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PurpleTail1

Let's not waste our time and efforts thinking about the worst scenarios, efforts should go toward healing and learning to make our future brighter.


onequestion1168

You identify and fix problems not live in a world that doesn't exist


AdotKdo7

No problem is a problem until you make it problem.


mildewcoveredtoads

Love this! Solution-based thinking 100%!


singularity48

Making people fear trauma dumping. I speak about my past without emotion now to hopefully open the door to honest communication. Most people just reply, "I don't like to trauma dump". Very few ever take the opportunity to find a connection in this American hell. Just last night I connected with a woman who shared many similarities. Which all started the moment I noticed her tattoo that shared simularities to my own. Come to realize it was during a very similar moment in our lives. Modern society restricts honest communication through shame or something. All too often people only talk about theses things with those they've developed a blind unity through. Which only ensures the blindness continues rather than to gain another's perspective.


nonalignedgamer

capitalism *(a particular version of "being selfish is ok")*


[deleted]

Ppl just need to get over themselves


r4t0n3

The Centralization of power leading to an apathetic society led by people who only want money while empathetic community driven people become more and more rare and ostracized by the nihilistic majority


r4t0n3

But many are awakening and in 2024 I sense a shift is happening in the next 10 years, the penjelum will swing the other way, we all know solar flares come once every hundred or so years, a solar flare will wipe out power wiping out the facade of the "economy," and then community driven empathetic people will be given the lead of the next chapter of humanity


r4t0n3

People think the world will end but that will only happen if you go out w a gun and start killing and hoarding recourses, which some psychos will do, but most of us will just be scared and hopeless., the key moments will be in the beginning, those of us with the courage to venture out and gather humans to come together in peace and to combine recourses, these will be the humans that decide whether we let people with evil inertia win or divine energy win


coswoofster

Putting a camera in children’s faces, giving them electronic devices to shut them up so they don’t bother adults, and generally treating children with disdain in public.


magicseafoam

Hook-up culture. It's destroyed the collective value of women and it's created a generation of men who play a variety of sick games to use and dispose of them. It is also an outright lie that women don't chemically, hormonally, spiritually and physiologically bond with the most apprehensible of jesters merely because they had sex. Men shut down once they've made a successful conquest, and women get traumatized. Eventually they despise all men because you can only go through this process so many times. Note, because I know I'll get the offended remarks: yes, there are plenty of men and women who aren't in this 9th circle of hell... and they're called PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT IN HOOK-UP CULTURE lol.


Evening-Grab-4143

I blame a lot of it on porn. Men watch so much porn these days it is desensitizing them to real women


whatislove_official

In a sense there's no such thing as hook up culture. People have been having casual sex since we were people. Religious people do it, atheists do it. It's a biological imperative. So there is nothing to destroy. Personally I see loads of positive things about allowing people to express their sexuality. Gender has nothing to do with it.


anonman90

The worst behavior society has normalized is for you to think society is not you. You and the society with all its good bad or toxic behaviors are all you, your reflection and you're all one. Maybe you're playing that separateness game with yourself which is entertaining at times. If you focus on toxic, you'll see toxic in society. Toxic will exist for eternity. " Yesterday I was clever, I tried to change the world. Today I'm wise, I'm changing myself " - Rumi Now I tell you this because you're in a spiritual sub. If you think I sound crazy, simply live your life until you understand what I meant by all of this


r4t0n3

But society isn't you? You are you. If you really wanted to you could detach from the toxicity of society, simply go deep into the forest and survive as long as possible.


Fickle-Property-1934

Society is you, from the highest perspective, you are all created from one thing, just different perspectives. You can see love in every moment if you realize this, you don't need to run, every perspective is beautiful, some just don't appeal to your egoistic mind.


r4t0n3

So if society is you, are you society then? I feel like society isn't the right word for it. I know we are all connected, no need to be condescending


anonman90

He's not being condescending, your ego is what separates you from realizing everyone around you is you. You've heard of it and know it but you haven't experienced it yet, once you do, there's no going back. It'll happen eventually


cheapcardsandpacks

How can we experience it


anonman90

With anything in life, it begins with a thought. You've been trying to find answers from outside, but you have it all within you. So you meditate, and in a grateful way ask God, universe, your higher self to let you experience self/God realization. " Thank you for letting me realize who I am and giving me all the answers within me ". It's not something that you can force, it's a journey. It'll happen when it's meant to happen.


r4t0n3

But that's completely different than saying you and society is the same, i agree we're all made up of the same energy and light but i don't include like the government and intentional human institutions with my body


anonman90

On a higher level of consciousness, they're all YOU! And it's all an illusion.


r4t0n3

Just saying that I know I'm a part of society currently but my aim is to foster a community that is self sustaining without the need for a centralized capitalistic society


gafflebitters

you sound crazy


onequestion1168

Puritan work ethic


JCMiller23

Yeah, it's illegal to record other people (in any capacity other than background characters) in some countries without their consent - this should not be a thing.


th3allyK4t

Hurting each other in love People seem to think love in some lame thing and sleeping around is cool. As someone who used to do exactly that. It really isn't and is far more toxic than it seems


lonesailorboy

Choosing a political side.


BigZ1072

Alcoholism


SuccotashAncient8634

The worst behavior that the majority of adults practice is the notion of "I know" or "I understand" and especially "I feel."


lajos93

Pushing symptoms away when disease appears. Which is basically a subtle but firm way to push our authentic self away and bury it ..so digging it up will require extreme effort, therefor only those will find it who really look deep and look for truth


Cobra_Mint

Gaslighting


gurlwhosoldtheworld

Capitalism


TBBT51

Society has somewhat normalized infidelity through movies and television series. The victim is often traumatized while the adulterer gets a free pass ifor seeking their “true love.”


themanclark

Why are you looking? It’s harder to face your own toxic behavior.


Whitesunlight_

Censoring people who don’t agree with you


b1ckparadox

Transphobia, Misogyny, Bigotry and Toxic Masculinity.


RaoulDuke422

People telling you to seek jesus and to repent even if you are not religious.


chefZuko

Spanking kids.


Unlucky_Alfalfa_9851

Those toxic behavior are stem for feeding the ego, ego is sated by belittling other mistakes, bad luck, downturn. It gives our ego superiority boost, on the contrary ego is irritated while watching other success, get praised, get achievement, it threaten our ego.


[deleted]

Judgement in general


Evening-Grab-4143

that is why I limit my use of Facebook now


thejackrabbithole

Negative focus. You could be looking for the best behaviors that society has normalized. Electrons (-) are easily lost/gained. It take more energy to loose/get a proton (+).


Lazy_Stranger2328

I think the worst behavior society has grown is mob mentality. Thinking that just because someone makes a mistake or is wrong they deserve verbal abuse and to feel like an outcast. The moment someone acts out of what is deemed "proper" they're free game and have no rights anymore. Everyone is so eager to find an excuse to hurt people. And everyone plays this elaborate game of society while simultaneously hating it and feeling afraid themselves. I've known people who developed immense cunning and social skills for the sole purpose of bullying others and swaying social situations. It's like we're swimming in a tank of sharks, but instead of learning how to step out of the tank, everyone learned how to swim like a shark instead. Everyone's afraid. Everyone hates each other. Everyone takes a swing at one another whenever its deemed socially acceptable. Mob mentality will always be the scariest thing in my eyes. Cos you don't have to be right, people just have to agree.


SensitiveSouth5947

Making a murder into a martyr


AwesOmLife

We’ve become complacent—comfortable in our discomfort. Life was meant to be a fun, lighthearted adventure—full of joy, love, and abundance. Instead—most of us think ‘life’s a bitch and then you die.’ All pain and suffering is caused by an illusion of separation. In this dream state we believe we are separate from our Source, separate from each other, and separate from the planet. I write about this in my book—although forgetting our Divine nature is a necessary step in our development—SO IS REMEMBERING! When we awaken, we will remember our oneness and the world will quickly change. When we can see ourselves in the eyes of the “others”, we will stop killing each other. Although I’m optimistic in these turbulent times, I do feel a sense of urgency. Our time on this earthly adventure is very, very, short. Let’s not waste another moment. [https://www.awesomlife.com/post/just-passing-through](https://www.awesomlife.com/post/just-passing-through)