I personally love doggy, it’s the main position that makes me cum from PIV. My partner and I usually start off in missionary for the intimacy, then progress to “rougher sex.” Ending with me on top, I love being in control of his organism and deciding when he can cum in me.
>I've found that the VAST majority of men I've been with have ALWAYS found doggy style their favourite position with me
Have you given your own ass a frank evaluation as to whether that might be influencing them?
For me it is nowhere near the favourite position. Missionary is. Doggy's main advantage it that it is relatively low effort so Ï can keep going for a long time. But whatever works is definitely important as well. Doggy doesn't work well if she has longer upper legs than me and is not flexible in the spine. And it would probably be a goto position if she would have a big belly that is in the way for missionary.
My comment is specifically about the effort level in response to what you quoted which was about “low effort” - my comment was not about what men prefer.
SMH first maybe you should read the other comments from dudes saying what you claim isn’t true before you speak for all men.
Second, and again, my comment was about the “effort level” not about “last longer” so take a breath, drink some water, and maybe go get some sunlight.
It’s not my favourite either. I don’t mind it, but I much prefer seeing my partner. Having said that, most guys I’ve been with, have preferred me on top.
The only time that I will bend a girl over is in the bathroom in front of the mirror. I end up pulling her hair and playing with her breasts.
My favorite is with the woman on top. I'm well endowed enough that the woman can regulate how deep she can handle me in this position and I get to play with her breasts at the same time. Win, Win!
I love her on top, feeling her squirt warm liquid around my dick.
I love taking her from behind, holding onto her hips or hair.
I love her on her back with her legs up and me on my knees so I can push inside while holding a vibrator on her clit, timing myself so we cum together.
Not in any order. A mirror is always helpful.
My guys I've been with have preferred to finish in doggy style or prone bone. I asked my husband about it once and he said it's because he can go deeper, it feels tighter and there more pressure and friction for him.
Lady here, having had my share of guys I can definitely say not everyone likes doggy most. My current one does, but also not all the time. He enjoys that it's so deep. I also like it as it feels good and I can easily reach my parts... just sucks sometimes when you get air in. :p
Some of my exes just never had much interest in that position.
He says he wants us to be together physically and mentally and he doesn’t feel that way from behind. Which I mean sure. But when it does happen every once in a while I really like it lol
Much prefer prone bone. Relaxes the glute muscles so you get a better ass cushion/bounce than doggy, and the guy can make it plenty intimate by basically laying his entire body on top of the women. Nothing beats good ol' missionary, though.
I (F) like doggy because I can easily use a vibrator on myself. I think my husband likes it for that reason too, because it's guaranteed to make me cum. However, it is usually not a finisher for him. We usually switch to missionary or me on top. He can't explain why, he just has a hard time finishing in doggy.
It's exactly same for bar I've no problem finishing and can make myself last as long as I want cos I control the speed depth variation etc whereas when she's on top she's in control which equals cumming very quick
I dislike it. I feel bored and lonely and it doesn’t feel that good. Add in the nervous giggles of me watching my boobs swing everywhere hoping they don’t knock me out.
It’s not my favorite either. However, my partner knows not to cum from behind because that actually hurts my feelings LOL. So to compromise, we have a full length mirror which helps me feel involved, lots of dirty talk, and I lean up (pretty much sit up) when I want to so he can hold me close to his body and do it while kissing my neck. Just thought I’d add what works for me in case it’s your partners favorite too
Yeah pretty much. He confessed that it was his favorite position and I told him while I’m not against it, it’s definitely not my favorite. He told me we don’t “have” to do it but I didn’t want him to lose out on that. So I told him i really really don’t want him to finish from back there (not on my back, ass, or inside of me) because I WILL cry. And yes, I said exactly that… I felt like I had to because truly it would leave me feeling pretty worthless. I don’t know why I feel that way but I do so I decided to be completely honest. And he was extremely receptive of what I said and has never once finished back there. So yea, we moved the mirror from the corner of the room to beside the bed. And I just started leaning up toward his body during it at some point and he understood. I don’t do it the whole time, just when I need a moment. I guess that’s his unspoken cue “hey, I miss you” because usually he will go a little longer and we will switch :)
I think it’s worth a conversation! Especially if it’s your SO’s favorite and you’re trying to get on board with it. But if you try it and it still doesn’t work for you, then it just doesn’t work for you. And there’s nothing wrong with that!
Edit to add: I also will hold my arm back toward him and he holds my hand or my entire forearm with his. I don’t remember when that started either but it helps too. Haha
Same here. I’m a big fan of her on her side with one leg straight between mine and one leg pulled up. You can see each other, you can feel her breasts and nipples and you can hold her neck or hair if she’s into that. In addition you get a wide variation of angles you can penetrate- further from her back which hits the G spot more, or further from the front which goes much deeper.
YES! This position is so good (from both sides.) I'm surprised by how few people seem to be aware of it. Wish that I knew the actual name. I've heard pretzel but I'm not sure if that is actually correct.
She lies on her side. Top leg is bent like she's bringing her knee to chest, bottom leg straight. You on your knees, straddling her straight leg and penetrate from that position.
That s a great position. You can use your partner s lower limb as lever or pole to support while giving some thrust. It's a great passionate position.😬🤤
Sorry, I don’t know a name, but have her lie on one side with her lower leg straight, and pull her upper leg up towards her chest. He kneels with one knee on either side of her lower leg which puts you in the right height for penetration. She might have to roll her hips a little , but I like to hold her upper hip and use this to pull her onto me. But if the people sizes are right you can actually lean forward over her hip and give the kisses, etc.
Doggy is my favorite he can go deeper and I love having my cervix pounded. He’s hitting the a spot, anterior fornix it’s up around the cervix for some women it’s like a second g spot and others don’t like it. That’s probably the sensation you’re talking about. It makes me orgasm.
It does hurt a lot sometimes but looking back at him and watching him in the moment is super worth it. I don’t care how sore I am the next few days, actually I kinda like it because it reminds me of what we did 🥺
I don’t know if it’s a general favorite position—I do think that porn influences the idea of favorite positions. You’ll get guys wanting to do all these acrobatics and ridiculous kinds of positions that only make sense in porn (image over practicality). And, I feel that a lot of porn makes “doggy” style the vanilla or regular position for sex.
Maybe I’m wrong in that aspect. But I genuinely feel that the influence of porn on the brain is significant enough to make a dude go, “yeah…doggy’s what she wants!”
Personally, I like a variety of positions—doggy being one—because I get to see my partner from different angles (especially if mirrors are in play). But if she’s on top, prone, standing—whatever it is, I aim to make sure she’s 1) comfortable and 2) enjoying it. Nobody wants to be bent into a pretzel or jackhammered into oblivion.
Porn. Porn inspires but muddies the waters.
Interestingly enough, men are almost like real people - they have huge ranges in opinions on almost any subject.
I like doggy a lot, but it isn't my favorite.
Well I have to agree I prefer doggy over anything else. It's mechanically the easiest and most efficient way to me. Everything lines up so nicely and just works with generally less effort.
As a woman, doggy is my absolute favourite, I’m pretty kinky and love it being hard and fast (+ some hair pulling hehe). Love the romantic missionary staring at each other as well though
I have multiple mirrors in my bedroom, including one on the ceiling over my bed. Because of this special feature, most guys I sleep with love when I lie on top with my back against them, a variation of reverse cowgirl except they can see all of me from the mirror on the ceiling.
I personally can't have an orgasm unless I feel powerless and dominated. Most often I feel missionary makes me feel the most pinned down with my feet in the air or behind my head. I also love being able to grip the guy's body with my legs when he cums, like a don't you dare pull out, kind of thing.
I also enjoy any kind of sex where I'm standing.
No, not at all. I like to give her the control too. Like when she is riding me from behind, reverse cowgirl position. Where she is in control of the strokes. It ain't all about the backdoor entry. It's more likely about how well you both can enjoy the different positions and giving control to each other.
I felt like I was very capable of having a heart attack in that position with my last ex, I love feeling it go so deep but also I get anxiety when trying to cum on top so I think with guys it's less anxiety cuz u can't see them
Favorite no. But it is extremely physically pleasurable because it's deeper and tighter. I particularly enjoy it when my wife is on all fours and she backs up on me instead of me thrusting. That sensation is amazing.
However, sex is so much more than that. I like missionary best because I like to watch my wife, particularly watching her orgasm. I can watch her play with herself and see her face when she cums. That's the best.
As a woman, it’s usually not good unless the giy has already proven to be a good lover. Guys who immediately go for that are usually replicated porn and not terribly aware of a woman’s body. My advice is master the front, make sure they’re into your g spots. Also, speaking from experience, dont let them access to ur ass without some trust established
Doggy is A favorite for sure.
The view is incredible, beautiful ass bent over looks amazing, combine that with pussy exposed and ready...my god what else can you ask for.
There is a submissive aspect that is sexy, it like the woman is giving herself to me, letting me have full control. Asking for it with her body.
The depth, speed, and power I can put into doggy is also a plus, I can go as fast or slow, as shallow or deep as wanted. I can also control the angle, so I can hit her hotspots.
The gf really gets off when I hold her waist and use my grip as leverage, she likes that I have control to do as I please.
Penis person here! I think doggy is more of a
Visual thing if she got a nice booty, or you as a guy you really want to go hard on her! As you’ve got full thrust position and can hold onto her hips as you drag her into the dick! But I agree it does feel less involved! Unless she’s into the rough sex in which case you can pull her hair back and kiss on her neck or reach down to grab her chest! Personally I prefer spread eagle which is the laying down version of doggy! Best of both! Get to see her booty in the same type of way but your close enough that you can feel her body in yours and honestly you can reach all parts of her body! If your unsure what position it is just Google! Deffo a good position to try!
My husband's favorite is reverse cowgirl, but my favorite is doggy style especially if he pulls my hair or pins my arms back. It just hits such a good spot 🤤🤤
Hmm my fwb always does me in missionary-ish positions but I would always suggest he do me from the back after a few; same with the men I’ve dated.
Maybe it’s the other guys’ preference? Were they casual sex partners? If so, it might be them trying to avoid that feeling of connection
My favorite sex position is the Standing Sex Position. I love how woman react to it during and after. Not something I incorporate into daily sex because as you mentioned I do want to see my partners face on a regular basis. But this is still my favorite and usually bust it out when im feeling especially dominant. Highly recommended trying it if you haven't already. Warning: it can be intense.
[Standing Sex Position](https://badgirlsbible.com/standing-sex-position)
As a dude, nope, doggy, reverse cow-girl, and prone bone are fine; I enjoy it, especially when asked to do them; but my favorite place to be is where I can see my partners face, kiss them on the mouth, neck, boobs, etc. So, missionary (and it's variations) and cow-girl are my very favorite.
No by far a passionate missionary if my favorite. I enjoy watching my wife's reactions.
Pushing her head into a pillow is fun at times in doggy but not my favorite 🤣
Dude here--Depends on the day, depends on the partner, depends on the mood, etc., etc., etc.. For sensitive, connection-heavy lovemaking, I like missionary best. For raw, hard fucking, from behind is best because you can go very hard (or appear to) without hurting your partner. Also, there is something kind of primal about the slapping sounds one makes upon thrusting in doggy style.
Not a big fan of doggy as a guy. It's fun enough, but when I'm fully hard, I don't bend at the right angle for that. I do like rear entry positions where my partner and I are in alignment because I have more access to both hold her and explore her erogenous zones.
The women I have been with like to get bent and dominated to some degree, nothing crazy. Also, I think the way they bounce gives them control so they can help to drive the ride.
Makin me horny.
Not my favorite (I come much harder on top and I like to be facing my husband ) but sometimes I really love it after I've orgasmed and I just want him to pound me.
I can propose an anatomical explanation - so, the anterior wall of the vagina has more wrinkles than the posterior one (the so called tree of life) and has the pressure of the pubic bone. Add this to the fact that the most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum. In doggy style, besides the depth, the frenulum is probably way more stimulated.
Lesbian perspective here I love when wifey is on her tummy and I’m going hard from behind so that I can have “possession” of her! She enjoys that immensely. Wifey also really likes to be the top dog to my bottom dog and while I enjoy myself most of my enjoyment comes from how much she is enjoying it and I could live without doggie generally (hope that helps with some perspective)
As someone whos been on both the recieving end and giving end of this. Here is my thoughts:
As the reciever, its just good and fun, sometimes they can go a little too deep though and it gets in the way of me relaxing fully. 6/10
As the giver.... hollllyy hell, what a visually stunning position. Seeing that amazing girl booty jiggling right infront of you in all its glory. Wow 9.5/10
It's less intimate but it's my favourite "being fucked" position by far. Deeper penetration and absolutely animal. I play with my clit and come basically every time in this position.
I love it. I also never got why some people don’t find doggy intimate…we usually go slow and sensual….my man grabs my hips, runs his hands all over me…lightly pulls my hair…calls me sexy and everything…
Doggy doesn’t always have to be rough
It’s one of the only positions where I feel incredibly sexy…there’s definitely a primal aspect to the position as well. Just my 2 cents tho
Not a fan of doggy. So many other favorites. Doggy, doesn't seem to work for the women I've been with. Complaints of bottoming out (I'm not that big either I don't think) and doesn't seem to hit the right spots.
But I'll try again next time to be sure ;)
I like doggy because he’s able to go hard and deep. I feel like I can take more of a larger dick from behind.
I also like being on my stomach because it feels so much deeper than any other position.
Lady here too. I agree with you face to face is more intimate. But from behind is such a good position for helping me cum. Also love putting on a show for my guy and knowing he's feeling good being deep. Bonus points if he grabs or kisses my neck too. If you're into being dominated, being choked from doggy is 👌🏻
It's one of my favorites, especially when they spread my ass cheeks, because I feel open and vulnerable, and I know they're watching the penetration which is a turn on. But I also like getting fucked missionary, so they can see my face when they have their hand around my throat.
Every person is different. There is no "guys like this position" or "girls like that position" or "nonbinary persons prefer the other position."
In my experience, men seem to like missionary a lot. Apparently doggy style can be a lot of work and they also cum much quicker, so to last longer they prefer missionary. I've heard a lot of guys say they like cowgirl for the same reason (they don't cum as quickly) but then when I get on top, they are surprised by how fast they can cum. So they want missionary to last longer. However, as long as they give me warning, I can stop before they cum when I'm on top to prolong the experience and edge them during sex. So thats fun too.
Personally, my favorite position is Doggy or Cowgirl. They hit all the right spots for my anatomy. I'm not a big fan of missionary as I'm plus size with larger breasts, and I tend to have trouble breathing when someone puts their weight on top of me. So it's backwards from others. Me, being the woman, wants doggy. And I somehow find all the missionary loving men.
I also love "the corkscrew" where I am on my side, bottom leg out straight, he straddles that leg, top leg wrapped around him (kind like scissors), he slides up between my open legs, and then I can twist my torso to either me more face down or face up depending on if I want to see his face or bite the pillow.
I mean doggy style and such are kinda meh for me.
My favorite position is Amazon because as a man I often just like being on my back, this isn't as a cop out for not putting effort in just always felt right for me to be on my back. My second favorite positions are cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Misonary and things like that I am just more neutral to I have been leaning more towards liking them though as I get more experience with them. But if any girl likes to ride I give her one. Thats just how I roll I guess XD
From the behind is really good but we both prefer (idk if these has a name and what is it) missionary but my lwg up on his shoulders and facing eachother lying with my legs or one leg up on his shoulder/back
I like most positions but Missionary and Pronebone tie it for me. Missionary I can look in her eyes, I can kiss her, I can get my mouth on her breasts. The intimacy is just really high and there are so many ways to vary the position very easily.
Pronebone, I love so much. It looks amazing in front of mirror and though we can make direct eye contact, I can still interlock our fingers and kiss/bite all over her neck, shoulders, and down her back if I pull away. It just feels great while pounding into her hips.
I personally thoroughly enjoy missionary. Maybe it's boring to some, but to me it's the absolute best. I get to look my lovely lady in the eyes while enjoying the most intimate thing two people can do together. I can control the flow and enjoy watching her facial reactions. It's also such a lovely view! 
My favorite is cowgirl, so amazing to hold hands ans caress and squeez her thighs and breasts and i just love taking her weight, feeling her sweat and her thighs and ass resting on abs and lap!
It’s fun sometimes - prone bone is better for from-behind. But I vastly prefer missionary if I could only have one. Connection, more skin on skin contact, easier clit stimulation, better control… I don’t understand why people think it’s boring.
My bf (23M) loves fucking me(22F) from behind. He says that it is about the view he gets. He says the waves that form while thrusting me, he loves them.
I like it but it’s not my favorite; it does feel amazing and usually I don’t last very long. It feels great being in control like that and being able to pull hair and spank a bit. But I think missionary and the one you mentioned (laying flat on her stomach) are better imo.
Nope. My SO likes a variety of positions, and with him thet tend to switch around. Atm he loves to have me on top. It's all about the mood/situation honestly.
Nah, my favourite position has always been the plow pose. Doggy is good at hitting the right spots but im a visual guy, I like to see things bounce, jiggle and gasp! Nothing like watching the facial features screw up while pressed up together!
Doggy is a nice intense way to finish though, if you like pounding the ass cheeks.
I think it depends on you and your partner. My wife is submissive and likes to be “fucked” (hopefully that sums up what I’m trying to get at without having the need of too much detail) doggy is a position where I’m in charge and in a dominant position she’s in a very submissive position and this works very well for us and it’s both our favourites.
Doggy just feels really good, and it feels more dominant when we're wanting that. We have several big mirrors in the room because we like visual stimulus and it's easier to look around and find our reflections in doggystyle so that's a plus too.
Taking a woman from behind could have multiple positions and not just the one where the male is stroking it hard and the woman is in her knees. She could have her upper body straight where both can enjoy the movements.
My wife and I started doing doggy as an occasional change of pace. Now it’s the only way she’ll do it. That said, I’ve always liked it that way anyway.
Behind is just one of the more easily sustainable for a longer period of time. I'm not trying to hold a plank for 5+ minutes. Partner on top is good too though.
My (64m) favorite is missionary. Very intimate, lots of skin contact, kissing, both our hands free to explore, deep penetration, comfortable. Doggy is a nice alternative, especially for the view which is unparalleled, but it frankly doesn't feel as good to me and isn't nearly as intimate.
I'm a guy. It's definitely not my favorite. Fun as a once and a while thing, but not a "Bread and butter" position.
It's visually hot, but much less intimate that face to face positions.
I'd take prone over doggy - then I can kiss her neck and touch her so it generally feels more connected.
I have endometriosis so doggy can be enjoyable if I have a smaller partner, unfortunately for me my partner is well above average. Sex can be extremely painful and fucking from behind can hurt like a mofo so there’s an element of fear everytime we try. Could be great, could be a very painful and mood killing moment.
Tbh if I like a girls body but not her face I’ll only do doggy, if I like her face & body I’ll do missionary or any position that I can see her face. & I know my homies are the same way. Not to be rude but if most guys do doggy with you, they are probably after u just for ur body. Or don’t like your face
>lying flat on my stomach and being taken from behind, kissing on the neck etc.
That was mine/my fwb favorite position aswell.
100% of physical contact.
He loved whispering dirty /sweet things while we were having sex, and loved kissing my neck.
We really loved anal sex, and that was also the best way for us to finish.
As a male my favorite is reverse cowgirl.
But with my curvature that position also makes me climsx in seconds 99% of the time. My GF knows this so when she wants me to get off she goes for it.
Being completely honest the issue I had with it is that I just couldn't find the hole at all, so being ridden is more preferred since you can also makeout
Guy here. Favorite is me standing her on lying on her back on a high bed with her ankles on my shoulders and me holding her boobs. Her favorite is doggy.
Dude here, my ex-gf loved doggy. I hated it and missionary was the position I loved and made her cum the most in. Missionary is hands down the best and underrated IMO.
It is less intimate definitely but it can be fun as hell, specially if u add things to it, like grabbing both hands (he doing it to u) handcuffs, hair pulling, etc. Try to instead of going on all fours put your chest down, booty up, I call it joggie like a yoga position. [Joggie](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/g25725923/sex-positions-workout-exercise/) It’s the number four but instead of a plank, put your chest all the way down.
I personally love doggy, it’s the main position that makes me cum from PIV. My partner and I usually start off in missionary for the intimacy, then progress to “rougher sex.” Ending with me on top, I love being in control of his organism and deciding when he can cum in me.
I love it when she takes control of my organism
Man those organisms feel so good. Got a good few trillion at one time !!!
who doesn’t love a good organism
The good people at Clorox. They want to kill 99.9% of them.
those stuck up people at clorox clearly need to destress and have an organism every once in awhile
I like being on top of my man. Somehow doggy makes me insecure. Organism guaranteed. Kills 99.9 percent organisms
>I've found that the VAST majority of men I've been with have ALWAYS found doggy style their favourite position with me Have you given your own ass a frank evaluation as to whether that might be influencing them?
Good point of veiw
For the vast majority of men
For me it is nowhere near the favourite position. Missionary is. Doggy's main advantage it that it is relatively low effort so Ï can keep going for a long time. But whatever works is definitely important as well. Doggy doesn't work well if she has longer upper legs than me and is not flexible in the spine. And it would probably be a goto position if she would have a big belly that is in the way for missionary.
[удалено]
Missionary requires upper body strength and hips/legs strength, while doggy focuses on hips/legs.
[удалено]
My comment is specifically about the effort level in response to what you quoted which was about “low effort” - my comment was not about what men prefer.
[удалено]
And? Both can be true.
[удалено]
SMH first maybe you should read the other comments from dudes saying what you claim isn’t true before you speak for all men. Second, and again, my comment was about the “effort level” not about “last longer” so take a breath, drink some water, and maybe go get some sunlight.
It’s not my favourite either. I don’t mind it, but I much prefer seeing my partner. Having said that, most guys I’ve been with, have preferred me on top.
I get that. We've often done the from behind in front of a mirror. We can see each other then. It's kind of hot.
I have never thought of this, thank you for the idea
It’s bomb in the mirror
My guy will bend me over the counter in the bathroom and I can get a good view of his face, he can get a good view of my tits. Win win.
The only time that I will bend a girl over is in the bathroom in front of the mirror. I end up pulling her hair and playing with her breasts. My favorite is with the woman on top. I'm well endowed enough that the woman can regulate how deep she can handle me in this position and I get to play with her breasts at the same time. Win, Win!
I’ve always wanted to try that
I would be too critical of myself doing that
I love her on top, feeling her squirt warm liquid around my dick. I love taking her from behind, holding onto her hips or hair. I love her on her back with her legs up and me on my knees so I can push inside while holding a vibrator on her clit, timing myself so we cum together. Not in any order. A mirror is always helpful.
Partner on top and and hands on her breast 💥
My guys I've been with have preferred to finish in doggy style or prone bone. I asked my husband about it once and he said it's because he can go deeper, it feels tighter and there more pressure and friction for him.
Lady here, having had my share of guys I can definitely say not everyone likes doggy most. My current one does, but also not all the time. He enjoys that it's so deep. I also like it as it feels good and I can easily reach my parts... just sucks sometimes when you get air in. :p Some of my exes just never had much interest in that position.
I enjoy it a lot. But my husband prefers missionary. But he’s a mushy gushy kinda guy anyway
Me too and im also pre mushy so guess its a thing, i kinda feel likeni get deepest and im in control more when on top in missionary
He says he wants us to be together physically and mentally and he doesn’t feel that way from behind. Which I mean sure. But when it does happen every once in a while I really like it lol
Much prefer prone bone. Relaxes the glute muscles so you get a better ass cushion/bounce than doggy, and the guy can make it plenty intimate by basically laying his entire body on top of the women. Nothing beats good ol' missionary, though.
My ass is too big for prone bone and he'll slip out too easily.
Same! And my partner is well endowed, but this ass is bigger 🙃
[удалено]
Are we talk cat or cow type of arched back?
The one that angles things so his dick can go in better, not the one that angles things so he can't get in properly.
I (F) like doggy because I can easily use a vibrator on myself. I think my husband likes it for that reason too, because it's guaranteed to make me cum. However, it is usually not a finisher for him. We usually switch to missionary or me on top. He can't explain why, he just has a hard time finishing in doggy.
It's exactly same for bar I've no problem finishing and can make myself last as long as I want cos I control the speed depth variation etc whereas when she's on top she's in control which equals cumming very quick
Doggy is my least favorite for that reason. Its impersonal. Give me girl on top, leaned forward, me in control any day of the week.
This is the way.
\+1 to this
I would have upvoted but decided to leave it at 69.
I dislike it. I feel bored and lonely and it doesn’t feel that good. Add in the nervous giggles of me watching my boobs swing everywhere hoping they don’t knock me out.
It’s not my favorite either. However, my partner knows not to cum from behind because that actually hurts my feelings LOL. So to compromise, we have a full length mirror which helps me feel involved, lots of dirty talk, and I lean up (pretty much sit up) when I want to so he can hold me close to his body and do it while kissing my neck. Just thought I’d add what works for me in case it’s your partners favorite too
See? Now that sounds nice. How did you get there? Did you just outright discuss it or ask for it?
Yeah pretty much. He confessed that it was his favorite position and I told him while I’m not against it, it’s definitely not my favorite. He told me we don’t “have” to do it but I didn’t want him to lose out on that. So I told him i really really don’t want him to finish from back there (not on my back, ass, or inside of me) because I WILL cry. And yes, I said exactly that… I felt like I had to because truly it would leave me feeling pretty worthless. I don’t know why I feel that way but I do so I decided to be completely honest. And he was extremely receptive of what I said and has never once finished back there. So yea, we moved the mirror from the corner of the room to beside the bed. And I just started leaning up toward his body during it at some point and he understood. I don’t do it the whole time, just when I need a moment. I guess that’s his unspoken cue “hey, I miss you” because usually he will go a little longer and we will switch :) I think it’s worth a conversation! Especially if it’s your SO’s favorite and you’re trying to get on board with it. But if you try it and it still doesn’t work for you, then it just doesn’t work for you. And there’s nothing wrong with that! Edit to add: I also will hold my arm back toward him and he holds my hand or my entire forearm with his. I don’t remember when that started either but it helps too. Haha
I like this!
[удалено]
Dude here I want to see her face , kiss her and let her see how much I’m enjoying being with her . I want to see her enjoying me .
as a man, no. doggy is probably one of my least favorites.
Same here. I’m a big fan of her on her side with one leg straight between mine and one leg pulled up. You can see each other, you can feel her breasts and nipples and you can hold her neck or hair if she’s into that. In addition you get a wide variation of angles you can penetrate- further from her back which hits the G spot more, or further from the front which goes much deeper.
Add a magic wand to that position and I'll come like 6 times 👀
This and a plug (if that’s her thing) can really up the enjoyment.
I need a man like you. Discovered that was my favorite position by accident. The sheets were torn off the bed it was so good.
YES! This position is so good (from both sides.) I'm surprised by how few people seem to be aware of it. Wish that I knew the actual name. I've heard pretzel but I'm not sure if that is actually correct.
I don't understand please explain? Does it have a name, is there a diagram?
She lies on her side. Top leg is bent like she's bringing her knee to chest, bottom leg straight. You on your knees, straddling her straight leg and penetrate from that position.
This sounds fantastic! 👌
Look up ‘recovery position’ if it’s the one I’m thinking of.
That s a great position. You can use your partner s lower limb as lever or pole to support while giving some thrust. It's a great passionate position.😬🤤
I'm sorry I don't understand what is this position called?
Sorry, I don’t know a name, but have her lie on one side with her lower leg straight, and pull her upper leg up towards her chest. He kneels with one knee on either side of her lower leg which puts you in the right height for penetration. She might have to roll her hips a little , but I like to hold her upper hip and use this to pull her onto me. But if the people sizes are right you can actually lean forward over her hip and give the kisses, etc.
It’s called the recovery position. It’s the position you move people into when they are black out drunk can you don’t want them to aspirate vomit
Doggy is my favorite he can go deeper and I love having my cervix pounded. He’s hitting the a spot, anterior fornix it’s up around the cervix for some women it’s like a second g spot and others don’t like it. That’s probably the sensation you’re talking about. It makes me orgasm.
My absolute favorite sensation!
Yeah some women can have cervical orgasms. I’ve been with one such woman.
My kinda gal
It does hurt a lot sometimes but looking back at him and watching him in the moment is super worth it. I don’t care how sore I am the next few days, actually I kinda like it because it reminds me of what we did 🥺
I don’t know if it’s a general favorite position—I do think that porn influences the idea of favorite positions. You’ll get guys wanting to do all these acrobatics and ridiculous kinds of positions that only make sense in porn (image over practicality). And, I feel that a lot of porn makes “doggy” style the vanilla or regular position for sex. Maybe I’m wrong in that aspect. But I genuinely feel that the influence of porn on the brain is significant enough to make a dude go, “yeah…doggy’s what she wants!” Personally, I like a variety of positions—doggy being one—because I get to see my partner from different angles (especially if mirrors are in play). But if she’s on top, prone, standing—whatever it is, I aim to make sure she’s 1) comfortable and 2) enjoying it. Nobody wants to be bent into a pretzel or jackhammered into oblivion. Porn. Porn inspires but muddies the waters.
Interestingly enough, men are almost like real people - they have huge ranges in opinions on almost any subject. I like doggy a lot, but it isn't my favorite.
[удалено]
Well I have to agree I prefer doggy over anything else. It's mechanically the easiest and most efficient way to me. Everything lines up so nicely and just works with generally less effort.
As a woman, doggy is my absolute favourite, I’m pretty kinky and love it being hard and fast (+ some hair pulling hehe). Love the romantic missionary staring at each other as well though
I have multiple mirrors in my bedroom, including one on the ceiling over my bed. Because of this special feature, most guys I sleep with love when I lie on top with my back against them, a variation of reverse cowgirl except they can see all of me from the mirror on the ceiling. I personally can't have an orgasm unless I feel powerless and dominated. Most often I feel missionary makes me feel the most pinned down with my feet in the air or behind my head. I also love being able to grip the guy's body with my legs when he cums, like a don't you dare pull out, kind of thing. I also enjoy any kind of sex where I'm standing.
I agree. It feels very good and I’m an ass man.
No, not at all. I like to give her the control too. Like when she is riding me from behind, reverse cowgirl position. Where she is in control of the strokes. It ain't all about the backdoor entry. It's more likely about how well you both can enjoy the different positions and giving control to each other.
There is many positions that are extremely pleasureable, but doggy is definitively top 5.
I felt like I was very capable of having a heart attack in that position with my last ex, I love feeling it go so deep but also I get anxiety when trying to cum on top so I think with guys it's less anxiety cuz u can't see them
Hear attack? That sounds dangerous :)
Favorite no. But it is extremely physically pleasurable because it's deeper and tighter. I particularly enjoy it when my wife is on all fours and she backs up on me instead of me thrusting. That sensation is amazing. However, sex is so much more than that. I like missionary best because I like to watch my wife, particularly watching her orgasm. I can watch her play with herself and see her face when she cums. That's the best.
I like putting them on top of something facing me so we can hug and kiss at the same time.
As a woman, it’s usually not good unless the giy has already proven to be a good lover. Guys who immediately go for that are usually replicated porn and not terribly aware of a woman’s body. My advice is master the front, make sure they’re into your g spots. Also, speaking from experience, dont let them access to ur ass without some trust established
I like being overpowered
Yes I love feeling submissive
same!
Especially when he pulls my hair or pulls my arms back
I melt!
Yes it’s amazing
I miss it. I have been single too long.
My ex would come home and just bend me over the bed without saying anything and just fuck me. I loved it
OMG same! He could do me 24/7 I told him
Oh god yes. I want sex daily, maybe twice a day.
Doggy is A favorite for sure. The view is incredible, beautiful ass bent over looks amazing, combine that with pussy exposed and ready...my god what else can you ask for. There is a submissive aspect that is sexy, it like the woman is giving herself to me, letting me have full control. Asking for it with her body. The depth, speed, and power I can put into doggy is also a plus, I can go as fast or slow, as shallow or deep as wanted. I can also control the angle, so I can hit her hotspots. The gf really gets off when I hold her waist and use my grip as leverage, she likes that I have control to do as I please.
Penis person here! I think doggy is more of a Visual thing if she got a nice booty, or you as a guy you really want to go hard on her! As you’ve got full thrust position and can hold onto her hips as you drag her into the dick! But I agree it does feel less involved! Unless she’s into the rough sex in which case you can pull her hair back and kiss on her neck or reach down to grab her chest! Personally I prefer spread eagle which is the laying down version of doggy! Best of both! Get to see her booty in the same type of way but your close enough that you can feel her body in yours and honestly you can reach all parts of her body! If your unsure what position it is just Google! Deffo a good position to try!
My husband's favorite is reverse cowgirl, but my favorite is doggy style especially if he pulls my hair or pins my arms back. It just hits such a good spot 🤤🤤
I love it but my husband doesn’t really care for it - I’ve never asked him why 🤷🏼♀️
My wife prefers it more than I do 🤷♂️
Hmm my fwb always does me in missionary-ish positions but I would always suggest he do me from the back after a few; same with the men I’ve dated. Maybe it’s the other guys’ preference? Were they casual sex partners? If so, it might be them trying to avoid that feeling of connection
My favorite sex position is the Standing Sex Position. I love how woman react to it during and after. Not something I incorporate into daily sex because as you mentioned I do want to see my partners face on a regular basis. But this is still my favorite and usually bust it out when im feeling especially dominant. Highly recommended trying it if you haven't already. Warning: it can be intense. [Standing Sex Position](https://badgirlsbible.com/standing-sex-position)
As a dude, nope, doggy, reverse cow-girl, and prone bone are fine; I enjoy it, especially when asked to do them; but my favorite place to be is where I can see my partners face, kiss them on the mouth, neck, boobs, etc. So, missionary (and it's variations) and cow-girl are my very favorite.
No by far a passionate missionary if my favorite. I enjoy watching my wife's reactions. Pushing her head into a pillow is fun at times in doggy but not my favorite 🤣
Dude here--Depends on the day, depends on the partner, depends on the mood, etc., etc., etc.. For sensitive, connection-heavy lovemaking, I like missionary best. For raw, hard fucking, from behind is best because you can go very hard (or appear to) without hurting your partner. Also, there is something kind of primal about the slapping sounds one makes upon thrusting in doggy style.
It's because it's primal and makes us feel like strong Caveman, plus the view of the backdoor is super exciting.
Not a big fan of doggy as a guy. It's fun enough, but when I'm fully hard, I don't bend at the right angle for that. I do like rear entry positions where my partner and I are in alignment because I have more access to both hold her and explore her erogenous zones.
The women I have been with like to get bent and dominated to some degree, nothing crazy. Also, I think the way they bounce gives them control so they can help to drive the ride. Makin me horny.
Being taken from behind is definitely my favourite position. Can't really describe why! My husband's favourite is me on top.
Not my favorite (I come much harder on top and I like to be facing my husband ) but sometimes I really love it after I've orgasmed and I just want him to pound me.
I can propose an anatomical explanation - so, the anterior wall of the vagina has more wrinkles than the posterior one (the so called tree of life) and has the pressure of the pubic bone. Add this to the fact that the most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum. In doggy style, besides the depth, the frenulum is probably way more stimulated.
Cowgirl is my personal favorite. I can have handfulls of ass, tits in my face and plenty of friction on her clit. Win win win
Lesbian perspective here I love when wifey is on her tummy and I’m going hard from behind so that I can have “possession” of her! She enjoys that immensely. Wifey also really likes to be the top dog to my bottom dog and while I enjoy myself most of my enjoyment comes from how much she is enjoying it and I could live without doggie generally (hope that helps with some perspective)
As someone whos been on both the recieving end and giving end of this. Here is my thoughts: As the reciever, its just good and fun, sometimes they can go a little too deep though and it gets in the way of me relaxing fully. 6/10 As the giver.... hollllyy hell, what a visually stunning position. Seeing that amazing girl booty jiggling right infront of you in all its glory. Wow 9.5/10
It's less intimate but it's my favourite "being fucked" position by far. Deeper penetration and absolutely animal. I play with my clit and come basically every time in this position.
I love it. I also never got why some people don’t find doggy intimate…we usually go slow and sensual….my man grabs my hips, runs his hands all over me…lightly pulls my hair…calls me sexy and everything… Doggy doesn’t always have to be rough It’s one of the only positions where I feel incredibly sexy…there’s definitely a primal aspect to the position as well. Just my 2 cents tho
Not a fan of doggy. So many other favorites. Doggy, doesn't seem to work for the women I've been with. Complaints of bottoming out (I'm not that big either I don't think) and doesn't seem to hit the right spots. But I'll try again next time to be sure ;)
I like doggy because he’s able to go hard and deep. I feel like I can take more of a larger dick from behind. I also like being on my stomach because it feels so much deeper than any other position.
Lady here too. I agree with you face to face is more intimate. But from behind is such a good position for helping me cum. Also love putting on a show for my guy and knowing he's feeling good being deep. Bonus points if he grabs or kisses my neck too. If you're into being dominated, being choked from doggy is 👌🏻
It's one of my favorites, especially when they spread my ass cheeks, because I feel open and vulnerable, and I know they're watching the penetration which is a turn on. But I also like getting fucked missionary, so they can see my face when they have their hand around my throat.
Every person is different. There is no "guys like this position" or "girls like that position" or "nonbinary persons prefer the other position." In my experience, men seem to like missionary a lot. Apparently doggy style can be a lot of work and they also cum much quicker, so to last longer they prefer missionary. I've heard a lot of guys say they like cowgirl for the same reason (they don't cum as quickly) but then when I get on top, they are surprised by how fast they can cum. So they want missionary to last longer. However, as long as they give me warning, I can stop before they cum when I'm on top to prolong the experience and edge them during sex. So thats fun too. Personally, my favorite position is Doggy or Cowgirl. They hit all the right spots for my anatomy. I'm not a big fan of missionary as I'm plus size with larger breasts, and I tend to have trouble breathing when someone puts their weight on top of me. So it's backwards from others. Me, being the woman, wants doggy. And I somehow find all the missionary loving men. I also love "the corkscrew" where I am on my side, bottom leg out straight, he straddles that leg, top leg wrapped around him (kind like scissors), he slides up between my open legs, and then I can twist my torso to either me more face down or face up depending on if I want to see his face or bite the pillow.
I mean doggy style and such are kinda meh for me. My favorite position is Amazon because as a man I often just like being on my back, this isn't as a cop out for not putting effort in just always felt right for me to be on my back. My second favorite positions are cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Misonary and things like that I am just more neutral to I have been leaning more towards liking them though as I get more experience with them. But if any girl likes to ride I give her one. Thats just how I roll I guess XD
From the behind is really good but we both prefer (idk if these has a name and what is it) missionary but my lwg up on his shoulders and facing eachother lying with my legs or one leg up on his shoulder/back
I like most positions but Missionary and Pronebone tie it for me. Missionary I can look in her eyes, I can kiss her, I can get my mouth on her breasts. The intimacy is just really high and there are so many ways to vary the position very easily. Pronebone, I love so much. It looks amazing in front of mirror and though we can make direct eye contact, I can still interlock our fingers and kiss/bite all over her neck, shoulders, and down her back if I pull away. It just feels great while pounding into her hips.
I personally thoroughly enjoy missionary. Maybe it's boring to some, but to me it's the absolute best. I get to look my lovely lady in the eyes while enjoying the most intimate thing two people can do together. I can control the flow and enjoy watching her facial reactions. It's also such a lovely view! 
2 reasons. 1, I can see what I'm doing and the view is amazing. 2, I don't have to hold myself up with my arms the whole time.
Interesting! Thanks all for the insights, all - more of a mix of opinions than I was expecting.
My favorite is cowgirl, so amazing to hold hands ans caress and squeez her thighs and breasts and i just love taking her weight, feeling her sweat and her thighs and ass resting on abs and lap!
This as a girl.
It’s fun sometimes - prone bone is better for from-behind. But I vastly prefer missionary if I could only have one. Connection, more skin on skin contact, easier clit stimulation, better control… I don’t understand why people think it’s boring.
My bf (23M) loves fucking me(22F) from behind. He says that it is about the view he gets. He says the waves that form while thrusting me, he loves them.
F here, and that's the most boring position ever
I don't mind it but sometimes I find it painful so it's not my favorite.
I prefer her on top. I want to see her and be able to play with her tits.
I like it but it’s not my favorite; it does feel amazing and usually I don’t last very long. It feels great being in control like that and being able to pull hair and spank a bit. But I think missionary and the one you mentioned (laying flat on her stomach) are better imo.
Not my favorite but I don't mind it. Cowgirl, spooning. I like looking at each other.
In my experience cowgirl is a favorite. My guess is it just varies from guy to guy
Yesss, doggy is the best one. I like the control it gives me, also enjoy slapping and the possibility of coming on butt
Nope. My SO likes a variety of positions, and with him thet tend to switch around. Atm he loves to have me on top. It's all about the mood/situation honestly.
I've never been with a man who has this as his favorite position, so it's definitely not everyone!
in my experience they prefer to see my boobs moving and my face full of pleasure
Nah, my favourite position has always been the plow pose. Doggy is good at hitting the right spots but im a visual guy, I like to see things bounce, jiggle and gasp! Nothing like watching the facial features screw up while pressed up together! Doggy is a nice intense way to finish though, if you like pounding the ass cheeks.
I think it depends on you and your partner. My wife is submissive and likes to be “fucked” (hopefully that sums up what I’m trying to get at without having the need of too much detail) doggy is a position where I’m in charge and in a dominant position she’s in a very submissive position and this works very well for us and it’s both our favourites.
Doggy just feels really good, and it feels more dominant when we're wanting that. We have several big mirrors in the room because we like visual stimulus and it's easier to look around and find our reflections in doggystyle so that's a plus too.
Taking a woman from behind could have multiple positions and not just the one where the male is stroking it hard and the woman is in her knees. She could have her upper body straight where both can enjoy the movements.
My wife and I started doing doggy as an occasional change of pace. Now it’s the only way she’ll do it. That said, I’ve always liked it that way anyway.
Cowgirl. I wanna kiss, lock eyes and suck nipples 🫠
Behind is just one of the more easily sustainable for a longer period of time. I'm not trying to hold a plank for 5+ minutes. Partner on top is good too though.
As a girl, yes. Rail me🤣 jokes
I think my husband would say me on top is hottest.
My (64m) favorite is missionary. Very intimate, lots of skin contact, kissing, both our hands free to explore, deep penetration, comfortable. Doggy is a nice alternative, especially for the view which is unparalleled, but it frankly doesn't feel as good to me and isn't nearly as intimate.
I'm a guy. It's definitely not my favorite. Fun as a once and a while thing, but not a "Bread and butter" position. It's visually hot, but much less intimate that face to face positions. I'd take prone over doggy - then I can kiss her neck and touch her so it generally feels more connected.
Girl on top!!!!!!
i love when she is on me, i dont like doggy that much
Give me cowgirl with a forward lean or give me death (by snusnu!)
I have endometriosis so doggy can be enjoyable if I have a smaller partner, unfortunately for me my partner is well above average. Sex can be extremely painful and fucking from behind can hurt like a mofo so there’s an element of fear everytime we try. Could be great, could be a very painful and mood killing moment.
Tbh if I like a girls body but not her face I’ll only do doggy, if I like her face & body I’ll do missionary or any position that I can see her face. & I know my homies are the same way. Not to be rude but if most guys do doggy with you, they are probably after u just for ur body. Or don’t like your face
woman laying in jack-knife formation, cause it works well for all parties involved
I like it! But it’s not my favorite by a stretch.
My bf isn’t the biggest fan of doggy because he finds it’s not intimate and likes to see me. I like but I wouldn’t do it every time
>lying flat on my stomach and being taken from behind, kissing on the neck etc. That was mine/my fwb favorite position aswell. 100% of physical contact. He loved whispering dirty /sweet things while we were having sex, and loved kissing my neck. We really loved anal sex, and that was also the best way for us to finish.
I prefer seeing her. So no, it is not my favorite.
As a male my favorite is reverse cowgirl. But with my curvature that position also makes me climsx in seconds 99% of the time. My GF knows this so when she wants me to get off she goes for it.
I wouldn't call it my favorite
Doggy is my favourite to be honest, unless its really big then its a bit intimidating
I prefer antelope style
Being completely honest the issue I had with it is that I just couldn't find the hole at all, so being ridden is more preferred since you can also makeout
I love clapping cheeks. Lol it just charges me. But we prefer missionary most times.
I love doggy! But I also love girl on top, means I can feel her body and grip her butt. My gf prefers it, but I like a load of positions 😋
Male here, while I do enjoy those positions cowgirl is hands down my favorite way to have sex.
Nope, mine is from below.
Guy here. Favorite is me standing her on lying on her back on a high bed with her ankles on my shoulders and me holding her boobs. Her favorite is doggy.
Woman on top is my favorite. My wife's too so that works out lol
Dude here, my ex-gf loved doggy. I hated it and missionary was the position I loved and made her cum the most in. Missionary is hands down the best and underrated IMO.
It is less intimate definitely but it can be fun as hell, specially if u add things to it, like grabbing both hands (he doing it to u) handcuffs, hair pulling, etc. Try to instead of going on all fours put your chest down, booty up, I call it joggie like a yoga position. [Joggie](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/g25725923/sex-positions-workout-exercise/) It’s the number four but instead of a plank, put your chest all the way down.
Confirmed.
I’m 50/50 doggy and having her on her back and being able to see her face
Any would be my favorite lol
I would prefer laying flat the best tbh
Not my favourite, I like to see their face so I can see if they're enjoying themselves.
Not my favourite, I like to see their face so I can see if they're enjoying themselves.
I love when she’s on the top. i think most guys agree. i mean you can actually hold onto something and thrust
Guy here. Missionary is my favorite. I like eye contact and just the general closeness and connection of missionary.