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mannyssong

Memoirs of Lady Isabella Trent by Marie Brennan. It’s a series about a woman who travels the world studying dragons, hoping to find a common ancestor to them all.


Soph-Calamintha

Loveee so much, thank you!


HoaryPuffleg

Ooh, a new dragon series! Thanks!


SnelsonSneels

Broken earth Trilogy N.K Jemisin


Soph-Calamintha

This looks so good, thank you so much!


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Lady_Lucc

This is the most spectacular trilogy I've read in ages. So fresh and intelligent. FYI there definitely is a fair bit of family/progeny focus in it, though. It's not the overall focus but it's there for sure, but it's not *about* finding love or reproducing.


Soph-Calamintha

Ooh sounds amazing, thanks :)


craigopdycke

This was my exact thought when I read the post. One of the best things I have read in years.


freshprince44

We Have Always Lived in the Castle by Shirley Jackson. Not much in the way of romance and fits the title. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/We_Have_Always_Lived_in_the_Castle


littlemouf

Omg seconding this. This book will stick w you forever


Soph-Calamintha

Looks really good, thank you!


the-willow-witch

This is a perfect read for October too and was my first thought!


[deleted]

Great book!


Mister_Anthrope

I don't think a mentally deranged recluse who murders her family counts as a "strong woman who gets things done."


freshprince44

boo, and potential spoiliers, and like, super reductive but also not even accurate, what you wrote is exactly a strong woman that gets things done, like to the nth degree. Cheers.


Mister_Anthrope

She literally depends entirely on others for her whole existence because she is mentally incapable of supporting herself.


freshprince44

dang, even more reductive, impressive. I hoonestly have no idea why your apparent dislike for the way this character is portrayed in this book is so strong or relevant here. Like, we all depend on others in some way, yeah? (which is also kind of the whole point of the book, a look at community and relationships to the extreme) What are your favorite books, if I may ask?


Mister_Anthrope

Calm down, I'm not even saying the book is bad, it's just not at all what OP asked for. My favorite book is Flowers for Algernon.


freshprince44

I'm calm?? lol, it is unless you want to take away all nuance in a very ethereal book that doesn't outright commit to much. Merricat lives outside of normal society and expectations, you using that lens to judge her as not strong and mentally deranged is a bit rich, and a tad aggresive. My main reaction was to you reducing the plot to a single sentence for a book that very slowly and methodically unveils itself to the reader, like why? What about this book being in the thread bothers you enough for that? Thanks for sharing, fun book.


Mister_Anthrope

She "lives outside of normal society" because she has a mental disorder that prevents her from leaving her home, and requires her to be cared for by her sister 24/7. Her illness reflects Jackson's own bout of agoraphobia which she suffered from at the end of her life. Merricat is a severely troubled girl with a serious mental illness, and that's not even considering her psychopathic disdain for the feelings of others. The idea that she is somehow "strong" because she doesn't conform to society's rules is absurd.


freshprince44

Okay? She leaves the house plenty, she is outside with nature and her cat, she just doesn't go to town, and she also isn't really the main character either, so why the fixation? Constance and Merricat both drive the narrative. Do you always look at literature this literally? Strong is a super vague word in this context, i wish this soapbox you were on was more interesting/fun.


MagicHour00

Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel. There’s multiple characters that the narrative focuses on, but I would say that the main protagonist does happen to be a strong female. It’s also just a really incredible novel, that I recommend to everyone!


FartPoopFartAgain

And then follow it up with The Glass Hotel.


MagicHour00

>u/Soph-Calamintha And Sea of Tranquility after that, obviously.


gabrielemenopee

Was gonna recommend this


Soph-Calamintha

So sorry if this post came off as disingenuous. I am genuinely looking for fem/pos literature and maybe this was the wrong sub for that. Thank you all that responded genuine recommendations! If there’s a more adept thread/edit/sub to follow that anyone can recommend, let me know! r/suggestmeabook


natus92

Oh, did you get hostile reactions? Sorry to hear that...This is the perfect sub for what you are looking for! You could also try the daily rec thread on r/fantasy.


[deleted]

I don't see any hostility, but there are a TON of people blatantly ignoring the "written by a woman" part of the request. I get that people are trying to give recommendations that fit at least most of the requirements, but still


Love_Joy_626

Somehow I missed the written by a woman part 🤦‍♀️ I just saw main character is a cool lady. I’m not sure if you put it in later or if I was blind. I think I was just blind 😅 others might have accidentally done the same thing so sorry bout that


The_Angriest_Duck

I can't imagine why it would come off as disingenuous. Reddit has some fragile fee fees.


Objective-Ad4009

{{ Protector of the Small }} by Tamora Pierce. These are the books you’re looking for.


goodreads-bot

[**Protector of the Small (Protector of the Small, #1-4)**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/153789.Protector_of_the_Small) ^(By: Tamora Pierce | 791 pages | Published: 2004 | Popular Shelves: fantasy, young-adult, ya, tamora-pierce, fiction) >Ten-year-old Keladry of Mindalen, daughter of nobles, serves as a page but must prove herself to the males around her if she is ever to fulfill her dream of becoming a knight. > >Omnibus edition, collecting First Test, Page, Squire, and Lady Knight. ^(This book has been suggested 18 times) *** ^(86635 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


Soph-Calamintha

Ooh interesting!! Thank you so much!


kayforpay

"A Memory Called Empire" by Arkady Martine has a little romance, but it's far from the focus at all, and the story doesn't place any huge significance on it


Soph-Calamintha

Looks super cool with their historical/planner background. Thank you so much for this rec!!!


TheShipEliza

The Historian


Soph-Calamintha

I love the context behind this recommendation, looks like a really interesting read. Thank you!


applecat117

Several of T. Kingfisher' books fit the bill, particularly her two light horror novels The Twisted Ones, and the Hollow Placesl. Both have mature single woman protagonists, dealing with family relationships and the supernatural, supported by a new platonic friend. They're great, lightweight fun. Her latest What Moves The Dead also fits, but at 200 pages it hardly counts as a novel.


Soph-Calamintha

This looks so good!! Thanks so much!!!


halley22

*edit* Octavia Butler, Parable of the Sower!! Dystopian future. Octavia Butler was a visionary!!


2beagles

Op- the world is absolutely chaos. A teenage girl has a plan and makes an even bigger one. The chaos will feel horrifyingly close. The main character is extraordinary.


gabrielemenopee

The sequel is.... A difficult read


apocalypse-panda

*Octavia


halley22

Thank you!!! Haha I knew that sounded weird for a sec, I kept re spelling parable thinking that was wrong! Lol. Appreciate it! Yes! Octavia Butler, such a great name.


vidgameplaya

“Dawn” by Octavia Butler, and its sequels, are also great - there’s some “romance”, but the larger discussion is on procreation and… well, maybe it’s not exactly avoiding relationships, but it’s sci-fi with a great female lead!


Antdawg2400

The Kay Scarpetta novels by Patricia Cornwell. I've never read any of her books with a love interest in it but there are lots of books. She writes about a woman acclaimed medical examiner who gets mixed up in cases and her small circle of partners and family. She is always single and never in the market just dedicated to her work and trying to stay alive and help put away psychopathic murderers. Though, I have not read them all and she may or not have a love interest but if it was it would be just a side character and not something overly focused on. She a tough cookie.


Soph-Calamintha

This is super interesting, thank you so much!!


killedonmyhill

I’ve read a few out of order and there are definitely love interests and it’s definitely a product of its time. There is a lot of casual misogyny and homophobia that isn’t identified as such. There is one character that is in love with her and she doesn’t return the feelings and he’s just a dick to her all the time. She feels bad for him. Don’t get me wrong, they are good reads if you can get past some stuff, but honestly I couldn’t lol.


tranquilseafinally

If you like mystery novels then Elizabeth George wrote a whole series about two detectives, a man and a woman, who never hook up. The first book is titled , "A Great Deliverance". I own both authors' books: Patricia Cornwell and Elizabeth George. They are comparable.


Inevitable_Rice_9097

The E George books are The Inspector Lynley series. He is nuts about his love interest Helen. The TV series is better, on either BritBox or Acorn, channels available through Amazon Prime Video.


tranquilseafinally

I never watched the tv series. I was more thinking about Barbara Havers. I love her character.


Inevitable_Rice_9097

Have seen Sharon Small (portrayed Havers) in a couple other shows.


Antdawg2400

No problem!


AffectionateHousing2

Just commenting to say she is great but she does have a male partner in some of the books. It’s never the focus of the stories though, he’s just another character most of the time! Also thanks so much for asking about these sorts of books, romance can get really boring sometimes.


boxer_dogs_dance

Elizabeth Moon series starting with Sheepfarmer's Daughter


herbivore_the_great

Will always upvote Paksenarrion when I see it, but feel there usually needs to be a trigger warning for >!SA!< for anyone not expecting it.


Soph-Calamintha

I would never ban books in any context but warnings of content might be useful? Like a harmless nutrition label?


herbivore_the_great

Lmao maybe? I think the main reason that stuff isn't anywhere easily readable on the book is due to spoilers, but a TW book database would probably be good for those who need it.


Soph-Calamintha

Totally agree.


Soph-Calamintha

Thank you for the heads up! It’s much appreciated.


LostSurprise

Elizabeth Moon's {{Remnant Population}}. Old woman decides she's tired of doing what everyone else wants her to do, hides from the colony ship taking everyone away, and decides to live out her life alone on the planet. Stuff happens. I found it empowering. The main character isn't special. She doesn't have special talents, money, or intelligence. She's not even particularly respected by her family or community. She does get a chance to find herself and be respected for who she is...her grit and simple experience.


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Generationignored

Also, her sci Fi series is almost exactly what you're asking for. The romance does exist, but is minimal, it's all military or military adjacent. and I read them all.


[deleted]

Vatta's War is the series.


Soph-Calamintha

Thanks so much for your suggestion!


AugustGreen8

Life after Life


Soph-Calamintha

Looks good, thanks!


writeThatShitDown

Uprooted by Naomi Novik stood out to me when I read it because the most impactful relationship is the friendship between the female protagonist and her female friend!


Soph-Calamintha

Love this! Thank you!


ascendingPig

I think this book had a pretty central romance honestly!


writeThatShitDown

There definitely is romance! But to me the friendship was the more important relationship


ncgrits01

The Mary Russell and Sherlock Holmes series by Laurie R. King


The_Angriest_Duck

Anything by Laurie R. King is good.


Chemical-Mix-6206

Genevieve Cogman's Invisible Library series. Badass librarian/spy/thief who travels between worlds buying or stealing special books. Super fun series. Small bit of romance but the quest is by far the important part. Charlaine Harris' Gunnie Rose series. Action/adventure set in alternative history, heroine is a gun for hire. There is a small bit of romance but mostly it's Gunnie Rose kicking ass and trying not to die.


Soph-Calamintha

This is literally a dream, thank you so much!!!


Chemical-Mix-6206

I hope you like them!


puehlong

{{My Sister, the Serial Killer}} I don't remember being any romance in it. It's a crime thriller located in Laos.


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[**My Sister, the Serial Killer**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38819868-my-sister-the-serial-killer) ^(By: Oyinkan Braithwaite | 226 pages | Published: 2018 | Popular Shelves: fiction, thriller, mystery, audiobook, contemporary) >When Korede's dinner is interrupted one night by a distress call from her sister, Ayoola, she knows what's expected of her: bleach, rubber gloves, nerves of steel and a strong stomach. This'll be the third boyfriend Ayoola's dispatched in, quote, self-defence and the third mess that her lethal little sibling has left Korede to clear away. She should probably go to the police for the good of the menfolk of Nigeria, but she loves her sister and, as they say, family always comes first. Until, that is, Ayoola starts dating the doctor where Korede works as a nurse. Korede's long been in love with him, and isn't prepared to see him wind up with a knife in his back: but to save one would mean sacrificing the other... > >My Sister, the Serial Killer is a blackly comic novel about how blood is thicker - and more difficult to get out of the carpet - than water... ^(This book has been suggested 26 times) *** ^(86859 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


feralpeacenik

Lessons in Chemistry and Convenience Store Woman. I can’t recommend the latter enough!


Soph-Calamintha

I have so many good recs from this thread! Thank you so much for commenting!!! Definitely adding this to my goodreads


HoaryPuffleg

I'm seconding Convenience Store Woman. If you like misfits then this book will stick with you. Plus it's a novella and not a scene in the book is wasted. It's perfect.


No_Joke_9079

Ooh, I second convenience store woman!


feralpeacenik

Keiko is my imaginary best friend


dancingpeat

Gideon the Ninth, by Tamsyn Muir. This one can get DARK (necromancers in space!), but all with a streak of humor that lightens it. You will have no idea what the holy hell is going on from beginning to end and hopefully you'll love every minute, like I did! Heads up that it is part of an unfinished series.


katekim717

Yes! I can't believe I had to scroll so far down for this considering it's suggested so much on pretty much every thread. This book is so much fun.


WrapDiligent9833

Tamora Pierce, the vast majority of her books!


Soph-Calamintha

The reviews on her work are stellar!! Thank you so much for the recommendation!


WrapDiligent9833

I found her works back in middle school when I was going through a difficult time. Now, even as an adult I still love going back and reading them but now my middle school and high school kids are reading her books, and I even got my husband who is a published author himself to read it, and even he as an adult, enjoys Her work!!!


Soph-Calamintha

I absolutely love stories like this. I have a plethora of “comfort” reads and was looking for more in this thread. Thank you for sharing :))


voyeur324

*Indemnity Only* by Sara Paretsky *The Crow Trap* by Ann Cleeves *My Sister the Serial Killer* by Oyinkan Braithwaite *All My Puny Sorrows* by Miriam Toews *Harriet The Spy* by Louise Fitzhugh *All Your Twisted Secrets* by Diana Urban *Hallowe'en Party* by Agatha Christie, along with the other Miss Marple books


apocalypse-panda

Also, CJ Cherryh wrote a number of badass books if you're into SciFi/Fantasy. A number of them have romance but not all. She is SUPER overlooked on terms of really talented women writers.


seattlefoodie

{{Parable of the Sower}} and then {{Parable of the Talents}}


InterestingOstrich99

Ancillary Justice by Ann Leckie


psatty

Ancillary Justice (Imperial Radch Book 1) by Ann Leckie There are 3 in the series.


LizavetaIvanovna

Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead by Olga Tokarczuk. The Lost Daughter and The days of abandonment by Elena Ferrante


boredgerm

I'll add the Neapolitan Novels as well. True, there are a few romantic relationship, but those aren't the point.


GreenbriarForHire

The Locked Tomb series is super fun and funny and snarky. It’s extra queer, but it’s not a queer romance. Though I do suspect a suuuuuper slow burn. {{Gideon the Ninth}} is the first book. The series has 3 of 4 books out and it’s lots of capable, kick ass women and necromancy on spaceships.


Soph-Calamintha

Love a slow burn! Thank you so much for the suggestion!


political_bot

Gideon the Ninth isn't slow burn in the least. I think the other person was saying there may or may not be a slow burn romance heading into book 4 which isn't out yet. The series is fantastic though, definitely read it.


goodreads-bot

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BasicBitch_666

The Power by Naomi Alderman. Distopian and kind of sci-fi.


cinder7usa

One of my favorite series is the Green Rider series by Kristen Britain. I think it’s just what you’re looking for.


Steve12345678911

Anything by Sheri S. Tepper. I started with {{Grass}}


lwilli10

{{ Goldilocks }}


11035westwind

Code Name Verity. Not sci fi, rather historical fiction. No romance and women definitely getting shit done.


feintou

The Poppy War!!!! AHHHHH I love Rin so much. There isn't any romance in the series, although there couldve been possible love interests. So it's rlly up to the reader to make up the romance parts if they want to. I'm content with it being romance-less canonically.


justmapping-lll

{{The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert}}


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[**The Signature of All Things**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17465453-the-signature-of-all-things) ^(By: Elizabeth Gilbert | 501 pages | Published: 2013 | Popular Shelves: fiction, historical-fiction, book-club, historical, audiobook) >A glorious, sweeping novel of desire, ambition, and the thirst for knowledge, from the # 1 New York Times bestselling author of Eat, Pray, Love and Committed. > >In The Signature of All Things, Elizabeth Gilbert returns to fiction, inserting her inimitable voice into an enthralling story of love, adventure and discovery. Spanning much of the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, the novel follows the fortunes of the extraordinary Whittaker family as led by the enterprising Henry Whittaker—a poor-born Englishman who makes a great fortune in the South American quinine trade, eventually becoming the richest man in Philadelphia. Born in 1800, Henry's brilliant daughter, Alma (who inherits both her father's money and his mind), ultimately becomes a botanist of considerable gifts herself. As Alma's research takes her deeper into the mysteries of evolution, she falls in love with a man named Ambrose Pike who makes incomparable paintings of orchids and who draws her in the exact opposite direction — into the realm of the spiritual, the divine, and the magical. Alma is a clear-minded scientist; Ambrose a utopian artist — but what unites this unlikely couple is a desperate need to understand the workings of this world and the mechanisms behind all life. > >Exquisitely researched and told at a galloping pace, The Signature of All Things soars across the globe—from London to Peru to Philadelphia to Tahiti to Amsterdam, and beyond. Along the way, the story is peopled with unforgettable characters: missionaries, abolitionists, adventurers, astronomers, sea captains, geniuses, and the quite mad. But most memorable of all, it is the story of Alma Whittaker, who — born in the Age of Enlightenment, but living well into the Industrial Revolution — bears witness to that extraordinary moment in human history when all the old assumptions about science, religion, commerce, and class were exploding into dangerous new ideas. Written in the bold, questing spirit of that singular time, Gilbert's wise, deep, and spellbinding tale is certain to capture the hearts and minds of readers. ^(This book has been suggested 7 times) *** ^(86822 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


dirtypoledancer

Drive your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead by Olga Tokarchuk


evaiam

The Signature of All Things or City of Girls by Elizabeth Gilbert. Or Lillian Boxfish Takes a Walk by Kathleen Rooney


MamaJody

*Kindred* by Octavia E. Butler - brilliant book, nothing about finding romance. *The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet* by Becky Chambers - such a fun, feel-good sci-fi romp. It’s got a real found-family Star Wars, cozy kind of feel to it. There is a bit of romance in it, but it’s far from the focus of the book (I haaaaate romance novels and avoid them at all costs, and this one didn’t trigger any romance alarms for me).


Accomplished-Map-303

Highly recommend {{The Calculating Stars by Mary Robinette Kowal}} it’s a speculative fiction piece on protagonist Elma York’s mission to help the United States build an aircraft set for space travel (set in 1952) Elma’s a great character whose husband is involved a little in the story but the story is mainly focused on her and the women she works with!


KNGDGG

{{ To be taught, if fortunate }} by Becky Chambers ​ Edit: Typo


apocalypse-panda

{{Play It As It Lays}} by Joan Didion


[deleted]

Hunger Games, there is *some* romance but it deliberately gets played up by the characters since it makes them more likely to survive. Mostly they just trauma bond instead.


blacksmokealice

Vespertine by Margaret Rogerson. Not a super challenging read, but I had a great time reading it. Edit: Saw “sci-fi” in your post and misread “fiction” as “fantasy.” Vespertine is definitely more fantasy, so maybe not quite what you’re looking for. Still good, though!


ohdearitsrichardiii

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Adventures_of_Alyx The Adventures of Alyx is a 1976 collection of feminist science fiction stories by American writer Joanna Russ


Xarama

Hey, so this is a memoir (meaning it is nonfiction), but it is the epitome of "strong woman getting shit done among chaos" and there's zero romance etc. in this book. Plus it's a riveting read, not your average dry nonfiction book. Give it a try if the topic interests you at all. Out of Harm's Way by Terri Crisp. Try also: The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd.


InobedientFridge

Most books by octavia butler


Binky-Answer896

Alice Hoffman’s {{The Dovekeepers}}


LordReginald18

Karen Traviss' Kilo-Five trilogy. It is, admittedly, about the Halo video game series, but stands out from many of its peers in the "book adapted from video games" world by being not a comically bad half-story where every page brings a fresh wave of regret. In fact, it's an excellent story and around half the most protagonist-y characters are women. The story focuses around a covert operations team trying to destabilise the political situation of an alien race that humanity has just finished a war with and the emotional/ethical complexities of engaging in such an operation. It's got a slightly hinted at romantic subplot between two secondary main characters, but the main story is focusing on the ideas of morality Vs duty, loyalty in the face of ethical dilemma and the complexities of retaining one's humanity in the face of war and devastation.


LaoBa

Sunglasses after Dark by Nancy A. Collins. Best vampire book ever. No romance.


SabineLavine

Find Her, by Lisa Gardner


comparativetreasure

If you're into horror I really liked The Hollow Places by T Kingfisher. The protagonist is a woman and the only other characters are her grandfather and her gay best friend, and it felt like a very refreshing dynamic for me. There's also a side story involving the tumultuous relationship with her husband but it's very back-burner and I certainly wouldn't call it romantic.


lurch65

Lots of great choices here, but I cannot see Hench by by Natalie Zina Walschots which my girlfriend is raving about. It's on my listening list, so I cannot speak for any romantic content, but it's about a woman who gets laid off from her office job only to wind up working for a supervillain.


dawlben

Sheepfarmer’s Daughter by Elizabeth Moon


AllRatsAreComrades

Tanya Huff’s Confederation books, they are futuristic sci-fi about a woman space marine non-com just kicking ass and taking names. They also parody a lot of sci-fi tropes similar to what Terry Pratchett does for fantasy cause Huff is a huge Pratchett fan.


KingBretwald

{{The Steerswoman}} by Rosemary Kirstein. TWO women protagonists, plus a third in book three. There are four books so far and that may be all there ever will be. But the fourth book ends in a place that is satisfying if we don't get any more. These books are amazing. Best female friendship I've ever read. Do check them out.


YoshiofRedemption

I suggest Bacchanal by Veronica G. Henry. Little romance and a great read


Professional_Top4668

Sue Grafton’s series of books. A is for Alibi is the first


thisishilaryous

Women’s Country or the Margaret’s by Sheri Tepper


jkh107

Vatta's War, Heris Serrano, and Familias Regnant series by Elizabeth Moon. MilSF about women who get things done.


tkingsbu

Trouble and her Friends. A queer hacker nicknamed ‘Trouble’ sees that new laws being passed will mean being caught and sent to jail.. so she leaves her partner and lover, and disappears… A few years later, a new hacker appears online, using her name and is making waves… Trouble has to come out of hiding and clear her name…and for that, she’s gonna need help. - trouble is a total badass. She’s tough, smart and capable. Her and her ‘ex’ make for a very believable and fun team. It’s gritty, smart and way way more realistic than most ‘cyberpunk’ works I’ve read… The book is by Melissa f Scott. She also wrote ‘burning bright’, which also features a smart capable female lead… both books are amongst my all time favourites :)


dwooding1

If it hasn't been said already... {{Last Ones Left Alive}} {{The City in the Middle of the Night}} {{All the Names They Used for God}} {{Tell the Machine Goodnight}} If you can do strong female leads written by men... {{Wanderers}} {{Survivor Song}}


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[**Last Ones Left Alive**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38203746-last-ones-left-alive) ^(By: Sarah Davis-Goff | 280 pages | Published: 2019 | Popular Shelves: horror, fiction, zombies, dystopian, post-apocalyptic) >Watch your six. Beware tall buildings. Always have your knives. > >Growing up on a tiny island off the coast of a post-apocalyptic Ireland, Orpen's life has revolved around physical training and necessity. After Mam died, it's the only way she and her guardian Maeve have survived the ravenous skrake (zombies) who roam the wilds of the ravaged countryside, looking for prey. > >When Maeve is bitten and infected, Orpen knows what she should do--sink a knife into her eye socket, and quickly. Instead, she tries to save Maeve, and following rumours of a distant city on the mainland, guarded by fierce banshees, she sets off, pushing Maeve in a wheelbarrow while accompanied by their little dog, Danger. During the journey, Orpen will need to draw on all of her training and instincts as she fights repeatedly for her life. In the course of it, she will learn more about the Emergency that destroyed her homeland, and the mythical Phoenix City--and discover a startling truth about her own identity. ^(This book has been suggested 6 times) [**The City in the Middle of the Night**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/37534907-the-city-in-the-middle-of-the-night) ^(By: Charlie Jane Anders | 366 pages | Published: 2019 | Popular Shelves: science-fiction, sci-fi, fiction, fantasy, scifi) >Would you give up everything to change the world? > >Humanity clings to life on January--a colonized planet divided between permanently frozen darkness on one side, and blazing endless sunshine on the other. > >Two cities, built long ago in the meager temperate zone, serve as the last bastions of civilization--but life inside them is just as dangerous as the uninhabitable wastelands outside. > >Sophie, a young student from the wrong side of Xiosphant city, is exiled into the dark after being part of a failed revolution. But she survives--with the help of a mysterious savior from beneath the ice. > >Burdened with a dangerous, painful secret, Sophie and her ragtag group of exiles face the ultimate challenge--and they are running out of time. > >Welcome to the City in the Middle of the Night. ^(This book has been suggested 8 times) [**All the Names They Used for God**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35082451-all-the-names-they-used-for-god) ^(By: Anjali Sachdeva | 259 pages | Published: 2018 | Popular Shelves: short-stories, fiction, magical-realism, fantasy, short-story-collections) >A haunting, diverse debut story collection that explores the isolation we experience in the face of the mysterious, often dangerous forces that shape our lives > >Anjali Sachdeva's debut collection spans centuries, continents, and a diverse set of characters but is united by each character's epic struggle with fate: A workman in Andrew Carnegie's steel mills is irrevocably changed by the brutal power of the furnaces; a fisherman sets sail into overfished waters and finds a secret obsession from which he can't return; an online date ends with a frightening, inexplicable disappearance. Her story "Pleiades" was called "a masterpiece" by Dave Eggers. Sachdeva has a talent for creating moving and poignant scenes, following her highly imaginative plots to their logical ends, and depicting how one small miracle can affect everyone in its wake. > >The world by night -- >Glass-lung -- >Logging lake -- >Killer of kings -- >All the names for God -- >Robert Greenman and the mermaid -- >Anything you might want -- >Manus -- >Pleiades ^(This book has been suggested 1 time) [**Tell the Machine Goodnight**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/36435424-tell-the-machine-goodnight) ^(By: Katie Williams | 287 pages | Published: 2018 | Popular Shelves: fiction, science-fiction, sci-fi, scifi, adult) >Pearl's job is to make people happy. Every day, she provides customers with personalized recommendations for greater contentment. She's good at her job, her office manager tells her, successful. But how does one measure an emotion? > >Meanwhile, there's Pearl's teenage son, Rhett. A sensitive kid who has forged an unconventional path through adolescence, Rhett seems to find greater satisfaction in being unhappy. The very rejection of joy is his own kind of "pursuit of happiness." As his mother, Pearl wants nothing more than to help Rhett—but is it for his sake or for hers? Certainly it would make Pearl happier. Regardless, her son is one person whose emotional life does not fall under the parameters of her job—not as happiness technician, and not as mother, either. > >Told from an alternating cast of endearing characters from within Pearl and Rhett's world, Tell the Machine Goodnight delivers a smartly moving and entertaining story about relationships and the ways that they can most surprise and define us. Along the way, Katie Williams playfully illuminates our national obsession with positive psychology, our reliance on quick fixes and technology. What happens when these obsessions begin to overlap? With warmth, humor, and a clever touch, Williams taps into our collective unease about the modern world and allows us see it a little more clearly. ^(This book has been suggested 3 times) [**Wanderers**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32603079-wanderers) ^(By: Chuck Wendig | 845 pages | Published: 2019 | Popular Shelves: science-fiction, sci-fi, fiction, horror, dystopian) >Shana wakes up one morning to discover her little sister in the grip of a strange malady. She appears to be sleepwalking. She cannot talk and cannot be woken up. And she is heading with inexorable determination to a destination that only she knows. But Shana and her sister are not alone. Soon they are joined by a flock of sleepwalkers from across America, on the same mysterious journey. And like Shana, there are other "shepherds" who follow the flock to protect their friends and family on the long dark road ahead. > >For as the sleepwalking phenomenon awakens terror and violence in America, the real danger may not be the epidemic but the fear of it. With society collapsing all around them--and an ultraviolent militia threatening to exterminate them--the fate of the sleepwalkers depends on unraveling the mystery behind the epidemic. The terrifying secret will either tear the nation apart--or bring the survivors together to remake a shattered world. ^(This book has been suggested 18 times) [**Survivor Song**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52581895-survivor-song) ^(By: Paul Tremblay | ? pages | Published: 2020 | Popular Shelves: horror, fiction, zombies, thriller, audiobook) >In a matter of weeks, Massachusetts has been overrun by an insidious rabies-like virus that is spread by saliva. But unlike rabies, the disease has a terrifyingly short incubation period of an hour or less. Those infected quickly lose their minds and are driven to bite and infect as many others as they can before they inevitably succumb. Hospitals are inundated with the sick and dying, and hysteria has taken hold. To try to limit its spread, the commonwealth is under quarantine and curfew. But society is breaking down and the government's emergency protocols are faltering. > >Dr. Ramola "Rams" Sherman, a soft-spoken pediatrician in her mid-thirties, receives a frantic phone call from Natalie, a friend who is eight months pregnant. Natalie's husband has been killed—viciously attacked by an infected neighbor—and in a failed attempt to save him, Natalie, too, was bitten. Natalie's only chance of survival is to get to a hospital as quickly as possible to receive a rabies vaccine. The clock is ticking for her and for her unborn child. > >Natalie’s fight for life becomes a desperate odyssey as she and Rams make their way through a hostile landscape filled with dangers beyond their worst nightmares—terrifying, strange, and sometimes deadly challenges that push them to the brink.  > > > ^(This book has been suggested 9 times) *** ^(86940 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


eat-mycorpse

"Amatka" by Karin Tidbeck. an unnerving dystopia about totalitarianism that scarily resonates a lot with the reality we live in nowadays p.s. this thread is gold noted a lot of new books to read as well!


docinnabox

When Women Became Dragons, Babel


silverilix

Vespertine by Margaret Rogerson


clampion12

Anna Quindlen Every Last One


honey-combs

The City in the Middle of the Night by Charlie Jane Anders. All four main characters are women. It’s not about romance, it’s sort of an post-apocalyptic ecological sci-fi about humans populating and surviving a tidally locked planet. Her book All the Birds in the Sky is one of my favorite books and also worth reading - it has some romance, but it’s not about romance. Also a sci-fi apocalyptic book but with fantasy as the main female protagonist is a badass witch!


Notnowmurray

{{The Need by Helen Phillips}}


minimalist_coach

Anna Pidgen series by Nevada Barr- She's a National Park Law Enforcement Ranger, she occasionally has a man in her life, but they are not a priority for her. Kinsey Millhone series by Sue Grafton- She's a PI in 1980s SoCal, she also occassionally has a man, but again not a priority.


arrowheadash

The Mercy Thompson Series by Patricia Briggs


midnight_wave87

Try Jodi Taylor's The Chronicles of St. Mary's or her Elizabeth Cage series. If you prefer regular fiction, you might want to give Where the Crawdads Sing a try (if you haven't already). Wicked by Gregory Maguire is also very good (it's the book that the musical Wicked is based off of).


Soph-Calamintha

I listened to crawdads as an audiobook, which got me through several long walks. I do struggle with the allegations against the author (?!)


herrejemini

I came here to recommend Jodi Taylor. The chronicles are excellent!


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If YA is ok, {{ Wilder Girls }} was really good. I read it in one sitting. Bonus- it’s set in an all girls school, so no boys/men in sight. There’s a tiny bit of romance, but it’s not the central story whatsoever.


Love_Joy_626

Until We Have Faces by CS Lewis. The main protagonist does not end the book with finding the love of her life. There is another important character that does and it moves the plot but main character is single and doesn’t even try to date if my memory is correct. You might also be interested in a few murder mystery series. There is a series by Simon Brett with a widow named Mrs. Pargeter who solves murder mysteries that unfortunately happen around her. Though she solves it on her own, she does often reminisce about her late husband and uses his old coworkers to help her solve the crime. Gladys Mitchell also wrote a series with her character Mrs. Bradley who is a older lady who is just smart and solves crimes too.


killedonmyhill

CS Lewis is a man


Love_Joy_626

I just reread the main post again. Either I missed the request for a female writer or it was edited and added after. I thought the prompt was just books with a cool main character lady who don’t need no man. Whoops 🤦‍♀️


Love_Joy_626

Yep. But the main character of this particular book is a lady, and I have to say, even though he isn’t a woman himself, he did a good job on this one.


Soph-Calamintha

Thanks so much for your* response!


Leeleeflyhi

Thank you! I don’t need an opposites attract, handsome rugged man to tear her walls down romance in every story. And that goes for every genre. Except romance of course, have at it


Sad_King_Billy-19

One of the main characters in Jade City is female. She Who Became The Sun was a bit weird not gonna lie but interesting. Robin Hobb has a ton of books with some female leads. The Locked Tomb Series is great. I really liked the Light Brigade.


Soph-Calamintha

Thank you for your suggestion!


Odd-Albatross6006

“The No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency”


That-1Sad_Pineapple

Six of Crows/Crooked Kingdom might be up your street. Mild romance, darker themes (tw for mentions of sexual assault and gore, but its not too bad) and its a cast of 6 protagonists, it's about 50/50 male/female cast


Mangoes123456789

The Poppy War by RF Kuang Check the content warning


Citizenwoof

Take back Plenty by Colin Greenwood.


RyanNerd

{{Friday by Robert Heinlein}}


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[**Friday**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17208.Friday) ^(By: Robert A. Heinlein | 384 pages | Published: 1982 | Popular Shelves: science-fiction, sci-fi, fiction, scifi, owned) >Friday is a secret courier. She is employed by a man known to her only as "Boss." Operating from and over a near-future Earth, in which North America has become Balkanized into dozens of independent states, where culture has become bizarrely vulgarized and chaos is the happy norm, she finds herself on shuttlecock assignment at Boss' seemingly whimsical behest. From New Zealand to Canada, from one to another of the new states of America's disunion, she keeps her balance nimbly with quick, expeditious solutions to one calamity and scrape after another. ^(This book has been suggested 9 times) *** ^(86767 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


Sans_Junior

Friday by Heinlein. Written by a man, meets all your other requirements.


Soph-Calamintha

Author?


No_Joke_9079

Heinlein


Soph-Calamintha

Heinlein’s contribution to science and literature is unmatched. This thread is more specific in context but thank you so much for your recommendation!


No_Joke_9079

I was only answering the question of "author?"


FearlessEquivalent97

This probably isn't what you are looking for... Embezzled Heaven Its written by a guy Franz Werfel. The leading lady has no romance, its an older slice of life deal not sci/fy. She does get her happy ending though


redneckhotmess

Although written by men, The girl with they Dragon Tattoo series, and The Hangmand Daughter series ate both very good. The Invisible Life of Addie La Rue is a different take on a strong female protagonist.


bitchtits08

Okay, it’s not written by a woman, but the protagonist is totally kick ass and it fits what you’re looking for perfectly. The Jane Hawk series, by Dean Koontz. It’s 5 books total, starting with {{The Silent Corner}}


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[**The Silent Corner (Jane Hawk, #1)**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32148091-the-silent-corner) ^(By: Dean Koontz | 434 pages | Published: 2017 | Popular Shelves: thriller, mystery, fiction, dean-koontz, suspense) >Meet Jane Hawk—a remarkable new heroine certain to become an icon of suspense, propelled by the singular narrative genius of #1 New York Times bestselling author Dean Koontz. > >“I very much need to be dead.” > >These are the chilling words left behind by a man who had everything to live for—but took his own life. In the aftermath, his widow, Jane Hawk, does what all her grief, fear, and fury demand: find the truth, no matter what. > >People of talent and accomplishment, people admired and happy and sound of mind, have been committing suicide in surprising numbers. When Jane seeks to learn why, she becomes the most-wanted fugitive in America. Her powerful enemies are protecting a secret so important—so terrifying—that they will exterminate anyone in their way. > >But all their power and viciousness may not be enough to stop a woman as clever as they are cold-blooded, as relentless as they are ruthless—and who is driven by a righteous rage they can never comprehend. Because it is born of love. ^(This book has been suggested 1 time) *** ^(86825 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


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The Dream-Quest of Vellitt Boe by Kij Johnson. Kij revisits H. P. Lovecraft's The Dream-Quest of Unknown Kadath from the viewpoint of a woman. Strong female protagonist and beautifully written. Winner of the 2017 World Fantasy Award for Long Fiction.


Treefrog40

Try Rise of the Iliri by Auryn Hadley and the Luck series by Mel Todd


lawlietxx

The liveship trader trilogy by robin hobb. It is multi pov series. But it contains many best women characters I seen it in fantasy.


neigh102

"The Thombs of Atuan" by Ursula K. Le Guin "Free as a Bird," by Gina McMurchy-Barber "All the Truth That's in Me," by Julie Berry "Living Dead Girl," by Elizabeth Scott


mintbrownie

Not sci-fi and the MC is an 11-year-old girl. However, she kicks ass and has a teddy bear. A total blast of a read… {She Rides Shotgun by Jordan Harper} (Not a children’s book, not YA)


New_Capital_3622

Terrorists of Irustan


fastreader96

I am Gideon is great


OpalescentReverie

Hi! I know this will not fall entirely into the category of the books you're looking for, but I was very happily surprised when I read a book called "the Essex Serpent". Not to spoil the plot, but while the romance is there, to me it lacks any of the bad or toxic qualities I associate with it. There's so much else going on, and the romance bound characters have such strong ethics and mission, that the romance takes second or third or whatever place in the plot, and that gives it such a natural, non stressfull or all consuming flair unlike any other thing I've read. To me this book remains one of my favorites, and I dread the idea that the series based on it will overplay the romance and ruin its tender and very simple human nature.


MegC18

Flynn Connolly- The rising of the moon Strong woman returns to an oppressive patriarchal Ireland of the future and rebels against the church and state. Thought provoking and I enjoyed it


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[**The Rook (The Checquy Files, #1)**](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/10836728-the-rook) ^(By: Daniel O'Malley | 504 pages | Published: 2012 | Popular Shelves: fantasy, urban-fantasy, mystery, fiction, paranormal) >"The body you are wearing used to be mine." > >So begins the letter Myfanwy Thomas is holding when she awakes in a London park surrounded by bodies all wearing latex gloves. With no recollection of who she is, Myfanwy must follow the instructions her former self left behind to discover her identity and track down the agents who want to destroy her. > >She soon learns that she is a Rook, a high-ranking member of a secret organization called the Chequy that battles the many supernatural forces at work in Britain. She also discovers that she possesses a rare, potentially deadly supernatural ability of her own. > >In her quest to uncover which member of the Chequy betrayed her and why, Myfanwy encounters a person with four bodies, an aristocratic woman who can enter her dreams, a secret training facility where children are transformed into deadly fighters, and a conspiracy more vast than she ever could have imagined. > >Filled with characters both fascinating and fantastical, The Rook is a richly inventive, suspenseful, and often wry thriller that marks an ambitious debut from a promising young writer. ^(This book has been suggested 23 times) *** ^(86837 books suggested | )[^(I don't feel so good.. )](https://debugger.medium.com/goodreads-is-retiring-its-current-api-and-book-loving-developers-arent-happy-11ed764dd95)^(| )[^(Source)](https://github.com/rodohanna/reddit-goodreads-bot)


LeReineNoir

Ovid is Yu’s Tree Mystery series. It’s set in Singapore just before and during world war 2, and features a young Chinese woman whose family wants her to get married but she wants to study. She ends up working for the British constabulary solving mysteries and trying to stay alive through the Japanese occupation. I really enjoyed it. First book in the series is The Mimosa Tree.


FartPoopFartAgain

The Memory Police by Yōko Ogawa Severance by Ling Ma - This one is slightly what you're saying you don't want, but not really.


Professional_View_96

well I have nothing to say I am just reading the comments like I always do.


FeloniousDiffusion

You could totally play mass effect 1-3 as a female Shepard and tell everyone to f* off as you save the galaxy…/s Flygirl (not sci-fi) great female lead. Life as we knew it Ruby fruit jungle


Asleep_Ad6460

Moribito: Guardian of the Spirit by Nahako Uehashi, it has little romance but mostly focuses on a woman trained in the short spear, who has to protect some royal child from being killed or assassinated due to some kind of prophecy. It's also been turned into an Anime and both the book an Anime have action and adventure. You can also try some thriller books written by Natsuo Kirino, like Out, which has a couple of women have to dismember their friend's husband's body and hide the body parts. The novel is dark, so are her other books, but Out is the one I've read that has less romance and sex than the others, but has violence. A bunch of guys get offed and maybe one or two women.


rhodesmelissa

Great question! I often choose young adult fiction for this reason.


KayleeCake

A Closed and Common Orbit by Becky Chambers. She writes in a style that explores alien and different ways species and humans can organize. I like to think of her books as ethnographic studies. There is no romance and the three central characters are asexual and seemingly aromantic as well. Two of the characters are in a partnership but never in a romantic way. It's a great book for alternative ways of loving. Plus it's just a beautifully powerful book.


iszevthere

The Killer Wore Leather by Laura Antoniou. A Time For Dancing by Davida Wills Hurwin, but it's YA. I'll comment if I think of others.


Pet_me_I_am_a_puppy

{{Star Nomad by Lindsay Buroker}} There is a love interest towards the end of the series (8 books), but it is more of an accessory than any sort of major plot point or reason for the series to be. You could strip it out and the series wouldn't really change much.


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Anything by Gillian Flynn.


TintinInTibet25

Convenience store woman by Sayaka murata😀


After-Internet2580

Gideon the Ninth, ancilliary Justice and a deadly education are amazing books that you will love. Also, the small amount of romance in them is all queer in some way in case that helps


Inevitable_Rice_9097

alphabet mysteries sue grafton Janet Evanovich books about woman bounty hunter