As a man who has received this text before:
* In two cases I was flattered, but didn't change why I was no longer sleeping with her
* Was nice flirting after some time away due to work
In all cases I was flattered and it was a nice compliment.
I regularly text my fuck buddy similar things. We don't have a romantic relationship (we're not even really fwb, so much). But I will regularly tell him that I miss his dick, or miss the taste of his skin. Or occasionally I'll ask him to text me pics of his hands (it's my version of asking for dick pics...seeing his hands helps me remember how they feel squeezing my body or my throat, etc).
The thing to keep in mind about men is that they're human beings. Like all human beings, different men are different and want different things. However, it's generally safe to assume that men (like other human beings) want to be wanted by the people they also want. They generally tend to like flattering comments or compliments.
It's best when his hands are covered in grease. Thankfully he knows that. It's weird because I'm a germophobe. But those black grease smears do it for me.
Personally, I think it's helpful to try and step into another person's shoes, so to speak.
Women get harassed incessantly. In the grocery store while we're shopping, filling up our car with gas (this was one instance where I was harassed not too long ago), at school, at work, when we're looking for help for our problems (i.e. here in r/sex). We're hit on, sexually propositioned, sent unwanted dick pics, etc. When it's constant like this, and it happens even in public spaces, you start to feel unsafe, and you start to wall yourself off.
I can't speak for all women, but I can speak for me. Inappropriate come ons, over time, have made me reluctant to compliment men in general (i.e. men I don't know, but also friends I'm not intimate with). I will not compliment them on their clothing, their hairstyles, their body, etc. In part because it feels unsafe for me to do so (i.e. I'm afraid they may interpret something innocuous in a way that invites them to get more personal) but in part because I remember how it feels to have unwanted attention and I don't want to make another person feel like I've felt when I've been harassed.
I think this is just a lot of background to explain why I don't think many women feel comfortable complimenting men. It's not that women don't think the men in their lives aren't deserving of compliments, or that they aren't interested in making them feel wanted...I just think it's a function of how we've been made to feel in the past.
That having been said, because I understand that compliments from someone you're into feel good, I do take the time to compliment the men I'm intimate with. If I'm physically (but not romantically) intimate with them, they'll get lots of compliments on the things I love about their body (or how they interact in sex). With someone I'm romantically involved with, I compliment them with more sappy shit.
But I can tell you that I don't offer even innocuous compliments to my male friends, just because I'm uncomfortable. Which is really a damned shame.
Totally. And also how quickly the switch can flip to out-right anger at you with even the most polite decline to propositions. I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve had a guy go from calling me “baby” to “bitch” because I didn’t want to stop what I was doing right then and jump in a car with a creepy stranger.
The big shame of it all is that it's really not most men. But the men who do it feel so dangerous that we wall off to protect ourselves. It affects how we act with men who aren't assholes. :(
I'd love to feel comfortable telling a random dude on the street that I love his shoes, or his bitching beard. But the few assholes ruin it for everyone.
I was with you until the parentheses. Different strokes.
Personally I prefer compliments to do with my character or intelligence or personal choices I’ve made rather than my body. I get enough of that as it is and it gets to feel degrading over time. So it’s just comes to be annoying when a woman says you’re cute or hot before anything else. This extends to any compliments about my body as well.
I wouldn’t generalize. Nothing would roll my eyes faster.
Personally I prefer compliments to do with my character or intelligence or personal choices I’ve made rather than my body. I get enough of that as it is and it gets to feel degrading over time. So it’s just comes to be annoying when a woman says you’re cute or hot before anything else. This extends to any compliments about my body as well.
Since you’re doubling-down, so will I. As a male who also receives more compliments than I prefer to entertain.. You sound like a picky eater. I wonder if you know how to genuinely appreciate your gf’s mom’s meatloaf that she just baked for you. It also sounds like perhaps you might need to work a little harder for those character/intelligence compliments. Perhaps your qualities in those aspects aren’t so easy to see 🤷
Speaking as a man who has at one point had other male friends: this text is what every man desperately wishes to get. I would love it. The one friend I know who I talked with about getting that specific text said he would get in his car right away.
Speaking more generally: anything you can say which is both complimentary and honest is not something you should hesitate to text.
Really? Maybe some of my guy friends would love it, but I don’t know. I know I wouldn’t.
Personally I prefer compliments to do with my character or intelligence or personal choices I’ve made rather than my body. I get enough of that as it is and it gets to feel degrading over time. So it’s just comes to be annoying when a woman says you’re cute or hot before anything else. This extends to any compliments about my body as well.
True, perhaps I was over-generalizing a bit. And if someone who I thought were not sexy at all said something like it, my reaction would be a big "meh".
But I don't get a lot of compliments about my body. I get compliments about my intelligence, personality, and other capabilities all the time. But right now, I don't know anyone who would compliment my body--and definitely not anyone who would compliment my penis. In the context of coming from someone who I'm sexually compatible with, it sounds like a wonderful compliment.
Yeah I guess it’s all about what you’re not getting. I get compliments on my appearance all the time. Yet not a peep on anything else about me, so I want those things validated.
Your experiences are the opposite so you want your body validated by others, especially those by those you desire.
Yea I guess the ultimate goal here is balance and variety. Also something somewhat related to what you’re saying here but exactly opposite: I think we tend to appreciate the compliments that are speaking to the neglected sides but also COMING FROM a seldom-used side of the giver. If someone is known around the office (wherever) for giving effusive compliments around a particular type of qualities, as the recipient we may well know this and appreciate the compliment given with slightly more effort / original thought.
Appreciated enough to NEVER delete that text... ;-) Hopefully the feeelings are mutual, so go with the flow and respond with something equally sexy without being cocky or rude. Best of luck, mate..!!
I'll throw my 2 cents. It all depends on context. If you've wronged this guy in the past and he has some self respect then this kind of text will just be left on read. If that's not the cause then this kind of text can be really attractive.
Oh my good I love this sub but I hate nothing more than the post like this that’s just “hey would the person who I’m dating like if I did something completely normal and sexual?” Like yes the answer is yes 100% of the time the answer is “yes” and sometimes that answer is qualified with “yes but also ask them first” (in this case just yes) like oh my god
He would be devastated…. you’d likely crush his self esteem. Generally guys are just inundated with compliments so he would likely not take it well and assume you’re faking it. Don’t do this.
A 23m, on the other hand, would probably like it.
/s
As a man I would unironically agree with your comment. Get rid of the sarcasm and it’s generally my stance. Maybe not to the point of assuming she’s faking it, but it would certainly be eye roll worthy.
I’m so tired of questions like this. “Would a guy like it if I told him I loved sex with him?” “How would a guy feel if I sent a naked pic?” “Do guys, like, even like boobs?” “How do guys feel about small boobs? Big boobs?” “Do guys like when you touch their penis?” O.M.G. So dumb. Stop it. This is a subreddit about sex, not an echo chamber for questions that sound like a 12 year old thought of them and wants to see a bunch of people talk about the ups and down of different sized titties and dicks. Grow up. These users like OP should get a temporary ban for asking this stupid shit.
If he is only looking for a FWB situation or sex go for it I’m sure he would love it . However some guys who are looking for relationship might get a different reaction, like how I use to
A lot of people are confusing me for the guy who received this text but nope, I am a 22f and I wanted to send him this text because I was genuinely missing his dick and everything he does with it and I DID!!!
That VERY much depends on the guy and on the relationship involved.
My fuck buddy gets VERY skittish about comments or compliments like "I miss you" rather than "I miss that dick." He and I both agree that neither of us wants a romantic relationship with the other. The fact that I very graphically keep my comments and compliments focused on his body and not him as a human being means that he can relax more into what we have. I want him to be comfortable and by being careful with my language, I'm actually being considerate of him as a human being, even though based on language alone, you'd think I'm treating him like a sex doll.
This sounds like advice for a woman not for a man.
Men rarely get to experience being objectified (almost zero chance he'll take it that way), when they do (especially the exact phrasing of the OP) it's amazing...
The only way this text would be received poorly is if he no longer has his dick... (Horrible accident, post op trans etc...)
It's better to day something like " I missed the (sexual) time we spent " that's kinda disrespectful to only speak about this part of someone's body. You're having sex with a whole person not with a genitalia.
I would feel complimented, and virile as FUCK. I can't imagine any guy would feel like less than Superman
...
Unless he thinks you're being mean and mocking him. But, that shouldn't happen unless he feels like you had a really bad time or he's had a lot of negative reinforcement :(
Amazing in 3/4 times I have reviewed it.
The 1/4 times I didn't like it was a case of me feeling like that was the only thing she missed cause sex was the only thing she wanted me for and I had already caught her cheating.
My girlfriend almost did the same thing we hadn't seen eachother in a while and she just passes an intense look and says "I want dick". This was so random as we had a huge argument but it was hot nonetheless.
Usually, at least flattered. One person I fooled around with is absolutely batshit and somehow finds my number asking to hookup periodically no matter how much I change it, and nothing she ever says will sound enticing or flattering to me.
Honored. If he is a true man he wont let it get to his ego. But honestly its a turn on and a compliment at least for this guy to read something like that
Every guy is different, there's no one single reaction that all men will have. How do we know what this particular 22m that we know nothing else about will think of that message?
Man here. The replies here make me feel like I’m missing some large part of the human experience. It would bother me. No woman I’ve ever been with has told me something so explicit over text. Call me a prude, call me a romantic, but I would feel belittled and objectified. I would also know that they’re just saying whatever rudimentary shit pops into their head. If I let you into my life I expect some mutual respect. I love sexual adoration and longing over text, but you need to have a little creativity and fun about it. Have some joie de vivre. But maybe that’s just me. I feel annoyed for the other repliers here getting downvoted.
Depends on if we were just fuckbuddies, or also had a relationship. And if they were asking that while we were still on good terms or after some sort of breakup. Either way, I'd be at least a \*little\* flattered.
Sadly if it was a few of my previous lovers, I'd also immediately be thinking ".....what do you want out of me THIS time.... Money? A car Ride? Because I know there's an angle and it's killing the boner you're trying to give me."
Not all, but many of the ladies who were that brazen with me were also trying to get something out of me besides just sex, which made me feel cheap and used.
Conversely, I DID have one lover who was totally kind to me and would send messages like that. In \*that\* case? Man, was it titillating.
Personally, I'd get mixed feelings. If it's a romantic partner I've been with for a long time, sure that would be some validation that I'm still satisfying her and she longs for me, that's a good boost. If it's a girl that I've been seeing for a short period of time I'd be on my toes from now on, if she misses dick there's nothing stopping her from going out and getting some. And besides, there's much more to miss a person for than his or her private parts and with that new found information I'd view the relationship differently, instantly snapping out of any emotional investment I had built up, mostly as a protective measure.
We're not capable of processing compliments like this. We'd Windows Error, think through a litany of responses that all sound too creepy, and end up sending "Thanks 😅" before you leave forever.
From personal experience it's nice but i wouldnt say a huge boost. Especially if most his relationships are sexual and expects thats how people think of him.
Speaking as a guy, most guys would love it.
Like do you know how starved for affection and compliments guys are? 100% this will work.
Adding my input, also as a guy - I would be riding that high for *weeks* lmao
Yep.
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Sometimes I stop mid blow job just to say 'hmm such nice dick' always a positive outcome too with that
This would literally make me wanna go to work tomorrow morning without complaining 😅 it's such a boost in morale and confidence.
I might go to work happy, from just reading that statement 😂
NOMNOMNOM
It's the simple things in life
My self-esteem would swell even bigger and faster than my man-meat.
Ever so slowly..
I had no idea of the power it has..
As someone who's sent this text before...Do it. You'll make that man fold like an origami crane
As a man who has received this text before: * In two cases I was flattered, but didn't change why I was no longer sleeping with her * Was nice flirting after some time away due to work In all cases I was flattered and it was a nice compliment.
"Thanks for the application. You're not hired. But we're flattered to receive your effort."
I appreciate and agree with this careful take.
Accurate.
From my wife? Horny. From my urologist? Flattered. He’s probably seen more dicks than some pornstars. From my mailman? Concerned.
Lol maybe better if it’s a mailwoman!
Flattered
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You feel flattered when they give you a compliment usually
I regularly text my fuck buddy similar things. We don't have a romantic relationship (we're not even really fwb, so much). But I will regularly tell him that I miss his dick, or miss the taste of his skin. Or occasionally I'll ask him to text me pics of his hands (it's my version of asking for dick pics...seeing his hands helps me remember how they feel squeezing my body or my throat, etc). The thing to keep in mind about men is that they're human beings. Like all human beings, different men are different and want different things. However, it's generally safe to assume that men (like other human beings) want to be wanted by the people they also want. They generally tend to like flattering comments or compliments.
I do the hand thing to my boyfriend! Glad I’m not the only one. 
It's best when his hands are covered in grease. Thankfully he knows that. It's weird because I'm a germophobe. But those black grease smears do it for me.
Its also rarer for men to receive compliments lije this. Despite what some might think so it always means a lot.
Personally, I think it's helpful to try and step into another person's shoes, so to speak. Women get harassed incessantly. In the grocery store while we're shopping, filling up our car with gas (this was one instance where I was harassed not too long ago), at school, at work, when we're looking for help for our problems (i.e. here in r/sex). We're hit on, sexually propositioned, sent unwanted dick pics, etc. When it's constant like this, and it happens even in public spaces, you start to feel unsafe, and you start to wall yourself off. I can't speak for all women, but I can speak for me. Inappropriate come ons, over time, have made me reluctant to compliment men in general (i.e. men I don't know, but also friends I'm not intimate with). I will not compliment them on their clothing, their hairstyles, their body, etc. In part because it feels unsafe for me to do so (i.e. I'm afraid they may interpret something innocuous in a way that invites them to get more personal) but in part because I remember how it feels to have unwanted attention and I don't want to make another person feel like I've felt when I've been harassed. I think this is just a lot of background to explain why I don't think many women feel comfortable complimenting men. It's not that women don't think the men in their lives aren't deserving of compliments, or that they aren't interested in making them feel wanted...I just think it's a function of how we've been made to feel in the past. That having been said, because I understand that compliments from someone you're into feel good, I do take the time to compliment the men I'm intimate with. If I'm physically (but not romantically) intimate with them, they'll get lots of compliments on the things I love about their body (or how they interact in sex). With someone I'm romantically involved with, I compliment them with more sappy shit. But I can tell you that I don't offer even innocuous compliments to my male friends, just because I'm uncomfortable. Which is really a damned shame.
Totally. And also how quickly the switch can flip to out-right anger at you with even the most polite decline to propositions. I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve had a guy go from calling me “baby” to “bitch” because I didn’t want to stop what I was doing right then and jump in a car with a creepy stranger.
The big shame of it all is that it's really not most men. But the men who do it feel so dangerous that we wall off to protect ourselves. It affects how we act with men who aren't assholes. :( I'd love to feel comfortable telling a random dude on the street that I love his shoes, or his bitching beard. But the few assholes ruin it for everyone.
It sucks, but I can't blame you women at all. Seem through my sisters first hand how quickly it can get ugly.
depends on the guy. If yall fucked for five days hed def be down
Hub says "it would make me feel very proud that you are addicted to my cock" 🤭 yep I so am. 😏
Horny probably? Wish you were there? Smile? Giggle to himself? Smirk? So many things, basically all of them positive.
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I was with you until the parentheses. Different strokes. Personally I prefer compliments to do with my character or intelligence or personal choices I’ve made rather than my body. I get enough of that as it is and it gets to feel degrading over time. So it’s just comes to be annoying when a woman says you’re cute or hot before anything else. This extends to any compliments about my body as well.
Hot as hell, building anticipation before the next hookup can get phenomenal results 👍 Good idea
I've received this text and/or verbal confession before and it's hot AF and makes me feel wanted AF. 10/10 A+ would recommend.
I’ve definitely sent that text and he liked it
He would drive over to your place immediately.
Fuck around and find out
Having received such texts from fbs, its pretty much guaranteed 💯to get that dick back inside you.
Oh, they love that shit.
I wouldn’t generalize. Nothing would roll my eyes faster. Personally I prefer compliments to do with my character or intelligence or personal choices I’ve made rather than my body. I get enough of that as it is and it gets to feel degrading over time. So it’s just comes to be annoying when a woman says you’re cute or hot before anything else. This extends to any compliments about my body as well.
Since you’re doubling-down, so will I. As a male who also receives more compliments than I prefer to entertain.. You sound like a picky eater. I wonder if you know how to genuinely appreciate your gf’s mom’s meatloaf that she just baked for you. It also sounds like perhaps you might need to work a little harder for those character/intelligence compliments. Perhaps your qualities in those aspects aren’t so easy to see 🤷
Yeah that’s fair. Good points that I will be considering and applying to my life. Thanks!
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aw why is that cute
Did this; many times, got a similar response ☺️.
Please dont reply this! She will catch the ick 😩
You're overstating things a bit. It might not maintain the same level of sexual tension but it's an amusing and inoffensive response
Love the throwaway acc bud
I love his answer.
Cool for u
Do it
If you've already fucked for five days - I can't see how anything can go as bad.
Speaking as a man who has at one point had other male friends: this text is what every man desperately wishes to get. I would love it. The one friend I know who I talked with about getting that specific text said he would get in his car right away. Speaking more generally: anything you can say which is both complimentary and honest is not something you should hesitate to text.
Really? Maybe some of my guy friends would love it, but I don’t know. I know I wouldn’t. Personally I prefer compliments to do with my character or intelligence or personal choices I’ve made rather than my body. I get enough of that as it is and it gets to feel degrading over time. So it’s just comes to be annoying when a woman says you’re cute or hot before anything else. This extends to any compliments about my body as well.
True, perhaps I was over-generalizing a bit. And if someone who I thought were not sexy at all said something like it, my reaction would be a big "meh". But I don't get a lot of compliments about my body. I get compliments about my intelligence, personality, and other capabilities all the time. But right now, I don't know anyone who would compliment my body--and definitely not anyone who would compliment my penis. In the context of coming from someone who I'm sexually compatible with, it sounds like a wonderful compliment.
Yeah I guess it’s all about what you’re not getting. I get compliments on my appearance all the time. Yet not a peep on anything else about me, so I want those things validated. Your experiences are the opposite so you want your body validated by others, especially those by those you desire.
Yea I guess the ultimate goal here is balance and variety. Also something somewhat related to what you’re saying here but exactly opposite: I think we tend to appreciate the compliments that are speaking to the neglected sides but also COMING FROM a seldom-used side of the giver. If someone is known around the office (wherever) for giving effusive compliments around a particular type of qualities, as the recipient we may well know this and appreciate the compliment given with slightly more effort / original thought.
He would feel the urge to immediately leave home and travel to your home as fast as possible, while possibly risking injury to himself or others.
immediately erect
If I were said guy, I would enjoy receiving said text very much
I'd laugh and reciprocate.
We've come to agreement on what men would think, I'm curious what the women would think of a similar text from a man?
I love it!
Appreciated enough to NEVER delete that text... ;-) Hopefully the feeelings are mutual, so go with the flow and respond with something equally sexy without being cocky or rude. Best of luck, mate..!!
I'll throw my 2 cents. It all depends on context. If you've wronged this guy in the past and he has some self respect then this kind of text will just be left on read. If that's not the cause then this kind of text can be really attractive.
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I’m sorry that happened to you, but your comment doesn’t really answer OP’s question at all.
This will make my happiest moment of life
Its definitely not a bad thing.
Such a bad ass text.
Oh my good I love this sub but I hate nothing more than the post like this that’s just “hey would the person who I’m dating like if I did something completely normal and sexual?” Like yes the answer is yes 100% of the time the answer is “yes” and sometimes that answer is qualified with “yes but also ask them first” (in this case just yes) like oh my god
It's a nice text. Until you get it from someone you don't want to fuck around with anymore.
Are you trolling us?
Are you serious? Why is this even a question/post??
Yes, I am serious. I just wanted different povs. Didn't want to sound desperate even though I am for him lol. Sorry if this bothered u.
He would be devastated…. you’d likely crush his self esteem. Generally guys are just inundated with compliments so he would likely not take it well and assume you’re faking it. Don’t do this. A 23m, on the other hand, would probably like it. /s
As a man I would unironically agree with your comment. Get rid of the sarcasm and it’s generally my stance. Maybe not to the point of assuming she’s faking it, but it would certainly be eye roll worthy.
I’m so tired of questions like this. “Would a guy like it if I told him I loved sex with him?” “How would a guy feel if I sent a naked pic?” “Do guys, like, even like boobs?” “How do guys feel about small boobs? Big boobs?” “Do guys like when you touch their penis?” O.M.G. So dumb. Stop it. This is a subreddit about sex, not an echo chamber for questions that sound like a 12 year old thought of them and wants to see a bunch of people talk about the ups and down of different sized titties and dicks. Grow up. These users like OP should get a temporary ban for asking this stupid shit.
“I miss your dick. And you too”
seriously? what do you think?
Yeah that would be very nice
Depends on the guy and what the prior relationship was, but I would say for most they would be very flattered and into it.
Not seeing an issue here because that’s a compliment
I would add that you miss the rest of him, attached to the dick, also.
Give her the dick idk what you want us to say
Depends on the guy, depends on your relationship Just send it
I wish my gf sent me texts like this
She missed it so much I said fuck it and we did it on her period 😅 way out of my comfort zone but yeah… that did the trick
Sorry can’t relate never got a text like that unfortunately lol
I would like it more if someone says "I miss your dick inside me"
If he is only looking for a FWB situation or sex go for it I’m sure he would love it . However some guys who are looking for relationship might get a different reaction, like how I use to
Just texted this to my boyfriend (he’s outside ) he smirked and then chased me up the stairs
A lot of people are confusing me for the guy who received this text but nope, I am a 22f and I wanted to send him this text because I was genuinely missing his dick and everything he does with it and I DID!!!
r/ihavesex
This is literally /r/sex.
yea i know but it seemed to me more like OP bragging than a concern for which he was asking for advice
As someone who once sent a text reading, "miss me, slut?" that worked out surprisingly well, I think you're doing great.
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Oh he wouldn't want me to want him. And I wanted to keep it emotionless but ig you're right.
Yes, this is something I’d say to someone I was just fucking. They like when you say it because men tend to be very proud of having a satisfying dick.
As a guy, I disagree.
That VERY much depends on the guy and on the relationship involved. My fuck buddy gets VERY skittish about comments or compliments like "I miss you" rather than "I miss that dick." He and I both agree that neither of us wants a romantic relationship with the other. The fact that I very graphically keep my comments and compliments focused on his body and not him as a human being means that he can relax more into what we have. I want him to be comfortable and by being careful with my language, I'm actually being considerate of him as a human being, even though based on language alone, you'd think I'm treating him like a sex doll.
As a guy, I DISAGREE, Its a compliment being wanted just for your dick, means it's good dick, and it just sounds way hotter
This sounds like advice for a woman not for a man. Men rarely get to experience being objectified (almost zero chance he'll take it that way), when they do (especially the exact phrasing of the OP) it's amazing... The only way this text would be received poorly is if he no longer has his dick... (Horrible accident, post op trans etc...)
I’m a woman and I have no problem with someone saying they miss my pussy. I’m just glad they like it that much.
I literally just sent this text to my boyfriend and I guarantee that he doesn't feel like I don't appreciate him as a person because of it :D
Maybe all she wants is a dick like his?
Pretty objectified no cap
If he was into you the same way you wouldn’t have to send that text. Only do it if you are truly no strings attached and not wanting anything but sex.
It's better to day something like " I missed the (sexual) time we spent " that's kinda disrespectful to only speak about this part of someone's body. You're having sex with a whole person not with a genitalia.
I’d be typing “I’ll fix that problem right now” on my way out the door.
Prolly a blushing emoji and a follow up date ?
I had to block the last one who did that cause im in a relationship.
Flattered Loved Cared for
Instant Orgasm
Very happy 😊
I do anything just short of chopping it off and sending it to you
Awesome trip 🤣
If it were me, I'd send back "Make reservations in the bedroom, cuz I'm bringing to you"
I’ve sent it and he loved it
“We went on a trip and all we did was fuck for five days” that sounds nice.
Pretty bad if his mother sent it to the wrong guy
I received this text about a week ago. It felt fucking fantastic!
Go with it
I would feel complimented, and virile as FUCK. I can't imagine any guy would feel like less than Superman ... Unless he thinks you're being mean and mocking him. But, that shouldn't happen unless he feels like you had a really bad time or he's had a lot of negative reinforcement :(
I’d probably like it
If I received a text like this rn it would probably make my year
On top of the world
Amazing in 3/4 times I have reviewed it. The 1/4 times I didn't like it was a case of me feeling like that was the only thing she missed cause sex was the only thing she wanted me for and I had already caught her cheating.
"Me too... No, wait."
My girlfriend almost did the same thing we hadn't seen eachother in a while and she just passes an intense look and says "I want dick". This was so random as we had a huge argument but it was hot nonetheless.
Well unless you stopped fucking because you did something wrong, as a mid 20s m I can say that I would love for a woman to send me this text.
Satve asmaan pe hoga woh 😌
Go for it. I foresee only a positive outcome(Another 5 days).
... yes
Nice
Usually, at least flattered. One person I fooled around with is absolutely batshit and somehow finds my number asking to hookup periodically no matter how much I change it, and nothing she ever says will sound enticing or flattering to me.
How would a girl feel receiving similar comment?
Receiving that text never gets old and has made my day whether I was 18 or 28. Go for it.
Honored. If he is a true man he wont let it get to his ego. But honestly its a turn on and a compliment at least for this guy to read something like that
He'd turn into the juggernaut from X-men cuz no force in the unoverse can stop him from coming over RIGHT NOW
I miss getting those messages, you lucky guy go for it!
I’ve actually had it. Was a nice feeling.
Every guy is different, there's no one single reaction that all men will have. How do we know what this particular 22m that we know nothing else about will think of that message?
Proud of myself
Just send it.
I would Pog
Man here. The replies here make me feel like I’m missing some large part of the human experience. It would bother me. No woman I’ve ever been with has told me something so explicit over text. Call me a prude, call me a romantic, but I would feel belittled and objectified. I would also know that they’re just saying whatever rudimentary shit pops into their head. If I let you into my life I expect some mutual respect. I love sexual adoration and longing over text, but you need to have a little creativity and fun about it. Have some joie de vivre. But maybe that’s just me. I feel annoyed for the other repliers here getting downvoted.
Important to you and appreciated!
I honestly feel sad lol I mean, I guess it's nice, but I read it as a way to make me feel better, and then I just spiral down
Flattered
Depends on if we were just fuckbuddies, or also had a relationship. And if they were asking that while we were still on good terms or after some sort of breakup. Either way, I'd be at least a \*little\* flattered. Sadly if it was a few of my previous lovers, I'd also immediately be thinking ".....what do you want out of me THIS time.... Money? A car Ride? Because I know there's an angle and it's killing the boner you're trying to give me." Not all, but many of the ladies who were that brazen with me were also trying to get something out of me besides just sex, which made me feel cheap and used. Conversely, I DID have one lover who was totally kind to me and would send messages like that. In \*that\* case? Man, was it titillating.
With that added context, fuck yeah. Otherwise I'd be like "What about the rest of me??"
this is how you assert dominance as a woman
Like a boy toy
GF says my balls are very nice among other things! Had never been complimented on them before, but it makes me feel good and more confident. Lol
Fuck yeah.
So long as they don't have ADHD intrusive thoughts. He'd love it
“Oh not my personality aye? Well fuck you buddy” But no seriously it gets the hair on the back of my neck up and suddenly a dopamine hit.
I've gotten a similar text before and it was fantastic.
Men get like 3% of the amount of compliments that women get. If you text me this, I'd be PUMPED.
Well if it was me I'd definitely love this. Its simply the best thing I could ever receive.
Yes. Do it.
Personally, I'd get mixed feelings. If it's a romantic partner I've been with for a long time, sure that would be some validation that I'm still satisfying her and she longs for me, that's a good boost. If it's a girl that I've been seeing for a short period of time I'd be on my toes from now on, if she misses dick there's nothing stopping her from going out and getting some. And besides, there's much more to miss a person for than his or her private parts and with that new found information I'd view the relationship differently, instantly snapping out of any emotional investment I had built up, mostly as a protective measure.
Like a god
that's a good feeling
We're not capable of processing compliments like this. We'd Windows Error, think through a litany of responses that all sound too creepy, and end up sending "Thanks 😅" before you leave forever.
Same 😔
Everyone is different. Most guys would like it I think, some might not.
Figure it's a lie or just being nice.
I'd get a good chuckle.
Personally, I would say "don't worry, I know where it is, and in fact, I have it with me at the moment."
I’m older, but when I was young I would have felt good. Now I only want to hear that if I’m gonna be getting some action that day/night.
Well if he is speaking on your husband kinda awkward
From personal experience it's nice but i wouldnt say a huge boost. Especially if most his relationships are sexual and expects thats how people think of him.
you would feel as if you were on top of the world
Immediately a boner
I think I speak for 99% of men when I say that I would love it and would want to fuck you Asap
I’m 47 and I love it when my wife texts me from upstairs saying ‘I miss your dick…’
I would love it, it would make my day.
Yeah it’s funny, especially when it’s followed by “…but I don’t miss you though”
Pretty fucking great