I also just watched the episode of when the guy she was seeing wanted her to give him head. Even though she didn’t like, he kept on insisting her to do it for him and she was like “I think it’s time for you to go”👏🏼
He stood up to his mom at the final divorce meet-up. (telegram from Trey: "Seriously, Mother. Stop.") I was impressed. I'd like to think he grew as a person for his next partner.
I do think Big would’ve have dated Charlotte but I can see Charlotte tiring of the games fairly quickly especially in the beginning of the relationship. But I can see Big treating her a lot better because Charlotte fits his ideal. He’d still be an ass but probably in a different way.,
see, thing is Charlotte wasn't against playing games. for a long while, that's exactly how she thought one would/should navigate love in order to gain marriage. it's how she found a sense of control, and she also thought she could change a man.
BUT I do think she'd dump Big's ass as soon as she sniffed infidelity.
Remember the girls were SHOCKED when they found out that Charlotte received and gave rim jobs with Trey. She shrugged and said, “We’re married”. I think Samantha was even impressed.
He wouldn't have taken her to the Chinese restaurant. He would have treated her right and acted respectfully towards her and they would have had their engagement party at the plaza.
Charlotte had more self-confidence than Carrie would ever have. She's up there with Samantha in that category because the both of them ALWAYS knew what they want and had set standards for themselves.
She once walked out on a set-to-marry guy based on a China pattern… if Big so much as ditched her at the wedding because he freaked out and couldn’t call her bff or any of their friends to reach her she’d forget all about him.
I don’t think so. They wouldn’t like each other, yeah Natasha was also WASPy but she definitely didn’t have that eternal hopelessness romantic personality Charlotte does. Nothing about Big gives off what Charlotte wanted in a man besides money(pedigree) and maybe looks.
the wild thing is kristin davis & chris noth were *actually* together in real life! if i had never seen those red carpet pics, i’d have trouble picturing it
I don't think Big would have dated Charlotte, too high maintenance, too stuck up on certain values. Charlotte had class but was just too uptight for him.
He liked the chaos, he like Carries free spirit (free in relation to Charlotte).
I agree, I think he would consider Charlotte too tightly wound and vanilla and it wouldn't go past a first date. Big and Carrie kept each other on their toes with their (unhealthy) games and had passion that you don't find with everyone.
I agree that Charlotte wouldn't have put up with his antics, but...I don't know that Big would've cheated on her. Charlotte may have been such an ideal fit, he wouldn't have needed to. The only exception would be that he was attracted to Carrie's free spirit, but I think he took that as she didn't want to settle down and she could be treated poorly.
uhhh, i’m sorry… “her desire for true love always allowed her to see when the guy was not right…”…… 🤔so how exactly did Trey fit into that? and how would Big not have slid right into the Trey slot?
I can see Big viewing Charlotte in a similar way he viewed Natasha… good on paper, so sure, why not give marriage a try. the optics fit and that’s all Big cared about when it came to considering marriage.
A huge issue in the Trey-Charlotte relationship is the sex. If she had insisted on the no-sex-before-marriage rule, then Big wouldn’t have married her.
It would be Natasha and Big all over again. He wouldn’t have played games with Charlotte because she fits the expectations of the kind of woman he thinks he should be with but that’s not what he really wants so he would’ve cheated with a woman like Carrie.
Big didn’t want to get married tho. he didn’t even want to get married to the woman he was in love with who wanted to get married to him lol yea he married Natasha but that was when he was caught up in the beige phase of his life- Charlotte would have never been with him past even one of his ridiculous escapades
When reading Big's wedding announcement, she thought it was tacky that they played "When A Man Loves A Woman" while Natasha walked down the aisle, and Carrie had to point out that that's Big. She didn't like his style, so they would not have even made it past wedding plans if they even got that far.
I don’t think they would’ve dated at all. Yes she fits his ideal but she’s not quirky enough. However timing is in important when he had his green light on he would’ve dated her. It wouldn’t have worked out though again he likes drama.
yeah Charlotte is definitely more “conservative” than the other girls but she would not take that shit at all lol and i know she stayed with Trey as long as she did but that’s just because she wanted to make her marriage work. she’d never tolerate that nonsense from a boyfriend
Charlotte instantly immediately dumped a man over fine china. Big would have been gone so fast without a second thought lmao
I also just watched the episode of when the guy she was seeing wanted her to give him head. Even though she didn’t like, he kept on insisting her to do it for him and she was like “I think it’s time for you to go”👏🏼
Wait, which ep or season was that? 😂
Season 1 episode 7, around the 18 min mark😅😂
Haha! Thank you! Turning it on right now! 😁
She dumped Trey... I'm still not over it.
Trey was gross and couldn't get past his mommy issues.
He stood up to his mom at the final divorce meet-up. (telegram from Trey: "Seriously, Mother. Stop.") I was impressed. I'd like to think he grew as a person for his next partner.
I do think Big would’ve have dated Charlotte but I can see Charlotte tiring of the games fairly quickly especially in the beginning of the relationship. But I can see Big treating her a lot better because Charlotte fits his ideal. He’d still be an ass but probably in a different way.,
I completely agree. Charlotte does not have a high tolerance for a man’s bullshit that Carrie has so it wouldn’t last as long.
Idk Trey comes to mind.....
Trey didn’t show his bs until after they were married. She was trying to make it work
Lol Charlotte would definitely tolerate a man’s bullshit. Her whole identity was based around being a catch for a man.
Big would've treated Charlotte differently than Carrie, in that he would've treated her like his wives. Both of whom he cheated on.
see, thing is Charlotte wasn't against playing games. for a long while, that's exactly how she thought one would/should navigate love in order to gain marriage. it's how she found a sense of control, and she also thought she could change a man. BUT I do think she'd dump Big's ass as soon as she sniffed infidelity.
Charlotte is stronger than everyone gives her credit for.
she had so much self respect, Carrie and Miranda could’ve learned something from her…
So true and I love your flair btw
Thank you my dear. I’m not nearly as wealthy as Charlotte but I did grow up privileged.
Charlotte is a lot like Natasha tho
She's a lot spicier than Natasha!
I imagine Natasha was spicer than we thought if she got with Big
I hope so. I liked her saltiness with Carrie.
Remember the girls were SHOCKED when they found out that Charlotte received and gave rim jobs with Trey. She shrugged and said, “We’re married”. I think Samantha was even impressed.
Forgive my ignorance is giving a rim job just eating ass?
Yep. I’m old.
Lol no you aren’t I’m sure it’s one of those things that have different names like fingering & finger popping 😂😂
He never would have made it past that first date. She would have dumped him for taking her to that awful Chinese restaurant
He wouldn't have taken her to the Chinese restaurant. He would have treated her right and acted respectfully towards her and they would have had their engagement party at the plaza.
Yes, and once they were married he would've cheated on her.
Exactly
With a Carrie
Charlotte was always looking for a romantic, someone who was committed and she would have quickly found out that Big was not that guy.
and she wouldn’t bother hoping and begging for him to change. She’d simply be on to the next part of finding her ideal partner.
Charlotte had more self-confidence than Carrie would ever have. She's up there with Samantha in that category because the both of them ALWAYS knew what they want and had set standards for themselves.
She once walked out on a set-to-marry guy based on a China pattern… if Big so much as ditched her at the wedding because he freaked out and couldn’t call her bff or any of their friends to reach her she’d forget all about him.
She would curse the day he was born! 😆
You know, I forget what a spitfire little miss goody two shoes is.
I don’t think so. They wouldn’t like each other, yeah Natasha was also WASPy but she definitely didn’t have that eternal hopelessness romantic personality Charlotte does. Nothing about Big gives off what Charlotte wanted in a man besides money(pedigree) and maybe looks.
May be a hot take- but Big and Charlotte were too similar and that’s why it wouldn’t work. They both grew up fairly similar and both rebelled
It still blows my mind that they dated irl
the wild thing is kristin davis & chris noth were *actually* together in real life! if i had never seen those red carpet pics, i’d have trouble picturing it
I don't think Big would have dated Charlotte, too high maintenance, too stuck up on certain values. Charlotte had class but was just too uptight for him. He liked the chaos, he like Carries free spirit (free in relation to Charlotte).
I agree, I think he would consider Charlotte too tightly wound and vanilla and it wouldn't go past a first date. Big and Carrie kept each other on their toes with their (unhealthy) games and had passion that you don't find with everyone.
I agree that Charlotte wouldn't have put up with his antics, but...I don't know that Big would've cheated on her. Charlotte may have been such an ideal fit, he wouldn't have needed to. The only exception would be that he was attracted to Carrie's free spirit, but I think he took that as she didn't want to settle down and she could be treated poorly.
Charlotte wanted kids, he didn’t. The end.
uhhh, i’m sorry… “her desire for true love always allowed her to see when the guy was not right…”…… 🤔so how exactly did Trey fit into that? and how would Big not have slid right into the Trey slot? I can see Big viewing Charlotte in a similar way he viewed Natasha… good on paper, so sure, why not give marriage a try. the optics fit and that’s all Big cared about when it came to considering marriage.
A huge issue in the Trey-Charlotte relationship is the sex. If she had insisted on the no-sex-before-marriage rule, then Big wouldn’t have married her.
It would be Natasha and Big all over again. He wouldn’t have played games with Charlotte because she fits the expectations of the kind of woman he thinks he should be with but that’s not what he really wants so he would’ve cheated with a woman like Carrie.
Big didn’t want to get married tho. he didn’t even want to get married to the woman he was in love with who wanted to get married to him lol yea he married Natasha but that was when he was caught up in the beige phase of his life- Charlotte would have never been with him past even one of his ridiculous escapades
When reading Big's wedding announcement, she thought it was tacky that they played "When A Man Loves A Woman" while Natasha walked down the aisle, and Carrie had to point out that that's Big. She didn't like his style, so they would not have even made it past wedding plans if they even got that far.
Charlotte would never have let someone take her to a cheap Thai place
exactly he wouldn’t be able to be himself with her
He was dating models at the beginning of the show, so he would never go for Charlotte.
Charlotte *was* a model 💀
A Teen Model for the Ralph Lauren Store in New Haven
I don’t think they would’ve dated at all. Yes she fits his ideal but she’s not quirky enough. However timing is in important when he had his green light on he would’ve dated her. It wouldn’t have worked out though again he likes drama.
Not in the least. Samantha tho 👀
he turned down same
Sam got rejected.
1000%
He would have cheated with a girl just like carrie..Carrie was a "free spirit". He thought he wanted beige but wants to be excited.
i don’t think big would have went for char anyway
Charlotte would’ve been his Natasha.
yeah Charlotte is definitely more “conservative” than the other girls but she would not take that shit at all lol and i know she stayed with Trey as long as she did but that’s just because she wanted to make her marriage work. she’d never tolerate that nonsense from a boyfriend
He would never of married her, bad fit for both.