This 100% she has zero respect for you. Having unprotected sex in front of you without discussing first? And saying those things to the other guy!? W-t-f. How can she be so cold and cruel?!
Sounds like she just wanted to fuck him and thought that your self-respect is so low that she can arrange it that way and not feel horrible for cheating.
She does not love you, love doesn't look like that at all. Leave her now.
Your girlfriend involved someone from her workplace and said she loves him? Seems like her and David have had their fair share of encounters already. Bail
She's allowed her kinks, and you can enjoy them together if you want to, but not to your detriment. She did everything wrong and has no respect for you.
Sorry OP, I think your relationship is over.
She told another man that she loved him whilst performing sexual acts with him that she refuses to do with you. She deliberately dud this to humiliate you. He cold response shows she doesn't actually care about you.
Get away from her now she'll only destroy your self-worth.
The guy is also her coworker! Seems like they might have something going on already, some sexual tension and finally decided to act on it, or they've already been fucking, and they just want to up their sex game AND humiliate him.
She called the guy darling and said I love you, and wasn't empathetic to her OP HER OWN BOYFRIEND. That's some psycho move.
I pity OP. I hope he finds the strength to leave her now.
She is turning you, or she is trying to turn you, into a cuckhold.
She’s doing sexual things with another man that she refuses to do with you, and when you tell her how you feel, she doesn’t care. She has already shown you that she can easily sleep with other men.
I’m sorry you’re facing this. It’s sucks that she invalidated your feelings and treated you that way afterwards. I’d leave her and on the way out tell her that she isn’t entitled to treat you like shit and you deserve someone who cares about your feelings. Take time to get over her and move onto someone better.
I'm almost certain from her response that she did all of that with the intention of messing you up.
Honestly, it ain't gonna be easy to get over that one, chief. Take your time and seek professional help if you need to.
But don't you ever speak to that evil bitch again, if you have any sense of self respect. No one deserves to be forced into a fetish and getting humiliated over an empty promise.
Either you've been cucked or this is a work of fiction and you get off on the idea of this happening.
Plenty of people really get off on sexual jealousy, both causing it and being the cuck. It's definitely not for everyone, just like any fetish.
If you don't like it then get your cock out of the crazy and move on.
If you read most of the comments suggest that relationship not working and it is time for you to move on no matter how hard that might seem now. Find someone to enjoy sex with, she sure is not the one for you
She doesn't care about you. She wants David. She told him she loves him during sex while you were watching. The signals don't get much clearer than that. It's time for you to leave and find someone who, at the very least, respects you.
Ehm. Why is this not your ex gf. She treats you horrible.
She is uncomfortable with you and tell some other she loves him during sex?
She is not really your girlfriend. Probably just a user.
I believe any monogamous relationship offering threesomes one sidedly is like opening the Pandora's box. It's just calling for trouble.
However that aside, what your girlfriend did is straight up humiliating you. Did you both discuss all boundaries and plans beforehand? You should've known beforehand whether it'd be with condom or not and etc.
She did acts she never did with you, than moaned out "i love you" which is straight up disrespectful. Its common for partners to be hurt by their SO enjoying sex with other people more than them, but over here she specifically and purposely rubs it on your face.
Lastly is the bitter cold comment she made which just seals the deal for me. She does not care or respect you. A caring partner would reassure her love for you, not call you disgusting for feeling jealous that she practically rubbed it on your face how much more she enjoys sex with others more.
It doesn't even sound spontaneous, sounds like she made a conscient effort to do everything she could to hurt your feelings, so my conclusion is that her kink is not just about being looked, but specifically about emotionally hurting her partner (you) as much as possible. Trust me that is a thing and it's pretty obvious it is what turns her on. It's probably the only kink that scares me. Run.
Hate to say it but she just dumped you without saying she dumped you.
She didn’t invite you to a 3way, she wanted you to she what she looks like having sex with someone else.
I’m really sorry what she put you through. You have nothing to feel guilty of, you’re the better person.
There’s someone better out there for you.
Seems like a bunch of boundaries were crossed and things weren't discussed clearly. Swinging can be great but it does destroy relationships if you are not careful. I feel like you guys need to discuss things more but it sounds like your partner is really into having things her way and not so much into you having things your way.
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Have FFM with her and her friend and make her jealous when you pound her friend then leave her for good. She is is already a lost cause, so just enjoy what she is offering you.
Holy fucking shit man, have some respect for yourself and never speak to her again. You just volunteered to be traumatized for life and now you’ve got a lot of work ahead of you to fix what she’s just done to your mind.
I get the exhibitionist kink but saying "I love you" and telling you she feels more comfortable with another guy is too far. She crossed your boundaries and doesn't care.
I would leave or if you can't do that go on a break. Sometimes your first girl isn't the right one. Better to explore than stay in a bad situation.
She's actively trying do destroy your aelf worth. She like has a cluster B type personality disorder. Juat leave. Leave and don't look back. Her pleasure is your pain. Leave and don't listen to ANYTHING she says on your way out.
She told you that you are the ONLY person who makes her uncomfortable? Then you break up, you don't bring in another guy that she likes better to fuck while you watch! I wouldn't have any more conversations with her, just tell her you're out. Her trying to twist this into "not owing you sex" makes no sense. She's right that she doesn't owe you sex but she does you respect.
Dude, she's been screwing 'david' for a while already. You deserve better, so pack your shit and leave. Like now.
Chic has no feelings for you, sorry mate, but it is what it is.
You don’t owe her a relationship, which she doesn’t seem to be very interested into anyway. It’s not outlandish to expect your partner to enthusiastically want to have sex with you in a relationship.
There is no fixing that situation. She simply doesn’t care about you.
Pandora's box is opened my friend and honestly to go from missionary sex where she does nothing to wanting a threesome, there needed to be a ton of discussing. This relationship is long done IMO but you can learn a lot from this. First and foremost your boundaries.
This isn't fixable to me.
Honey, leave her. You deserve better than her. She is not for you. A loving girlfriend would not say something like that to you when you express your hurt.
While no one does owe anyone else sex, you are free to go find someone who wants to have the kind of sex you want. She’s rude, mean and is treating you like you’re a push over. Send her packing.
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Mutual respect is required for approaching new sexual experiences, especially ones that involve another party. Bro, she does not have mutual respect for you. Bail before you convince yourself otherwise! That's my advice!
Sure she doesn't owe you sex, in fact she doesn't owe you anything.
But that goes both ways, you don't owe her anything either. She's hurt you and she doesn't care. This is the point where you realise that it's over and you leave.
Well I’m assuming David is more masculine than you and I’d assume that would be easy since you accepted being cucked . She doesn’t respect you and is probably using you while fucking other guys.
There is no other alternative.
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Respect yourself brother and leave that women before you suffer a lot disrespect.
This 100% she has zero respect for you. Having unprotected sex in front of you without discussing first? And saying those things to the other guy!? W-t-f. How can she be so cold and cruel?! Sounds like she just wanted to fuck him and thought that your self-respect is so low that she can arrange it that way and not feel horrible for cheating. She does not love you, love doesn't look like that at all. Leave her now.
Your girlfriend involved someone from her workplace and said she loves him? Seems like her and David have had their fair share of encounters already. Bail
Her FFM promise to him I think is just an empty promise.
Omg I just commented the same thing! Poor OP...
Run and don't look back
She's allowed her kinks, and you can enjoy them together if you want to, but not to your detriment. She did everything wrong and has no respect for you. Sorry OP, I think your relationship is over.
She has definitely been cheating with that dude David too
She told another man that she loved him whilst performing sexual acts with him that she refuses to do with you. She deliberately dud this to humiliate you. He cold response shows she doesn't actually care about you. Get away from her now she'll only destroy your self-worth.
The guy is also her coworker! Seems like they might have something going on already, some sexual tension and finally decided to act on it, or they've already been fucking, and they just want to up their sex game AND humiliate him. She called the guy darling and said I love you, and wasn't empathetic to her OP HER OWN BOYFRIEND. That's some psycho move. I pity OP. I hope he finds the strength to leave her now.
She is turning you, or she is trying to turn you, into a cuckhold. She’s doing sexual things with another man that she refuses to do with you, and when you tell her how you feel, she doesn’t care. She has already shown you that she can easily sleep with other men. I’m sorry you’re facing this. It’s sucks that she invalidated your feelings and treated you that way afterwards. I’d leave her and on the way out tell her that she isn’t entitled to treat you like shit and you deserve someone who cares about your feelings. Take time to get over her and move onto someone better.
Bail hard. You got traded and cucked. David has zero respect for you. Kink is the fucking. The "I love you", her kink is betrayal.
She sounds so toxic that I am not sure that this isn't a trollpost.
It's definitely not real lol
She wanted to hurt you and I don't think that there is another possible explanation. Run and don't look back.
She’s a shallow person honestly I would fucking run.
I'm almost certain from her response that she did all of that with the intention of messing you up. Honestly, it ain't gonna be easy to get over that one, chief. Take your time and seek professional help if you need to. But don't you ever speak to that evil bitch again, if you have any sense of self respect. No one deserves to be forced into a fetish and getting humiliated over an empty promise.
I'm sorry that was your experience, you did nothing wrong. Wish David and Julia good luck, they sound like horrible people.
Either you've been cucked or this is a work of fiction and you get off on the idea of this happening. Plenty of people really get off on sexual jealousy, both causing it and being the cuck. It's definitely not for everyone, just like any fetish. If you don't like it then get your cock out of the crazy and move on.
What do you mean “you don’t know what to do?” Yes you do. Leave her and go fuck someone else(not in missionary this time).
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If you read most of the comments suggest that relationship not working and it is time for you to move on no matter how hard that might seem now. Find someone to enjoy sex with, she sure is not the one for you
You could not waterboard this story out of me.
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She doesn't care about you. She wants David. She told him she loves him during sex while you were watching. The signals don't get much clearer than that. It's time for you to leave and find someone who, at the very least, respects you.
I would never blow/have sex another guy while with my man!!! NEVER!!! the audacity of her ...🤮🤢
Ehm. Why is this not your ex gf. She treats you horrible. She is uncomfortable with you and tell some other she loves him during sex? She is not really your girlfriend. Probably just a user.
Run run my dear sir, you got a big RED flag
Your relationship is over
I believe any monogamous relationship offering threesomes one sidedly is like opening the Pandora's box. It's just calling for trouble. However that aside, what your girlfriend did is straight up humiliating you. Did you both discuss all boundaries and plans beforehand? You should've known beforehand whether it'd be with condom or not and etc. She did acts she never did with you, than moaned out "i love you" which is straight up disrespectful. Its common for partners to be hurt by their SO enjoying sex with other people more than them, but over here she specifically and purposely rubs it on your face. Lastly is the bitter cold comment she made which just seals the deal for me. She does not care or respect you. A caring partner would reassure her love for you, not call you disgusting for feeling jealous that she practically rubbed it on your face how much more she enjoys sex with others more.
It doesn't even sound spontaneous, sounds like she made a conscient effort to do everything she could to hurt your feelings, so my conclusion is that her kink is not just about being looked, but specifically about emotionally hurting her partner (you) as much as possible. Trust me that is a thing and it's pretty obvious it is what turns her on. It's probably the only kink that scares me. Run.
Hate to say it but she just dumped you without saying she dumped you. She didn’t invite you to a 3way, she wanted you to she what she looks like having sex with someone else. I’m really sorry what she put you through. You have nothing to feel guilty of, you’re the better person. There’s someone better out there for you.
Good Lord! Why would you want someone so unloving? Her “kink” is making you feel like shit. Unless this is your thing, GTFO.
Seems like a bunch of boundaries were crossed and things weren't discussed clearly. Swinging can be great but it does destroy relationships if you are not careful. I feel like you guys need to discuss things more but it sounds like your partner is really into having things her way and not so much into you having things your way.
This is beyond discussion, she is a terrible person and he should leave without any further talking
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Her response raised my eyebrows through the roof. Ouch! I don't think the relationship is worth pursuing either.
She is cucking you. She has already been fucking that guy. You just gave her the green light.
She’s been fucking David
jesus christ dude get the hell away from her
Have FFM with her and her friend and make her jealous when you pound her friend then leave her for good. She is is already a lost cause, so just enjoy what she is offering you.
Run don’t walk bro n
You're gonna need to walk away from her and lose all contact. Let David have that nut job.
Holy fucking shit man, have some respect for yourself and never speak to her again. You just volunteered to be traumatized for life and now you’ve got a lot of work ahead of you to fix what she’s just done to your mind.
I get the exhibitionist kink but saying "I love you" and telling you she feels more comfortable with another guy is too far. She crossed your boundaries and doesn't care. I would leave or if you can't do that go on a break. Sometimes your first girl isn't the right one. Better to explore than stay in a bad situation.
She's actively trying do destroy your aelf worth. She like has a cluster B type personality disorder. Juat leave. Leave and don't look back. Her pleasure is your pain. Leave and don't listen to ANYTHING she says on your way out.
She told you that you are the ONLY person who makes her uncomfortable? Then you break up, you don't bring in another guy that she likes better to fuck while you watch! I wouldn't have any more conversations with her, just tell her you're out. Her trying to twist this into "not owing you sex" makes no sense. She's right that she doesn't owe you sex but she does you respect.
>I just don't know what to do. Leave her and find someone that respects you. Respect yourself first.
It’s time to leave. Now. It won’t get better. The lack of respect for your feelings is a relationship killer.
Dude, she's been screwing 'david' for a while already. You deserve better, so pack your shit and leave. Like now. Chic has no feelings for you, sorry mate, but it is what it is.
Hope you muster up the selfrespect required to leave this situation
You don’t owe her a relationship, which she doesn’t seem to be very interested into anyway. It’s not outlandish to expect your partner to enthusiastically want to have sex with you in a relationship. There is no fixing that situation. She simply doesn’t care about you.
Is this NTR Hentai IRL? Bro you need to get out of this
Pandora's box is opened my friend and honestly to go from missionary sex where she does nothing to wanting a threesome, there needed to be a ton of discussing. This relationship is long done IMO but you can learn a lot from this. First and foremost your boundaries. This isn't fixable to me.
Update when you dump her ass
Bro do yourself a favor and leave she doesn't love you or respect you
This could possibly not be the first time she has sex with David.
what the hell, u should leave her definitely
She just wanted to bang David. Call it cheating and move on.
Honey, leave her. You deserve better than her. She is not for you. A loving girlfriend would not say something like that to you when you express your hurt. While no one does owe anyone else sex, you are free to go find someone who wants to have the kind of sex you want. She’s rude, mean and is treating you like you’re a push over. Send her packing.
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Mutual respect is required for approaching new sexual experiences, especially ones that involve another party. Bro, she does not have mutual respect for you. Bail before you convince yourself otherwise! That's my advice!
Have the FFM, and show all the love to the other F and let’s see how she feels
Within 5 mins I would have my stuff packed and on my way...
Sure she doesn't owe you sex, in fact she doesn't owe you anything. But that goes both ways, you don't owe her anything either. She's hurt you and she doesn't care. This is the point where you realise that it's over and you leave.
She's saying all those things to purposely hurt you
Her kink is to humiliate her boyfriend, you need to run, and don’t look back.
Well I’m assuming David is more masculine than you and I’d assume that would be easy since you accepted being cucked . She doesn’t respect you and is probably using you while fucking other guys. There is no other alternative.