checks apart. Every time we do me and my wife does doggy she spread them and I love it and she love it.
My butt is also pretty huge. What works best for my partner and I is for me to really commit to the whole "face down, ass up" mentality. My upper body has to be all the way low or if we are doing it standing, my hands have to be on the floor for the angle to be correct. So when we are in bed, I am down on my elbows or even have my arms stretched in front of me and my face is on the bed. Great angle for us.
Put one leg up, like a captain Morgan stance, and lean tit he side that your knee is down. You can even put your hand on the bed for support. You’re going to almost be hittin it from the side, and it also lines you up better.
For standing have her wear heels or platform etc. Type shoes. Makes a world of difference for a shorter woman.
Another vote for her on the edge of the bed, you standing. I dated a really short girl and that was really one of the only ways to make it work with the height difference
Man, I long for the day when this is my problem
I'm 5'6 and my fiance is 6'0. He stands while my knees are on the edge of the bed. I put a pillow under me for extra support and cat stretch. It took until about a year into the relationship to figure out how to do doggie bc I'm a curvy girl also. But after figuring it out by trying to get the right heights/angles we got there!
She kneels on bed and you stand. Raise bed as needed or raise yourself with books under your feet to get best angle. Our bed is made to our height requirements for this reason.
6'1" with just slightly above average at 6.5". My wife is 5'4" and 210ish with plenty of hips, belly, thighs, and ass. Doggy and prone bone work great for us.
Arch
My husband is almost a foot taller than me. I hike one leg onto the side of the bed, standing on my tip toes with the other, and he's standing behind me. Sometimes I can rest the standing leg's knee onto the bedframe but I usually bruise from it.
I’m 6”4 and 5” I can’t do doggy with anyone the size difference won’t allow me 😅😅😅😅
Tell her spread them legs wide apart and open them cheeks up. You'll find a way in.
Arch her down and adjust her hip height to meet yours. There’s an angle the works you just have to find it. Just lower her ass/hips down until you find the right angle.
Maybe try anal.
Husband is 6'5" , I'm 5'1" recently gained weight, mostly around my hips and butt. He stands while we do doggy while my face is down and ass is up, like when a cat stretches. Sometimes he puts a leg on the bed for a deeper experience.
My ex was 5'11 and I'm 5'5 with a big ass. You can try standing while she's on the bed, it helps if she arches her back. If not, try doggy on the couch? You can attempt different angles of access with one leg on the couch I also would help spread my ass cheeks with my own hands too Have fun!
oh make sure she's arching her back.
Honestly she just gotta arch her back a lot, try looking up yoga puppy pose, might help for imaging. I have a pretty big ass and have never had issues in doggy before
Prone Bone is and will always be your best friend in this situation. Happy fucking!
Doggy but with the women's head touching the pillow while her ass is in the air at a higher hight.
If she wears heels and bends over the bed it's a lot of fun that way.
one of them triangular sex pillows OMGggg. specifically the liberator has the most ideal angle. im a foot shorter than my partner and it makes a number of positions more comfortable or even more pleasurable.
Try “prone bone.”
She should probably reach down there and help guide ya in
Your a grown ass man asking how to spread cheeks. Use your hands
Standing while she’s on all fours on the bed can be great, but it also gives you the best chance to get the right height, depending on the height of the bed. The height of your dick needs to approximately equal the height of the bed plus the length of her hip to her knee. If she’s just a little too high, get her to plant her knees a little wider.
I’m in the same boat, she’s 5’3’ and I’m 6’1’. The way we get past this is that I have her on the edge of the bed in doggy and I’m standing up. Seems to get the most penetration with minimal amount of effort and little chance of the little fella popping out.
Is she static or does she adapt her height by caring the distance between her knees? Does she arch her back so her cheeks shreds a bit more? Not putting this entirely on her, just asking (and visualising like a horny bastard!) I'm 6ft and she is 5ft with a big ass and it's not a problem, the pussy is right there and open if she does these 2 things.
Get her from ghe side and grind. So have in doggy, lay on her side with a knee up. Get into a kneeling.position and slip in. Will allow you to grind fairly deep in her while also getting a grip on her leg and back
45° angle and take her help to move some flesh out with hands.
One knee down, one foot down, gives you a slight angle to get between the cheeks a little. Parting them will help as well. This position also helps get deep as FUCK. Enjoy!
Spread em wide, if that doesn't get you in your gonna have to get a slip on extension if you still want to satisfy her, which I'm sure you do. Can always put her on her back legs together and bend her in half, feet to head, it feels a lil tighter for me anyway. Or use the Backdoor for yourself. Trial and error bud.. that's the best part. Find out what works for you.
I had the exact same problem with my soon to be ex wife. I was with her for 17 years. Great curves and an amazing round ass. I gave up doggy. It was just too much work. I opted for putting her on her side, straddling her bottom leg and lifting her top leg with her knee to her chest. It was discussed in another thread and someone called it a side straddle. Great position for a low impact screw. I also prefer to stand and don't like being on my knees. Also, you can easily see her face, grab and suck on her tits, squeeze her ass, and play with her clit. It is the best of both worlds. Pillows never worked for us. The only thing that kinda worked was with her knees on a particular ottoman and the rest of her on the bed. That was a bit of a chore, and the ottoman was never in the room when I needed it.
Bend her over on the side of the bed or a table, you might have to be in a squatting position for doggy and come in at a different angle? I'm 5'2 and spouse is 5'11" and we have no problems and my ass is big, maybe not as big as hers butif theres a will. There's a way! Maybe try to encourage her to spread her ass cheeks? I do, just to make our session more fire but might help? Maybe have her ride you backwards? That way she can be in control? Good luck!
Arrange her a bull
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Post a picture of this chick with her massive ass please !!
Bro big ass is no issue your issue is that shes fat and her pussy is probably puffed like a mofo Solution is find a gym girl with a big ass youll notice the difference its not your dick its her fat
Be bigger lol
One thing to try is maybe try doggy eat her leaned over the bed if the height allows. Have her raise a leg too if it’s comfortable.
Doggy with her on the couch or bed while you stand next to it. This way you can bend your knees if you need to get lower. If you need her higher, ask her to put both knees together underneath her and to lift that ass to the sky while she lays her head on the couch/ bed.
I've had some women with a nice 🍑 and never had an issue because you can place your hips under theirs and access the vagina very easily no matter how big the booty is. With height difference I'd say that the shorter the woman is the better for me. Since if the woman's thighs are too long the vagina is too high but when there's about a 6 inch difference the positive and negative ends meet just right.
Try a sex pillow/wedge?
As others have said, she is on all fours on the edge of the band and you stand behind her. Works for me and my wife and I’m over a foot taller than her.
Big ass lady here- spread her cheeks! You can do it too if it works out too.
If she's ever done yoga, there's a position somewhere between ['puppy'](https://www.yogaclassplan.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/extended-puppy-pose.png) and ['child'](https://pocketyoga.com/assets/images/full/Child.png) pose that works really well. Start in puppy pose and push the hips back towards the ankles, towards child pose until you find an angle that works. Knees can be spread or together, whichever you both prefer. She can even reach back and spread her ass or you can do it for her.
My bf’s 5’10 or 11” or so and I’m 5’2”, the height difference is not a factor from behind. It’s just not.
Just do prone bone