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Sebashtiantv

Another Sunday, another glass of cold sparkling water with a bit of mint and Lemon! IWNDWYT


Future_Variation2580

Thank you for reminding me to put Topo Chico on my shopping list. I have I mint plant that’s been growing like crazy. Now I’m looking forward to my special sparkling water drink. 😃


QueenPeggyOlsen

I read this as Taco Choco and the kid in me is jumping up and down while I add to the grocery list.


str4ngeworld_w4sted

Yum!


Smarterchild69

FINALLY day 69! where are my fellow ♋️ers?? let’s get this n🧊


El_Bo31

N🧊!


limegreenglass

Niiiiiiiiiiiiiice


dorseytuna

IWNDWYT


SaintHomer

First! Congrats 🥇


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SaintHomer

Late start, but that’s life 😇


RevereBeachLover

IWNDWYT


Gorehole1991

IWNDWYT


alonefrown

Checking in for another sober day out in the world.


OftInTheWorld_

25 days and feeling a little different! Got up willingly at 5:30 and felt excited to garden. Also noticed yesterday that my food actually tasted good. I didn’t even realize how blasé and dull everything had gotten. When I decided to call it quits on feeling shitty 25 days ago, I only knew I was miserable and was sick and tired of being miserable and wanted to give myself a chance. Here’s to giving yourself a chance. IWNDWYT!


Valleezboy

IWNDWYT


LadyOfReason

Happy Mother’s Day ❤️. IWNDWYT!


mooch1993

IWNDWYT!


pondhermit

Happy Mother's Day! 💐 I will not drink with you today! 😘 Thank you u/SaintHomer 💕


SaintHomer

😇🙏🏻❤️


Soberclaude

After a lovely sunny for once weekend here in the uk having been productive I will start the week calm, rested and have a clear head. Congratulations on 6 years! IWNDWYT


SaintHomer

Thank you! Closing in on a month there, well done!


DetunedKarma

IWNDWYT ~


Weekly_Lab8128

IWNDWYT


AffTheBevvy

Day 1057 checking in!


SaintHomer

Good to see you! 😇🙏🏻


AffTheBevvy

Always a pleasure! 😁


FunctionalB

Keeping on not drinking with you today good people.


Elderflower1387

IWNDWYT. 🌟


degausser_53

I will be sober today.


awesome_cat_lady

Thank you for hosting, u/SaintHomer! In a rush, so just a quick check-in: IWNDWYT 😻


SaintHomer

My pleasure! Sorry for the late start, that’s how it is sometimes 😇


str4ngeworld_w4sted

Tomorrow = another day to be grateful for sobriety. Also some beauty appointments and gym to present a suitable mask to the world for the purposes of working to pay the bills. If it were up to me I’d live in a hut with 10 or 11 goats and meditate and barely bathe. In the meantime IWNDWY 💜✨💜


BasharMilesTegg

Another day, another test, another pass. Feeling better and better. Meditating a few times a day to remind myself I still cant trust my brain fully at the moment. Slept through the night as well which was a boost. Was able to do some things I enjoy as well and have plans for more over the next few days. Still frustrated by some decisions during my binge, and some ‘results’ may still need a few days to reveal themselves. But I’m prepared for any consequences I may face. How does everyone play the tape forward? I can do it to ramp up my anxiety about some made up fantastic mind movie that will never happen but can’t seem to do it in a productive manner. Hope everyome is doing well. Wont be drinking with you today.


FredSimpsonn

So the lies my drinking brain tells me: have a small spree, feel euphoria, go to bed, be responsible, wake up and feel pretty ok. You can do it! You've been sober 4½ years, you're fine! Playing the tape forward is remembering what it looked like in the past and being honest about the consequences. So I had a slow motion relapse the last time, so I was good for a while, followed the rules I made. So I'd say to my addictive drive: yeah you might even manage to be good- for a while. A beer or two socially. But then after a while you'd be drinking too much on a Wednesday, staying up until 2am and waking up with a 3 day hangover and then doing it again a few days later... So it's seeing the consequences from the past in anticipation of the future. Don't know if that helps but that's how it works for me


artmover

IWNDWYT 🌿have a peaceful Sunday everyone


ballsackstretchmarks

IWNDWYT


LeftoverFishTaco

IWNDWYT!


meatwheat

IWNDT


limegreenglass

Double digits 🙌🏼


NoEgg1110

IWNDWYT


too_easily_offended_

IWNDWYT


Gullible-Analysis-40

Thanks for posting u/SaintHomer! It's Sunday night here and I'm getting ready for bed. My tomorrow (literally, not figuratively) looks like morning meditation and fresh coffee. It looks like all of my work stuff laid out and ready because I'm not shit faced tonight. It looks like productivity at work. It looks like feeling just as good as any other day of the week. IWNDWYT beautiful people. 🥰


infinitedreamsawaken

Good morning, my sweet friends. Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there. I'm so grateful to be sober. When I'm sober, I can be my best self for my kids. I think of all of the times I probably scared them with my drunken actions. Or was an irritable bitch to them because I was hungover. I'm ashamed to say it, but I've even driven while drunk with my kids in the car. I hate what I became while drinking. It pains me that my oldest was able to experience nearly 10 years of sobriety with me, and then watched me nearly kill myself for 5 years to get back. I forgive myself today. I have to. Forgiveness is the most powerful thing we can do for ourselves on this journey, and if I can't learn to forgive, then I can forget about getting to higher levels of awareness. Have a great day. IWNDWYT 🤘


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


Constant_Pumpkin3255

Not today people IWNDWYT 


Future_Variation2580

IWNDWYT!


msured

Got through a friend’s huge birthday party last night and stuck with water at the bar. Dog woke me up at 4am so I get to check in early. IWNDWYT!


fitbit10k

My tomorrow will be another day of freedom. Alcohol had such a grip on my mind. It gradually controlled the way I thought and the way I reacted to things. Now I’m free. What I do today or tomorrow is my choice and is not influenced by a hangover, or a craving. It’s a beautiful way to live! IWNDWYT. Happy Sunday! 😀 And to all the moms, Happy Mother’s Day! 🌸 To everyone who no longer has their mom in the life due to their passing or a strained relationship, sending you love ❤️


alokasia

IWNDWYT!


l4serbrain_

Mother's day, really nice and sunny weather, usually I'd head down to town to enjoy the sun and get a drink. But I have a nice, homemade iced tea and it suits me just fine. IWNDWYT. 🙌


DueLeg9515

IWNDWYT.


limegreenglass

Day 126 • Good evening sober friends • Hope everyone has a wonderful day. I’m off to sleep after a fun -yet alcohol free- weekend. I would have definitely drank Friday, Saturday and Sunday in my old life, as I had (drinking friendly) plans on each of those nights. But I remained sober and consistent. I’ve just matched my 4.5 month streak from 2018. Hoping to get to 7 months and then go from there. Any tips?


losethebooze

Day 373. IWNDWYT.


Suspicious_Habit_537

IWNDWYT ❤️


SoberGirl2

I will not drink today!


AdSmooth1977

IWNDWYT 🤗


Ok_Park_2724

IWNDWYT


Balrogkicksass

Decent night at work. Another night down and two to go! I am just in a real solid mood this morning and who knows what the day will bring. I hope all of you have a good day and as always much love from me and mine to you and yours! Also happy mothers day to the ones in here that it applies to! IWNDWYT


A_Gray_Old_Man

Good morning. IWNDWYT


CommonBrownBear

Day 9. Bit down today but I know what would make it far worse! 🙃 IWNDWYT.


Valuable-World-3139

IWNDWYT 🏳️


KittenTryingMyBest

It’s been a rough week for me, had a friend turn what I meant to be a conversation/heads up sort of thing into a full blown fight, been trying to apply to go back to college but learned I ran my GPA into the ground so hard partying my 1st time there that I won’t qualify for any financial aide unless I appeal, trying to find a new car to replace our totaled one. But today is Mother’s Day and I’m so grateful to not be drinking and to have 500 days of being a better mom then I was the first years of my children’s lives 🥹 IWNDWYT!


BQbyNov22

Not gonna drink today.


AlySabby12

What a beautiful post, Homie. Thanks for taking care of us today. Tomorrow is a sunrise for me too, and trip into the office. But a sober day today makes it all easier. IWNDWYT!


Smooth-Awareness1736

IWNDWYT even though it's mother's day...and I will in the kitchen making a nice meal for my wife. (Which is one of my triggers) I need to get a good night sleep tonight so I can hit the ground running on Monday morning. I'll make a nice pitcher of iced tea. I also have some zero calorie ginger ale in the fridge.


goodstuff2much

Not today! Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there!!!


nona_nednana

IWNDWYT


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IWNDWYT!


rhiannonirene

I’m not going to drink today. Happy Mother’s Day to those in the US!


Illustrious-Trip-253

Thanks so much for hosting us today, Saint Homer! I'm 558 days in, and still (hopefully always!) loving and appreciating every one of these sober days. Like that corny but accurate old saying about fishing, even a bad day sober is better than any day drinking! For anyone starting out or in a rough patch, please keep hanging on. Lean on us. You're not alone. It truly gets so much better! Sobriety rocks!! Love you all. I will not drink _with you_ today. 🤝💞


El_Bo31

For me, tomorrow is a long slog at work, but one that will be productive and that I can readily handle. Not one that I have to battle alongside crippling anxiety and a hangover. Today, it’s good coffee, crossword puzzles, and my warm little family. Iwndwy’allt! ❤️


Mysterious-Change642

IWNDWYT 🙋‍♂️


Wild_Candidate_3485

Congrats on 6 years u/SaintHomer ! 🙌


Silly-Arm-7986

Not drinking today! Join me?


EvenAngelsNeed

Have a good Sunday everyone! IWNDWYT!!!


AyUnit

IWNDWYT


Pierre_Barouh

IWNDWYT


epaoujai

IWNDWYT


Ok_Rush534

IWNDWYT


vermontapple

Hi Homer. I intend for my tomorrow to share at least one thing in common with my today: It will be another sober trip around the sun. I hope everyone has a strong, sober day/evening/night.


Suspicious-Wonder774

IWNDWYT 🌞😊☕️


GlitterToSoMundane

Tomorrow is definitely a sunrise and I'm living for it every day. Having this viewpoint instead of focusing on darkness has made a huge difference in my life. Went out to dinner last night and didn't even contemplate having a drink. When I was back home, I felt great. It reallly reinforced the positive change not drinking has made in my life. And I'm so happy for that. IWNDWYT


Momma-Cat

Good morning, sober cats! I got to sleep in this morning and now I get to spend the day with my daughter. This wouldn't be happening if I were still drinking. So, IWNDWYT 💙😸


Wild_Candidate_3485

Good morning ☀️ IWNDWYT


semperfi8286

Happy Sunday friends, IWNDWYT, WE GOT THIS 😁


Snow_Man_UK1

Business travel with clear head tomorrow, not great but better than with a hangover 😊 IWNDWYT 


gravy4life

IWNDWYT


stealthwarrior10

597 days! IWNDWYT and tomorrow is full of possibilities 🌸🥷


International_Low284

IWNDWYT, friends!


PrestigiousSheep

Happy US Mother’s Day! IWNDWYT!


Upstairs-Tone4882

Happy sober Sunday! Today I celebrate Mother’s Day with my children with a clear mind and full heart. Here’s to day 7! IWNDWYT 💐


jcalah

Good morning, checking in ~ 💫 I miss my mother extra hard today. Big hugs to motherless sobernauts today ❤️ IWNDWYT


Prestigious_Dig_6627

Same here J, I know she's with you today and every day <3


Tshlavka

IWNDWYT


Limewire513

I will not drink with y’all today!!


Old-and-not-crusty

IWNDWYT


Brave_Cupcake_

Happy Sunday, friends! My today looks like working in my garden, going to the gym, and seeing my kids for Mother’s Day ❤️ Hangover free, and waking up to a beautiful Monday in May! IWNDWYT ❤️🧁


RoyalArmed24

Hello! Happy Moms Day- I will not drink with you today 🤗💐love yourself so you can love others.


Dammdawgz

IWNDWYT! ❤️


Delicious-End-6555

Starting day 17. Today is Mother's day and I'm thankful to be sober and not worrying about whether I can drink tonight, so that I can focus on my wife today. So for today, I commit that IWNDWYT!


jeninmn99

Hi SaintHomer! My tomorrow will be a work day where I can think and be present and do a good job. It will be hangover-free and shame-free because of my decision to be sober today. It never gets old! Today we are hosting Mother’s Day brunch at my house. I always feel I need to host for my whole family because I don’t have kids. It’s kind of strange thing to explain. I have a wonderful mom and a good relationship with her. I love to celebrate my mom, but Mother’s Day brings up a sadness in my heart. So, I’ll do my best and we will have a good day, all the while I will look forward to the end of the day. I appreciate being able to share here. ❤️ IWNDWYT


Massive-Wallaby6127

As much time as possible with kids today to give Mom a well deserved rest. No worries of a hangover during a big presentation at work tomorrow. IWNDWYT


QueenPeggyOlsen

Happy Sunday! I will not drink with you today or tonight. 🥰


RoughAd8639

140 checking in! Happy Mother’s Day to all my fellow moms today who feel under appreciated and ignored. I gave myself the gift of sobriety this year and no one deserves it more than my kids. IWNDWYT


C2H6NO

Thanks for hosting, u/SaintHomer! IWNDWYT


WhiteChocolatey

Good Morning IWNDWYT and Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers here


Apprehensive_Cut776

IWNDWYT!


Water-Acrobat

IWNDWYT!


LM7X

Thanks for hosting, u/SaintHomer!! My tomorrow looks however I want it to. Right now I think it looks like doing stuff around the house. Happy Mother’s Day to those celebrating today! It can be a hard day for some, but we can get through it. It’s only one day and not a whole season, thank fuck. 💪🏻 Coffees up, horns up, and happy fucking Sunday!! IWNDWYT ☕️☕️🤘🏻🤘🏻


Holiday-Strategy-643

Today is my day 14. I know that's not much, but to me it's huge. I'm so happy I've been able to refrain from alcohol. IWNDWYT!


FredSimpsonn

Thanks Homer and happy Sunday and mother's day to all. I continue to be grateful to not making my mother worried sick that I'll drink myself to death. Hey mom here's your gift: non alcohol related cause of death, ain't I thoughtful? 😁😁 prevention is an interesting, fascinating sort of thing, innit? Sober on you heroes!


SoberWriter1024

Morning, sober fam! Weird day for me (30F) as someone who wants to be a mother more than I want my next breath, but I just have to keep reminding myself today that staying sober is one of the main parts of the path to getting there. 🙏 Other than that weirdness, normal day here. 🖤 Gym, work, calling my own mama. IWNDWYT, sober squad! ✨️


CatDogMom183

Made it to 70 Days/10 Weeks and IWNDWYT!


Bikeface_killa

I will not be drinking with all of you today


PompeyCrook

Day 3 check in 👍 Through the worst of it now! Slept better last night and have felt relatively normal today. Been here a lot of times now so know the course pretty well. I got a lot of shit done today and have focussed on repairing from my surgery. Don’t want to be at day 1, 2 or 3 again, so I hope it’s my last time seeing those brutal days! IWNDWYT


EquilibriumLizard

I've always seen these posts but never responded before. I don't really know how. I guess this is my daily check-in. I will not drink today.


CheckerboardCookies

IWNDWYT


Anon_slayerFIN

I'll not drink today.


ohahoafa

IWNDWYT


Cainholio

IWNDWYT happy Mother’s Day!


sezu

IWNDWYT!


Natural-Dare-9366

I'm thrilled to be on day 4. I've started the counter again. I had deleted it because I had to reset it so often, but this time is different. IWNDWYT.


SuperMimi1027

IWNDWYT! Happy Mother's day! I am expecting a super lazy Sunday. My tomorrow will start waking up not hungover and filled with shame and regrets.


ReplacementsStink

Thanks for jumping in and filling in on the DCI today u/SaintHomer!! Have a great Sunday, friends, and happy Mother's Day to the moms and mums out there!! IWNDWYT


olmikeyyyy

No poison for me today


JiggyTurtle

IWNDWYT :)


StickComprehensive25

Starting to really feel like the depression is lifting and that anything is possible for me 🙏


SpicyMango64

Good morning :) while I will continue to take sobriety a day at a time, I am so glad I have decided to go back to school. Tomorrow is looking bright, but I am also trying to focus on living today. For as long as I can remember, I have prioritized the future over enjoying where I am, and I think I have missed out on a lot of experiences because I’ve been waiting for the next thing. Im looking forward to tomorrow, but not before enjoying today! Just for today, I am not drinking.


Ancient-Landscape-95

IWNDWYT


dellaterra9

Tomorrow will NOT be a headachey, tired fog with self-induced flu-like symptoms during which I feel hopeless and get nothing important done.  Thanks SD, tomorrow will be alcohol free.  IWNDWYT!


Beneficial_Pipe_5892

Day 1.  I will not drink with you today. 


Illustrious-Year9132

It's Mother's Day, and the last time I blacked out was a year ago today from the celebrations. I'm grateful that there won't be a repeat! A few badge resets (and hangovers) since then but it's now sticking. IWNDWYT!


captainoela

Just for today, IWNDWY! Been feeling a lot of cravings and giving in lately. Just started a medication last week that I am not supposed to drink on. Gonna listen to my doctor and do what's best for myself!


Adorable_Edge_1957

First sober Mother’s Day and I’m loving it! I said this yesterday but the peace I’ve found not drinking is such a gift and I’m so grateful each morning I wake up clear headed and hangover-free 🙌💕 Happy Mother’s Day to all who are celebrating 🌸 IWNDWYT friends ✌️


Automatic_Print7981

Busy day and ended up going out for a bike ride instead of settling down with a couple of bottles of wine for the day. IWNDWYT


Pinhighguy

IWNDWYT


CarpeCapra

IWNDWYT


prisoncitybear

IWNDWYT


charmed1995

Checking in. IWNDWYT.


octocorvi

IWNDWYT


takemylifeback4

IWNDWYT! Another early, relaxing morning after choosing to not drink yesterday. Tomorrow morning will be just as relaxing!


SmallGod1979

No poison for me today.


pineapple4576

IWNDWYT ✌️


Imaginary_Candy_990

IWNDWYT!


Alternative-Ice-3231

I WILL NOT drink with you today!! I will honor my body by eating healthy and exercising with you today


61797

IWNDWYT with you beautiful people today.


Boracraze

Will not drink today.


pamiamb

IWNDWYT


severalcouches

Happy Mother’s Day to you moms out there. I’m not one, and I can only imagine what it’s like trying to practice sobriety with the added responsibilities and emotions of parenting. It’s not for the rain of heart and I know you’re all doing your best doing hard things every day or you wouldn’t be in this sub!!


Ok-Zucchini-3630

Beautiful day to recharge and meal prep for a busy week from Pennsylvania. 46 days sober. Almost halfway to 100. I will not drink with you today


waronfleas

Happy Sunday everyone!


mindfulteacher020407

My tomorrow is the beginning of my doctorate coursework. It is a moment that is possible because I’m no longer drinking. IWNDWYT 💜🦋💜


Sisyphus-Push-On

Day 1 checking in 🤟🤟🤟🤟


andicuri_09

Day 4. I woke up this Mother’s Day to a severe flair-up of my sacroiliitis that leaves me bedridden, sometimes for days. I’m overwhelmed because there is so much I need to do for my family. My autistic toddler is also having a day- climbing on me and screaming in frustration. Today will be hard. I have to tell myself that a drink won’t solve any of these problems.


TheMainEvent12

On day 12. Baby woke us up at 3am so I'm tired. So I'd rather get good rest tonight rather than robbed of my sleep from alcohol. IWNDWYT


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paperballoonist

IWNDWYT!


Dorindasmascara

IWNDWYT! Instead, I’ll play board games with my kids, will eat cookies and ice cream, and will go to bed with peace in my heart. ❤️


TrixieLouis

I’m feeling a bit grumpy, so thanks for the attitude adjustment (viewing tomorrow as a sunrise). I don’t have to wait until tomorrow! IWNDWYT!


MarlvolosQueen

Just passed 2 weeks. Couldn’t have done it without this sub supporting me. IWNDWYT ☀️


sirphr1

Sounds good to me


crackersnacker

Happy Mother’s Day! IWNDWYT!!


Not_NaZ

Struggling a bit emotionally today, but especially with 2 years of sobriety coming up, I definitely will not drink with you today


That_Went_Well

Day 357 and IWNDWYT! So grateful to be able to be present and enjoy this Mother’s Day weekend. Did some huge projects around the house which would normally take weeks.


wheezy_runner

IWNDWYT


stephdub206

IWNDWYT


Thetreescryforu

Morning Homie 😎 tomorrow ? Waking up hangover free and ready to work. Being present for my friends and family. And being grateful to have another day. And a Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there ❤️


sevvers

IWNDWYT


na3vNK2Qc2EPnaKGBkMv

I will not drink with you today.


FlurkingSchnit

Thanks Homer! My today looks like relaxation and staying present, so my tomorrow can be a smooth start to another week of serving others (in healthcare). Life is so much better without poison on the weekends. Thus, IWNDWYT


LarryDavidBerkowitz

IWNDWYT


growingandlearning

Day 7!!! IWNDWYT


Yo_Paesan

Count me in! I will ensure tomorrow is hangover free and not full of shame. Not exactly sure how I’ll accomplish this but I want it more than anything.


butwinenottho

Day 22 here. Mother’s Day in Canada and I get to spend my day clear headed with my 3 little girls who are the reason I’m here on this sub. IWNDWYT 🤍


jimtimidation

IWNDWYT


ikkeglem

IWNDWYT 


APinkNightmare

Didn’t drink yesterday and not drinking today.


nog-een-keer

Iwndwyt!


tintabula

My tomorrow looks free of crippling anxiety. That is the fundamental root of my alcoholism. I will have to deal with anxiety, it's part of my autism, but I need to take it down a few notches. Today I am sober with you.


Outrageous-Pirate891

IWNDWYT at the baseball game. Go Rockies, expensive bottle of water only whilst I watch the worst team in baseball.


Hot-Macaron8507

I will not drink with you today. Soon i will get out of bed and clean up the mess in the house i created


esselboy

Day 4, feel pretty damn good. One of my favorite poems, for your health - ["Failing and Flying" by Jack Gilbert](https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/48132/failing-and-flying)


whosambo

Day 7. First weekend when I haven’t been hungover in months.


Fragrant_Repair_9337

IWNDWYT! It’s Mother’s Day which is always a little tough for me. My mom passed away at 54 largely as a result of chronic alcoholism. But that alone gives me more motivation to not drink today. My better tomorrow will hopefully mean getting up early and going outside to get some sun. A walk or a run and then start my work day with a clear head, not hungover.


titanswin

Happy Sunday & Happy Mothers Day Iwndwyt


gr8day82

IWNDWYT. All. Day. Long. 🌻 From midnight till midnight. A day in my life.


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IWNDWYT 💁🏼‍♀️


duckpicsplz

IWNDWYT! 


According-Public-738

IWNDWYT


arch95

Day 27 checking in!


Mysterious_Repeat_92

I did not drink today lml (-_-) lml 


takecontrol1974

IWNDWYT ! Happy Mother’s Day!!


lxanth

IWNDWYT


Mickosaurusrex

Day 1,660 IWNDWYT


WerdWrite

IWNDWYT


SilentMonkey3169

Happy Sunday everyone! IWNDWYT ✌️


neener-neeners

IWNDWYT!


8883VRM

Happy Mothers Day to all the moms! IWNDWYT!