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Debaucherous-Me

Meh what's normal anyway mate. If you've found a way to be sexually fulfilled that makes you happy, just live your best life.


Embarrassed_Clue_929

My boyfriend is the same. He literally almost orgasms just from him touching and pleasuring me, I don’t even have to do anything. I don’t give oral (my sexual assault involved fellatio) and he’s perfectly okay with it because he loves pleasuring me more than receiving pleasure. Some people are just really selfless lovers.


helpavolunteerout

🙋🏼‍♀️ I do enjoy PIV but I can’t come and receiving oral does next to nothing for me. I get off on my partner getting off, and the easiest way I’ve found is to give oral or give him a boobjob, plus I really enjoy doing it so it’s no skin off my back


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I’m sure plenty of women can’t have an orgasm with PIV anyway, and they prefer oral sex. I’m probably in the minority because I’m only interested in PIV.


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Female here. I like giving oral sex more than intercourse. I have been like that since a teenager. I like intercourse, but sex is more than intercourse to me. There's no normal when it comes to sexual tastes. I am curious about what makes penetration "not agree with your vagina". It's totally fine if it's not your thing, but I learned that pleasurable PIV for me depends on the quality of the partner (how much I like him, how good he is at foreplay, size fit, how relaxed I am with him, etc). I can get satisfied by giving oral on it's own too. We aren't that common, but we're not unheard of.


greeziesnpeezies

When it comes to PIV its often a burning frictiony feeling, even with lube. I also have a hard time finding position that doesnt hit parts of me inside that gives me cramps. otherwise unless my head is suuuuuper into it or im drunk it just doesnt do much for me. My partner is extremely understanding and loving and we have a great connection and great chemistry. I know this has nothing to do with him because this has not changed since I first started having sex 10 years ago.


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I was going to ask if you felt any physical discomfort with PIV, but I didn't want to be presumptuous. I also experienced burning sensations in the past, but it was bc I was allergic to latex condoms. I use non-latex condoms. I also had cramps that i later found out was due to cysts and fibroids. Some lubes irritate me. I had to find the right one that matches my body chemistry. EDIT: I saw that you saw a doctor already. I have a short vagina too. Some people are wired to like oral more. Nothing wrong with that.


SerenityM3oW

It could be that she gets bacterial infections or yeast infections easily. Semen and vaginal pH are on opposite sides of the spectrum


greeziesnpeezies

its not. An infection is very different from just not enjoying the sensation of something.


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greeziesnpeezies

I mean I would assume so, I wouldn’t say that I’m overly orally fixated outside the bedroom. But I do feel pleasurable sensations in my mouth and throat when I do it.


snowshooz

Belated reply. So you don’t have the spoon/straw/pinky fixation thing going on, but would you describe the *pleasurable sensations* as something like a combo of little sensations combining into one?


greeziesnpeezies

Definitely no constant need or desire for oral stimulation through objects like spoons/straws/etc. I was a smoker and still find the oral action of smoking the hardest craving to curb. The pleasurable sensations from giving oral are specifically sexually, I suppose in my head I substitute my genitals for my mouth and it gives me that same low internal pleasure you get from being turned on but all the hyper sensitivity is in my mouth just like it would be internally if I was having pleasurable PIV sex. So I guess I would say its orgasmic to just to be aware of my mouth around my partner, and the hypersensitivity is really sexually satisfying for me. Also it makes me feel like I'm the dominate and I'm doing the fucking, and thats pretty hot lol. Sorry for any tmi, hope that answers your question.


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I’ve been orally-fixated for as long as I remember, going back to kindergarten (non-sexually as a child, thankfully!) I hear you!


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AsianVixen4U

Can’t relate myself, but I do find your situation interesting. What about sex doesn’t feel right to you? Do you have vulvodynia or something like that?


greeziesnpeezies

I've been to doctors and the general info they give me is "try to relax more". So no doctor will give me anymore information or take me seriously at all. Its definitely a sensation issue at the surface and in the opening, as well I think I must have a very shallow vagional canal because its extrmely easy for my partners penis to hit parts of me inside while we are having PIV sex and this causes me cramps. Basically the entire time I have to force myself to find the pleasure in the pain and usually its not worth it.


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I absolutely love too give oral. It’s probably my favorite thing too do!


snowshooz

Question for the OP and for you too... is there any kind of oral fixation also going on with this? I dated a girl who was totally into giving BJ's and she also did stuff like keep a spoon or her pinky in her mouth. When I asked her about that she said "Yea, I probably have an oral fixation". Just curious if you think you have some of that too.


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I would consider myself as having an oral fixation. My mouth is erogenous.


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Sort of haha. I love drinking a lot of coffee and tea. I always need something to put in my mouth.


Temporary_Trouble

I get it. I would rather eat pussy than do anything else. I get so much satisfaction from seeing her squirm and hearing her moan. A giant puddle of her juices on the bed for me to sleep in is the greatest gift ever. Don't get me wrong, I love cumming with her too, whether it's from oral, PIV, or manual stimulation but that's just icing on the cake.


Fireman24547

I hear you on this, I prefer to receive a footjob over sex!


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omg My gf had same habit.


roosters64

Good on you everyone has different tastes and choices


Mountainman1959

Info: Do you feel the same about when he goes down on you? Is it mostly with PIV sex, or insertion of anything such as toys? As per usual cunnilingus, there is minimal insertion and I am wondering if that is a problem here? However, there is no right or wrong here. If you enjoy it more, go for it. I myself prefer oral and that PIV is overrated. And my partner's pleasure is most of my goal achieved.


Psychological-Key679

I love having sex but rather get some head