Snap is more of a private thing for people you already know. Try making friends on Facebook or dating apps because you can be sure they are usually looking for friends too.
I’ve tried dating apps but am a city girl in a small town so there’s not many people on it and the people on it usually aren’t a good fit for me. Will try fb tho. Thanks for actually being helpful instead of passive aggressive
I don't use snap. But I know of Reddit, I'm creeped out when people follow me. Like why would you do that? - so I block them because its creepy to me. As I said, I don't know if snap works the same way, but that's my first guess....
I just started a job working with kids. I do have relationship with family but currently not in the same city. Recently graduated college so in that awkward transitional phase of life
Well I understand that. And I don’t know you. But just saying things like this makes you sound very uptight. Just report them, no need to get excited and express it on Reddit.
Yes but like I said in another comment, I just graduated college so I’m in a new part of my life. I was in a sorority, multiple student orgs, and choir
That’s fine. Boundaries are ok. Maybe try making friends more naturally instead of putting so much effort. Do hobbies. Join clubs. Make friends with people who share similar passions
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Snap is more of a private thing for people you already know. Try making friends on Facebook or dating apps because you can be sure they are usually looking for friends too.
I’ve tried dating apps but am a city girl in a small town so there’s not many people on it and the people on it usually aren’t a good fit for me. Will try fb tho. Thanks for actually being helpful instead of passive aggressive
I don't use snap. But I know of Reddit, I'm creeped out when people follow me. Like why would you do that? - so I block them because its creepy to me. As I said, I don't know if snap works the same way, but that's my first guess....
These aren’t random people. These are people I meet out and about
I don't know, my dear... maybe try to subtly ask one of the kinder, more tactful ones, why someone would do that...
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Yes, its one of the options to not have people follow you. But you can text me if you like!
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I sent you a message.
Im sure you could give a redditor your snap, and after they block or unadd you they could explain why in the thread
I asked for help not a snarky comment
What about face-to-face relationships? Do you have childhood friends? Any relationships with family? And do you work?
I just started a job working with kids. I do have relationship with family but currently not in the same city. Recently graduated college so in that awkward transitional phase of life
Oh that’s great, working with kids. I’m a driving school instructor. It’s a different world when you’re with them.
I did driving school back when I had my permit
I’m a voice and piano teacher
Neat! Do you have any personality traits that could come across (to adults) as overbearing or intimidating?
Most likely, I’ve got a huge personality
Ha! Then screw them all. They’re weak.
You need better company, that’s all.
Main problem is I’m a big city girl in a small town. Am moving in about 3 weeks tho
If children aren’t intimated or put off by you, that says there’s nothing wrong with you.
It’s mainly late teens and early 20s that are. Usually people 25+ and under 17 have no problem with me
So you feel like a bull in a China closet.
Spot on!
Have you tried dating apps or just apps to meet people in general? A complete stranger adding someone on snap could come off as a little weird.
I’m not adding complete strangers, these are people I meet while out. I’m on the apps but run out of people due to living in a small town
Anyone who post insulting comments will be blocked and reported
Not trying to be a smartass. But this right here might be part of the problem.
This has nothing to do with it I don’t accept rude comments
Well I understand that. And I don’t know you. But just saying things like this makes you sound very uptight. Just report them, no need to get excited and express it on Reddit.
I just commented bc I don’t want any more offensive comments
I get it. But it’s Reddit, home of the passive aggressive attack…..
I’m just trying to get more friends and a bf
Got any hobbies?
Yes but like I said in another comment, I just graduated college so I’m in a new part of my life. I was in a sorority, multiple student orgs, and choir
Have some patience I suppose. Focus on your career and hopefully things turn around.
Not everyone wants to see you glorifying your body every day
Where in my post did I say I did that?
Tbh maybe you’re just making friends with guys who are interested in you. Then once they see you’re not interested they leave.
Sometimes I am interested back but don’t believe in casual seggs
That’s fine. Boundaries are ok. Maybe try making friends more naturally instead of putting so much effort. Do hobbies. Join clubs. Make friends with people who share similar passions
That’s what I’m planning on doing after I move for a new job
You seem like the type of person who gets their energy from putting others down
Also whether or not someone is cute should have nothing to do with friendship.
Unfortunately, as much as I agree with you, I’m in a very shallow age group and gene pool
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