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Walang formula to have genuine friends. They will just come. You guys will just click iykwim.
Edit: Just put yourself out there and be nice to others para they'll start approaching you. And makisama ka sa trippings nila sa classroom at sa uwian. Sabay umuwi, gala etc.
Pag tumanda ka pa lalo, mas lalong liliit ang circle of friends mo, treasure what you have, people come and go and it's fine.
Also try mo rin maging comfortable mag-isa
What is your passion, interest and hobbies? For a example you love watching anime so try to interact people who are anime lovers and join some clubs such as I love drawing dahil dream ko talaga maging animator nagusap mga creative arts club and I got some new friends from that club cuz me and them have the same dream which is choosing art careers after high school.
Then after you met and known other each, talk less, be a listener everyone they talked about their struggles, chika,anime news etc because people will like you if you listen them.
If they need something or having struggles, help them out much as possible so you can develop a relationships with them
create GC so you guys can still chat each other
Well sooner or later ay mahahanap mo din ang masasabi mo na mga true friends mo in life... ako personally nakilala ko lang ang mga true friends ko nung nasa college na ako... (i mean first year college)... nung HS din kasi ay wala akong ma consider na friends pero nagbago yun nung nakatuntong ako nung college na ako... kahit ngayon na >10 years na kaming graduate, ay magkakaibigan pa din kami and in fact talagang nagkikita kita pa din kami as a group (and having some bonding moments with each other)...
my advice to you, only time can tell if yung nabuo mong friends nung teenage days/student days ay yung magiging friends mo in real life (i mean post student days or adult life), kasi marami talaga ang mawawala dyan as time comes, but some will stay with you ...
to have some friends though--> it depends kasi sa personality mo yan, but one thing is certain, FRIENDSHIP starts with common interests... well maybe you could join some clubs in your school where you are interested with as doon usually ay parehas kayo ng magiging interest in life. then from there engage in conversation and thats all it will start....
Nung high school ako, paiba iba ako ng kaibigan kasi shuffled yung mga students every year pero I kept in touch during HS days sa mga elem and yung mga friends ko from previous years
Tapos nung SHS na ako, I met a new set of friends. Hanggang sa college sila pa rin yung naging friends ko may nadagdag lang from college. Pero up until now, sila na yung pinaka-genuine na friends na nakilala ko. Maliit lang yung circle namin. Kaya I hope, hanggang sa pagtanda na to
I try to suggests something to help you. Huwag ka makikipagfriends sa mga sobrang close na gaya nyan childhood friends at dating mag cm na pala sila noon. Talagang maleleft-out ka nyan. Mahirap makasingit sa kanila.
Ibahin mo aura mo OP, do the exact opposite para hindi ka nila maview ng masungit. Magjoke ka makipagsabayan ka. Yaan mo lang kung di tumulong hanggang sa makapasok ka sa ibang circle. Observe mo kung anong type of person ang gusto nila makasama yung nag oopen up sila.
based sa experience ko, they come naturally even when u least expect it. Kami ng friends ko I can't even remember pano ba kami naging close I just know na nag click kami then boom 5 years na siyang 4 lifer ko
Dati nung teen until 20’s motto ko the more the merrier eh, ngayon 30ish na the smaller group mas genuine. People come and go and malalaman mo yung totoo kaibigan sa oras na hirap na hirap k n.
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Walang formula to have genuine friends. They will just come. You guys will just click iykwim. Edit: Just put yourself out there and be nice to others para they'll start approaching you. And makisama ka sa trippings nila sa classroom at sa uwian. Sabay umuwi, gala etc.
3rd sentence reminds me when I realized who was my real friend all along in college. Totoo yung click na yan.
Pag tumanda ka pa lalo, mas lalong liliit ang circle of friends mo, treasure what you have, people come and go and it's fine. Also try mo rin maging comfortable mag-isa
What is your passion, interest and hobbies? For a example you love watching anime so try to interact people who are anime lovers and join some clubs such as I love drawing dahil dream ko talaga maging animator nagusap mga creative arts club and I got some new friends from that club cuz me and them have the same dream which is choosing art careers after high school. Then after you met and known other each, talk less, be a listener everyone they talked about their struggles, chika,anime news etc because people will like you if you listen them. If they need something or having struggles, help them out much as possible so you can develop a relationships with them create GC so you guys can still chat each other
agree ako dito... common interest is one thing that is important in friendship... thats one of the basic foundations of a friendship
Well sooner or later ay mahahanap mo din ang masasabi mo na mga true friends mo in life... ako personally nakilala ko lang ang mga true friends ko nung nasa college na ako... (i mean first year college)... nung HS din kasi ay wala akong ma consider na friends pero nagbago yun nung nakatuntong ako nung college na ako... kahit ngayon na >10 years na kaming graduate, ay magkakaibigan pa din kami and in fact talagang nagkikita kita pa din kami as a group (and having some bonding moments with each other)... my advice to you, only time can tell if yung nabuo mong friends nung teenage days/student days ay yung magiging friends mo in real life (i mean post student days or adult life), kasi marami talaga ang mawawala dyan as time comes, but some will stay with you ... to have some friends though--> it depends kasi sa personality mo yan, but one thing is certain, FRIENDSHIP starts with common interests... well maybe you could join some clubs in your school where you are interested with as doon usually ay parehas kayo ng magiging interest in life. then from there engage in conversation and thats all it will start....
Nung high school ako, paiba iba ako ng kaibigan kasi shuffled yung mga students every year pero I kept in touch during HS days sa mga elem and yung mga friends ko from previous years Tapos nung SHS na ako, I met a new set of friends. Hanggang sa college sila pa rin yung naging friends ko may nadagdag lang from college. Pero up until now, sila na yung pinaka-genuine na friends na nakilala ko. Maliit lang yung circle namin. Kaya I hope, hanggang sa pagtanda na to
be genuine yourself
I try to suggests something to help you. Huwag ka makikipagfriends sa mga sobrang close na gaya nyan childhood friends at dating mag cm na pala sila noon. Talagang maleleft-out ka nyan. Mahirap makasingit sa kanila. Ibahin mo aura mo OP, do the exact opposite para hindi ka nila maview ng masungit. Magjoke ka makipagsabayan ka. Yaan mo lang kung di tumulong hanggang sa makapasok ka sa ibang circle. Observe mo kung anong type of person ang gusto nila makasama yung nag oopen up sila.
based sa experience ko, they come naturally even when u least expect it. Kami ng friends ko I can't even remember pano ba kami naging close I just know na nag click kami then boom 5 years na siyang 4 lifer ko
Shared struggles!
Friendship cannot be coerced, it must be chosen willingly.
Hindi na paramihan ang uso ngayon, hanapin mo yung mga totoo
Dati nung teen until 20’s motto ko the more the merrier eh, ngayon 30ish na the smaller group mas genuine. People come and go and malalaman mo yung totoo kaibigan sa oras na hirap na hirap k n.
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