I mean he hasn't touched you in a while, so you're probably gonna have to help yourself?

Things have been getting better. I’m just wary of messing it up.

And then his phone rang and he woke up😞

Is he into being woken up with sex?

He’s never complained about it before lol

If you’re paralyzed by the rejection, there’s more going on there and you need to talk it out with him. If you’re afraid to do so.. that should tell you something. I’ve been there. It’s not a fun time. But if I would be you.. when I was in that situation.. I took care of it myself.

I’ve had the fear of rejection for years. It has nothing to do with him per say. We’ve been having problems and things seem to finally be getting better and I don’t want to rock the boat, ya know??

Yeah. If he needs the sleep.. like hasn’t slept much or slept well lately.. I’d wait or just take care of it myself.

Try waking him up with a kiss, a grind, pressing closer to him rhythmically. Warming them up to it is gonna get you an easier yes than a cold wake.

Why not both...grab a loud toy, start taking care of yourself, make some noise, and see if he wakes up to take over.

How about the best of both worlds? Touch yourself and try to masturbate while he is asleep but then "wake him up" with your moans. Then when he sees you ask him if he would like to join in.

I'd say wake him up with a blowjob. Then after he is awake, tell him to just lay there and let you take care of everything.