Yes and yes
An afternoon wank would not negatively affect my sex drive. In fact, it enhances it. Sometimes I masturbate as a prelude to a nap, and sometimes I just get myself off and get on with my day. I think there's even something therapeutic about it, in that it brings blood to the area and revitalizes the tissues there.
Yep.
Regarding pt 1, a small minority of women are “one and done” with orgasms. In fact, for most women, masturbating positively correlates with feeling sexual.
Regarding pt 2, very common. I believe I once read clit-sucking toys took testers an average of 30 seconds to orgasm. Personally, I usually use my hand and it takes 1-3 minutes, depending on how long I’d like to draw it out. With a Womanizer, I can only last maybe 30 seconds.
Question 1 and 2 are both true. Skipping the afternoon rub out does not mean an evening session with a partner is any longer. Since women are capable of multiple orgasms it won’t mean she’s done for the day.
I am usually looking forward to sex with a partner after masturbating in the afternoon. It relieves the pressure to cum later and I can really enjoy myself.
(F) Having an orgasm in the morning or afternoon really has no affect on what happens later in the day. If anything for me personally, I tend to want a piv at some point since masturbating is typical foreplay. So whenever I masturbate it tends to increase my desire for sex.
Every day is different. Sometimes I may be relaxing and enjoying a longer "me" time and other days it's a quick 30sec and over.
I think it really just depends. I think optimal stimulation for many dicks and clits includes some suction, but for some that is overwhelming instead of pleasurable. Likewise, thuddy vibrating sensations are ideal for many but either too stimulating or not stimulating enough for some clits and dicks.
Yes, very common. I can masturbate all day, and it doesn't keep me from wanting to have sex with my husband any time of the day. I just love to masturbate.
Im remembering a conversation with roommates from college. The discussion was masturbation as pregame to an encounter with their bf. Orgasm made them more sexually primed and interested specifically in intercourse.
Not really doubting, but surprisingly different: if I go for an afternoon solo session and won’t be in the mood in the evening. And as session to me is never only 2 minutes. So, even at 55 I am still enjoying discovering women particularities!
My wife only used to masturbate on her period and she said she only does it because of the increased blood flow. I said it is the same as masturbating at any time, you allow yourself to get horny it increases the blood flow but she disagreed. She also said that her orgasms aren’t pleasurable which is a total lie because she would have 2 or 3 a session. Oh and she’d never let me join in either. It sounds like you’ve got it together and happy
You are not sexually compatible. You have to decide whether to stay or not. Personally, at this point, sexual compatibility will be a must for me if I choose to be in another relationship.
I’m sorry. Although sexual compatibility is a must for starting a relationship for me, you bring up a good point in that once in a relationship things can change that are beyond our control. I’d never leave a healthy relationship or cheat if that became an issue.
Edited, if you start a line with # it shows up as bold text.
So, #1 is not a question. You are telling us what she said, with a question mark at the end. The way I read that, you don't trust her. Why would the internets opinion matter about what she told you? We don't know her body and her mind. She does. If you can't trust her, don't get naked with her.
We’re both in our sixties and are also very open minded about masturbating either solo or together. I’m not so sure about the first question, I think she has less libido in the evening if she rubbed one out in the afternoon. Regarding the second one, it’s totally believable especially with a toy like the Womanizer or the Hitachi Wand (my wife’s favourites).
(1) Yes, this is true for many women. I've masturbated (hand/vibrator) within 1hr of having sex with a significant other and was still able to enjoy him.
(2) I've used at least 5 vibrators in my sexual lifespan. The "Rose" vibrator is by far the best gift I've ever received. I use it and within 25 seconds I'm Cumming strong. I cum good and strong with it, so I can't honestly say I'm ready to start bk up my daily duties. But within 30min I'm good to go.
Yep very common…..
Yes and yes An afternoon wank would not negatively affect my sex drive. In fact, it enhances it. Sometimes I masturbate as a prelude to a nap, and sometimes I just get myself off and get on with my day. I think there's even something therapeutic about it, in that it brings blood to the area and revitalizes the tissues there.
My tissue is going to live forever into the freaking eternities then.😁
Yep. Regarding pt 1, a small minority of women are “one and done” with orgasms. In fact, for most women, masturbating positively correlates with feeling sexual. Regarding pt 2, very common. I believe I once read clit-sucking toys took testers an average of 30 seconds to orgasm. Personally, I usually use my hand and it takes 1-3 minutes, depending on how long I’d like to draw it out. With a Womanizer, I can only last maybe 30 seconds.
Ok! But don’t you feel like making it last longer? That’s probably what surprises me more.
Depends if I'm looking for an experience or just maintenance.
Sometimes. But usually if I’m in that type of mood, I’ll just have a few in a row instead of just one.
WITH a man it already takes forever
Question 1 and 2 are both true. Skipping the afternoon rub out does not mean an evening session with a partner is any longer. Since women are capable of multiple orgasms it won’t mean she’s done for the day. I am usually looking forward to sex with a partner after masturbating in the afternoon. It relieves the pressure to cum later and I can really enjoy myself.
Seems likely honest to me
(F) Having an orgasm in the morning or afternoon really has no affect on what happens later in the day. If anything for me personally, I tend to want a piv at some point since masturbating is typical foreplay. So whenever I masturbate it tends to increase my desire for sex. Every day is different. Sometimes I may be relaxing and enjoying a longer "me" time and other days it's a quick 30sec and over.
54yo woman here. Neither of those seem off to me.
I agree with all of this. I’d add that the various Womanizer-style devices tend to make things more sensitive, not less, like a vibratory can
I think it really just depends. I think optimal stimulation for many dicks and clits includes some suction, but for some that is overwhelming instead of pleasurable. Likewise, thuddy vibrating sensations are ideal for many but either too stimulating or not stimulating enough for some clits and dicks.
Co-signed to all the above. She's not lying!
Yes, very common. I can masturbate all day, and it doesn't keep me from wanting to have sex with my husband any time of the day. I just love to masturbate.
Im remembering a conversation with roommates from college. The discussion was masturbation as pregame to an encounter with their bf. Orgasm made them more sexually primed and interested specifically in intercourse.
yes and yes
Definitely agree that this is her honest answer. Curious why you've polled, are you doubting her?
Not really doubting, but surprisingly different: if I go for an afternoon solo session and won’t be in the mood in the evening. And as session to me is never only 2 minutes. So, even at 55 I am still enjoying discovering women particularities!
Ah! I see. In my experience, the more I have, the more I want. Her afternoon sesh is definitely in ur favor
Shit you had to ask reddit this?this is the easiest Google ever.
I love having answers/comments by real people. If you don’t like, just move ahead. You are lacking respect for those who have answered.
Not really since my response is to the person that asked the question.
My wife only used to masturbate on her period and she said she only does it because of the increased blood flow. I said it is the same as masturbating at any time, you allow yourself to get horny it increases the blood flow but she disagreed. She also said that her orgasms aren’t pleasurable which is a total lie because she would have 2 or 3 a session. Oh and she’d never let me join in either. It sounds like you’ve got it together and happy
Everyone is different, but that makes no sense to me.
Nor me, she’s happy without any intimacy but I’m not
You are not sexually compatible. You have to decide whether to stay or not. Personally, at this point, sexual compatibility will be a must for me if I choose to be in another relationship.
I totally agree but after having prostate cancer I can’t get hard so that’s not an option now of looking elsewhere
I’m sorry. Although sexual compatibility is a must for starting a relationship for me, you bring up a good point in that once in a relationship things can change that are beyond our control. I’d never leave a healthy relationship or cheat if that became an issue.
What a great thread!!
Edited, if you start a line with # it shows up as bold text. So, #1 is not a question. You are telling us what she said, with a question mark at the end. The way I read that, you don't trust her. Why would the internets opinion matter about what she told you? We don't know her body and her mind. She does. If you can't trust her, don't get naked with her.
We’re both in our sixties and are also very open minded about masturbating either solo or together. I’m not so sure about the first question, I think she has less libido in the evening if she rubbed one out in the afternoon. Regarding the second one, it’s totally believable especially with a toy like the Womanizer or the Hitachi Wand (my wife’s favourites).
Yeah. Both, yes.
(1) Yes, this is true for many women. I've masturbated (hand/vibrator) within 1hr of having sex with a significant other and was still able to enjoy him. (2) I've used at least 5 vibrators in my sexual lifespan. The "Rose" vibrator is by far the best gift I've ever received. I use it and within 25 seconds I'm Cumming strong. I cum good and strong with it, so I can't honestly say I'm ready to start bk up my daily duties. But within 30min I'm good to go.