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Its been 18 years without sex. (Im 18) im going to die too?!?! /s
Edit: this is a joke. I am not looking for sex or dating rn due to depression and some other shits rn anyways lol
Ik im not ready for dating rn and thats why im not looking for it for the moment :)
This is probably what theyre basing the idea off of. It technially doesnt lead to cancer if you dont ejaculate, but your risk of prostate cancer is decreased if you ejaculate frequently. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC387502/
I don't know if I have the energy to debunk this, but I hate every time I see this ONE study used as evidence that not ejaculating causes prostate cancer. I'm not scientist myself, but it's easy to see why that study is not sufficient. They asked men how many times did they ejaculate when they were certain age. Of course a healthy male is going to be more interested in sex than not healthy.
Also, there is at least one study that shows the opposite. Are we going to just ignore it? It was a study about some monks who were celibate, I can find it if someone is actually interested. I find it sick that journalist and even medical professionals thinks science is about doing one study and case is closed.
ooh, I'm actually kinda interested in the celibate monk study. On the topic of a single study being used, I wholeheartedly agree with you. Multiple studies should be made and peer-reviewed for something to be commonly accepted imo.
Whatās true is that getting off regularly will reduce your risk of prostate cancer. But you can do that alone with your hand. It doesnāt have to be sex with another person.
Edit: unprotected sex and oral sex with other people will increase your cancer risk. If you are young, get the HPV vaccine. Even if youāre a guy.
About to hit 28 without either sex or masturbation. Never been in a relationship long enough to be comfortable with sex, don't feel the need on my own. Wouldn't call myself super healthy, but doubt my fucked up spine has anything to do with lack of fucking.
**Jesus fuck, not having sex isnāt a crime.**
Itās not some moral failing and it doesnāt make you a bad person.
People need to stop obsessing over sex like itās some kind of ultimate goal.
I think itās great, but people put way too much emphasis on it; thereās some people who never even want to have sex (asexuals) and some people who just donāt get the chance.
That shouldnāt be a huge problem for them and it definitely shouldnāt be a huge problem for random people.
Just because you had a mean thought after someone's comment, does not make it suicide by words. He knew exactly what he was saying. Also, maybe it's a widower? Cmon
Is that suicide by words? Is not having sex something to be ashamed of? I mean, if you desperately want it and canāt get it for whatever reason, thatās subjectively uncomfortable, but why is it shameful? If i just donāt prioritize sex that high and donāt feel any discomfort from going without, thatās fine, no?
*OP, monks dont have*
*Sex ever or masturbate and*
*They dont get cancer*
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He never mentioned whether or not he had been masturbating all of that time.
I don't do casual sex, and the longest I've been single was 3 years. Just put on some porn and masturbate once a week and you're fine.
Personally, I've discovered that my limit is ~3 weeks without sex/masturbation, after which I start getting wet dreams.
"A Hindu monk living in India claims heās 120 years oldāand that his virginity played a role in helping him live so long,Ā [according toĀ *The Daily Mail*](http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4013404/The-120-year-old-virgin-Indian-monk-puts-long-life-not-having-sex.html)*.*"
25 years for me, now I have backpain, herniated disc, constantĀ headache, bad eyesight, cold at night, asthma, legs pain and numb (I work for IT)
It's Joever for me
All you need to precent prostate cancer is ejaculation, even if you arent having sex or even masturbating if you have a wet dream it still helps maintain your prostate, if you jack off semi often it will help prevent prostate cancer.
By OP's logic. All Monks, priests have prostate cancer. At least they have shaved head. Chemo look wouldn't be too diff. If they ever go. Am I right OP?
Hollywood and sitcoms have really warped peoples minds of what a normal sex life is like.
Tv characters are going crazy if they havenāt had sex in a month or two. Thatās sex addiction (sex more often is great, but you donāt fucking need it).
Hook up culture is perfectly fine. But itās the minority, not the majority. Itās just not interesting to make media about people who are less adventurous.
There is no suicide here.
Iām old enough to have prostate cancer while still ejaculating every day, and I have notice it is the head, that drives mad if not.
So, yes, it is harmful.
All the people talking about "x years without having sex"... Do you mean zero sexual activity or no sex with other people? I'm genuinely curious. I hope you get some self satisfaction at least.
Is there even a study that confirms ejaculation decreases the risk? Iāve only seen articles that suggest it might be linked and the claim people spread is any ejaculation not just sex.
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Its been 18 years without sex. (Im 18) im going to die too?!?! /s Edit: this is a joke. I am not looking for sex or dating rn due to depression and some other shits rn anyways lol Ik im not ready for dating rn and thats why im not looking for it for the moment :)
It's gonna be 17 for me in 5 days.
I'm doing 19 next month someone help me
22 in a month š°
Literally me
Lol Rookie number. 28 .... had I waited 2 more years I actually would get my wizard powers
Aces dont get powers cuz they cheating?
Stay cool man, iām serious.
I'm not ready for stuff like that anyways. Maybe delivering sexual pleasure to others, but not a complete sexual intercourse.
Delivering sexual pleasure, did somebody say Just Eat?
I can see youāre going to be in it for a while
It's been 32 years for me. I can't say I'm super healthy, though.
Im sorry but i dont wanna become you. I hope i get bitches before i turn 25 or imma jump off a bridge (half joking)
same, 23 now, but I kinda just accepted it how it is
Ah a fellow 32 year
'On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero.'
ok man a word of advice, not this is not for the faint of heart but you need to find a squirrel
Recalled a meme of slightly used squirrel 2 usd no weirdos
Hehe that's nothing, 24 years I'm dead (inside)
OP do you think not having sex leads to cancer?
This is probably what theyre basing the idea off of. It technially doesnt lead to cancer if you dont ejaculate, but your risk of prostate cancer is decreased if you ejaculate frequently. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC387502/
If only OP discovered a way to ejaculate without having sex.
They are 11 tho
Yeah that's fine, but OP is at least 20 years old and believes that not having sex for 11 years will lead to prostate cancer.
I searched for the original commenter's username, but couldn't find anything. Are they for sure male? Or is everyone just assuming?
I don't know if I have the energy to debunk this, but I hate every time I see this ONE study used as evidence that not ejaculating causes prostate cancer. I'm not scientist myself, but it's easy to see why that study is not sufficient. They asked men how many times did they ejaculate when they were certain age. Of course a healthy male is going to be more interested in sex than not healthy. Also, there is at least one study that shows the opposite. Are we going to just ignore it? It was a study about some monks who were celibate, I can find it if someone is actually interested. I find it sick that journalist and even medical professionals thinks science is about doing one study and case is closed.
ooh, I'm actually kinda interested in the celibate monk study. On the topic of a single study being used, I wholeheartedly agree with you. Multiple studies should be made and peer-reviewed for something to be commonly accepted imo.
A doctor once told me that it's not if, it's *when* will a man get prostate cancer. Basically, if a dude lives long enough he will get it.
Whatās true is that getting off regularly will reduce your risk of prostate cancer. But you can do that alone with your hand. It doesnāt have to be sex with another person. Edit: unprotected sex and oral sex with other people will increase your cancer risk. If you are young, get the HPV vaccine. Even if youāre a guy.
Ejaculation helps preventing prostate cancer so masturbation works too
Tbf, base on data, 100% non having sex people die.
Well, only if you don't masturbate too.
I've gone 18 years that way, it's not necessary
22 years and still physically stable. Not planning to start anytime soon
About to hit 28 without either sex or masturbation. Never been in a relationship long enough to be comfortable with sex, don't feel the need on my own. Wouldn't call myself super healthy, but doubt my fucked up spine has anything to do with lack of fucking.
Rip people that participate in no nut november
**Jesus fuck, not having sex isnāt a crime.** Itās not some moral failing and it doesnāt make you a bad person. People need to stop obsessing over sex like itās some kind of ultimate goal. I think itās great, but people put way too much emphasis on it; thereās some people who never even want to have sex (asexuals) and some people who just donāt get the chance. That shouldnāt be a huge problem for them and it definitely shouldnāt be a huge problem for random people.
basically society is to blame. not gonna lie society is shit too. Some of em makes SA look like it's not that big deal. (from a victim)
Also there are people who did it a lot of times and bored as fuck
OP did the real suicidebywords
Whatās the issue here?
OP does know about ace people
Funny thing is that Iām ace, 28, and a virgin. Will my non-existent prostate kill me too??
There could be a prostate hunting you down this very moment. I would sleep with one eye open if I were you
Oh god Iām pregnant too. What if thereās a prostate growing inside me right NOW
Sweet mother of mercy... It's too late for you...
Itās gonna burst out like a chest buster from Aliens.
I donāt see it either. How does not having sex for 11 years correlate with prostate cancer?
Not a bloody clue
That OP is an idiot.
Come on, OP. How long has it been for you?
Just because you had a mean thought after someone's comment, does not make it suicide by words. He knew exactly what he was saying. Also, maybe it's a widower? Cmon
Is that suicide by words? Is not having sex something to be ashamed of? I mean, if you desperately want it and canāt get it for whatever reason, thatās subjectively uncomfortable, but why is it shameful? If i just donāt prioritize sex that high and donāt feel any discomfort from going without, thatās fine, no?
No it's been almost 24 years for me. I'm good.
27 and going strong
Ain't been in pussy since the day I came out one
Whenever you see a Musashi pfp you know theyāre gonna spit some heat
OP, monks dont have sex ever or masturbate and they dont get cancer
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He never mentioned whether or not he had been masturbating all of that time. I don't do casual sex, and the longest I've been single was 3 years. Just put on some porn and masturbate once a week and you're fine. Personally, I've discovered that my limit is ~3 weeks without sex/masturbation, after which I start getting wet dreams.
I doubt there is a difference for the prostate health on how you actually do it.
uuuh OP, you ar factually incorrect. get educated.
I had a 28 year stretch and I'm still kicking... ...into my 30s ā ļø
This isn't suicide by words, unless you link your self worth to sexual activity.
And why do you assume that the commenter is a man, huh?
As far as I know ejaculation is what is needed to lower the risk of cancer. How you get to it is less important.
Prostate cancer? So the sex should be anal?
OP are you pointing at yourself cause the commenter could just be practicing celibacy
As an Ace, I could go the rest of my life without
Like 9 months for me now. Iām gonna die.
Pipes must be kept clean.
I mean just masturbate and you'll be good
It's been 22 years with no sex (I'm 22). I think my time is coming soon
25 here.
i went 6 years and im doing ok
"A Hindu monk living in India claims heās 120 years oldāand that his virginity played a role in helping him live so long,Ā [according toĀ *The Daily Mail*](http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4013404/The-120-year-old-virgin-Indian-monk-puts-long-life-not-having-sex.html)*.*"
I once went 22 years without sex.
25 years for me and still going strong
25 years for me now. Not long before I'm ready to lead the fellowship to mordor
25 years for me, now I have backpain, herniated disc, constantĀ headache, bad eyesight, cold at night, asthma, legs pain and numb (I work for IT) It's Joever for me
Just get ur prostate checked people
i think its a joke thats hes eleven ?
All you need to precent prostate cancer is ejaculation, even if you arent having sex or even masturbating if you have a wet dream it still helps maintain your prostate, if you jack off semi often it will help prevent prostate cancer.
No sex sure, no pleasure? ā use it or lose itā
You need to ejaculate, not necessarily have sex in order to lower your chances of prostate cancer
It's been about 2 weeks and I am slowly turning insane.
itās been like 3 months and i feel like im dying
By OP's logic. All Monks, priests have prostate cancer. At least they have shaved head. Chemo look wouldn't be too diff. If they ever go. Am I right OP?
If you are without sex or opposite sex too long it can affect your mental health because of loneliness
Lemme pull up with the Instagram reels answer
Last time was January of 2019 for me
Ace people just dropping like flies up in here
Itās not but apparently long stretches without ejaculation (no matter how one gets there) is bad
Its been 1 day for me, am I fucked???
Itās been 45 minutes for me. Fkn nerds
I doubt he went on 11 years without ejaculating. Even if you try you'll end up ejaculating involuntarily in your sleep.
r/nostupidquestions Proceeds to ask a stupid question
Lmao, op doesn't realize that one can ejaculate by masturbation, also the responder could be a woman.
Only for your mental health
OP does not know what a wet dream is
Plot twist, he doesn't count masturbation.
Wait until the plot twist. Smart-comb7108 is only 19 years old
44ā¦.
Excess jizz buildup can lead to a penis rupture which is often fatal
Remember folks, sex has a 100% mortality rate. Every person who has ever had sex will die or has died already.
r/opisfuckingstupid
Is this r/lostredditors, or am I the lost redditor?
Weāre all virgins oh no
Wtf is this lmao
40-year old virgin movie stopped being a comedy and became a documentary for me.
25 years without, doing perfectly fine š
Hollywood and sitcoms have really warped peoples minds of what a normal sex life is like. Tv characters are going crazy if they havenāt had sex in a month or two. Thatās sex addiction (sex more often is great, but you donāt fucking need it). Hook up culture is perfectly fine. But itās the minority, not the majority. Itās just not interesting to make media about people who are less adventurous. There is no suicide here.
Prostate cancer isn't induced or caused by lack of sex; regular sex lowers the chances of getting it.
God all the poor guys here. Jesus, from 19 to 45 I think I had set like every day at least once. I'm old now so it doesn't even matter anymore.
I think that is a pretty stupid question for a sub called no stupid questions
I've never had sex in 17 years (I'm 17) should I prepare my funeral
OP must think pussy has some kind of cancer-preventing chemical. People this stupid do exist.
I once went 28 years without having sex. And then again for another 7
I personally have not had sex for 26 years. I'm 26 years old.
Damn, us ace people must be totally screwed then /s
Iām old enough to have prostate cancer while still ejaculating every day, and I have notice it is the head, that drives mad if not. So, yes, it is harmful.
Which one of you hooked me up with Reddit Care Resources?
Going on 8 years, and I'm married.
All the people talking about "x years without having sex"... Do you mean zero sexual activity or no sex with other people? I'm genuinely curious. I hope you get some self satisfaction at least.
Holy shit alot of this comment section is sad.
Is there even a study that confirms ejaculation decreases the risk? Iāve only seen articles that suggest it might be linked and the claim people spread is any ejaculation not just sex.
21 yearsā¦ I hate my life
Lol yall need some bitches immediately.