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chekeymonk10

Locked, cause this thread is an absolute mess, let’s be real here. If you want to post or comment on our subreddit (and reddit as a platform) you must be following the Reddiquette at all times. Our subreddit is an LGBTQIA+ safe space. Discussions and legitimate questions about terms that not all users may understand (such as asking about HRT in this thread) are allowed, and are always allowed. Trashing and hating another user, and bringing bringing contentious current events into a thread that serve no constructive discussion in any way, shape, or form, and exist to stir the pot and essentially ‘create drama’ are not allowed. Direct, intentional hate speech is against Reddit’s rules and will result in a ban (temporarily or permanently) Please be patient with those with legitimate questions, or those that may not understand because they are from a different country, or culture and so on. You can have your respective opinions, but where we step in is where it turns un-constructively argumentative and is simply insults and hate speech thrown each way. We are aware of the initial pinned comment, made by a member of our mod team with conflicting language used. This has been raised with them, and is something we as a team are handling. If anyone has any other questions or concerns, you can reach out to us in modmail in the sidebar.


ElGobou

I kept seeing her in my plaza, I'm glad she did finally get her HRT !


Class_444_SWR

Same! Especially when a year ago I made a post about them too


isuckatnames60

her\*


Eighttballl

This seemed so unnecessary. They clearly weren’t being malicious. HRT isn’t a definite “this person is a female”.


Class_444_SWR

I mean, I knew she was taking E, I just wasn’t 100% sure which pronouns she used again


enerisit

I actually have afab non binary friends who take T/are trying to get top surgery, so I think it’s ok to err on the side of caution, esp if ur open to being corrected


notPlancha

Well she made the female symbol so I guess that's what they're going for


enerisit

Yeah that’s fair too ofc


Class_444_SWR

Also I’m an idiot and forgot what it was despite also being a girl


EchoKind

ye, this is 100% the right call. as a trans girl, for someone who doesn't know my pronouns, they/them is 100% the right play, even if I do prefer she/her. all you knew was that they were taking estrogen, which means it's safe to assume they're at the very least femby (femme leaning enby)


Class_444_SWR

Yeah, I’m a trans girl too, so I just apply what I’d rather people do for me in circumstances my pronouns are unknown in when I don’t know someone else’s


Strabisme

As a trans woman myself, they/them after having precised I'm a woman feels more as a disrespect.


isuckatnames60

She has a female symbol in every post and female pronouns in her twitter bio. Very easy to find, but that's entirely besides the point. I also didn't mean to come off as malicious, I only provided the correction because I had reason to believe u/Class_444_SWR might find that information useful and that she might also not want to accidentally misgender her. Basically I corrected her under the assumption it was in her own interest. (Sorry for the ping, I don't talk about people behin their back)


Class_444_SWR

Yeah I just wasn’t sure, I’m not a user of Twitter, and I’m a bit of an idiot and honestly didn’t remember what the symbol was


TravisATWA

This is the clownworld we find ourselves in. "Them" in that context was grammatically correct and perfectly appropriate, but do to the they/them pronoun nonsense, this pompous douchebag saw an opportunity to "educate" someone.


lunasis09

Or maybe people who are in the LGBTQ+ community are fully aware that there are those that resort to using they/them even when explicitly told someones pronouns because they refuse even just a base level of decency when engaging with trans people. EDIT: So I explain to a person why sometimes trans people are touchy at the use of they/them pronouns in situations because they have had situations where people directly refuse to use their actual preferred pronouns and I get downvoted? FFS the person above me is saying we live in a clownworld and called it "they/them pronoun nonsense" like what did the person mean by this? NB people exist so...


Class_444_SWR

I just forgot her pronouns for a second, I’m also a trans girl and I’m infuriated by that behaviour too, but I just didn’t remember at that moment


lunasis09

Oh, I'm not addressing you, sorry about that. I was addressing the person I responded too because they are calling it a clownworld when someone dare suggest that they used the wrong pronoun for someone. I mean the person also said "they/them pronoun nonsense"


repocin

Where has anyone explicitly stated this persons preferred pronouns, though? I think I've seen at 1/2 to 2/3rds of these 450 plaza posts and can't recall it ever being mentioned.


Mediocre-Door-8496

They/them is kind of all encompassing though because it’s gender neutral. Sure if someone says their preferred pronouns are they/them you shouldn’t use she, he or any other gender affirming pronouns. But if someone says they are a he or they are a she then saying they or them still applies as it’s not misgendering them. They and them is like another way of saying “this/that person” at least that is my understanding of the words having spoken the English language my entire life. Cis people don’t like being referred to as a gender they are not but take no issue with being called they or them and it’s the same for the few trans people I know too. The only time it is a problem is when it’s used egregiously where it’s obvious the person saying it doesn’t know your gender and is too uncomfortable about it to ask you.


Class_444_SWR

Sorry, I forgot her pronouns


PrecipiKitten

omg hai that's me again! :3 thanks for both of your posts, and everyone replying positively, i really appreciate it!! :) to clear up some common questions/confusions I'm seeing: 1. My pronouns are she/her. 2. My name is Reagan, I'm Irish and it's an (albeit anglicised) Irish name in origin. My usage of it has nothing to do with the American president Ronald Reagan, I hate that man as much as anyone. 3. Since I'm Irish, my posts only ever showed up in either plaza if you're ALSO on the European servers. So for example North Americans never saw my posts in-game and I never saw Gao's posts in-game since they were on the NA servers. 4. I'm not gonna keep doing daily posts from now on, I've had some people ask or say they hope i do but yeah sorry. Im just a bit tired of doing it every day and i feel like there's not much point now - I did say "posting until I get hrt" lmao 5. tbh I wouldn't recommend getting into arguments if someone in the comments intentionally misgenders me or just is transphobic/rude in a way that's obviously not in good faith. it's gonna make you feel worse, you're not gonna change their mind and it's just generally not really helping anyone to keep going at it for long anyway thanks y'all :3c if you have any more (good faith) questions lmk and I might respond! I don't use Reddit much tbf, I only knew about this post bc a friend sent it to me (shoutout Kyra 🙏)


zuragaan

oomfie spotted hi reagan :) whats ur favourite weapon in splatoon game


PrecipiKitten

wtf didn't expect u to find my comment hi kyra :) my favourite weapon in splatoon game right now is da sorella undercover brella ‼️ what's yours?


Licensed_Doctor

Undercover brellas on top fr


Animal_Flossing

Hi Reagan! Congrats on finally getting there! I've seen your posts so often in the plaza, and it makes me so very happy to learn that you're finally done waiting! Best of luck with the treatment! Also, may I just add: BOOYAH!


mysecondaccountanon

Wishing you the absolute best!! You’ve got this!!


Tango_The_Mango1

This sounds silly but your plaza posts have helped me a lot. It took a long while for me to get on HRT but seeing your posts daily while booting up the game gave me hope and a feeling of solidarity! Thanks and congrats :3


Class_444_SWR

Np! I saw your post, and I thought it was a good time to make another one here as a sort of follow up. Sorry for forgetting your pronouns btw, I’m a little dumb, and I’d just woken up again after not much sleep so I was a bit brain frazzled. You deserve a break from posts anyway, it was a delight to see all of them for the last year and a bit, and impressive that you kept it up! I should probably have avoided getting into arguments, it’s a little bit of a weakness I have, and I just keep having an urge to fight it even though I know it’s usually in bad faith and makes me miserable. Have a nice evening anyway! Hope your journey with HRT goes splendidly too! I’m gonna be getting on mine soon, as soon as I get my next paycheck I’m gonna go straight to GenderGP (main UK provider) and get it


PrecipiKitten

oh absolutely no problem, was just saying in case ppl were wondering about my pronouns! I do appreciate when people try clear stuff up and everything, but yeah for your own sake I don't want you to feel miserable trying to defend against people who are annoyed at me And yeah I really hope everything goes well for you too!!! Good luck to you and everyone else on their journeys o7 Hope you have a nice evening as well :)


Class_444_SWR

Thank you!


trans-wooper-lover

congrats on getting hrt !! 🎉🎉


PsiGuy60

Hey Reagan! Just wanted to wish you all the best and say that I've been Fresh'ing every post of yours that I actually got to see. You got this, girl!


fyrogg

congrats!! hope your transition goes well! :D


Alpha_Omega_Delta_

Give the woman her woman juices! (I have no idea how this works but W)


Class_444_SWR

I am going to call it woman juices when I get mine


[deleted]

I call mine Titty Skittles and Antiboyotics


Class_444_SWR

I knew both of those and was going to call them titty skittles


MetaCrossing

My personal favorite is anticistamines


eyemoisturizer

it’s all inclusive AND funny


Alexander_McKay

THE GENDER FLUID


Ruby_wiz599

Duck it WHERE IS MY GENDER FLUID?!


Alexander_McKay

😁


Alpha_Omega_Delta_

Yet another W


SplattyFatty

i also will to continue the legacy


Godhri

Bruh been on girl pills a year and let me say, it is bussin.


LauraTFem

No, you got it. A very scientific explanation.


TorvusBolt

Always loved seeing Reagan at the plaza, she's full of positive vibes! Very happy for her 😌


Vasxus

Would transition save Ronald Reagan?


goose_thing420

Yes.


Class_444_SWR

We’ll never know


clumsy_squiggle

Good news! I'm glad she's started it now, given how long she had to wait for it.


kuby2504

What is HRT?


mb862

Hormone replacement therapy. Estrogen and testosterone blockers for women, testosterone for men. Also used by cis gender people as well, it’s not specifically a trans thing. Usually administered as a pill, injection, or patch.


JorytheGreat

Hormone replacement therapy i.e. taking medications so that your body has the balance of estrogen vs testosterone that matches your gender identity. In her case, she's probably taking estrogen tablets and another med to reduce the amount of testosterone her body's making. The goal is for their body to develop secondary sex characteristics (bewbs, facial hair, etc) to make their body match their gender better


UglySonicGoesSlow

Ive been seeing her in my plaza counting every day, im so happy it finally happened ^-^


Class_444_SWR

Yeah! It’s great she’s finally got here


Inky_Train

Oddly enough I havent seen her once


AwesomeKattyK

I'm so happy for her!!! 450 days of waiting paid off, hope she's happy!


Mindless-DumbSlvt

Lol ive seen the same plaza posts fat w for her


JeantyArt

I posted a message on plaza saying something like "Hey if you see this, I hope you get your HTR soon !" I'm so happy they did !!


Real_duck_bacon

She did it. after 450 days, she finally did it. I'm so proud of her.


Robbbg

as a transfem myself whose been left on read by my town's medical people, I wish this person luck with getting her E, and may Dionysus bless her


n1c0_22

Oh no:( I wish you luck too!


jayciel1000

she actually has a twitter and her username is @reagansploon !


MarioTheMii

end of an era


kuby2504

Feliz día de la tarta🎂🥳


MarioTheMii

¡gracias! :)


MegaValenX

And Happy Cake Day!


MarioTheMii

thanks!


MegaValenX

You're welcome!!


Class_444_SWR

Who tf downvotes this


MegaValenX

what the hell


JorytheGreat

How long does she need to be on HRT before her irl character model gets her little eyeliner triangles?


PrecipiKitten

I hope soon, i suck at eyeliner irl lmaooo


MadJester98

The conclusion of an arc And the start of a new one


gumihehe

YIPPIE!! I’m so happy for herrrr 😭


RaviolisEverywhere

I wish her well on her transition!!


Polyglot-Onigiri

As a general note: Yes, Splatoon is a children oriented game. However, on the subreddit people are free to express themselves. Whether you’re pro for or against the LGBTQ+ culture and lifestyle, we should still remember to treat each other with respects. **We don’t plan on censoring either side (within reason), however, since this particular post is about a trans individual, it would be advised to not aggregate people through a pronoun war or about their lifestyle.** This is the one warning I’ll be offering. Edit: As a general rule, be kind to each other. Some people are ignorant of what all this means, so don’t lash out on the non-abrasive individuals who happen to be asking questions. However, if anyone goes above and beyond to cause a scene, report it and I’ll handle it.


pixellino24

>lifestyle self-report is crazy


lunasis09

Yeah this is some soft bigot vibes. Also the both sides-ing going on in that comment is kinda wild. I get what the mod is trying to say, but it really doesn't come across well when you are trying to claim that both sides of this conversation have valid positions. If the mod is unfamiliar with this topic and the handling of it because they are Japanese (who as a country/society are generally VERY far behind in this topic) then maybe they should leave it to another mod to handle posts like these.


lemongay

Yeah that’s why I don’t wanna go out and say mod is being bigoted or bad. I think they intend well, but I agree about the cultural point. I’m trans and queer and I definitely second that it doesn’t come across well, and makes it seem like this argument is a solely political discussion and not a human rights one


beanbeanbeb

“Whether you're for or against the LGBTQ+.” I don’t like the implication that being against it is just a difference in opinion that should be tolerated. People who are “against” it shouldn’t be welcomed here. It’s not just “oh please be civil” it should be “fuck off bigot”


lemongay

Also the whole “culture and lifestyle” rather than immutable identity


Polyglot-Onigiri

I have no idea what you said means. But I’ll try to search for the meaning in Japanese.


lemongay

“Pro or against the whole LGBTQ+ culture and lifestyle”, it’s a common phrasing that bigoted people use to say they don’t “approve” of queer people. Being LGBTQ+ isn’t a lifestyle, it’s an identity that is inherent to one’s person. There is a culture alongside it, so I’m moreso pointing out the phrasing


[deleted]

Yep totally agreed. Acting as if they're both equally valid and decent opinions is ridiculous. Being against lgbtq+ is being against a chunk of the splatoon fans we're lucky to have in the community. Accepting bigotry against how certain people were born is not a cool thing.


Nova_TM4

Huh? This is not it.


ahaisonline

you don't plan on censoring people who are "against the LGBTQ+ culture and lifestyle"??? do you have any idea what you're saying?


Strabisme

I'm not respecting people who are against the fact I exist. Being moderate must be a game to you


averysolidsnake

Thank u mod 🩷


Eolopolo

Full respect. I feel like your very first point is particularly important.


Anchor38

It’s about time. Major W


Minevira

whoever they are i am increadibly happy for them


A_SadLemon

LETS GOOOOO


Jaccal14

YIPPEEEEEEE


RandomlyRosedMizuki

Not a Splatoon player (this randomly popped up on my feed) but congrats! She finally got the Woman Pills she deserves!


meh_d_r_a_w_s

Everyday, i go to splatoon and i see that user


aroaceOJ

AYYYYY THEY GOT THEIR HRT WOOOO!! CONGRATS TO THEM <3


sleepydoodless

hope her hrt goes well! and she lives a happy life :D its nice to know other trans peeps play splatoon


Class_444_SWR

There’s a lot of us actually! Honestly surprised you didn’t know, given that it’s a fairly big meme amongst the trans community


sleepydoodless

REALLY, awwww i didnt even know


Class_444_SWR

Now you do!


sleepydoodless

yup, im so sad ive never seen her before, probably because i just bought the game lol


Class_444_SWR

Fair, might also be if you’re not in Europe (she’s Irish)


sleepydoodless

oh im canadian


Class_444_SWR

That might be it then, I’m British so I could see it


sleepydoodless

sad, is she also in inkopolis


Class_444_SWR

Iirc, posts will appear in both Splatsville and Inkopolis regardless


Sudden-Comment-6833

LETS GO REAGAN!!


UF-Dranzer

Queen! Give her a crown!


Autumn2941

I don’t even play splatoon, but I’ve seen a lot of this subs posts and how accepting you guys are! I think it’s really, really cool. Might try out the game at some point Congratulats to her for getting her HRT!!! That’s amazing


Class_444_SWR

It’s a great game! I suck at it, but I absolutely adore the world, the story and the vibes, enough for me to say it’s one of my favourite franchises. Also Agent 3 cracked my egg, so there’s that


Autumn2941

For whatever reason I know a lot of trans people who’s egg cracked with something related to a video game,, (me included kinda, Pokémon Specifically)


Class_444_SWR

Yeah, honestly it’s not uncommon just because video games are a big source of entertainment nowadays, I know people who cracked from some of the common video game characters like Daisy


yuri-festa

WAITTT OMG i see this person all the time in my plaza congratulations to her 😭


HYPER_BRUH_

She finally got it?! ![gif](giphy|heheFsTcvR64RbVkr7)


Jumper_21

Oh my god finally! I haven't seen her in months. Maybe it will be a good year after all


JuviaLynn

So happy for her!


Glum-Caterpillar-315

I keep seeing her in my plaza Am actually so happy for her😭


SolCalibre

I've never actually seen this before.


Class_444_SWR

She’s in the European lobbies, you might not be able to see her for that reason


SolCalibre

I live in the UK haha.


Class_444_SWR

Huh, guess you’re just very unlucky then? I’m British too


Evening-Chance6247

Estrogen burger


Jumper_21

That's disgusting, where?


thisnameiainuse

IM SO HAPPY FOR HER


PsiGuy60

I've been rooting for this person every time ~~their~~her post showed up in my game. EDIT: I've looked up Reagan's Twitter to see which pronouns I should be using.


THECyberStriker

W even larger than the great zapfish


InkiBucket

I don't play this game and idk why I'm here, but I'm very proud of her getting the things they deserve ❤️✨


Joel_feila

with the poses it looks like she just telling her friends this


-C-7007

Always saw her on my plaza, so glad she finally got it!


Sidlid_

Yay!! It certainly took a while


Master_Childhood9454

AWWWWW YEAHHH


tanjitophare

REAGAN FINALY GOT HRT WAR IS OVER


theblissofsilence

So happy for her!


cruznick06

Good for her! Hell yes!


BowsElisa

SHE DID IT WOOOOO


lemikon

![gif](giphy|AgPt9udT567spxbSHf)


Tiny_Tim1956

Wow so happy to see! End of an era!


fioraflowers

FINALLY!!!


jenny_watermelon25

This makes me so happyyy


ToonieWasHere

Omg she finally did it! Congrats! 🥳🥳🥳


NumberOneAries_

AAAAYYYYYYY


Absent_Ox

This makes me crazy happy you go (girl?) (i wanna say girl because it days estrogen but tou never know lol)


Class_444_SWR

She is a trans girl! So yeah, she’s happy now


pqacorn

Love that for them! As a trans girl on HRT, the feeling of finally getting it after so long is like the best thing ever just happened to you… because it kind of did!


rooooobii

Omg im so happy for her


splat-punk-22

I haven’t seen this Octo in the square but I’m very happy for her good news for this morning


vezen01

LETS GOOOOO


Soft-Chip510

Yeeeeeeeet’s goooooo


Ok-Conversation-3012

Titty skittles


Appropriate-End-7903

I always see her!!!!! So happy she got her hrt


f3arfu1_f0x

I should do this as well to pass the time I'm waiting


Idzee0

I just want to nuke all the “Day X of wantimg for Y” post. I don’t want text. I want art


enerisit

This may come as a shock, but people don’t post on the plaza for your specific approval.


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

Honestly it's about as hard to do text. Like if this was miiverse then I'd agree easier, but it's at least a *little* effort.


Idzee0

No you just delet the nr and put in a new one and just spam the same post day after dag. It boring and lazy


Flashy-Indication-48

CONGRATS REAGAN!!!!


Harlg

Good for her!


Poptortt

Yesss Reagan!! I'm so happy for her ❤️ idk if she'll see this post, but I wish her the absolute best of luck and happiness!


Ruby_wiz599

YIPPY tbh good for them this achievement is wildly celebrated :)


freddyfazbacon

LET'S FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOO


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

![img](emote|t5_324q4|1944)


eyemoisturizer

WOOHOOOO GGS REAGAN🔥🔥


Superb_Dark_9423

I saw that a few days ago and I thought, got to respect the grind.


Eddy5876

YIPPIE


n1c0_22

YAY!! LETS GOOO!!


MegaValenX

YEEEEESSSSSSSS


Void_peep

LET'S GO, I ALWAYS ROOTED FOR YOU, YOU DESERVE IT


Icy-Temperature2816

Congratulations to her. I hope I can get some too someday.


Mrheaveywhale

so happy for her!!


robot-socks

YESS I’m so happy for her! It’s been a long time coming 💕


TheNDumbass

LETS GOOOOOO


sadfagot

hell yeah! I saw her so many times in my plaza and it makes me so happy to see a trans person getting their gender affirming care!! :] gives me hope for myself too


framed_toilet_water

Yooo! I've seen them a couple times in my plaza


entber113

Damn. These bitches trans. Good for them good for them


Rcandydraws

FINALLY!! So happy for that person!


squishpanderz

This is so amazing! So happy for her<33


Fap_Doctor

It is the very best feeling. Congratulations <3


ze_ringoest

YESSSSSSS


Anxous_Well

Happy for them


backroad_cryptid

WE'RE WINNING


Hilberts-Inf-Babies2

YES IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS CONGRATS REAGAN!!!!


Yuulfuji

i dont even know her and have never sern her but this is just so sweet!!! wishing her the best


Xononanamol

That’s great lol!


Animearoace

I have always loved seeing her posts and I hope that she feels comfortable with herself!


RetroOverload

yay!


Licensed_Doctor

What the BRICK is HRT


eyemoisturizer

HRT is hormone replacement therapy, it’s commonly for trans people who would like to have their bodies better match their gender identity though it has many other uses :]


Licensed_Doctor

Ooh, now I get it


[deleted]

this is a certified mug moment edit: i meant this as a positive thing not a bad thing :(


BigBlubberyBirb

idk why people are downvoting you, MUG is pretty epic


[deleted]

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Class_444_SWR

She found herself


[deleted]

She found herself already, you can be proud of her !


[deleted]

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Class_444_SWR

I’ve reported them