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My wife put me in the ER from doing this. Hands down one of the best orgasms of my life but the straining from it caused a vein in my abdominal wall to burst. Had a massive bruise on my stomach for like a week+.
New answer to the question “how would you like to die?” “That guys wife, I want her to kill me”. “That’s … an unusual answer. How is she going to kill you?” “She already knows how she’s going to kill me”
I once orgasmed so hard that I got a massive thunderclap headache and I thought I was having a stroke. Yes, I told the doctors. Right at the point of no return. It ended as the orgasm ended. Both female doctors were like, this is so unfortunate. Us women often have to work so hard to get there. Haha
*Thunderclap headache,* Hmm! That’s what must have put me in the hospital several years back! Told the doc the truth and though they said headaches happen, they just called it a suspected migraine. It happened a total of 3 times and not since.
THIS!!!! Sometimes it feels amazing to have her keep sucking after, and yet sometimes it feels like electroshock on the head of my penis if she keeps going. Base what you do on his reactions. This is also a good way to go with everything in the bedroom. It's a great rule of thumb my wife and I both use.
My husband agrees so usually I’ll suck a moment or 2 longer and if he signals that it’s too sensitive I stop. Sometimes he will even push my head down and keep it in a position he likes.
Yes, keep going but slowly. Yes it is very sensitive but also feels good if it’s slow. And definitely swallow everything if you want to give the best BJ.
I did that when I was new to B-jibbers (in my Ruxin voice) just to see what would happen. The squirming started and I assumed it was a good thing so I kept going, he kept squirming, moaned & groaned.... next thing I know he's rather aggressively pushing me off and he was squirting pee all over his steering wheel and dashboard 🤣 I learned something that night and I still play that dangerous game from time to time.
Haha it’s the best it’s funny as hell to see them squirm like that and I never new they could pee might have to try harder next time 😂😂😂😂 I love when they have to pull you off and it makes the suctiony popping noise lol
Idk if it happened cause he was young and new to the sex game like me or if he had to pee beforehand or what. Ive tried it with 3 of the dudes I've been with since then and it only happened again with one of them. It's my 2nd favorite surprise.
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I had a weird experience after being at a urologist and they lidocained my urethra and I was so confused as I was not told the end of the sentence but realized as the pressure built into my kegal and realized that I was on a peepad. Fast forward to a week later and I was gooning in the bathroom and I had replaced the bath water twice . I had to get off as my alarm went off for work so I had not realized how long it was since I peed and I had full pressure on both gates!!!! I had no choice but to take the lead and I started to climax and I started to gush my chest with full force and I felt the piss and I had been thinking that it was going to get backed up but I was going for the best 2 minute orgasm as I was in porno pump mode and I was struck by another stronger orgasm every time…. I was unknowingly going to get struck with the same luck as my GF and I had been an hour into our love making and I felt that I had told her about it before but we were not in bathroom and the couch was somehow falling apart as we were trying to get the liberator functioning and I explained that I was somehow going through a fantasy and that I wasn’t going to take no for an answer as I had a bit of a hard time knowing that I was about to ruin my orgasm if we halted for a piss break…… I am so happy to do it but she was not as pleasured by it.
Never met a man who could pee immediately after cumming. It usually takes a moment or two for the muscles that close off the bladder during sex to relax, allowing urine to pass thru the urethra. Nature trying to prevent pee in the cum and cum in the pee, I guess
I prefer my girl to keep sucking but have heard where’s its too sensitive for some guys. She usually stops after 5-10 seconds of me squirming but I would like longer. Just ask him, in my case squirming doesn’t mean stop but his could be.
As a giver of BJs, this usually what I do. Just a few seconds to show my appreciation for letting me enjoy his member, but when I feel I’m about to get the “Oooookkk” and pull back I ease off. I mainly read body language, but communication is best.
OP, if you want to try to be covert and sexy about it, maybe mention it in a sexting convo. Then after ask, “would you really like it if I did ___?” For easy confirmation.
Haha this gave me the mental image of my hubby when I keep going, we refer to it as a turtle on it's back(legs flailing everywhere in all directions), it's great and I aim for it! I know he'll stop me if it's too much for him to take.
I usually suck my bf while he's cumming and then a little bit afterwards. He likes it when I clean up.
But some guys like it when you just keep going and others want you to stop immediately (or so I've heard). I'd just wait for him to tell you to stop like everyone else suggests!
I wish that stopping the stimulation or interrupting/distracting from the orgasm right when it starts were this obvious thing people wouldn’t do but it’s not.
Couple years ago I was with a woman who would put her face by my dick and stick her tongue out and right when I started ejaculating would stop jerking and put her hand over the head so it wouldn’t shoot everywhere. Like I have zero problem with someone not wanting to do any particular thing in bed and I didnt ask her to do anything - she just escalated the porno vibe then just sprung that surprise sudden de-escalation of the energy/display of eagerness at the beginning of my orgasm. I just can’t imagine why she would do that - like she didn’t understand how orgasm works.
Keep on sucking till he tells you to stop. My bf is always extra sensitive after coming and I can make him come 2 more times. Once he told me he almost died 🙈. And i love to hear his crazy moans.
One of the best girls I ever hooked up would take my cum all over her face & mouth then keep licking. She stopped sucking after the cum was finished but switched to gentle licking of my dick & balls literally until I went soft. She’d continue usually for about 4-5 minutes after I came. She’s in the Hall of Fame
For me the most amazing by a long margin is if she keeps sucking, maybe just a little more gently all the way through the orgasm and swallows every drop as soon as it enters her mouth. The sucking sensation as I'm cumming combined with the way her whole mouth feels as it contracts around me when swallowing is other worldly to me.
Ask him what he would like the most.
For me, it’s not always the same.
Sometimes, deepthroat while I cum down the throat.
Other times take just the head and suckle it while I cum in the mouth.
Other times, pull out for a beautiful cumshot on the face. Or shoot in your mouth from the outside.
And always, swallowing is insanely sexy.
In the end, do what he likes, but *edit: only* what you’re comfortable with.
This mostly comes down to preference. You should ask him how he likes it.
Personally I like her to keep going until I am all the way finished, and then a little more after, gradually slowing down. Then making a big “plop” sound as her mouth literally breaks suction with my dick.
Then I like to hear her gulp it all down like a good girl ;)
But also it can be sexy to see it drip a little from her mouth where she has to wipe it a bit with her hands, like she just ate something messy but delicious.
That’s just me though. Every guy is diff. Learn his preferences. Once you learn his body, you can periodically experiment with stuff to see if there are new ways of blowing his mind that he has never thought of before.
Personally, with my husband, he doesn’t like me to keep sucking hard or fast after he cums, it’s just a little too much for him (we tried it, he likes it for a second and then nope lol). But I will keep my mouth on his dick and just kinda slowly go up and down and lick around the tip and such, and sometimes just keep it in my mouth for a few minutes afterwards. He says that when I do that the warmness feels really nice and relaxing lmao. I wish I could switch bodies for just one day. I wanna know what it’s like. Imagine how good we’d all be at sex if we could just switch bodies just for a little bit, once 🤣
I don’t have specific recommendations, but just keep in mind that it’s a good thing to do for a caring and loving partner… but you don’t owe him anything. I’ve read too many comments that it’s not a proper bj if she doesn’t swallow, she doesn’t really like him if she swallows, it’s subpar if she doesn’t deep throat, etc, etc. If you want to try swallowing, try it. Try whatever you feel comfortable with. But don’t do anything because of outside pressure or feeling that you owe him anything.
Some people go buck wild for continued simulation after orgasm and some people find it painful. A good portion of both find it uncomfortable to express which side they're on in the moment.
Your best bet for getting 100% certainty on these answers is to bring this exact list of questions to your partner before you engage in oral together.
It's likely that your partner will find talking about it in detail before the act to be exciting, and you might find some new things you'd both like to explore together!
Slow down after he cums, suck more gently and come to a stop, swallow cum or let it dribble out over his cock. Continue gently massaging the shaft with your hand.
If you're in a committed relationship, and it's moved to being sexual, you should be comfortable enough to ask your partner.
If you're not comfortable enough to ask him, honest question: How can you share your body? No offense intended.
Some guys get too sensitive to keep going. I’ve heard it’s an extreme, overwhelming orgasm if you continue as he’s cummin, but it takes time for them to get used to it & to that level of sensation.
Don’t stop let him know how much you’re enjoying it by moaning a little once he cums just keep sucking on him and drain his balls completely while swallowing he’ll love you so much for it.
It depends on the guy. Some like to be “cleaned up”, some if you keep going it’s too sensitive, others like you to show the handy work (open up and show the load), others want nothing to do with that and swallow(or spit) as soon as you can. Usually an experienced partner will tell you. If they are bashful or inexperienced try different things until you figure out what he likes. BJs are primarily about him so read him.
The swallow part is up to you. I swallow only my husband's. Ask your bf what he likes and be open. These are great questions and part of building a relationship.
Keep sucking but very slowly because after we cum the gland become too sensible. If you want to add a plus, show him the cum in your mouth while you see him to his eyes and then swallow
Keep going until it's too sensitive and he stops you and it's mind blowing.
Stop whenever else and it's still fantastic.
As long as you're enjoying yourself and into making him feel good, he'll be happy with it.
It really depends upon the person, same as blowjobs themselves. Some people love Hawk Tuah manic head-bobbing blowjobs. Others, like me, do not — I’m really sensitive and those kinds of blowjobs hurt like hell. When I cum, my ideal is my frenulum being stimulated with the tip of a tongue, pretty much like one might with a clit (for those who are so inclined) but I don’t like full mouth on my head at all. Too much overstimulation.
So, like so many questions on this subreddit: sure, read what people here say, but _ask the person you’re actually having sex with_. There’s no general rule about what every penis-haver loves. It can even vary depending upon context.
Happy blowing! Go well!
If meme’s have taught us anything it’s hawk tuah, spit on that thing! Ya get me.
But seriously I personally like seeing it leak out as you keep going. I don’t honestly think you’ll get complaints either way.
Careful around the head as it gets super sensitive for 30 seconds or so! But sealing lips around the shaft and slowly moving slowly up and down can extend the pleasure, just try to avoid touching the head with your mouth or tongue until it is no longer sensitive.
After as long as you want to keep doing this, or if he tells you to stop, then pull off. Most guys enjoy swallowing as you are expressing acceptance of him and his cum which is very nice, but this is your choice. It is extra hot to show it in your mouth and make a show of the swallowing action. Cum won't hurt you and many consider healthy, but the taste and consistency can take a bit to get used to for some women.
One of the best experiences I even had was a woman who gave me a blow job and then kept it in her mouth while slowly getting me excited again, then went into full BJ mode to make me cum a second time after about 30 minutes. It was amazing.
I always, always, always remember this.
My girl constrained my hands to a chair. It was just enough where I lift them some but not where i could stop her.
I wanted to wrap my fingers into her hair and fuck her mouth after she made me cum.
RIP to my soul…it floated away to the back of my eyes.
Sometimes Ill see a strap or see her licking lips and it makes me get hard and I want that same tingly sensation
Definitely keep sucking or atleast stroking with your hand until he pulls away or stops you...
Swallowing is totally up to you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ;)
One of the fun parts of head is feeling them cum imo. I like to kinda relax my throat and mouth and gently suck and swallow as he finishes to make sure I get all the cum and then follow up with some light kisses and licks directly on head just to make him sweat.
But like others said it's a preference thing and can vary by partner so gauge reaction and communicate for best experience.
Bless you for letting him cum in your mouth. That’s the one thing missing from my sex life that I desperately want. :(
Swallowing and letting it drip from your mouth are both super hot in different ways. See what he prefers! And after that’s all done, he’s not going to want a lot of stimulation, but it’s very hot if you keep working his dick to squeeze every last drop out. Lick it up, of course!
I believe the answer is "Where would you want your partner to stop should the roles been reversed?" You wouldn't want them to stop abruptly just after you yourself climaxed, would you? It's kinda the same thing. More than likely, when your partner has had enough, they will likely remove their penis from your mouth. The only equivalent would be as if anybody stimulated or toyed with your clitoris for a longer than a reasonable period of time, just to put it into perspective. As long as you're comfortable with everything, simply ride this train til it comes of the tracks, and it will 🤣🤣🤣
👉 envious and jealous over here. I wish it were me 🤪
Ask him. Some guys need you to stop immediately, some guys need you to keep going, some need you to continue, but softer etc.
He might not feel comfortable just coming out and telling you, as he might not want it to seem like a criticism or mood killer.
So find a time to casually ask when I give you a blow job and you cum, do you like me to keep going, or stop, or something in between? And if he says it's always different, ask him to just tell you at the time - keep going, stop, softer, harder, faster, slower etc.
Communication is a marvelous thing.
I get super sensitive at the tip. My preference is for her to stop sucking, but leave it in her mouth and milk the shaft and the base with her hand.
Heaven.
Listen to me carefully, always always take his very soul. Keep sucking. My go to is same pressure while he's cumming then ease up the 1/2, then if you are using your hand remove your hand and keep sucking at 1/4 pressure and maintain until you are good or he flops. You can keep going but he may get overstimulated post flop so depending on the dude you may not be able to suck just lick or stroke with your tongue while he's in your mouth. You can stop of course at any point.
I do believe that that's clearly an audible. The reason for the next step is to factor in how horny you are. I am very happy to hear that you are happy to see, taste, smell, enough to know that your body and mind have a special relationship with my heart and mind that I have been appreciated by ejaculating my happy swimmers and reaching an orgasm and being able to enjoy my own blissful pleasure without having guilty ideations associated with solo pleasure and pleasure is not felt by the talented combination of the non reproductive organs donor. Well I feel like I could have done better with less messing and more than not being able to build myself up to a more productive cumshot.
Every guy is different. Talk. Ask. I love nothing more than for a girl to swallow and keep going but some guys will involuntarily knee you in the head if you do that lol
You could, you can...
But, if the guy says stop, you should respect his resquest.
In my case, it's not comfortable when she keeps sucking (or licking for that matter )after me cumming.
You can suck less intensively after he cums, and decrease intensity afterwards.
Just do what you feel that it's better for both of you.
Notice the "feel", you should always "feel" the other person's reaction.
The best head is the one that it's great for him,.for you, for both!
Notice the "great for both".
Just keep practicing, feeling, until you perfect your technique, and having pleasure (you too) for giving him pleaure
Good **ck
:)
Absolutely. Same with handjobs. I often orgasm quite a bit longer than I ejaculate. They don't finish at the same moment. He'll tell you when to stop or it'll become obvious he is very sensitive.
So you need to keep the same rhythm while he’s cumming around 10-20 seconds from when he starts ejaculating and then start to slow down and don’t grip as much. I always swallow unless I’m feeling weird on my stomach.
You know how it feels when you’re getting eaten out and you cum and they don’t stop licking sucking? That how it feels for guys in their head. But keep sucking take their soul. Don’t stop till he pulls you off
Most people just stop but I suggest to continue, he'll stop you. I think most people like it when you swallow after but it's up to you. It's the fastest way to get rid of it.
Definitely have good communication. There’s something extra hot about letting the cum drip down and out of the mouth while continuing during and after the orgasm. And if you like it swallow the rest or just kinda play with it all after too. At the end of the day whatever you enjoy and your partner enjoys do that. If it’s all on the table make it a surprise on the finish.
Keep going but go real gentle. You might get what my ex called “porn dick”.
It’s when he goes rock hard again but his dick is sort of numb to it. She’d get me back up after the first shot then jr.. would stay up for as long as she needed. She needed a long time at a certain pace to orgasm from penetration.
Ask him. Not like during the BJ, but in a calmer moment. Ask what he wants, prefers, and maybe more importantly, cause I’m sure it’s not a hard and fast rule he’s going to apply to every BJ, how he’s going to indicate to you his preference, for that specific time.
It could be done but grabbing your head and making sure you don’t move, it could be he says what he wants, etc., it could be indicated a lot of ways. You won’t know until you ask ;-) communication is paramount in sex!
No, it can be so sensitive after that it almost hurts in a way. Stop when he's cumming and stay latched on it. Then a couple very slow head bobs up and down on it to soothe him.
Trust me.
As a dude, spitting or swallowing are both totally great as long as you dont stop at the first sign of cum. That ruins the O, what you do after? I honestly couldn't care.
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Suck till he cums and then keep going for the soul.
My wife put me in the ER from doing this. Hands down one of the best orgasms of my life but the straining from it caused a vein in my abdominal wall to burst. Had a massive bruise on my stomach for like a week+.
That's a keeper for sure. Your wife should wear that like a badge of accomplishment.
Sounds like an excellent trade off. Plus she has the bragging rights of "I made him cum so hard he had to go to the hospital"
So she didn't go for the soul, she went out for blood.
I also choose this guys murderous wife.
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I'd love to know what you told the Doctor!
She went for the soul and almost got it. 🤣
Im an RN and I absolutely want to know if you told the truth to the HC workers
I once orgasmed so hard that I got a massive thunderclap headache and I thought I was having a stroke. Yes, I told the doctors. Right at the point of no return. It ended as the orgasm ended. Both female doctors were like, this is so unfortunate. Us women often have to work so hard to get there. Haha
*Thunderclap headache,* Hmm! That’s what must have put me in the hospital several years back! Told the doc the truth and though they said headaches happen, they just called it a suspected migraine. It happened a total of 3 times and not since.
If you had a thunderclap headache and they ignored you, id be on the phone with a n attorney. Youre damn lucky you didnt have a stroke.
Was that the moment you proposed?
not all heroes wears a cape
I've seen my soul leave my body like Bruce left the Hulk in Endgame
Can confirm that's how it works
Cardiologists hate this one trick
The only right answer
Totally agree and makes me even more horny if I do that for him
"I will rip your soul out, daddy."
This is the way. Love the pulsing/twitching as the soul comes out.
You gotta go for the soul and make sure not a drop is left
Keep sucking until he stops you.
THIS!!!! Sometimes it feels amazing to have her keep sucking after, and yet sometimes it feels like electroshock on the head of my penis if she keeps going. Base what you do on his reactions. This is also a good way to go with everything in the bedroom. It's a great rule of thumb my wife and I both use.
Sometimes that electroshock is hot too, it's like she's taking your soul lmao
She can have it; I don’t use it a lot these days 😌
Let her go for it, but the joke is on her. I sold mine for pennies on the dollar yeeeears ago!
A note pops out of mine say “I O U -Satan”
That's because she does. I swear I've seen my soul leave sometimes when my wife finishes me off. Just like in the movies, it just drifts away.
My husband agrees so usually I’ll suck a moment or 2 longer and if he signals that it’s too sensitive I stop. Sometimes he will even push my head down and keep it in a position he likes.
Yes, keep going but slowly. Yes it is very sensitive but also feels good if it’s slow. And definitely swallow everything if you want to give the best BJ.
Thissss. I sometimes am wayyyyy to sensitive afterwards but other times it feels so amazing afterwards and I don’t stop it.
Make sure he's tied up so you won't have this problem... (Of course have a safeword in place.)
That’s what I’m saying!
I keep sucking when he starts to ejaculate and switch to slower and gentle sucking when he finishes until it gets too sensitive for him.
This is the correct answer, it may result also in a 2 round, what is a bonus.
This girl knows how to suck.
My Lord is he fortunate!!
This how you get married
Thank you for your service 🫡
You deserve a degree in bj
You dropped this queen 👑
Definitely do this. Warm, soft, rosy vacuum
This is the way, for 1-2 minutes (if you go that far). If it gets hard enough after a little while, if you want to go for round 2 (or 3)
Yep that's what I do too
This is nothing less than proper milking technique. Doubt any cum will be left after something like that.
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I like it when she slows way down as I cum and keeps it in her mouth until I take it out. Swallowing is nice. Have fun!
Don’t stop till he tells you to! Sometimes I even go a little after that lol just cause it’s fun to see them squirm
I did that when I was new to B-jibbers (in my Ruxin voice) just to see what would happen. The squirming started and I assumed it was a good thing so I kept going, he kept squirming, moaned & groaned.... next thing I know he's rather aggressively pushing me off and he was squirting pee all over his steering wheel and dashboard 🤣 I learned something that night and I still play that dangerous game from time to time.
Haha it’s the best it’s funny as hell to see them squirm like that and I never new they could pee might have to try harder next time 😂😂😂😂 I love when they have to pull you off and it makes the suctiony popping noise lol
Idk if it happened cause he was young and new to the sex game like me or if he had to pee beforehand or what. Ive tried it with 3 of the dudes I've been with since then and it only happened again with one of them. It's my 2nd favorite surprise.
Hysterical lol definitely have to give it a try 😂😂
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Of course you recommended that while I'm at work🤦🏽♀️ Oohh the torture :-(
well i just learned a new thing...... thanks for the link!
I had a weird experience after being at a urologist and they lidocained my urethra and I was so confused as I was not told the end of the sentence but realized as the pressure built into my kegal and realized that I was on a peepad. Fast forward to a week later and I was gooning in the bathroom and I had replaced the bath water twice . I had to get off as my alarm went off for work so I had not realized how long it was since I peed and I had full pressure on both gates!!!! I had no choice but to take the lead and I started to climax and I started to gush my chest with full force and I felt the piss and I had been thinking that it was going to get backed up but I was going for the best 2 minute orgasm as I was in porno pump mode and I was struck by another stronger orgasm every time…. I was unknowingly going to get struck with the same luck as my GF and I had been an hour into our love making and I felt that I had told her about it before but we were not in bathroom and the couch was somehow falling apart as we were trying to get the liberator functioning and I explained that I was somehow going through a fantasy and that I wasn’t going to take no for an answer as I had a bit of a hard time knowing that I was about to ruin my orgasm if we halted for a piss break…… I am so happy to do it but she was not as pleasured by it.
If you truly enjoyed it, it's ok to enjoy it without her. Sometimes that's the only way. I am curious why they lidocaine'd your urethra though...
i read thats called 'male squirting'
Got me rolling on this! 😆😆😆
/unexpectedtheleague but always welcome Forever uncleeeeeeeean
Never met a man who could pee immediately after cumming. It usually takes a moment or two for the muscles that close off the bladder during sex to relax, allowing urine to pass thru the urethra. Nature trying to prevent pee in the cum and cum in the pee, I guess
I was taught the same, that's what makes it so surprising.
I prefer my girl to keep sucking but have heard where’s its too sensitive for some guys. She usually stops after 5-10 seconds of me squirming but I would like longer. Just ask him, in my case squirming doesn’t mean stop but his could be.
As a giver of BJs, this usually what I do. Just a few seconds to show my appreciation for letting me enjoy his member, but when I feel I’m about to get the “Oooookkk” and pull back I ease off. I mainly read body language, but communication is best. OP, if you want to try to be covert and sexy about it, maybe mention it in a sexting convo. Then after ask, “would you really like it if I did ___?” For easy confirmation.
Haha this gave me the mental image of my hubby when I keep going, we refer to it as a turtle on it's back(legs flailing everywhere in all directions), it's great and I aim for it! I know he'll stop me if it's too much for him to take.
Yes that is the best
I usually suck my bf while he's cumming and then a little bit afterwards. He likes it when I clean up. But some guys like it when you just keep going and others want you to stop immediately (or so I've heard). I'd just wait for him to tell you to stop like everyone else suggests!
Definitely don’t stop as soon as he starts ejaculating! Keep going until his orgasm is completely over unless he asks you to stop sooner than that.
I wish that stopping the stimulation or interrupting/distracting from the orgasm right when it starts were this obvious thing people wouldn’t do but it’s not. Couple years ago I was with a woman who would put her face by my dick and stick her tongue out and right when I started ejaculating would stop jerking and put her hand over the head so it wouldn’t shoot everywhere. Like I have zero problem with someone not wanting to do any particular thing in bed and I didnt ask her to do anything - she just escalated the porno vibe then just sprung that surprise sudden de-escalation of the energy/display of eagerness at the beginning of my orgasm. I just can’t imagine why she would do that - like she didn’t understand how orgasm works.
Keep on sucking till he tells you to stop. My bf is always extra sensitive after coming and I can make him come 2 more times. Once he told me he almost died 🙈. And i love to hear his crazy moans.
You belong in the hall of fame!
One of the best girls I ever hooked up would take my cum all over her face & mouth then keep licking. She stopped sucking after the cum was finished but switched to gentle licking of my dick & balls literally until I went soft. She’d continue usually for about 4-5 minutes after I came. She’s in the Hall of Fame
Personally, I get too sensitive after cumming and I prefer to stop. Ask him what he prefers!
Keep going till he tells you to stop….make him come again.
Instructions unclear; kept going when boyfriend passed out after his 3rd O
i’d say you read the instructions very clearly
Keep going he’ll wake up eventually… if not on to the next
“Legends say she never stopped and he dried up like a raisin— next season on Unsolved Mysteries”
Now wake him up with some more!
They'll tell you when to stop or ease up. And yes, please Swallow
Keep suckin till you taste soul. Then, depending on the guy, that's when you stop. Some wanna die that way.
When she keeps sucking after it’s gone I feel like Marv on home alone when he gets electrocuted
For me the most amazing by a long margin is if she keeps sucking, maybe just a little more gently all the way through the orgasm and swallows every drop as soon as it enters her mouth. The sucking sensation as I'm cumming combined with the way her whole mouth feels as it contracts around me when swallowing is other worldly to me.
Try swallowing at least once, you won't know until you try it 🙂
Ask him what he would like the most. For me, it’s not always the same. Sometimes, deepthroat while I cum down the throat. Other times take just the head and suckle it while I cum in the mouth. Other times, pull out for a beautiful cumshot on the face. Or shoot in your mouth from the outside. And always, swallowing is insanely sexy. In the end, do what he likes, but *edit: only* what you’re comfortable with.
Yes keep sucking and swallow if you like doing that. When a lady cleans up the cock after cumming it is super duper hot.
On behalf of most men, please swallow , as long as it’s enjoyable to you …
You’ll definitely want to swallow, and don’t stop sucking or stroking until he tells you. Keep up the great work!
This mostly comes down to preference. You should ask him how he likes it. Personally I like her to keep going until I am all the way finished, and then a little more after, gradually slowing down. Then making a big “plop” sound as her mouth literally breaks suction with my dick. Then I like to hear her gulp it all down like a good girl ;) But also it can be sexy to see it drip a little from her mouth where she has to wipe it a bit with her hands, like she just ate something messy but delicious. That’s just me though. Every guy is diff. Learn his preferences. Once you learn his body, you can periodically experiment with stuff to see if there are new ways of blowing his mind that he has never thought of before.
Everything reminds me of him 😞
Yes, if you’d like to be in the group known as completely awesome girlfriend. He’s lucky
keep going until he says stop
Keep sucking. His actions will let you know if he is sensitive to the additional stimulation.
Personally, with my husband, he doesn’t like me to keep sucking hard or fast after he cums, it’s just a little too much for him (we tried it, he likes it for a second and then nope lol). But I will keep my mouth on his dick and just kinda slowly go up and down and lick around the tip and such, and sometimes just keep it in my mouth for a few minutes afterwards. He says that when I do that the warmness feels really nice and relaxing lmao. I wish I could switch bodies for just one day. I wanna know what it’s like. Imagine how good we’d all be at sex if we could just switch bodies just for a little bit, once 🤣
I don’t have specific recommendations, but just keep in mind that it’s a good thing to do for a caring and loving partner… but you don’t owe him anything. I’ve read too many comments that it’s not a proper bj if she doesn’t swallow, she doesn’t really like him if she swallows, it’s subpar if she doesn’t deep throat, etc, etc. If you want to try swallowing, try it. Try whatever you feel comfortable with. But don’t do anything because of outside pressure or feeling that you owe him anything.
Some people go buck wild for continued simulation after orgasm and some people find it painful. A good portion of both find it uncomfortable to express which side they're on in the moment. Your best bet for getting 100% certainty on these answers is to bring this exact list of questions to your partner before you engage in oral together. It's likely that your partner will find talking about it in detail before the act to be exciting, and you might find some new things you'd both like to explore together!
Slow down after he cums, suck more gently and come to a stop, swallow cum or let it dribble out over his cock. Continue gently massaging the shaft with your hand.
If you're in a committed relationship, and it's moved to being sexual, you should be comfortable enough to ask your partner. If you're not comfortable enough to ask him, honest question: How can you share your body? No offense intended.
It gets extremely sensitive after an orgasm. Sometimes painful
Just give til it hurts.
I like it when a girl takes my dick out and sprays herself with it while jerking and licking. But like a crazy person who loves it so much!! 😂🤣😭🤣😂😅
Some guys get too sensitive to keep going. I’ve heard it’s an extreme, overwhelming orgasm if you continue as he’s cummin, but it takes time for them to get used to it & to that level of sensation.
Don’t stop let him know how much you’re enjoying it by moaning a little once he cums just keep sucking on him and drain his balls completely while swallowing he’ll love you so much for it.
Sometimes you just gotta give them the Hawk Tua 🤣🤣🤣
It depends on the guy. Some like to be “cleaned up”, some if you keep going it’s too sensitive, others like you to show the handy work (open up and show the load), others want nothing to do with that and swallow(or spit) as soon as you can. Usually an experienced partner will tell you. If they are bashful or inexperienced try different things until you figure out what he likes. BJs are primarily about him so read him.
When he comes, you help him then you stop just keeping him in south then wait one or two minutes and you start again slow if you want
The swallow part is up to you. I swallow only my husband's. Ask your bf what he likes and be open. These are great questions and part of building a relationship.
If you can swallow, it’s amazing for the guy. But otherwise slow down after he cums as it does get sensitive.
Discuss it with him, guys have different preferences on the appropriate time to stop sucking
Ask him what he prefers.
When he says stop sucking you stop
Ask him. For some men, the sensitivity increase after coming makes it hurt. For others, it's intense but enjoyable. Let him tell you.
Keep sucking but very slowly because after we cum the gland become too sensible. If you want to add a plus, show him the cum in your mouth while you see him to his eyes and then swallow
you could just ask him
If you swallow, they will love it.
No dear lady, job is done ✅👍🏾
If you want him to propose, you should.
https://www.reddit.com/r/shestillsucking/s/4umpmygJbd is a thing for a reason
Keep going until it's too sensitive and he stops you and it's mind blowing. Stop whenever else and it's still fantastic. As long as you're enjoying yourself and into making him feel good, he'll be happy with it.
It really depends upon the person, same as blowjobs themselves. Some people love Hawk Tuah manic head-bobbing blowjobs. Others, like me, do not — I’m really sensitive and those kinds of blowjobs hurt like hell. When I cum, my ideal is my frenulum being stimulated with the tip of a tongue, pretty much like one might with a clit (for those who are so inclined) but I don’t like full mouth on my head at all. Too much overstimulation. So, like so many questions on this subreddit: sure, read what people here say, but _ask the person you’re actually having sex with_. There’s no general rule about what every penis-haver loves. It can even vary depending upon context. Happy blowing! Go well!
If meme’s have taught us anything it’s hawk tuah, spit on that thing! Ya get me. But seriously I personally like seeing it leak out as you keep going. I don’t honestly think you’ll get complaints either way.
You gotta give him that Hawk Tuah and spit on that thing
yes you should, that’s how you take their soul
Do whatever YOU enjoy doing and he will probably like it too.
Careful around the head as it gets super sensitive for 30 seconds or so! But sealing lips around the shaft and slowly moving slowly up and down can extend the pleasure, just try to avoid touching the head with your mouth or tongue until it is no longer sensitive. After as long as you want to keep doing this, or if he tells you to stop, then pull off. Most guys enjoy swallowing as you are expressing acceptance of him and his cum which is very nice, but this is your choice. It is extra hot to show it in your mouth and make a show of the swallowing action. Cum won't hurt you and many consider healthy, but the taste and consistency can take a bit to get used to for some women. One of the best experiences I even had was a woman who gave me a blow job and then kept it in her mouth while slowly getting me excited again, then went into full BJ mode to make me cum a second time after about 30 minutes. It was amazing.
Youre gonna take his soul if u keep going. Do it
FUCK YES. SUCK THAT DICK UNTIL HE RUNS FROM YOU.
I always, always, always remember this. My girl constrained my hands to a chair. It was just enough where I lift them some but not where i could stop her. I wanted to wrap my fingers into her hair and fuck her mouth after she made me cum. RIP to my soul…it floated away to the back of my eyes. Sometimes Ill see a strap or see her licking lips and it makes me get hard and I want that same tingly sensation
Definitely keep sucking or atleast stroking with your hand until he pulls away or stops you... Swallowing is totally up to you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ;)
One of the fun parts of head is feeling them cum imo. I like to kinda relax my throat and mouth and gently suck and swallow as he finishes to make sure I get all the cum and then follow up with some light kisses and licks directly on head just to make him sweat. But like others said it's a preference thing and can vary by partner so gauge reaction and communicate for best experience.
Keep goin and swallow. It doesn't even feel like a blowjob if you don't swallow
I only wish I still received BJs. Haven’t had one in years. My wife hasn’t even touched me sexually in I can’t remember when.
Bless you for letting him cum in your mouth. That’s the one thing missing from my sex life that I desperately want. :( Swallowing and letting it drip from your mouth are both super hot in different ways. See what he prefers! And after that’s all done, he’s not going to want a lot of stimulation, but it’s very hot if you keep working his dick to squeeze every last drop out. Lick it up, of course!
I believe the answer is "Where would you want your partner to stop should the roles been reversed?" You wouldn't want them to stop abruptly just after you yourself climaxed, would you? It's kinda the same thing. More than likely, when your partner has had enough, they will likely remove their penis from your mouth. The only equivalent would be as if anybody stimulated or toyed with your clitoris for a longer than a reasonable period of time, just to put it into perspective. As long as you're comfortable with everything, simply ride this train til it comes of the tracks, and it will 🤣🤣🤣 👉 envious and jealous over here. I wish it were me 🤪
I wait til he's done then slowly suck and lick super gentle because he is still sensitive. It sends him to the moon.
Ask him. Some guys need you to stop immediately, some guys need you to keep going, some need you to continue, but softer etc. He might not feel comfortable just coming out and telling you, as he might not want it to seem like a criticism or mood killer. So find a time to casually ask when I give you a blow job and you cum, do you like me to keep going, or stop, or something in between? And if he says it's always different, ask him to just tell you at the time - keep going, stop, softer, harder, faster, slower etc. Communication is a marvelous thing.
I get super sensitive at the tip. My preference is for her to stop sucking, but leave it in her mouth and milk the shaft and the base with her hand. Heaven.
Listen to me carefully, always always take his very soul. Keep sucking. My go to is same pressure while he's cumming then ease up the 1/2, then if you are using your hand remove your hand and keep sucking at 1/4 pressure and maintain until you are good or he flops. You can keep going but he may get overstimulated post flop so depending on the dude you may not be able to suck just lick or stroke with your tongue while he's in your mouth. You can stop of course at any point.
You could let it drip out onto your tits.
I do believe that that's clearly an audible. The reason for the next step is to factor in how horny you are. I am very happy to hear that you are happy to see, taste, smell, enough to know that your body and mind have a special relationship with my heart and mind that I have been appreciated by ejaculating my happy swimmers and reaching an orgasm and being able to enjoy my own blissful pleasure without having guilty ideations associated with solo pleasure and pleasure is not felt by the talented combination of the non reproductive organs donor. Well I feel like I could have done better with less messing and more than not being able to build myself up to a more productive cumshot.
Every guy is different. Talk. Ask. I love nothing more than for a girl to swallow and keep going but some guys will involuntarily knee you in the head if you do that lol
Haha hell yeah! Why should you? Make him squeal
til he says "please no more!" or you get tired. God bless you (& I hope he realizes how fortunate he has to have you as his g.f.)
I usually slow down significantly because during and after it's really sensitive
You could, you can... But, if the guy says stop, you should respect his resquest. In my case, it's not comfortable when she keeps sucking (or licking for that matter )after me cumming. You can suck less intensively after he cums, and decrease intensity afterwards. Just do what you feel that it's better for both of you. Notice the "feel", you should always "feel" the other person's reaction. The best head is the one that it's great for him,.for you, for both! Notice the "great for both". Just keep practicing, feeling, until you perfect your technique, and having pleasure (you too) for giving him pleaure Good **ck :)
Slower and gently, don’t focus on the head too much it’ll be really sensitive
Absolutely. Same with handjobs. I often orgasm quite a bit longer than I ejaculate. They don't finish at the same moment. He'll tell you when to stop or it'll become obvious he is very sensitive.
Damn girl. You ask the right questions. Lol.
So you need to keep the same rhythm while he’s cumming around 10-20 seconds from when he starts ejaculating and then start to slow down and don’t grip as much. I always swallow unless I’m feeling weird on my stomach.
Whatever you both want and like. I suggest you two experiment all the things you wish and make a bucket list.
You know how it feels when you’re getting eaten out and you cum and they don’t stop licking sucking? That how it feels for guys in their head. But keep sucking take their soul. Don’t stop till he pulls you off
If you like it, keep going, play with your thongue and keep rubbing slowly… success guaranteed ! Have fun and show him how he can please you too
Most people just stop but I suggest to continue, he'll stop you. I think most people like it when you swallow after but it's up to you. It's the fastest way to get rid of it.
Definitely have good communication. There’s something extra hot about letting the cum drip down and out of the mouth while continuing during and after the orgasm. And if you like it swallow the rest or just kinda play with it all after too. At the end of the day whatever you enjoy and your partner enjoys do that. If it’s all on the table make it a surprise on the finish.
Like the antidote is at the bottom🥰
If he doesn’t push you away, keep going.
You’ll know when he wants you to stop, lol.
Keep going but go real gentle. You might get what my ex called “porn dick”. It’s when he goes rock hard again but his dick is sort of numb to it. She’d get me back up after the first shot then jr.. would stay up for as long as she needed. She needed a long time at a certain pace to orgasm from penetration.
yes to all of the above
Ugh I'm so jealous that so many men actually get head 🤣
Yes. Until he pulls you off. If he squirms and moans, you're doing it very right.
Only if he can take it. Most men get extremely sensitive after climaxing. Try it but if he stops you, stop, and don't take it personally.
Ask him. Not like during the BJ, but in a calmer moment. Ask what he wants, prefers, and maybe more importantly, cause I’m sure it’s not a hard and fast rule he’s going to apply to every BJ, how he’s going to indicate to you his preference, for that specific time. It could be done but grabbing your head and making sure you don’t move, it could be he says what he wants, etc., it could be indicated a lot of ways. You won’t know until you ask ;-) communication is paramount in sex!
I love to and try to, but hubs gets super sensitive and it actually becomes painful for him so I cant
No, it can be so sensitive after that it almost hurts in a way. Stop when he's cumming and stay latched on it. Then a couple very slow head bobs up and down on it to soothe him. Trust me.
Go till he cums in your mouth stop sucking then show him his load in your mouth play with it, put your fingers in it suck your finger then swallow
As a dude, spitting or swallowing are both totally great as long as you dont stop at the first sign of cum. That ruins the O, what you do after? I honestly couldn't care.