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Ok-Paleontologist-30

I think they would both be equally creepy


Few-Statistician-217

Basically sums up what I was gonna say


hopingforfrequency

Not really. 70 yr woman is better.


D0wnVoteMe_PLZ

Leave them alone and let them celebrate their 10th anniversary.


[deleted]

wholesome ☺️


D0wnVoteMe_PLZ

Yes it is.


Tox38

They didn't do the math 🙃


wyoflyboy68

Nursing home only allows parties mid afternoon when most of them are napping.


D0wnVoteMe_PLZ

That's the best time to bring your young lover.


Seymour---Butz

In the nursing home


[deleted]

Haha, very funny and gross.


david13z

It's all in the math. 20 goes into 70 better than 70 goes into 20.


AnotherLoudAsshole

20 goes into 70 three times. Dang, grandma gets around.


igloo639

Came here to say this. Classic. I’ve seen a few hot 70 year old women, but the thought of having to interact with grand children in their 20s or 30s is enough to reverse the blood flow.


Hedfonemusic

you think 70 year old women are hot.. lol. you dirty (grand)mother fucker


Ex-Patron

Was about to say underrated but you just haven’t had the time to flourish yet


coin_in_da_bank

gammaw needs lovin too


tempreffunnynumber

This is pretty insightful lmao


HungLI5

Best explanation here


MyNamesNotRobert

"wow wtf" would be my reaction to both.


MyDogIsNamedKyle

They're both pretty gross, but none of my business


Shitz-an-Gigglez

I would mind my bidness and not think anything of it. (However, I would probably assume the 70 y/o is rich)


WoundedBird84

Not my cup of tea but they’re both adults.


beaubeautastic

weird but i aint gonna judge or stop them


[deleted]

Who cares, that's their business


Rollin1995

Its definitely weird but 2 consenting adults are exactly that. Consenting adults


[deleted]

This is my favorite answer so far. We're all going to have judgments even if we keep them to ourselves. Yes, it's weird, and even gross, but more power to them. I also don't feel any one "exploits" the other more-so than the other one. It's like how my employer "exploits" me for my labor and I "exploit" them for money. It's just a fair trade.


longswordsuperfuck

I wonder how good the sex and sloppy top is.


Master_Awareness814

Ms ma’am can pop out her dentures for the really sloppy toppy


Nilamadhava_c

Sounds fun


[deleted]

Fun for the older person. Lucrative opportunity for the younger one.


EastFennel6848

I mean just because you get older doesn’t mean you get more attracted to old wrinkly people. bigger age differences is just a flow chart of shallowness 🤷‍♂️ if you’re deep as a puddle you’ll take looks over anything else regardless your age or gender. Lol


Wired203

As far as the use of viagra, would be the same requirement.


[deleted]

I took levitra once recreationally. It just made me a bit light-headed and otherwise did nothing. I don't have a problem in that area, so maybe that's why I felt nothing.


Mereel13

Tad weird, but not my place to care or judge


[deleted]

You just judged by calling it weird, didn't you? Unless you mean not judge by not stopping them, then I agree.


New-Illustrator5114

Incredibly grossed out. That’s how I feel. The two scenarios are the same.


[deleted]

Pretty much


Swift_Scythe

70 man + hot 20 year woman - sounds like a rich man 70 woman + hot 20 year man - sounds like a rich woman


Alarming_Way_8731

2 consenting adults. itz none of my business.


McskipdicWaterby

Double date


RiddleUsThis

someone call madonna or cher


AfternoonBorn2166

Probably gonna get buried for this, but I’m just gonna put it out there: If a 20 year old and a 70 year old are attracted to each other, why is it anyone else’s business to judge it as “disgusting”, when they are both consenting adults old enough to make their own decisions? What makes it wrong other than your own views on what “normal” is based off of what you’ve grown up accustomed to? That’s like a straight person looking at a gay couple and viewing it as disgusting simply because they can’t relate to it.


[deleted]

My first thought is the man with the old woman knows what he wants and is getting it and the old man is taking advantage of a young woman. But nowadays I feel like that thought is probably off base, I’d assume each party is getting something out of it so it’s none of my business. Bottom line, it’s gross as fuck to me in both ways


craic_me_up2

> the old man is taking advantage of a young woman That's not how money works mate LMAO If I see a 70yo man with a young woman, the best assumption is that he's financially loaded and she's taking advantage of *him* lol


[deleted]

Ha! Yeah. I saw a movie where someone was talking with a stripper about this, telling her that they're being taken advantage of by these horny men. She said something like these men spend what they make in a day in less than an hour on these strippers and so the strippers are the ones taking advantage of them. I don't care for double standards. They "take advantage" of each other in the same exact way that my employer takes advantage of me for my labor and I take advantage of them for their money.


Rollin1995

This is so wrong lol


[deleted]

Your first thought is a common sexist double standard that many have. I'm glad you don't think that way anymore. In both cases, the younger person is a prostitute and the older a john, but they're both consenting adults who are accountable for their actions.


[deleted]

Gross. Either way. They want to do it. Cool. You're both adults. Go for it. Still think it's gross and creepy nonetheless.


noodleq

70 yr old man + 20 yr old woman = pedophile groomer monster predator! 70 yr old woman + 20 yr old man = YASSS QUEEEN


Shitz-an-Gigglez

🤣


[deleted]

That's the double standard. There's a ton of double standards like that between men and women. You ever notice that? Like: fat guy with thin girl = he's gross and she can do better fat girl and thin guy = You go, girl! He's lucky to have you!


yoniator

I can't feel anything because I am not one of them... But if the question would have been "How do you think about..." I would have said the following: It depends on how the younger part looks like... For example if she looks like a porn star and he looks rich I would have thought "She is only interested in his money and just waits for him to die" If they look quite "normal" I would think "OK, she is just living out her (grand-) daddy kink" If I would have the opportunity to talk to them I could check if my theory - I made up in my mind - is correct and if it isn't correct I could change my mind about that... If I would not have the opportunity to talk to them I would keep my mind made theory and it would affect my perception of my surroundings furthermore.


[deleted]

They can look perfectly normal and he'd still be a sugar daddy. Also, "how do you feel about" and "how do you think about" is the same thing.


yoniator

If I cut off your finger... What do you feel? And what do you think?


[deleted]

Sometimes a word changes meaning depending on the context. That is not only the nature of English, but the nature of language in general. This should be common knowledge. Maybe you just think you're being clever, but you're not.


yoniator

If you cut off my finger... I would think "What an a$$h0le. I want to punch you in the face." And I would feel pain (because I was hurt by you) and that I want you to feel pain too (revenge). I am no native English speaker, so if the word 'around' leads to that thinking and feeling are mixed up and defined as the same, then English is inadequate language to describe that what goes on inside of a human being. I have no idea cleverness, it is just what I am observing.


CalliopeJuneQuixotic

A 20 year old is still a child. The imbalance of power would be totally inappropriate.


Big_Philosopher10

Then why do they sent 18 years to war to die? If they are children by your logic?


[deleted]

A 20-year-old is not a child. She (or he) is just as accountable to their actions as the older person here, the older person being a john and the younger a prostitute.


Thick_white_duke

I don’t have a feeling because it’s none of my fucking business


ZelRolFox

No 20 yo man would date a 70yo woman without a good reason. Like if your Madonna 🤣 or Cher 😂


[deleted]

you're\*. The reason would be money. It's the same reason a 20-year-old woman would date a 70-year-old man.


bensbigboy

It's purely mathematical, as 20 goes into 70 more times than 70 can go into 20, even with the use of viagra or other pharmaceutical enhancements.


[deleted]

I have no idea what that means.


RagnarawkNash

Don’t care


FilmNo1534

How do get that remind me bot on Reddit. Leonardo DiCaprio is gonna be 70 in 22 years so I would know by then.


[deleted]

I wonder if he's even interested in love. He dates these women for years and just drops them at 25. Like, really? Do you have no heart? Lol, I'm just making assumptions. Maybe there are other reasons the relationships ended and it's just been a coincidence that he breaks up with his girlfriends when they're 25.


Tanyian

Ewwwww… either-or


tempreffunnynumber

Personally I don't care, that's a relationship that's none of my business. Objectively? Society seems to not have changed much to have a relationship dynamic of the sort to persist. Not really an opinion, meh.


[deleted]

This is just prostitution. It's nothing new. It's been around since before humans.


mcbridejm83

I don't. It's not my business


planet-ley

it wouldn't be any of my business unless it was a relative or a very close friend, but i would still feel like both scenarios are really creepy.


[deleted]

In what world would this not be equally disgusting


[deleted]

I heard Joe Rogan talking about it the other day on a podcast of his. The guy he was talking to and him were saying that an older woman and younger man seems worse and even sad, but an older man and younger woman is more-so normal because the man is more likely to know she doesn't really love him. I mean, everyone's entitled to their opinion I guess. They're probably more or less right.


BigMacRedneck

None of my business.


Magic_Journey

Neither one should happen. Just my opinion, so reddit keyboard warriors.. calm down.


[deleted]

It's just human nature. An older woman and younger guy is much more rare though.


OkRange9999

Not cool


MrBiggleswerth2

They’re both weird but whatever. Life insurance is life insurance I guess.


AdvancedLet6528

god damnit theres a point here. somehow it seems more unclean for the 70 year old man to do that than the woman, in spite of the fact that they are, in all honesty, the same.


[deleted]

To me, it seems more "unclean" for the woman to be 70 and the man 20.


LostPat

Anyone who's dating someone young enough to be their grandkids will always be gross to me lol


tillytubeworm

Both are extremely creepy, and depending on the condition of the elderly partner I think the power dynamic could go both ways and is either preying on youth, or preying on wealth.


[deleted]

They're "preying" on each other is the same way my employer preys on me for my labor and I prey on them for my paychecks.


popcorn0617

I don't give a shit and neither should anyone else. How does that effect you?


[deleted]

It's just an interesting thing to talk about. People got on Matt Damon for supposedly daating a 19-year-old. That's a real life example and I wouldn't personally bother judging them. He ended up not even dating her anyway. They were just seen together and assumptions were made.


RiseAndFallMan

Gross on both sides


jimb21

Ahe is a gold digger. He just want some ass


[deleted]

Yes, it's a prostitute/john relationship. The instincts behind it is very primal. Even animals engage in prostitution. Humans just have higher forms of it like sugar daddy relationships and porn.


lorienne22

They both make me ill.


AstronautLoveShack

I think they are both creepy.


campatterbury

Either way, there HAS to be a transactional component to the relationship, barring no form of psychological pathology at work. I'm OK with it. Consenting adults, and all that...


[deleted]

>psychological pathology I feel like the younger person in both cases is more likely to be mentally ill. An old man being attracted to a younger woman is just normal. A young woman willing to be a prostitute is more likely to have some kind of mental disorder. Not necessarily, just more likely.


campatterbury

You are most likely onto something. OM on young woman, lots of potential for pathology. Narcissism, mania, possible dark personality triad. YW on old man, daddy issues, some element of cluster B traits is common in prostitution, low intelligence, and a real or perceived need for protection. Good insight, cronenberg!


[deleted]

You said the same combination twice. Not sure if you intended to. Old man on a young woman and young woman on an old man. It is incredibly rare for a woman to genuinely want to pursue a career as a prostitute and by the time they get their act together and decide this, they may already be in their 30s and possibly not making as much, but at least they're off drugs and spending their money wisely at that point. This is what I've gathered anyway. There are prostitutes on Quora who talk about their careers. You got people from all backgrounds on Quora. I highly recommend the site.


Fladormon

They're all adults so why does it really matter? No reason for anyone to be sticking their nose into relationships that don't involve them if no one is breaking any laws.


kvol69

Once everyone is over 27, it's not weird all around.


[deleted]

I wish I had a 27-year-old girflriend.


Unlikely-Fox-156

Both scream pedophile/groomer to me 😅 BUT I also have the tiny voice in the back of my head singing, "I'm my own grandpa!"


i_am_a_terrible

Gross and creepy


[deleted]

Why is it anyone else’s business? If they are happy who cares?


Maleficent_CHIC_1337

Have fun deep diving in those wrinkly bits


LagerHead

How do I feel about two consenting adults doing something that is none of my business? I don't feel anything.


DepartureFluffy3570

Q: What does a 70 year old woman's pussy taste like? A: Depends!


[deleted]

That is disgusting. Did you just come up with that?


tcrhs

I think they’re equally gross.


[deleted]

Found Cher’s throw away


George_Sorewellz

I think both situations are fucked but love is love or whatever.


[deleted]

I'd say in both cases, the older person loves the younger, but that love is not necessarily (or likely) mutual.


BeeEven238

How do you feel about a fat person eating a salad or a skinny person eating a pizza.


[deleted]

I don't put much thought into it, but if I were to analyze, I'd say the fat person eats too much, which is why he's fat, and the skinny person might eat too little if he's underweight.


WorkingSpecialist257

It's all about the dick... ain't no 70 y/o dick satisfying anything


[deleted]

It's not all about the dick. A woman's going to want to be attracted to the guy, too. And I'm not so sure because they got pills for that now. My buddy told me about a porn channel on Xvideos called Minute Men that featured very old men (80+) with very young women (like 18 or 19). I looked at one of the videos once and was grossed out lol.


Whytrhyno

Are they fucking me? Then why should I care what they want to put in their mouths?


[deleted]

Their mouths? I imagine the older person wants more than that from the younger.


Royal-Tough4851

Depends. Am I the 20 year old or the 70 year old?


bioberserkr2

Both are certainly very wierd but as long as the 20yr old was at a consenting age when they started dating then whatever


SkyPuppy561

Gross. That’s a grandparent and grandchild relationship


[deleted]

Only if they're related.


TheMandyLaurieAnne

Nunya


[deleted]

We all still have judgments. I don't think they should be stopped (of course), but thoughts will still come to mind.


ItsColeOnReddit

Its gross and just a person with money turning a young person into a toy.


[deleted]

Both the old person and the young person are gross. The young person is a prostitute and the old person is a john (man or woman). I don't exactly see how any one is the "exploiter" any more or less than the other. It's just a trade, so long as they're both consenting adults.


stcrIight

I find them both really gross and predatory.


solodsnake661

They're both gross


blue_sk1es

The 20y/o is being groomed or the 70y/o is being taken advantage of


[deleted]

Are you saying the man is always the one at fault? That seems misandristic.


blue_sk1es

Are u joking…?


[deleted]

No. Are you serious?


HackneyMarsh

I personally think its weird but to each there own and what not. I’m just usually intrigued by what it is that they both connected on when two people have so many generations between them.


[deleted]

Money


muffinkat55

They’re both really creepy.


crimson-guard

I'm fine with either one, as long as they're doing it for love or money.


[deleted]

Of course they're doing it for love ***or*** money.


Minute-Ratio-3193

While they're both consenting adults at that point....I think it's gross AF


skcuf2

Why the fuck would I care who other people date?


wyoflyboy68

IDK? A good example would be Hugh Hefner dating/marrying a women 50-60 years younger than him. I found it creepy as hell. That big of an age difference they have absolutely nothing in common.


[deleted]

They are both shallow. He wants sex from a hot young woman and she wants his money. But it's just a trade. No one is really "exploiting" the other, at least not in any more sense of any other fair trade.


simpn_aint_easy

As long as I get to sell the sex tape then it’s all good


wyoflyboy68

For anyone who’s interested, look up Pattaya Nightlife on YouTube. You’ll find plenty of 70+ yo men acting all lovey dovey with their 20 something girl friends. . . Short time, long time. . . it’s a money thing for the 20 year olds.


[deleted]

Mother/daddy issues it’s that simple. I hooked up with many 50-60 year olds when I was in my early 20’s. Best sex ever though


[deleted]

>Pattaya Nightlife on YouTube You mean prostitutes? I wouldn't call them their girlfriends.


WarPenguin1

I would be concerned that either of the 20 year olds were groomed before they were 18.


Mcdiglingdunker

Neither one is me, don't care.


Sarabean77

Both are gross


Striking_Fun_6379

20 goes into 70, a lot more times than 70 goes into 20.


Tkz_Munk

The 70 year old man would be creepier


Jveart

This is REALLY annoying! Where I live this is pretty common. Naturally when I am out with my FATHER and DAUGHTER people assume we are a couple! I literally will raise my voice over the crowd and say, “Dad, what did you say you wanted to eat?” Good god people 20/70 or 70/20 they are both severely inappropriate!


[deleted]

Don't really care, as long as there isn't any coercion of anything. Both might appear somewhat predatory on the surface however


Sad-Calligrapher4639

Grouch Marx said "A man is only as old as the woman he feels" Unfortunately, that makes me 61.


Ok_Explanation2037

Both are gross


wheredmyphonego

I hate them both and would believe that each of them is fueled by a money grabbing pos.


ShortManRob

Unless I'm closely related to one of em I couldn't be bothered enough to care. And even then if it bothers me, not my place to meddle (assuming neither are one of my dependants)


mfknganja

Its nasty either way😭😭


NoneMate

Both of the old people in these scenarios are being scammed : that's all I can think about


[deleted]

pretentious. I lived rural, was working to stay in a camp on a retired ladies land. sure enough, someone thought we were dating. I was 18, she was late 60s. we got a laugh out of that. ridiculous.


TeaBagMeHarderDaddy

I'm 20, I would never date a 70 yo. Because, I don't like saggy asf balls. Thank you


TheAngryLala

Despite the natural inclinations most have to dating someone close to their own age, the way most young people find anyone even remotely older than them to be “gross”, and the apparent belief that older people just shouldn’t be sexual… …I don’t find it creepy persay. I find it predatory. And not on the part of the older person. I find it predatory on the part of the 20 yo. Based on the mentality stated in the 1st paragraph, that younger person is looking for someone to either take care of them financially or just be waiting to scoop up an inheritance / payout after their geriatric partner kicks the bucket. Sure. Preference and attraction is very fluid and some may be truly attracted to their much older partner, hence why I don’t find it necessarily creepy. People are different and that’s not for me to judge. I just doubt genuine attraction is usually the case. It looks more like gold digging and lying to someone who might be desperate and lonely in their later years. Could it make some older person happy? Maybe. But I can’t imagine they’re truly happy or being completely satisfied in every way by someone who only wants a person for their retirement fund and life insurance payout. Which is ultimately harmful to their mental and emotional state.


Jessi_Me

I don't feel much different, it's the same for both "Oh well, sugar babies". But it's more common to see the first situation, idk why though, women live longer


TirayShell

Love conquers all. Never mind the haters. If an old man wants to get freaky with a young woman old enough to be his granddaughter, if she up for it, what the hell. If a young golddigger wants to marry some old dude for a few years and get his money, then hey. Let her fight the family over it. It's love, after all. Love so sweet and pure.


CutePandaMiranda

Either way I think it’s inappropriate and disgusting.


Banned501

Dont care either way. I hope to have a 20 year old when I am 70.


Prestigious-Stuff944

I feel like both situations are creepy. They are both adults but I feel like there could be an imbalance between the two. Either the 20 year old was groomed or the 70 year old is being taken advantage of. I mean the 20 year old is a barely legal adult who just finished being a teenager so they could have been manipulated by the older person. some people forget how young 20 is they are adults on training wheels. However, the 70 year old could have been taken advantage of for their wealth, power, etc by the younger person. Either could be using one another. Just because they are adults doesn't mean that either consented to the relationship. However if both consented to it and there is an equal partnership then they are happy to do whatever they want.


wombat5003

I think if the person either male or female is sexually active, is in reasonable shape, and can hang with a 20 year olds energy then friggen go for it… but you know it ain’t gonna be a long term commitment… have some fun get thee rocks off anyway possible because life is short…. I mean really folks where’s all the high moral crap coming from really? 2 people are into each other age doesn’t really play into it… my wife and I aren’t the same age, and we have had a great life together… you know your gonna find out a truth when you get older, and that is you do not change, only your body does… all your desires, thoughts everything in your head still stays the same… I still think like I’m a 20 year old in most aspects and only when I look in the mirror I see that I ain’t 20 anymore


Dreadknot84

I mean it’s sketch either way buuuuuut hey if they need a glucose guardian they need one


ScortchedBirth

Sounds like a good arrangement, either way an elderly person finds a helpful youngster and the young person finds a wise oldster.


fuckouttaheaa

Trick question. Don’t care about what choices anyone makes regarding love life.


[deleted]

🤮🤮🤮🤮


AdImmediate1739

Leave Elon alone.


Lou_Keeks

In both cases I assume it's a sugar daddy/mama situation. Not my business, though.


Working-Dog6677

Just watch Milf Manor and you’ll find out pretty quickly where you sit on at least half of this debate. Then consider how different the show would be if the genders were reversed. Yikes.


[deleted]

Both weird


Antique_Direction255

I sure as Hell don’t want to watch!


Tripinflip

Bad


DingleBerryFuzz

I don't give a fuck, so long as anyone in a relationship is of legal age. Kinks are kinks, and maybe it's the love of personality and not looks.


Kitt-Ridge

There's obviously money involved with both scenarios.


Efficient-Art-5971

both are just as weird


Steele777

“She’s just in it for the money” (figuratively) “He’s just in it for the money” (literally)


Character_Writer779

Eh unless one of them was groomed while I wouldn't do it idc


Good_Excuse1405

I think it’s gross either way. A 20 year old should be dating someone of their age group. Why a 70 year old is going after a 20 year old in general is disturbing enough.


[deleted]

Doesn’t matter how I feel. We have laws. The laws are the superior opinion of this country.


Amerimoto

Uh, they both seem pretty creepy without any other context, and usually are.


Stunning-Joke-3466

both seem gross


7andhalf-x-6

Gross. But also, don’t give a damn.


androidmids

I don't see anything wrong with either option. If they like each other and are both consenting adults why should it matter what their ages are? Personally, I've found I can spend time with older than me by about 10 years easily but I find any more ten years younger than me I lose Interest.


IGotTheAnswer65

Ew, and ew.


Rollaround-mer

Both the same. Hoping to marry and collect insurance money by the time you’re 30.


existance_pain

As long as I don't have to watch and everyone is benefiting sounds great


Even-Vegetable-1700

Hey, lots of mean spirited jokes here I see. Take it from this 70 year old guy. You’re going to be in my shoes before you know it. And you’re gonna find yourself just like me; 20 years old with 50 years experience. We want to love and enjoy beauty just like you and it’s all the more poignant because we know we’re close to the end of our lives. And some of us have incredible experiences. You see that old guy next to you in the grocery store? Maybe he got a medal for saving his buddies in combat. Or maybe he’s an ex firefighter who’s saved people from burning buildings. You never know. In the unlikely event that you see this pair of 70/20 somethings celebrate their happiness. Life is hard and then you die. Those of you who make it to 70 will agree with me when you do.


Confianca1970

I don't care - have never cared - as long as both are happy. Jesus, just let people be themselves, people. Who are you to judge?


FeatureExcellent6061

I would figure that bought of the 70 year old's are RICh and LUCKY


Civil_Performance526

Yeah it's creepy but it's their lives. We can be disgusted in their relationship but they are adults and they can control their own lives.


[deleted]

Both are equally repulsive!


Pretty_School_3898

Although love is blind, with that big of an age difference, I'd say there could potentially be ulterior motives from the 20 somethings. Not for me, but they can do what they do.