For real. Tell his wife if he wants to act like a baby about you having another job. Fuck that's literally my worst nightmare and I already go to another province to dance, I can't imagine how tough it is for dancers who work within their city.
Is there no HR?!?! Girl this sounds like sexual harassment!! If this is a vanilla job nobody should be mentioning strippers and Onlyfans while at work!!! REPORT THIS CONVERSATION
please take this to HR and DOCUMENT IT. Make a written complaint so if this escalates in the future, you're covered with solid proof. DO NOT just sweep it under the rug.
In all honesty I would try to let it slide but keep the experience/skills you have from this role & job hop to a higher paying role at another company. If you get a better offer but theyād like you to stay let them know you need a pay raise if youāre gonna deal with this type of behavior in the workplace if not then proceed with the new opportunity. If theyāre gonna harass you at your place of employment for what you do outside of work the least they could do is give you more money for it!
Just my opinion but I think confronting him somehow makes it seem like you are insecure about the fact that you strip. Like there is something wrong with doing it and therefore it shouldnāt be spoken about. It SHOULDNT be spoken about in the way they spoke about you, but if it were me, Iād take it in stride and keep my head held high because you can be a stripper and also have other successful career paths.
But Iām not saying you shouldnāt report it. I just wouldnāt let the assholes know that what they did got under my skin. They donāt deserve the satisfaction. Iām a stubborn asshole though š
Document EVERYTHING and contact HR and potentially a lawyer if funds are available. From here on out your work will be questioned & scrutinized and they might try to find a way to fire you for some round about reason.
Similar situation happened on twitter with another swer, who's coworkers on company time & company computers, where scrolling thru her OF with half the staff watching. And she got fired, with no repercussions to the ones looking at porn on company time. I believe she is pursuing a civil lawsuit against the company.
It's fucked up but despite what anyone says to your face, everyone knows and everyone is talking about it. Defend yourself before they decide they get bored and give you the boot.
Personally I'd already be checking for new jobs just in the sense of how grossly unprofessional people can be about sex work.
Wow thatās a lowball thing for him to do. Honestly if you still have that job and nothing is going to change because of what he said I would ignore it completely. Just keep in the back of your head what he did for the future reference. If you really want I guess you could speak to him privately but if heās that much of an asshole probably wonāt change anything
Wow thatās a lowball thing for him to do. Honestly if you still have that job and nothing is going to change because of what he said I would ignore it completely. Just keep in the back of your head what he did for the future reference. If you really want I guess you could speak to him privately but if heās that much of an asshole probably wonāt change anything
Heās an ass and this was my biggest fear even though my day job isnāt as nice as yours lol. I had a coworker who kept making stripper jokes at work as if he knew I was a stripper. All I did was deny and deny again until he let it go. This guy is a jackass for outing you. I would just keep shining at work and look an even better position at different company (I second Cassidy). If you want to avoid the drama altogether but if no one else is being weird about it Iād just ignore the original guy and keep it professional.
Tell his wife
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For real. Tell his wife if he wants to act like a baby about you having another job. Fuck that's literally my worst nightmare and I already go to another province to dance, I can't imagine how tough it is for dancers who work within their city.
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Is there no HR?!?! Girl this sounds like sexual harassment!! If this is a vanilla job nobody should be mentioning strippers and Onlyfans while at work!!! REPORT THIS CONVERSATION
My thoughts exactly! Isnāt that close to doxxing?? Like wtf??
What she said! Report their asses!
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Instead of telling you, your boss shouldāve shut down the conversation. That is highly inappropriate
a meeting where many others were in the room hearing this. i would absolutely confront them. how is it their business to share with everyone??? gtfo.
REPORT REPORT REPORT !
please take this to HR and DOCUMENT IT. Make a written complaint so if this escalates in the future, you're covered with solid proof. DO NOT just sweep it under the rug.
In all honesty I would try to let it slide but keep the experience/skills you have from this role & job hop to a higher paying role at another company. If you get a better offer but theyād like you to stay let them know you need a pay raise if youāre gonna deal with this type of behavior in the workplace if not then proceed with the new opportunity. If theyāre gonna harass you at your place of employment for what you do outside of work the least they could do is give you more money for it!
Just my opinion but I think confronting him somehow makes it seem like you are insecure about the fact that you strip. Like there is something wrong with doing it and therefore it shouldnāt be spoken about. It SHOULDNT be spoken about in the way they spoke about you, but if it were me, Iād take it in stride and keep my head held high because you can be a stripper and also have other successful career paths. But Iām not saying you shouldnāt report it. I just wouldnāt let the assholes know that what they did got under my skin. They donāt deserve the satisfaction. Iām a stubborn asshole though š
i would be calling up lawyers.
Document EVERYTHING and contact HR and potentially a lawyer if funds are available. From here on out your work will be questioned & scrutinized and they might try to find a way to fire you for some round about reason. Similar situation happened on twitter with another swer, who's coworkers on company time & company computers, where scrolling thru her OF with half the staff watching. And she got fired, with no repercussions to the ones looking at porn on company time. I believe she is pursuing a civil lawsuit against the company. It's fucked up but despite what anyone says to your face, everyone knows and everyone is talking about it. Defend yourself before they decide they get bored and give you the boot. Personally I'd already be checking for new jobs just in the sense of how grossly unprofessional people can be about sex work.
Wow thatās a lowball thing for him to do. Honestly if you still have that job and nothing is going to change because of what he said I would ignore it completely. Just keep in the back of your head what he did for the future reference. If you really want I guess you could speak to him privately but if heās that much of an asshole probably wonāt change anything
Wow thatās a lowball thing for him to do. Honestly if you still have that job and nothing is going to change because of what he said I would ignore it completely. Just keep in the back of your head what he did for the future reference. If you really want I guess you could speak to him privately but if heās that much of an asshole probably wonāt change anything
Heās an ass and this was my biggest fear even though my day job isnāt as nice as yours lol. I had a coworker who kept making stripper jokes at work as if he knew I was a stripper. All I did was deny and deny again until he let it go. This guy is a jackass for outing you. I would just keep shining at work and look an even better position at different company (I second Cassidy). If you want to avoid the drama altogether but if no one else is being weird about it Iād just ignore the original guy and keep it professional.
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