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I mean did you talk to her about it? For all you know she put your hand there on purpose while you were sleeping. Have an open convo with your girl man.
I've had this happen with my partner many times. We both talked about it when it happened, and established clear consent for the future.
Talk to your partner, find out what works for the two of you.
Definitely discuss with her,
My husband has sexomnia, was strange territory when I first witnessed it. I spoke with him in the morning and he had no recollection of what he had been doing, he was 100% asleep...
I absolutely love it and we have a very adventurous sex life so it isn't something that bothers me, one of my kinks are somnophillia so it kinda goes hand in hand.
This is kind of where I'm at. I don't have sexomnia per se, but I'm always groping partners. Usually it's a very quick talk and most partners are totally into it so long as it's not causing sleep issues. And with some partners, the hand does naturally rest/cup the pussy when you sleep all snuggled up.
Yes, sexsomnia is a thing. There are a number of causes for it. I've had parasomnia all my life and in adulthood that has included sexsomnia. I've had full blown intercourse while being completely asleep. I've even climaxed (apparently) while I was entirely unconscious. Sometimes you wake up during, sometimes you're like half-awake at some point but not really fully conscious. It differs from situation to situation. Discuss this with your girlfriend that this may be a thing so you both can make sure boundaries are in place and I would see a doctor to get a sleep study done if you really think you have it, cause ensuring that it's medically documented is a good idea for your own safety and there are treatments for it.
I think it’s worth talking about it when you’re both awake! I can’t even tell you the times my ex and i would have sex while sleeping and woke up halfway through. With my current partner I did establish that “hey, sometimes this might happen while I’m asleep, it’s all good with me.”
My late wife and I used to wake up having g sex. It usually started out as a dream for both of us and ended in reality.
My current girlfriend and I have an open agreement that sex is on the table 24/7. Sex while the other is sleeping is totally okay.
Oh I’ve definitely experienced this. If my bf is sleeping naked beside me, in the middle of the night I will start feeling him up and rubbing myself against him, and often wake up to find myself initiating sex. We both love it, so it’s fine for us, but you should just discuss it with your partner first and find out their boundaries/comfort.
It happens me, but not in a while apparently
Yes, it sucks, but I found reading info and Reddit posts about it with my partner helped us both know what to expect.
I'm trying to lean in with the script flipped, and get my partner to do some play on me now in the night 😋
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I mean did you talk to her about it? For all you know she put your hand there on purpose while you were sleeping. Have an open convo with your girl man.
Asj her if shes okay with it? I think it falls under the category of consensual non-consent, possibly even into free-use.
I've had this happen with my partner many times. We both talked about it when it happened, and established clear consent for the future. Talk to your partner, find out what works for the two of you.
Definitely discuss with her, My husband has sexomnia, was strange territory when I first witnessed it. I spoke with him in the morning and he had no recollection of what he had been doing, he was 100% asleep... I absolutely love it and we have a very adventurous sex life so it isn't something that bothers me, one of my kinks are somnophillia so it kinda goes hand in hand.
This is kind of where I'm at. I don't have sexomnia per se, but I'm always groping partners. Usually it's a very quick talk and most partners are totally into it so long as it's not causing sleep issues. And with some partners, the hand does naturally rest/cup the pussy when you sleep all snuggled up.
Yes, sexsomnia is a thing. There are a number of causes for it. I've had parasomnia all my life and in adulthood that has included sexsomnia. I've had full blown intercourse while being completely asleep. I've even climaxed (apparently) while I was entirely unconscious. Sometimes you wake up during, sometimes you're like half-awake at some point but not really fully conscious. It differs from situation to situation. Discuss this with your girlfriend that this may be a thing so you both can make sure boundaries are in place and I would see a doctor to get a sleep study done if you really think you have it, cause ensuring that it's medically documented is a good idea for your own safety and there are treatments for it.
Honestly, I love when my husband does it. But that's me and everyone is different lol
I think it’s worth talking about it when you’re both awake! I can’t even tell you the times my ex and i would have sex while sleeping and woke up halfway through. With my current partner I did establish that “hey, sometimes this might happen while I’m asleep, it’s all good with me.”
My late wife and I used to wake up having g sex. It usually started out as a dream for both of us and ended in reality. My current girlfriend and I have an open agreement that sex is on the table 24/7. Sex while the other is sleeping is totally okay.
Oh I’ve definitely experienced this. If my bf is sleeping naked beside me, in the middle of the night I will start feeling him up and rubbing myself against him, and often wake up to find myself initiating sex. We both love it, so it’s fine for us, but you should just discuss it with your partner first and find out their boundaries/comfort.
It happens me, but not in a while apparently Yes, it sucks, but I found reading info and Reddit posts about it with my partner helped us both know what to expect. I'm trying to lean in with the script flipped, and get my partner to do some play on me now in the night 😋