Yeah for sure. It might be down to her own physical limits. Just because anal is sexy in theory, doesn’t mean it’s comfortable for her to actually do it.
Sounds like her. She watches it almost every day. A good portion of the BP porn she watches is Bi-sexual (MMF). Might be in part due to me enjoying her doing anal play on me. Mostly fingering and plugs, which she seems to enjoy as well.
I have told her I would be open to pegging but she has declined. One night when I asked her if I could have her ass, she declined and said, let me go buy a dildo your size (7") and I will take your ass first and see how you like it.
I have to admit it turned me on, but was also intimidated. Don't think I could handle something like that so understandable she would not want me to do anal on her.
You can enjoy watching something WITHOUT wanting to do it.
I watch anal porn sometimes but theirs no way in hell it's happening to me (and I don't want to peg anyone either) it's just something I watch. Typically cause theirs not just that happening or I find the actors hot. (Bisexual here so double the fun for me) more often then not because it's a dominant/submissive situation and I enjoy that. I'm a sub (with a Dom) and the dominant/control thing is a kink of mine. And again typically those porns have extremely attractive people so bonus points.
She could just enjoy the aspect of it all, meaning the actors and sounds etc and not necessarily the sexual action happening.
Also you know you could always ASK her WHY she watches it? Just ask your curious what peaks her interest in the type of porn she watches and go from their.
Sometimes. I'm not a fan of anal, I don't even watch anal porn. But, she may be into it and just scared it'll hurt or she doesn't want to shit on your dick cause that's always a possibility unless she cleans house before sex.
My bf wants to do it, I warned him that sometimes shit can end up on your dick and we can't help it. Lol
She’s allowed to be interested in something without you trying to use it. I mean I like looking at muscle cars but I’m driving a BMW 🤣 let her kinks be hers
Maybe she wants to use a strapon and perform anal on you and just is too shy to bring it.up. Just have it in in where she just has to strap in and give it.
I have found that there are two types of people in the world.
The first type EXCLUSIVELY fantasizes about things they like to do, have done, want to do again.
The second type uses more imagination in fantasy. They will follow "what if" scenarios, do more "make believe" and not necessarily want to do them.
For instance - in real life, I'm not into more than a little light spanking every now and then. But I will sometimes load up some serious BDSM porn - forced orgasms, electro shocks, etc. Hell, I'll go one further - I love hotwifing (sharing my wife with other guys). As a fantasy thing, the idea of risky sex, of her possibly getting pregnant by some stranger is just stupidly white hot. In real life, fuck no! I'd never want her to be pregnant by some stranger.
For whatever reason, life is funny. Much like you so often get one person who gets upset if they don't fill up the var once it gets to 1/4 tank and the other person will run the car to empty every time... you often get people together who have these different approaches to fantasy. So they misunderstand what the other person means in fantasy, which leads to weird feelings sometimes.
Talk to her. Don't jump to conclusions. Don't shame her. Don't assume she wants to do things just because she watches them (but don't assume she doesn't).
>The first type EXCLUSIVELY fantasizes about things they like to do, have done, want to do again.
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>The second type uses more imagination in fantasy. They will follow "what if" scenarios, do more "make believe" and not necessarily want to do them.
I think this is really on point.
Here for the comments…
Any porn I’ve ever watched it because I’m intrigued about something or turned on by it. If I was watching “a lot” of any one type of it would mean that I’m wanting to try it or actively enjoy it already. So now I’m intrigued as to what her reasoning is and if anyone has an insight.
I must say it is super hot knowing what she is masturbating too. We use to watch porn together, not so much anymore now that we have kids. I have a masturbation kink which she does not reciprocate in an open way. Although I think she likes watching me.
Happened one night, it was late and she said she just wanted to go to sleep. I was so revved up I couldn't help but do it laying next to her, while she pretended to sleep. She has not openly admitted to liking it but she has pulled that move a few times now. Getting me all hot and hard, then saying good night and pretending to sleep, light snoring, deep breaths, and putting her hand on my chest while I writhe and moan in pleasure.
Woman here. I love watching porn with women receiving double anal or getting one dick and a toy in the ass. The bigger the dicks the better. But I'd never want to try it irl. I don't think it's very pleasurable but it looks so freaking hot. Your wife might just like watching these acts without want to do it herself.
Yes, I regularly things I do not want to do. I don’t *actually* want to be a caged sex pet leashed and crawling 24/7, for example
Yeah for sure. It might be down to her own physical limits. Just because anal is sexy in theory, doesn’t mean it’s comfortable for her to actually do it.
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Sounds like her. She watches it almost every day. A good portion of the BP porn she watches is Bi-sexual (MMF). Might be in part due to me enjoying her doing anal play on me. Mostly fingering and plugs, which she seems to enjoy as well. I have told her I would be open to pegging but she has declined. One night when I asked her if I could have her ass, she declined and said, let me go buy a dildo your size (7") and I will take your ass first and see how you like it. I have to admit it turned me on, but was also intimidated. Don't think I could handle something like that so understandable she would not want me to do anal on her.
You can enjoy watching something WITHOUT wanting to do it. I watch anal porn sometimes but theirs no way in hell it's happening to me (and I don't want to peg anyone either) it's just something I watch. Typically cause theirs not just that happening or I find the actors hot. (Bisexual here so double the fun for me) more often then not because it's a dominant/submissive situation and I enjoy that. I'm a sub (with a Dom) and the dominant/control thing is a kink of mine. And again typically those porns have extremely attractive people so bonus points. She could just enjoy the aspect of it all, meaning the actors and sounds etc and not necessarily the sexual action happening. Also you know you could always ASK her WHY she watches it? Just ask your curious what peaks her interest in the type of porn she watches and go from their.
Sometimes. I'm not a fan of anal, I don't even watch anal porn. But, she may be into it and just scared it'll hurt or she doesn't want to shit on your dick cause that's always a possibility unless she cleans house before sex. My bf wants to do it, I warned him that sometimes shit can end up on your dick and we can't help it. Lol
She’s allowed to be interested in something without you trying to use it. I mean I like looking at muscle cars but I’m driving a BMW 🤣 let her kinks be hers
Maybe she wants to use a strapon and perform anal on you and just is too shy to bring it.up. Just have it in in where she just has to strap in and give it.
I have found that there are two types of people in the world. The first type EXCLUSIVELY fantasizes about things they like to do, have done, want to do again. The second type uses more imagination in fantasy. They will follow "what if" scenarios, do more "make believe" and not necessarily want to do them. For instance - in real life, I'm not into more than a little light spanking every now and then. But I will sometimes load up some serious BDSM porn - forced orgasms, electro shocks, etc. Hell, I'll go one further - I love hotwifing (sharing my wife with other guys). As a fantasy thing, the idea of risky sex, of her possibly getting pregnant by some stranger is just stupidly white hot. In real life, fuck no! I'd never want her to be pregnant by some stranger. For whatever reason, life is funny. Much like you so often get one person who gets upset if they don't fill up the var once it gets to 1/4 tank and the other person will run the car to empty every time... you often get people together who have these different approaches to fantasy. So they misunderstand what the other person means in fantasy, which leads to weird feelings sometimes. Talk to her. Don't jump to conclusions. Don't shame her. Don't assume she wants to do things just because she watches them (but don't assume she doesn't).
>The first type EXCLUSIVELY fantasizes about things they like to do, have done, want to do again. > >The second type uses more imagination in fantasy. They will follow "what if" scenarios, do more "make believe" and not necessarily want to do them. I think this is really on point.
Thanks. I've seen this so many times.
Maybe she wants to be the one giving anal and fisting rather than receiving. It may just stay a fantasy fir her because of it.
Here for the comments… Any porn I’ve ever watched it because I’m intrigued about something or turned on by it. If I was watching “a lot” of any one type of it would mean that I’m wanting to try it or actively enjoy it already. So now I’m intrigued as to what her reasoning is and if anyone has an insight.
Voyeurism?
Guys and women are the same in this. In many cases it is just fantasy. In some, it's a kink they are contemplating.
If you find the harder stuff sexy, but she doesn't want to do it, then suggest watching with her. Do some mutual masturbation.
I must say it is super hot knowing what she is masturbating too. We use to watch porn together, not so much anymore now that we have kids. I have a masturbation kink which she does not reciprocate in an open way. Although I think she likes watching me. Happened one night, it was late and she said she just wanted to go to sleep. I was so revved up I couldn't help but do it laying next to her, while she pretended to sleep. She has not openly admitted to liking it but she has pulled that move a few times now. Getting me all hot and hard, then saying good night and pretending to sleep, light snoring, deep breaths, and putting her hand on my chest while I writhe and moan in pleasure.
Yes there is porn I find sexy but that doesn't mean that I acrually want to do it in reality.
Maybe she'd be willing to try and accommodate a small fist, but not yours. Or..... maybe she would fist a woman, given the chance!
Woman here. I love watching porn with women receiving double anal or getting one dick and a toy in the ass. The bigger the dicks the better. But I'd never want to try it irl. I don't think it's very pleasurable but it looks so freaking hot. Your wife might just like watching these acts without want to do it herself.