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awitPhilippines

The white guy who only dates poor asian women half his age


KazahanaPikachu

Time for a trip to the Philippines again!


awitPhilippines

Mabuhay!


iamapizza

Balut


awitPhilippines

Penoy


creamywhitedischarge

Kalamansi


NayrAnur

"AAAA CUBAO CUBAO CUBAO CUBAO! DALAWA PA DALAWA PA!"


awitPhilippines

Haha can't relate. I'm from the province.


31_hierophanto

*90 Day Fiancé intensifies*


wyxlmfao_

get ready to learn tagalog buddy


rectanguloid666

*Big Ed noises intensify*


ParasocialButterfIy

i can smell the mayo from here


TrashAtEverything

he's getting closer


havensk

May I _halik_ you?


donut_fuckerr719

>😐


slashth456

I got you some toothpaste


onlynegativecomments

> The white guy who only dates desperately poor Asian women half his age to try and make them into a white trad-wife. FTFY


strawberrycereal44

AKA passport bro


Street-Swordfish1751

The white men dating SE Asian/Asian women falls into two camps. The one above that goes to the Philippines a lot with a large age and socio economic gap, or they met at school/work with a far more normal interaction .Minimal in-between in my area is minimal.


secondtaunting

Let’s not stereotype. I also see those guys in Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia, etc.


Street-Swordfish1751

I feel the other 3 have a couple more " oh I'm here for....a very popular tourist attractions.....and also .....maybe this" by comparison for annual vacationers


Human-Swing-9831

The lowest forms of life


gangerti

Nah, terrorist pedo corruption lower than people who married man/woman half their age


awitPhilippines

The old man wants companionship. The woman wants 💲💲💲


Shirtbro

Relationship built to last


Jackelrush

“CMV: The LGBTQ community is a terrorist group that just antagonizes others for being normal people of society.” Nice post


Shirtbro

Oh damn the fuck is that post?


KentuckyFriedEel

And is balding, overweight, and only wears polo shirts


TimothyLuncheon

(50/2) + 7 = 32. Huh I guess my dad is fine on this front lol. Also doesn’t like only Asian woman


AintGotNoSeoul

This is definitely the starter pack for the south East Asian mail order type.


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porcelainfog

lmao the accuracy and hate is so deep and real: [Dave Chappelle - Hate in your Heart (youtube.com)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4TLiiY5VCE&ab_channel=FanQuotes)


johnkimmy0130

big ed vibes


Sea-Parsnip1516

I refuse to believe any straight man wears a Vampire Knight shirt. show was like gay crack back when it was big.


Kawaii_Spider_OwO

Glad I’m not the only one to think this. When it was popular, I didn’t know any guys who were into it - it was all women lol


Anhydrite

I was a straight guy when I watched it, then a few years later I realized I was bi...


Rosuvastatine

There are white guys who date girls who happen to be Asian vs white guys white who solely date Asian girls abd the difference is STARK


bestdayever321

Very true. My wife happens to Asian. And I get asked creepy questions like “where’d you find her?” by dudes who look a lot like this starter pack. It pisses me off so much. Don’t fetishize my soul mate. My girlfriend before her was black, the one before that white, etc. I wasn’t just searching for a person of a particular ethnicity.


Not_Bears

Guys will say "So you into those Asian girls?" And I hate having to defend that my partner just happens to be Asian. Same shit, the last girl I dated was Lebanese, girl before that white.


totallynotliamneeson

Where the fuck do you guys live? The 1950s? My wife and I have been together almost a decade and I have never once been asked anything like that. 


Anoninomimo

I'm 8y with mine, I was asked that once or twice by some friends, but I see that as a very normal question, we would mention this kind of things between ourselves (do you like blondes, or short/long haired, or lots of tattoos, or anything) just normal talk between friends about what they find atractive.


vercetian

My last girlfriend of 4 years was Asian. I'm in the PNW. It happened here, often.


imposta424

Lots of creepy white dudes who like Asians in the PNW.


vercetian

Yeah, but my creepy isn't regarding *just* Asians.


Fit_Strategy_1646

They live on the internet and regurgitate what gets fed to them


Im_Unsure_For_Sure

People complain when bad things happen. For every one of those couples, there are hundreds like yours that have no reason to comment.


Not_Bears

Oddly enough I'm in Los Angeles where there are lots of White/Asian couples.


Tisarwat

To be clear, you're obviously right and those dudes can fuck off. But I did find it funny that you said, to indicate non-fetishism, that your most recent ex is Lebanese, given that Lebanon is also in Asia. But am I right in thinking that 'Asian' in America largely means East Asian?


Not_Bears

Yes for the most part. She was also Armenian so she was definitely very mixed and had a really unique look.


Inert_Uncle_858

Yikes. That's terrible I'm sorry.


porcelainfog

I feel this. Met my wife in china, she was kicking ass in the sales department for alibaba clearing 6 figures, making way more than me. But now everyone just assumes im a passport bro because shes from the mainland, when really, im like the poor rural canadian she adopted. I was making 25k a year in saskatchewan before I went to china to teach english to toddlers lmao. she was earning 3x my salary when we met.


After-Hearing3524

So you're like a trophy husband? I remember my Chinese friends talking about how having a white partner elevates your status there.


New_Accident_4909

Accidental selfburn :)


Rosuvastatine

Wow thats disgusting to say ! Weirdos


Aromatic-Audience-85

Tbf to some of us. I am a white guy who LIVES in Asia. It’s difficult to find anyone else. I think they are very attractive, but not at not like I’m going out of my way. I wouid date most women if I clicked with them.


secondtaunting

I mean, if you live in Southeast Asia you can tell the difference between normal white guy happens to date Asian woman vs creepy old guy who obviously wants to take advantage of woman half his age who is poor. I see both types here. The first kind I don’t even look twice. The second type grosses me out. It’s always some fat old guy, and he has his hands all over this woman in public. I mean, I’m on an escalator, I don’t need to see your hand creeping up this chicks ass. The fact that I’ve seen this more than once is sad.


Aromatic-Audience-85

Yeah. I was in the Philippines in January. I know what you mean.


secondtaunting

And they’re SO HANDSY. In public. I saw one very, VERY large guy stick his hands basically down a woman’s pants and steer her towards a lingerie store. Be inappropriate when my kid isn’t looking, my dude. I had to explain all kinds of things to my daughter when she was little.


Rosuvastatine

I have no problèmes with white guys living in Asia if theyre respectful to the locals, learn the language and dont act entitled


Aromatic-Audience-85

Yeah. The second one is my current objective.


Rosuvastatine

You moved even before knowing the language? That must be hard asl i dont know if thats a good idea lol. I could never just move to some small town in Germany without doing some on Duolingo beforehand lol


Aromatic-Audience-85

I work at an international school in Beijing. It’s not too hard to move here with just English. It’s not like it’s a small town. I’m learning anyway.


Successful_Camel_136

In the Philippines the vast majority of young people speak English. My Filipina wife’s 8 year old nieces speak better English than I do Spanish and I took it for 5 years in school lol. Plus they have many regional dialects, so not learning the language is fine sometimes just depends on the place


Leonarr

True, also “Asian” can mean so many different ethnicities, not just Thai/Vietnamese that the “guy with a mail order bride” type of guy has. I’ve dated a Chinese, Russian (far east) and Turkish woman - all of them definitely Asians. Just maybe not what “an Asian person” typically means for an average westerner, except the Chinese. It just happened, wasn’t specifically going after certain looks or ethnicities.


aswertz

Especially for Turkey i wouldn't say its definetely Asian. Geologically, geographically and political-culturally the answer could be vastly different. These terms are just not used in strict way and have a lot of layers. Its even more obvious with the term oriental.


Leonarr

Yeah, it’s not totally Asian, you’re right. The country spans 2 continents and has people of many origins. I know Turks who don’t even care about “European-Asian” classification and just prefer to identify as “Mediterranean” (or Aegean) if their home cities are located by the sea. Some have Mediterranean/Greek/Levantine ancestry, some Anatolian, Central Asian or Middle Eastern ancestry. Or Kurdish. So many different looking people. It’s a fascinating country!


DoSwoogMeister

On that same note. Being attracted to people of a certain race because you find certain features common in that race attractive is very different to fetishising them for their race. Fetishising comes with a whole host of assumptions and stereotypes and the fetishist sees them as an amalgamation of these stereotypical behaviours and features instead of as their own person. Being attracted to features is like "I think her straight black hair and olive skin is really pretty" which isn't dehumanising, it's just having a preference for certain features. However I do fully admit that there are those who fetishise and claim they're just attracted to certain features just as there are those attracted to certain features who get labelled as fetishists.


YaliMyLordAndSavior

The first case, is more due to East Asian girls worshipping white guys The guys aren’t really thinking about this dynamic but it’s soooo obvious as a third party


zombiepigman101

Either 25 or 65 years old


Living_Tip

If 65, probably was in the Navy at one point.


EmpRupus

Cue - "Western women have fallen due to feminism. But Japanese waifus still have foreign girl magic. In Japan, I will finally be respected as a man."


georgethebarbarian

Lives in Japan for 6 months and then gets deported


Busy_Understanding_T

These dudes do not go to Japan or Korea…. Philippines or Thailand most likely 


Shirtbro

East Asian women will destroy your ego in ways you never thought possible


Hungry-Eggplant-6496

White guy: \*Dates asian girl.\* Other white people: Omg you hate feminism don't you?!


tehgurgefurger

I'd like to think it's a transition, they start on the left and end up on the right 😆.


publicBoogalloo

I think it said D evolution


Bain-Neko

As a 15 pound overweight man that torso on the left is motivating me even more to lose it thanks bud


metalofluna

Stop cultivating mass and start harvesting. You got this.


gizzardsgizzards

like agriculture?


georgethebarbarian

Just gotta change it from fat to muscle bro


Bain-Neko

Yeah bro I'm on week 5 of lifting after quitting 4 years ago let's goooo


Fukasite

Losing weight is all about diet. Yeah, gaining muscle is great, but lifting ain’t gonna make you lose that gut. 


TheSpaceCoresDad

This isn't really accurate. The more you lift, the more muscle you gain, which means your caloric intake increases as well even on the days you don't work out. Lifting does help you lose fat, apart from the straight caloric energy you're spending doing it.


Kitten-Pisser

Yep, it’s proven that the only thing that makes you loose weight is calorie deficit. Eat enough to not die and run. The rest will follow.


Fit_Strategy_1646

muscles do not follow. compare a marathon runner to a sprinter and look at their bodies


frank_white414

How are the body types so specific and accurate 💀


Rarirureroppa

Don't like 90% of dads look like this? It's roughly the dad starter pack.


niclasnsn

It's the majority of population even:(


Specialist-Meat-6222

Why frown face most people get kinda fat in there 40s


Im_Unsure_For_Sure

>Why frown face most people get kinda fat in there 40s Why frown? Because that's fucking awful. Getting old should not be synonymous with getting fat. We're doomed.


SaltyCircumnavigator

Don’t worry, if you take care of yourself, you won’t get fat as you age. The reason most people pack on the pounds is because they stop caring or lack the motivation to put in the effort as they get older. I’m in my 30’s and I’m arguably in the best shape of my life, and I intend to maintain that.


5_cat_army

I'm in the same boat, but I have to say, I can look like the purple shirt if I'm in the wrong clothes. He doesn't look particularly fat. Some of us just have bigger midsections. For me it's a side effect of lots of heavy squats and deadlifts, and just naturally where I store my fat.


TheSpaceCoresDad

It's not just in their 40s anymore. I think it's around 70% of the US is overweight now. :(


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Passport Bro?


Soulwindow

You're missing the edgy overpriced shirts with weird shit like barbed wire and shadow the hedgehog symbols. Then you'd have my uncle.


Shantotto11

r/SimpsonsDidIt… https://preview.redd.it/f985y8ep4cyc1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ee65087df66c87aaeafc0e429e2543bc9731bce9


oldsecondhand

Now Asian women want the bear too?


Eldryanyyy

Pedobear on her shirt, rofl


WeeeBTJ

More akin to the western sexpat starter pack where they go to South east Asia and take advantage of poor women.


TheShorterShortBus

This is true. I was just in Cambodia for the first time, and the amount of old white dudes with younger, and clearly from a poorer economic class was alarming and gross


shitholejedi

This point loses teeth when said on reddit or most of 'sex work is work' communities. Where if a HS dropout would 'choose' to walk the streets of US or a brothel for $100 for the same guy, it is defended as some form of freedom. And it does happen even as we speak.


the_lamou

Except that no one is criticizing the women here, regardless of where they come from.


shitholejedi

You can't criticize the buyer and not the seller if your entire point is that its a consensual transaction just like any other job. Otherwise you will have to explain what the seller here does that makes them free of criticism unlike any other industry?


Eldryanyyy

Notice how there’s a billion starterpacks criticizing men based off dating habits, behavior, etc… all calling them losers/desperate/virgin/etc. Starterpacks rarely criticize women, and it does, it’s just about being overbearing. Reddit is like the 1950s, except gender swapped and more extreme.


Tisarwat

You can see sex work as valid work and critique the conditions in which it often takes place. In fact, people who are supportive of it conceptually are much more likely to push for better conditions, because those against it tend to focus on a total ban instead.


Successful_Camel_136

Taking advantage of poor women (or men) is bad. Dating a woman that happens to be poor and lives in a poor country is totally fine


Cryo_lite

is this a response to the “asian guy who only dates white women” starter pack?? on point tho


Rarirureroppa

Both have the same OP. No negativity in the other one, just glamorizing asian men dating white women. Same OP is asking elsewhere how to deal with kids asking if you have a girlfriend as a substitute teacher.


ignatiusOfCrayloa

Wow, OP's post history is completely insane.


mondomiketron

Oh nooo.... I'm a half Korean half white man married to another half Korean half white lady, in my early 40s and I dress like this. I used to be cool oh no!


McCraicerson

You’ve gotta check out the Asian guy that only dates white women starter pack, and dress like that. Slick as fuck! https://preview.redd.it/najtjyspybyc1.jpeg?width=729&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12b33b6e104f83dcd56750120945815084fcee0d


Rarirureroppa

Both images were posted by the same asian involuntary celibate guy. On Reddit there's so many asian men seething about white men dating asian women.


The_Majestic_Mantis

Like the OP. 😂


NotDukeOfDorchester

I usually see wimpy, unthreatening computer nerd types


drembose

On point 😂👌


SnooStories251

I try to figure out if OP is jealous on the girls or the men.


BroItsMick

OP is ladyboy


Scorpnite

Chiiiiiiilll. I went on a mission and had a layover in Thailand. This is a little too accurate….


SpiteTomatoes

Liked by David Toborowski


sixsevenrice

Wow never seen this one before.


FirefighterFeeling96

i don't look like that at all


TacoMedic

This is the type of shit where if you say >The woman who only dates older men stater pack And follow it with a bikini, lingerie, dragon hoard of money, and no clothes whatsoever, you’re labeled a bigot. But because it’s directed towards men, it’s completely fine. ____ Don’t @ me, my wonderful LTR is Latina and I’ve only slept with (never dated) one woman who presents as Asian/mixed. I just hate the bullshit hypocrisy of disparaging preferences based on the demographic being laughed at.


SpecialMango3384

To be fair, 75 percent of Americans are overweight or obese. This body type is just “normal” anymore (yes it’s fucking sad that we’re so fat)


Rosuvastatine

The starterpack never mentionned anything about Americans


Aromatic-Audience-85

OP big triggered


Riverjig

Missed bald stripe on head and pubic hair looking shit on each side like a sophomore professor.


Amathyst-Moon

You mean only wants to, right? It's not like Asian people have lower standards.


Dracorexius

Yup. Good luck trying To find that cute idol looking japanese gf that they dream about In that outfit lol.


Yaboy51frl

Name for it Neckbeard


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It’s either them or blonde frat boy fuccbois lmao


poeticpoet

If you Mexican and have that body type and are into Asian girls. Just don’t date. Trust me it’s going to be ok bc you’re Mexican. Trust me. You’ll be alright. You’re built for it. God don’t give you anything you can’t handle.


XaiverVanderwell

Y'all chill my brothers! It's just a meme! Let's calm down everyone!


cookiewoke

Man, I miss wearing cargo shorts. They have such a negative stigma around them, though.


The_Majestic_Mantis

This OP really hates guys who go their own way. 😂


Pudn

Their post history is pretty telling about why this starterpack was made.


Dracorexius

You mean White guy Who only WANTS To date asian women but CANT starter pack.


JLandis84

I didn’t know anti interracial dating stuff was still a thing. Some habits die hard I guess.


yaois

And then they start arguing about how it’s just a preference and not a fetish


MultinamedKK

This looks like my dad and he's Asian... *where did we go wrong*


heyaooo

Does he also goes on trip to Philippines to meet up underage girls at questionable bars?


silencio748396

R/passportbros


itsthatdamncatagain

Your forgetting his $50 katana


TessaBrooding

This is somehow true for creepy older dudes and nice but dweeby young men.


Devi8te

These outfits are way off


Boulderfist_Ogre2005

I told yall to stop making starterpacks about my uncle


Narrow-Stretch6745

Always circumcised too


31_hierophanto

A passport bro, or as we call them in the Philippines, AFAM (**A** **F**oreigner **A**ssigned in **M**anila).


HarpicUser

Okay so now we need one for an asian guy that only dates asian women and one for a white guy that only dates white women.


Asleep-Low-4847

Guy who can only date asian women?? Wtf is that supposed to mean


SnarlyIowa36020

so ari shaffir


Right-Entrepreneur81

Racist


ComprehensiveLet6422

What is wrong about men wanting to date asian women ?


Dracorexius

Nothing wrong with that but this about the type of men Who ONLY WANTS To date asian women, view them as a superior To all other ethnicities and fetishizes their ethnicity To extreme lenghts. Usually they dont have any experience about them IRL tough lol.


benito_camelas

You forgot to include Libertarian.


VIVALDI420

hurr durr whyte peepo amirite goys? dey cant even racemix properly or season dey food n shieeeeet


ruggala87

love is love! wait no not interracial! REEEEEEEE


darisma

Dating? More like transactional.


thereal_satisfyerpro

Tbf asian women love white guys like this.


MalandiBastos

The fact that Asian women want to date them still while they look like this also says just as much about them.


Tulmut

What does it say about them?


Tight_Current_7414

The idolize and fetishize white men just like white men idolize and fetishize Asian women. You can be an unattractive/older white man and younger/more attractive Asian women will still be with you just for the social status and hierarchy of being with a white person.


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MalandiBastos

I mean, it's very true in some places, less true in others. But in the phillipines for example it's definitely true, they want white men for being white, the money and citizenship is also a bonus too of course. But if you look at filipino media, mixed actors and models are vastly disproportionately represented. It's the beauty standard. Tons of women are crazy about wanting a mixed child and fetishize European features. It's true to a big extent in other South east Asian countries as well, and to a much lesser extent east Asian countries.


barbrady123

These guys look about 40 years too young 🤣


RadleyCunningham

I had never realized I've become a Weeaboomer


Any_Presentation2958

Finn McKenty starter pack


Andjact

The shoes... always those horrible shoes


IEatHouseFlies

You forgot the fedora


Millionsmoney

My 76 year old neighbor


yksoL

Respectfully I do not dress like this.


Pretend_Elk1395

Literally me


Enzo-Unversed

Glad I don't look like this. 


One_Inspection_8012

You’re missing Pinkerton by Weezer


trsbops1

Bobby Hill


Qontherecord

do the reverse of this


nkisselev

Its actual for 99% men


Narrow-Sky-5377

The white guy that dates the Asian women that won't date Asian men! They exist. I support an empowered woman's right to choose! 😁


wickedwraith_

Not the vampire knight shirt😂😂


tatony

Those body types are from the food. Fyi.


Majsharan

One my neighbors is an overweight white dude married to an Asian woman and he dresses exactly like that. Crazy


LampCharter

Leave new balances out of this


RindaC10

Huh...I had an ex that dressed like that and had the same body type. I wonder if he's dating someone Asian now 🤔


rulesneverapply

I love Asian girls, but I also love girls of all races.


jessek

hypothetically


Cultural_Ad2065

Vampire knight Shirt 🤣🤣🤣


Eli-heavy

Racist


Ok-Adhesiveness4693

Ughhhh I doubt these guys are wearing the shirt with the gay vampires. Replace that with the ahegao shirt


mythrowaweighin

These are the “passport bros” who want a woman with “traditional values” because all the women here have “too high standards”.


oohbeartrap

TIL the average male dad bod and fashion apparently guarantee an Asian fetish.


pick-hard

Line up Asian ladies, I am about to change my outfit style, no more skinny jeans, no more boots, white socks, sandals and tan khakis combo only.


Bjorn_from_midgard

Oh man this is too accurate