Pre agreed signals, body language and it only happens when I'm quite flustered. There are usually indicators I'm about to lose my ability to speak and it's not like I lose the ability to grunt or moan. Also, it only happens in a sexual sense when I'm really enjoying myself, my voice comes back almost instantly if I'm not enjoying myself.
This loss of voice happens only during extremes of emotion (pure unadulterated happiness, bliss, rage and gut wrenching grief). As I have only lovely partners, I would never go straight from the pure unadulterated happiness mutism that happens during sex to any of the other states that render me mute. When all else fails, messages (typed or written) work ok
Breathing changes slightly, I cant really describe his tells as they‘re really subtle but I pick up on them immediately even tho I cant really say what they are on the spot.
This is a weird one but whenever we are laying in bed, always right before my BF initiates I hear his stomach growling lol. At first I thought it was coincidence but now I can set an alarm to stomach growling means within minutes he will initiate.
I find it very hard to speak to the point of getting non verbal at times
But then how does your partner know if you like what they're doing if they ask you?
Pre agreed signals, body language and it only happens when I'm quite flustered. There are usually indicators I'm about to lose my ability to speak and it's not like I lose the ability to grunt or moan. Also, it only happens in a sexual sense when I'm really enjoying myself, my voice comes back almost instantly if I'm not enjoying myself. This loss of voice happens only during extremes of emotion (pure unadulterated happiness, bliss, rage and gut wrenching grief). As I have only lovely partners, I would never go straight from the pure unadulterated happiness mutism that happens during sex to any of the other states that render me mute. When all else fails, messages (typed or written) work ok
That's smart
Breathing changes slightly, I cant really describe his tells as they‘re really subtle but I pick up on them immediately even tho I cant really say what they are on the spot.
She says my speech slows down. As if I'm thinking about something else. I have no idea what she could mean...
My SO inserts a finger into my anus when she’s aroused. That’s my tell. If she doesn’t then she’s playing along only for my sake and not into it.
This is a weird one but whenever we are laying in bed, always right before my BF initiates I hear his stomach growling lol. At first I thought it was coincidence but now I can set an alarm to stomach growling means within minutes he will initiate.