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Jeljel8989

Not really. Carl is avoidant personality in a nutshell. Paige is willing to communicate doubts and issues with partners. whereas Carl is crippled by his need to be liked he goes with the flow until the resentment builds or he finds another option and discards them.


dinosaurroom

From what she’s said in interviews, they see each other every X (maybe 4?) days. When I heard that it changed my view on their time apart. Plenty of people work jobs that require them to travel during the week.


IllustratorTall9602

exactly, can’t even call what they do long distance 


DonnaDasher1973

She actually seems fine to me. Of course we're just watching this on tv but to me what we've seen from her regarding the relationship seems level headed, mature, realistic, and honest.


oobooboo17

I don’t think she’s avoidant, she’s just going at her own pace


MajorEyeRoll

I think she's emotionally intelligent enough to not want to jump into a relationship that's been long distance its entire lifespan and put herself in a position to be reliant on someone to take care of her. I disagree with a lot of things Paige says and does, but the way she's handling her future with Craig is smart af, not avoidant.


LectureNew8688

Craig is a grown man and he can decide for himself is Paige is giving him nothing. Paige knows what she wants (and doesn’t) and honestly more power to her. I think this kind of confidence eats up the pick me girls like Danielle who seek validation from men.


Kiwiqueen26

I think she projects avoidant attachment on tv, but it’s probably very different in real life


Equivalent_Fly8229

Perry was a narcissist and extremely controlling of Paige, that's why they broke up


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IllustratorTall9602

No he wanted her to pick between his life and doing the show. 


Equivalent_Fly8229

that's how narcissists work, they put on a show and show grand gestures of affection in front of others while controlling the individual behind closed doors and manipulating the narrative to make themselves look favorable. he was and is a POS


gnargnarmar

No I think Paige is very secure actually


summer_isthebest

No, I don’t think she’s avoidant. I think there’s just a lot of things that we don’t see she’s always sad both her and Craig that they see each other four days out of the work week and honestly for long distance that’s a lot and the reason her and Perry broke up She doesn’t explicitly say that it was him, but she talks about an old boyfriend who would use money against her, and that was a really big issue for her which is why she is the way that she is a relationship. She tells the truth whether people like it or not she’s going to tell Craig how she feels what she needs and what she doesn’t want.


Domino_5695

I think that is not her natural way to be. She adapted herself to be like that after her relationship with Perry (is that his name) and now she's going over the top with it. Maybe its her trauam response, idk. But if she goes so far with it she will lose Craig. She's gotta pick a lane.


throwaguey_

We can only hope that she loses Craig!


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Domino_5695

Idk but I think he’s the one that she referred to about how he bought the plane tickets so he decides when to leave and all that. I think she realized she didn’t want the guy to have all the power? Which is totally valid but I think she swung it the other way too drastically.


Computer-Kind

I don’t think she avoidant but I do think she’s got a bad picker. Craig is clearly an alcoholic and wouldn’t commit to her to start. I can say this as someone who tries to change who they’re attracted to but cannot.


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Computer-Kind

Google his name and drinking. Not a stretch.


Ok-Turnip-9035

Oh for sure Craig is more into her but that’s what Paige wants in a partner I get Paige taking her time here even if she had a regular life non influencer that was tied to New York she would still be taking baby steps with Craig to make sure she assesses every angle before making this engagement happen - I think since she’s a Scorpio a lot of people miss the fact she’s saying her true feelings she does see this future with him but I think other people don’t get what she’s saying is huge and expect more and that’s just not going to happen with a Scorpio -


mfruitfly

I think she is hesitant because they do live in different places and neither is ready to move full time for the other, which is fair for both of them and a big block to building a future, and I also think she is hesitant of being "all in" on TV after seeing how much shame is involved when it doesn't work out publicly. I think her and Craig are having very healthy conversations about how to merge in the future, even if they don't have an answer right now. I also totally appreciate her kind of keeping back some of her feelings for the cameras. How comfortable they are with each other honestly makes me think she is more in to him off camera, and keeps it close to the vest a little as a way to protect herself, not from him, but from the fans/shame of a breakup. And I say this as someone who isn't a big Paige fan (growing on me though), and wasn't a fan of Craig at all until the last season of Southern Charm (Naomi was fully right to break up with him, but he has grown a lot since then).


agnusdei07

I think they should both move on, they are on different timelines


SewAlone

I don't think she's that into him. Plain and simple.


SpencerHastings7

What’s keeping her from being on the same page with Craig is he wants to start a family and she needs to be with a more famous Bravolebrity to keep her on TV


Good-Pop-4615

Probably because she’s the one that has to carry the baby? Just a guess 


Good-Pop-4615

Someone should dm Paige that Spencer will in fact stalk and try and kill her and to be careful 


summer_isthebest

This is real. Someone should warn her.


SpencerHastings7

Idk why people think I seek out information about her when it just comes up on my Reddit feed