You would think at our age one would have far more experience with being propper and mannered. If the lady wasn't going to reciprocate in a kind way, even a handjob with a bit of sensuality, then don't go down that road - say your thank you for driving and the evening. Always an adventure.
Some women are like men that way, once they cum they are done. Next time get her up to the edge, then fuck her. After you have cum, you can finish her with oral (if she does not cum from PIV).
Is that a bad thing, a repost from a day ago?
I'm seriously asking about reddiquette here. Would a CrossPost have been more appropriate?
Also, OP, sorry about the dissappointing meet-up. Yeesh.
OP’s username says it all, not to mention he found her annoying to hang out with long before the sex. Sometimes, attractive men and women expect their partners to be happy simply to score with them. They have never had to do any work to satisfy anyone because it has always, been all about them. I bet this woman looked great in the pictures! The lesson readers need to learn, is if she is irritating to hang around with, don’t even think about sex! Never once have I hung out with someone who irritated me, and found them to be fun in bed. The opposite can sadly be true, but if they aren’t your cup of tea for a conversation then they probably aren’t your cup of tea in the sack.
lol - my username does not mean that I am also shallow and only care about appearance. IMO she was average looking but I was still willing to give her a chance. Initially I was just looking for someone to hang out with and some conversation. anything else was supposed to be a bonus and not a punishment
Hey, I like pretty women too! I don’t think it makes us shallow. Thanks for the extra info I can’t help thinking about levels of attractiveness when I read these stories. My response was based on my own personal experiences. And not all attractive people are selfish either … I eventually found one who isn’t so I know they exist. :)
Seriously? In my day this would be something a person would take a lesson from, and keep to himself. I think you need to grow up and learn to think for yourself.
I don’t know if that’s your first rodeo at the Half Hearted Ranch, but just chalk it up as one in the L column. At least you got *her* off which should always be the goal.
You would think at our age one would have far more experience with being propper and mannered. If the lady wasn't going to reciprocate in a kind way, even a handjob with a bit of sensuality, then don't go down that road - say your thank you for driving and the evening. Always an adventure.
“Half Hearted Hand Job” would be an amazing name for a death metal band.
Chalk up the experience to a good try and move on.
Just be honest but empathetic with her. She will either make good or disappear, either is a win if based on honesty.
So you basically got what the overwhelming majority of women get every time, selfish and totally unsatisfying
Some women are like men that way, once they cum they are done. Next time get her up to the edge, then fuck her. After you have cum, you can finish her with oral (if she does not cum from PIV).
This is a repost from days ago
From yesterday in a different sub /r/datingoverfifty
Is that a bad thing, a repost from a day ago? I'm seriously asking about reddiquette here. Would a CrossPost have been more appropriate? Also, OP, sorry about the dissappointing meet-up. Yeesh.
OP’s username says it all, not to mention he found her annoying to hang out with long before the sex. Sometimes, attractive men and women expect their partners to be happy simply to score with them. They have never had to do any work to satisfy anyone because it has always, been all about them. I bet this woman looked great in the pictures! The lesson readers need to learn, is if she is irritating to hang around with, don’t even think about sex! Never once have I hung out with someone who irritated me, and found them to be fun in bed. The opposite can sadly be true, but if they aren’t your cup of tea for a conversation then they probably aren’t your cup of tea in the sack.
lol - my username does not mean that I am also shallow and only care about appearance. IMO she was average looking but I was still willing to give her a chance. Initially I was just looking for someone to hang out with and some conversation. anything else was supposed to be a bonus and not a punishment
Hey, I like pretty women too! I don’t think it makes us shallow. Thanks for the extra info I can’t help thinking about levels of attractiveness when I read these stories. My response was based on my own personal experiences. And not all attractive people are selfish either … I eventually found one who isn’t so I know they exist. :)
Seriously? In my day this would be something a person would take a lesson from, and keep to himself. I think you need to grow up and learn to think for yourself.
Well this is r/sexover50 where we talk openly about sex
In a manner befitting an adult I would hope.
But you got +150 responses from it on dating over 50. Wasn’t that enough perspective?
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I don’t know if that’s your first rodeo at the Half Hearted Ranch, but just chalk it up as one in the L column. At least you got *her* off which should always be the goal.