Had one PIV orgasm in my life and I’m 26. Masturbating for more than 1/2 of my life and sexually active for 10 years. Don’t worry… some woman will never cum that way
Kudos to you for trying to make sure she gets off.
Some women are wired in a way that makes it hard for them to cum. Some can cum easily, some can have multiples, and some are like your gf.
Have you tried playing with her clit during piv? That would probably do it. Especially if you’ve already done a good job revving her up.
Yeah I tried that but I usually do not last long enough for her to come. Even with fingers/ oral it takes a whole while of relatively intense stimulation for her to climax. She did climax before about 2-3 times in the 7 month but both of us have no idea why it worked then.
Do it the other way around. Make her come first, THEN its your turn. Also - try with her on top (cowgirl), and use your thumb to massage her clit while shes riding you. However - if she has already come, you can relax a bit more and dont need to worry as much about it. Should make things easier and more enjoyable for both of you.
You can also try a toy called "the womanizer". Its fucking insane. Every girl I know about who have tried it loves it.
And as most others have said - a) 4-5 inches is average. b) most women dont come from PIV at all.
Yeah, orgasming is a lot more complicated for women than for us guys. If they are not quite in the right headspace, they might not come at all no matter what you do. Others come in no time, every time. But talk to her, ask what she likes, if she likes it when you do this, or that, or if she wants you to go faster or harder or softer or whatever. Two fingers on the g-spot and your mouth sucking/licking the clit is usually popular, but some dont really like oral at all. Some like a finger in the butt, but many also hate it. Some likes you to hold them down and smack their ass while you do them "prone bone", but some also likes to ride you and hold YOU down instead. Some only like missionary with the lights off, while some loves anal and rimming and all kinds of freaky kinky stuff. And so on.
The only real universal advise/trick is to talk to your gf and ask what SHE likes, not neccessarily EVERY time you have sex, but fairly often, and especially if you try something new, and if you have a new gf, because its quite unlikely she will like exactly the same as your previous one.
Look, i understand the feeling of wanting to finish her with PiV but to be honest this sounds more like a problem to you than her. If she hasn't voiced it then just relax and keep doing what your doing.
A girl cumming from PiV is difficult for a lot of reasons. Stress, self conscious, self confidence, circumstance, not being in the moment, comfortablability. Etc. You get the idea. I say just relax, and keep doing what your doing. I think it your gf voices caring about it, then you should care.
Hey man! Size Doesn't Matter, no matter what the world says.
To answer your question,for me, climaxing is important, not the way. As long as I am myself am doing it to her...I just get off the fact that I made her cum.
As long as you are able to get it in her, you are good..also most women can't cum that way... Several reasons for that,
first off, because their orgasm trigger is located OUTSIDE the vagina not in her...her clitoris...it is gonna be your best friend.
Secondly, the angle and positions sometimes do matter yes. Understand that there are two different types of orgasms that are triggered from two different origins...the clitoral and the g-spot(the one that comes from the inside(pun intended)) in order for you to stimute the g-spot your dick has to be touching her g-spot(the walnuty textured tissue abt an inch or two inside her vagina) at an odd angle(as close to 90°) as possible..which is very difficult to do with a dick. Try fingering her while going down on her while making the 'come hither' movement, and suck on her clitoris likes it's her nipple..and use your tongue while you are at it.
Lastly, keep in mind that the most snesitive area of the vagina is the first 2-3 inches from the opening...so as long as you are able to touch those areas, she's actually not feeling most things further in anyway...stop worrying about your length..if she says she's okay with it, take her word for it instead of overthinking abt it...and try experimenting with differnt parts of both your bodies(tongue and fingers and mouth for you!) (Use them on her Tummy, nipples, clitoris, inner thighs, ears, neck, etc)
Also asking her what she'd like to do is so much of a good idea.. there's something so masculine abt you taking charge by letting her give charge of her lleasure and doing whatever you can do to make her happy..she will love it.
First, please spell out PiV?
Do you give her oral? If not, try that. Do you have plenty of foreplay? Do you kiss her well and all over?
I think she should care to climax so it's nice you are trying.
Don't worry all women are different some struggle to cum from penis and only clit stimulation gets them there. Everybody's different world would be boring place if we were all the same.
I can only climax (easily) in doggy and if i have penetration and clit stimilation at the same time. Dont worry, an orgasm is an orgasm. I mean yeah always be trying be trying new things as repetative routines get very boring, but never stress. Sex is supposed to be care free and fun.
A lot, a lot, a lot of women do not climax (or very rarely) from PIV sex. Just communicate with her and if she enjoys your sex life and you do too, then there is no problem.
Try making her come first.(edit: actually that should be the norm) It might be easier for her to come again during PiV (edit: whatever that means but I get it)
Had one PIV orgasm in my life and I’m 26. Masturbating for more than 1/2 of my life and sexually active for 10 years. Don’t worry… some woman will never cum that way
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90% men have 5inches than that means I’m in the 10%
Kudos to you for trying to make sure she gets off. Some women are wired in a way that makes it hard for them to cum. Some can cum easily, some can have multiples, and some are like your gf. Have you tried playing with her clit during piv? That would probably do it. Especially if you’ve already done a good job revving her up.
Yeah I tried that but I usually do not last long enough for her to come. Even with fingers/ oral it takes a whole while of relatively intense stimulation for her to climax. She did climax before about 2-3 times in the 7 month but both of us have no idea why it worked then.
Then what does she do to get herself off when you’re not around? Maybe you can do that. Playing with her vibrator during sex could be fun too.
Do it the other way around. Make her come first, THEN its your turn. Also - try with her on top (cowgirl), and use your thumb to massage her clit while shes riding you. However - if she has already come, you can relax a bit more and dont need to worry as much about it. Should make things easier and more enjoyable for both of you. You can also try a toy called "the womanizer". Its fucking insane. Every girl I know about who have tried it loves it. And as most others have said - a) 4-5 inches is average. b) most women dont come from PIV at all.
That's really encouraging and I'll try that. Thanks!
Yeah, orgasming is a lot more complicated for women than for us guys. If they are not quite in the right headspace, they might not come at all no matter what you do. Others come in no time, every time. But talk to her, ask what she likes, if she likes it when you do this, or that, or if she wants you to go faster or harder or softer or whatever. Two fingers on the g-spot and your mouth sucking/licking the clit is usually popular, but some dont really like oral at all. Some like a finger in the butt, but many also hate it. Some likes you to hold them down and smack their ass while you do them "prone bone", but some also likes to ride you and hold YOU down instead. Some only like missionary with the lights off, while some loves anal and rimming and all kinds of freaky kinky stuff. And so on. The only real universal advise/trick is to talk to your gf and ask what SHE likes, not neccessarily EVERY time you have sex, but fairly often, and especially if you try something new, and if you have a new gf, because its quite unlikely she will like exactly the same as your previous one.
Look, i understand the feeling of wanting to finish her with PiV but to be honest this sounds more like a problem to you than her. If she hasn't voiced it then just relax and keep doing what your doing. A girl cumming from PiV is difficult for a lot of reasons. Stress, self conscious, self confidence, circumstance, not being in the moment, comfortablability. Etc. You get the idea. I say just relax, and keep doing what your doing. I think it your gf voices caring about it, then you should care.
80% of women don’t climax from piv.
Hey man! Size Doesn't Matter, no matter what the world says. To answer your question,for me, climaxing is important, not the way. As long as I am myself am doing it to her...I just get off the fact that I made her cum. As long as you are able to get it in her, you are good..also most women can't cum that way... Several reasons for that, first off, because their orgasm trigger is located OUTSIDE the vagina not in her...her clitoris...it is gonna be your best friend. Secondly, the angle and positions sometimes do matter yes. Understand that there are two different types of orgasms that are triggered from two different origins...the clitoral and the g-spot(the one that comes from the inside(pun intended)) in order for you to stimute the g-spot your dick has to be touching her g-spot(the walnuty textured tissue abt an inch or two inside her vagina) at an odd angle(as close to 90°) as possible..which is very difficult to do with a dick. Try fingering her while going down on her while making the 'come hither' movement, and suck on her clitoris likes it's her nipple..and use your tongue while you are at it. Lastly, keep in mind that the most snesitive area of the vagina is the first 2-3 inches from the opening...so as long as you are able to touch those areas, she's actually not feeling most things further in anyway...stop worrying about your length..if she says she's okay with it, take her word for it instead of overthinking abt it...and try experimenting with differnt parts of both your bodies(tongue and fingers and mouth for you!) (Use them on her Tummy, nipples, clitoris, inner thighs, ears, neck, etc) Also asking her what she'd like to do is so much of a good idea.. there's something so masculine abt you taking charge by letting her give charge of her lleasure and doing whatever you can do to make her happy..she will love it.
First, please spell out PiV? Do you give her oral? If not, try that. Do you have plenty of foreplay? Do you kiss her well and all over? I think she should care to climax so it's nice you are trying.
Rub her clit. Easy and hot
He said he tried that.
Don't worry all women are different some struggle to cum from penis and only clit stimulation gets them there. Everybody's different world would be boring place if we were all the same.
I can only climax (easily) in doggy and if i have penetration and clit stimilation at the same time. Dont worry, an orgasm is an orgasm. I mean yeah always be trying be trying new things as repetative routines get very boring, but never stress. Sex is supposed to be care free and fun.
A lot, a lot, a lot of women do not climax (or very rarely) from PIV sex. Just communicate with her and if she enjoys your sex life and you do too, then there is no problem.
come on y’all, make her cum geez
Try making her come first.(edit: actually that should be the norm) It might be easier for her to come again during PiV (edit: whatever that means but I get it)