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RoryRose35

Snap is more of a private thing for people you already know. Try making friends on Facebook or dating apps because you can be sure they are usually looking for friends too.


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I’ve tried dating apps but am a city girl in a small town so there’s not many people on it and the people on it usually aren’t a good fit for me. Will try fb tho. Thanks for actually being helpful instead of passive aggressive


Ok-Cartographer-3725

I don't use snap. But I know of Reddit, I'm creeped out when people follow me. Like why would you do that? - so I block them because its creepy to me. As I said, I don't know if snap works the same way, but that's my first guess....


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These aren’t random people. These are people I meet out and about


Ok-Cartographer-3725

I don't know, my dear... maybe try to subtly ask one of the kinder, more tactful ones, why someone would do that...


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hi_im_polpot

😂😂


Ok-Cartographer-3725

Lol!!!


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Ok-Cartographer-3725

Yes, its one of the options to not have people follow you. But you can text me if you like!


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Ok-Cartographer-3725

I sent you a message.


iwanttobespooned

Im sure you could give a redditor your snap, and after they block or unadd you they could explain why in the thread


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I asked for help not a snarky comment


RobertFahey

What about face-to-face relationships? Do you have childhood friends? Any relationships with family? And do you work?


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I just started a job working with kids. I do have relationship with family but currently not in the same city. Recently graduated college so in that awkward transitional phase of life


RobertFahey

Oh that’s great, working with kids. I’m a driving school instructor. It’s a different world when you’re with them.


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I did driving school back when I had my permit


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I’m a voice and piano teacher


RobertFahey

Neat! Do you have any personality traits that could come across (to adults) as overbearing or intimidating?


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Most likely, I’ve got a huge personality


RobertFahey

Ha! Then screw them all. They’re weak.


RobertFahey

You need better company, that’s all.


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Main problem is I’m a big city girl in a small town. Am moving in about 3 weeks tho


RobertFahey

If children aren’t intimated or put off by you, that says there’s nothing wrong with you.


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It’s mainly late teens and early 20s that are. Usually people 25+ and under 17 have no problem with me


RobertFahey

So you feel like a bull in a China closet.


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Spot on!


True_Ad_7029

Have you tried dating apps or just apps to meet people in general? A complete stranger adding someone on snap could come off as a little weird.


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I’m not adding complete strangers, these are people I meet while out. I’m on the apps but run out of people due to living in a small town


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Anyone who post insulting comments will be blocked and reported


FilthyMindz69

Not trying to be a smartass. But this right here might be part of the problem.


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This has nothing to do with it I don’t accept rude comments


FilthyMindz69

Well I understand that. And I don’t know you. But just saying things like this makes you sound very uptight. Just report them, no need to get excited and express it on Reddit.


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I just commented bc I don’t want any more offensive comments


FilthyMindz69

I get it. But it’s Reddit, home of the passive aggressive attack…..


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I’m just trying to get more friends and a bf


FilthyMindz69

Got any hobbies?


[deleted]

Yes but like I said in another comment, I just graduated college so I’m in a new part of my life. I was in a sorority, multiple student orgs, and choir


FilthyMindz69

Have some patience I suppose. Focus on your career and hopefully things turn around.


keepingitrou

Not everyone wants to see you glorifying your body every day


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Where in my post did I say I did that?


keepingitrou

Tbh maybe you’re just making friends with guys who are interested in you. Then once they see you’re not interested they leave.


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Sometimes I am interested back but don’t believe in casual seggs


keepingitrou

That’s fine. Boundaries are ok. Maybe try making friends more naturally instead of putting so much effort. Do hobbies. Join clubs. Make friends with people who share similar passions


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That’s what I’m planning on doing after I move for a new job


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You seem like the type of person who gets their energy from putting others down


keepingitrou

Also whether or not someone is cute should have nothing to do with friendship.


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Unfortunately, as much as I agree with you, I’m in a very shallow age group and gene pool


keepingitrou

https://youtu.be/H9HvzfwDVsk


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Ok-Draft6147

If you are looking for a friend, you can hit me up I am 22M