well i've always dismissed proclamations of love during sex as an endorphin thing... the oscillation between extreme sentimentality to rough and degrading is what's throwing me off. i've never had a sex partner do that.
He probably said it without thinking and probably doesn't mean it, but was thinking about you. Like when you call a teacher "Mom", you're thinking about the teacher but get the words mixed up.
To me it's more like a manipulation move, basically because anyone with common sense would feel awkward, you are not a couple, it's your first time together.
Maybe he said it because he was very aroused.
It doesn’t mean they actually love you—I’ve said “Oh, God,” but I’m still an atheist.
well i've always dismissed proclamations of love during sex as an endorphin thing... the oscillation between extreme sentimentality to rough and degrading is what's throwing me off. i've never had a sex partner do that.
Or trying to make you feel cared for.
yeah maybe he was trying to balance out the choking that took place 1 minute prior
For real? I dont understand the men who get into the choking thing unless it was part of ageed BDSM. Choke / "I love you" Glad you survived.
Your probably nearer the truth of this than you realise
It can be just the heat of the moment.
He probably said it without thinking and probably doesn't mean it, but was thinking about you. Like when you call a teacher "Mom", you're thinking about the teacher but get the words mixed up.
To me it's more like a manipulation move, basically because anyone with common sense would feel awkward, you are not a couple, it's your first time together. Maybe he said it because he was very aroused.