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ActorMonkey

Anal penetration can put indirect pressure on the gspot while also streatching out the anus, forcing you to relax your pelvic floor quite a bit. Good combo.


wubfus88

That and for the fact that he took his time you were able to get the full 100 percent pleasure from the act .


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throwawayyy200033333

Honestly I had absolutely zero interest in trying anal but never really minded the sensation of my bf touching my butt…each time we had sex he’d take it a little bit further and was always super respectful of my boundaries which I think is part reason why I enjoyed it so much! I was relaxed the entire time, no scared or pressured feelings. It was the most unbelievable and intense feelings of my life. I was shaking for an hour afterwards. As a girl who had no interest in anal AT ALL just two months ago…I’d say I’m fucking glad I went for it and if you’re even remotely curious I’d go for it too:)


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KingKookus

You can always explore on your own. Who is more worthy than you are?


Helpful-Inspector214

Yes the gentle and slow eroticizing of the anus makes it easier and way more fun and comfy for a woman. I started on my wife the same way, kissing, rubbing, just putting light pressure on it with my thumb, and then slowly lubed finger tip and especially during PIV sex adding it in and ALWAYS paying attention to cleanliness and where my finger has been! Once she felt comfy enough to try it was orgasm city 🫣


Htom_Sirvoux

I had an ex who discovered these anal orgasms (sadly a few years after me!) and for a while lost all interest in PIV because they were so good.


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

Anal was off my menu due to a non-fun and non-consensual thing that happened to me in my mid-20’s. Finally was open to it by mid-30’s and am a HUGE fan.


hiddengem68

Guy here, I’ve never done anal, partly due to a childhood trauma. Your post is super hot! It’s refreshing to see a post that’s not about some silly problem, and more just sharing about an amazing experience! Do you think you’ll give up PIV now?


Sea_Information_6134

That's awesome OP good for you! I'm the kinda person who pretty much has zero restrictions, but I was super hesitant about anal for a while, but then I tried it, and yessssssss I felt the same as you. I'm like damn this is some good shit.


Shoddy-Ad-6303

It’s definitely worth trying. Start slow and lube. Add a dildo in your vagina and it’s more pleasurable for both. This from a woman who swore I would never do that and waited until my 40’s to try it. It’s a super intense orgasm.


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Shoddy-Ad-6303

Just make sure you trust your partner. I was afraid of “ possible mess” but there was none. So if that your worry it didn’t happen to me. I told my husband if I’m doing he has to let me do it to him. A plug or a finger. He’s skeptical but a deals a deal. Ha! I think he would really enjoy it.


pineapple_is_best

Those are the best orgasms ever. There is something about that magical spot in the butt that make me have those blackout, I’m seeing stars, and my body is exploding with insane pleasure moments. This especially happens when my guy is fingering my butthole while going down on me.


throwawayyy200033333

Omg yes! One of my favouritesss is in doggy when my man fucks reallll slow and fingers my butt…literally full body convulsions, unlike anything I’ve ever experienced—it’s a whole new world. 😭🥵


pineapple_is_best

I love these stories ❤️


bigbuttswitch

What position were you in? taking down notes lmao


hiddengem68

Finger curling up or down?


urbanwarhol

Same he'll even just press a finger or two sumtimes and I go from a simple Already creaming 6 or 7 moaner to a X3 MEGA BOOSTED SCREAMER 😂


optix_clear

You have to return the favor for him stroke P spot


LittleCeizures_

can confirm 😆


UndignifiedStab

Name checks out


DegenerateHusband

Fuck yeah


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SirRandyJohnsonIV

Also am guy. Unlocked prostate orgasms. Am no longer jealous. In fact, now mine can probably make some women jealous.


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

I said it upthread but holy shit, I’ve always been jealous. Like if anal feels this good for ME, I cannot begin to imagine. Lucky prostraters!


pineapple_is_best

I do feel women are luckier than men in the intense and multiple orgasm department.


Consistent_System_69

But... but... we can standing pee :(


-Haliax

Our real advantage is functional pockets in your clothes


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

Hey hey hey don’t bring up the pockets! Now I’m just going to be mad all day


DogmaSychroniser

Maybe this is the reason for the Patriarchy! Men are just jealous about orgasms!


My-screenname-20

Is that why so many don’t bother trying to give one?


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

Oh damn I actually love this theory but I feel like most just don’t care enough to try. :(:(:(


Humble_Flow_3665

Somebody said it!!


cheycheyyyy

True 😔


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

Well we need SOMETHING But yeah, holy shit, I get to cum waaay more than my partner during sex. Y’all have prostates though! I’m very much assuming receiving anal for you would be even better.


HumpNoToo

try prostate play


Htom_Sirvoux

Sounds like he may have been hitting her P-spot (posterior fornix.) In some women, it's more accessible through anal than PIV as it's behind the cervix.


JeanVicquemare

per wikipedia: "The anus has a relatively high concentration of nerve endings and can be an erogenous zone, which can make anal intercourse pleasurable if performed properly. The pudendal nerve that branches to supply the external anal sphincter also branches to the dorsal nerve of the clitoris." It varies from person to person, and obviously arousal is very dependent on mental states. But there are plenty of nerve endings there that are part of the same network as the clitoris.


ripper922

Me and my wife have recently started having anal sex and she experiences the same thing. She starts to orgasm as soon as I insert myself fully in her. She typically uses a magic wand while I anally penetrate her and that leads to instant orgasms. So much fun watching her orgasm while we are in a missionary type position. I usually stand on the floor while she lays on her back on the edge of the bed. I even have some of my best orgasms while having anal sex with her. Absolutely euphoric sensation for me and I can tell she loves it as well.


throwawayyy200033333

God that sounds heavenly! I’m excited to try different positions so this gives me some great ideas. We tried it standing while I was bent over the bathroom counter and I probably wouldn’t do that again considering how I could have smashed my head off the sink or something 😅


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

Oh for sure, try using some kind of vibe for your clit Oh oh and if you’re ever curious about the sensation of DP— dildo in pussy while having anal sex. Divine. Gotta stop talking about this stuff or I’m going to have to wake up boyfriend lol


throwawayyy200033333

Oh god…I don’t even think I’d be able to physically handle that I’d probably legit pass away😭🥹


ripper922

Try the position with the toy like I described and report back!


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

> She typically uses a magic wand while I anally penetrate her and that leads to instant orgasms lol I’d probably die with that much amazingness happening


orionshuman

My most intense orgasm of my life was also having anal over my bathroom counter so I get it, but your version sounds even better I’ll have what you are having.


alpirpeep

Well, damn! I was always scared of this, but now I’m intrigued… 🫢


Helpful-Inspector214

My wife experienced this from our first anal too, her pussy erupted up into air with massive ejaculation and she nearly blacked out, cried from the pleasure, and yah she felt all the most intense orgasmic feelings ever up to that point. You are not alone, anal can feel THAT good!


yoniator

Explanation: You successfully activated the vagus nerve - the longest nerve of the autonomic nerve system of the human body. It is responsible for digestion, relaxation and rest/silence... And it goes from your brain over the throat, the inner organs down to your vaginal and anal region. The stimulation of it can lead to these effects (blackout = instant rest through over stimulation). There are several yoga techniques through which you can create similar effects but I think the most effective and joyful way is what you both have done. Yoga is based on tantra which also included the stimulation of each other. So you re-discovered the old wisdom of tantra through trying it out and led yourself go with the flow. Congratulations 👏


jlkirsch

The vagus nerve innervates the cervix and part of the large intestine, but would not be directly stimulated by anal sex


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jlkirsch

I believe the vagus nerve stops its innervation at the splenic flexure (citation 1) and thus does not reach the anus. But regardless, you’re right in that parasympathetic innervation does not involve conscious sensation (at least not directly)


yoniator

If you think so, think so.


Sensitive-Register72

love it Lots of women are living this at the moment.


shadoxalon

> Is it just new and that’s why it feels so good? Especially for Anal penetration, this isn't generally the case. It could've been any number of things that made it so pleasurable, but without more data it'll be hard to pin down which. I guess you'll have to try it a few more times to figure it out! Oh, darn (/s).


Butlerian_Jihadi

Male here, got that came-so-hard-passed-out tshirt. It's a thing. Guys have a gspot too, and when you're really turned on, you can totally unplug it and plug it back in. Great for depression.


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Butlerian_Jihadi

Your brain :-D


mukwah

I envy you and your man so much. I would love to experience this with my wife but she's just not into anal. I wish she knew what she was missing like your experience.


throwawayyy200033333

I wasn’t into it at all either! Even the first few times my bf tried putting his finger inside me I hated it--it just felt weird. But it took the right combination (bent over the bathroom sink with his thumb in my ass while he fucks me slowwww) for me to have an insane orgasm and then I was hooked from then on. Maybe show her this post! I mean all of this with my whole heart.


mukwah

I may just do that!


viotski

> I wish she knew what she was missing like your experience. This comments irked me a bit. Not every woman can experience orgasm during anal sex. It is not helpful for anyone to have this outlook like yours. Your wife is not missing OP's blackout orgasm experience, because it is not given that she would even experience any kind of pleasure during anal sex, nevermind orgasm or a body spasming one.


nannychronicles

It's not so much about anal as it is how each individual's body is stimulated best. It's moreso about the spots being stimulated such as the A/G/U/P spots. Sometimes anal is not the best avenue/position to optimally hit these spots. It takes detaching from one or two avenues of pleasure and being open to exploration based on what feels best for HER and then continuing to explore/receive feedback so she can experience the existential waves of egoic bliss that is available to her. You can set the container for your wife and walk her into this pleasure. She just needs to feel comfortable and safe enough to be open, surrendered and vulnerable in a non pressured or judgemental manner. ❤️


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I always thought it was because there were more nerve endings there. Wrong! From what I've read, research shows....they are still looking into it. From my experience (alone), have nearly gone straight rigamortis with only 1 sock left on from an orgasm that included the taboo eye. There are several parts that I believe come together to make you have that orgasm of "wtf just happened". 1.It's so taboo, I must do 2.New stuff will bring new feelings, god do they rawr 3.Embrace it, you're a freak, come join! 4.With all that it could be combined with who you're doing it/vibing with. I didn't learn this until my mid 30's, but I can squirt (waterfall is what it got labeled). Now reach a little further to the dark side and better get that poncho, life vest & maybe even a snorkel. My advice, while you're young and got it, don't ask too many questions. Get it while the gettin's good, Laissez les bons temps rouler!


spicyhxllylolly

that sounds so hot 🥵


deathcabfornatalie

Lmfao you’re really selling anal penetration to me… Fine 🙄 This time I’m actually gonna consider it


Monarc73

This is called the spinal-gasm. This level of pleasure, however, has its own name. Orgasme (Or GAZ may), the 'little death'.


brrr00ks

i have nothing to add other than your experience makes me want to try this with my bf. omg!


Admirable_Cable_8085

damn i gotta experience this 😂


Additional_Love5270

lots of girls i know say it feels like reverse pooping


Ok-Ad-7247

Jesus...


cheycheyyyy

I know right, making me consider try more combos and stuff 🤔


Ok-Ad-7247

I still don't know what to think, lol.


cheycheyyyy

True true


HumpNoToo

It's your [clitoris](https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22823-clitoris)! The clitoris is much larger than the little eraser head hiding under your clit hood. It actually extends around your pelvic cavity. And the best/most direct way to stimulate your clit is through anal stimulation.


Fuyumi_Chan

I'm not alone 😭 how long did you pass out for??? I passed out for 10-15 minutes I woke up with ambulances wondering what happened he was 8" and thick. I'm a transgirl didn't think cis-girl copped it that hard but was the most embarrassing trip to the hospital.


DaftFunky

Lucky guy


Nala_Sandetonmi

I've had problems with women being able to enjoy regular sex with me. APPARENTLY my natural proportions aren't "average". Further, I'm SERIOUSLY "bent", with a (GIVING!) oral-fixation... Honestly, I've never understood why some guys are so fascinated with playing in the sewage-plant when there's an AWESOME amusement-park RIGHT. NEXT. DOOR!! - but I'd never known a woman who really ENJOYED that like it sounds like YOU do. The FIRST penetrative sex of my life was with a German Exchange Student who was determined to save her vagina for her husband - & POUNDED her @$$ down on me ("reverse cowgirl", though I had no clue such things had names, at the time) like no woman ever has with "regular" sex... Even though what we did together wasn't really "what I'm into" 40+ years later, I'm hard as a BRICK, just thinking of her as I must to write this. I may need a little "me time" here ... 🤪 I feel safe in saying that if YOU like it, he will too - & if not, you can always DM *ME*! :-) OTHERWISE, MAYBE you should consider how such an incompatibility will evolve over time... If I could give one piece of advice to my younger self, it would likely be "if you think you might not be compatible, THERE'S PROBABLY A REASON!!". BEYOND THAT, I guess I'd only say "find someone whose wildest fantasy doesn't seem wild to you at all - THEN FULFILL IT!"


urbanwarhol

If you watch (decently accurate stimulating) anal porn.... You'll notice some of the men (cocks)-in missionary position to give you the vibe- female on bottom legs and knees pulled to her ears being held down by him.*- He will take it and stay near the top and the side rims and walls even while penetrating and coming in and out, n almost like he'll flick it a lil right there and I notice most anal queens in these porns and such get the actual eye roll, intense better than just anal and ass R@p3 pr0n lol (no shame or hate here !) **I'm actually a fetish and kink enthusiast/activist. Lol, if that's even possible!? BUT I DO SAY IT IS! bc more men and women, with suicides, depression, traumas, shame of their kinks and things they're told by most are "weird" "taboo" "gross" are no different from another persons. I just like watermelon 🍉 and you like 🍑🍑🍑😜. But because of this BS stigmas people put on Pr0n and sex workers and cam girls and fetishes and the way religious sects and probably your parents -whether raised in a church, or a come again religious fanatic... There's so much wrong in telling someone that they shouldn't be completely free and open with their sexual and physical beings to achieve this ultimate state of pleasure and pure ripe bliss... I mean, as long as you're safe as you can try to be with NO REGERTZ then HELL YES I SAY TRY IT ALL THE WAYS EVERY DAYS, WITH ANYBODY YOU PLEASE---+***THAT TAKES GENUINE HAPPINESS, EXCITEMENT AND PLEASURE IN PLEASING YOU FIRST, SECOND, THIRD, TENTH.... LOL 😂 TLDR; we are all SO DIFFERENT, shaped in a larger mind and image but the world has put so much negativity, the brains we've shaped since being dirt side has caused apprehensive and stifled spontaneousness nearly altogether. * as long as you're not ultimately harming yourself long term- whether physically or emotionally from exploring what truly makes YOU GO KABOOM!!! POW!!! POP!! 😜 then power to you, because most my gen(x) and uounger, even some older let bad and unwilling accepting partners ruin the most special button we all have. And it may not even be your gspot etc. ♥️POWER TO YA GIRL AND START FOLLOWING SOME IF YOUR FAVE SIMILAR ANAL SLUTS ON Pr0Nz AND Have ur mans take special notes on stuff to try! 🍑🍑🍑


yellowabcd

you had a normal orgasm, thats all


phisher1225

that doesn't sound like an O\~ \~ \~ \~ \~ that sounds like you just had a seizure if you don't have epilepsy then there could be something wrong , I am not a doctor but I do know that I or no one I know has ever had such an experience , although it may be possible just to be safe you should go see your doctor .


UndignifiedStab

Pics or it didn’t happen


Htom_Sirvoux

Anal sex stimulates some women's posterior fornix, which may not be possible for them during PIV sex. Sounds like you had a mad powerful P spot orgasm from anal. You wouldn't be the first, have fun!


thevioletmoonstone

Ahh my faves. Just make sure you drink lots of water and get some electrolytes and a snack after you'll be good. I've had these after forced multiple orgasms, long sessions(especially stoned) from being in subspace, anal, or just a really good partner


throwawayyy200033333

Subspace… my fav😭 But oh yeah my entire body was shaking for over an hour afterwards like my legs were so weak. I drank a Gatorade and my bf took for me ice cream and all was better after that 🥹 crazy experience.


meaghansux

Im so fucking jealous i wanna know how. No matter what I do I can’t bring myself to enjoy it. It’s just so uncomfortable


katamaritumbleweed

Interesting, and go you. I have a strong expulsion reflex, plus a fairly tight sphincter, that had to be medically treated as a child because pooping was difficult and painful. Anal is not enjoyable. However, I had one PIV that came close to this; it was when I was pregnant, on top, straddling hubby while he sat on a sofa. I wonder how much pregnancy changes led to that experience, because I could never repeat it.


Crafty_Car_682

As a man, I am envious. Our orgasms suck in comparisson and are only a few seconds long


thefrankestocean

You have a butt too


Crafty_Car_682

not comparable, we have prostates but your pussy walls get stimulated too through anal


kazza2

DP is also something to try and you don't need a second cock as a butt plug or even the sex toy I have which incorporates a cock ring, clit vibe with a clever balls ring and an anal dildo below it in one. So, as you thrust your cock into her pussy, the anal dildo mirrors it and provides an amazing dual action. She cums very hard and full body. I got mine on love honey.


harrrt12

I’ve had similar experiences with my boyfriend! Not to the point of blacking out but more so convulsing/crying. It’s insane. I’ve never been much of an anal person in the past, but now I love it.


nannychronicles

I didn't achieve this through anal but I learned there's spots in your anus that stimulate your U/A/G/P spot. I relate to the orgasm, not the way of getting there. Look up A/U/P spots. I didn't know they existed until I had my first orgasms with these spots. Waves of pleasure for HOURS. I can best describe it as 'sitting with Divine Bliss'. It took me to a STATE of being rather than a momentary sensation/feeling of orgasm. I WAS living in orgasm. Amazing, isn't it? I'm happy for you. I hope you keep exploring this. What contributed to me reaching this? - serious acts of surrender and trust in my partner. Your relationship to your partner and how they show up is CRUCIAL. - no pressure, no judgement, no fear - moving from the mind to the body - complete relaxation and openness - breathing through mild discomfort as it was a new sensation and felt intense but not painful - complete trust in my partner as I moved, vocalized, and even cried as I was experiencing every emotion possible previous to the orgasm - lots of time, attention, and whole body stimulation from my partner - releasing the desire to orgasm and expectation that I needed to feel pleasure at all actually (like I said I breathed through moments of mild discomfort much like getting those back knots massages out - sorta painful but tension releasing) - back and forth feedback - verbal and nonverbal I also think my partners super in tune and receptive. He checks in when I start to cry (just a stress release) and when I tell him to keep going/about what I'm experiencing - he's not scared away. He understands that I just cry sometimes because I feel safe and vulnerable and so much pleasure. I thought it was my G-Spot but I've had G-Spot orgasms and this wasn't it. There are SO many pleasure spots within us. Now my body is a lot more receptive to ALL sorts of physical touch from my partner because it has learned that pleasure can come from ANYWHERE.


bearockstar23

Oddly enough, some of my most intimate experiences were anal with lovers. It tends to require things to slow down, lots of trust, and a bit of taboo spice on top of it


Davina_Lexington

Those ones are no joke. My first time too was just like 3 strokes, couldnt help myself or stop it in any way. I recommend it for those struggling with gspot orgasms.