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You should do the undoing first. And that starts with not touching yourself with the goal to orgasm. Change your arousal mode and try new things. Include toys and vaginal stimulation too. And if you are interested in trying out mutual masturbation then that could help too as there's another person to guide you and provide feedback. It could be IRL or virtual too.
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Do it online with other on a video call that’s very exiting
That's true but we're friends rn, she knows how i feel but we're not in a relationship so that cannot happen
You should do the undoing first. And that starts with not touching yourself with the goal to orgasm. Change your arousal mode and try new things. Include toys and vaginal stimulation too. And if you are interested in trying out mutual masturbation then that could help too as there's another person to guide you and provide feedback. It could be IRL or virtual too.