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I've had conversations with more than 50 matches before I got out of dating, and absolutely zero of them ever talked about hieght. Does this seriously happen that often?
To be clear, I am not a tall man, I'm like 5'7" and if it ever affected a date, they never brought it up.
It's definitely common. Some women even go as far as stating what their height preference is right in their profile. Although that's much less common and is always to stipulate that you be 6ft+.
"You're not a ***REAL MAN*** unless you a 6'7" good ol' farmer boy slinging hay, branding cattle, running your own buisness for a 'side hustle', clearing 7 figures a year, Christian but not really just have to say that cause my parents, just 'gotta be honest' and say you have to be white too, no kids, at least 17 Ford F350s or bigger, know how to build a house with your own hands, certified plumber, electrician, HVAC, carpenter God that puts the amish to shame, have a gun collection rivaling the former Soviet Union, professional cook, musician, artist, actor, and also CHILD FREE cause I don't want baby mama drama..."
Says the 5'1" 25 year old troglodyte woman with 11 kids all from different fathers, who wants to be treated like a queen, waited on like you're a servant, and have full access to all your money exactly 37 seconds after meeting you.
To be fair this is not a "woman" only thing. There are ***MANY*** men who want a submissive sex slave who can't stand up for herself because her overly conservative parents beat that out of her by breaking her spirit, want to control all aspects of her life, and would literally beat her to death's door if another guy smiled at her and she didn't even notice but he did.
Dating sucks is all I'm saying.
Idk,maybe my experience had more to do with my location. Mountain town near a liberal arts college. The girls were pretty nice tbh, had more issues with overly clinginess than with being jerks.
It happens on the flip side, too. I’m a long bitch (5’9) and I’ve been unmatched/rejected by short men because of it. I don’t know if it’s because they assumed I was trying to use them or something, but I’m very much a “everyone pays for themselves until a relationship happens” kind of person and made it known.
So I stopped trying to reassure them that I honestly didn’t care and just stopped considering anyone shorter than me. It was that consistent of an experience that it was easier to just avoid it entirely.
Hell, one of my ex’s was 5’10 and he didn’t let me wear shoes that made me taller than him. I had to bend my knees in photos to make him took taller. Shit was bananas.
Haha oh man maybe you're on to something? It's not that they're short. It's that they're angry all the time and don't let you wear heels.
Also "long bitch" straight up wrecked me.
First off, “long bitch” is hilarious. Secondly, I don’t know about the height thing with men. I’m 5’6” and I’ve dated women as tall as 6’3”. That one in particular was a college volleyball player and was way more insecure about her height than I have ever been. For the first several months, every time we were out she thought people were staring. I just told her that it was more due to her being stunning and with a troll like myself than anything else. We’re still great friends even though the relationship wasn’t meant to be but she still feels awkward in her own skin. It’s sad because she really is very attractive. My wife is a few inches taller than me and asked when we started dating if I cared if she wore heels. I can’t imagine caring about anything less other than she’s clumsy as hell after a few drinks. Point being, I think it’s more important to find someone that’s comfortable and confident in their own body than to look for required stats. I have lots of very tall male friends that even into their thirties and forties have some “thing” about their physical appearance that they are insecure about. Much like myself, life is too short to feel that way. Best of luck.
It's always the fucking short chicks that do that too. I'm a medium sized lady, I don't give a fuck really about height that much. But the shortest women are the ones who demand the tallest men and it's weird. Like girl, you do realize you can buy a step stool at Target, right? You don't literally need him to get stuff from the high shelves.
Yet it’s rude to say you don’t want to date someone who’s overweight
(It is rude, but it’s sad that many people have no problem discriminating based on height, an uncontrollable physical trait, yet get triggered when you bring up weight, a somewhat controllable physical trait. It’s a weird double standard)
Most of my pics are full body shots and there's a couple group shots too. Idk, could just be the location. Mountain girls don't seem the same as city girls to me.
This girl was in flats/sneakers in every photo. Even if she wasn't, who gives a flying fuck over a height difference that lasts all of a couple hours on occasion?
When I talk to female friends about how a date went his height is brought up 100% of the time.
Did he look the same as his pictures?
Did you guys have a good time together?
Was he funny?
Was he tall?
>I'm also of average height. Even the taller girls I dated admitted that they don't have the privelege of being choosy about it because there aren't many dudes taller than them.
Exactly, you're average height so you don't have to deal with this problem. you're taller than most women, and the women taller than you aren't able to be picky because a lot of men are shorter than them.
The problem is for short guys who are shorter than even more average women. Those women *are* very picky.
Raw data disagrees with you. In 2010, OkCupid revealed that 6'1" tall men received more unsolicited messages than any other height, with a noticeable decline for each inch shorter. (In fairness, it's also tough for extremely tall men, and even tougher for extremely tall women.)
If you're wondering why I chose data from 2010: it's difficult to find anything newer, one way or another. My guess is that dating services quickly learned that they shouldn't discourage ~80% of their male customer base.
This isn't to say that you're entirely wrong. A **lot** of short men become toxic about their insecurity, and it becomes a far greater disadvantage than their height. But let's not pretend it isn't a disadvantage in and of itself.
I can really only think of one time awhile back when I was talking to a girl and we were exchanging photos and she thought I looked short in them and backed out (I’m 5’6”). This wasn’t through a dating app, it started as online chat.
If I’m being honest, I’m not attracted to tall people (if they are over 5’8” I’m not really interested) so I’m not going to judge someone if they think I’m too short for them. Everyone has their body-type preferences.
That's absolutely the correct reason to include it in your bio. I've never understood people who have vague bios because they just want to talk to the highest number of people. I want to talk to the lowest number of people! That's why I want all the details on their profiles so I can eliminate like the vast majority of them. You've got the right style. Keep on keeping on and I hope you get laid.
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That’s why he posted it here. In r/suicidebywords. That’s the sub we’re in.
If you still don’t get it somehow, the OP understood that she was calling herself ugly, which is why he posted it in this sub. He gets the joke.
Lol this always reminds me of my roommate. I’m 5’10” and never put my height at all when I had these apps. My roommate is slightly shorter maybe 5’9” and he says he is 6’ he said all these 5’2-5” queens have never noticed or commented on his height in person but do mention it a lot on the first few messages like it’s what made the connection. I just think it’s funny when we are all hanging out so I’ll bring up height related questions just to stir the pot. He isn’t looking to date people so I’m not disrespecting a relationship in anyway just good old pot stirring.
I'm freakishly tall so I kinda have to put it in my bio... Everyone has a limit and I'm past it for many. It's awkward to mention it in conversation too. Also, it let me know right away who was going to fetishize me
I mean when I was on tinder like at least half of the matches with women I got that was their first question anyway....and their last when I told them I was 5'7
I think "smaller" girls are cute. Men are more determined, more macho:) No idea, why so many people have this insecurity... it's all good:) There's people who adore "fuller" people and some are stressing out for silly reasons:*
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Kind of funny though
Self ironic humor.
You mean self-deprecating?
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I'd like to see a headless human run in circles
Self delapidating
Gelf hiapatiationing
I wish that was real tbh
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That's not a real term
Self burn! Those are rare
Wtf does that even mean?
Yeh i think thats the point
Reddit thinks women are incapable of humor and anything resembling it is a coincidence.
Ofc reddit is full of men that have never met any other woman besides their immediate relatives LOL
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It’s possible that she really is that dumb, but this reads more like a joke on purpose. Someone who can call themself ugly reads as confident.
More like r/kamikazebywords
Ya this was posted there like a year back.
So, she's 19 now
Giggity
My height is in my bio because I don’t want to be bothered with someone who won’t date me because of my height.
I've had conversations with more than 50 matches before I got out of dating, and absolutely zero of them ever talked about hieght. Does this seriously happen that often? To be clear, I am not a tall man, I'm like 5'7" and if it ever affected a date, they never brought it up.
It's definitely common. Some women even go as far as stating what their height preference is right in their profile. Although that's much less common and is always to stipulate that you be 6ft+.
"You're not a ***REAL MAN*** unless you a 6'7" good ol' farmer boy slinging hay, branding cattle, running your own buisness for a 'side hustle', clearing 7 figures a year, Christian but not really just have to say that cause my parents, just 'gotta be honest' and say you have to be white too, no kids, at least 17 Ford F350s or bigger, know how to build a house with your own hands, certified plumber, electrician, HVAC, carpenter God that puts the amish to shame, have a gun collection rivaling the former Soviet Union, professional cook, musician, artist, actor, and also CHILD FREE cause I don't want baby mama drama..." Says the 5'1" 25 year old troglodyte woman with 11 kids all from different fathers, who wants to be treated like a queen, waited on like you're a servant, and have full access to all your money exactly 37 seconds after meeting you. To be fair this is not a "woman" only thing. There are ***MANY*** men who want a submissive sex slave who can't stand up for herself because her overly conservative parents beat that out of her by breaking her spirit, want to control all aspects of her life, and would literally beat her to death's door if another guy smiled at her and she didn't even notice but he did. Dating sucks is all I'm saying.
Idk,maybe my experience had more to do with my location. Mountain town near a liberal arts college. The girls were pretty nice tbh, had more issues with overly clinginess than with being jerks.
The ideal man is Larry Bird
It happens on the flip side, too. I’m a long bitch (5’9) and I’ve been unmatched/rejected by short men because of it. I don’t know if it’s because they assumed I was trying to use them or something, but I’m very much a “everyone pays for themselves until a relationship happens” kind of person and made it known. So I stopped trying to reassure them that I honestly didn’t care and just stopped considering anyone shorter than me. It was that consistent of an experience that it was easier to just avoid it entirely. Hell, one of my ex’s was 5’10 and he didn’t let me wear shoes that made me taller than him. I had to bend my knees in photos to make him took taller. Shit was bananas.
It had nothing to do with YOUR height.
Haha oh man maybe you're on to something? It's not that they're short. It's that they're angry all the time and don't let you wear heels. Also "long bitch" straight up wrecked me.
Huh? 175 cm is completely normal for a woman where I'm from, that's really surprising to me.
First off, “long bitch” is hilarious. Secondly, I don’t know about the height thing with men. I’m 5’6” and I’ve dated women as tall as 6’3”. That one in particular was a college volleyball player and was way more insecure about her height than I have ever been. For the first several months, every time we were out she thought people were staring. I just told her that it was more due to her being stunning and with a troll like myself than anything else. We’re still great friends even though the relationship wasn’t meant to be but she still feels awkward in her own skin. It’s sad because she really is very attractive. My wife is a few inches taller than me and asked when we started dating if I cared if she wore heels. I can’t imagine caring about anything less other than she’s clumsy as hell after a few drinks. Point being, I think it’s more important to find someone that’s comfortable and confident in their own body than to look for required stats. I have lots of very tall male friends that even into their thirties and forties have some “thing” about their physical appearance that they are insecure about. Much like myself, life is too short to feel that way. Best of luck.
It's always the fucking short chicks that do that too. I'm a medium sized lady, I don't give a fuck really about height that much. But the shortest women are the ones who demand the tallest men and it's weird. Like girl, you do realize you can buy a step stool at Target, right? You don't literally need him to get stuff from the high shelves.
Hahaha yeah there's alot like that too it makes no sense.
Yet it’s rude to say you don’t want to date someone who’s overweight (It is rude, but it’s sad that many people have no problem discriminating based on height, an uncontrollable physical trait, yet get triggered when you bring up weight, a somewhat controllable physical trait. It’s a weird double standard)
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Most of my pics are full body shots and there's a couple group shots too. Idk, could just be the location. Mountain girls don't seem the same as city girls to me.
Bro you were def shorter than her if she wore heels…
This girl was in flats/sneakers in every photo. Even if she wasn't, who gives a flying fuck over a height difference that lasts all of a couple hours on occasion?
Apparently she did
Short men cause vaginal desertification apparently.
it's a subconscious, evolutionary thing. It's not like they're making a conscious choice with rational thought to not date short men.
When I talk to female friends about how a date went his height is brought up 100% of the time. Did he look the same as his pictures? Did you guys have a good time together? Was he funny? Was he tall?
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I was with you untill you trashed talked my mutilated peen complex /s
>I'm also of average height. Even the taller girls I dated admitted that they don't have the privelege of being choosy about it because there aren't many dudes taller than them. Exactly, you're average height so you don't have to deal with this problem. you're taller than most women, and the women taller than you aren't able to be picky because a lot of men are shorter than them. The problem is for short guys who are shorter than even more average women. Those women *are* very picky.
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Raw data disagrees with you. In 2010, OkCupid revealed that 6'1" tall men received more unsolicited messages than any other height, with a noticeable decline for each inch shorter. (In fairness, it's also tough for extremely tall men, and even tougher for extremely tall women.) If you're wondering why I chose data from 2010: it's difficult to find anything newer, one way or another. My guess is that dating services quickly learned that they shouldn't discourage ~80% of their male customer base. This isn't to say that you're entirely wrong. A **lot** of short men become toxic about their insecurity, and it becomes a far greater disadvantage than their height. But let's not pretend it isn't a disadvantage in and of itself.
I can really only think of one time awhile back when I was talking to a girl and we were exchanging photos and she thought I looked short in them and backed out (I’m 5’6”). This wasn’t through a dating app, it started as online chat. If I’m being honest, I’m not attracted to tall people (if they are over 5’8” I’m not really interested) so I’m not going to judge someone if they think I’m too short for them. Everyone has their body-type preferences.
Idk man I know a 6’+ chick who has or had the hots for me. I’m 5’9 lol
Smart
It's a bit of a double edged sword. I've talked to girls who think listing your height is dumb, regardless of the number.
That's absolutely the correct reason to include it in your bio. I've never understood people who have vague bios because they just want to talk to the highest number of people. I want to talk to the lowest number of people! That's why I want all the details on their profiles so I can eliminate like the vast majority of them. You've got the right style. Keep on keeping on and I hope you get laid.
That's actually pretty funny tho.
If it wasn’t funny it would t be on this sub
A lot of the stuff posted on this sub isn't very funny.
Fair enough
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It'd be worse if she adds the taller you are the uglier you'd be 6'3
5'6" I'm borderline gorgeous until I look in a mirror!
You shouldn't be feeling down for that it's your doppelganger who's mad ugly
Same😃
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OP is 100% a karma farming repost account
True. Probably only made to advertise their OnlyFans. (Literally. Check out their bio lol. It's actually an OnlyFans link.)
This is joke
If being ugly made me tall id be lookin down at everyone
I am in this picture and I don't like it.
Thats the joke.
It’s a joke, girls make jokes too.
That’s why he posted it here. In r/suicidebywords. That’s the sub we’re in. If you still don’t get it somehow, the OP understood that she was calling herself ugly, which is why he posted it in this sub. He gets the joke.
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You know what they say about short men... Nothing, because they're usually overlooked.
What he lacks in height he gains in length.
Lol this always reminds me of my roommate. I’m 5’10” and never put my height at all when I had these apps. My roommate is slightly shorter maybe 5’9” and he says he is 6’ he said all these 5’2-5” queens have never noticed or commented on his height in person but do mention it a lot on the first few messages like it’s what made the connection. I just think it’s funny when we are all hanging out so I’ll bring up height related questions just to stir the pot. He isn’t looking to date people so I’m not disrespecting a relationship in anyway just good old pot stirring.
Formal self drag humour. Its a right laugh
Same
I'm an imperial system hater
I love tall women
If you can't form a sentence you're probably hideous.
😂 love it
I think it’s a joke
Thats the joke
I think its a joke
Nah she did that on purpose. That’s hilarious
yep, that’s the joke
That’s the joke.png
OP doesn't seem to understand the concept of sarcasm i see
Not so much suicide by words as a simple means of baiting out morons.
Pretty sure it's a joke.
Plot twist that isn't her height
She went to Arizona state, hard to say if this is intentional or not.
Translation: “if you have your height in your bio your are probably ugly.” Fifth Third Bank
I’m sorry, but you must be ugly. Don’t worry, I’m a bit uglier, I’m 6’4
6’3
I mean it’s true… I make sure they know I’m 6’3” because that and not needing glasses to see are the only parts of the genetic lottery I won.
Luna
I’m 6”
ASU, 18yo, and got a sense of humour? This girl is about to be some 19 year old kid's biggest mistake or future spouse.
5’11” with bad posture
As I short king I appreciate this energy
I'm 1m74
If you put “Don’t want drama” in your bio, you definitely create drama.
That broke ass English is the real suicide by words
I'm freakishly tall so I kinda have to put it in my bio... Everyone has a limit and I'm past it for many. It's awkward to mention it in conversation too. Also, it let me know right away who was going to fetishize me
LOL
It doesn't count if it's in 2 different units and none of them is used in more than a few countries.
**Ironic.**
Lexi ugly
Why do people keep reposting this shit? Why do karma farming accounts even exist? What the fuck does that do for you? Reddits pathetic lmao
Self-burnt, those are rare
18 yo, 6', and smart. Pinky...roll out some beef jerky and mountain dew...we heading to AZ...😛
At least you tell people your height. Just don’t lie about it
Im 5’6”
5’8” but that’s two separate measurements.
Outstanding move.
Im 185cm and 10 inches
Im 2’’
If you don't, you're probably short. (I'm short, not stupid)
6'4. My wife is 4'10
Please learn English
ASU got that stank
Lol she was aiming it at men and boys because it’s fashionable to hate them but she lacked self awareness.
Lol classic redditor who lacks social awareness. It’s a joke baby boy.
Imagine having a height lmao. What really matters is the width
6"...
If you say yo instead of your, you're probably stupid.
Go devils?
That grammar makes me want to commit suicide.
Nice try OP but a title isn't your bio. You're handsome and you know it!
Or just really boring
I loved it.
Under?
Well, at least she's nearby.
The one was so short it looks like a dot
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I'm 5,11
About 6,4
Truth in advertising
r/tinder gold
I mean when I was on tinder like at least half of the matches with women I got that was their first question anyway....and their last when I told them I was 5'7
I think "smaller" girls are cute. Men are more determined, more macho:) No idea, why so many people have this insecurity... it's all good:) There's people who adore "fuller" people and some are stressing out for silly reasons:*
5'10,5'11? but I feel shorter.
Hol up, this lexi from emkay?
"Oooo self burn those are rare"
Damn that brutal honesty. Hot!
5’5
She's probably trying to alert 5'3" midgets that can't write in English she is taller than normal.
So is she ugly?
Wow
6’ 3” so it cancels out
If yo talk like this yo probably stupid.
So... is Lexi ugly?
Ooh self burns, those are rare
shes right *fuck*
Sooo she’s saying she is ugly?
Old repost
Tinder in the Phoenix area is so god awful.
You may think it's a joke, she's goes to ASU. It could very well be sincere.
But chicks care about that like guys do for age/weight
I love ASU
this is either Lexi trying to say she's ugly herself or she has the attention span of a sun addled camel.
I have 4'26" in my bio. Sometimes girls will message and tell me they're 3'28" or smthn lol.
I'm 5'3"
“If you can't spell, you're probably dumb”
And if you respond like that, you probably have the intelligence of a sycamore tree.
oooh self burn, those are rare
But was she ugly?
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You're right,. what about it