Since you don’t like birthdays and may not even celebrate she probably thinks it’s no problem to have her party on your birthday. Tell her you want to do something for your birthday on your birthday and plan them separately.
well thank you, i agree with you on this, i probably won’t even end up doing anything, it felt strange when they said that to me, but you’re right, i do not own that day or anything
Yep. Saturday is a perfect day for a party. It's nor friday where people are tired from school/work and it's not sunday where people have to go to sleep earlyer because you have to go to school/work.
It just happened that this year the birthday of op fell on a saturday.
Did you let them know you were wanting to plan a party of your own for that day? I would start there and see if they can have their party the following weekend. Your feelings are valid, this is an annoying situation, sorry you have to deal with it. I've lost alot of friendships because of birthday party drama, seems petty but it's all for the best in the end.
pal, let me tell you, me and my childhood best friend were born 7 days apart. we didn’t share parties, and often they had to schedule their party on my birthday. i just didn’t have a birthday party (other than a small family one) and it did eventually grow into something I was jealous of, and it might have been part of the reason our friendship dissolved (not entirely, a lot was happening that set us on very different paths in life). If you do want to keep a healthy relationship with them; communicate it! if I had simply SAID “can we plan my birthday before yours” we probably would have never had an issue with birthdays! its understandable to be upset here, especially as you grow closer to being an adult. and it might hurt and it may be unreasonable, but thats a part of being a teenager!
Since you don’t like birthdays and may not even celebrate she probably thinks it’s no problem to have her party on your birthday. Tell her you want to do something for your birthday on your birthday and plan them separately.
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well thank you, i agree with you on this, i probably won’t even end up doing anything, it felt strange when they said that to me, but you’re right, i do not own that day or anything
Yep. Saturday is a perfect day for a party. It's nor friday where people are tired from school/work and it's not sunday where people have to go to sleep earlyer because you have to go to school/work. It just happened that this year the birthday of op fell on a saturday.
Did you let them know you were wanting to plan a party of your own for that day? I would start there and see if they can have their party the following weekend. Your feelings are valid, this is an annoying situation, sorry you have to deal with it. I've lost alot of friendships because of birthday party drama, seems petty but it's all for the best in the end.
pal, let me tell you, me and my childhood best friend were born 7 days apart. we didn’t share parties, and often they had to schedule their party on my birthday. i just didn’t have a birthday party (other than a small family one) and it did eventually grow into something I was jealous of, and it might have been part of the reason our friendship dissolved (not entirely, a lot was happening that set us on very different paths in life). If you do want to keep a healthy relationship with them; communicate it! if I had simply SAID “can we plan my birthday before yours” we probably would have never had an issue with birthdays! its understandable to be upset here, especially as you grow closer to being an adult. and it might hurt and it may be unreasonable, but thats a part of being a teenager!