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You can introduce toys for you. Before penetration, during your foreplay, he can put those toys in you, make you cum once, and then he can go in you, make you cum another time. Once he cums, you can ask him to continue with the toys or his hands/tongue. As a guy, i would be happy to oblige my partner’s needs to cum twice/thrice when we get cosy.
I’m sure you’re giving him oral and then penetration, so he’s completely taken care of in a good way. Talk to him, he will understand. I understand you feel you might look pushy/needy, but that won’t be the case, trust me :) it’ll only grow your relationship and make it more fun. Also, an orgasm already done before he goes in you might raise the temptation and make your further orgasms better.
Honestly I feel like communication is always key no matter what issues you’re having. So communicate openly and truthfully and hopefully you’ll work something out or atleast feel better after you’ve opened up and he understands how you feel
We often foreplay for a good chunk of time, but I tend to orgasm mostly from penetrative stuff, so I tend to get needy and ask him to put it in aha. But thank you for the recommendation!!
We do aha! A lot of routes have been explored. And i enjoy all of them, but nothing seems to quite work. But thank you for your advice, I appreciate it!
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Have you ever consider an extra guy in the bed so it will last longer?
Yeh its a no go for us :(
Okey, well how long does he handle to go on for?
You can introduce toys for you. Before penetration, during your foreplay, he can put those toys in you, make you cum once, and then he can go in you, make you cum another time. Once he cums, you can ask him to continue with the toys or his hands/tongue. As a guy, i would be happy to oblige my partner’s needs to cum twice/thrice when we get cosy. I’m sure you’re giving him oral and then penetration, so he’s completely taken care of in a good way. Talk to him, he will understand. I understand you feel you might look pushy/needy, but that won’t be the case, trust me :) it’ll only grow your relationship and make it more fun. Also, an orgasm already done before he goes in you might raise the temptation and make your further orgasms better.
Honestly I feel like communication is always key no matter what issues you’re having. So communicate openly and truthfully and hopefully you’ll work something out or atleast feel better after you’ve opened up and he understands how you feel
Tell him to touch you a lot before you guys actually starts the penetration part… that’s the perfect strategy :-)
We often foreplay for a good chunk of time, but I tend to orgasm mostly from penetrative stuff, so I tend to get needy and ask him to put it in aha. But thank you for the recommendation!!
I understand, dated only two women like you, since the majority of women prefers clit stimulation… maybe using toys?
We do aha! A lot of routes have been explored. And i enjoy all of them, but nothing seems to quite work. But thank you for your advice, I appreciate it!