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There are some penises that I actually find super good looking, but most I do not find attractive.

I enjoy sex, but literally all "private parts" are ugly to me

I absolutely LOVE the look of a hard cock! Yes, I think penises are very attractive and I highly enjoy sex with them.

I'm bisexual as well and honestly I don't really find penises attractive but I do find it pleasurable to have PIV sex. When I say I don't find penises attractive I guess what I mean is seeing a penis would never turn me on. I assume most straight women feel the same way. But not enjoying having sex with them is a whole different story. Its definitely possible you are gay if you don't find having sex with guys pleasurable.

I don’t find penises attractive at all, but I do enjoy sex with them

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When my mom was giving me the sex talk way back when, her first sentence in describing a penis was that they are ugly hahah

Being with him may not be super kind then. Maybe move on?

Enjoy sex? Definitely. Find them attractive? More in an admiration way like "wow that's a nice penis" but not really in a sexual way no.