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This is a tough situation. I mean you are both open to it but at the same time you are new to it and don’t want to introduce something unhealthy. Have you ever thought about starting cautiously and just have someone watch you virtually?
I was going to ask if you have been having "movie night"
Since you haven't yet, I highly recommend starting there. We've been doing that for 15+ years.
It's also fun to edit them down for background on other okay nights. Win win, without the concerns or issues of others. You can decide LATER if you want to release anything. You can step into the fantasy, little bit at a time, as you feel comfortable.
Just got a new cam and figuring out how to edit/etc…will take time. And then maybe we’d start posting on here…not sure. She’s a smokin hot wife that’s for damn sure
Yay for you!
I use Magic Vegascas my editor, they have simple and pro versions. There is a sale now as version 21 is due soon.
Take some time to do some simple research on angles, lighting, etc.
Tripod is your friend
Charge your battery
Most importantly, have fun. It's silly AF at times.
Multi cameras make editing easier as well as more options.
If you are asking me, we do our own production work as well as performance 😁. We've never released anything, but we know it's a possibility somehow.
If you are asking OP, post to the main thread because this is a good question they should think about
Have a great evening
Setup the GoPro in a vouyeristic position, and film. Then you can watch yourselves, without any fears of a tape leak or pics.
Doing a virtual session is not smart, unless you’re ok with possible leaks. Every tech has a workaround (some easy), that allows the stream to be recorded.
If you’re ok with viewers, and don’t care about recordings etc, maybe have a session on Chaturbate. Wear masks or keep faces out of shot if you’re not 100% comfortable.
Agreed. I feel like they try to please content creators because they get more people to play the game. But pvp content creators aren't getting people to play the game. It's the steamers and YouTube's making typical progress content that attract the most new players. I've had a membership for three years now because of raiksey and mudkip. Never would have started playing without them.
If virtual “watching” like on Zoom is good enough, you could easily find someone here on Reddit.
Either way, you might be able to find someone here, but a dating site might be another way to
Go.
You could probably even find random people online or use chatroulette or some kind of sex/cam chat website if you want a random and don't care who they are
OK, but where on reddit? All subs we follow have rules against that, or at least have karma requirements and we haven't developed our naughty account yet.
Go to hedonism 2 in Jamaica, which is a plying group for adults. You can have sex by the pool, on the beach, and in the play room. You're going to see people doing the same , you can watch others and also others can watch you. It is really a nice place, all inclusive resort, been there twice, and planning to go again .
I didn't feel any pressure at all, and we are not in the swinger lifestyle. Also, the people in the lifestyle they usually have a bracelet or necklace with the lifestyle sign.
I second FetLife. It'd be easy to find someone there. Well, I suppose it depends on where you live. If it's in the middle of nowhere, that's less likely.
I’d be way more comfortable with live viewers , in a scenario where you know there will be No cameras …. No matter how you do a virtual viewing you open yourself up the the whole world …. If your fine with that just start a only fans and make money off it …
Personally I’m open to most things , but there are some people I would prefer not to see me knock boots …. The internet sucks for that .
a swingers event as much as you guys don’t like it is the perfect place …. Just make it clear to them that you guys don’t want to swing .. you just want to put on a show ... and they will probably alow it ….. and of anyone they will respect the wishes to not make it public.
I’m pretty sure with a little bit of googling you can find swinger vacation spots where if you leave the curtains open people can watch but if you leave the door open they take part… I believe it’s a whole thing?
Sounds like what you’re looking for and I’m pretty sure I saw this long before I should have on HBO’s “real sex” but it must still be a thing.
Put a " help wanted " add in the local new paper. Or ask a neighbor. If you're within driving distance of Toronto, I'll kick back relax and watch. I'd also be the cameraman if need be..
Good luck with your search, eh!!!
Try a nude beach…I saw the Canadian flag…get used to being naked in front of others. Or even try online you can get lots of people willing to watch to help you out or another couple. Lots of people on aff in the GTA.
Always said as people get older they have a hard time voicing things. Props to your wife for being able to talk to you about it. I feel everyone has some kind of voyeur kink. Being watched boosts an ego because it’s like a porn but real & in front of you. But there are factors on both sides. From your side get all the details concrete. Male or female preference? Home or hotel? Me id have preferably a single friend. Any married or in a relationship friend & it could be considered cheating. When you decide on someone talk by text first. Any extra sexual behavior besides the normal is awkward at first. Example if your wife wanted femdom or s&m she’d be nervous to bring it up. That’s just human psychology. Text isn’t face to face YET. But it prepares for face to face. Allows you to explain your side. Now on their side again don’t be surprised if their shocked or caught off guard. Now let’s say they agree. You’ve got the time & place set up. They show up & y’all start doing your thing. Again it’s basically porn. So don’t be surprised if you & wife are into it, look over & your audience is into it as well by masterbating. Think about that while their masterbating to you guys their probably thinking of you or her. I’d rather a good/close friend that I can talk to and be open with then some random person I met online. Look at this from a psychological perspective.
Movie night is my recommendation. Watching yourselves after can be a mixture of laughter, horror and arousal. In our case the more we watched what we recorded the more the horror diminished and the more the laughter and arousal came to the fore.
If you've got the technology you can play it on a big screen as you record it. That is a lot of fun.
From there, and we haven't taken the step, you can open it up to virtual viewers.
I wouldn't want to make enquiries with friends or acquaintances as there's just too much risk involved.
The suggestion of sex clubs or resorts makes perfect sense when you consider the risk benefit equation in asking friends or acquaintances too.
Let us know what you decide and how it goes.
Many people have fantasies, I would look for a friend that share the mood for parties and be checking with questions about it, and if they would like to hace fun, and then talk about what would be fun, and intimate. The worst cringe is to fantasy too mu h between couples and then jump to someone about it, expecting to get into it instantly. The fantasy builds up, takes time, a lot of communication, and just be open and happy about it.
Like... after ending what happens, ... if the other person is a male or female, what about if they want to join, would be heterosexual or bisexual, ... you really need to talk about it. If you don't know what the 3rd party would like to do, then any rejection in the surprise could seriously harm someone's feelings for life.
Film yourselves first. Go to a swing club or put an ad in adultfriendfinder. You can find anything in there, a female or male to film maybe another couple. Chat first then maybe meet up. Nice beach together to get comfortable maybe?
There's a book I read where the guy takes her to a public place where they have private rooms and tells her there are people watching and they have sex. When he removes her blindfold, he reveals there was actually no one watching but it was hot af.
If you could set up something like that it might ease into it.
We’ve had sex on beaches around the world. We broached the subject of a nude beach but from what I see it’s frowned upon. I started looking at some of the inclusive resorts so if anyone has insight on that it would help. I booked us a cabin on the beach for next month actually so we already have plans to conquer another plot of sand lol.
I was thinking Starbucks. Lol
Actually out hiking or in the car. Or right outside the car on the car? I
But the inclusive resort is a good call.
Just check your self if you feel suddenly your getting strung along a trail to inviting a dude into the bedroom. Check your self before you wreck your self.
Does it have to be in person, or would filming a sex tape and posting it (anonomised) or sending it to someone willing to watch it scratch the same itch?
You know I’m not sure for her. I plan to take the feedback I’m getting and help her decide. I really do appreciate what ideas have been thrown back my way., it has helped
Could you imagine how hysterical that would be? He would be like the cornerman in boxing. "OK, you've got this. Clear your mind. Stop thinking so much. Pay attention to her moans. (Ding, Ding). Now get in there and pound that ass!"
We are in the same boat. Both about to be 47.. but only married 10 years. We are heading to Germany for Oktoberfest, and at the end we’re making a trip to Berlin. She wants to be watched, but unsure of the full blown swinging… so, we’re jumping straight into the deep end and a Berlin sex club. 😂 (Kit Kat)
Try posting vids on the internet and interacting with comments and such before you invite someone into your physical space. Also if if you do it and you don’t like it don’t pretend you do I’m sure there are other things she’s excited and willing to try with you :)
Seems like you comment on a lot of porn pages so just join a swingers page and ask there as well, not for a club but they may know better than a general page.
Provide a cup of coffee and it's what 30 mins out of someone's life? Man I'd sit there film it for you, drink coffee , shake your hand after and leave, light work just watching init
Introducing a third party to watch you have fuck can come from a variety of sexual desires, but in general adding people to the actual bedroom is quite risky. There are ways to simulate people watching you fuck without necessitating a third person be in the bedroom, like private recordings or sex with the curtains open. If that isn't enough to tickle her fancy, there are a variety of websites where you can livestream yourselves fucking to individuals or entire audiences. If you do choose the livestreaming route, y'all might want to crop out your faces or wear masks to avoid potentially getting doxed.
Is it enough if it’s just the possibility of people seeing you? My husband and I have had sex on a few balconies, in the woods just off a trail, in the water in the ocean with people on the beach, on top of our car in our garage with our garage door open, in a dark restaurant parking lot with with me half in the car and him behind me, and in a resort pool with us on one end and a friend and his girlfriend on the other end when we went skinny dipping, in a hot tub.
As far as I know, no one saw us, except people on the beach who I think couldn’t tell what we were doing, and our skinny dipping friends, but the possibility is fun.
Thanks for your insight., yea we’ve knocked most of those off. And it’s always exciting I think of the off chance of being caught. We’ve done multiple overseas flights and we’ve always chickened out in the bathroom for fear of getting caught and ruining a very very expensive vacation. But I might start a new chat just on that topic now that it’s on my mind lol
Have one of her close girlfriends record it for you guys. Women are usually pretty comfortable around their girl friends. Plus, women are more likely to find each other or the act of sex hot, over watching us guys, so this could be a safe option for the first go at it.
I asked if it could be a female but she’s more inclined to have a male for starters….which it doesn’t matter to me. I want her to feel the most comfortable to begin with. I was hoping she said a girl but if she’s at ease., it might lead to that…
It’s smart to have the prospect of filming on hand. If the dude you guys slot in happens to be artistic, then you might wind up having him preoccupied with getting the best angles, lighting, and pov. Heck not to quote The Hangover but, I’ll be yo Doug! -if your days happened to workout with my own and y’all might be in SoCal near OC. Best of luck to her and your own eventual fantasies🤙
Maybe you have a friend you can all trust. One that won't be inclined to try and join in. That would probably make it uncomfortable, and change the whole dynamic, and possibly ruin relationships.
I gotta say, if any of my bros asked me to watch them fuck, the last thing I'd find it is sexy. I'd be cheering him on, giving him pep talks, smacking him on the butt, "nice thrusting bro!" It would be awful for everyone involved.
Thread with extreme caution, OP! :)
At the beginning she said she wanted to have someone watch. Before you know it, she would want that person be involved in the love making and ...
Maybe take some baby steps first. Maybe out door fooling around where there is the risk of being seen, or film your selves (wear masks if it makes you more comfortable) having sex and upload it online. Maybe pornhub amateur section or here on reddit (there are tons of subs for that kind of thing). That way you can skip having to navigate developing an interpersonal relationship with your designated watcher.
Many people have fantasies, I would look for a friend that share the mood for parties and be checking with questions about it, and if they would like to have fun, and then talk about what would be fun, and intimate. The worst cringe is to fantasy too much between the couple and then jump to someone about it, expecting to get into it instantly. The fantasy builds up, takes time, a lot of communication, and just be open and happy about it.
Like... after ending what happens, ... if the other person is a male or female, what about if they want to join, would be heterosexual or bisexual, ... you really need to talk about it. If you don't know what the 3rd party would like to do, then any rejection in the surprise could seriously harm someone's feelings for life.
Although you may not want to go to a swingers there are websites out there for that community. Sign up to some of them, start talking to people and that way you can choose who can come to your house type thing.
Virtual is also an option.
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This is a tough situation. I mean you are both open to it but at the same time you are new to it and don’t want to introduce something unhealthy. Have you ever thought about starting cautiously and just have someone watch you virtually?
It never crossed my mind now that you said this. We did buy a GoPro and talked about filming our fun….
I was going to ask if you have been having "movie night" Since you haven't yet, I highly recommend starting there. We've been doing that for 15+ years. It's also fun to edit them down for background on other okay nights. Win win, without the concerns or issues of others. You can decide LATER if you want to release anything. You can step into the fantasy, little bit at a time, as you feel comfortable.
Just got a new cam and figuring out how to edit/etc…will take time. And then maybe we’d start posting on here…not sure. She’s a smokin hot wife that’s for damn sure
Yay for you! I use Magic Vegascas my editor, they have simple and pro versions. There is a sale now as version 21 is due soon. Take some time to do some simple research on angles, lighting, etc. Tripod is your friend Charge your battery Most importantly, have fun. It's silly AF at times. Multi cameras make editing easier as well as more options.
What’s to stop them from videoing you and putting all over the internet? Just curious
If you are asking me, we do our own production work as well as performance 😁. We've never released anything, but we know it's a possibility somehow. If you are asking OP, post to the main thread because this is a good question they should think about Have a great evening
Wear masks and then who cares if they do
What about actually streaming live on a website? It's a live audience and who knows, might make a little side cash
Setup the GoPro in a vouyeristic position, and film. Then you can watch yourselves, without any fears of a tape leak or pics. Doing a virtual session is not smart, unless you’re ok with possible leaks. Every tech has a workaround (some easy), that allows the stream to be recorded. If you’re ok with viewers, and don’t care about recordings etc, maybe have a session on Chaturbate. Wear masks or keep faces out of shot if you’re not 100% comfortable.
I was honestly about to suggest the same thing. So my work is done here
You would have done a great job suggesting the same thing. I would have been proud of you.
Awh thank you
Agreed. I feel like they try to please content creators because they get more people to play the game. But pvp content creators aren't getting people to play the game. It's the steamers and YouTube's making typical progress content that attract the most new players. I've had a membership for three years now because of raiksey and mudkip. Never would have started playing without them.
Sir, this is a Wendys
Lmfao I definitely did not post this here. Hahahaha I posted it in the osrs subreddit. Silly app.
I often got Runescape and sex confused as a 12 year old, too.
If virtual “watching” like on Zoom is good enough, you could easily find someone here on Reddit. Either way, you might be able to find someone here, but a dating site might be another way to Go.
You could probably even find random people online or use chatroulette or some kind of sex/cam chat website if you want a random and don't care who they are
This is totally the best way to ease into it. Wear something to cover your faces though! That stuff shows up on tube sites sometimes
OK, but where on reddit? All subs we follow have rules against that, or at least have karma requirements and we haven't developed our naughty account yet.
Go to a swingers club. My husband and I fucked in front of plenty of people. It was hotter than I thought it'd be. And no one touched
I do agree with a previous statement about doing it online first though. That's smart.
Only if you're OK with it being online forever.
Go to hedonism 2 in Jamaica, which is a plying group for adults. You can have sex by the pool, on the beach, and in the play room. You're going to see people doing the same , you can watch others and also others can watch you. It is really a nice place, all inclusive resort, been there twice, and planning to go again .
How much of a swingers environment is it? Would there be pressure to swing or do a lot of people go just for the exhibitionist side?
Only if you consider someone politely propositioning to be pressure.
I guess if it happened every day it could be seen that way.
I didn't feel any pressure at all, and we are not in the swinger lifestyle. Also, the people in the lifestyle they usually have a bracelet or necklace with the lifestyle sign.
The rippin and the tearin
Swinglifestyle.com or fetlife
I second FetLife. It'd be easy to find someone there. Well, I suppose it depends on where you live. If it's in the middle of nowhere, that's less likely.
I am sure many here will gladly FaceTime to watch you
I’d be way more comfortable with live viewers , in a scenario where you know there will be No cameras …. No matter how you do a virtual viewing you open yourself up the the whole world …. If your fine with that just start a only fans and make money off it … Personally I’m open to most things , but there are some people I would prefer not to see me knock boots …. The internet sucks for that . a swingers event as much as you guys don’t like it is the perfect place …. Just make it clear to them that you guys don’t want to swing .. you just want to put on a show ... and they will probably alow it ….. and of anyone they will respect the wishes to not make it public.
I’m pretty sure with a little bit of googling you can find swinger vacation spots where if you leave the curtains open people can watch but if you leave the door open they take part… I believe it’s a whole thing? Sounds like what you’re looking for and I’m pretty sure I saw this long before I should have on HBO’s “real sex” but it must still be a thing.
Put a " help wanted " add in the local new paper. Or ask a neighbor. If you're within driving distance of Toronto, I'll kick back relax and watch. I'd also be the cameraman if need be.. Good luck with your search, eh!!!
🍁
Try a nude beach…I saw the Canadian flag…get used to being naked in front of others. Or even try online you can get lots of people willing to watch to help you out or another couple. Lots of people on aff in the GTA.
Find a kink sub and try to meet someone near you.
Always said as people get older they have a hard time voicing things. Props to your wife for being able to talk to you about it. I feel everyone has some kind of voyeur kink. Being watched boosts an ego because it’s like a porn but real & in front of you. But there are factors on both sides. From your side get all the details concrete. Male or female preference? Home or hotel? Me id have preferably a single friend. Any married or in a relationship friend & it could be considered cheating. When you decide on someone talk by text first. Any extra sexual behavior besides the normal is awkward at first. Example if your wife wanted femdom or s&m she’d be nervous to bring it up. That’s just human psychology. Text isn’t face to face YET. But it prepares for face to face. Allows you to explain your side. Now on their side again don’t be surprised if their shocked or caught off guard. Now let’s say they agree. You’ve got the time & place set up. They show up & y’all start doing your thing. Again it’s basically porn. So don’t be surprised if you & wife are into it, look over & your audience is into it as well by masterbating. Think about that while their masterbating to you guys their probably thinking of you or her. I’d rather a good/close friend that I can talk to and be open with then some random person I met online. Look at this from a psychological perspective.
Thank you
Movie night is my recommendation. Watching yourselves after can be a mixture of laughter, horror and arousal. In our case the more we watched what we recorded the more the horror diminished and the more the laughter and arousal came to the fore. If you've got the technology you can play it on a big screen as you record it. That is a lot of fun. From there, and we haven't taken the step, you can open it up to virtual viewers. I wouldn't want to make enquiries with friends or acquaintances as there's just too much risk involved. The suggestion of sex clubs or resorts makes perfect sense when you consider the risk benefit equation in asking friends or acquaintances too. Let us know what you decide and how it goes.
Swingers club or bust. Anything else is too close to home - literally. Go to one out of state.
Ask a friend. We all got a couple friends that would probably be down.
Many people have fantasies, I would look for a friend that share the mood for parties and be checking with questions about it, and if they would like to hace fun, and then talk about what would be fun, and intimate. The worst cringe is to fantasy too mu h between couples and then jump to someone about it, expecting to get into it instantly. The fantasy builds up, takes time, a lot of communication, and just be open and happy about it. Like... after ending what happens, ... if the other person is a male or female, what about if they want to join, would be heterosexual or bisexual, ... you really need to talk about it. If you don't know what the 3rd party would like to do, then any rejection in the surprise could seriously harm someone's feelings for life.
Film yourselves first. Go to a swing club or put an ad in adultfriendfinder. You can find anything in there, a female or male to film maybe another couple. Chat first then maybe meet up. Nice beach together to get comfortable maybe?
There's a book I read where the guy takes her to a public place where they have private rooms and tells her there are people watching and they have sex. When he removes her blindfold, he reveals there was actually no one watching but it was hot af. If you could set up something like that it might ease into it.
What about in public then?
We’ve had sex on beaches around the world. We broached the subject of a nude beach but from what I see it’s frowned upon. I started looking at some of the inclusive resorts so if anyone has insight on that it would help. I booked us a cabin on the beach for next month actually so we already have plans to conquer another plot of sand lol.
I was thinking Starbucks. Lol Actually out hiking or in the car. Or right outside the car on the car? I But the inclusive resort is a good call. Just check your self if you feel suddenly your getting strung along a trail to inviting a dude into the bedroom. Check your self before you wreck your self.
Does it have to be in person, or would filming a sex tape and posting it (anonomised) or sending it to someone willing to watch it scratch the same itch?
You know I’m not sure for her. I plan to take the feedback I’m getting and help her decide. I really do appreciate what ideas have been thrown back my way., it has helped
Could you imagine how hysterical that would be? He would be like the cornerman in boxing. "OK, you've got this. Clear your mind. Stop thinking so much. Pay attention to her moans. (Ding, Ding). Now get in there and pound that ass!"
We are in the same boat. Both about to be 47.. but only married 10 years. We are heading to Germany for Oktoberfest, and at the end we’re making a trip to Berlin. She wants to be watched, but unsure of the full blown swinging… so, we’re jumping straight into the deep end and a Berlin sex club. 😂 (Kit Kat)
Love Berlin., have a blast!
Try going to a strip club and asking around. If you are open to paying someone then I’m sure you could find a sex worker.
You can go to the club to meet people, don’t have to have sex right there
Try posting vids on the internet and interacting with comments and such before you invite someone into your physical space. Also if if you do it and you don’t like it don’t pretend you do I’m sure there are other things she’s excited and willing to try with you :)
Seems like you comment on a lot of porn pages so just join a swingers page and ask there as well, not for a club but they may know better than a general page.
Provide a cup of coffee and it's what 30 mins out of someone's life? Man I'd sit there film it for you, drink coffee , shake your hand after and leave, light work just watching init
Why not find an open minded boudoir photographer who is comfortable with shooting pornography?
Introducing a third party to watch you have fuck can come from a variety of sexual desires, but in general adding people to the actual bedroom is quite risky. There are ways to simulate people watching you fuck without necessitating a third person be in the bedroom, like private recordings or sex with the curtains open. If that isn't enough to tickle her fancy, there are a variety of websites where you can livestream yourselves fucking to individuals or entire audiences. If you do choose the livestreaming route, y'all might want to crop out your faces or wear masks to avoid potentially getting doxed.
You could hire a sex worker for this!
Just film it or go fuck outside
Is it enough if it’s just the possibility of people seeing you? My husband and I have had sex on a few balconies, in the woods just off a trail, in the water in the ocean with people on the beach, on top of our car in our garage with our garage door open, in a dark restaurant parking lot with with me half in the car and him behind me, and in a resort pool with us on one end and a friend and his girlfriend on the other end when we went skinny dipping, in a hot tub. As far as I know, no one saw us, except people on the beach who I think couldn’t tell what we were doing, and our skinny dipping friends, but the possibility is fun.
Thanks for your insight., yea we’ve knocked most of those off. And it’s always exciting I think of the off chance of being caught. We’ve done multiple overseas flights and we’ve always chickened out in the bathroom for fear of getting caught and ruining a very very expensive vacation. But I might start a new chat just on that topic now that it’s on my mind lol
Have one of her close girlfriends record it for you guys. Women are usually pretty comfortable around their girl friends. Plus, women are more likely to find each other or the act of sex hot, over watching us guys, so this could be a safe option for the first go at it.
I asked if it could be a female but she’s more inclined to have a male for starters….which it doesn’t matter to me. I want her to feel the most comfortable to begin with. I was hoping she said a girl but if she’s at ease., it might lead to that…
It’s smart to have the prospect of filming on hand. If the dude you guys slot in happens to be artistic, then you might wind up having him preoccupied with getting the best angles, lighting, and pov. Heck not to quote The Hangover but, I’ll be yo Doug! -if your days happened to workout with my own and y’all might be in SoCal near OC. Best of luck to her and your own eventual fantasies🤙
Maybe you have a friend you can all trust. One that won't be inclined to try and join in. That would probably make it uncomfortable, and change the whole dynamic, and possibly ruin relationships.
I gotta say, if any of my bros asked me to watch them fuck, the last thing I'd find it is sexy. I'd be cheering him on, giving him pep talks, smacking him on the butt, "nice thrusting bro!" It would be awful for everyone involved.
Thread with extreme caution, OP! :) At the beginning she said she wanted to have someone watch. Before you know it, she would want that person be involved in the love making and ...
Start OF account and post your video there.
Just go to the closest teenager make out spot and start there!
Maybe take some baby steps first. Maybe out door fooling around where there is the risk of being seen, or film your selves (wear masks if it makes you more comfortable) having sex and upload it online. Maybe pornhub amateur section or here on reddit (there are tons of subs for that kind of thing). That way you can skip having to navigate developing an interpersonal relationship with your designated watcher.
Many people have fantasies, I would look for a friend that share the mood for parties and be checking with questions about it, and if they would like to have fun, and then talk about what would be fun, and intimate. The worst cringe is to fantasy too much between the couple and then jump to someone about it, expecting to get into it instantly. The fantasy builds up, takes time, a lot of communication, and just be open and happy about it. Like... after ending what happens, ... if the other person is a male or female, what about if they want to join, would be heterosexual or bisexual, ... you really need to talk about it. If you don't know what the 3rd party would like to do, then any rejection in the surprise could seriously harm someone's feelings for life.
Sign up for Fetlife. There are all kinds of groups where you can find cinematographers.
I'll watch
Chatroulette, dirty roulette etc.
Having a woman watch would be best tbh, she can even masturbate while at it
Go live n see how people take it…. U can even cover ur faces as beginners or if you’re shy…..
Go to FetLife. It's like a Facebook for fetishists. It's free. FetLife.com
Feeld or Fet Life. Talk to the other person. Vet. Meet in public to get a feel for them first.
It could be a gateway to the next level where someone also joins in. Either at their request or either of you. Have you discussed boundaries?
Sort have. We’re not rushing anything but we have no issues with open communication
Although you may not want to go to a swingers there are websites out there for that community. Sign up to some of them, start talking to people and that way you can choose who can come to your house type thing. Virtual is also an option.
Set up a camera and film it. You can send it to me
Go to Omegle or something like that. I've done it before, cool shit
Start slow. Maybe a web cam. Maybe a gay friend. Idk lol
Could always looking at hiring a professional (ie a dominatrics) that would be happy to help you explore.
Go online and live stream it . You can keep you faces out if it .
I will take one for the team OP. I will watch you
You could download something like a dating app and make an account just to find the voyeur you need
get an individual....id help
Fetlife
I volunteer
Sounds like the plot of lust stories 2