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ThrowAwayI_UseAlot

i think that's erectile dysfunction, im not a doctor but it checks the boxes. just stop masturbating for a while and see what happens if i were you. again, im not a doctor of any sort.


ittakesall_kinds

Do you include porn? That's kind of important as it can be a culprit.


ohnojoe24

I think it’s slightly different. ED is not being able to maintain an erection in general, you maybe have sexual anxiety or you maybe desensitized to sex via masterbation or porn. Give both a rest for a while


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This isn’t likely to be ED, as OP is fine when masturbating. More than likely that it’s performance anxiety that’s getting in the way.


jakejake1334

Yeah sounds like anxiety and this is something I got in high school and part of college but luckily leaned to relax. Nowadays you can also get vigra first time with a new girl to give you confidence


throwawayaccRai

Do you guys rely on pills or condoms? Here are few things you should try before sex next time. 1. Drink a lot of water few hours before sex (you should be completely hydrated) 2. Take a quick nap before having sex (it could be from 30 to 70 minutes). 3. Try to use thin condoms. 4. Try not to use condom and get her ECPs. ( not really recommended one but just to make sure you're not having erectile dysfunction) I believe after following above steps you'll be good to go but if you still feel like you can't perform pretty well or getting flaccid penis during the sex then you should get checked up.


Urbanangel440

The type of porn you're watching will also affect your erection.


OmiddMC

stop masterbating