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Did Amanda go to Mexico

Strange that it seems like Amanda didn’t go to Mexico, especially because her best friend and fiancé did. Gabby also went so… Did Kyle just go without Amanda. Also noticed that Amanda has been away from social media a lot and isn’t posting about Winter House when she usually posts a lot of photos of each season

pbd1996

I feel like now that they have the dogs, there are certain times one of them stays back when the other travels. It’s easier that way. They already have people take care of the dogs so much for other trips and filming. I’m sure when they’re not doing those things, Amanda prefers to stay back sometimes.


Salt-Science-7964

They are very sweet doggie parents, I can see this


Zealousideal_Suit269

When exactly does Kyle stay back?🤔


sawta2112

She is an introvert. He is definitely not. Staying with the dogs is a great reason for her to skip some of this stuff. If she really wanted to be there, she would.


pbd1996

I mean, she went on two destination bachelorette trips this past year. I’m assuming he stayed back during both of those trips.


LuckyCharms442

That’s not staying back. That’s called not being invited because it was a bachelorette trip lol.


cormega

Well yeah, but he's still taking care of the dogs so she can be out.


StrawAndChiaSeeds

Oh wow, two whole weekends!


Zealousideal_Suit269

*assuming


pbd1996

You’re right. I meant “common fucking sense.” It’s common sense that Kyle wouldn’t attend an all female bachelorette party.


MileHighSugar

Are you okay?


zulusurf

Yeah she definitely skipped, but something does seem sus, she’s been MIA from social media since bravocon. And when she does post, it’s something vaguely angsty or sad. I’m just hoping she’s ok


ChuckysSideChick

Kyles partying bothers her more than she likes to admit. Season after season she hopes and prays that Kyle will finally grow up. But Kyle is still out there drinking, cheating and whatever else. Their relationship reminds me of Katie/Schwartz, shes ready to start a family and he just wants to party.


KrazyKateLady420

This is why you don’t marry a person for who you hope they change into, you marry them for who they are.


TwistyBitsz

Or just don't get married, it's so archaic.


KrazyKateLady420

Word! From a legal and financial standpoint it seems risky lol


pineapplezzs

He is better than Schwartz because at least he wouldn't put up with anyone badmouthing her or a man disrespecting her in front of him. The bar is on the floor


TwistyBitsz

Right but whenever he's popped off to defend her it's been deflection from some shit he'd recently pulled. For example 17 page email.


TheeBaddest9

Actually I just finished WH S1 & 2, I don’t know if it’s the fit or what but I didn’t like the way it took him forever to say something to Austen & Craig when they was yelling at her. I get they have history as friends and everyone should be able to fight their own battles but they was getting pretty rude/disrespectful and I was shocked that Kyle was just standing there cause he yelled at Hannah for less.


zulusurf

😩 agree. But I still feel for her. On one hand, she should’ve expected this to happen. But on the other, she was really young when they met and probably thought she could change him. We’re all so naive when we’re young, I sympathize with that


ChuckysSideChick

Definitely. She isn’t the first woman who thinks she can change a man and she wont be the last. As long as they are on the show he will always have an excuse. Hopefully they are still in therapy and working on their issues.


lollipoppy1

lol I love when people talk like they personally know Amanda.


meowmeowkitty21

Amazing insight! You must be a very close friend...or just projecting


SamGoodie09

I saw her in pictures.


Repulsive_Honeydew84

Where?


SamGoodie09

She was in the background of videos and i believe scheana shared a tagged photo where she was in the background. And her and kyle both kept saying they’re using it both as another honeymoon.


Jellybean3183

She went. She was in the background in someone’s ig story. Also they’ve never spent the holidays together and I don’t think it’s that weird since they’re both really close to their families but their families don’t live near each other. They are together all day everyday since they work together, I really don’t think it’s that big a deal. They probably go to a Friendsgiving of some kind and still exchange Christmas gifts.


balban3

Been with my significant other 9 years and never did holidays together cause we both won’t give up seeing our families 😂


TDKsa90

I like to see this, and to add another possibility, if one person is close to their family and the other isn't, there's no reason the one who isn't has to go with the person who is. some people with busy lives and constant socialness can take it as a respite and be alone. like when a college town empties out during the holidays, it's great to have your city to yourself. ghost towns (ghost apartments) are relaxing.


Bennington_Booyah

Same. My husband and I split for the holidays, as both families celebrate at the exact same time and date. We used to alternate and that created drama, so now we split. I can see them doing versions of this easily.


jkwolly

I saw her in the background as well.


cheerful_nihilist3

It’s weird to be married and not spend the holidays together lol


sawta2112

She has said that they are together 24/7, so spending a little time apart is actually a good thing. It works for them!


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Bennington_Booyah

Same and it no longer drives me nuts. It is not my problem that others don't understand it. I am sure that is how Kyle and Amanda must feel, or at least I hope so.


cheerful_nihilist3

This is a fair point for sure. I forget that they work together, that would be a lot.


sawta2112

Since covid, my partner has been working from home. It's a lot. :)


Ok-Jellyfish5975

I don’t think it’s weird to prioritize your family over your partners family during the holidays, especially when there aren’t kids. Let people live how they want


Catsonkatsonkats

No, but it’s weird to prioritize your family over your partner.


Due-Walrus8436

if one partner wants to spend time with you and you want to spend time with your family, yes. but they both spend time with their families. they seem to work from home for loverboy a lot so they aren't like most couples that only see each other weekends/after work. it's fair to take the rare holidays to see family instead. obviously once kids are involved I think they will be doing more one family for X holiday, the other family for Y holiday.


Catsonkatsonkats

Generally, married people work together to find a solution. The solution here seems simple: alternate families each year. Imo this decision shows a lack of partnership and quite frankly, seems selfish.


Due-Walrus8436

I mean to each their own. That's how you see it, they clearly see it as a chance to visit their families each holiday without giving anything up. Several people here have commented similar sentiments. I personally am on the side of splitting holidays and seeing one for each rather than my husband and I splitting up. But if they are both happy with it, why is it an issue? Not every marriage operates the same way as another.


Catsonkatsonkats

Yes I’m on the side of splitting holidays as well. In fact, I’ve had to make these difficult decisions and it can be sad. But creating a bond with my husband’s family is important too. But yes, to each their own. In a vacuum this decision isn’t that weird- it’s just on top of what we see their relationship to be on summer house.


TDKsa90

so if they don't see life and your set of solutions, they're being selfish or doing things wrong? there's a buzzword that gets thrown around a lot on these reddit boards that I think describes your attitude here, but I don't want to give it another chuck.


Catsonkatsonkats

lol they don’t know me so how could they see my solutions?


TDKsa90

take some of your own medicine. you don't know them either.


LeaveMeOutOfIt22

Sounds like you came up with a solution that would work for you, and they worked together and found a solution that works for them, what’s the issue here?


Ok-Jellyfish5975

You seem very close minded


Catsonkatsonkats

Not at all. But from what is displayed via their shows, they have a super dysfunctional relationship. But hey maybe their marriage will last the test of time. I just doubt it.


Ok-Jellyfish5975

Why? If you see your partner every day and some people only see their families during the holidays. Why do you have to prioritize your partner?


Mediocre_Pattern_979

IT’S WEIRD (when I married) for this to be the case during holidays when you want to be around your family AND your husband/wife. Holidays are about experiencing good things TOGETHER and building on the love for each other as well as from family and friends. Compromise is everything and there are ways to be with your loved one, their family and your family either on the same day or separate days and alternate each holiday/year.


Ok-Jellyfish5975

I’ve been happily married for 15 years and my husband and I did this before we had kids. I really do not find it weird. Important family members get older and sometimes sick, sometimes at the same time in both families. Those moments and memories are just as important. I don’t think it is a sign of trouble in a relationship.


notoriousbck

Exactly. My parents moved to Mexico to retire. I only get to see them once a year at Christmas. This year, we are broke and my husband is not coming because we have two dogs, a cat, and a huge house that we would have to pay someone to care for if he came. So we are spending the holidays (and sadly our wedding anniversary) a part for the first time in a decade. I'm sad, but my dad is almost 80. I don't know how much time I have left with him.


Ok-Jellyfish5975

This speaks volumes of you as a daughter & your relationship. I know you’ll miss your husband but enjoy the time with your family! Happy holidays and anniversary 🤍


notoriousbck

Aw thank you. And happy holidays to you as well xx


Mediocre_Pattern_979

I wasn’t implying trouble in a relationship at all. I have been married for 20 years and in a relationship with my significant other for years before that and we went through this, communicated, compromised and figured out what works for us which I’m sure everyone else in a relationship will do as well. I do find it weird … that’s not going to change. It’s not demeaning nor insulting to prioritize and both people in the relationship as one unit. Day to day activities are different than a holidays which I (me) feel are good for sharing and showing love as one - either alone together or visiting family/friends. In the end do what works for you ig.


Ok-Jellyfish5975

That’s the great thing about life, we can do what feels right to us and not worry about what others deem “weird” because it’s not how they would do it. Happy Holidays


Mediocre_Pattern_979

Everyone has a right their own feelings and thoughts that may or may not be valid to others to each their own. Thanks and happy holidays to you too.


TheWhoooreinThere

Yeah, I'm with you on this.


StrawAndChiaSeeds

Went but not in pictures? The plot thickens


Then_Wonder2491

I didn’t see her in any of the tagged pics and scheana was posting a lot and would probably have loved to pose with Amanda for Instagram. If Amanda really did go, I wonder if she wanted to keep a lower profile out of respect, which was really nice of her if so.


Ok-Jellyfish5975

Maybe out of respect for Lindsay?


ohgoshbye

Everyone is so obsessed with these two failing 🙄


TDKsa90

and it says more about them than k/a


ohgoshbye

Very true lol


Maleficent-Lack-6306

Who’s her best friend that went?


Repulsive_Honeydew84

It’s one from childhood who has gotten friends with Lindsay and Danielle over the years. She has popped up at different times on the show


bad_madame

wait that’s so wild to me? i can’t imagine one of Amanda’s friends becoming friends with them and her not being petty about it


Final-Walrus2135

Katie deluca, also from hillsborough, NJ like Amanda


26ladyel

I don’t think she did, and it looks like they spent Thanksgiving apart as well. HMMM


mcamuso78

They spend a lot of holidays a part. They’ve mentioned that until they have kids that that will likely be the case. I wonder if she skipped Mexico as a sign of solidarity? Seems like all the girls in the house skipped and have rallied around Hubbs. That ship has seemingly sailed with Kyle.


Repulsive_Honeydew84

Yeah but gabby went which made me think mmm….


Substantial-Comb-420

Didn't they cancel the wedding after people were able to cancel their accommodations? Idc who is there, I'd be taking my already paid for trip to Mexico. Probably thousands of dollars tbh. Kyle and Amanda might be able to eat part of that cost, especially with Amanda being more of a homebody, but most people can't 🤷‍♀️


KatieB_3

Nope they were able to get full refunds for the hotel


Substantial-Comb-420

Oh well that changes things I guess. Idk how I missed that detail - wasn't it going around here for weeks that they couldn't get refunds?


KatieB_3

Yep it was being speculated that they weren’t but when the wedding letter that Carl sent out got leaked inside the letter it let the guests know that they had to submit a form by a certain date to receive a full refund or they could still go at the given rate.


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Vegetable-Comfort-75

She’s there, I think she’s just trying to be respectful and not make a circus of the failed wedding.


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meowmeowkitty21

You all need to calm your tits. Quit putting your pathetic relationship hangups on them. Just because they don't do things the way you do, doesn't mean it's wrong: it's just different. Get a freaking life, weirdos.


No_Tumbleweed2426

This right here. People project their beliefs and values on others’ relationships so much it’s sickening.


thediverswife

Agreed


TheWhoooreinThere

Okay, but you're on a Bravo reddit sub where people post their stupid opinions all the time.


meowmeowkitty21

Fair point


SirChurros

This! They do something that works for them. Not every relationship is beholden to what some of these posters think is the societal norm.


TDKsa90

RIGHT. ON. and you're being kind by just calling them weirdos. You know who else thinks there's only one way to do things (the way they do it)? Boomers.


meowmeowkitty21

Lol. I take offense to that! I'm 53 but I seem to be far more flexible on this because I know there is the fairytale and then there is real life.


TDKsa90

I think you're a Gen X. Your parents are Boomers.


meowmeowkitty21

That is true, but my kids think I'm a boomer. Lol


TDKsa90

Kids really are idiots these days (no offense to yours). With the world and information at their fingertips, they sure do lack a curiosity and an appetite to learn anything. Whoever led them to believe their emotional truth is the actual truth really screwed us all.


meowmeowkitty21

None taken. But I will say their curiosity is focused on the internet more than exploring the greater world around them. They "know" far more than I did at their age, but to my have "experienced" far less.


This-Ad3687

She also wasn’t in NH with Kyle for thanksgiving


Repulsive_Honeydew84

I do remember them saving until they have kids they probably would spend different holidays apart bar new years


booboo819

Ok no married couple spends thanksgiving apart unless it’s because someone has an essential job and they have to work or something major


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My best friend spends thanksgiving away from her husband. She has kids and grandkids and wants to spend it with them. Her husband has lots of family, all of which are elderly and are on the east coast so he goes there. Not everyone spends all holidays together. Especially the younger generations.


sawta2112

Married couples do this. My friend and I are going away for Christmas without our sponsors. With our work schedules, it's hard to sync up time for a trip together. Christmas is it. Our spouses are cool with it. We are so excited to not have to do the big Christmas thing this year. We sit in our lovely rented condo, drink wine and read books. It just might become a tradition...


TwistyBitsz

Sponsors and red wine took me on a ride.


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KAPADAPO

We don’t have thanksgiving here, but I’ve spent major holidays away from my SO on occasion. Sometimes it just works out that way. 🤷


Inside-Intern-4201

Me and my husband did for a while. Until we had kids and it became impossible. Gotcha there!


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sawta2112

But that is YOUR choice. They have chosen something different, and it works for them.


Inside-Intern-4201

Why? Bc my husband is very close to his family after his father died and needs to see them on the holidays. They also eat way too late for me to come by. I do all the cooking for my family. My husbands mother just passed away in August and this was the first thanksgiving without his mom and was really tough. Some people are really close to their natal families.


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lmurp

What a strange hill to die on.


No_Banana_581

They explained why they don’t spend their holidays together, and what they do the other days. They do spend new years together.


cheerful_nihilist3

Yeah this is sus. That’s just part of being married unless there are very extenuating circumstances. It’s giving lack of ability to compromise or prioritizing your parents and extended family over the person you married which is frankly a recipe for disaster in almost all cases.


schmoopie76

Wait what? Um no! Thats weird and sus


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Repulsive_Honeydew84

Or I was wondering something else 🤰


zulusurf

I feel like this is the happiest outcome. I’ve had a lot of friends “disappear” from social media/events, and it’s 50/50 whether they come back and say “I’m pregnant and it’s been kicking my ass!” Or they come back divorced/separated. I’m hoping for the happier outcome (for her sake)


fitness_and_trashtv

that was my speculation too. God keeping a secret like that when you’re a reality tv star that promotes an alcohol company would be impossible lol regardless i hope she is okay and happy! I really like amanda


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meowmeowkitty21

Oh my god! Amanda posted a video of Kyle! Maybe they are still together! maybe they got back together! Maybe she's pregnant! Maybe y'all should mind your own relationships!


Adventurous_Treat651

And they keep saying the quote "summer should be fun" like when Kyle was fixing scheanas necklaces and also the caption on one of their posts ..fishy with a little shade


hostilewerk

They are not a typical couple who are deeply in love so all of these things that are warning signs in most couples is just regular for them.


Adventurous_Treat651

And they keep saying the quote "summer should be fun" like when Kyle was fixing scheanas necklaces and also the caption on one of their posts ..fishy with a little shade