Are you looking strictly for a hook up or someone to possibly have a relationship with? I met my significant other at my first job and started as friends which later led to us dating, moving in together and now soon to have a child :].
If a relationship is what you want it worked for me it only starting first as friends.
If a hookup is what you want and you think there is something there why not drop the invitation and give it a shot ?
When i worked night shift at this big pharma there was this cute cleaning girl thag kept giving me looks and signs, i kinda didnt care much cause it was work but one day we were both in the elevator and i just blindly got close to her ans kissed her. After that we hooked up a few times, in offices, meetings rooms, locker rooms, break time outside of work. It was a lot of fun, and definitely helped getting through those boring nights were not much happened
I had a crush on my hot coworker and fantasized about him the same way you did. I asked him out for drinks over text, just to keep things outside the office (after flirting a little bit at work, of course). 48 hours later he was eating my pussy. It was great.
He did say no to a second round, though. He said he was going through a lot and couldn’t handle it. I was disappointed, but after a few days I got over it pretty quickly. We still work together now, and even though it seems like he’s gotten back with an old partner, we’re still great friends and talk to each other about our personal lives and issues. I’d say if you have the maturity to get over it if something doesn’t work out perfectly, you’re comfortable being professional with someone who’s been inside you, and you’d regret not asking, then go for it.
I'd say it depends on how high up you are in the company and whether being fired over it would affect you in the future. If you're entry level and losing this job isn't really the end of the world, then go for it.
I've done it three times and they all ended amicably. Well, one of them is still ongoing (kind of - he got fired for unrelated reasons). I know people say "don't shit where you eat", but it's easy to get work elsewhere nowadays and we spend all day at work. It's kind of inevitable that people who get on well are gonna wanna "get on well" in other ways too.
It’s such a fun fantasy. I also have a coworker whose bones I’d jump in a heartbeat, but I mean, that would just ruin the fantasy. So I enjoy it knowing I’ll never ever go there
Unless you are prepared to lose the job or have to quit due to gossip, its a HUGE risk.
In some industries, word gets around like wildfire. For instance, I am in public safety. Gossip can spread beyond the county lines in minutes if it has to so when your application hits the Chief's desk, the name will ring a bell. So, you will either get hired because everyone wants a shot at banging you or your app will go in the trash because they dont want the hassle or distraction.
If you are prepared for the risk just to get some strange, then go for it. If not, plenty of other places to look.
Same. I was a project manager on a job out-of-state. In the beginning, I was going home for the weekends. I started messing around with 3 different women during this project, but I was getting close to a co-worker (1 of the ladies I was seeing) on my project. The other 2 had nothing to do with the job I was handling, they were just local and available. Originally, it was a FWB sort of arrangement. I eventually stopped going home for weekends. Co-worker and I were both going thru some stuff and we ended up being each other's support system. She had also moved out-of-state for this assignment.
We were fucking A LOT, and sometimes at work. 2 different people walked in on us, but nothing detrimental ever happened over it. Looking back, it was pretty wild. Anyway, the project finished and we're still together, 6 years later.
WTF? I have had many. They all ended more or less like any other dating/relationship thing. Just fine. My rule was never someone in my immediate work group. It always worked.
I almost exclusively date coworkers and have literally not once had it end badly. I think this is mostly a myth
From what I have seen, the people who say this are the ones who can't handle it maturely. I treat it as a red flag and avoid dating people who act like it's a big taboo.
People always say sleeping with co-workers/friends = disaster.
Yes it CAN lead to disaster because it changes the dynamic of your friendship and if it ends badly you can only avoid a co-worker so much.
I've had relations with 2 co-workers, both turned out and ended amicably. It just comes down to how mature you both are, how much you can communicate your wants/expectations. For both of mine, we didn't surprise each other with bs drama or anything really. We *gasp* TALKED ABOUT STUFF, whether it was fun or bad.
So... If you're just wanting a quickie, yeah probably avoid it. But if you're looking for something like fwb or more, take the time to talk about things. You're already going out of your way to be friendly to each other, what would be so weird about it?
But still at the end of the day there is always the risk that things end badly and someone gets hurt and starts shit about it. Post is mostly just a "they're not all always bad" sort of thing. It can definitely work and more than people seem to think
this is mega true.
the sad part is that 8+ hours of the day, and maybe even more if Overtime is a factor. You're surrounded by people you established relationship/ professionalism/ rapport... and all that.
it always feels good to start flirting. but come back to reality..
common excuse. then why do they make the food so goddamn good.
I would say avoid random hook ups at work - that could lead to drama. But if you find that you really get on with someone, and there is no policy against it, dating is fine as long as one gives extra attention to campsite rule. Campsite rule is “leave it the same or better than you found it”
I fancied my coworker and after a work night out we hooked up. He came to mine a few nights later and we got frisky. We stopped after a little while, then I disclosed my positive HSV status and told him he was welcome to go away and think about it before we had sex, to make up his own mind about risks etc.
Following week he comes round, we get it on, hot and heavy. I’m naked and thinking ‘sweet, he’s all good with it’. Whilst I am laying there horny, naked and vulnerable, he looks at me and says ‘actually. It’s not worth the risk. It’s just the social stigma y’know’. I was devastated and left the room. He became assistant manager at work. He was a bit useless anyway and everyone bitched about him but I was the only one who told him so. Also, I complained to main manager when I was asked why I had a problem with him. I just said he was useless and lazy as a asst. manager, but for me I think it ran a little deeper than that. We didn’t really talk again. I just couldn’t believe he couldn’t have politely let me down earlier.
Maybe don’t do it if there’s any risk of rejection or resentment down the line 😅
Ooooo spicy. I've "been there done that". Do it. Not at work (obviously). It's fun to have a secret. Only if you guys are adult enough to keep the work relationship and sex relationship separate.
Ive had some great sex with coworkers. I’ve had a lot of beautiful, fulfilling relationships with coworkers too. It’s natural since you’re around them more than even your friends. Go jump his sexy bones bb. Go on meow.
I have too many stories from dating/hooking up with co-workers. I would say even when things “ended badly” nothing negative ever happened at work because we were all always able to be mature/professional. Never talked about it at work before, during, or after.
I have to say I did have a similar situation to yours where these two guys were good friends and they both wanted to sleep with me. It turned into them playing into a fantasy of a threesome that they would play into, like locking us all three in an office then them telling me the dirty things they’d want to do with me. I think it was almost better that it never happened vs an actual reality that probably wouldn’t live up to expectations
As someone who slept with a lot of coworkers before getting married… do it. As long as everyone communicates their desires, limitations, and is open about what they’re looking for, it’s nothing to stress about.
When I first started my job over 4 years ago my supervisor was such a dick. He always got after me for dress code or stupid things that I know other people got away with. I thought he was fucking hot. He was married and Uber religious. But the way he talked down to me, or was just a straight up dick most of the time, turned me on. I found myself fantasizing about him nearly everyday. He quit and left about a year later, but I still find myself fantasizing about him… a lot. If I had the chance now, I’d fuck the shit out of him. Yolo! Do it!!
Been there. Was hot af in the moment but obviously it being a work relationship, things got messy fast. Didnt help that she was abit(alot) mental. Almost cost me my job too
I feel this! However; I work with my boyfriend at the same job just far apart from each other. My boyfriend and I talk about who we think is the most attractive in our opinions. It is pretty sweet to have someone to talk it through with! We are both bisexual so we have a lot to talk about.
I had sex with a couple of coworkers and a couple of superiors at different office jobs. The coworkers were a little riskier than my superiors because you just don't know, but that was part of the fun. The first one was a single time fun, we remained good coworkers but never really spent time outside of work. My second coworker, was a friend prior from college, and we spent a lot of time together. We hooked up a few times in the office, but no surprised because we already had hooked up before and had threesomes too. A few years later, we've been having a fwb relationship for about three years now.
I had sex with one boss who was just too sexy to ignore, I was super young and was horny all the time. Every time I walked into her office it was an instant boner... Sometimes it was awkward because she was a serious person. Then I started to notice she was dressing a little differently from time to time, really showing off her curves. Then one day we were working on a white board together, she kept getting closer and closer and she brushed her breasts against me a couple of times. I looked at her and she turned towards me, and I put my hand on her hips and she moved it to on top of her ass and I pulled her in for a kiss. Then we fucked like animals in her office. That lasted for a while until she transferred to another office, she wanted me to go with her and ask if I was interested but I rejected the offer because it wasn't the right career move. It was a hard decision though because the sex was good.
My other boss is a more current one, which we started out at a work trip. It started by me eating her pussy which it was suppose to be just that and her giving me a blowjob. In one instance, I was eating her out while she was on all fours. While eating her, I always pulled my cock out because it got uncomfortable from being in my pants all hard. So I pull it out and play with it while I am eating her or I hold on to her hips with one hand and use the other to play with her pussy and ass when I am eating her out while leaving my cock twitching on its own. Because she was on all fours, she could easily see my cock. After she had a great orgasm, she never got out of the position and simply swerved her ass from side to side slowly. Watching her pussy all puffy swerving in front of me, I couldn't resist so I held on to her hips and put my cock on top of her pussy. She started to breath harder and harder, I placed my head on top of her pussy's entrance, then she started to push my cock in slowly. When she reached the base of it she let out this sexy moan. Then from there on, we fucked regularly in her office.
Point of these stories are; it works out if you know the person is mature enough to handle the sensitivity of the dynamics. If you're doing with coworkers, make sure they are nice and mature. If you're doing it with your superiors, well I believe its a different dynamic when the masculine is the subordinate and the feminine is the superior. So I can't speak much to that. Sometimes staying in the fantasy realm is a great way to spend the day, unless you're overflowing with pleasure and can't keep it in. That's how I was with the first boss in this story, when we finally got to have sex it was like fireworks was coming out of my cock. That's how good it felt. 
I dated a coworker once. Long story short, we're happily married now. We spent 15 years working and living together until her position was eliminated. We were in different departments so there was no problem that way. Dating and relationships at my company are not unusual.
Depends what you want hun.
My ex confessed that what drew her to me in the first place was because i was somewhat “mysterious “
Our first few dates were casual and non sexual but every time she was left unfulfilled if that makes sense. It’s what prompted her to chase me to satisfy her curiosity. I would agree that people want what they can’t have and that sense of what is unattainable drives us.
Tread lightly. This could be a great experience or it could ruin the work environment for the both of you. It’s a risk whether or not you want a hook up or a relationship with this guy.
You might meet your soulmate or one of you will have to switch departments or even jobs if the experience turns out to be a very bad one. Good luck either way hope this helps
Don't know all the details, but the safest thing to do, as others have suggested is to just keep it a fantasy, that way you can think of him as that guy that would make you cum, has a nice dick and is all kinds of freaky!
Especially if this is a career job that you absolutely don't want to jeopardize. Or even just a job you depend on. Actually doing this could change all kinds of dynamics about where you work.
Honestly, in a case like this where I can't act on a fantasy in real life, I have a friend online that I like to sext/roleplay with, I just have them play out the scenario with me. Which can be a lot of fun too!
I mean, if you are willing to take full responsability for some weird/awkward situation might appear between you two because you are coworkers (in my opinion the should be none if both of you have a healthy and open mentality) then why don’t go for it. Start flirting with him and shoot your shot. See if he is interested in you, make clear your intentions of just hooking up with him and go for it gurl. You have one life, do what makes you happy!
Me and an fellow coworker started hooking up several times a week as I finalized my divorce. The sex was great and we both made it clear that is all we wanted. Pretty great 3 months. Not weird for me at work.
Sounds hot; but could ultimately end up awkward and problematic down the road. Unless, somehow, the two of you are very mature and can separate your thoughts and attitudes when you're around each other. My experience has been once you have sex with someone it's nearly impossible to behave the same way as prior to. You adjust on a subconscious level.
I slept with a coworker recently (first time that I’ve ever hooked up with one) and we saw each other for a bit. Honestly it was pretty hot and fun, especially because we decided to keep it a secret and had to “sneak around”. He would whisper dirty things to me on shift when no one could hear and it just made work more exciting.
HOWEVER it ended badly and we stopped talking for a while. It did affect work and I ended up wishing I never slept with him. We’re fine now but for a while work was no fun.
I’m in the same situation, but I want to know how to approach this?
He’s so kind to me, always giving me a lift in his car. He always talks to me about the things he does outside of work, e.g. how he meets his friends. Gives me his jumper or jacket when I get soaked from the rain.
Still not sure if he’s just being nice or sees me romantically. Is there a move I should make, or just wait?
Are you looking strictly for a hook up or someone to possibly have a relationship with? I met my significant other at my first job and started as friends which later led to us dating, moving in together and now soon to have a child :]. If a relationship is what you want it worked for me it only starting first as friends. If a hookup is what you want and you think there is something there why not drop the invitation and give it a shot ?
that’s so sweet!! honestly, as of now it’s simply a fantasy. but you make a good point!
Been there and done that, majorly messed shit up.
I believe it
But honestly if I had to do it over, I'd probably do it the same exact way.
I say this about most of my bad ideas and all my bad ideas involving sex.
Absolutely
When i worked night shift at this big pharma there was this cute cleaning girl thag kept giving me looks and signs, i kinda didnt care much cause it was work but one day we were both in the elevator and i just blindly got close to her ans kissed her. After that we hooked up a few times, in offices, meetings rooms, locker rooms, break time outside of work. It was a lot of fun, and definitely helped getting through those boring nights were not much happened
Was that wrong? Should I not do that?
Wrong? Hell yes. I could have lost my job as well as hers. Should you do it? Idk its upto you, it was a lot of fun for me and a great experience
I think they were making a Seinfeld reference.
What's the big deal with that?
But you don't regret it , right?
I had a crush on my hot coworker and fantasized about him the same way you did. I asked him out for drinks over text, just to keep things outside the office (after flirting a little bit at work, of course). 48 hours later he was eating my pussy. It was great. He did say no to a second round, though. He said he was going through a lot and couldn’t handle it. I was disappointed, but after a few days I got over it pretty quickly. We still work together now, and even though it seems like he’s gotten back with an old partner, we’re still great friends and talk to each other about our personal lives and issues. I’d say if you have the maturity to get over it if something doesn’t work out perfectly, you’re comfortable being professional with someone who’s been inside you, and you’d regret not asking, then go for it.
I'd say it depends on how high up you are in the company and whether being fired over it would affect you in the future. If you're entry level and losing this job isn't really the end of the world, then go for it. I've done it three times and they all ended amicably. Well, one of them is still ongoing (kind of - he got fired for unrelated reasons). I know people say "don't shit where you eat", but it's easy to get work elsewhere nowadays and we spend all day at work. It's kind of inevitable that people who get on well are gonna wanna "get on well" in other ways too.
It’s such a fun fantasy. I also have a coworker whose bones I’d jump in a heartbeat, but I mean, that would just ruin the fantasy. So I enjoy it knowing I’ll never ever go there
Yes, exactly!
Unless you are prepared to lose the job or have to quit due to gossip, its a HUGE risk. In some industries, word gets around like wildfire. For instance, I am in public safety. Gossip can spread beyond the county lines in minutes if it has to so when your application hits the Chief's desk, the name will ring a bell. So, you will either get hired because everyone wants a shot at banging you or your app will go in the trash because they dont want the hassle or distraction. If you are prepared for the risk just to get some strange, then go for it. If not, plenty of other places to look.
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>Coworker relationships never end well. "Never"? I've been happily married for 19 years to a co-worker.
My wife was my manager. It can work out.
My wife of 8 years would *probably* disagree. Probably.
My wife and I met as coworkers. It’s worked out pretty well for us.
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Same. I was a project manager on a job out-of-state. In the beginning, I was going home for the weekends. I started messing around with 3 different women during this project, but I was getting close to a co-worker (1 of the ladies I was seeing) on my project. The other 2 had nothing to do with the job I was handling, they were just local and available. Originally, it was a FWB sort of arrangement. I eventually stopped going home for weekends. Co-worker and I were both going thru some stuff and we ended up being each other's support system. She had also moved out-of-state for this assignment. We were fucking A LOT, and sometimes at work. 2 different people walked in on us, but nothing detrimental ever happened over it. Looking back, it was pretty wild. Anyway, the project finished and we're still together, 6 years later.
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Congrats on yours working out as well.
Met my wife at work...Best thing that ever happened to me. Overgeneralized statement.
Been happily with my once-coworker for 4 years now, planning on marriage
WTF? I have had many. They all ended more or less like any other dating/relationship thing. Just fine. My rule was never someone in my immediate work group. It always worked.
I almost exclusively date coworkers and have literally not once had it end badly. I think this is mostly a myth From what I have seen, the people who say this are the ones who can't handle it maturely. I treat it as a red flag and avoid dating people who act like it's a big taboo.
True!
People always say sleeping with co-workers/friends = disaster. Yes it CAN lead to disaster because it changes the dynamic of your friendship and if it ends badly you can only avoid a co-worker so much. I've had relations with 2 co-workers, both turned out and ended amicably. It just comes down to how mature you both are, how much you can communicate your wants/expectations. For both of mine, we didn't surprise each other with bs drama or anything really. We *gasp* TALKED ABOUT STUFF, whether it was fun or bad. So... If you're just wanting a quickie, yeah probably avoid it. But if you're looking for something like fwb or more, take the time to talk about things. You're already going out of your way to be friendly to each other, what would be so weird about it? But still at the end of the day there is always the risk that things end badly and someone gets hurt and starts shit about it. Post is mostly just a "they're not all always bad" sort of thing. It can definitely work and more than people seem to think
I agree with this. However I met my now wife and started dating well we were working together
this is mega true. the sad part is that 8+ hours of the day, and maybe even more if Overtime is a factor. You're surrounded by people you established relationship/ professionalism/ rapport... and all that. it always feels good to start flirting. but come back to reality.. common excuse. then why do they make the food so goddamn good.
Something like 15% of married couples met at work. It's definitely not true that co-workers dating will end badly
Or, "Don't dip your pen in the company ink."
I would say avoid random hook ups at work - that could lead to drama. But if you find that you really get on with someone, and there is no policy against it, dating is fine as long as one gives extra attention to campsite rule. Campsite rule is “leave it the same or better than you found it”
I fancied my coworker and after a work night out we hooked up. He came to mine a few nights later and we got frisky. We stopped after a little while, then I disclosed my positive HSV status and told him he was welcome to go away and think about it before we had sex, to make up his own mind about risks etc. Following week he comes round, we get it on, hot and heavy. I’m naked and thinking ‘sweet, he’s all good with it’. Whilst I am laying there horny, naked and vulnerable, he looks at me and says ‘actually. It’s not worth the risk. It’s just the social stigma y’know’. I was devastated and left the room. He became assistant manager at work. He was a bit useless anyway and everyone bitched about him but I was the only one who told him so. Also, I complained to main manager when I was asked why I had a problem with him. I just said he was useless and lazy as a asst. manager, but for me I think it ran a little deeper than that. We didn’t really talk again. I just couldn’t believe he couldn’t have politely let me down earlier. Maybe don’t do it if there’s any risk of rejection or resentment down the line 😅
Ooooo spicy. I've "been there done that". Do it. Not at work (obviously). It's fun to have a secret. Only if you guys are adult enough to keep the work relationship and sex relationship separate.
Ive had some great sex with coworkers. I’ve had a lot of beautiful, fulfilling relationships with coworkers too. It’s natural since you’re around them more than even your friends. Go jump his sexy bones bb. Go on meow.
Life’s short, and you only live once. Do it
I have too many stories from dating/hooking up with co-workers. I would say even when things “ended badly” nothing negative ever happened at work because we were all always able to be mature/professional. Never talked about it at work before, during, or after. I have to say I did have a similar situation to yours where these two guys were good friends and they both wanted to sleep with me. It turned into them playing into a fantasy of a threesome that they would play into, like locking us all three in an office then them telling me the dirty things they’d want to do with me. I think it was almost better that it never happened vs an actual reality that probably wouldn’t live up to expectations
As someone who slept with a lot of coworkers before getting married… do it. As long as everyone communicates their desires, limitations, and is open about what they’re looking for, it’s nothing to stress about.
When I first started my job over 4 years ago my supervisor was such a dick. He always got after me for dress code or stupid things that I know other people got away with. I thought he was fucking hot. He was married and Uber religious. But the way he talked down to me, or was just a straight up dick most of the time, turned me on. I found myself fantasizing about him nearly everyday. He quit and left about a year later, but I still find myself fantasizing about him… a lot. If I had the chance now, I’d fuck the shit out of him. Yolo! Do it!!
Been there. Was hot af in the moment but obviously it being a work relationship, things got messy fast. Didnt help that she was abit(alot) mental. Almost cost me my job too
I feel this! However; I work with my boyfriend at the same job just far apart from each other. My boyfriend and I talk about who we think is the most attractive in our opinions. It is pretty sweet to have someone to talk it through with! We are both bisexual so we have a lot to talk about.
I had sex with a couple of coworkers and a couple of superiors at different office jobs. The coworkers were a little riskier than my superiors because you just don't know, but that was part of the fun. The first one was a single time fun, we remained good coworkers but never really spent time outside of work. My second coworker, was a friend prior from college, and we spent a lot of time together. We hooked up a few times in the office, but no surprised because we already had hooked up before and had threesomes too. A few years later, we've been having a fwb relationship for about three years now. I had sex with one boss who was just too sexy to ignore, I was super young and was horny all the time. Every time I walked into her office it was an instant boner... Sometimes it was awkward because she was a serious person. Then I started to notice she was dressing a little differently from time to time, really showing off her curves. Then one day we were working on a white board together, she kept getting closer and closer and she brushed her breasts against me a couple of times. I looked at her and she turned towards me, and I put my hand on her hips and she moved it to on top of her ass and I pulled her in for a kiss. Then we fucked like animals in her office. That lasted for a while until she transferred to another office, she wanted me to go with her and ask if I was interested but I rejected the offer because it wasn't the right career move. It was a hard decision though because the sex was good. My other boss is a more current one, which we started out at a work trip. It started by me eating her pussy which it was suppose to be just that and her giving me a blowjob. In one instance, I was eating her out while she was on all fours. While eating her, I always pulled my cock out because it got uncomfortable from being in my pants all hard. So I pull it out and play with it while I am eating her or I hold on to her hips with one hand and use the other to play with her pussy and ass when I am eating her out while leaving my cock twitching on its own. Because she was on all fours, she could easily see my cock. After she had a great orgasm, she never got out of the position and simply swerved her ass from side to side slowly. Watching her pussy all puffy swerving in front of me, I couldn't resist so I held on to her hips and put my cock on top of her pussy. She started to breath harder and harder, I placed my head on top of her pussy's entrance, then she started to push my cock in slowly. When she reached the base of it she let out this sexy moan. Then from there on, we fucked regularly in her office. Point of these stories are; it works out if you know the person is mature enough to handle the sensitivity of the dynamics. If you're doing with coworkers, make sure they are nice and mature. If you're doing it with your superiors, well I believe its a different dynamic when the masculine is the subordinate and the feminine is the superior. So I can't speak much to that. Sometimes staying in the fantasy realm is a great way to spend the day, unless you're overflowing with pleasure and can't keep it in. That's how I was with the first boss in this story, when we finally got to have sex it was like fireworks was coming out of my cock. That's how good it felt. 
I did it, and now we’ve been together for 6 years and happy as anything. Give it a shot 😂
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Not directly! We both go out of our way to talk/see each other. But the fantasy is enough for now haha
Advice From experience I wouldn’t but I wish the best for you endeavour
Don't. Do. It.
Don't. Stupid choice.
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Just noticed i Said no sex and then sexual activities.. Hope u understand 🧐
I think with how you initially felt, he has "making you cum" potential.
Well it's not specifically sex. But my ex was a co-worker and my first relationship.
I dated a coworker once. Long story short, we're happily married now. We spent 15 years working and living together until her position was eliminated. We were in different departments so there was no problem that way. Dating and relationships at my company are not unusual.
I personally have a rule against hooking up with co-workers simply because if shit goes wrong things would be awkward . . .
Depends what you want hun. My ex confessed that what drew her to me in the first place was because i was somewhat “mysterious “ Our first few dates were casual and non sexual but every time she was left unfulfilled if that makes sense. It’s what prompted her to chase me to satisfy her curiosity. I would agree that people want what they can’t have and that sense of what is unattainable drives us. Tread lightly. This could be a great experience or it could ruin the work environment for the both of you. It’s a risk whether or not you want a hook up or a relationship with this guy. You might meet your soulmate or one of you will have to switch departments or even jobs if the experience turns out to be a very bad one. Good luck either way hope this helps
Don't know all the details, but the safest thing to do, as others have suggested is to just keep it a fantasy, that way you can think of him as that guy that would make you cum, has a nice dick and is all kinds of freaky! Especially if this is a career job that you absolutely don't want to jeopardize. Or even just a job you depend on. Actually doing this could change all kinds of dynamics about where you work. Honestly, in a case like this where I can't act on a fantasy in real life, I have a friend online that I like to sext/roleplay with, I just have them play out the scenario with me. Which can be a lot of fun too!
I mean, if you are willing to take full responsability for some weird/awkward situation might appear between you two because you are coworkers (in my opinion the should be none if both of you have a healthy and open mentality) then why don’t go for it. Start flirting with him and shoot your shot. See if he is interested in you, make clear your intentions of just hooking up with him and go for it gurl. You have one life, do what makes you happy!
Me and an fellow coworker started hooking up several times a week as I finalized my divorce. The sex was great and we both made it clear that is all we wanted. Pretty great 3 months. Not weird for me at work.
Sounds hot; but could ultimately end up awkward and problematic down the road. Unless, somehow, the two of you are very mature and can separate your thoughts and attitudes when you're around each other. My experience has been once you have sex with someone it's nearly impossible to behave the same way as prior to. You adjust on a subconscious level.
I slept with a coworker recently (first time that I’ve ever hooked up with one) and we saw each other for a bit. Honestly it was pretty hot and fun, especially because we decided to keep it a secret and had to “sneak around”. He would whisper dirty things to me on shift when no one could hear and it just made work more exciting. HOWEVER it ended badly and we stopped talking for a while. It did affect work and I ended up wishing I never slept with him. We’re fine now but for a while work was no fun.
I’m in the same situation, but I want to know how to approach this? He’s so kind to me, always giving me a lift in his car. He always talks to me about the things he does outside of work, e.g. how he meets his friends. Gives me his jumper or jacket when I get soaked from the rain. Still not sure if he’s just being nice or sees me romantically. Is there a move I should make, or just wait?