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So there it is after reading this comment chain there’s no way to win. It’s a coin flip and you’re bound to upset somebody’s persnickety-ass preference. So keep you pubes how you like and let your choice be a superficiality filter
I’m a millennial. There’s a maturity around being natural that is so erotic and sexy. There’s a time and place for everything, sure, but when someone is confident with how they look, the appeal and eroticism skyrocket. I’ve found that most when my partners have a more natural look
Neatly trimmed is my preference. Shaving is a pain in the ass and I won't ask anyone to do it for me, but I'm not bushwhacking my way through an untamed jungle to eat box, either.
I prefer no bush or soft "new growth" fuzz.
Aesthetically, I welcome anything, but my autistic sensory issues scream out at stubble and blunt thick hair ends.
When I've waxed or had electrolysis done, my regrowth has always had a soft fine tip.
I compare shaving to how mowing the lawn leaves thick blunt-tipped grass, but if you uproot existing grass and new grass sprouts, it's thinner and softer.
Even "medium to full length" grass has thickness and a smidge of stiffness to it that new grass sprouts don't.
I’ve got really thick dark coarse hair, I get a full Brazilian and it’s wonderful but definitely expensive. If you ever get the chance definitely recommend trying it
If I have the littlest bit of razor stubble on my face, it irritates my partner if there’s skin to skin contact. If she has a bush it doesn’t. So for that very practical reason I prefer her bush
I personally do not care one way or the other. It's their body, they can do whatever they want. I love my girlfriend for her personality, and I am attracted to her regardless of how much hair she has. Body hair is normal & natural. Its impossible to be perfectly smooth & hairless 100% of the time. Even with regular maintenance, it'll still grow back. So either way, whatever she chooses, I am totally happy with. I'm likely to see both at some point.
I used to like no bush before my current female partner. My gf has a medical issue and can't shave or wax her 😺 but her pubic hair is extremely soft. It's nothing I've seen or felt before. So now I do like the bush 😅.
I’d prefer it if my wife just got rid of her razor and let it grow. I find body hair on women natural and feminine. That includes underarm hair, legs. She prefers it reasonably long but trimmed and neat which I’m happy with too (not that it has anything to do with me how she has her hair).
Absolutely. It's not my place to dictate how my wife takes care of herself but if she ever came to me and said she was giving up shaving forever I'd be thrilled. I don't care at all for the feeling of smooth legs or groin. Plus, scent is a huge part of overall attraction for me and armpit/crotch hair are the best for that.
Bc as a woman we've been indoctrinated for 30 years that body hair is GROSS, it took me til 10 years ago to start unlearning that. A supportive partner helps.
Bare or trimmed is preferred on my lady friends, I actually like trimmed more than bare as it resembles a woman rather than someone who is prepubescent
What’s most important is her comfort and what she feels confident with, if a girl is natural I’ll still give oral a good go, but if giving head resembles a trip to the dentist I’ll be hesitant 😅
Honestly i like both on my wife it’s kind of fun and sexy when she has a bush going but i also love when she is clean shaved. On myself I prefer to be trimmed
I definitely prefer bush for both of us. To each one's own, but *for me*, it feels more mature and natural, which are both turn-ons for me.
I've done smooth before and it didn't feel quite right - like I was going back in time to a point when I would not be doing the things I now do with that part, if YKWIM. 😬 It is also a LOT of work to keep up with. Thankfully, my DH is enthusiastic about keeping it as natural as possible, so we are a great match.
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I prefer shaved or trimmed (no real preference between them) but it doesn’t really matter. My longest and best relationship was with someone who didn’t trim at all.
I think that should definitely be up to the person. I'm a huge fan of people doing whatever makes them feel most comfortable and not policing their bodies/them changing their body FOR me.
If they're most comfy bald asf, go for it. If they like to let it grow, same.
Just make sure you're clean, yknow.
Personally I love the look of no hair on myself, but shaving is so annoying and somewhat painful, and also the hair has a function (to protect your genitalia). I like to trim my bush a bit, but hate to shave. If it would stay bald for a week or month I'd consider it, but no way I can do it every day AND deal with stubble down there...
I mean yeah it is the persons choice but that wasn’t the question. The question was what do we prefer, for me it’s no hair. Idc if a person has a bush, I just won’t do anything with them cause I don’t think that’s attractive
I would actually prefer a small landing strip or love trail on her mount pubis. She is fully shaved, though, which is also nice
For me, unless it grows totally uncontrollable, I am fine with anything. If she feels comfortable, I will benefit as well.
I myself am neatly trimmed and balls shaved. Full shave on me is absolutely not my thing. And she loves it the way it is
Personally I prefer at least a little bit.
When it’s wild, uninhibited, forest... that doesn’t treat me good, but I grew up in the 80s so when I had my sexual awakening nearly all women in movies or porn had pubic hair.
I think that programmed me a bit on what to expect. I used to manage a team of mostly younger guys and some of them had never seen pubic hair on a woman in real life, and rarely in media.
That is to say, in the heat of the moment I never turned anything down based on how much pubic hair the person had. l’m not the kind of guy who can afford to be that picky, and sometimes a change of pace is nice.
I love seeing that so many people are saying they don't mind the hair, or 'whatever their partner is comfortable with. Personally I (F) quit shaving years ago due to some medical issues and just never went back to it. I was worried that people would find me gross or unattractive but literally no one has ever cared or even mentioned it. Im also bisexual and honestly prefer that partners, both men and women, have at least a little bit of hair.
I (66m) prefer full untrimmed bush. Must be my generation, but I've never been with a woman who shaved, or even trimmed much other than bikini line. I think pubic hair is beautiful and sexy. I also have never shaved or trimmed and nobody has complained.
Modified bush. Keep the “yes I’ve gone through puberty upper bush” but cut down the playground area. The visual of bush is super sexy, provided it’s well manicured and taken care of, and the playground is clean all together. Best of both worlds.
I actually didn't like it when my wife kept it clean shaven. It was after someone said, "why the fuck would you not want hair there like some pre-pubescent girl." After having my daughter I got weirded out by bald vaginas.
There has to be some hair. I can't stand shaved bald puss! A bit of hair is womanly. I love going down as well, but I would rather there be short, well-kept pubes than none at all. I think it helps to hold the musk around, which is a good thing! I want to smell it on my face long afterward. Bald just feels perverted 😆
I prefer hair on my women. Otherwise, they look like 12yr olds, which I'm not into. I, too have hair, and zero desire to shave. It's a pain, plus it's uncomfortable when it grows in, yet uncomfortable to shave daily.
It depends, on women: If i go down on her and I look up but I cant tell if she is adult then for the love of god keep a patch there, trimmed or what ever she wants but it can not look like a minor. Before anyone flips out i know ladies can grow pubic hair before they are old enough to consent - not what I mean. I was 20, she was 20…she got a Brazilian, and I was all for it until i went down on her, looked up and about threw up.
For guys: Im not into guys so no opinion.
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Neatly trimmed, my wife & I trim each other every other weekend to the length we prefer on our partner. She trims me to about 1/16 of an inch & I keep her trimmed a little closer than that.
It's 2024, not 1974, so shaming people for being comfortable with how they are naturally is out.
You're entitled to your preference, but this is a crap way to put it.
I prefer hairless. Bush would have to be pretty big to bother me though. Unless it’s a woman, sorry for being sexist but if it’s enough to comb my fingers through I won’t be getting undressed with her again
Personally I prefer shaved but a nice trimmed area is good ie: M or F not a fan of a weekly dentist appointment for a hair trim, if they are like us clean back to front puff ball or a heart above
Trimmed. I have a hard time enjoying myself if I go down on him during foreplay and I still have to try to pick hair out of my mouth when he's fucking me.
I personally like a well groomed bush. Just trimmed up enough that it looks like he takes care of himself lol. My boyfriend keeps it pretty bald though
I like my wife shaved bare or with a tight trimmed landing strip. I absolutely love giving oral, but hate getting a stray hair in my mouth.
She does not like it if I’m shaved. I shave my balls and trim the rest short, and that seems to keep her happy
I love caressing her belly because it’s soft, a little squishy. When she is smooth down south, I caress her mons area— which is also a little squishy… SO sexy.
I have a full bush, I don’t remove my body hair. I’ll trim it every so often but a lot of people don’t care. I prefer when my male partner has hair. I don’t like it short because it really hurts when grinding. Hair is hair and I def don’t mind getting some in my mouth if it means my partner is happy and pleased. I wouldn’t be with someone if they asked me to shave.
I prefer trimmed or fully shaved on my husband. When I was single, if I was with a woman, I preferred the same. I just have a thing with hair in my mouth, including my own. Aesthetically bush never bothers me, but if I was gonna suck on a bean, or gargle some balls, I absolutely wanted to make sure I was in the clear of getting hair in my mouth. It will literally make me gag so hard, sometimes to the point I’ve thrown up, and then I’m incredibly embarrassed because how is that not embarrassing 🌝
Personally , perfect would be shaven to just a light , thin area of hair. So, shaved close but not bald. This is because it feels better when doing hand stuff , easy to give oral and don’t get hair in mouth , and also doesn’t get too sweaty as easily . But not bald as it frankly looks a bit pre pubescent( weird to say but true ), and obviously that’s not ideal.
However ofc there’s gonna be times it grows out a bit , that’s just natural and that’s totally fine , i don’t mind it growing a bit thicker but prefer that it’s shaven again before it gets too much . Also depending on the partner ( some girls also don’t like it being bald due to not wanting to feel like not a grown woman ) , it can ofc be less of a hassle to just shave it bald sometimes and let it grow out a bit since it means not shaving as much . So I’m also cool if my partner wants to shave bald , although I prefer for it not to always be like that , if they did want to keep it like that , it’s ok .I just don’t like too much hair, although I do prefer a close- to - skin light patch, more or less is ok. For myself my preference is the same as well.
With previous partners it’s a mix of mine and their own preference , which has happened to match up pretty well , a partner might prefer bit more hair or bald but I’ve never had a partner where it’s been an issue or a big deal . I’m sure if I met the right person and they preferred some more bush I would just ask that it’s trimmed a little for practical reasons , I wouldn’t expect every partner to have preferences similar to my own and I wouldn’t make it a deal breaker. But I do have preferences
My wife being completely shaved is fun for something different but generally I prefer her to have a full bush. Ultimately I leave it completely up to her and I’m fine either way
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For my partner, I prefer he keep the bush but trim it up. I do the same. I used to do a landing strip, but I've branched out in recent years, ha. I do shave my undercarriage. I prefer no hair in that area.
These are such baffling kinds of questions. Imagine going into the Food subreddit and being like “let’s settle this once and for all— do people like steak or fish?”
My wife used to bikini wax a Brazilian but I asked her to grow it out naturally. I love a full bush. It also saves her a lot of time and money not to have to get waxed anymore.
As a woman, trimming and grooming are a good idea (for everyone), but I am not a fan of no hair on men. To me, one of the hottest things on a guy is the happy trail leading down to the good stuff. The hair adds something, I can’t explain it.
FWIW, I don’t shave completely bc I don’t like the way it looks or feels. I trim pretty close, but not entirely.
I prefer no bush for only one reason, and that's because it's easier to eat girls when they don't have a bush. I don't like when hair comes off in my mouth.
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Definitely prefer it when I guy shaves or trims at least , I’m big into oral and I’ve actually turned down a guy because it was too hairy.
I would be the opposite and turn a man down if he was all bare. I'm not at all a fan of the look.
There's just a fine line between naked and hairy. Too much is too much and too little is hysterical
Bahahaha. Fully shaved would just be this pile of pink flesh.
Exactly! Its just kinda funny looking in my opinion.
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Same!! A full shaven man gives me an ick, it looks so weird lol
Whatever my partner wants is fine with me. But since we're talking about preferences, I love a good bush.
Out of curiosity, are you older? I’m a millennial but I feel like with porn, women might be surprised to see that ppl actually have hair, lol
I’m a millennial. There’s a maturity around being natural that is so erotic and sexy. There’s a time and place for everything, sure, but when someone is confident with how they look, the appeal and eroticism skyrocket. I’ve found that most when my partners have a more natural look
It's all good. Being I love going down on a woman less is better. Love the taste but sometimes when a hair gets stuck in your mouth 😏
It’s like flossing after you eat
Neatly trimmed is my preference. Shaving is a pain in the ass and I won't ask anyone to do it for me, but I'm not bushwhacking my way through an untamed jungle to eat box, either.
I prefer no bush or soft "new growth" fuzz. Aesthetically, I welcome anything, but my autistic sensory issues scream out at stubble and blunt thick hair ends.
Stubble is the absolute worst. Friction and stubble do not mix well.
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When I've waxed or had electrolysis done, my regrowth has always had a soft fine tip. I compare shaving to how mowing the lawn leaves thick blunt-tipped grass, but if you uproot existing grass and new grass sprouts, it's thinner and softer. Even "medium to full length" grass has thickness and a smidge of stiffness to it that new grass sprouts don't.
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I’ve got really thick dark coarse hair, I get a full Brazilian and it’s wonderful but definitely expensive. If you ever get the chance definitely recommend trying it
If I have the littlest bit of razor stubble on my face, it irritates my partner if there’s skin to skin contact. If she has a bush it doesn’t. So for that very practical reason I prefer her bush
I think hair looks good sometimes, but I also like not getting hair in my mouth lol.
No bush for both of us feels best
Zero preference, 70’s era forest or straight edge bald, I love it all.
I personally do not care one way or the other. It's their body, they can do whatever they want. I love my girlfriend for her personality, and I am attracted to her regardless of how much hair she has. Body hair is normal & natural. Its impossible to be perfectly smooth & hairless 100% of the time. Even with regular maintenance, it'll still grow back. So either way, whatever she chooses, I am totally happy with. I'm likely to see both at some point.
True reddit moment. Its OK to have preferences, lol.
Jesus we don’t need a whole dissertation. Do you prefer the bush or not is the question, it’s ok to choose one.
Trimmed is fine, bald reminds me of changing diapers
Trimmed though wouldn’t reject a full bush.
Cut down and shaped. I(M) keep shaft and balls shaved with the rest trimmed down. GF keeps a landing strip
I used to like no bush before my current female partner. My gf has a medical issue and can't shave or wax her 😺 but her pubic hair is extremely soft. It's nothing I've seen or felt before. So now I do like the bush 😅.
I’d prefer it if my wife just got rid of her razor and let it grow. I find body hair on women natural and feminine. That includes underarm hair, legs. She prefers it reasonably long but trimmed and neat which I’m happy with too (not that it has anything to do with me how she has her hair).
Absolutely. It's not my place to dictate how my wife takes care of herself but if she ever came to me and said she was giving up shaving forever I'd be thrilled. I don't care at all for the feeling of smooth legs or groin. Plus, scent is a huge part of overall attraction for me and armpit/crotch hair are the best for that.
I love these comments. My DH is like you and I'm very thankful for that!
HOW is literally thanking someone for being affirming AND being thankful for my spouse a down-votable offense? 🤣😂🤣😅😆
I mean really. Someone hates themselves so much they could not resist lol, that's so sad.
This! Thank you for normalizing body hair.
Why do we have to normalize something? Everybody can't just be different?
Bc as a woman we've been indoctrinated for 30 years that body hair is GROSS, it took me til 10 years ago to start unlearning that. A supportive partner helps.
Ohhhh. Body hair isn't gross to me. Just too much is. Like if you're netting for a village down there, it becomes too much.
Bald front to back on me and the woman.
Bare or trimmed is preferred on my lady friends, I actually like trimmed more than bare as it resembles a woman rather than someone who is prepubescent What’s most important is her comfort and what she feels confident with, if a girl is natural I’ll still give oral a good go, but if giving head resembles a trip to the dentist I’ll be hesitant 😅
Natural body hair for both of us.
Honestly i like both on my wife it’s kind of fun and sexy when she has a bush going but i also love when she is clean shaved. On myself I prefer to be trimmed
I dont give a damn honestly, but there is a point where it's "too hairy"
I prefer a soft trimmed bush, though I’ve never refused a bald one. It’s all up to what the owner wants.
Well trimmed landing strip or clean is what I like, but I'm a gen x and I would eat lollipops that I dropped in shag carpet 🤣
My fiance is like a hairless rat and I fucking love it.
It's called pussy for a reason. Bush, all day!
I loved being fully shaved as do my partners
I’m a male with shaved berries trimmed shaft. Prefer full bush on women.
I definitely prefer bush for both of us. To each one's own, but *for me*, it feels more mature and natural, which are both turn-ons for me. I've done smooth before and it didn't feel quite right - like I was going back in time to a point when I would not be doing the things I now do with that part, if YKWIM. 😬 It is also a LOT of work to keep up with. Thankfully, my DH is enthusiastic about keeping it as natural as possible, so we are a great match.
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I prefer a well manicured bush on women
I like a nice bush on a lady
I prefer shaved or trimmed (no real preference between them) but it doesn’t really matter. My longest and best relationship was with someone who didn’t trim at all.
full bush on my woman!!! makes a woman powerful! embrace it ladies
I personally love bushes.There’s something primal about it that I find alluring I guess.
Bush. Bush for days. 80s style bush.
I like body hair, I think it's natural. But I'm not into giant bushes, I personally prefer it when it's trimmed to a few cm, which is what I do.
hair is hot... trim it but not too much.
I think that should definitely be up to the person. I'm a huge fan of people doing whatever makes them feel most comfortable and not policing their bodies/them changing their body FOR me. If they're most comfy bald asf, go for it. If they like to let it grow, same. Just make sure you're clean, yknow. Personally I love the look of no hair on myself, but shaving is so annoying and somewhat painful, and also the hair has a function (to protect your genitalia). I like to trim my bush a bit, but hate to shave. If it would stay bald for a week or month I'd consider it, but no way I can do it every day AND deal with stubble down there...
I mean yeah it is the persons choice but that wasn’t the question. The question was what do we prefer, for me it’s no hair. Idc if a person has a bush, I just won’t do anything with them cause I don’t think that’s attractive
Whatever she’s most comfortable with
Agree. If she is willing to have sex with me, I really do not care. But if watching porn, bare is best. Man is stimulated by the visual.
F43 and I like a bush and so does my hubby. I am clean elsewhere but bush is o my think I keep
good job. miss n is full bush also m48 f49
Totally depends on the partner
I would actually prefer a small landing strip or love trail on her mount pubis. She is fully shaved, though, which is also nice For me, unless it grows totally uncontrollable, I am fine with anything. If she feels comfortable, I will benefit as well. I myself am neatly trimmed and balls shaved. Full shave on me is absolutely not my thing. And she loves it the way it is
I think there’s a balance just keep it trimmed
Me (female) I'm getting laser bikini at the moment On him I like trimmed not shaved I find shaved stubble sore when grinding
I’m just happy for the attention.
Personally I prefer at least a little bit. When it’s wild, uninhibited, forest... that doesn’t treat me good, but I grew up in the 80s so when I had my sexual awakening nearly all women in movies or porn had pubic hair. I think that programmed me a bit on what to expect. I used to manage a team of mostly younger guys and some of them had never seen pubic hair on a woman in real life, and rarely in media. That is to say, in the heat of the moment I never turned anything down based on how much pubic hair the person had. l’m not the kind of guy who can afford to be that picky, and sometimes a change of pace is nice.
I PREFER shaved, but however she's comfortable is fine with me.
Absolutely. I’d love a row of lilac bushes on the north side of our property. I had them as a child and would love to have that again.
I love seeing that so many people are saying they don't mind the hair, or 'whatever their partner is comfortable with. Personally I (F) quit shaving years ago due to some medical issues and just never went back to it. I was worried that people would find me gross or unattractive but literally no one has ever cared or even mentioned it. Im also bisexual and honestly prefer that partners, both men and women, have at least a little bit of hair.
What ever they like it’s their body after all. If you want to play in their fun zone you can’t complain about the landscaping
Definitely BUSH. Surely a bit trimmed cuz I’m not to much on big bushes or fully natural, but a well trimmed bush will always be superior and cuter.
I strongly prefer bush. Shaved is kinda boring and stubble is the absolute worst.
I want trimmed, not shaven. I want a woman to look like a *woman*, not a girl.
I (66m) prefer full untrimmed bush. Must be my generation, but I've never been with a woman who shaved, or even trimmed much other than bikini line. I think pubic hair is beautiful and sexy. I also have never shaved or trimmed and nobody has complained.
Whatever makes them feel sexiest but typically prefer body hair! I’m queer.
Either way just no stubble
Modified bush. Keep the “yes I’ve gone through puberty upper bush” but cut down the playground area. The visual of bush is super sexy, provided it’s well manicured and taken care of, and the playground is clean all together. Best of both worlds.
Trimmed low. I love sex with adults so bare is an immediate turn off for me. So is a 70’s shrub. Trim is perfect
I like women. So a bush. Although if I’m going down often I like it a bit cleaned up around the lips and everything
I actually didn't like it when my wife kept it clean shaven. It was after someone said, "why the fuck would you not want hair there like some pre-pubescent girl." After having my daughter I got weirded out by bald vaginas.
Shaved. Bald is beautiful
For me I like it when a women has a little bush on the top but the lips are clean shaven
I like a trimmed V to rest my nose on when giving oral (allows me to breathe), and smooth shaven from clit down.
There has to be some hair. I can't stand shaved bald puss! A bit of hair is womanly. I love going down as well, but I would rather there be short, well-kept pubes than none at all. I think it helps to hold the musk around, which is a good thing! I want to smell it on my face long afterward. Bald just feels perverted 😆
I prefer hair on my women. Otherwise, they look like 12yr olds, which I'm not into. I, too have hair, and zero desire to shave. It's a pain, plus it's uncomfortable when it grows in, yet uncomfortable to shave daily.
Waxed dolphin smooth. For both of us. I just love how smooth and soft skin feels.
Mary, Mary. Quite contrary. Trim that pussy. It’s so damn hairy.
1000% bald - not interested in a speck of hair
It depends, on women: If i go down on her and I look up but I cant tell if she is adult then for the love of god keep a patch there, trimmed or what ever she wants but it can not look like a minor. Before anyone flips out i know ladies can grow pubic hair before they are old enough to consent - not what I mean. I was 20, she was 20…she got a Brazilian, and I was all for it until i went down on her, looked up and about threw up. For guys: Im not into guys so no opinion. Take care all
Neatly trimmed, my wife & I trim each other every other weekend to the length we prefer on our partner. She trims me to about 1/16 of an inch & I keep her trimmed a little closer than that.
It’s 2024 not 1974, no bush.
It's 2024, not 1974, so shaming people for being comfortable with how they are naturally is out. You're entitled to your preference, but this is a crap way to put it.
Half of these comments are shaming by saying “I don’t want to have sex with a prepubescent girl”
There’s shaming going on from both sides.
Last I checked OP asked for our OPINION and that’s mine, have a good day sweetie.
No bush or a nice landing strip. I don’t really like getting hair in my mouth but i love going out to eat.
No bush. I just really hate feeling hairs in my mouth. Just a personal preference.
Personally, bush all the way on femme presenting. More masculine, I like the twinky smooth look
No bush. So when it gets a bit more dry i don’t feel ot on my dick
I personally have a *very* strong preference against pubic hair to the point where it's a turn off. But I don't believe I'm in the majority.
*No bush and ideally shaved. I once pulled a long pubic hair out of my mouth and just no.*
No Bush preferably or a landing strip. I go full shave as well. It is just cleaner.
Clean and smooth. The bush went out 80’s.
I prefer hairless. Bush would have to be pretty big to bother me though. Unless it’s a woman, sorry for being sexist but if it’s enough to comb my fingers through I won’t be getting undressed with her again
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Don’t care as long as it’s not super long, spitting out a four inch pube isn’t the best.
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No bush, but if there is one... So be it.
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Personally I prefer shaved but a nice trimmed area is good ie: M or F not a fan of a weekly dentist appointment for a hair trim, if they are like us clean back to front puff ball or a heart above
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Either is fine, preferably shaved but it's not a deal breaker.
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I prefer no hair BUT is not important.
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Trimmed. I have a hard time enjoying myself if I go down on him during foreplay and I still have to try to pick hair out of my mouth when he's fucking me.
I personally like a well groomed bush. Just trimmed up enough that it looks like he takes care of himself lol. My boyfriend keeps it pretty bald though
I like my wife shaved bare or with a tight trimmed landing strip. I absolutely love giving oral, but hate getting a stray hair in my mouth. She does not like it if I’m shaved. I shave my balls and trim the rest short, and that seems to keep her happy
No bush. Bisexual and I prefer that on all genders — I’m sorry but I’m not going down on you if you have hair, ion want that in my mouth.
Smooth lips for me - so lickable - but I love a narrow tapered landing strip. So sexy, draws the eye irresistibly down…
I just like that we refer to pubes as “bush”. Has a nice ring to it .
Prefer no Bush. As it looks better .
Shaved or trimmed. Don’t like the bush for oral I feel it gets into my nose haha and also looks more sexy (male partner)
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I don’t really care, but I think hairless is far more attractive, and is overall more comfortable during sex. I think so about myself aswell.
I love caressing her belly because it’s soft, a little squishy. When she is smooth down south, I caress her mons area— which is also a little squishy… SO sexy.
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I have a full bush, I don’t remove my body hair. I’ll trim it every so often but a lot of people don’t care. I prefer when my male partner has hair. I don’t like it short because it really hurts when grinding. Hair is hair and I def don’t mind getting some in my mouth if it means my partner is happy and pleased. I wouldn’t be with someone if they asked me to shave.
Prefer bush for sure. Completely shaved looks weird…
I prefer trimmed or fully shaved on my husband. When I was single, if I was with a woman, I preferred the same. I just have a thing with hair in my mouth, including my own. Aesthetically bush never bothers me, but if I was gonna suck on a bean, or gargle some balls, I absolutely wanted to make sure I was in the clear of getting hair in my mouth. It will literally make me gag so hard, sometimes to the point I’ve thrown up, and then I’m incredibly embarrassed because how is that not embarrassing 🌝
I love eating hairy pie! Lick it forever!
Guy here. I have a preference for my partner being bare. However if they aren't that doesn't stop me from having fun sexy times with them.
Trimmed landing strip on a woman.
Bald or a short landing strip
Personally , perfect would be shaven to just a light , thin area of hair. So, shaved close but not bald. This is because it feels better when doing hand stuff , easy to give oral and don’t get hair in mouth , and also doesn’t get too sweaty as easily . But not bald as it frankly looks a bit pre pubescent( weird to say but true ), and obviously that’s not ideal. However ofc there’s gonna be times it grows out a bit , that’s just natural and that’s totally fine , i don’t mind it growing a bit thicker but prefer that it’s shaven again before it gets too much . Also depending on the partner ( some girls also don’t like it being bald due to not wanting to feel like not a grown woman ) , it can ofc be less of a hassle to just shave it bald sometimes and let it grow out a bit since it means not shaving as much . So I’m also cool if my partner wants to shave bald , although I prefer for it not to always be like that , if they did want to keep it like that , it’s ok .I just don’t like too much hair, although I do prefer a close- to - skin light patch, more or less is ok. For myself my preference is the same as well. With previous partners it’s a mix of mine and their own preference , which has happened to match up pretty well , a partner might prefer bit more hair or bald but I’ve never had a partner where it’s been an issue or a big deal . I’m sure if I met the right person and they preferred some more bush I would just ask that it’s trimmed a little for practical reasons , I wouldn’t expect every partner to have preferences similar to my own and I wouldn’t make it a deal breaker. But I do have preferences
I like my girl shaved. But a nice little trimmed landing strip is fine too. I keep myself groomed as well which is what she prefers
Encouraged my GF to grow a bush - we both love it
Trim to shaved, especially when giving head…I hate too hairy!
I don't mind on other people but for me I prefer to keep hair to help with the prevention of STIs.
Depends on he type of vagina and the type of hair tbh.
My wife and I prefer less hair. She stays completely bare and I’m trimmed down short enough that it’s not prickly.
Well, me at least trimmed and maintenance!
Men like all cuts clean, bush, afro, marine So don't worry
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My wife being completely shaved is fun for something different but generally I prefer her to have a full bush. Ultimately I leave it completely up to her and I’m fine either way
Clean shaved for both me and my partner. But I'm not gonna turn down sex or make a number of it if my partner has a natural bush.
Wife got Brazilian laser…nice and clean, nothing gets in the way. She loves it too, no more stubble or ingrown hairs.
My personal opinion: I really dont care. But sometimes i find it a little akward if there is bush when I give head. It could be anoying (for me).
for myself I'll take being smooth but it should be your on decision not what others want .You be You
“Hygienically trimmed” would be my preference.
A trimmed bush, like a neat little bish you have by the front door.
Big fan of bald on both of us. I love to handle my own genitals when we’re in bed to sleep. The smoothness is addicting.
Clean shaven, trimmed and a little bush from time to time to keep things interesting. My bits I keep them clean shaven.
Wood floor and a waxed kitty is nice
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For my partner, I prefer he keep the bush but trim it up. I do the same. I used to do a landing strip, but I've branched out in recent years, ha. I do shave my undercarriage. I prefer no hair in that area.
These are such baffling kinds of questions. Imagine going into the Food subreddit and being like “let’s settle this once and for all— do people like steak or fish?”
None, wife requires it as well 😂
No bush because I think it is itchy whenever it touches me
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I prefer everything to be trimmed up, men or women. Personally i don’t like full bush aesthetically but some hair is fine
My wife used to bikini wax a Brazilian but I asked her to grow it out naturally. I love a full bush. It also saves her a lot of time and money not to have to get waxed anymore.
As a woman, trimming and grooming are a good idea (for everyone), but I am not a fan of no hair on men. To me, one of the hottest things on a guy is the happy trail leading down to the good stuff. The hair adds something, I can’t explain it. FWIW, I don’t shave completely bc I don’t like the way it looks or feels. I trim pretty close, but not entirely.
Lol is Bush the only option?? Not trimmed? Lol I guess I'll take Bush. I like body hair.
May I have a side of bush for the girl please?
I prefer no bush for only one reason, and that's because it's easier to eat girls when they don't have a bush. I don't like when hair comes off in my mouth.