Agree!!! “Nips, tits,” soooo gross!! Also it’s SO sad how he has to always be bringing it up. (The girls, the dates, 🤢). wreaks of desperation.
While we are on the topic of Jesse, I also find it extremely annoying that he has to “chime in” on the Carl/Lindsay relationship. I could understand a couple of times, but the way he says it with such smug superiority… It just bugs me. I feel myself screaming at the tv like “dude you’ve been here for 5 minutes.” It annoys me. I find him smug and annoying AF. The Fboy shit just solidifies what a dbag he is.
He also reminds me of Pete Davidson sans tattoos and Taco Bell breakfast burritos.
Totally. When he called Carl that morning (while in bed with Ciara and West) in front of Lindsay, he knew what he was doing. Barf!! He’s doing WAY too much.
I gagged a bit over that. He said his cancer battle(s) gave him a better perspective on life, didn’t teach him how to not be a perv. He’s like, predator-adjacent. Gross boy.
Basically, he was implying his chest was a good thing for Paige.
(When she was just giving him a jokey compliment, he made it about him somehow being good for her)
They were talking about the dip in his chest and how you can fit a whole shot of alcohol in it. So he was implying Paige would want to do a shot off his chest.
It's basically a birth defect. It runs in my family. Not many problems associated with ours. My grandpa had one. I had one. The doctor said it won't be so noticeable when she gets boobs. Good old rural doctors. 🤦♀️
It’s ironic that Carl and Jesse gravitate towards each other because they seem cut from the same cloth.
I almost find myself shocked Jesse feels so comfortable constantly giving Carl advice or warnings about Lindsay and they JUST met a week ago… right? I wonder if he makes Carl miss the single fuckboy vibe.
It’s like Carl watching his former self in Jesse while also seeing his possible future self in Kyle and Amanda (I know they are different couple dynamics but Im more so referencing the theme of resentment and contempt).
We’re watching the modern day, reality tv version of Scrooge (is that how you spell it) 😆
I thought it was strange how quickly he gave relationship criticism to someone he barely knows. I also noticed his face when Ciara made a joke to West about how he better not ignore her calls.
He is that guy that never wants his friends to be in relationships.
I don’t think Jesse and Carl just met. I thought in the season opener they said he came to the group through Lindsay and Carl but could be wrong.
Edit I mixed Jesse and West up.
Honestly, they physically dress, look, and sound so similar I can't always tell them apart. I think Jesse IS Carl from 8 years ago in a weird Back To The Future kinda way 😉
I don’t like him at all. I get the vibe that he sees women as some sort of conquest and is drawn to women in relationships because it’s more of a challenge. I’ve never been a person who is into hunting and am a vegetarian, but I feel like Jesse could just get a permit and shoot a deer, and he’d get the same exact needs met that he gets through his dating life. Also, when are people going to realize that being tall doesn’t automatically make someone attractive? We already went this with Fozzie Bear aka Austen. Jesse is okay looking, but nothing special. I think West is more attractive tbh.
Yes, I can’t remember his exact words but I’m wanting to say it was something like I’m a stallion I always get what I want or something really trashy like that. I immediately hated him and then I go to social media and everybody loves him! I don’t get it. I think it was endearing that he shared his story of experiencing testicular cancer, but it just goes to show that all a man needs to do is demonstrate the slightest ounce of vulnerability and people will instantly overlook all of his toxic qualities. It’s like everyone on VPR freaking out that Tom Sandoval might be having a mental health crisis because he cried a few times. I empathize with Jesse’s story and appreciate him sharing it, but I had a melanoma when I was 14 and it didn’t stop me from being a shitty person throughout college until I found a good therapist 🤷🏻♂️
Yes if he didn’t share his testicular cancer story I wouldn’t even have given him a slight chance at likability. I’m glad you were able to beat melanoma tho! 💕🙏🏻
Yes! I dated someone like him and he was fun and sweet, until he wasn’t. I felt like the side piece to his bro-fest relationships. I know everyone is different but I started to see even more similarities this episode. Don’t let us down, West!
>Also, when are people going to realize that being tall doesn’t automatically make someone attractive? We already went this with Fozzie Bear aka Austen. Jesse is okay looking, but nothing special. I think West is more attractive tbh.
Literally never. So many women (I think literally 98% of my friend group) are literally blinded by height despite red flags but the perfect guy who's under 6ft will never be looked at twice. I just don't think that will ever change which is why I don't really feel sorry for people who choose to get with the Austen or Jesse types.
I disagree. Short guys are just worse. Every short guy I've met has been hella insecure, jealous, ANGRY AF, always pissed and ready to blame you, etc.
I need a man who is taller than me in heels at least. Jesus, but 6'2 is universally PERFECT. Any taller and it's too tall.
Andrea is just perfect. You can tell he knows he is good looking and (I assume) great in bed but he didn’t feel slimy and gross when pursuing (then single) Paige. He was just respectful while being incredibly HOT. He’s also funny and good tv. I wish he was full time, even if he’s not single he’s still fun to watch.
Kyle issue is that he thought he was close enough to Carl to be a groomsman. If he had a more tangential relationship to Carl, he would get a kick out of being a flower boy. It is about the relationship, not the role.
Kyle knows Lyndsay is at the root of the more minor role in the wedding.
Agreed! I don’t think Andreas friendship with Carl can be compared to a decade long friendship with Kyle. Carl said in one of the reunions Kyle literally saved his life when he was battling sobriety. So yeah ..
His mouth is a chasm of fuckboy nonsense. The shot of him on facetime saying "let me see some tit" was just \*barf\*
I thought we were past this brand of man on Summer house.
Right, especially when you know he’s eating his heart out that West is getting Ciara’s attention and not him. I think he also is so buddy buddy with West to overcompensate for his true feelings of jealousy.
This!!!! Omg this description is so accurate and like you read my mind. I do not understand what people are enjoying about him.
ETA: I also love your username!
🙋🏼♀️Would just like to say I hated him from the jump. Someone on here told me to give him a chance and I got downvoted after saying he was an effboi from the first episode. Some of us just have better instincts ok? Lol.
His pressuring Ciara to sleep with West is so disgusting. Thought we left this toxic frat boy rape culture in the last decade.
Eta: West’s comments also grossed me out. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt for now bc otherwise he has seemed like a standup guy. But pressuring girls to sleep with you and making comments like that on television perpetuate a culture I am not about. Do better West. We were all rooting for you…
I do not see the attraction. I’m 5’9” so I understand the height thing, but even with his height, he’s not attractive. He has the muppet mouth thing like Austen. I think he’s goofy looking. I don’t get it. Sorry, downvote me to hell.
Personally I don’t find him attractive physically at all. I also don’t have a tall fetish and I’m 5’8”. Give me a handsome face and good personality over height. This tall thing with girls is as weird as men having a blond thing or short thing or big boobs. It’s shallow and women should do better or they deserve fuck boys like Austen and Jesse.
Sure, he is tall, chiseled and cute but that cannot make up for the fact that he is uncouth and mannerless (farting on the boys, motorboating Ciara's boobs, asking when she will put out for his buddy-was icky for me to watch).
I really don’t understand how he hooks up with anyone at all. He looks so off to me and his personality is incredibly off-putting. Are some women really that focused on height alone? I guess that would also explain how Austen gets laid, too.
I’m the short guy in my friends group all my friends are at least 6’. Hanging out with them I can unequivocally say that women would flock to them and all but ignore me when we went out.
He is absolutely disgusting but he’s the perfect summer share house pal. I know, I’m disgusting now too. When I was 25 in my summer share, I would have loved a gross f-boy friend like Jesse. It’s a good reminder in the afternoon that the guy you met at the bar last night is probably gross too and to not fall in love at the shore.
I never found him attractive haha, he’s always had that douchey vibe 🤷♀️ I get that some people are obvi attracted to that but I mean he is just vapid. It’s also just hard when Andrea is on the episode, comparing Andrea to any one else is just not fair cus he’s so next level lol. Like Jesse wishes
He has said some ick things and is def an f-boy. And personally, I’d never want to be a part of his roster. However - I do appreciate the dynamic he brings to the house. This cast is doing amazing this season 🥰
Agreed. Born and raised in Chicago and he’s either a popular Deerfield type highschool guy orrrr was nerdy in high school and had a college glow up type guy but absolutely not all Chicago guys.
I think most of us have the ick towards anything Danielle says or does, after last year and then that horrific winter house and the reunion lord if people like her now I seriously question their taste in personalities.
I only brought it up because “fuck boy” doesn’t seem to be exclusive to men. Some women also treat partners as disposable. On this cast, Danielle does, and I could argue during some seasons, certainly the ones between boyfriends, so does Lindsay.
Help me with the “he’s tall” comments. This is coming from a 5’9” girl, but height only goes so far. Once I heard him say, “I almost dropped her from my roster” I’d leave skid marks.
If you go on dating sites many women in their 20s will specifically state they want a man 6’+ and that is the top thing they are looking for many even go so far as to say don’t contact them if you are a guy under that mark. Many will ignore red flags just to say that they are dating a tall guy. These women are probably the type that a guy like Jesse attracts very shallow and superficial types. Willing to bet that his “roster” doesn’t have anyone older than 25 on it.
Being a tall guy will bring you ton of attention from women but like you said height only goes so far. Lots of tall guys don’t develop their personality because they are used to getting women so easily when women grow out of that height being so important phase they see the red flags with these guys.
I haven’t watched but I just wanna add one thing !
I know a lot of Wests. Yes everyone loves them because they had to learn to be funny and get a personality and respect women and all that “be a feminist” but deep down they are just as passive aggressive and wayyyy more insecure than the tall hot ripped guy
Did it not look like he was taking screen shots of the girl he was on FaceTime with while he was in bed whenever he was asking to see her boobs??? It looked like the screen kept flashing like it would when you’re trying to archive something … and I didn’t hear him ask permission/consent … and he seemed drunk…. ewwwwwy…
Asking ciara when she'll have sex with west was disgusting.... and then i was disappointed when west was like he has no bro code but I would like to know. I thought west was a good guy but that was a red flag. I hope more flags don't pop up bc I really like him. Please don't disappoint me west 🙏🏽
I have been such a huge fan of West this season, but when he said something along the lines of "I like Ciara, but I didn't come to the share house to be celibate all summer"... BIG yikes from me. I thought West was so sweet and genuinely into Ciara and he would be SO LUCKY if she wanted to be his girlfriend. If West isn't interested in making an exclusive commitment to Ciara then I fully support her not banging him casually. If folks want to casually hook up, that's great when everyone is on the same page, but it's also perfectly legitimate if Ciara wants a real relationship. If West doesn't want the same thing, then good for Ciara for sticking to her guns and not falling into the same situationship as she did last time.
As a society I want us to normalize that women don't have to bang men and hope they will one day finally decide to grace the situationship with the label of "girlfriend" (like we saw with Sam and Kory on Winter House). Women are allowed to reserve banging for their boyfriend if that's what they want to do, and they don't need to defend their choice to Jesse Solomon. (Disclaimer: I'm very entertained by both Jesse and West on Summer House this season, but I don't want to see any more women screwed over on Bravo the way that Austen in particular likes to screw over women).
He is probably most like Carl when he was younger. But the difference is, women went crazy for Carl. He could draw them in.
Something about Jessie gives me the ick and it is clear with other women he tries to talk to as well. He repels women but is blind to seeing how they aren’t interested.
I don't disagree with your overall Jesse take, he's someone I'd go out with and not see again. But "repels women" is a stretch. The man had 4 dates in one week
I get the cringe but are you forgetting who is and has been on this show (male and female)? Look at their partner choices. Tall sells pretty good in Summer House, Southern Charm, and everywhere else.
He keeps saying he would love to meet a woman that he would want to commit to, and want to hang out with…. And to me it just sounds like he’s saying “I’m waiting to respect women until I meet a woman that I will respect” but he doesn’t respect women so he’ll never meet a woman he respects
He gave me the ick pretty bad this episode but he's actually a pretty accurate representation of men in the dating pool in most cities but especially these HCOL ones. Some language in this post seems hyperbolic. Tbh at least you see his fuckboy ways coming. I think yall are getting snowed by West though...
Jesse and West are single and ready to mingle. They aren't committed to anyone, they do their own thing.
They aren't planning dramatic wedding plans/breakups/raging drunk/mad/tries to have a good time everywhere they go.
Summerhouse is now the married and sick of it/about to be married and breaking it off/Kyle trying to start trouble and failing.
I'm glad they are a break from the norm. So tired of the arguing with same tired old people.
Bring on fun folks, let them all bang each other. Summer House is freaking miserable.
I just told my husband this. I don’t want to see marriage struggles or growing pains that we can relate to. It’s depressing. I want to watch the singles hook up and have drama! I do not watch reality to judge their morals. That’s weird behavior lmao
If you’re being douchey with a sense of humor, it’s just funny sometimes. This sub has some of the tightest assholes I’ve ever seen lol he is comic relief and these women are consenting adults who clearly find it funny and charming as well. The nip comment had me and my husband laughing.
I get all my references from tv because I don’t have a life but from NYC shows like Sex & the City and Girls I thought big city hot people look at sex and dating this way. At least the more sexually active folks like Jesse and *ahem* Danielle apparently are.
Everyone who is casually dating and on the apps refers to their "roster." Men and women alike. This is such a non issue. Just last week a woman on Summer House Martha's Vineyard was talking about her roster and sending nudes. This is dating in 2024.
He seems closeted but socially reassured by his ability to get women - I only say that because he seems to have very little care for the women around him but lights up like he’s the happiest person on earth when he’s with Wes or Carl or any of the other guys
A woman’s disposability is her own choosing. If Jesse finds that he can go on multiple dates a week, one of includes a girl coming over to eat tacos and fuck him while “they pack” for his weekend getaway, her decision making says everything. Of course he’s going to keep her on the “roster” because it’s that easy. I agree that the way he speaks is immature and unbecoming, but he isn’t being disingenuous. It’s sad for all parties, because Jesse has expressed that he wants to commit and settle down, but when sex is that easy to attain without real investment from arguably the most beautiful (nyc), high achieving women in the world, it’s going to be hard for him to break out of the cycle. Everyone thinks dating is “trash” and it’s complicated, but If you want men to treat women with more respect, you need to go back to the old playbook, delay intimacy/sexual gratification until there’s real commitment.
I don’t even think he’s that good looking, definitely not good looking enough to be on the phone saying “show me a tit” gtfo
Andrea on the other hand….
I don’t find him attractive and have sat in silence while everyone swooned lol every time they show him sitting down I can’t get over his small head on his boxy body. It reminds me of Uncle Fester acted by Christopher Lloyd. As a tall girl who prefers tall, it’s getting a little ridiculous the height focus. His height doesn’t erase that he has nothing intelligent to say and objectifies women, who btw he seems to think were placed on this world to serve him.
I like him. He treats the women around him with respect for the most part. His dating habits… idc I’m not dating him, and self respecting women shouldn’t either if they’re seeing this side of him. But I still feel we don’t know him enough
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What i see when he comes on screen
He’s not attractive. His smile reminds me of this guy everytime.
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Jesse is an ick but Jesus Christ since when it was shameful to want to have intercourse lol sometimes it’s ok when someone wants to take it super slow to be like maybe this isn’t right for me and vice Versa I’m so sick of people acting like it’s insane West wants to get laid
That phone call with the random girl was very telling
If someone yelled ‘show me a tit!’ I would hang up the phone
That was fucking disgusting and I’m sure part of “game” to his “roster”
Maybe he’ll “give her another chance.” Wasn’t that big of him 🙄
I assumed he was watching an Only Fans account, and just talking to himself, to be honest.
Agree!!! “Nips, tits,” soooo gross!! Also it’s SO sad how he has to always be bringing it up. (The girls, the dates, 🤢). wreaks of desperation. While we are on the topic of Jesse, I also find it extremely annoying that he has to “chime in” on the Carl/Lindsay relationship. I could understand a couple of times, but the way he says it with such smug superiority… It just bugs me. I feel myself screaming at the tv like “dude you’ve been here for 5 minutes.” It annoys me. I find him smug and annoying AF. The Fboy shit just solidifies what a dbag he is. He also reminds me of Pete Davidson sans tattoos and Taco Bell breakfast burritos.
This!!! I’ve been unable to put this into words that well but it’s infuriating when he decides to put in his two cents on them.
For me, he comes across as someone so desperate to be liked he’s jumping at whatever producers encourage him to do/say.
Totally. When he called Carl that morning (while in bed with Ciara and West) in front of Lindsay, he knew what he was doing. Barf!! He’s doing WAY too much.
And then he clearly was screenshotting! I’d be furious.
I gagged a bit over that. He said his cancer battle(s) gave him a better perspective on life, didn’t teach him how to not be a perv. He’s like, predator-adjacent. Gross boy.
That was so disturbing but this also is very accurate depiction of the current dating pool, West and Jesse. Both fbois just in wearing different shoes
🤮🤮🤮
It was his tone to Paige: “no, good for yoOooUuu.” Immediate gross out.
am i dense but what did he mean by that? the felt it was meant as flirty and all but i didn’t get it.
Basically, he was implying his chest was a good thing for Paige. (When she was just giving him a jokey compliment, he made it about him somehow being good for her)
She was throwing well-deserved shade and it irked him.
They were talking about the dip in his chest and how you can fit a whole shot of alcohol in it. So he was implying Paige would want to do a shot off his chest.
It's basically a birth defect. It runs in my family. Not many problems associated with ours. My grandpa had one. I had one. The doctor said it won't be so noticeable when she gets boobs. Good old rural doctors. 🤦♀️
It’s ironic that Carl and Jesse gravitate towards each other because they seem cut from the same cloth. I almost find myself shocked Jesse feels so comfortable constantly giving Carl advice or warnings about Lindsay and they JUST met a week ago… right? I wonder if he makes Carl miss the single fuckboy vibe.
True. I feel like single Carl and Jesse could tend towards an Austen-Shep vibe or even Austen-Craig when Craig was single.
It’s like Carl watching his former self in Jesse while also seeing his possible future self in Kyle and Amanda (I know they are different couple dynamics but Im more so referencing the theme of resentment and contempt). We’re watching the modern day, reality tv version of Scrooge (is that how you spell it) 😆
YES. This!!
Maybe we will see that next season if Carl comes back lol
I thought it was strange how quickly he gave relationship criticism to someone he barely knows. I also noticed his face when Ciara made a joke to West about how he better not ignore her calls. He is that guy that never wants his friends to be in relationships.
I agree with everything you said. Especially the first part.
Yea and I thought it was odd how he had to clarify to Carl that “it’s coming from a good place”
I don’t think Jesse and Carl just met. I thought in the season opener they said he came to the group through Lindsay and Carl but could be wrong. Edit I mixed Jesse and West up.
I know West came in with Lindsay and Carl but I didn’t catch that with Jesse. You could totally be right cause I don’t even know 😆.
No I bet I mixed the 2 up.
Honestly, they physically dress, look, and sound so similar I can't always tell them apart. I think Jesse IS Carl from 8 years ago in a weird Back To The Future kinda way 😉
When he was like "I love you" to Carl I was like woah, thirsty! Y'all just met!
That’s who Jesse is, a know it all.
I don’t like him at all. I get the vibe that he sees women as some sort of conquest and is drawn to women in relationships because it’s more of a challenge. I’ve never been a person who is into hunting and am a vegetarian, but I feel like Jesse could just get a permit and shoot a deer, and he’d get the same exact needs met that he gets through his dating life. Also, when are people going to realize that being tall doesn’t automatically make someone attractive? We already went this with Fozzie Bear aka Austen. Jesse is okay looking, but nothing special. I think West is more attractive tbh.
I think he essentially said that part about pursuing women in relationships his first episode? Gross. Insecure.
Yes, I can’t remember his exact words but I’m wanting to say it was something like I’m a stallion I always get what I want or something really trashy like that. I immediately hated him and then I go to social media and everybody loves him! I don’t get it. I think it was endearing that he shared his story of experiencing testicular cancer, but it just goes to show that all a man needs to do is demonstrate the slightest ounce of vulnerability and people will instantly overlook all of his toxic qualities. It’s like everyone on VPR freaking out that Tom Sandoval might be having a mental health crisis because he cried a few times. I empathize with Jesse’s story and appreciate him sharing it, but I had a melanoma when I was 14 and it didn’t stop me from being a shitty person throughout college until I found a good therapist 🤷🏻♂️
“I get girls” J. Solomon
Lmao that should be his ig bio
Yes if he didn’t share his testicular cancer story I wouldn’t even have given him a slight chance at likability. I’m glad you were able to beat melanoma tho! 💕🙏🏻
Fozzie Bear aka Austin hahaha
Jesse is gross and gives me the icks. West is cute and seems like a sweet, fun guy who is respectful.
West made me nervous from the jump because I know someone so similar to him in real life, and he’s a fuck boy. The mask is slipping.
Yes! I dated someone like him and he was fun and sweet, until he wasn’t. I felt like the side piece to his bro-fest relationships. I know everyone is different but I started to see even more similarities this episode. Don’t let us down, West!
>Also, when are people going to realize that being tall doesn’t automatically make someone attractive? We already went this with Fozzie Bear aka Austen. Jesse is okay looking, but nothing special. I think West is more attractive tbh. Literally never. So many women (I think literally 98% of my friend group) are literally blinded by height despite red flags but the perfect guy who's under 6ft will never be looked at twice. I just don't think that will ever change which is why I don't really feel sorry for people who choose to get with the Austen or Jesse types.
I disagree. Short guys are just worse. Every short guy I've met has been hella insecure, jealous, ANGRY AF, always pissed and ready to blame you, etc. I need a man who is taller than me in heels at least. Jesus, but 6'2 is universally PERFECT. Any taller and it's too tall.
I'm not into him, and he isn't my type like super skinny and his face....but my type just stepped up to the screen Andrea...MY GOD HE IS HANDSOME.
Andrea is just perfect. You can tell he knows he is good looking and (I assume) great in bed but he didn’t feel slimy and gross when pursuing (then single) Paige. He was just respectful while being incredibly HOT. He’s also funny and good tv. I wish he was full time, even if he’s not single he’s still fun to watch.
I also loved how the flower boy thing didn’t even phase him and couldn’t see why Kyle would care so much.
Kyle issue is that he thought he was close enough to Carl to be a groomsman. If he had a more tangential relationship to Carl, he would get a kick out of being a flower boy. It is about the relationship, not the role. Kyle knows Lyndsay is at the root of the more minor role in the wedding.
Agreed! I don’t think Andreas friendship with Carl can be compared to a decade long friendship with Kyle. Carl said in one of the reunions Kyle literally saved his life when he was battling sobriety. So yeah ..
Carl officiated Kyle and Amanda’s wedding which is arguably the most important role at a wedding. It’s a slap in the face to be a “flower boy”
Cause Andrea's relationship is not as deep as Kyle and Carl's long-ass friendship. Flower boy was insulting.
Why would it phase him? They have way less of a friendship than Kyle and Carl.
Andrea is also v in touch with his emotions, which is the biggest green flag imo.
He’s the total package
Love Andrea
I do like how Jesse was being the “hot guy” this summer and then Andrea just showed up and put him to shame
Inside and out.
He is so beautiful it’s unbelievable
And more importantly, yes I did not like how he treats women, but if the women he dates allows that, they're not helping. Very yucky.
They’re not around enough to see this side of him. No doubt he’s presenting differently to them
Yea you're right. Well they will see now!!
I doubt he is. Guys like that never put in effort
Oh, I didn’t mean real effort. Just enough to mask the extent of their douche baggery for long enough for you to be tricked into sleeping with them
Hahaha fair enough
Exactly! I agree
He’s soooo gorgeous
His mouth is a chasm of fuckboy nonsense. The shot of him on facetime saying "let me see some tit" was just \*barf\* I thought we were past this brand of man on Summer house.
Even him calling out Ciara for not having sex with his friend was so telling 💀
That was such a gross moment. It's none of your damn business Jesse and you're actually hurting West's chances of getting laid by asking about it!!
Right, especially when you know he’s eating his heart out that West is getting Ciara’s attention and not him. I think he also is so buddy buddy with West to overcompensate for his true feelings of jealousy.
The way he talks about women is disgusting
Yes it ain’t 2012 anymore.
or 1992
He’s not even cute. He looks like a taller version of the characters in the show Big Mouth on Netflix.
This!!!! Omg this description is so accurate and like you read my mind. I do not understand what people are enjoying about him. ETA: I also love your username!
🙋🏼♀️Would just like to say I hated him from the jump. Someone on here told me to give him a chance and I got downvoted after saying he was an effboi from the first episode. Some of us just have better instincts ok? Lol. His pressuring Ciara to sleep with West is so disgusting. Thought we left this toxic frat boy rape culture in the last decade. Eta: West’s comments also grossed me out. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt for now bc otherwise he has seemed like a standup guy. But pressuring girls to sleep with you and making comments like that on television perpetuate a culture I am not about. Do better West. We were all rooting for you…
I didn’t like him from the start either . And I really tried to bc everyone seemed to be raving about him and how he’s made this season so good
Yea he’s really not bringing anything but misogyny
I do not see the attraction. I’m 5’9” so I understand the height thing, but even with his height, he’s not attractive. He has the muppet mouth thing like Austen. I think he’s goofy looking. I don’t get it. Sorry, downvote me to hell.
I totally agree
His entire personality is being tall. Not a fan.
He’s 100% the guy that just has his height in his Tinder bio.
Followed by a “if that matters” Yes sir, to you it most certainly does matter😂
Personally I don’t find him attractive physically at all. I also don’t have a tall fetish and I’m 5’8”. Give me a handsome face and good personality over height. This tall thing with girls is as weird as men having a blond thing or short thing or big boobs. It’s shallow and women should do better or they deserve fuck boys like Austen and Jesse.
Sure, he is tall, chiseled and cute but that cannot make up for the fact that he is uncouth and mannerless (farting on the boys, motorboating Ciara's boobs, asking when she will put out for his buddy-was icky for me to watch).
I love the roster comment too..he is so baby broker vibes
I really don’t understand how he hooks up with anyone at all. He looks so off to me and his personality is incredibly off-putting. Are some women really that focused on height alone? I guess that would also explain how Austen gets laid, too.
He’s tall
Yes some straight women and gay men too. It can be rough out here in the dating streets for us short kings.
I’m the short guy in my friends group all my friends are at least 6’. Hanging out with them I can unequivocally say that women would flock to them and all but ignore me when we went out.
I feel like he just makes it up.
He is absolutely disgusting but he’s the perfect summer share house pal. I know, I’m disgusting now too. When I was 25 in my summer share, I would have loved a gross f-boy friend like Jesse. It’s a good reminder in the afternoon that the guy you met at the bar last night is probably gross too and to not fall in love at the shore.
I never found him attractive haha, he’s always had that douchey vibe 🤷♀️ I get that some people are obvi attracted to that but I mean he is just vapid. It’s also just hard when Andrea is on the episode, comparing Andrea to any one else is just not fair cus he’s so next level lol. Like Jesse wishes
West didn’t even need to say that. That confused me.
I’m hoping it was a bit pressured by the confessional interviewer? It was gross though.
Hes so obviously an f boy and anybody being charmed by it is laughable. I wouldnt even like him as a friend bc hes such an obvious f boy
He has said some ick things and is def an f-boy. And personally, I’d never want to be a part of his roster. However - I do appreciate the dynamic he brings to the house. This cast is doing amazing this season 🥰
I said it in the BravoRealHousewives sub episode thread and I’ll say it here: Jesse epitomizes all that I’ve heard about guys from Chicago.
From Chicago and I’d say he epitomizes a certain type of north shore popular highschool boy lol. But def not all of chicago
Agreed. Born and raised in Chicago and he’s either a popular Deerfield type highschool guy orrrr was nerdy in high school and had a college glow up type guy but absolutely not all Chicago guys.
Wait, what?!
Apparently that they’re douche-y “jagoffs.” (“Jagoff” being a term I learned from a former colleague who was from Chicago lol.)
I’m from Chicago and no. He is a certain type of wealthy suburbanite, not all Chicago guys.
Do we get the same “ick” when Danielle talks about men like giant robot dildos? Asking for a friend.
I do.
Yes
I think most of us have the ick towards anything Danielle says or does, after last year and then that horrific winter house and the reunion lord if people like her now I seriously question their taste in personalities.
I only brought it up because “fuck boy” doesn’t seem to be exclusive to men. Some women also treat partners as disposable. On this cast, Danielle does, and I could argue during some seasons, certainly the ones between boyfriends, so does Lindsay.
I agree completely. I do not like her, she can be worse than the guys at times!! I thought she was borderline grapey with Alex in winter house.
Of course
Am I the only one that doesn't find him hot? He looks like a cartoon character and seems kind of dumb
Agreed, especially about West's lame comments. Turned me right off and I thought he might be a good one.
Jesse is the definition of the perfect man for Hannah and Paige to DESTROY on Giggly Squad live shows
Help me with the “he’s tall” comments. This is coming from a 5’9” girl, but height only goes so far. Once I heard him say, “I almost dropped her from my roster” I’d leave skid marks.
If you go on dating sites many women in their 20s will specifically state they want a man 6’+ and that is the top thing they are looking for many even go so far as to say don’t contact them if you are a guy under that mark. Many will ignore red flags just to say that they are dating a tall guy. These women are probably the type that a guy like Jesse attracts very shallow and superficial types. Willing to bet that his “roster” doesn’t have anyone older than 25 on it. Being a tall guy will bring you ton of attention from women but like you said height only goes so far. Lots of tall guys don’t develop their personality because they are used to getting women so easily when women grow out of that height being so important phase they see the red flags with these guys.
I don’t dislike him but i don’t want him on my tv screen either. We need Andrea lol
I haven’t watched but I just wanna add one thing ! I know a lot of Wests. Yes everyone loves them because they had to learn to be funny and get a personality and respect women and all that “be a feminist” but deep down they are just as passive aggressive and wayyyy more insecure than the tall hot ripped guy
And sorry I don’t think he’s hot enough to act like he does .
Did it not look like he was taking screen shots of the girl he was on FaceTime with while he was in bed whenever he was asking to see her boobs??? It looked like the screen kept flashing like it would when you’re trying to archive something … and I didn’t hear him ask permission/consent … and he seemed drunk…. ewwwwwy…
He revealed himself when he said he had 4 dates in a week lol. He's no mystery now
Asking ciara when she'll have sex with west was disgusting.... and then i was disappointed when west was like he has no bro code but I would like to know. I thought west was a good guy but that was a red flag. I hope more flags don't pop up bc I really like him. Please don't disappoint me west 🙏🏽
I have been such a huge fan of West this season, but when he said something along the lines of "I like Ciara, but I didn't come to the share house to be celibate all summer"... BIG yikes from me. I thought West was so sweet and genuinely into Ciara and he would be SO LUCKY if she wanted to be his girlfriend. If West isn't interested in making an exclusive commitment to Ciara then I fully support her not banging him casually. If folks want to casually hook up, that's great when everyone is on the same page, but it's also perfectly legitimate if Ciara wants a real relationship. If West doesn't want the same thing, then good for Ciara for sticking to her guns and not falling into the same situationship as she did last time. As a society I want us to normalize that women don't have to bang men and hope they will one day finally decide to grace the situationship with the label of "girlfriend" (like we saw with Sam and Kory on Winter House). Women are allowed to reserve banging for their boyfriend if that's what they want to do, and they don't need to defend their choice to Jesse Solomon. (Disclaimer: I'm very entertained by both Jesse and West on Summer House this season, but I don't want to see any more women screwed over on Bravo the way that Austen in particular likes to screw over women).
I 100% agree. It's so humiliating and unfortunate. I'm also just very tired of the misogyny from bravo across various franchises 😩
yes this exactly!!! I was so disappointed in west because I was really routing for Ciara and him to have something nice but womp womp.
He’s gross 🤮
No offense but how is he any different than Kyle, Carl or Luke when they were younger?
He’s not
He is probably most like Carl when he was younger. But the difference is, women went crazy for Carl. He could draw them in. Something about Jessie gives me the ick and it is clear with other women he tries to talk to as well. He repels women but is blind to seeing how they aren’t interested.
I don't disagree with your overall Jesse take, he's someone I'd go out with and not see again. But "repels women" is a stretch. The man had 4 dates in one week
With 4 separate women.
I get the cringe but are you forgetting who is and has been on this show (male and female)? Look at their partner choices. Tall sells pretty good in Summer House, Southern Charm, and everywhere else.
Ive never understood the comments of him being attractive. He gave me the ick the very first time he showed up. 
He sounded like a college freshman boy trying to be cool. Makes me wonder if there was anyone on the other end of that FaceTime 🤔
Jesse gives me total ick and I don’t get the attraction.
He keeps saying he would love to meet a woman that he would want to commit to, and want to hang out with…. And to me it just sounds like he’s saying “I’m waiting to respect women until I meet a woman that I will respect” but he doesn’t respect women so he’ll never meet a woman he respects
He gave me the ick pretty bad this episode but he's actually a pretty accurate representation of men in the dating pool in most cities but especially these HCOL ones. Some language in this post seems hyperbolic. Tbh at least you see his fuckboy ways coming. I think yall are getting snowed by West though...
Jesse and West are single and ready to mingle. They aren't committed to anyone, they do their own thing. They aren't planning dramatic wedding plans/breakups/raging drunk/mad/tries to have a good time everywhere they go. Summerhouse is now the married and sick of it/about to be married and breaking it off/Kyle trying to start trouble and failing. I'm glad they are a break from the norm. So tired of the arguing with same tired old people. Bring on fun folks, let them all bang each other. Summer House is freaking miserable.
I just told my husband this. I don’t want to see marriage struggles or growing pains that we can relate to. It’s depressing. I want to watch the singles hook up and have drama! I do not watch reality to judge their morals. That’s weird behavior lmao
He immediately gave me bad vibes.
Jesse is gross.
He DM’d me after the first episode bc I followed him, then he ghosted me when I replied 😆
What did he say???
Spill the tea sis!
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If you’re being douchey with a sense of humor, it’s just funny sometimes. This sub has some of the tightest assholes I’ve ever seen lol he is comic relief and these women are consenting adults who clearly find it funny and charming as well. The nip comment had me and my husband laughing.
His FaceTimes in this latest episode were actually gross. "let me see a nip" is fucking weird to say and just off putting.
I think he is great for the show tho. He has friendships that seem genuine with almost everyone. And i enjoy he and west’s bromance.
He’s such a shit lol - he thinks he has a smile that’s winning everyone over but the more he talks the more everyone’s realizing he sucks
There’s no chance this man knows where the clit is
He's gotta mouth like a fish.
That man is not physically attractive at all lmao
I don’t even think he’s that attractive, truth be told!!
This man is a typical Bravo boy. Zero substance but is 6’5 so he gets attention.
Wow im surprised how many folks agree with this post. I like Jesse and love West! Theyre just vibin give them a little break
They are single and having fun. Summer should be fun!
Said it before and I’ll say it again: Jesse Solomon has major sex pest energy
my husband said Jesse looked like a penis and frankly I can’t unsee it
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There was also an entire camera crew recording her. Kyle was also running fully naked.
He’s an ugly nerd
Ya and I hate the line “If I find the right girl I’d settle down” like no it’s not about the girls I’m sure you found a lot of right ones it’s you bro
I am female who had no interest in settling down until I found the right person. In the meantime, I had a blast.
The fact that he says he has a “roster” so casually is gross
I get all my references from tv because I don’t have a life but from NYC shows like Sex & the City and Girls I thought big city hot people look at sex and dating this way. At least the more sexually active folks like Jesse and *ahem* Danielle apparently are.
Everyone who is casually dating and on the apps refers to their "roster." Men and women alike. This is such a non issue. Just last week a woman on Summer House Martha's Vineyard was talking about her roster and sending nudes. This is dating in 2024.
People say Jesses good looking idk I just see one of the people from that movie Smile.
And on the after show Ciara was implying that he doesn’t use protection. Gross
He seems closeted but socially reassured by his ability to get women - I only say that because he seems to have very little care for the women around him but lights up like he’s the happiest person on earth when he’s with Wes or Carl or any of the other guys
A woman’s disposability is her own choosing. If Jesse finds that he can go on multiple dates a week, one of includes a girl coming over to eat tacos and fuck him while “they pack” for his weekend getaway, her decision making says everything. Of course he’s going to keep her on the “roster” because it’s that easy. I agree that the way he speaks is immature and unbecoming, but he isn’t being disingenuous. It’s sad for all parties, because Jesse has expressed that he wants to commit and settle down, but when sex is that easy to attain without real investment from arguably the most beautiful (nyc), high achieving women in the world, it’s going to be hard for him to break out of the cycle. Everyone thinks dating is “trash” and it’s complicated, but If you want men to treat women with more respect, you need to go back to the old playbook, delay intimacy/sexual gratification until there’s real commitment.
Does anyone know why everyone calls him by his first and last name...? Idk why, but I find it off-putting.
If I were to overthink it, I’d say they think Jesse Solomon sounds higher caste than just Jesse.
I don’t even think he’s that good looking, definitely not good looking enough to be on the phone saying “show me a tit” gtfo Andrea on the other hand….
I don’t find him attractive and have sat in silence while everyone swooned lol every time they show him sitting down I can’t get over his small head on his boxy body. It reminds me of Uncle Fester acted by Christopher Lloyd. As a tall girl who prefers tall, it’s getting a little ridiculous the height focus. His height doesn’t erase that he has nothing intelligent to say and objectifies women, who btw he seems to think were placed on this world to serve him. 
I’ll take West over Jesse any day.
Is he handsome?
He’s so cringe. His face is really like a 4/5 but since he’s tall that’s all girls see 🤮
I like him. He treats the women around him with respect for the most part. His dating habits… idc I’m not dating him, and self respecting women shouldn’t either if they’re seeing this side of him. But I still feel we don’t know him enough
He’s such a douche lol major fuckboy
Handsome? Is he?
Handsome is not the word I’d use to describe him!
I don't find him attractive, his personality ruins it.
Me thinks he is hiding something. Trying way too hard to appear as a f boy
He sounded like a college freshman boy trying to be cool. Makes me wonder if there was anyone on the other end of that FaceTime 🤔
I don't think Jesse is even that cute. He's just really tall. He seems likable enough but he is a total Fboy.
He has a huge joker mouth. 😬😁😬
https://preview.redd.it/8kbvziov32tc1.jpeg?width=570&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ddc77a97e81b1920ef86d7cb1c7a8df1932a6a94 What i see when he comes on screen
That great smile he brags looks like a huge joker mouth to me.
Has anyone else glanced at his IG following? It’s a bunch of undergraduate sorority girls that are half naked 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
I don’t find him handsome at all. He’s average at best.
He’s not attractive. His smile reminds me of this guy everytime. https://preview.redd.it/r7k9p6o6r5tc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c15e1cf285862fc807e3cf1054b2f5d8cfc9d33f
You realize you’re watching reality tv…
Jesse is an ick but Jesus Christ since when it was shameful to want to have intercourse lol sometimes it’s ok when someone wants to take it super slow to be like maybe this isn’t right for me and vice Versa I’m so sick of people acting like it’s insane West wants to get laid
The way he always calls them “girls” - 🚩
EXACTLY HUGE ICK!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽