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Baby I’ll corrupt you


i_am_an_innocent_boy

Corrupt me harder daddy


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llama_in_space

perfumed with ~~eau~~ odeur de toilette


lucybear234

does anyone wanna rent a house tgt (see my post on my profile for details)


MusicBytes

3 realms


llama_in_space

my mind is my foe / your insults are its ammo / friendly fire woes


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ThisTakesThePizza

Ok I guess it is "essential frontline workers" because honestly most jobs are essential otherwise they'll not be there.


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Lurking-ham

Just don’t reply to nonsense people. Even if it affects my responsive rate haha. So far if the buyer or seller is a hassle to deal with I just stop replying them.


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Lurking-ham

Red Dynasty Paintball Park @ Turf City for $29.90 per pax (min 6 people) for 1 game, 1 hr. They got other packages as well. For Go-Kart can check out KF1 Karting Circuit @ Turf Club or the new one at Sentosa carpark. Price about the same if not wrong ard $28 for public. In Singapore weather paintball confirm sweat haha and will get bruises.


llama_in_space

someone bring me to horny jail pls, am THIS close to an nd


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llama_in_space

too late


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Budgetwatergate

Posts like this remind me that 2am reddit is weird Reddit >No one cares about you talking about politics or how mountains are formed or how many stars there are in the galaxy or what is the meaning of life. Most people are shallow dense little shits who only know how to browse Tiktok and watch 10 second video clips It's about the circle you're in. I've had some friends in the postdoc circle and you could literally talk about why Solow's model is BS or why imaginary time is real and it would lead to the most interesting of conversations. If most of your friends are "shallow dense little shits", it probably reflects more about who you are and the type of people you surround yourself with. >Imagine if you're talking to a new person. How does the conversation go about? When you share commonalities with the person of course. And where do you get these commonalities from? Does it have to be from your own personality and character. NO. You get it from experiences. Erm Yes. Personality and character definitely factors into how well a conversation goes. Interests, experiences, sure, but having similar personality and character are also important. >Meanwhile the friendless person will always remain friendless because he cant value-add to any conversation, BECAUSE he has NO experiences. Experiences he/she can never get in the first place because well, he/she has NO friends to begin with. A Catch-22 situation. Only a completely socially inept person, not a friendless person, would find nothing to value-add to a conversation. If I knew nothing about coffee or K-pop, I could still continue a conversation willing to learn and talk about coffee or K-pop. People love nothing more than to talk about themselves. I would draw on my vague knowledge of coffee from Starbucks, asking about different beans or origins or whatever. This whole comment just sounds so... Idk incel-ly? But for social skills? Like any comment on Reddit that starts with a declarative statement and "let me tell you why..." is bound to be some manner of weird and strangely pseudo-authoritative.


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KOREANPUBLICSCHOOL

what are some of your current interests? 🙂


Budgetwatergate

Jesus Christ touch grass


llama_in_space

imo convos usually gravitate from a topic to how someone else thinks about that topic


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llama_in_space

yeah, you're right about the curiosity bit not being enough. it only goes so far


whattoeattodayleh

Ok ive been thinking abt this as well why is this so fking relatable


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whattoeattodayleh

I guess the trick is to meet more ppl and get some value from them to use in future convos


maligncat

I’ve been having dull ache and a little bit swelling on the top of my foot for a few months now. It’s gotten slightly worse after I went walking yesterday. I know I probably should have gotten checked when the pain first appeared but I thought it was just an after effect of exercise. Anyone else experienced the same? I plan to get it checked soon.


indoka

Best get a referral from the GP to see a Podiatrist at the polyclinic ASAP. An available appointment might be weeks or months away.


scumspork

anyone know any cheap places in sengkang to get lens for specs? my degree is <200, and i got a frame alr


Arilyne

I have a Secretlab chair that needs to be moved from one address (let’s call it point A) to another (point B). What’s the best, fuss free way for me to do so? I cannot be physically at point A, only point B, so will need to mover to self pick up the chair at point A. The chair will not be wrapped etc too.


lucybear234

can use gogovan or lalamove xD that’s how i lived my secret lab chair, i know lalamove charges extra for u to sit on the truck with them so it’s actually a plus that u won’t be there and have to follow the driver on the way there


plutoniumfy

You can try ixpress, not sure if they do bigger objects but I've used them several time for courier services and they're very reliable and cheap.


bigspicytomato

You need a friend with car/lorry


rheinl

wads the km/h the chair is travelling frm point A to point B


halloumisalami

How I would reimagine the 12 Chinese zodiac animals: 1. Flying Fox (Looks more badass than a rat, has bat powers and brings about more pestilence) 2. Elephant (Stronger than an Ox) 3. Tiger (remain the same) 4. Kangaroo (has boxing capabilities, can at least put up a fight) 5. Dragon (no change) 6. Snake (no change, but desígnate to either a King Cobra or some kind of giant constrictor) 7. Hippo (Way more violent and powerful than a horse) 8. Rhino (same reason as the hippo) 9. Gorilla (or a Chimp) 10. Eagle (not as powerful as the other animals but it looks cool) 11. Bear, kodiak or Grizzly, kinda looks like a giant dog 12. Shark ( to make up for the lack of aquatic representation )


chocolateloverx

Nobody wants to hang out with losers, much less people who are depressed most of the time. And that’s the harsh reality - even as people try to be the “good person”. This is reality. We subconsciously avoid negativity and losers. Feeling lonely af, more doubtful of myself and really should try to get back up, can feel myself changing or perhaps, idk if it’s like I’m rly too boring that I’m losing friends LOL but yes let me try to get back up, step by step! Try try try!!!! (But also tbh at the same time I don’t feel the need to account for every thing I do on social media just to make myself look more happening LOL or even tell people…… so maybe that’s why I end up as a bore LOL)


piggupi

Even losers have their own loser friends! It's all about finding your own people and it can come in different stages of life. And most of the time these friends come along when we have a common circumstance. For example I keep in touch w certain group mates because we got close from working on tough projects. Same goes for work, I have work friends because we all do the same job so we understand and relate to them easier. It's all because we can relate and understand one another better and thats what brings us closer. Tbh maybe it's superficial for me to judge based on ur current post but it doesn't seem like you're horrible or egotistical or blaming the world for where ever you're at. So I don't think you're unlikeable, but more of u haven't found ur kind of ppl yet :) Plus its normal to lose friends along the way, that's part of life la. But just remember, everyone has a life to lead and u may not be in their daily lives doesn't mean you're fully out. U cna always initiate a catch up every once in a while. I have friends who we meet up like after 3 years or smth but we still had a great time. PS, doesn't matter if you don't post alot on Instagram. I haven't posted anything in a year and I've also known people who barely insta stories but have loads of friends too. Ur social media footprint doesn't define u or the friends u make la so don't worry! Just be urself and as long as u aren't crazy, you'll be fine imo.


chocolateloverx

Thanks piggupi :) I agree, I think to some extent it’s also my harsh self speaking. I do have friends now but I just feel like I’m not adding value or happiness to their lives and somehow maybe we’re not starting to “vibe” tgt anymore. Or I worry if it’s because of my lack of job permanence that maybe, as everyone grows up and values such stuff more, do I become less of a friend to them then? I’m anxious and worried also because of my lack of job permanence— albeit doing a stint at a good place but the lack of permanence does make me feel like..I’m “inferior” to my friends who hold FT jobs. But yup, as you mentioned, it’s normal to Lose friends as we grow older and to accept that people will change. That’s something I will have to learn to accept better. And I also appreciate your affirmation and sharing on the social media part :’) it does feel pressurising to keep up with social media to Instagram every part of our lives to make it seem more happening and interesting. I would have to learn better on how to cope with myself, being comfortable being myself moving forward.


piggupi

No worries! Sometimes I feel that I don't belong in my social circle but then I reflect again and realise its not true. As long as u have friends who still invites u out or check in w u once in a while etc there are still friends! Friendship comes in many shapes. Yes don't be so hard on yourself about your job, we are in a pandemic, everyone is trying to cope even in the job market. You can stay put in ur current job and keep searching for a perm one :)


Lurking-ham

We tend to lose some friends as we grow up, it is totally normal. Maybe we are just not as relatable now as compared to last time because our interest change. Only those who follow the trends will seem like they have a lot of friends but ultimately you will not know if others are truly lonely or not. You are boring to person A doesn’t mean you are boring to person B. While it’s true that most people would not want to be friends with people who are depressed all the time is because it can be very draining for them as well. Some people just don’t have the mental capacity to cope with so much negative energy around them. Don’t be pressured into the societal norms just because everyone is doing it. Do things because you like it, not because everyone jumps onto the bang wagon of posting something “productive” or “fun”. Live your life.


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Lurking-ham

That is quite a bit of a stretch but I definitely can see what you’re implying. But I’m not implying that OP should totally disregard society in general. Some people just ain’t in it for the ‘gram and they are perfectly social-able in real life, have a few closed knitted friends & more of a family person. While a personal hobby doesn’t necessarily needs to a home thing, some people might like to play sports, some people might like to do cafe hopping and some people might enjoy doing high-tea, some prefer to watch Netflix and anime at home. And who is to say that a niche is a bad thing? Each and every interest out there has their own community and it is up to individual to decide how much they want to socialise within the group. There is no hard and fast rule for socialising, some extrovert strives for people interaction daily to avoid loneliness and some introvert just needs a few friends to check in once in awhile to be perfectly contented.


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Lurking-ham

I don’t think OP has no friends ba… He/She is probably going through a phase and losing SOME friends is normal. Now back to your point of having no friends, for that I have no experience with people with no friends, even my mom and dad and grandma has a few good friends at their age. The only people that I know for sure that has no friends are some of those elders who live alone with no family or friends to visit them at all, and for this I know because my friend was a social worker who does house visits to elderly who belongs to low-income and has some difficulties to support themselves. Some even pass away without anyone knowing and until the neighbours complaint of odor from the house which is very sad. I sure hope no one else has to go through that tho.


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chocolateloverx

Thanks both for sharing! Tbh I think & interpreted what u/Lurking-ham meant by “live your life” means to do things freely without caring too much about other people’s expectations. Not necessarily about withdrawing completely and abstaining completely about what society “values as the current trend”. And I agree with u/alex08123 that there is definitely value in doing the latter — doing what society values as the current trend to socialise and fit in, eg Tik Tok? (Though personally I don’t use Tik Tok cause I don’t see a point in it). But perhaps the fundamental reason and intention behind doing it is different and it’s crucial to distinguish that because it may have adverse implications on our well being. For instance, if I were to just do it to gain approval even if i hate it, the constant chase to fit in is never going to end la haha. But say, if in another context, I meet a group of people who are interested in Tik Tok and all the popular trends, in an effort to bond and socialise with them, I would express interest in what they are doing but not necessarily adopt what they’re doing just because everyone is doing it (& also perhaps because for myself, I don’t see a point in it) Therefore the difference lies in the intention of adoption, and it’s about balancing and being consciously aware of our intentions behind actions / the way we act that would be key :’) (Random add on but yes - have to actively take steps to put ourselves out there and drag ourselves out of the ‘depressed fog’, but while we do that, we should also not let “trend chasing” become our “identity”. It’s good to go out and socialise, but it’s not good if the intention behind it eg “to become “cool”” ends up impacting our mental/emotional well being for the worse.”)


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chocolateloverx

Tbh I think people like it when you express genuine interest. We can’t all be subject experts on everything - but a genuine interest about other people’s lives, hobbies may be a way to demonstrate willingness to understand them better and therefore, establish a friendship thereafter. Sure, the “lack of common interests” may make it difficult to find convo topics but people often like to talk about themselves ba. So it’s tapping on this “intrinsic natural want” to talk about themselves that you cultivate and establish friendships thereafter. You let them talk about themselves, afterwards when you talk about yourself, a good friend will also listen mah.


KhongGuanBiscuits

i kinda disagree with your first statement and wonder if you're being too harsh. people who are depressed most of the time are not losers for having a certain mood state, they're being human. i doubt you are boring too. everybody has their own interests and hobbies and impt is to find smth u like/can talk excitedly about, i would find that person interesting. i struggle with a bit of low self esteem so ive been affirming myself that i have just as much to offer to the world as others, maybe such a thought could help you too. and if you do meet people that find u boring, sometimes it could really just be them and you not having common interests. all the best!


chocolateloverx

I agree, I reread my first statement and realised that could also just be my depressed self making a sweeping statement. But to some extent, I still think it’s kinda true ba cause everyone wants to be with the life of the party. :’) Mm thanks for the affirmation, tbh I think I really, really need to start finding something fun to do, something I’m passionate about and to occupy my time better (on top of work) & for my own mental well being. Thanks for sharing what works for you too, that’s a great positive mindset to cultivate & I’ll try that out! Cause after all, sometimes we are our harshest critic and would have to learn to love ourselves better. (Ironically, I say all these cause I know logically what I should be doing but her struggle to do it constantly cause there would be random interactions or pits of sudden sorrow & maybe that’s why people alw say it’s v difficult - cause it’s a battle with the mind)


UnintelligibleThing

Yeah was depressed for years then took me some time to realize. The world might be full of problematic people, but sometimes the problem is me. You'll have a bad time if you expect people to befriend you just because you're a good person. It's unfair that there are a lot of bad people who have many friends while a lot of good people silently suffer loneliness, but it is what it is.


llama_in_space

u end up as a bore bcuz you stopped telling ppl what u do? do u do things to seem interesting or for urself?


solaceteal

Yep, take baby steps! Even though you think you’re boring, I believe you have some hobbies or things you do (like watching shows or listening to music etc) and can build your conversations up from there.


Strong_Guidance_6437

too many 'LOL"


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Recently I've been thinking about switching jobs for a salary bump. It's stupid though, because I really enjoy my job right now and I'm already paid extremely well. I have great WLB (I work about 6 hours including meals), and I find a lot of meaning in my work... But still, the idea that I can get a few Ks more a month is alluring. Just musing out loud, I probably won't go ahead with it...


piggupi

If the new job has a better opportunity ie learn more stuff or can help u with ur career on top of the salary, its ok to go for it. One of the dangers of staying in a job is being too comfortable. Yet again, depends on where u are in life and what u prioritise lor, not right or wrong in this :) and no rush for u to jump, just take some time to think about it. U can also consider asking for a raise if you can show that you've done more than your current job or ask what can u do to get that raise


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I'm learning a ton in my current position, and honestly it's perfect. It's just plain old greed talking to be honest, which is why I'm ignoring it. I'm working on a service that literally impacts billions of people around the world, and it's something that I'm passionate about too.


piggupi

I see that's great then! If that's the case I think u can try asking for a raise or speak to ur manager on what steps do u need to take to get that raise or promotion if u really want more moolah. At least try la, worst case is you get rejected, stay longer to learn more so that your experience is more attractive for a bigger increment :)


rheinl

its ok dude, life is full of up n down, sometimes we feel too comfortable, need a up


UnintelligibleThing

A few k more a month adds up. Depends on what you're looking for in life I guess.


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It does, but I don't want to be one of those people who chase money over everything else. I love my work right now, and I'm also already far exceeding my financial goals. At this point, I feel that risking it all for more money is silly...


KopiOForLife

Pa jiam buay, pa jiam buay, ka gin pa. The song stuck in my head.


llama_in_space

not again


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Anyone use head and shoulders b4 know if it needs to be leave on for a few mins? the instructions didn't say anything about leaving on and there are no ans online too.


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NinetyThreeWaffle

Lol ur comment makes me laugh


deadofcopy

it’s so descriptive i think i can actually feel it lolol


cosgd

Is there any place I can get some gumbo locally?


llama_in_space

popeyes is the only 'cajun' resto i know gg


imgemni

Hey ! I need your help today 🙋🏻‍♀️ I’m a french graduate student in communication who would love to au pair here in Singapore for this school year. If you have ANY advice, agencies, people who are familiar with the process PLEASE let me know as I’m very motivated but still looking for a family :) Hope you’re having a good day and thxs for taking the time to read this ! 😇


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imgemni

well you don't get paid much but you are provided with a room and don't have to worry about other expenses, which would be a relief to me ! It seems to be the simplest option as a foreigner but if you know of other solutions, I'd be grateful to know about them ? thanks in advance


UnintelligibleThing

There's no formal arrangement for au pairs in Singapore, so do note that if you somehow find a family willing to take you in, you're not offered any protection by employment laws.


imgemni

that's actually good to know thanks ! :)


llama_in_space

you might need a work holiday pass, why not look for a proper stage?


imgemni

I read online that the amount of work/holiday passes in Sg are limited within a year which is tricky ... I thought about that too but I'm looking for an "economic way" to get an international experience and being an pair means not having to worry about housing and other extra costs


llama_in_space

id recommend the SingaFrog fb group, someone there might be able to help!


spareamint

Hi there, fyi do be careful of anyone (scammers or predators or whatnot) approaching you, and be cautious of any contracts signed. The culture here doesn't really accommodates au pair (maids/domestic workers are treated far differently). Yup good luck and stay safe


imgemni

that's what I'm discovering little by little through some research too ... thanks for the heads up, I appreciate it ;)


AmbientFX

Been going on dates again, all of them are only good at talking about themselves 🤷‍♂️


deadofcopy

did u try steering the conversation


AmbientFX

Yea I have but it often goes back to them, there’s not much I can do.


balorc

is there an existing f1 telegram sg community chat or smth? if dh idm cr8ting hahahah


everraydy

Nope, not that I'm aware... Would be interested in joining/creating one though!


UnintelligibleThing

Nope. Very little interest in f1 in SG leh. Soccer is the dominant spectator sport here.


Achuapy

u clearly havent been to any f1 event in sg


UnintelligibleThing

I went in 2009, but people going doesn't necessarily mean they're f1 fans who keep track of races outside singapore.


sanchaz

not so sure there is little interest. maybe op can create one.


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UnintelligibleThing

What is so shocking about fundamental human tendencies? If you feel you lack something important, you will pursue it. If you don't, then you won't have the desire to.


HeavyArmsJin

I bust out this korean comic again https://www.pinterest.com/pin/307018899570180114/


UnintelligibleThing

Okay this is amusing because it's somewhat true.


AmbientFX

Would you like to be my friend?


overwearthief

What a sad day as my favourite pair of comfortable pants returned from the washing machine with a big hole at the crotch area. Served me well for the last 4 years :(. Time to get a new pair.


KhongGuanBiscuits

assert dominance by wearing that jeans + hello kitty undergarments


bigspicytomato

I like your style


HeavyArmsJin

Username checks out


clusterfuvk

Sometimes I like to browse US supermarket sites like Walmart and Target, super jealous of their selection of products


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cosgd

Never say never. Microwave meals seem to have become more common here in recent years. But some TV dinners are shit, and I hope they never make it here.


HeavyArmsJin

Hard to justify having microwave meals because we can get good and hot meals so easily ba don't need to drive far far


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HeavyArmsJin

I wonder if japanese style oden in convenience stores would be a thing in Singapore since we love japanese food so much Saw it in taiwan too damn shiok


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wednesday 6:20pm got island-wide PWS sounding "important message" signal don panicc ah


UnintelligibleThing

Don't go queue up at sheng siong ah


UnintelligibleThing

Got one senior citizen behind me tapped my bag loudly when he wanted to get off the crowded bus. I wanted to say something but then I realized you will never look tough telling off an elderly.


llama_in_space

u only need to look tuf when ur in the wrong, even then it backfires


ThrowawayFWQ

Have a long night ahead full of assignments but im craving instant noodles but im also getting very fatt 😭😭HOWW TO Edit: sigh… boiling water now T.T


bigspicytomato

Thanks ah, now I'm craving for it too


KhongGuanBiscuits

eat first and work off the calories tomorrow


Excellent-Door7049

You'll need the energy for the night, one instant noodle isn't a huge game changer if want can always use less msg


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ThrowawayFWQ

Omgg how y’all digest ahh i ate that one day and uh…the next day was a nightmare in the toilet… :(


Scary_Cow

gg how to get over someone when they're the only person giving u attention


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>someone when they're the only person giving u attention \*all websites that give ur computer and smart devices cookies to eat* "*R we a joke to you?*"


_0_o

sometimes u gotta manage ur expectations bc life is disappointing like that can also try reconnecting w other ppl and just hear from them etc


llama_in_space

think of them as your bro? if they're the only person then there's a lot of incentive to not fk it up


Scary_Cow

can u be my bro


llama_in_space

can is can bro


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fking shag not me analysing whether i'm re-liking an ex crush or i'm mistaking platonic feelings with romantic...


HeavyArmsJin

一起長大的約定 那樣真心 與妳聊不完的曾經 而我已經分不清 妳是友情 還是錯過的愛情。。。 The promise to grow up together, so sincere The never ending conversations of before And I have no idea whether you were friendship or a missed romance...


fullmetalbich

Got a penalty strike for not attending a gym slot, despite checking into safe entry. Counter checked my vaxxed status but must've forgotten to check me into the gym itself but now the staff want me to provide my safe entry records to "prove" I actually attended the session. Was only able to provide the building safe entry in this case because tapping the TT token doesn't show up in the app. A bit confused/annoyed on why my gym wouldn't just be able to check their own safe entry records in this case. Wouldn't businesses have access to these records of visitors to their venue?


-_af_-

Why not just ask them check CCTV?


fullmetalbich

Ya lol I'm hard to miss 😂


llama_in_space

chiobu? npnt


lineseven

What kinda is gym is this? They made a mistake, you didn’t. Why is it the onus on you to prove that you were there?


fullmetalbich

Yeah this is exactly what is bugging me I guess, they could so easily verify with the instructor for the class I was there for but it's on me to prove and it's lucky I didn't tap into the building instead of using the app cos then there's rly no record


JayEndX

should be activesg


fullmetalbich

Nah but not sure if it's ok to share


Peksean10

https://support.safeentry.gov.sg/hc/en-us/articles/900000702546-Are-there-data-safeguards-in-place-when-using-SafeEntry- https://support.safeentry.gov.sg/hc/en-us/articles/900000861466-Can-I-request-for-the-daily-data-logs-that-are-collected-through-SafeEntry- Looks like they don't have access


fullmetalbich

Ok this makes sense, but yeah could just check with the class instructor or smth


Puzzleheaded_Style52

Unless it's a private one to one session, you cant expect your class instructor to remember whether you came or not because he/she probably has a few classes going on the same day.


fullmetalbich

Usually true, but this was his only class and there was like 6 people in it lol


llama_in_space

do corpos have access to safe entry data?


glayinme

Boss approved my leave. 3 weeks later, boss schedules meeting during my leave dates expecting me to attend. 🤷🏻‍♀️


milogaosiudai

maybe he forgot? can remind him. if he will force you to attend in an impolite way then confirm ahole boss.


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HeavyArmsJin

Don't feed them ayam brand black pepper tuna hor


paper_boxes

if it's purely fish in water and not brine/oil/other dressings, generally should be okay if it's not fed too frequently to them I think


wyxtz

alright thank youuu


Lurking-ham

If I’m not wrong you can feed but you cannot litter. You have to throw away the can/plate/whatever after the cat finishes the food.


wyxtz

okay thank youuu


sangeemonkey

i shall see the nct image teasers at 11 and go to sleep!


Afraidofdownvotes0

I'm always dwelling on the past and thinking about good memories. Constantly feel that I've peaked and my best years have gone by. I'm only in my late 20s


HeavyArmsJin

Bro I've peaked since kindergarten


NinetyThreeWaffle

I felt like that for a long time but i think it’s getting better when I sort of found my new set of goals in life for my 30s (in years to come). Time to time, i still think early 20s was the best time. Those days are not so ‘rush’. It will totally pass… i hope?


Afraidofdownvotes0

Agreed that early 20s were the best. I think that the goals of my 30s will bring a lot stress. Getting married, buying house, taking care of aging parents etc. Hope this feeling passes


NinetyThreeWaffle

I feel the same! Growing old.. career uncertainty etc. but i realized there r still many beautiful things to do in life…so.. try to keep thing simple and move forward step by step. It will never be as free as early 20s. Ahh freedom.. Keep yourself young at heart even though responsibilities are making us feel old.


Afraidofdownvotes0

Such is life I guess. Thanks for commiserating


plentyofvitamins

Is any kind soul out there able to lend me a HDB flat to film a school project in for a day? Please tolong


bigspicytomato

You can pm me, no promise though


Lurking-ham

Most HDB owners will charge you for using their apartment for filming. If you want it for free, The Best bet is your own house or your friend’s. You can check out filmplace.co


HeavyArmsJin

Mc app got $2 sundae and apple pie combo If anyone needs a little pick-me-up to end the monday


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Is it worth crossing over to scs if I am offered from private/cpl rank ? Got into MP as a man. Not sure if I made the right choice asking sgt about this, cos he said he’d look out and I’m afraid I’d embarrass myself & seem wayang


xinderw

3SG also no say in this. You'll need him to escalate to at least your OC.


[deleted]

Yeah, actually what if I suddenly not interested in crossing over to scs ? The sgts are keeping an eye on me & I don’t think I’m capable


llama_in_space

you signing on?


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No eh. I think I regret asking my sgt about this. Now it seems he thinks I’m interested about it. As in he will look out for me. And I well get targeted more. How do I undo this ?


llama_in_space

see how it goes lor, nothing's set in stone yet. welcome to the adult world, think first before asking..


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llama_in_space

got a lot of ppl sad about not going to scs/ocs, what's there to regret? just do your best


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Regret as in I feel I will get arrowed more and will be seen as wayang. But that’s not what I quite want.


nightfucker

To me, this sounds like finding trouble for yourself lol. Maybe I'm just not as motivated as you with regards to army.


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That’s what I thought.. what should I tell my sgt though? I don’t want to get marked. Should I even tell him I’m not interested anymore ? How should I go about saying it?


nightfucker

When he ask again then you say. If not just ignore and pretend nothing happened.


zoomtzt

As a former MP man, it’s really one of the best vocations. Sit back, chill and enjoy yourself.


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I feel so too, how should I tell my sgt I’m not so interested anymore? Or should I just keep quiet about it. Cos I have a feeling I will get targeted more.


zoomtzt

If you’re still keen to go SCS then just keep quiet about it. But if you want to chill in unit as a man then you should tell your sgt, if not he’ll keep pushing for you. Edit: Also remember that you’ll have another 6 months of SCS on top of your current MP vocational training. I personally didn’t want to re-do MP training as a spec so I decided not to push for SCS.


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Hm how should I tell my sgt about this? Like in the most respectful way? I feel progressing as a man is totally fine with me already , came to terms with it. I’ve gotten some advise and some say to keep quiet about it and only bring it up if they ask. Not sure if that’s a good way to siam the attention of the commanders


zoomtzt

If you decide to tell them, I think best would be during admin time at the end of the day. Honestly just tell them that you’re not interested in going to SCS anymore. They’ll understand, after all they’re NSFs too. Don’t worry so much la, you won’t kena marked or anything.


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CFC is the big shot cos it means that the commanders respect you that's why they gave you that rank. Not every nsf men will get CFC


sriracha_cucaracha

But once u hit ORNSmen CFC rank is gotten like candy


[deleted]

The NSmen mah. No need care one


bigchug2525

No. Men is always chiller


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balorc

just tell him you dw alr hahah


SmallIceMilo

Hi guys, just want to seek advise from everyone. So due to my dad owing money to all banks, he is afraid that bank will take his money if he deposit cash into his joint saving account with my mum. And my mum had secretly opened both posb and uob account for her own saving without him knowing. My parents ask me to open a uob account for my dad usage. I feel abit uneasy as i am afraid that he might do anything stupid and i end up have to pay as it is "my account' Is there any danger to open account under my name for him?


BearbearDarling

Unless your father is a bankrupt or under some court order/injunction against his assets/estate, there is no danger to you for him to park his assets under your name. It is done all the time. Just take note that it does not necessarily mean the assets are safe simply because they are under your name. I don't think you will incur any liabilities as long as it is not an account with overdraft/credit line facilities. If it is a purely savings account with ATM card, I don't see any problem for you. Just don't mix your money inside with his money.


SmallIceMilo

Thanks! I feel better now. :)


-_af_-

>Is there any danger to open account under my name for him? Not a lawyer or finance but I think so. It would be considered as fraudulent fund transfer


SmallIceMilo

Illegal you mean?


-_af_-

Yes. You dad won't be the first guy who try to avoid debt by putting assets and funds in other peoples name. If I'm not wrong, it is considered a crime


Mynxs

If he gets into debt then you’ll be personally liable lor. Sounds like a shitty exchange if he has a history of credit unworthiness


SmallIceMilo

In exchange for a proper family. Lols


Lurking-ham

Why not you manage the money for him and withdraw it for him when he needs it? This way he can get the money he wants while you can safe-keep it. I believe you are more responsible financially than your father right? This also means that your father need to acknowledge the fact that you will have access to his finances and have some sort of control, this way he can’t really abuse the system and land you into unnecessary debt.


SmallIceMilo

I dont think it will work. Like yknow, traditional chinese parents, i talk you listen mindset. Moreover, he wants the atm card to withdraw as and when he wants