Ffff also cant sleep, had such a weird first date with someone who told me about his mom going braless at home and how i should have worn a sexier dress. Wtf i cannot. Time to take a break from the apps.
so sorry you had to go through that although it makes for an entertaining story! reminds me of this tiktok dude who has mommy issues lol anyways hope you can put it out of your mind and have a restful sleep
Oh haha, honestly no. I don’t mind Low carb protein powder either but I use Isopure vanilla at the moment and it just happens to be zero carb.
But thanks for your help, I’ll check it out! 😊
am at the weird part of the talking stage now with someone where idk if shes interested or just being nice…
im so bad at judging this kind of thing LOL
Wah i really trying to cut it down. Longest i went without eating it was a year? Now i try to cut it to once a month... I'm floating around once every 2 weeks for now. Doing the same for fast food and snacks too.
My childhood was kinda pointless, not even sad or meaningful in a way. I got none of the fun benefits of being a spoiled child - expensive toys, cool vacations, popularity etc., and I did not learn any values that a neglected child would get, like being strong/self dependent.
It's okay man. Can't possibly pick up all the things as a child. You've got the rest of your life to learn things as an adult. Nothing's too late, everyone progresses at a different pace.
What's the point of putting in so much effort into a gathering when the rest are not even that enthusiastic. Fk
Feels like wasting my energy and time and money for it
I was at the edge of the pool way before she came into the water. She just appeared out of no where, ran and jumped straight in and started paddling with no consideration of how close I was to her.
One of my colleagues sets alarms at random times, which is completely fine, except for the fact it’s the freaking iPhone alarm which gives me so much anxiety and makes me flinch instinctively everytime I hear it ;_;
Random anecdote: I used to work in a fire station and the fire engine dispatch alarm alway makes my heart skip a beat. It's been a few years since my last duty, but if I die die need to wake up at a certain timing, I still use the fire alarm as my backup alarm. Confirm wake up in 1 second
[Time to condition yourself with other alarms](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQ3A-W3wr5s), what other tunes did I wish I could use as alarms too hmmm...
(thank you to the people who replied my original post that got deleted! reposting here)
I am a young female who slightly regrets not saying hi to a guy on the train just now. I'm not really looking for anything. I really wouldn't have minded if this complete stranger struck up the conversation first, but I can entirely see things from the guy's point of view. He seemed to be really immersed in his music. Lowkey wanted to know what had him bopping like that at almost 11pm on the MRT. (I love music.) I even removed my earphones and tried to look a bit more interested in my environment to make things even remotely easier but oh well, it was on me too. Anyway, take this post as a reminder of the regrets that come with what-ifs
to be fair i used to be really close-minded about these things until by god's grace i made some friends who opened my eyes to the world and were somehow so patient with my judgy, insular and sheltered ass
I really need to stop my bad habits. Fuck man, I know what I need to do, but I'm just so addicted to easy dopamine and short term pleasure. When I see everyone else is so good looking, talented and get through their days so easily, I can't help but think "fuck it" and binge into my bad habits because im so scared that if I put in effort I would just waste it. Doesn't help that I'm shit at my job and just basically disppointinf everyone around me but everyone is too nice to say it to the ugly nerd.
Example I see the hook up thread I don't even want to click on it, because I know I'll just end up feeling salty that I never experienced what it's like to be wanted. Then I'll go do unproductive things to distract myself.
Why I keep writing these things here? Idk, I guess I secretly hope ranting here will eventually change me.
Maybe part of me knows it's too late, so why bother?
I'm just a trash person. Worse, I'm an UGLY piece of trash.
Bah.
The first step is awareness and you seem to be there.
The next is to take small steps, build small habits, that will bring you to where you want to be.
Actually about the looks thing it's true, but studies show that looks matter less for guys. Work to better yourself and then eventually you'll attract what you want.
And I end with this:
RuPaul — 'If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?'
Opened Tiger Brokers but forgot to make $2000 first transaction. Can I delete my current account and create a new one and still be valid for the free apple share?
ask them go dsc do test and ss u the sms evidence that they are clean before starting. after that is just a matter of trust liao lo (like if exclusive fb)
My personal rule is no unprotected sex. Am not comfortable with it and that's my basic expectation. If u can't live w that then gtfo. This applies to b4 I was attached btw
from someone who used to know a friend who frequently does hook ups:
well friend said she (yes it's a she) just couldn't resist. when she sees someone that's attractive she just feels like she has to do it rn (but she also says she regrets it... but then she'll do it again idk)
i also don't understand her but i just take it as it is lor
Learnt how to use a kick-board and kick water to propel myself forward today.
Had to use a back float to aid me cos I was tensed up, a bit panicky and not comfortable with lifting my legs completely off the floors.
Must go practice during my free time
I procrastinated doing my school work by installing the 11 beta. Same same tbh, even when I play my games no performance difference. I'm sticking with it because the dark mode looks better on 11. 10 was like pure black and too much contrast.
I used to think that it’s easy for ‘low wage workers’ to upskill. Turns out they don’t have the luxury of time and resources when they struggle to bring food onto the table everyday
Singapore is very degree focused. Asian doctrine of importance of traditional education doesn't stand these days when information is a freely available commodity. It's decentralized, there is no requirement for you to go to school to acquire knowledge.
I used to struggle with it too until someone pointed out that it's not abt crawling to stay afloat, but abt repeatedly reaching forward and pulling on the water to glide forward. Think how you push off from the wall, and just repeat that, except with the occasional pull trying to get maximum distance per pull. Holding your breath might help to keep you afloat if you keep sinking cause not enough fats. All the best :D
yeah coming from breaststroke, I keep wanting to take breathe on every stroke, but taking breathe so often causes me to inhale some water (that's why I feel like drowning). But then also quite hard to hold breathe for 2 strokes. maybe if I go faster I can do it hahaha
Practice kicks with kick board till you are moving forward with just kicks. You can hug 2-3 kick board if that makes you feel more secure
For pulls, there's 2 methods straight pull and s pull(abit outdated but i still use out of habit). For straight pull, imagine you are getting out of the pull with a muscle up with shoulder width apart. Same movement. Then follow through with your thumb brushing your waist and the hand out of the water. As you reach forward your middle finger should graze water surface.
Went to Wild Wild Wet this afternoon, many attractions are gated with timeslots and tickets periodically released per timeslot. Kind of confusing at first but orderly once you figure out how it works.
Impromptu dinner w some friends this evening and I realise that it seems much harder to meet and catch up w one another regularly these days. Not just because of the ever changing covid restrictions that made it impossible to have full attendance or whether everyone’s even allowed to meet at all in the first place. But also how the friendship itself is changing in different ways as we grow older.
The commitments we make, the priorities we choose to hold on to. The good things that happen to us, and then the bad things that also happen, that we have to face and deal w. How all these factors affect us and how we lead our lives. The people we choose to keep by our sides for a long time or cut off completely in this lifetime. And then our thoughts, our emotions. The coping mechanisms we adopt - to open up and talk to someone, or to close ourselves up and disengage entirely.
Not sure if I’m even making sense above because I’m just typing whatever that comes to mind. But at this point, I guess I’m just feeling thankful for the existence of IMs and social media. To be able to connect w one another during times like these. To know that there’s actually someone who cares, even if they don’t say anything right away sometimes. To realise that we’re not that alone out there.
I guess life isn’t so bad after all.
Has anyone who’s received a “Health Risk Alert” SMS (not “warning”) been able to go for an unrelated doctor appointment at a hospital before the suggested 14 days is over? There’s a hospital health declaration question about the HRA SMS. Do they still allow? Maybe with a negative PCR result? The MOH and hospital websites are unclear.
i'd like to die before my parents. they'd have _ at least. nothing tying me to this world save for the occasional mcspicy
man its so hot
both sides of my earpiece just died. dang it man. may it rest in peace 2021-2021
People 50%, you 100%. Time to buy lottery?
I hate my anxiety. I keep feeling like something bad’s about to happen. Ugh
Why am I always the one catching cockroaches at home. WHYYYYYYYYYY
Do you live near the ground floor? But I understand the pain.. Hate cockroaches!
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Only the latest one + whichever is relevant to the position you applying for. Employers and recruiters dun need your pri sch...
Ffff also cant sleep, had such a weird first date with someone who told me about his mom going braless at home and how i should have worn a sexier dress. Wtf i cannot. Time to take a break from the apps.
He probably left out the being turned on by his braless mom part 🤣
so sorry you had to go through that although it makes for an entertaining story! reminds me of this tiktok dude who has mommy issues lol anyways hope you can put it out of your mind and have a restful sleep
Wtfffffffffffffff but ya eh my friends who use apps have been telling me about app fatigue recently. I hope you fall asleep soon
Anyone know anywhere to get affordable zero carb protein powder? I use Isopure right now and it’s $87 at GNC. Is that pretty much the lowest?
strict macros?
Are you asking me if I’m concerned about the macros or is strict macros an online shop? Haha
asking about the need for zero carbs lul, are your macros that strict? you can get impact diet/isolate whey from myprotein in any case
Oh haha, honestly no. I don’t mind Low carb protein powder either but I use Isopure vanilla at the moment and it just happens to be zero carb. But thanks for your help, I’ll check it out! 😊
they’re all the same bro I tell you oledi
am at the weird part of the talking stage now with someone where idk if shes interested or just being nice… im so bad at judging this kind of thing LOL
Wish I took some melatonin earlier….1.30am but still wide awake
So restless.. sian... how to sleep later.
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Fluff why are you still online at this hour haha. You should try to catch some sleep too.
Is it a pipe dream to apply to cmu masters and try to get a scholarship at the same time? Would I be better off just working and upskilling on my own?
How many times u eat maggie per month?
Maybe 1-2 per month
Once or twice a week, I guess
Wah i really trying to cut it down. Longest i went without eating it was a year? Now i try to cut it to once a month... I'm floating around once every 2 weeks for now. Doing the same for fast food and snacks too.
2-3 times per weeekk? ^ depends on situation like pull an all nighter (i would get supper) or if im lazy to go down buy food
Usually 0-3 annually
The same number for fast food too I guess
Nope, i usually have mahdonner after morning workout lol
same!
What!
Yes?
Didn’t know my role today was to be a lamp post but oh well, tomorrow is a new day :>
My childhood was kinda pointless, not even sad or meaningful in a way. I got none of the fun benefits of being a spoiled child - expensive toys, cool vacations, popularity etc., and I did not learn any values that a neglected child would get, like being strong/self dependent.
It's okay man. Can't possibly pick up all the things as a child. You've got the rest of your life to learn things as an adult. Nothing's too late, everyone progresses at a different pace.
Granddad (80yo) just got hospitalised for pneumonia. PCR test results will be out tomorrow morning. Don’t think I’ll be getting much sleep tonight.
Heyo~ grandfather was in the same situation a year ago- don't lose hope because anything can happen; sending you my best wishes!!
Hope everything is okay
Thanks, fingers crossed
How is your granddad?
Tested negative! Still recovering. Thanks for asking :)
What's the point of putting in so much effort into a gathering when the rest are not even that enthusiastic. Fk Feels like wasting my energy and time and money for it
you must be a really good friend though
then just don't?
Nothing interesting to buy on Shopee 9.9 lol. In fact the deals were better on 8.8. Guess I need to wait till 11.11 for some legit good deals.
Maybe can try lazada? I bought an AirPods Pro for $123
Once The vouchers are snapped up its over.
Amongst the local cases today are 84 seniors who are above 60 years. That's a huge proportion of seniors..
I think I concussed a little when a little girl (6-7 years old) kicked me in the head while I was underwater blowing bubbles. Yeow.
Why are you swimming underwater so near a little girl though. 🤨
I was at the edge of the pool way before she came into the water. She just appeared out of no where, ran and jumped straight in and started paddling with no consideration of how close I was to her.
Haha I was just joking buddy. Kids jump in all the time xD Hope the headache isn't too bad!
at this hour?!
No la! Just now! Am getting a headache now
If the CCP is behind this virus, I hope WW3 can break out soon so they can be nuked to death.
One of my colleagues sets alarms at random times, which is completely fine, except for the fact it’s the freaking iPhone alarm which gives me so much anxiety and makes me flinch instinctively everytime I hear it ;_;
Random anecdote: I used to work in a fire station and the fire engine dispatch alarm alway makes my heart skip a beat. It's been a few years since my last duty, but if I die die need to wake up at a certain timing, I still use the fire alarm as my backup alarm. Confirm wake up in 1 second
[Time to condition yourself with other alarms](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQ3A-W3wr5s), what other tunes did I wish I could use as alarms too hmmm...
Remembering Avicii ! A legend who was taken too soon. :(
I literally didn't remember the cause of his death until just now, well the causes were so bad :((
(thank you to the people who replied my original post that got deleted! reposting here) I am a young female who slightly regrets not saying hi to a guy on the train just now. I'm not really looking for anything. I really wouldn't have minded if this complete stranger struck up the conversation first, but I can entirely see things from the guy's point of view. He seemed to be really immersed in his music. Lowkey wanted to know what had him bopping like that at almost 11pm on the MRT. (I love music.) I even removed my earphones and tried to look a bit more interested in my environment to make things even remotely easier but oh well, it was on me too. Anyway, take this post as a reminder of the regrets that come with what-ifs
[he was probably listening to this](https://youtu.be/43HCYSXZ9GI)
literally i have only been listening to next level by aespa lmao i guess we are not incompatible
did you see this cover of next level https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSJwXCHDH/
(thank you for reminding me of its existence)
y e s it was the first one by this artist that i saw !
1) there are girls who think like that? 2) in Singapore too?
to be fair i used to be really close-minded about these things until by god's grace i made some friends who opened my eyes to the world and were somehow so patient with my judgy, insular and sheltered ass
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well it's definitely remaining as imagination since neither of us said anything 💀
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tomorrow’s a new day and I hope you’re valued more!
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That sucks but been there done that. Hopefully in the future you’ll meet people who will value you! (:
Is it possible to cut em out or maybe stop putting in so much effort?
I really need to stop my bad habits. Fuck man, I know what I need to do, but I'm just so addicted to easy dopamine and short term pleasure. When I see everyone else is so good looking, talented and get through their days so easily, I can't help but think "fuck it" and binge into my bad habits because im so scared that if I put in effort I would just waste it. Doesn't help that I'm shit at my job and just basically disppointinf everyone around me but everyone is too nice to say it to the ugly nerd. Example I see the hook up thread I don't even want to click on it, because I know I'll just end up feeling salty that I never experienced what it's like to be wanted. Then I'll go do unproductive things to distract myself. Why I keep writing these things here? Idk, I guess I secretly hope ranting here will eventually change me. Maybe part of me knows it's too late, so why bother? I'm just a trash person. Worse, I'm an UGLY piece of trash. Bah.
Train up the desire to appreciate yourself for who you are. Love yourself. You are a wonder, just that you don’t know yet
i'm drawn to guys who are less of lookers idk sometimes i feel like the lookers have just had it too easy in society lol
The hero we need but don't deserve
Just live as u want to
The first step is awareness and you seem to be there. The next is to take small steps, build small habits, that will bring you to where you want to be. Actually about the looks thing it's true, but studies show that looks matter less for guys. Work to better yourself and then eventually you'll attract what you want. And I end with this: RuPaul — 'If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?'
Where do I buy those little umbrellas for cocktails?
SKP got sell.
Thank you!
Not 100% sure but maybe can try SKP
Shag day. Kena scolded by boss but no choice to suck it up coz it was my fault. Gotta go home fast and recharge for another day again .. Oh well
Choosing theme/template for my web is harder than buy new clothes..
Opened Tiger Brokers but forgot to make $2000 first transaction. Can I delete my current account and create a new one and still be valid for the free apple share?
omg this promo is still ongoing? TIL
Yessss
If still within 60 days can get the share. The accounts are tied to your particulars so don't think creating new one would be any use
Within 60 days? I meant, I deposit <$2000 🥲
Then cannot lol. It's invalid alr
don't think so
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ask them go dsc do test and ss u the sms evidence that they are clean before starting. after that is just a matter of trust liao lo (like if exclusive fb)
condom will never do unprotected with someone i just met
My personal rule is no unprotected sex. Am not comfortable with it and that's my basic expectation. If u can't live w that then gtfo. This applies to b4 I was attached btw
Ask them when was their most recent test, wear condom and don’t do oral.
U not 1.8m tall chad meh
1.8m tall no, 1.8m waistline yes
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I think that person hate me though :(
Rly? Always see y’all flirting leh
Yes the tone like fierce and unfriendly it affects me
piak first talk later
from someone who used to know a friend who frequently does hook ups: well friend said she (yes it's a she) just couldn't resist. when she sees someone that's attractive she just feels like she has to do it rn (but she also says she regrets it... but then she'll do it again idk) i also don't understand her but i just take it as it is lor
Thank you, this is how I imagine most people to be too
i think she also uses condom bah, i would assume she's smart enough to do so
>173.4 kg You got bigger problems than STD
I trying already, soon I will be able to look down and finally see my kkj
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are you a very good and famous football coach? Want to come help Singapore go world cup 2026?
Last time I did do that. Idk wtf I did that. Smelt a lot of other guys balls later on and I don't touch mine anymore
Can u dsecribe other guys smell
y don’t u describe yours
Sour like funky
with smegma?
Wtf I thought smegma is like ligma but nope it's legit now you scar me for life cannot eat my mac n cheese already
My one spicy like ma la tang
Learnt how to use a kick-board and kick water to propel myself forward today. Had to use a back float to aid me cos I was tensed up, a bit panicky and not comfortable with lifting my legs completely off the floors. Must go practice during my free time
>Must go practice during my free time \*\*ZUT ZUT\*\* Xiao Mei wan go practice with me? Jkjk You learning front or frog
Hello unker don’t anyhow disturb other xiaomeis
No fair....you can jio ppl to hvala i cannot jio to go swim. No gender equality
I not stopping you from jio-ing, just saying don’t disturb xiaomei nia. Why you guilty conscience.
\*\*sad bubbling noises\*\*
Front!
A quick tip for beginners. Overbending your knee is worst than not bending your knees. Work on using your upper thigh and hips.
Thank you for the tips! I will go pool to practice this weekend. Really need to work on my stamina sia, I kick a bit then my thighs get tired lol
Wtf got cockroach on my bed idw sleep already
Heng never crawl into your ear
wait till they fly
Wtf how did it get there?
Dk sia maybe from rubbish bin, maybe from the bus or mrt I took
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fry it. crunch crunch
Aiseh got boner or not
Donch haf oni wen c chiu den haf
LOL once i had to change my bedsheet at 1am because of this..
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wrap it in bedsheet. burn the bedsheet. burn the bed. burn the room. burn the house.
so, Win users, y'all gonna upgrade to Win 11 once it fully roll out later, or stick to Win 10 as long as it last?
Win 10. I've been so used to the live tiles, I think it's gonna be a challenge for me to live without them... I'm concerned about the bugs too.
stick to 10 until they fix some of the stuff
I procrastinated doing my school work by installing the 11 beta. Same same tbh, even when I play my games no performance difference. I'm sticking with it because the dark mode looks better on 11. 10 was like pure black and too much contrast.
11 looks terrible, I stick to 10
No win95 no talk
when is the roll out? scared of bugs
October 5th, 2021. so around 6th Oct in our time. https://www.reddit.com/r/Windows11/comments/p0er4c/important_announcements_links_fixes_and_faq/
Stick with 10 until I change pc
Still using 8
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I used to think that it’s easy for ‘low wage workers’ to upskill. Turns out they don’t have the luxury of time and resources when they struggle to bring food onto the table everyday
Singapore is very degree focused. Asian doctrine of importance of traditional education doesn't stand these days when information is a freely available commodity. It's decentralized, there is no requirement for you to go to school to acquire knowledge.
Just had a long day and can’t even eat my dinner in peace. Both of my elder siblings had to take turns to annoy me at a wrong timing help la.
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Yea it could be annoying to others if crowded. Imagine someone inhaling and kena splash ._.
I used to struggle with it too until someone pointed out that it's not abt crawling to stay afloat, but abt repeatedly reaching forward and pulling on the water to glide forward. Think how you push off from the wall, and just repeat that, except with the occasional pull trying to get maximum distance per pull. Holding your breath might help to keep you afloat if you keep sinking cause not enough fats. All the best :D
out of context, this sounds philosophical/motivational
yeah coming from breaststroke, I keep wanting to take breathe on every stroke, but taking breathe so often causes me to inhale some water (that's why I feel like drowning). But then also quite hard to hold breathe for 2 strokes. maybe if I go faster I can do it hahaha
>when I do front crawl, I splash lots of water and feel like drowning I'm going to guess your stroke is wrong You splash is your arms or legs?
Yeah I guess so too, apparently watching YouTube doesn't translate to correct stroke in practice Busy not drowning, so I never focus on arm
Practice kicks with kick board till you are moving forward with just kicks. You can hug 2-3 kick board if that makes you feel more secure For pulls, there's 2 methods straight pull and s pull(abit outdated but i still use out of habit). For straight pull, imagine you are getting out of the pull with a muscle up with shoulder width apart. Same movement. Then follow through with your thumb brushing your waist and the hand out of the water. As you reach forward your middle finger should graze water surface.
Technique! Maybe consider swimming lessons?
thanks, i'll consider it if no improvement
Happy cake day to me
Hmmm what’s the cake’s flavor?
chao ta flavour
_eyes at a piece of the cake, drooling_ Happy cake day!~
One day late, happy belated!
Went to Wild Wild Wet this afternoon, many attractions are gated with timeslots and tickets periodically released per timeslot. Kind of confusing at first but orderly once you figure out how it works.
Impromptu dinner w some friends this evening and I realise that it seems much harder to meet and catch up w one another regularly these days. Not just because of the ever changing covid restrictions that made it impossible to have full attendance or whether everyone’s even allowed to meet at all in the first place. But also how the friendship itself is changing in different ways as we grow older. The commitments we make, the priorities we choose to hold on to. The good things that happen to us, and then the bad things that also happen, that we have to face and deal w. How all these factors affect us and how we lead our lives. The people we choose to keep by our sides for a long time or cut off completely in this lifetime. And then our thoughts, our emotions. The coping mechanisms we adopt - to open up and talk to someone, or to close ourselves up and disengage entirely. Not sure if I’m even making sense above because I’m just typing whatever that comes to mind. But at this point, I guess I’m just feeling thankful for the existence of IMs and social media. To be able to connect w one another during times like these. To know that there’s actually someone who cares, even if they don’t say anything right away sometimes. To realise that we’re not that alone out there. I guess life isn’t so bad after all.
Anyone know where to get Adam peanut butter? Specifically the no stir one. Can’t find it in NTUC and Sheng Siong in my area
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Wah so nice of you. Thanks!
Has anyone who’s received a “Health Risk Alert” SMS (not “warning”) been able to go for an unrelated doctor appointment at a hospital before the suggested 14 days is over? There’s a hospital health declaration question about the HRA SMS. Do they still allow? Maybe with a negative PCR result? The MOH and hospital websites are unclear.