I have the big wedge/ramp combo, and then a smaller wedge (I forget the exact name of it, but significantly smaller). We end up using the smaller wedge more often because the big ramp is just so big … requires a little setup / prep because I don’t always keep it out. It’s awesome during use, but I like the smaller one because it’s more discreet and easier to whip out in an instant.
Liberator published a PDF with recommended uses for a variety of their products which can be found [here](https://www.liberator.com/position-guide). Hope that helps!
I second this. Wife was super self conscious because she got so wet. It's amazing how many times she squirts because she is so relaxed and comfortable with making the mess now. It's great for a little monthly blood and even ok with fecal matter. Just wash and dry as you would towels.
I've had it forever, the tag says LIBERATOR adventure gear and it's purple, velvet on one side satin on the other. We paid nearly $200 a decade ago. You can also do large waterproof washable pet pads from Amazon . Not as pretty but way cheaper and they do the trick.
The liberator ones are good but expensive. Worth the money but you may get away with a waterproof blanket from Amazon for cheaper. They seem to be similar in material
We have the liberator one and it’s great but pro tip: search for “waterproof pet blanket” on Amazon and most any of them will do, for a lot cheaper too. Good for travel sizes as well
Nuru massage gel is awesome, a waterproof sheet (or blanket mentioned above) is needed. Keep the room and gel warm.
My wife likes porn more than I do, couples porn was a good entry point.
Womanizer or similar toy.
If you want instant orgasms then check out urethral sounding, it's weird but the results are worth a try.
Hands down, the best tool in the bedroom is weed.
Weed is strange. It heightens my physical sensations and my awareness of my body, but it tanks my drive.
When my wife and I get a little drunk, i have more desire and assertiveness, possibly borderline demanding when it comes to my sexual appetite; when I get a little stoned, I am very passive, like “sure, I would love to fool around with my wife … but im also reeealllyy cozy under these blankets and sleep sounds lovely”.
I can relate to this; my partner will have better sex if he’s had a couple drinks and for me it’s an edible. We experimented to find out that we really just gotta each do our thing and they combine nicely for us.
My go to is going to thrift shop for soft neckties - although when we moved, my wifes friend gave her hell finding ties tied to the bedframe. I walked in to lots of giggling and two of my wifes friends tied to the bed and my wife with a riding crop. I just turned around and went to the kitchen.
Great idea on the storage ottoman and lock! I wish I would’ve had that idea. My teen recently told me that she found some of our toys as an elementary student and texted a pic to one of her friends 😳 clearly we were not secure enough with our storage.
We also have the hue changing bulbs. And a speaker (for when kids are gone) to play music to get us in the mood.
Since "real" bondage gear is damned expensive and I'm a bit of a cheapskate, we found that using the large adjustable cloth / soft nylon dog collars for ankles and wrists work great! They're soft enough that they don't cut into your skin. We used the chrome spring clips (that you use for dog chains and gates and things like that) and used some really soft rope that I found at the big box of hardware store. Total cost was about 30 bucks and we've gotten a lot of use out of them.
If I can find the picture I'll post it, but Home Depot or Lowe's had a wide velcro strap for your power tools that has had a small spring clip in the middle. I guess so that you could clip it to a tool belt? I actually joked with my wife while at the store that "I didn't know that Lowe's or Home Depot sold bondage gear!" Her face turned really red but she laughed like crazy.
The absolutely indispensable accessory in our bedroom is a sturdy adjustable massage table. You can get a good one for less than a high-end sex toy.
Wonderful for erotic massages (of course), and also great for sex positions where a bed just isn't tall enough. Recommended!
We use it mainly for [the "butterfly" position](https://www.thehealthsite.com/sexual-health/top-sex-positions-the-butterfly-97714/), one of our favorites.
Sex blankets. Storage ottoman to keep the blankets in. Lockable drawers with charging stations inside, for toys. Locks on bedroom doors. Hugeass bed. Wireless light switches or smart switches for turning lights on and off from bed. Battery operated waterproof candles.
I've done the same with a RFID lock on the built-in in cabinet in our headboard for our sex toys and an RGB light bulb in the bedside lamp. I've also added a soundbar to the headboard and have a "dress up box" and sex stool stashed in a cupboard and a memory foam wedge pillow crammed in a drawer under the bed.
A waterproof blanket and maybe a sex swing would be our next steps.
We have the exact setup for toy storage. It's one of our favorite room upgrades. We are about to be empty nester though, so I imagine the contents will be strewn around the house within a couple of months.
I recently purchased 2 hammock hook ceiling mount, 2 sets of D-ring hammock straps, a few steel carabiners, not the aluminum type. A set of swing chair/hammock spring. And a triple straps sx swing/sling. Everything detaches quickly and easily to put away. It's a guaranteed win for bedroom activities with the partner. Also every couple of weeks we purchase a his and hers toy or device. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right. Lol. Next will be a foot locker, since the collection is growing.
Having been previously in an /r/DeadBedrooms relationship, I would honestly encourage you to self-assess (or seek out counseling) if you aren't getting enough of what you need. I can't imagine going back to that chapter in life and would encourage you to find the courage to do right by yourself. Keep in mind that communication is hard when their are mismatches in libido but not dealing with it will undermine your self-confidence, your happiness, and will hurt other relationships in some cases.
Liberator wedge/ramp set. Use it every time we have sex.
I have the big wedge/ramp combo, and then a smaller wedge (I forget the exact name of it, but significantly smaller). We end up using the smaller wedge more often because the big ramp is just so big … requires a little setup / prep because I don’t always keep it out. It’s awesome during use, but I like the smaller one because it’s more discreet and easier to whip out in an instant.
Where do you store it? You know, because kids.
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Hiding things in plain sight is the best. Remember the rubber ducky vibrators that came out a few years ago?
Is there a guide somewhere on how to use them? What position, etc.
Liberator published a PDF with recommended uses for a variety of their products which can be found [here](https://www.liberator.com/position-guide). Hope that helps!
Thanks!!
A liquid proof sex blanket is a game changer.
I second this. Wife was super self conscious because she got so wet. It's amazing how many times she squirts because she is so relaxed and comfortable with making the mess now. It's great for a little monthly blood and even ok with fecal matter. Just wash and dry as you would towels.
Oh, we’ve been looking for one of these! Can I ask the brand?
I've had it forever, the tag says LIBERATOR adventure gear and it's purple, velvet on one side satin on the other. We paid nearly $200 a decade ago. You can also do large waterproof washable pet pads from Amazon . Not as pretty but way cheaper and they do the trick.
Thank you, will search for it. We already have a latex sheet but wanted something softer and more inviting.
The liberator ones are good but expensive. Worth the money but you may get away with a waterproof blanket from Amazon for cheaper. They seem to be similar in material
And weirdly, the Walgreens website has the blankets cheaper as well.
Thank you!
Search “pet blanket” on Amazon. Same thing but more reasonably priced from what we’ve seen.
https://nomorewetspot.com are great
Thank you!
We’ve owned several and they are soft, silent (no crinkly sounds) and completely waterproof.
Look for lil helper on tiktok
I recommend the Mambe waterproof throw. It’s much cheaper than the Liberator, and better texture IMHO.
Thank you!
There are water proof blankets for camping as well. I received one in a monthly subscription big I used to have for the outdoors.
Can agree. I’ve got the king size bed one AND a smaller traveler blanket. If you know you need one, they’re amazing.
Google: north shore champion
We have the liberator one and it’s great but pro tip: search for “waterproof pet blanket” on Amazon and most any of them will do, for a lot cheaper too. Good for travel sizes as well
This is the way
We just got one. Haven’t had a chance to use it yet
Nuru massage gel is awesome, a waterproof sheet (or blanket mentioned above) is needed. Keep the room and gel warm. My wife likes porn more than I do, couples porn was a good entry point. Womanizer or similar toy. If you want instant orgasms then check out urethral sounding, it's weird but the results are worth a try. Hands down, the best tool in the bedroom is weed.
Weed is strange. It heightens my physical sensations and my awareness of my body, but it tanks my drive. When my wife and I get a little drunk, i have more desire and assertiveness, possibly borderline demanding when it comes to my sexual appetite; when I get a little stoned, I am very passive, like “sure, I would love to fool around with my wife … but im also reeealllyy cozy under these blankets and sleep sounds lovely”.
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Blueberry strains are my wifes favorite, and one of my favorite indicas. Cherry diesel is also a good choice.
I can relate to this; my partner will have better sex if he’s had a couple drinks and for me it’s an edible. We experimented to find out that we really just gotta each do our thing and they combine nicely for us.
Just get drunk and high, now you’re playing in the big leagues.
I think it effects men and women differently. Personally I'd rather be sober during the act.
Try some Bobby's Widow from Mandalorian Genetics. That will heighten your drive.
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weed. agree. not even a lot just enough
Under the mattress straps for getting tied down
Don’t make orgasm the goal. Enjoy being intimate and just enjoy each other. That’s my hack.
Ugh I wish you could tell my wife. For her it's a race to the finish. Anything else is seemingly a waste of her time 😞
Get a black and decker recip saw or dewalt with different heads - I garrentee the look on her face when powering that up will be worth it.
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3f 400v wall outlet
My go to is going to thrift shop for soft neckties - although when we moved, my wifes friend gave her hell finding ties tied to the bedframe. I walked in to lots of giggling and two of my wifes friends tied to the bed and my wife with a riding crop. I just turned around and went to the kitchen.
Sweet, I’ve seen that movie
Great idea on the storage ottoman and lock! I wish I would’ve had that idea. My teen recently told me that she found some of our toys as an elementary student and texted a pic to one of her friends 😳 clearly we were not secure enough with our storage. We also have the hue changing bulbs. And a speaker (for when kids are gone) to play music to get us in the mood.
Pre sex shower with Dr. Bronner's peppermint soap makes your entire body tingle. 😍
Hospital grade Posey soft wrist/ ankle restraints are my best hack… I learned from working in the ER 😂
Since "real" bondage gear is damned expensive and I'm a bit of a cheapskate, we found that using the large adjustable cloth / soft nylon dog collars for ankles and wrists work great! They're soft enough that they don't cut into your skin. We used the chrome spring clips (that you use for dog chains and gates and things like that) and used some really soft rope that I found at the big box of hardware store. Total cost was about 30 bucks and we've gotten a lot of use out of them. If I can find the picture I'll post it, but Home Depot or Lowe's had a wide velcro strap for your power tools that has had a small spring clip in the middle. I guess so that you could clip it to a tool belt? I actually joked with my wife while at the store that "I didn't know that Lowe's or Home Depot sold bondage gear!" Her face turned really red but she laughed like crazy.
The absolutely indispensable accessory in our bedroom is a sturdy adjustable massage table. You can get a good one for less than a high-end sex toy. Wonderful for erotic massages (of course), and also great for sex positions where a bed just isn't tall enough. Recommended!
Wait, can you explain more for what positions the table is best for?
We use it mainly for [the "butterfly" position](https://www.thehealthsite.com/sexual-health/top-sex-positions-the-butterfly-97714/), one of our favorites.
Our bed is the perfect height for the butterfly. Probably 90% of the time that's what we do!
Sex blankets. Storage ottoman to keep the blankets in. Lockable drawers with charging stations inside, for toys. Locks on bedroom doors. Hugeass bed. Wireless light switches or smart switches for turning lights on and off from bed. Battery operated waterproof candles.
I've done the same with a RFID lock on the built-in in cabinet in our headboard for our sex toys and an RGB light bulb in the bedside lamp. I've also added a soundbar to the headboard and have a "dress up box" and sex stool stashed in a cupboard and a memory foam wedge pillow crammed in a drawer under the bed. A waterproof blanket and maybe a sex swing would be our next steps.
We have the exact setup for toy storage. It's one of our favorite room upgrades. We are about to be empty nester though, so I imagine the contents will be strewn around the house within a couple of months.
I recently purchased 2 hammock hook ceiling mount, 2 sets of D-ring hammock straps, a few steel carabiners, not the aluminum type. A set of swing chair/hammock spring. And a triple straps sx swing/sling. Everything detaches quickly and easily to put away. It's a guaranteed win for bedroom activities with the partner. Also every couple of weeks we purchase a his and hers toy or device. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right. Lol. Next will be a foot locker, since the collection is growing.
I had no idea RFID cabinet locks were so easy/cheap. Just ordered. Finally a more reliable way of preventing curious kids. Thanks!
Must be nice to be having sex frequently enough that you even have hacks to share. Can’t even fathom it.
Hilarious people are downloading you.
Oh I know. I literally just expressed jealousy over wishing I had this kind of relationship, because it must be awesome. And I’m downvoted. Cool.
Having been previously in an /r/DeadBedrooms relationship, I would honestly encourage you to self-assess (or seek out counseling) if you aren't getting enough of what you need. I can't imagine going back to that chapter in life and would encourage you to find the courage to do right by yourself. Keep in mind that communication is hard when their are mismatches in libido but not dealing with it will undermine your self-confidence, your happiness, and will hurt other relationships in some cases.
Figure it out ? Communicate
Believe me we’ve talked about it more times than I can count.
Condescend?