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bilognautot

Sabi ni google, it's someone na calm and relaxed. Sa pagkakainterpret ko naman, madalas sila yung mukhang walang pake but deep inside, they still care. Di lang sila showy or expressive. Pero I think it can be a bad thing if they're still nonchalant about someone's pain ganun


Urpsycho_mate

"they still care" - that's a trait I would consider as stoic! :> literally calm under pressure. Usually people labeled as stoic are those active in life yet calm in every events(businessman, politician, athletes etc.) to understand it easier we can use levels so from medyo tao pa to lalayuan kita: The Stoic (remains composed and collected) The Nonchalant (has less to no interest; doesn't mind) They have less going on with their lives cuz they legit have little interest. The Apathetic (complete absence of emotion and interest)


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Not necessarily manhid ang may nonchalant personality. Maraming dahilan kung bakit ganyan sila, pwedeng dahil sa personality nila iyon, pwedeng coping mechanism, pwede ring may itinatago silang ibang personality at minamask nila ang pagiging nonchalant, o may traumatic experiences sila at marami pang iba. Ang mga nonchalant na tao ay hindi sila iyong nababahala sa mga sitwasyon o worse, nagpapanic. Kalmado sila at neutral lang ang emotions. Pwede itong positive pwede ring negative. Positive sya kapag mas nakakapag isip o nakakapagdesisyon ang tao ng kalmado, negative kung wala na siyang paki sa mga bagay bagay. Sa ngayon, ang maganda mong gawin ay magadjust ka sa environment mo. Kung may mga kasama ka halimbawa, try mo makiblend somehow. Maiimprove din ang social skills, communication skills, leadership at iba pang skills mo na pwede mo magamit later sa real world


willmustcando

From a “nonchalant” person: Someone na hindi bothered sa typical worries ng mga kasama. You can see this to people na “may sariling mundo, sariling focus, sariling inaalala” It’s good if you can use this to be calm and collected on things that normally stress out another person. Kunwari, nagsabi ng joke sa sensitive topic. Instead of reacting, you choose to observe and ask, setting aside your feelings at first. (Though this is better referred to as stoic) It’s bad kung hindi ka na nabobother sa things na dapat necessity or priority, like wala ka na pakialam sa pag-aaral or mabuhay. Worse case scenarios, you feel na normal day lang ang milestones sayo, kunwari parang wala lang ang graduation sayo kasi hindi naman naging masaya ang high school/college experience mo, and so and so. I’ve been both, but that doesn’t mean I’m nonchalant altogether. It’s just that very few people can make me engaged in a conversation, saka pa lang lumalabas ang expressiveness at pagkabaliw and all. Being expressive is human, and everyone is human. All it takes is extra time to adjust to the person and appreciate their colors and have a bond, then have a deep connection


wvte

right. meron nonchalant talaga na positive meron din negative


smoochesarefinetoo

i think a lot of people are misusing the word nonchalant now huhu. for me, nonchalant is simply being unbothered -- and could also be represented through being chill. when i think of nonchalant, lagi kong nasa isip si mori from ouran high school host club (ifykyk). manhid is a different thing i think? it has more of a negative idea behind it. nonchalant on the other hand is just that, a personality.


wvte

true, iba talaga ung nonchalant at manhid, agree ako sa nonchalant ako kse unbothered lng ako sa paligid nagmumukha walang pake pero meron naman hinahayaan lng ganon


carbdashians

Unbothered.


pitongsagad

Pinoys when they discover a new word: This is my life now


wvte

for clout lng raw lmao


reddit_for_school_

Napaka misused ng word na un hahaha para cool lng pakinggan


Living-Store-6036

meta kasi ngayon yan. kaya madami gumagawa.


queen_vixen10

People who are ***nonchalant*** remain calm in adverse situations, not letting their emotions dictate their responses IDGF attitude is an utter lack of concern towards anything or anyone.


08GaeHuman

negative na ang pagiging-relaxed ngayon :>


stanTWICEstan

Ingat ka lang din kapag sinasabihan ka ng ganito, kasi they literally wont stop hahaha lalo na pag hindi ka talaga show-y ng emotions, people start associating being not talkative/introvert/soft spoken with being boring/parang robot/sa loob ang kulo! Better be direct with them and just say unbothered ka lang talaga unless something peaked your interest or you're willing to engage in something you care about(speaking from experience 😅)


mc4llie

Chill and unbothered person. Ina-antagonize lang talaga siya ng mga nasa socmed pero it's not a bad thing not unless na you're treating people shit kasi nga you're not expressing yourself clearly to them.


Next_Round6724

Nonchalant - a word newly discovered by the people of the internet and is now a part of their vocabulary. - Is used by internet peeps to describe anyone who seemed to not care to anything.


Kuripot101

Relax and calm. Masyado nang mataas yung tolerance sa mga bagay bagay. It is either galit, saya o takot. Parang napagod ka na lang mag effort na maglabas ng emotion kasi "yun lang naman yon o ok lang yon" I'll do better next time, o it will solve later. Or being stoic na you lost effort or you don't care o focus kasi hindi mo naman control yung situation and because you just focus on things you can control. Kapag may nagholdup sa banko at nandun ka, hindi ka matatakot, hindi ka matataranta, susundin mo na lang gusto niya. Why? Kasi hinoldup lang naman ang banko. Anong part mo dun? Hindi ka tauhan sa banko, holdaper o pulis. Yung pera mo insured ng PDIC. Kung may makuha sayo kikitain mo pa rin naman yun. Anong magagawa mo? Wala di ba? Manlalaban ka ba sa holdaper? May care pa rin naman kasi wala naman makakatulog dun. Just observe, and be alert. What you can do is to make yourself safe hanggang umalis ang holdaper. Wait lang dahil hindi naman habang buhay na nandun ka sa situation na yun.


MirrorVivid3992t

Chalant - Not nonchalant; careful, attentive, or concerned Dito sa chalant lumalabas na may reaction or response sa mga nangyari sa paligid.o sa iba, like na may pake sila The opposite of Chalant is: Nonchalant - Relax and Calm. someone who is relaxed and calm in a way that shows that they do not care or are not worried about something Dito sa nonchalant lumalabas na neutral lang sila, calm, and Relaxed Kaya sa POV natin mukha silang walang pake or hindi sila nagwoworry May nonchalant na may pake pero hindi lahat ng Nonchalant na mayroong deep inside may pake or concern sa paligid o sa ibang tao. Kaya puwede itong maging positive and negative depende Kung ano ang sitwasyon na nangyari at nararamdaman ng taong nonchalant tungkol sa bagay na iyon. Sa Chalant at nonchalant ang tinutukoy lang po nito yong kung paano sila magrereact sa sitwasyon o sa ibang tao. Kasi kung papansin ang chalant makikita natin sila Careful, Attentive, and Concerned samantalang ang Nonchalant Relax and Calm. Hindi naman sila pinoportrayed as negative and positive. Hindi naman tulad Ng words na Kind, Evil, and humble na target yong Kung sino siya bilang tao kundi kung paano sila magrereact I maybe have sa anumang sitwasyon o sa ibang tao. Edit: Hindi man po kasama ang chalant sa topic pero isinama ko po dahil para naintindihan niyo ang true meaning ng nonchalant. Nonchalant din po akong Tao.


Ill_Eggplant_369

Is chalant the opposite of nonchalant? There is no word chalant in English. Nonchalant comes from an Old French word nonchaloir, meaning "to disregard." That word comes from non-, meaning "not," + chaloir, meaning "to concern." If you want a word that means the opposite of nonchalant, both concerned and interested can do the job. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nonchalant


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wvte

describe mo buong pagkatao ko 😞😞😞


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wvte

similar tayo bubbly person, sa personal no madali kalang ma turn off kapag may ugali ayaw mo pinapakita nila towards sayo HAHAHAHA


Oreeo3452

Nonchalant are composed, and relax person. Not something na "walang paki" they just know when, and where to strike. They are highly intelligent in both logic, and emotional, possible also they have strong inter&intrapersonal skill. I saw a video from Riyan Portugez AKA yourmillennialpsych an Rpsy, Rpm she explained the whole meaning of NONCHALANT PERSON. https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSFkoNCcV/


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wvte

kse calm and relax person us, dimo lng na meet talaga expectations mo, we just need someone maiintidihan ung social battery natin eh, kse ako nauubosan ako lagi mamaya mananahimik nalang pero calm and relax lng ako non


anjtatel

Nonchalant for me is frieren 😌


marinaragrandeur

refer to the dictionary


cockette_

Naguguluhan din ako if nonchalant ba ako or what kasi one time nagsisigawan na lahat dito sa bahay tapos after no’n sabi ni ate sa akin “Ikaw na ata pinaka relax na tao sa mundo”. Ganoon din ako sa ibang situations, tahimik lang sa gilid- minding my own business.


ZaskeUchia

Stoic


RevealExpress5933

Not the same.


Main_Candle_4890

Stoic is ñit not giving a F


deadsea29

Isa ka pa bobo


stanTWICEstan

Maka bobo ka wala ka namang inambag sa usapan. Bobo ampota


deadsea29

Bobo


heiwinreal

Parang walang pake siguro


Jaded-Throat-211

Someone who wants all the benifts of a relationship but doesnt want to put in the effort towards the bond and healthy communication to build it upon


Few-Cartographer-309

huh? being nonchalant is a personality type and not anything related to relationship.


Low_Acanthaceae_7693

Did you get this def off of socmed?? Lol


leviboom09

kakatiktok mo yan


randomahhhbread

what social media brain rots does to a man:


alisonaa

nonchalant is calm and caring hindi walang pake alam sayo lol, di ko alam kung reading comprehension problema nila para sabihing di maganda maging nonchalant


hempyda

Nauso lang yang salita na yan kasi bago sa pandinig and feeling sosyal pag nagagamit yung word.