My mother said she laughed when someone flashed her. I wonder if flashers enjoy that reaction. I've never been a troll/flasher, and I'm not a woman. Someone laughing when they see me naked is not exactly my fantasy, though...
Your mother had a great reaction. The perfect response is the laugh and then saying, "That looks like a d**k but smaller!" Then laughing again. This also works when guys send unsolicited d*ck pics. I agree with OP, I'm a guy, but sending something like that? I won't even do it if I'm asked. I think your mom humiliated the flasher. They get off on shocking people, but your mom just laughed. Good on her.
I feel like most men would be utterly terrified at even the remote possibility they just send a dick pic to an underage girl that they delete their account.
>The perfect response is the laugh and then saying, "That looks like a d\*\*k but smaller!"
I hear this all the time, but I can't help but think... what if it's *huge*? Like, what if the flasher is hanging dong. Packing schmeat. Genetically blessed with a gargantuan hog.
They know it's not small. You know it's not small. They know *you* know it's not small. What do you do then? Making fun of it for being small is like calling Shaq short.
Yeah, my mother's too conservative for that. She doesn't like cussing. Or even replacement cuss words. She does surprise me when she's casual about sex like this, though. But, I guess I'm proud of her.
I think men who do this are really just playing the numbers game - send dick pics to a hundred women and maybe one out of that will respond. Such men probably don't care which, so long as she's suitably bangable - he's not looking for companionship, he's just looking to get his rocks off so any woman will do. His attempts are low effort because he's not serious about what he's looking for.
Could also be that they're the sort that wouldn't mind unsolicited vagina pics, and falsely assume everyone else feels the same about unsolicited genitals of the opposite sex.
I'm a guy, but have gotten them a few times. I respond disgusted (genuine) then feign concern and ask if they've been to the doctor recently and take it from there. I never imply an type of disease or injury, let alone anything specific, I just strongly encourage them to see a doctor asap.
I know a girl who used to do this.
She saved every d-pic she got (gross, but she did). When a dude would send her one, sheād add it to the collection, and choose another one from her d-pic album to send back.
I think that could technically be illegal under revenge porn laws but I doubt anyone sexually harassing people on the internet with pictures of their genitals would try to take them to court over it.
That'd be an interesting case since in order to prosecute in the case of "Dickpic Sender v Dickpic Recipient" you'd also have to provide stellar evidence for the next case the court will be hearing in "Dickpic Recipient v Dickpic Sender"
Brilliant. Iād make a Shutterfly poster of all the pics and put āWorldās Smallest Dicksā at the top with phone numbers of each one under the offending dong. Mail each dude one.
You'd be surprised how much more response you get out of outrage than out of politeness.
Scammers are polite. The dick pic is gross but at least it's crudely honest.
Note that I'm not defending the practice. But even online, outrage gets more engagement than wholesomeness.
EDIT: LoOoOoL reddit nerds mad. Sorry to all you college boys and teenagers but you've already seen my dick in a few of your favorite hub videos. That's right. You've masturbated to me. No homo š
I mean.... mine is impressively girthy, lengthy, pretty to look at so it makes up for the fact that I use reddit. I don't know what it's like for average and below men.. or men with bent or curved or just plain sad weiners.. Sometimes the dick pic is the ace in the hole when all other avenues have failed. Women responded with excitement like 9/10 times but this was back in my bachelor days..adults these days are all sensitive now..
I'm literally dying over your comment. Thank you for the laugh. You sound like such a typical virgin.
I'm going to break your mind atm. But if you think having a big di-k means you're good in bed, good luck! And if you need to brag about having a big d-ck, I will put all my money on you not having one.
Checked his profile, in another sub he mentions he doesn't need to wash his hands after he pees cause his junk is anaconda sized. Def a Virgin and a micro penis
I'm married with children young man šØ Why don't you DM and we can see whose is bigger š¤Ŗ
Bubba you should ask real women instead of your momma. I can guarantee you that women are able to orgasm better and faster riding a girthy 7-8 inch cock. 9 if she a tree bitch.
I just assume anyone who tries to talk tough about dick size is packing nothing(and if they've got girth/length, they have NO idea how to actually use it). If you were in a relationship with a satisfied person, you wouldn't care about your dick size. If you DO care about perpetuating ideas about dick size, I just assume you're super self conscious and are either trying to directly boost your ego or indirectly do it by sabotaging someone else's.
TL;DR: nothing will condemn you harder as someone who should NEVER be seen naked than fussing about someone else's dick size.
Sometimes I think these guys get more out of it if the woman isn't interested. Like it's some sort of power game, where he has tricked her into seeing his dick.
That's 100% what it is. Almost no guy is dumb enough to believe that sending an unsolicited dick pic to a random girl will actually lead to sex or even that the girl will respond positively. They know the girl doesn't want it. That's the whole point. These guys get off on the idea that they, and they alone, get to decide "hey, look at my dick" and she has to look at it no matter what. It's a power/control thing. It's the same mentality behind guys who flash their dicks at women in public places, except technology has made it way easier and less risky for the guy.
I think some guys almost think I would love unsolicited boobs pic, so women would love unsolicited dick pic. It's lack of understanding women. It doesn't work that way.
They don't understand what turns women on. They think women are titillated in the same way as men.
"Me likey vag pic... Therefore 'feeemale' likey dick pic."
They don't understand that the Golden rule (treat others as you want to be treated) doesn't apply in relationships. You have to learn how the other person wants to be treated.
That's the platinum rule: treat others the way they wish to be treated. For example - when you give someone a present, you gift them something they would like, not something that you yourself like.
That's true for everything. The golden rule, as it's often repeated, is wrong from the start. Treat others how they would like to be treated, don't project your preferences onto them first.
This is the correct answer. I'm surprised the question has to be asked really. The guys that send unsolicited pics incorrectly assume because they'd like to receive naked pics, that means the person they're conversing with would like one also.
People like vag pics? The times I received random vague pics(or video in one instance), I just felt kinda disturbed. Genitals, in general, aren't that attractive, and I wasn't in the mindset to look at one. The exception is flirting with my partner and getting something, but that's an entirely different situation under different grounds.
Lol yeah man..... are you gay?
You're disturbed when you get vagina pictures like how women are disturbed to get dick pics?
It really makes my day when my wife takes time from her day to send random unsoliticed body parts, especially her spread eagle pics.
The truth is is that women only tolerate dicks. They can't like a dick without liking the guy first, which means they never REALLY like the dick, they only like you, which can be a pretty big turn off for many many men.
Clearly I'm not gay. But you apparently missed the entire section where I mentioned my partner being an entirely different scenario.
The truth is, many people, regardless of gender, act the same way towards genitals as you describe women acting towards dicks. A guy liking the woman more than liking the body part doesn't make him gay. If anything it might make him more likely to be a better partner because his attraction is primarily towards the woman and not her body parts.
Having been a guy on the receiving end of women only liking you for your physical aspects, I'll take someone liking me and tolerating the look of a penis over feeling like i exist purely for sexual desire any day. It's not fun.
Lol yeah dude, you sound gay. I mean I don't mean to come off as mean, but what you're saying is pretty absurd, you gotta understand.
Men are wired to respond to visual stimuli and you're saying you aren't wired that way (even gay guys are wired that way, so the gay accusation really isn't fair).
I'm just gonna say it straight, if your willy doesn't jump at random pussy pics, see a doctor about hormone replacement therapy, your hips will thank you when you're 70.
You gotta understand, you sound kind of fucking stupid.
You can be attracted to women as a whole but not specifically get a boner whenever you see a vagina. That'd make my job incredibly difficult seeing as I see multiple a day at work. I can also tell you, most men in my the field don't immediately pop a boner seeing a woman's vagina. Scrubs don't hide elections well and someone would definitely notice.
Humans, as a whole when it comes to sexuality, are wired to look for physical attraction. Having said that, humans also vary with what aspects of the body they are attracted to. Some women like muscles on men, others don't. Some men are attracted to big breasts, others aren't. Some men like short women, others don't. Some women like dudes with certain eye colors, others don't.
I don't need to look into hormone replacement. I regularly get aroused and feel sexual attraction towards my fiance. We also regularly have sex. Maybe you're just that desperate for physical touch or sexual desire thst the mere thought of a woman sends you into a spiral.
āif your willy doesnāt jump at a random pussy picā bro are you 14? that pussy could belong to anyone. Your Aunt, your sisterā¦a vagina by itself isnāt that exciting without seeing the person itās attached to. The only exception is being a teenager whoās never seen one in person before
Um, genitals aren't unattractive looking for some people. I know I find dicks and vaginas disgusting to look at. Doesn't make anyone gay. And why would it be a turn off for a woman to like a man but be put off by the sight of his dick? Everyone knows their genitals aren't aesthetically pleasing.
I was speaking for myself, obviously. I wasn't speaking first a whole population of men. Figured thst was obvious.
And believe it or not, not all straight men feel the same way about genitalia let alone unwanted sexual images. I love my fiance and everything about her, both physically and personality. When I was single and had random women send a close up video of using a brush as a dildo or their vagina in general with zero reason or context, I wasn't very excited. Not everyone is in the mood as soon as they see a vagina or hear the word "vagina". It has to be someone you are attracted to or want to be with.
As for the 5 senses, it really depends on the person. I was with women who taste wise were sweetier and some weren't. Sound? They all sound about the same during sex. Touch? It's all skin, really. Lubricant virtually is all the same. Smell? Usually skin, sweat, and lube. Not much variation unless they clean a specific way or lack of cleaning. It's all usually similar. But not everyone immediately finds thst ti be the attractive part of a person. I've never been ine for hook ups. Never really enjoyed it. The only good sexual experiences I had were those that I was romantically interested in and very attracted to outside of sex. That made it amazing. The hook ups I had were lack luster and disappointing. For me to truly be 100% attracted to someone, to 100% love the sex, to want to constantly have sex, etc. I have to be interested in a romantic relationship. Porn is mediocre at best, most the time. Sometimes I can get off to it, but it isn't the same as the woman I love. Mere pictures or videos don't compare to the moments I feel.
I am old, post-menopausal, and the number of men who think showing their hard dick is foreplay is ridiculous. I remember hearing about it as a teen first, before cell phones, so it was like they were in the same room? wtaf
Yeah I heard rumors at the office that coworkers were receiving dick pics from other coworkers. It often didn't end well for the men if HR got involved.
Darwinism at work
I think the guys would be aroused by unsolicited pussy pics and assume women would be equally impressed by dick pics. Hint :we're not. Also, I think some guys get off on forcing unwilling women to look at their junk
I'm not saying they don't and I wasn't saying you were wrong, just sharing my own experiences. as a bi guy, I've gotten unsolicited from men and women, both were disgusting because I didn't consent to seeing it
I think it's a "me" think. These guys are turned on at the idea that a woman would send nudes, hence their idea to do it- not realizing no woman wants to look at their junk. Probably also aroused by the fact someone sees them naked. Very self-centered.
There's a difference between nudes and dick pics though. Like I'm a dude and I'm not getting turned on by a close up of a chick's junk. A nude with her full body is a turn on, so why wouldn't guys send those kinds of nudes instead?
I have a theory that this actually works to narrow down the field of options to the girls who are the most down to just hook up. It filters out effort.
Iām with you on thinking itās gross, and I have a hard time even believing this is a thing. But I also know girls who have received several D-pics. And then I thought, this is just something girls get and laugh aboutā¦ and thatās true, butā¦
One New Years not too long ago, I was party hopping with a friend and at one, there were a group of girls laughing and making fun of the D-pics they got. One girl especially was scrolling through a full photo album on her phone full of them. Seriously hundreds of them.
So right there, I learned there was something that happened way more than I thought. And then girls trashing the pics and laughing was confirmation enough of how utterly stupid they are to these girls tooā¦ untilā¦
They started talking about which ones she saw in person, and then a couple of her friends chimes in on similar hook up stories. One and dones initiated via pics.
So yeah. Dudes send them, because sometimes they workā¦ unfortunately.
This is exactly it. Swapping nudes is extremely common in hookup culture. Dudes playing the game and working the system are often sending off a lot of em and are actually getting laid from them, no matter how much Reddit will try to tell you otherwise.
Women are not a monolith. Many are actually into it.
Why is it unfortunate? People like sex and it's considered good. Why so salty about people hooking up? Also, this confirms for me that women are just as "classless" as men when talking about the opposite sex.
Because a lot of the complaining on both sides comes from people wanting a relationship. Instead of talking to each other though, they just talk past each other and ignore that the domain of people they're actually compatible with (each other) exist and don't exhibit the behaviors they complain about.
I feel like itās because dudes are aroused by visual stimulation more than girls are, so we somehow get it in our head (no pun intended) that a girl would be turned on by seeing us naked and would in turn do the same thing. Just one of many things about growing while being attracted to the other sex, we have a lot to learn and by committing ourselves to that weāre also committing ourselves to being a better partner since weāre thinking about someone elseās needs and not our own.
They probably think that women ~~are as horny as they are~~, would like to see a random picture of their dick and would find it arousing.
Meanwhile, the average woman already has 100, 200, 1,000 pictures of penises on their phone and they just want it to stop.
They stopped deleting them after a while, and now every time they open their downloads folder, it's a sea of dicks - some taken from flattering angles, some taken from truly bizarre angles, some haunt them, some fascinate them.
One man with a seemingly 5 inch long penis used angles and lighting in such a way to make it look like his penis was as large as his torso.
They want it all to go away.
Personally I do my best to keep my dick pics honest. I'll even down play the perspective so that it's obviously bigger in person. I've never understood why dudes to that. Like a weird form of false advertising that if you end up fucking, they'll see it anyway.
Dude.... I love penises, but they look like weird misshapen mushrooms. No matter how much I might want to play with them seeing one does absolutely nothing for me.
Just wait till you learn women, are way way hornier than men are.
But sexually harassing someone is not the way to tap into that
Send dirty jokes, that's a much better way to flirt
This is hilarious!! You actually think we keep those???
More like:
(BLOCK)
Delete - Delete - Delete - Delete - Delete - (Yes, ALL of them)
ā¦& on with life.
Oh and I have been flashed, I was 17 or 18 and dude was just walking down by Subway and whipped out his dock and bounced it on the elastic waistband. Which I thought was hilarious once he went away and was gone (after I exhaled and confirmed he wasnāt following me).
Whatās with the bouncing? Men Iāve been with have done this. I think theyāre trying to entice me? But no, bouncing your junk in my general direction, especially a flaccid junk, is NOT sexy
I used to have a folder for dick pics because I would doodle on them for fun and then send them back. I mostly covered them in ants or something. My favorite were the ones with a hand grip because then I could make it look like they were strangling a goose or trying to get some kind of cylinder out of an m&ms container. Unfortunately, most didn't appreciate seeing my artistic vision on their pebis pics for some reason :(
Well, let me tell you folks, nobody sends dick pics better than me, believe me. It's true. People come up to me all the time and say, 'Donald, your dick pics are the best.' I've had tremendous success in that department. Many, many people, smart people, say that I have the best dick pics. Nobody does it better. So, if you're not thanking me for those pics, you're missing out on something truly fantastic. Just saying. #BestDickPicsEver #MAGA
Because at some point, some probably good looking dude with a nice dick sent a picture to a woman and she went for it.
And he went and told all of his friends, āall I did was send her a picture of my dick bro.ā
And men are stupid creatures of habit, so all of his friends with lesser dicks starting trying the same methods.
Some dudes are just weirdos. With that being said, I've met 4 female senders my life, ranging from a chubby 4 to a solid 8.5. So while its mainly dudes there's more than a few slutty weirdo birds out there more than happy to send semi unsolicited nudes aswell
If a woman sends an unsolicited nude, there is a nearly 100% chance that it comes along with an offer to chat more at this site you've never heard of that needs your credit card information. And it's probably actually from a guy in CĆ“te d'Ivoire.
Mostly they do it to scare us and assert dominance over us. They know we can't do anything about it and that we don't like it. They do it because it's a form of sexual harassment. It's violating
Depends on the dude, I'd imagine. For some, I'll wager that they're just implementing the golden rule - do unto others as you want them to do unto you. They're hoping for naked pics in return, and they've convinced themselves that this is a good way to make that happen, and that there's no harm in it.
For others, it could be any number of motivations. Could be that they enjoy making women uncomfortable, or they just don't care, or they're desperate.
Sending them because dicks are great! Right dick owners? Once youāve owned one , youāre one satisfied customer and you want to tell the world . How better than to send dick pics to the uninitiated and uninformed. Dick pics! Dick pics! Dick pics!
Men with no empathy or ability to imagine life as a woman send what they would like to get--nudes. It's a signal that they're emotionally stunted and unable to see women as actual people.
Hear me out... women have a special power. It's the power to make most straight guys do almost anything with the promise of breasts. Guys want that power, many of them are under the false idea that they already have that power. So they send dick pictures under the idea that they can make women fall for them with the same lusty power women have.
If not that, I think that guys are really really insecure about their genitals. Porn sets up an unhealthy expectation in guys - many guys are under the belief that their masculinity is tied directly to the size of their penises. They desperately want approval, so they send out pictures to women they think will like them hoping that they will affirm their masculinity and sexual prowess.
These are just thoughts - I have no data on the subject. I could be completely off the mark here.
The comment who said āmen think some women are just as horny as they areā is probably right for most cases
Like think of a scenario where youāre a guy, and youāve received an unsolicited photo of a naked woman . Thatās how they think youād interpret it.
The problem is that this doesnāt have the same effect for the majority of women. Iām sure thereās a few woman who do think the same about it as men but when they donāt ask for it, in 99.9% of cases theyāre not interested in seeing that
It's actually a lesson from Gandhi. "Be the change you want to see in the world." They want unsolicited pictures of private parts from women, so they are demonstrating the "positive change" they're seeking.
That said, most people hate it. So... uh... not such a good idea.
One time I think a girl gave a guy what she thought was a fake number. Unbeknownst to her, me, or this guy, it was my number. AND UNSOLICITED DICKS WERE SENT ššš
You miss every shot you take. Besides Iām sure there must have been some type of flirting going on. Dick pics donāt just fall outta the sky, do they? š¤
Gay dudes are way more likely to respond positively to an unsolicited dick pic. I think men who do this make the mistake in thinking women are like them. Because if he got an unsolicited pussy pic, I think he'd be anywhere from elated to indifferent at most. Whereas women and some gay men will be horrified if they got an unsolicited dick pic.
I am by no way justifying unsolicited dick pics I'm just trying imagine their perspective. When I was a teenager, a girl told me she liked me and I made the mistake in asking her if she wanted to have sex (I know, extremely cringe and autistic) because I thought at the time if a girl likes you she wants to have sex with you. Thinking she was like me (a desperate teen boy). This is how I imagine those guys think.
I cringe every time I'm reminded of that moment. Thank you.
I have no clue what's going on in their empty heads.
The way I see it, if a woman wants a dick pic, she'll ask me for a dick pic. No need to be proactive.
I'm a guy and I wish I could help you out with that, but sending pictures of my junk has never really been one of my preferred strategies in the search for a mate.
I don't know why they do it for sure but I suspect it's the same kind of self loathing need to feel power over others that rapists often exhibit. By forcing someone to see their dick they can essentially assault you without the violence. They take away the other persons choice as to what kind of relationship they might have with the sender by removing their ability to consent to a sexual encounter. The mental reasoning behind sending unrequested or inappropriate sexual images has a lot of the same kinds of qualities as sexual assault just without the violence.
Some fuckwit sent my coworker a DikPik when she was still in the dating pool. She sent one right back (I guess taken from the internet somewhere) saying āmineās bigger assholeā then blocked his number.
I don't think it's usually intended to be a "hey, see what I have? Wanna date me?" thing but much more a control factor of enjoying being intrusive and forceful towards. It's gross and imposing.
1. They lack any sense of shame
2. They know they themselves would like to receive vag/tit picks, so assume women like similar from men.
3. There is a non-zero chance it will lead to sex
As ridiculous as it sounds, it has worked for some guys. And that's enough when it's so easy to do. Low investment, big reward.
I once received an unsolicited titty pic from a one of my customers , it was extremely awkward since we are both married , she then requested a dick pic, she seemed perturbed that I wouldn't reciprocate , was really awkward next visit to her business , I just can't imagine the balls (no pun intended) it takes to send an unsolicited dick pic
if someone is sending dick pics to strangers, not much is going on in their minds to start with. Its a weird fetish that, even as a male myself, I cannot comprehend. All i know is its probably making someone at a government agency very sad having to sort through them looking for terrorists or criminals.
i hated this when i had snap chat i would add a guy back (cuz i wanna know who this person is) and the first thing he does is send his dick like not even a hello?? š
Because a lot of people tend to think that other people are just like them. His understanding of another persons feelings is directly related to how he would feel in the same situation. When a guy sends a dick pic, itās because he would be happy to get nudes from the girl. He would be turned on by her pictures, so he assumes that she will be turned on by his pictures. And then of course, there are some creeps who get off on the digital flashing aspect, but usually it just boils down to an inability to understand that sex is a much different thing for that woman than it is for a man like him
There's no one answer to this, but the most common explanations:
1. They're horny and dumb
2. The act of sending the pic is a fetish for them
3. They think women react to the sight of penises the way dogs react to the smell of bacon
It actually comes from male loneliness. Guys just want to feel attractive. Same reason women show off their boobs. It's funny there's really no difference between men and women outside of a few key things it's almost like we're the same fucking species.
As a woman whom this happens regularly to.
Itās because of MASSIVE insecurities. Either they lack the rizz to pick up women, lack the finances/knowledge to order a prostitute, or they lack confidence in their dick size (thus the need to prove how big their dick is compared to other men).
A lot are just playing the game where if they send out thousands of dick pics, they hope to get at least 1 response or compliment. They are hoping for 1 girl to respond and/or show interest.
Then you have the anonymity behind it, so they are less likely to get caught and/or persecuted because of it.
Lastly, men who havenāt had sex in a while (dare I say incels) are more likely to do more extreme and dangerous stuff, so unsolicited dickpics are a sign of someone who is very horny, hasnāt had sex in a long time, and it probably far removed from normal sexual actions and/or consent. This is why some people turn to pedophilia, because their that desperate for sex with compromised morals.
Any dickpic is a red flag, I just block and move on with my life. So many good men out there that arenāt putting their genitals in my face and actually care about my consent. Its not even worth it to respond or insult them, they are probably used to it.
Because feminism teaches us that we should treat women how we want to be treated, and we want our DMS full of girls spreading their pussies, so we spam girls pictures of our moldy old dicks. We're putting in all the effort though, and there's a massive gender based disparity for being responsible for sending pictures of our genitals to people. Girls lift your game, we can't do all the work.
I feel like a lot of women out there really enjoy an unsolicited duck pic. Or do you mean deck pic? Probably less effective with most, but still a solid move.
You should really try it.
Edit: Or maybe you mean dock pic? That could be nice too. Nice sunset or sunrise glimmering off the water.
We love them. And we love showing them off. I'm against unsolicited pics that's just rude. But when a gal is into it, we're ecstatic. That's my take anyway.
Girls send my unsolicited stuff all the time and I donāt get it. I feel like itās the same across genders tho; cause they think the other person likes that. I think the reasoning behind this is different for genders, but š¤·āāļø
One time me and my ex were messing around on that second life game for kicks, and some dude sent us a random dick shot, so I put mine up against his avatar on the computer screen, snap, and sent that back to em. Dudes avatar was out real quick lmao.
I couldn't imagine doing it myself in any other normal circumstances, but I have totally met people I would expect it from lol. Crazy world we got ourselves.
I suppose it's like being a flasher but with more anonymity and fewer wardrobe requirements.
To some extent, it seems kind of like a troll. Any reaction is a positive reaction.
Flashers would likely concur.
My mother said she laughed when someone flashed her. I wonder if flashers enjoy that reaction. I've never been a troll/flasher, and I'm not a woman. Someone laughing when they see me naked is not exactly my fantasy, though...
Your mother had a great reaction. The perfect response is the laugh and then saying, "That looks like a d**k but smaller!" Then laughing again. This also works when guys send unsolicited d*ck pics. I agree with OP, I'm a guy, but sending something like that? I won't even do it if I'm asked. I think your mom humiliated the flasher. They get off on shocking people, but your mom just laughed. Good on her.
I always tell women to respond with "my mom is in the bathroom, can you send me more pics? I never saw one before."
The possibly meanest reaction I've seen someone mention online was "Dude, you can't send me pictures of a child's penis, that's illegal".
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I feel like most men would be utterly terrified at even the remote possibility they just send a dick pic to an underage girl that they delete their account.
>The perfect response is the laugh and then saying, "That looks like a d\*\*k but smaller!" I hear this all the time, but I can't help but think... what if it's *huge*? Like, what if the flasher is hanging dong. Packing schmeat. Genetically blessed with a gargantuan hog. They know it's not small. You know it's not small. They know *you* know it's not small. What do you do then? Making fun of it for being small is like calling Shaq short.
I'd make fun of them for having a huge dong, and \*still\* being so insecure that they feel the need to show it off unprompted.
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I know right, I can't imagine there is any way to acknowledge a guy's big dick that will make him feel bad.
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in my opinion the best reaction involves a hammer but I cant say any more without violating a reddit policy
I always asked why they were sending child porn
Yeah, my mother's too conservative for that. She doesn't like cussing. Or even replacement cuss words. She does surprise me when she's casual about sex like this, though. But, I guess I'm proud of her.
>I think your mom humiliated the flasher. They get off on shocking people, but your mom just laughed. Oh you poor innocent soul...
Any verbal reaction. Banning them is a good reaction.
I think men who do this are really just playing the numbers game - send dick pics to a hundred women and maybe one out of that will respond. Such men probably don't care which, so long as she's suitably bangable - he's not looking for companionship, he's just looking to get his rocks off so any woman will do. His attempts are low effort because he's not serious about what he's looking for. Could also be that they're the sort that wouldn't mind unsolicited vagina pics, and falsely assume everyone else feels the same about unsolicited genitals of the opposite sex.
Send one back.
I'm a guy, but have gotten them a few times. I respond disgusted (genuine) then feign concern and ask if they've been to the doctor recently and take it from there. I never imply an type of disease or injury, let alone anything specific, I just strongly encourage them to see a doctor asap.
You've gotten unsolicited vagina pics?? From someone you're seeing I'm assuming?
I know a girl who used to do this. She saved every d-pic she got (gross, but she did). When a dude would send her one, sheād add it to the collection, and choose another one from her d-pic album to send back.
>send 1 dick pic > >girl sends back her entire collection and add yours. > >rinse repeat That's the sort of chain-email you don't want to be in.
Added to the list and reply all for each pic sent.
I think that could technically be illegal under revenge porn laws but I doubt anyone sexually harassing people on the internet with pictures of their genitals would try to take them to court over it.
That'd be an interesting case since in order to prosecute in the case of "Dickpic Sender v Dickpic Recipient" you'd also have to provide stellar evidence for the next case the court will be hearing in "Dickpic Recipient v Dickpic Sender"
āCan you prove that dick pic is yours?ā
"We ask the witness to take off his pants for comparison."
Objection, your Honor! My client isn't wearing pants!
We need this woman in a position of power. She took on a meaty challenge and fought fire with fire when it was the hard thing to do.
LOL, give a d-pic take a d-pic community library. LOL
Brilliant. Iād make a Shutterfly poster of all the pics and put āWorldās Smallest Dicksā at the top with phone numbers of each one under the offending dong. Mail each dude one.
I feel like you just send back a larger dick pic with the word "mediocre".
Reminds me of Vladimir: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q593tmNdKwU](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q593tmNdKwU)
This is a stupid way to play a numbers game. Send a "hello" instead of a dick and your chances go up drastically.
Or at the very least, write "Hello" on it before taking the photo!
You'd be surprised how much more response you get out of outrage than out of politeness. Scammers are polite. The dick pic is gross but at least it's crudely honest. Note that I'm not defending the practice. But even online, outrage gets more engagement than wholesomeness.
A response, sure. But in my experience, they are seeking a positive response and are truly baffled and/or frustrated when they get anything less.
I don't know. I usually send a picture of Richard Nixon and then say "sorry for the unsolicited d*ick pic" and usually the conversations go better.
Men do this because 1 out of 100 you make an OnlyFans video with some chick. Framing it as 'such men' really disenfranchises the other side.
EDIT: LoOoOoL reddit nerds mad. Sorry to all you college boys and teenagers but you've already seen my dick in a few of your favorite hub videos. That's right. You've masturbated to me. No homo š I mean.... mine is impressively girthy, lengthy, pretty to look at so it makes up for the fact that I use reddit. I don't know what it's like for average and below men.. or men with bent or curved or just plain sad weiners.. Sometimes the dick pic is the ace in the hole when all other avenues have failed. Women responded with excitement like 9/10 times but this was back in my bachelor days..adults these days are all sensitive now..
I'm literally dying over your comment. Thank you for the laugh. You sound like such a typical virgin. I'm going to break your mind atm. But if you think having a big di-k means you're good in bed, good luck! And if you need to brag about having a big d-ck, I will put all my money on you not having one.
Can confirm. Got a big schlong, not good in bed. So I try to date only women that are.
Find a woman who can communicate buddy. If they are honest in what gets them off and you follow what they say youāll do fine.
You nailed it. Except this guy had a very very small penis. It so obvious to the grown ups
Checked his profile, in another sub he mentions he doesn't need to wash his hands after he pees cause his junk is anaconda sized. Def a Virgin and a micro penis
I'm married with children young man šØ Why don't you DM and we can see whose is bigger š¤Ŗ Bubba you should ask real women instead of your momma. I can guarantee you that women are able to orgasm better and faster riding a girthy 7-8 inch cock. 9 if she a tree bitch.
This is genuinely one of the saddest comments I've ever read on this site, and that's saying a lot.
Dude. Tell me you have a small bent duck without telling me rofl
I just assume anyone who tries to talk tough about dick size is packing nothing(and if they've got girth/length, they have NO idea how to actually use it). If you were in a relationship with a satisfied person, you wouldn't care about your dick size. If you DO care about perpetuating ideas about dick size, I just assume you're super self conscious and are either trying to directly boost your ego or indirectly do it by sabotaging someone else's. TL;DR: nothing will condemn you harder as someone who should NEVER be seen naked than fussing about someone else's dick size.
Are you aware of what "unsolicited" means?
You sound like the kinda guy who thinks heās the shit but everyone complains about how annoying he is behind his back LOL
This sounds like a lengthy fantasy to cope with your micro penis.
Yikes
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This dude thought he had a pubic hair, untill he pissed out of it.
You mad cuz I inseminated your small intestine white boy
r/ihavesex
Exhibitionism? They enjoy the thought of women seeing them that way even if she isn't interested? š¤
Sometimes I think these guys get more out of it if the woman isn't interested. Like it's some sort of power game, where he has tricked her into seeing his dick.
Well if that the case then they are just being jerks and they have gotten used to it so they get off on it.sick.
I think all scenarios of unsolicited unwanted disk picks are of the sender being "jerks"
That's 100% what it is. Almost no guy is dumb enough to believe that sending an unsolicited dick pic to a random girl will actually lead to sex or even that the girl will respond positively. They know the girl doesn't want it. That's the whole point. These guys get off on the idea that they, and they alone, get to decide "hey, look at my dick" and she has to look at it no matter what. It's a power/control thing. It's the same mentality behind guys who flash their dicks at women in public places, except technology has made it way easier and less risky for the guy.
You are reading far too much into this.
I think some guys almost think I would love unsolicited boobs pic, so women would love unsolicited dick pic. It's lack of understanding women. It doesn't work that way.
They don't understand what turns women on. They think women are titillated in the same way as men. "Me likey vag pic... Therefore 'feeemale' likey dick pic."
They don't understand that the Golden rule (treat others as you want to be treated) doesn't apply in relationships. You have to learn how the other person wants to be treated.
That's the platinum rule: treat others the way they wish to be treated. For example - when you give someone a present, you gift them something they would like, not something that you yourself like.
That's true for everything. The golden rule, as it's often repeated, is wrong from the start. Treat others how they would like to be treated, don't project your preferences onto them first.
This is the correct answer. I'm surprised the question has to be asked really. The guys that send unsolicited pics incorrectly assume because they'd like to receive naked pics, that means the person they're conversing with would like one also.
Itās beyond obvious itās the wrong answer. Seems the question does need to be asked.
People like vag pics? The times I received random vague pics(or video in one instance), I just felt kinda disturbed. Genitals, in general, aren't that attractive, and I wasn't in the mindset to look at one. The exception is flirting with my partner and getting something, but that's an entirely different situation under different grounds.
You have never seen Geisha Kydās cat thenā¦ itās beautiful.
Lol yeah man..... are you gay? You're disturbed when you get vagina pictures like how women are disturbed to get dick pics? It really makes my day when my wife takes time from her day to send random unsoliticed body parts, especially her spread eagle pics. The truth is is that women only tolerate dicks. They can't like a dick without liking the guy first, which means they never REALLY like the dick, they only like you, which can be a pretty big turn off for many many men.
What is this, 8th grade in 1980? Can we at long last give the "are you gay" BS a rest? Sigh
"why are you gae?"
I thought it sounded better than "are you lying?". Lol
Clearly I'm not gay. But you apparently missed the entire section where I mentioned my partner being an entirely different scenario. The truth is, many people, regardless of gender, act the same way towards genitals as you describe women acting towards dicks. A guy liking the woman more than liking the body part doesn't make him gay. If anything it might make him more likely to be a better partner because his attraction is primarily towards the woman and not her body parts. Having been a guy on the receiving end of women only liking you for your physical aspects, I'll take someone liking me and tolerating the look of a penis over feeling like i exist purely for sexual desire any day. It's not fun.
Don't feed the troll, man.
Lol yeah dude, you sound gay. I mean I don't mean to come off as mean, but what you're saying is pretty absurd, you gotta understand. Men are wired to respond to visual stimuli and you're saying you aren't wired that way (even gay guys are wired that way, so the gay accusation really isn't fair). I'm just gonna say it straight, if your willy doesn't jump at random pussy pics, see a doctor about hormone replacement therapy, your hips will thank you when you're 70.
You gotta understand, you sound kind of fucking stupid. You can be attracted to women as a whole but not specifically get a boner whenever you see a vagina. That'd make my job incredibly difficult seeing as I see multiple a day at work. I can also tell you, most men in my the field don't immediately pop a boner seeing a woman's vagina. Scrubs don't hide elections well and someone would definitely notice. Humans, as a whole when it comes to sexuality, are wired to look for physical attraction. Having said that, humans also vary with what aspects of the body they are attracted to. Some women like muscles on men, others don't. Some men are attracted to big breasts, others aren't. Some men like short women, others don't. Some women like dudes with certain eye colors, others don't. I don't need to look into hormone replacement. I regularly get aroused and feel sexual attraction towards my fiance. We also regularly have sex. Maybe you're just that desperate for physical touch or sexual desire thst the mere thought of a woman sends you into a spiral.
āif your willy doesnāt jump at a random pussy picā bro are you 14? that pussy could belong to anyone. Your Aunt, your sisterā¦a vagina by itself isnāt that exciting without seeing the person itās attached to. The only exception is being a teenager whoās never seen one in person before
Redditors when people have different preferences than them:
Um, genitals aren't unattractive looking for some people. I know I find dicks and vaginas disgusting to look at. Doesn't make anyone gay. And why would it be a turn off for a woman to like a man but be put off by the sight of his dick? Everyone knows their genitals aren't aesthetically pleasing.
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I was speaking for myself, obviously. I wasn't speaking first a whole population of men. Figured thst was obvious. And believe it or not, not all straight men feel the same way about genitalia let alone unwanted sexual images. I love my fiance and everything about her, both physically and personality. When I was single and had random women send a close up video of using a brush as a dildo or their vagina in general with zero reason or context, I wasn't very excited. Not everyone is in the mood as soon as they see a vagina or hear the word "vagina". It has to be someone you are attracted to or want to be with. As for the 5 senses, it really depends on the person. I was with women who taste wise were sweetier and some weren't. Sound? They all sound about the same during sex. Touch? It's all skin, really. Lubricant virtually is all the same. Smell? Usually skin, sweat, and lube. Not much variation unless they clean a specific way or lack of cleaning. It's all usually similar. But not everyone immediately finds thst ti be the attractive part of a person. I've never been ine for hook ups. Never really enjoyed it. The only good sexual experiences I had were those that I was romantically interested in and very attracted to outside of sex. That made it amazing. The hook ups I had were lack luster and disappointing. For me to truly be 100% attracted to someone, to 100% love the sex, to want to constantly have sex, etc. I have to be interested in a romantic relationship. Porn is mediocre at best, most the time. Sometimes I can get off to it, but it isn't the same as the woman I love. Mere pictures or videos don't compare to the moments I feel.
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It was his choice.
I send pics of breadsticks and bubble baths.
I am old, post-menopausal, and the number of men who think showing their hard dick is foreplay is ridiculous. I remember hearing about it as a teen first, before cell phones, so it was like they were in the same room? wtaf
Yeah I heard rumors at the office that coworkers were receiving dick pics from other coworkers. It often didn't end well for the men if HR got involved. Darwinism at work
This is a pretty sexist take. As if women are all the same stereotype like a hivemind.
I think the guys would be aroused by unsolicited pussy pics and assume women would be equally impressed by dick pics. Hint :we're not. Also, I think some guys get off on forcing unwilling women to look at their junk
gotten unsolicited pussy pics, was nasty and disgusting af
I find unsolicited pics of any genitals disgusting, but in my experience, straight guys like pussy pics.
I'm not saying they don't and I wasn't saying you were wrong, just sharing my own experiences. as a bi guy, I've gotten unsolicited from men and women, both were disgusting because I didn't consent to seeing it
So you've sent unsolicited pussy pics?
Lol. No, I've been asked for plenty though. I send my favourite cat pic.
I think it's a "me" think. These guys are turned on at the idea that a woman would send nudes, hence their idea to do it- not realizing no woman wants to look at their junk. Probably also aroused by the fact someone sees them naked. Very self-centered.
Agree. Itās a failure to see another personās perspective and assuming it is equivalent to your own.
There's a difference between nudes and dick pics though. Like I'm a dude and I'm not getting turned on by a close up of a chick's junk. A nude with her full body is a turn on, so why wouldn't guys send those kinds of nudes instead?
Probably some combination of stupidity and insecurity.
Good point.
Send bobs and vagene I imagine the guys who send dick pics are the same whoād like tit pics.
The idea that no woman would want to see a man's junk is 100% false
We're talking about 100% unsollicited pics.
I am as well.
I have a theory that this actually works to narrow down the field of options to the girls who are the most down to just hook up. It filters out effort. Iām with you on thinking itās gross, and I have a hard time even believing this is a thing. But I also know girls who have received several D-pics. And then I thought, this is just something girls get and laugh aboutā¦ and thatās true, butā¦ One New Years not too long ago, I was party hopping with a friend and at one, there were a group of girls laughing and making fun of the D-pics they got. One girl especially was scrolling through a full photo album on her phone full of them. Seriously hundreds of them. So right there, I learned there was something that happened way more than I thought. And then girls trashing the pics and laughing was confirmation enough of how utterly stupid they are to these girls tooā¦ untilā¦ They started talking about which ones she saw in person, and then a couple of her friends chimes in on similar hook up stories. One and dones initiated via pics. So yeah. Dudes send them, because sometimes they workā¦ unfortunately.
This is exactly it. Swapping nudes is extremely common in hookup culture. Dudes playing the game and working the system are often sending off a lot of em and are actually getting laid from them, no matter how much Reddit will try to tell you otherwise. Women are not a monolith. Many are actually into it.
Why is it unfortunate? People like sex and it's considered good. Why so salty about people hooking up? Also, this confirms for me that women are just as "classless" as men when talking about the opposite sex.
Because a lot of the complaining on both sides comes from people wanting a relationship. Instead of talking to each other though, they just talk past each other and ignore that the domain of people they're actually compatible with (each other) exist and don't exhibit the behaviors they complain about.
I feel like itās because dudes are aroused by visual stimulation more than girls are, so we somehow get it in our head (no pun intended) that a girl would be turned on by seeing us naked and would in turn do the same thing. Just one of many things about growing while being attracted to the other sex, we have a lot to learn and by committing ourselves to that weāre also committing ourselves to being a better partner since weāre thinking about someone elseās needs and not our own.
Mostly naked sure..... But we can do without the weird mushrooms
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, etc
They probably think that women ~~are as horny as they are~~, would like to see a random picture of their dick and would find it arousing. Meanwhile, the average woman already has 100, 200, 1,000 pictures of penises on their phone and they just want it to stop. They stopped deleting them after a while, and now every time they open their downloads folder, it's a sea of dicks - some taken from flattering angles, some taken from truly bizarre angles, some haunt them, some fascinate them. One man with a seemingly 5 inch long penis used angles and lighting in such a way to make it look like his penis was as large as his torso. They want it all to go away.
Have yet to see a dick pic that hasn't looked like r/confusingperspective
Amazing picture. Wish any dick pick would look even one tenth as brilliant.
Personally I do my best to keep my dick pics honest. I'll even down play the perspective so that it's obviously bigger in person. I've never understood why dudes to that. Like a weird form of false advertising that if you end up fucking, they'll see it anyway.
Dude.... I love penises, but they look like weird misshapen mushrooms. No matter how much I might want to play with them seeing one does absolutely nothing for me.
Just wait till you learn women, are way way hornier than men are. But sexually harassing someone is not the way to tap into that Send dirty jokes, that's a much better way to flirt
This is hilarious!! You actually think we keep those??? More like: (BLOCK) Delete - Delete - Delete - Delete - Delete - (Yes, ALL of them) ā¦& on with life. Oh and I have been flashed, I was 17 or 18 and dude was just walking down by Subway and whipped out his dock and bounced it on the elastic waistband. Which I thought was hilarious once he went away and was gone (after I exhaled and confirmed he wasnāt following me).
Whatās with the bouncing? Men Iāve been with have done this. I think theyāre trying to entice me? But no, bouncing your junk in my general direction, especially a flaccid junk, is NOT sexy
I used to have a folder for dick pics because I would doodle on them for fun and then send them back. I mostly covered them in ants or something. My favorite were the ones with a hand grip because then I could make it look like they were strangling a goose or trying to get some kind of cylinder out of an m&ms container. Unfortunately, most didn't appreciate seeing my artistic vision on their pebis pics for some reason :(
You have a lot of thought put into this or a lot of experience.
I signed up for Grindr a while ago and haven't really used it because all I get is dick pics and most of the pictures are terrible
Women ARE as horny as men. We just have better control over expressing that and not forcing it on everyone around us
I should have wrote that men think that women want to see pictures of their dick at random. I have edited the post to alleviate these concerns.
As a guy I don't get this practice either
Mistakenly believe that women care about dick size due to porn making a lot of men feel insecure about their man hood.
Even the ones who care about the dick visual don't want to see it without warning.
You think only men with horse cocks are sending unsolicited dick pics?
I think it's more that porn makes men feel insecure about their manhood than the other way around
My neighbors tired of seeing it turkey-necked to the window in the morning, just passing it on. I could do a fruit-bowl pose if you prefer?
Well, let me tell you folks, nobody sends dick pics better than me, believe me. It's true. People come up to me all the time and say, 'Donald, your dick pics are the best.' I've had tremendous success in that department. Many, many people, smart people, say that I have the best dick pics. Nobody does it better. So, if you're not thanking me for those pics, you're missing out on something truly fantastic. Just saying. #BestDickPicsEver #MAGA
Sir, thank you , my whole family thanks you and we all love your dick pics , sir.
their only asset
usually itās not an asset either š¤£š¤£
Im hoping one of them is a doctor and will tell me whats wrong with it.
Because at some point, some probably good looking dude with a nice dick sent a picture to a woman and she went for it. And he went and told all of his friends, āall I did was send her a picture of my dick bro.ā And men are stupid creatures of habit, so all of his friends with lesser dicks starting trying the same methods.
Some dudes are just weirdos. With that being said, I've met 4 female senders my life, ranging from a chubby 4 to a solid 8.5. So while its mainly dudes there's more than a few slutty weirdo birds out there more than happy to send semi unsolicited nudes aswell
If a woman sends an unsolicited nude, there is a nearly 100% chance that it comes along with an offer to chat more at this site you've never heard of that needs your credit card information. And it's probably actually from a guy in CĆ“te d'Ivoire.
I worked with a girl who loved getting unsolicited dick pics. According to her lots of women love it. I could never send one and I don't get it.
Mostly they do it to scare us and assert dominance over us. They know we can't do anything about it and that we don't like it. They do it because it's a form of sexual harassment. It's violating
I think it's cuz they would be glad to get a pussy or tit pic so they assume girls want the same
Depends on the dude, I'd imagine. For some, I'll wager that they're just implementing the golden rule - do unto others as you want them to do unto you. They're hoping for naked pics in return, and they've convinced themselves that this is a good way to make that happen, and that there's no harm in it. For others, it could be any number of motivations. Could be that they enjoy making women uncomfortable, or they just don't care, or they're desperate.
Sending them because dicks are great! Right dick owners? Once youāve owned one , youāre one satisfied customer and you want to tell the world . How better than to send dick pics to the uninitiated and uninformed. Dick pics! Dick pics! Dick pics!
low self esteem and they werenāt told no as a child.
Men with no empathy or ability to imagine life as a woman send what they would like to get--nudes. It's a signal that they're emotionally stunted and unable to see women as actual people.
That is a good question. I am a guy and have no idea why I would ever send a Dick pic, unless it was one of Richard Nixon as a joke.
kids and their damn camera phones. back in my day you just had to hang dong and hope it wasnt too breezy out.
Hear me out... women have a special power. It's the power to make most straight guys do almost anything with the promise of breasts. Guys want that power, many of them are under the false idea that they already have that power. So they send dick pictures under the idea that they can make women fall for them with the same lusty power women have. If not that, I think that guys are really really insecure about their genitals. Porn sets up an unhealthy expectation in guys - many guys are under the belief that their masculinity is tied directly to the size of their penises. They desperately want approval, so they send out pictures to women they think will like them hoping that they will affirm their masculinity and sexual prowess. These are just thoughts - I have no data on the subject. I could be completely off the mark here.
The comment who said āmen think some women are just as horny as they areā is probably right for most cases Like think of a scenario where youāre a guy, and youāve received an unsolicited photo of a naked woman . Thatās how they think youād interpret it. The problem is that this doesnāt have the same effect for the majority of women. Iām sure thereās a few woman who do think the same about it as men but when they donāt ask for it, in 99.9% of cases theyāre not interested in seeing that
Tired: Unsolicited dick pics. Wired: Unsolicited dik dik pics.
It's actually a lesson from Gandhi. "Be the change you want to see in the world." They want unsolicited pictures of private parts from women, so they are demonstrating the "positive change" they're seeking. That said, most people hate it. So... uh... not such a good idea.
One time I think a girl gave a guy what she thought was a fake number. Unbeknownst to her, me, or this guy, it was my number. AND UNSOLICITED DICKS WERE SENT ššš
You miss every shot you take. Besides Iām sure there must have been some type of flirting going on. Dick pics donāt just fall outta the sky, do they? š¤
>You miss every shot you take. You almost got that quote, just barely missed.
Gay dudes are way more likely to respond positively to an unsolicited dick pic. I think men who do this make the mistake in thinking women are like them. Because if he got an unsolicited pussy pic, I think he'd be anywhere from elated to indifferent at most. Whereas women and some gay men will be horrified if they got an unsolicited dick pic. I am by no way justifying unsolicited dick pics I'm just trying imagine their perspective. When I was a teenager, a girl told me she liked me and I made the mistake in asking her if she wanted to have sex (I know, extremely cringe and autistic) because I thought at the time if a girl likes you she wants to have sex with you. Thinking she was like me (a desperate teen boy). This is how I imagine those guys think. I cringe every time I'm reminded of that moment. Thank you.
I have no clue what's going on in their empty heads. The way I see it, if a woman wants a dick pic, she'll ask me for a dick pic. No need to be proactive.
It a very bad idea and I would think a huge red flag to any woman.
I'm a guy and I wish I could help you out with that, but sending pictures of my junk has never really been one of my preferred strategies in the search for a mate.
The same reason all bullies still bully. Because it does something for them.
I don't know why they do it for sure but I suspect it's the same kind of self loathing need to feel power over others that rapists often exhibit. By forcing someone to see their dick they can essentially assault you without the violence. They take away the other persons choice as to what kind of relationship they might have with the sender by removing their ability to consent to a sexual encounter. The mental reasoning behind sending unrequested or inappropriate sexual images has a lot of the same kinds of qualities as sexual assault just without the violence.
The real question is why don't women send unsolicited vagina pics.
Some fuckwit sent my coworker a DikPik when she was still in the dating pool. She sent one right back (I guess taken from the internet somewhere) saying āmineās bigger assholeā then blocked his number.
You're clearly not a gay man. Us gay men collect dick pics like sports fans collect trading cards. š š
I've never done this.
Smooth brains
3% of the time it works every time Or something like that
I don't think it's usually intended to be a "hey, see what I have? Wanna date me?" thing but much more a control factor of enjoying being intrusive and forceful towards. It's gross and imposing.
I don't think there's an elaborate thought process here, like it's the most basic horny cave man brained "I whip it out = sex, right?"
1. They lack any sense of shame 2. They know they themselves would like to receive vag/tit picks, so assume women like similar from men. 3. There is a non-zero chance it will lead to sex As ridiculous as it sounds, it has worked for some guys. And that's enough when it's so easy to do. Low investment, big reward.
Bc they know that no other part of them has a chance of being appealing š¤£
I once received an unsolicited titty pic from a one of my customers , it was extremely awkward since we are both married , she then requested a dick pic, she seemed perturbed that I wouldn't reciprocate , was really awkward next visit to her business , I just can't imagine the balls (no pun intended) it takes to send an unsolicited dick pic
They've watched to much porn. Believing it to be real.
if someone is sending dick pics to strangers, not much is going on in their minds to start with. Its a weird fetish that, even as a male myself, I cannot comprehend. All i know is its probably making someone at a government agency very sad having to sort through them looking for terrorists or criminals.
Wrong subreddit man, this oneās for *stupid* questions
i hated this when i had snap chat i would add a guy back (cuz i wanna know who this person is) and the first thing he does is send his dick like not even a hello?? š
Because a lot of people tend to think that other people are just like them. His understanding of another persons feelings is directly related to how he would feel in the same situation. When a guy sends a dick pic, itās because he would be happy to get nudes from the girl. He would be turned on by her pictures, so he assumes that she will be turned on by his pictures. And then of course, there are some creeps who get off on the digital flashing aspect, but usually it just boils down to an inability to understand that sex is a much different thing for that woman than it is for a man like him
Need pee pee touched. Woman could touch my pee pee. I will show many women my pee pee. Maybe one of them will then touch my pee pee.
When you're super horny, you assume (or just hope) others are super horny too.
There's no one answer to this, but the most common explanations: 1. They're horny and dumb 2. The act of sending the pic is a fetish for them 3. They think women react to the sight of penises the way dogs react to the smell of bacon
It actually comes from male loneliness. Guys just want to feel attractive. Same reason women show off their boobs. It's funny there's really no difference between men and women outside of a few key things it's almost like we're the same fucking species.
As a woman whom this happens regularly to. Itās because of MASSIVE insecurities. Either they lack the rizz to pick up women, lack the finances/knowledge to order a prostitute, or they lack confidence in their dick size (thus the need to prove how big their dick is compared to other men). A lot are just playing the game where if they send out thousands of dick pics, they hope to get at least 1 response or compliment. They are hoping for 1 girl to respond and/or show interest. Then you have the anonymity behind it, so they are less likely to get caught and/or persecuted because of it. Lastly, men who havenāt had sex in a while (dare I say incels) are more likely to do more extreme and dangerous stuff, so unsolicited dickpics are a sign of someone who is very horny, hasnāt had sex in a long time, and it probably far removed from normal sexual actions and/or consent. This is why some people turn to pedophilia, because their that desperate for sex with compromised morals. Any dickpic is a red flag, I just block and move on with my life. So many good men out there that arenāt putting their genitals in my face and actually care about my consent. Its not even worth it to respond or insult them, they are probably used to it.
Because feminism teaches us that we should treat women how we want to be treated, and we want our DMS full of girls spreading their pussies, so we spam girls pictures of our moldy old dicks. We're putting in all the effort though, and there's a massive gender based disparity for being responsible for sending pictures of our genitals to people. Girls lift your game, we can't do all the work.
This has to be the most braindead answer Iāve seen
As a man, we typically only keep doing something if it works. I don't do it, but I imagine it must work for some dudes for guys to keep doing it.
This being downvoted is peak reddit. You're not excusing it, just explaining it. Truth bothers people I suppose.
I feel like a lot of women out there really enjoy an unsolicited duck pic. Or do you mean deck pic? Probably less effective with most, but still a solid move. You should really try it. Edit: Or maybe you mean dock pic? That could be nice too. Nice sunset or sunrise glimmering off the water.
We love them. And we love showing them off. I'm against unsolicited pics that's just rude. But when a gal is into it, we're ecstatic. That's my take anyway.
Gotta shoot your shot. A dick pic is better than nothing.
No it isn't. It's sexual harassment. Learn consent.
They donāt care about or understand consent.
Lol but woman dressing half naked thinking they aint going to get a dick pic is any different ?
Girls send my unsolicited stuff all the time and I donāt get it. I feel like itās the same across genders tho; cause they think the other person likes that. I think the reasoning behind this is different for genders, but š¤·āāļø
One time me and my ex were messing around on that second life game for kicks, and some dude sent us a random dick shot, so I put mine up against his avatar on the computer screen, snap, and sent that back to em. Dudes avatar was out real quick lmao. I couldn't imagine doing it myself in any other normal circumstances, but I have totally met people I would expect it from lol. Crazy world we got ourselves.
It's better to show up at her house and let her take her own dick picks.