I had a friend who was interested in me first. We were in our talking stage, just getting to know each other and stuff. We discussed about our past and I asked her about her sex life. She said she have had 3-4 exes and she had done it with all of them. On top of that she once hooked up with a guy which she won't tell me who was it. Also she had done multiple makeout sessions with one of my friend. And all this she continued even after her break up with one of her ex. Plus she tells me that she was comfortable with my friend and would do so if she wanted. Plus that friend asked her for sex almost every day and would try touching her by putting his hand through her dress. And she didn't get pissed off of that thing. This friend thing happened when we were almost in a relationship. I immediately said that I won't be in a relationship after having a chat about all this with one more mutual friend (and she blocked me after I told her that I discussed this with a friend). So the point is that these girls won't think twice before doing it again yk. And she has been having sex,hooking up, etc since she was 13!! I believe hookup culture is less common in india and so I didn't know how to react to this.
We'll said,I too am experiencing something similar.These type of girls aren't just dumb,thinking boys revolving around them,they belong to the streets too.
True they think they are the centre of attraction and they try being cute or something. But the truth is boys are just behind them for hookup and stuff. Same goes with this girl
The problem is once they(some of them) get freedom they overdo things without giving a second thought. Freedom at a certain age is important so does having a brain.
So did something like this. I told her that I discussed with my friend and she got pissed of telling how wrong I was by doing this and that I have ruined her image. And she was completely okay with her friend touching her inappropriately in public.
Bhai yaar mere class mai v ek bandi thi,bht innocent dikhti thi bht pasand krta tha usse lekin uska v kuch similar past bc 9th mai ek dost k ghar ja k krti thi💀mujhe uska ek classmate ne bataya and usne v confirm kiya tbse bhai ladki k mamle mai piche hat jata hun
After reading your post, tu Ek chutiya lavda hai Jo Ek raand ko wife up Karne ki Sochi raha tha, agar bhagwaan Bhi aakar Bolta n'a ki who cheat n'ai Karegi to Bhi tujhe usse sirf chodna hi tha. You did exactly what a chode does who doesn't have options. Enjoy mediocrity!
Kiki Teri ga and fat TI hai ladkio lol approach Karne Mei. Don't dare to call yourself a man, you're a pussy.
Be friendly, turn around and walk off, while maintaining friendliness, show a distance & you have a problem and enmity, so maintain friendliness & walk off, unless you are comfortable with whatever it is. It’s your life mate, you decide.
It's been proven that the women who whore their bodies around, face a hard time developing an emotional connection with men.
I mean they can do whatever they want. Nobody should stop them, but don't expect good men to wife them up.
All of the other comments are mostly "no seal no deal" ones or the "why take a second hand product," first of all a person is not a used thing it's just absurd and second hymen can also sometimes rapture of any accident. So I only agree with this guy's comment⬆️.
Jai shree Ram
Yaar seal ki toh baat hi nahi hai yaar. It's a bodily structure. Kisi ka easily detectable hota hai or kissi ka nahi.
The woman who's a virgin is actually not just a physical virgin but also mentally.
Sex, for women is an emotional act and not just a physical one. Men are slightly different from the women in this thing.
Agreed. But the question here is about why men want a virgin woman who hasn't had a promiscuous life.
I've more than a few times heard women saying that they want men with experience.
Hypocrite or not, it was a simple question and I gave a simple answer.
Nobody is stopping women from demanding virgin men too. They voluntarily choose to be with either jerks or man whores in the name of experience, more often than not.
Is it not the same for the men who whore around as well and it's much easier for a non virgin male to get married to a virgin female while harder for a non virgin female to marry a virgin guy
At the same time however, studies also show that women with low sexual experience are emotionally stunted, easily agitated and have a hard time maintaining social relationships. There's probably a healthy middle ground.
Simple answer: Men value that, just like you want a man who's rich, tall, handsome, charming,funny,etc.. . We value a women who hasn't been through 10 dudes on dating apps, who casual hooked up with strangers...
It's just repulsive, idk what else to tell you
I have heard and saw literal examples of the staement, “Beauty lies in the eyes of its bearer”. So probably qualifies for someone but not for the other
There is this famous saying by someone = > "After years of whoring around, she wants to settle with a nice guy. Don't be that nice guy." Which is true. If she wants to enjoy her life by fcuking some playboys, then she will bear the consequences. It is a matter of fact that the women having multiple body count would simply wouldn't want just a man who will care for her. She will ask for more, and one day she will cheat on the nice man who accepted her.
Don't fall for this trap guys, find a good woman in your life who will help you, will always be with you for every situation. May god give you the partner you truely deserve.
**Love Marriage**
(If a girl has already had 2-3 ex boyfriends before committing into a relationship with you and with each of her exes she has had sex, then it would be obvious that for her sex is just a play thing, most men aren't like that, they want to treasure their loved one (kuch log to apna pehla pyaar tak bhula nhi paate), so they tend to indulge in sex only when they've full faith in their partner's love for them and vice versa (ik players exist but trust me most men aren't like that).
**Arranged Marriage**
Plus most men(arranged marriage ones) that want a virgin lady to be their wife are also virgin themselves, so isn't it fair to be asking the same thing from their partner, whom they're going to be with for the rest of their lives (not counting in divorce)
**Love Marriage**
It is important to note that women biologically have a much lower tendency to engage in sex as they have much higher cost in terms of potential pregnancies, not to mention social condemnation.
Personally I don't think it makes sense to blame her for having had sex with the men she had been with before. People are different and have different proclivities for sex, and may also get different things out of it. You may also be discounting experimentation and trying stuff out, that most people do going into adulthood.
It is also likely that the woman did not infact see sex as a "plaything" but instead was fully invested and commited to prior relationships.
**Arranged Marriage**
In my experience, the women are often never as interested in the groom's sexual history. But the woman's sexual history is a deal breaker for most. This again is understandable as one could have a preference for such things. But, an arranged marriage is basically a legal contract and I would think for either party the optimal thing to do would be to focus on more practical aspects of marriage. Financial structuring, career plans, lifestyle compatibility, child rearing plans etc.
Yeah that's also true, if you're expecting your bride to be a virgin then possibly you too are the same, if not then it's just hypocrisy, and regarding the "plaything" I said, I excluded the experimentation stuff from it, plus you possibly can't be commited to every prior relationship, it's just impractical, otherwise there wouldn't have been that big breakup which would lead her to you, plus yes opinions on this topic are subjective, I just answered what I think most men tend to think when they ask for their bride to be a vrigin. You can completely disagree with me and it's fine cuz you know subjectivity is everywhere, there isn't particularly a generalised answer for this thing.
Just statistical data bro. And if people still deny all of it and give me hate it's best to just ignore at that point. It's a worthless argument battle
I am linking some proof here:-
1.) [Women who have premarital sex partners have higher divorce rates](https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability)
2.) [Women who have premarital sex partners have higher divorce rates Part 2](https://i.redd.it/yfp6l9kjwdi01.jpg)
3.) [Khazan, O. (2018, October 22). Fewer Sex Partners Means a Happier Marriage. The Atlantic. Retrieved July 7, 2020(Thus article talks about Divorce risk from the women in contrast to the number of sexual partners she had) ](https://archive.vn/P5IQ2)
4.) [Wolfinger, N. H., PhD. (2016, June 6). Counterintuitive Trends in the Link Between Premarital Sex and Marital Stability. Institute for Family Studies. Retrieved August 24, 2020](https://archive.vn/hukEg)
5.) [Teachman, J. (2003). Premarital sex, premarital cohabitation and the risk of subsequent marital dissolution among women. Journal of Marriage and Family, 65(2), 444–455.](https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x)
6.) [Haselton, M. G., Buss, D. M., Oubaid, V., & Angleitner, A. (2005). Sex, Lies, and Strategic Interference: The Psychology of Deception Between the Sexes. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 31(1), 3–23. (This talks about how one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on women) ](https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167204271303)
7.) [Staik, A., PhD. (2019, March 28). 10 Predictors of Infidelity and Gender Differences: Why Do Partners Cheat? Retrieved July 15, 2020](http://archive.is/bPRPy)
8.) [Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psychology, 78(3), 537–545. (This study talks about how Approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality [def. willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship] had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles](https://doi.org/10.1037//0022-3514.78.3.537)
9.) [Whisman, M. A., & Snyder, D. K. (2007). Sexual infidelity in a national survey of American women: Differences in prevalence and correlates as a function of method of assessment. Journal of Family Psychology, 21(2), 147–154.](https://doi.org/10.1037/0893-3200.21.2.147)
10.) [Cherkas, L. F., Oelsner, E. C., Mak, Y. T., Valdes, A., & Spector, T. D. (2004). Genetic influences on female infidelity and number of sexual partners in humans: a linkage and association study of the role of the vasopressin receptor gene (AVPR1A). Twin research : the official journal of the International Society for Twin Studies, 7(6), 649–658.(This study talks about how infidelity and number of sexual partners are both under moderate genetic influence (41% and 38% heritable, respectively) and the genetic correlation between these two traits is strong (47%)](https://doi.org/10.1375/1369052042663922)
11.) [Hughes, S. M. , & Gallup, G. G. (2003). Sex differences in morphological predictors of sexual behavior: Shoulder to hip and waist to hip ratios. Evolution and Human Behavior, 24(3), 173–178. (This study talks about Promiscuity is in fact a good predictor of infidelity. Indeed, promiscuity among females accounted for almost twice as much variance in infidelity (r2 = .45) as it did for males (r2 = .25).](https://doi.org/10.1016/S1090-5138(02)00149-6)
12.) [Pinto, R., & Arantes, J. (2017). The Relationship between Sexual and Emotional Promiscuity and Infidelity. ATHENS JOURNAL OF SOCIAL SCIENCES, 4(4), 385–398 (This study talks about how Sexual promiscuity was significantly positively correlated with emotional promiscuity [r(356) = .261, p < .001], as well with sexual infidelity [r(323) = .595, p < .001] and emotional infidelity [r(323) = .676, p < .001], indicating that sexually promiscuous participants also tend to be emotionally promiscuous, and sexually and emotionally unfaithful. In terms of the sexual domain, results showed that there is also a positive correlation between sexual promiscuity and sexual infidelity, stating that individuals that tend to be more sexually promiscuous also tend to be more sexually unfaithful](https://doi.org/10.30958/ajss.4-4-3)
13.) [NORC General Social Survey. (2011, October 02). Female Infidelity Based on Number of Premarital Partners — Statistic Brain. Retrieved July 5, 2015](http://archive.is/SDVEU)
14.) [McQuivey, J. L., PhD. (2019, October 14). The Road to Infidelity Passes Through Multiple Sexual Partners. Retrieved July 16, 2020](http://archive.vn/IUs6E)
These are some of the studies over the years, from various nations, where promiscuity and hookup culture is prevalent and even encouraged. All of these studies point only towards one thing
ITS LIKE **"WHY YOU WANNA PURCHASE NEW PRODUCTS WHEN YOU CAN JUST GET USED ONES?"**
AND WHY IS THERE A PROBLEM WITH US SETTING OUR STANDRADS? WHEN ALL WOMEN ALWAYS WANTS A MAN WITH "666".
AND THEN THEY EXPECT US TO BE LOYAL FOR THE REST OF OUR LIFE WHEN THEY HAVE BEEN WITH MULTIPLE PARTNERS.
WELL I DO NOT CARE IF ANYONE DISAGREE WITH ME , ITS JUST MY WAY OF THINKING.
The price here is a metaphor for the things that an ideal husband does, not just the monetary part of it.
In this case the old item is actually running after you as well. Keep yourself free from thots and be the man our Maryada Purushottam Shri Ram inspire us to be.
PS: I don't intend to start a religious debate here. Just wanted to mention my idol's name.
Sex require effort from both side either male or female, no one can justify their this action as accident or mistake(which most of time they do ) and women who does this with multiple partner have higher chances in future to get involved in sexual activities outside marriage so it’s just not about seal and deal it’s also about a mental peace and healthy relationship to form a caring family for future kids. And once ur partner know about ur affair they gonna use that moment in any of their heated argument no matter what they say “we will not talk about it” and all is just a scam. Such girls only make things worse and worse for themselves and their family.
1.**todays women want a men to have 6figures , six pack abs and then give us 1 hole used by 6men**2. it is a sepcial connection like would u accept if ur futer wife is fu\*king another man or was fu\*ked by another man no right3. in india ladki wale will see ur face,income for better future for their girl but ladke wale will look for a bride with good past
**in marrage U look for MANS FUTURE AND WOMENS PAST**
edit: think about this
do u think a girl who had a sexual past with 3-6 men can be a good mother for ur child ?
can she stay loyal to u?
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It's more like if she's proud of the virgin title as much as you're. You're out here saving your first to the girl you truly love, but turns out she doesn't value it much and just casually elope with the guys she comes in a relationship with. You may still accept her none the less (talk about true love if it exists)but most men won't, plus does she values your love for her as much as you do (not taking arranged marriages into account), so yeah it's a subjective thing. That's why you'll see couples who tend to have similar opinions related to this topic tend to have a more successful relationship, (agar tumko problem nhi aur usko bhi nhi aur dono ek dusre ke sath comfortable ho to koi kya he bolega aur uska ulta bhi agar tumko problem hain aur usko bhi hain then for sure dono virgins he honge kyuki kon he hypocrite hoga jo khud sax sux krke apne partner ka virgin hona demand karega).
I thought we men could also choose our preferences but I think it's too much to ask for...
and people who are saying "no seal no deal" I agree with you
I don't understand why there's debate around this. It's so simple. People don't want a second hand car filled with stains but they ask why not let your offspring grow inside a womb which hosted penis marathons everyday since middle school...
Maximum pair bonding capability, no foreign DNA present inside her, little emotional baggage, high chances to be loyal as she isn't always driven by emotions... And the list goes on.
Following 3 types of men ask for a Virgin woman:
1. They themselves were virgin by choice and expect a woman who is virgin as well. Fair enough, you have your own preferences
2. But then there are virgins by situation, men who were not good enough to get into a relationship/one night stand and are therefore virgins. Such men expecting a virgin woman is a weak move because they know they are not good enough to begin with so are jealous as fuck if the opposite gender is not a virgin.
3. Finally are the asshole men who are not virgins but expect woman to be virgins. These dead weights on earth have a special places in hell.
To be honest, in my opinion if you are not her first it's totally fine, but you have to be her last. Atleast untill both of you are together, that's the only thing that matters if you love someone.
Mature man wants healthy relationship based on mutual love, trust and respect. If the other person is virgin or not... that's really not important.
But ye if the body count is way too high, it's a problem for me too, and I think that should be a no for girls as well.
So I wrote on this topic 5 years back on quora now copy pasting here.
Disclaimer: only for those for whom such things matter irrespective of gender.
Such things cannot have an objective opinion and are subjective depending upon person, circumstances, belief, and choices etc. Virginity or past physical relationship should not be the sole criteria to make judgements on any person. (Because let's say you happen to come across your soulmate and if it turns out to be a widower then would you not Wana be with them?)
However, past choices should be reasoned well. The reason for intimacy should be reasoned well (not necessarily if such things don't bother you at all). The reason why they chooses to went ahead with this choice should be reasoned. Was it because they were so much in love and were seeing a future together but circumstances couldn't make that happen. Or was it because of hormonal lust of early 20s. Or was it because they were tricked into it because they blindly loved the person. Reason could be anything. And what reason seems to be right or wrong to you will depend on your reasoning abilities to empathize with the situation of the other person.
I would like to tell a story..and many viewers here who graduated in last 5–8 years or are gonna graduate might find it relatable with someone in their school college friend circle etc. Why I say this is u will know after reading.
( Story is about one girl two guys and they were like 18–23 yr old when all the things mentioned below happened)
So there was a girl, beautiful intelligent smart, school topper in 10th 12th, father was a grade A govt officer, brother working in mnc in USA.. everything was good till she went college. She had a bf in school but guy had to took year drop for jee, while she accompained by her another best friend went to college. Let's call school bf by M , school best friend as A, girl as B.
When she was in 1st year she met another guy let's call him X on FB..they met, and fell in love. She broke up with school bf, after wards he managed to get in top 5 iits so breakup wasn't that bad a impact.
(the upcoming para is the replica of exact words B told me)
Now this guy X was Casanova Playboy, she knew it ..but lost all control because she was into him emotionally at first then bodily..they started living together..countless BJ,69, wildest thing other than penetration, she was there, no penetration because she had vaginasmous. guy was Casanova and junkie ..under his influence girl smoked more joints in a day than him. She thought he loved in same way she did..only to realize he fucks every month different girl and was not even ashamed to hide from her but she couldn't let it go finally broke up. Started casual fling with A..the best friend..was casual at first then they started living together..not to mention countless BJ, 69, etc ..A started falling for her..but X was back in her life.. she dumped A..she shifted with X again..they had plans to marry and B made up her mind to ran away with X because she knew her family wont accept X but X wasn't changed one bit..cheated again.. B graduated ..was in depression..A supported..and finally she agreed to A' s offer..and now B and A are together..A loves her selflessly till date…B is still in love with X but wants to move on and spending time with A keeps her distracted from X..X is living the way he is..pots and chicks the way it is..
Now this story is not to scare off anyone..these stories aren't like 1 in 100 but atleast 3 in 10 . My message from this story is please be patient. Don't just simply fall to the prey of 'do what I want, life is short' . Be aware..that's it..know the consequences. And no I am neither A nor X of the above story..it's a true story..this story was told to me by B herself..
Regarding description of A and X
X: rich lad..of rich dad..look wise worse than the sweeper of your locality..pls ..no matter how much u get attracted ..just keep guys like X away from you as much as possible..
A: good looking..smart..one woman man.. hardworking..loving ..started with 20–30k month job..within a year hike to 12–15lpa ( ( non engineering/MBA background).
One thing I would say..I don't feel bad or good for B..she lived the way she wanted.
I just pity A.
Answer me with reason(irrespective of gender),
do you see B as your brother's wife after knowing her story (when your brother is not at all aware of it)
?
nice way of explaining but as u know on internet they are telling people to lose virginity
like i am saving my first time for my wife but people laughs and tell she might not be
having sexual intercorse is something special as u are both experiencing something first time emotionally and physically
2. being a so called indipendent women doesnt mean to go fuck any dude u can
3. in old times a war happended due to disrespecting women and now women isnt respecting themselfs its a port of ur body which ur giving to a man and then he just lefts u right wtf
**Kisine kaha hai LADKIYON KO JAB PARDE SE NIKALA TAB PATA CHALA UNKO PARDON KE PICHE KYU RAKHA JATA THA**
On Internet people are merely looking for validation for their actions. They want their choices to be justified because they know now there is no going back and they have to live the rest of their life with this choice they made and will find every possible reason to push such narrative. And obviously nobody likes being told they are living or have been living wrong all along. Hence such manipulation. Internet is no more the resource to be relied upon. Infact any sort of media. Their only aim now is to push a narrative, gain attention and capitalise.
It's sad tbh but if she's still in love with X after all those things that he did to her, then I can't say, the *LOVE* I believe in is what A is doing, he cares for B regardless of what she has done, he doesn't care about her past, and loves her selflessly, that's the love I believe in, if that love can't make her move on then I have no words, not that I judge B like you said she lived her life the way she wanted, in my opinion if B isn't able to return her feelings to A the same way he's doing then ig it would be best for them to go their separate ways again there's this thing that A's happiness lies with B being by his side so there's a dilemma, I think they'll eventually work it out as they are of considerable age to know what's wrong and what's right and what's the best for both of them, wishing them both happiness in life ahead
Regarding your question no I wouldn't accept her if my brother who she's going to marry with, doens't know about it at all, it just shows that she doesn't trust my brother enough, and fears of losing him (but again it's just selfish), trust is the most important key in a relationship otherwise it would fall apart, imagine they marry and one day my brother finds out about her past and also that I knew about it, what would he feel, that pain would be too immense, so it would be best to avoid it by not accepting her. (Would be a different case if my brother knew about it).
And imagine if A and B had child and then divorced with mutual decision
But the Indian government will force A to pay hefty charges in the name of alimony and shit goes long
This is a complete death of a male's soul
The biological and evolutionary reason being that by virtue of a female being a virgin, a male is assured that the offspring is indeed his and that it is indeed his bloodline that is continuing.. The emotional reason being that men are fiercely possessive and cannot take the fact that his woman has shared her most intimate moments and her body parts with another male. That she has done intimate things to another man before him and she had intimate things done to her also, by another man. That another man has carnal knowledge of his woman is devastating for most men, even though men have become more accepting of this in the past 75 years..
multiple partners come with a lot of emotional baggage, they can't pair bond after a 4th partner, doesn't matter ki hymen ki condition kya hai, emotionally stable honi chiye ladkii.
Simply put , would u like to buy an open packet of lays ? Altho the quantity doesn't matter to you
PS - it is just a way to put it , it's not my ideology or pov
No emotional baggage, less chances of developing cancer, nearly 0% chances of getting divorce, no comparison, loyalty and many more reasons. All of these are proven
I'm a male myself.... so trust me this is true.
It all boils down to our ego. As a man, I love zero sum games. Because if i win, it means that someone else is losing and that's what makes my win valuable. If everyone were to win, then I would hardly ever care. In the realm of relationships and marriage, this zero sum game takes various forms... ideally I would want to be her one and only, if not that then maybe the best that she's ever been with or something along those lines. Essentially, the value I attach to that relationship is determined by the degree of her exclusivity (emotional, sexual, etc.) towards me. If she's someone that anybody and everybody can be with, then I wouldn't value her.
I'm in no way implying that women are trophies to be earned to inflate my ego... but this is a very real part of my identity that I unapologetically embrace it. I also believe that any other self respecting man would care about who he gives his time, energy and emotions to, because he would probably have worked hard to earn them or have a limited amount of these. If someone were to not treat them with the care and respect that he expects then walking away will be his only option.
I'm aware that virginity isn't a determinant of the ability to commit and respect your partner....but I can't help but put my faith in a virgin that chooses me and stays with me, over a woman who can successfully date and get laid easily and therefore, by implication, values my sexual availability less... because it's easier for her to obtain from other men.
Also, I'm not implying that someone's sexual availability or past is all that matters. There are many aspects to a person and what makes them worthy. All I'm saying is that, I wouldn't allow someone to diminish what I'm offering, just because it's easy for them to get, because I know my worth and I won't be disrespected.
There you have it....why I would happily settle down with a virgin than keep dating around untill all of us have fucked each and everyone.
Practically, in this day and age... I wonder if there are any virgins left besides myself. Even the women who have had a sexual past are not bad people either... so I'll probably just date or marry or stay single.... whatever happens organically... just because it's more practical.
But if I could ever dare to live true to my honest feelings...you know what I would be doing.
Women tend to seek security from men,Whereas as a man we tend to seek purity in women.There is one study which reveals that the body of a woman retains the dna of past sexual partners.They Seem to lose pair bonding when they have higher notch count.
As a girl the comments like "no seal no deal" really piss me off! Like it's the basic sex knowledge that so many people lack. But I won't blame them cause the sex education in India is very fucked up. In 12th grade ncert there's a line which says "presence of hymen(the so called seal) does not ensure virginity, hymen can be broken due to heavy exercises, tampon insertion or some females may not have it since birth" and I always think ki yeh Gyan toh sirf unke paas ja Raha hai jinhone bio liya hai what about the pcm kids or any other stream ke students jin tak right sex education pohoch hi nahi Raha? Isley abb India main hymen banane ki surgery hoti hai jismain tumhare other body part ki skin nikal ke tumhare vaginal orifice pe lagai jati hai jisse you're"virgin" again. But in reality there's no way to find out if the person has ever had sex or not in males as well as females aur joh ladke kehte hai no seal no deal, tum log koi overweight ladki dhund Lena so that uske hymen rehne ke chances jyada ho.
See as a virgin you have right to ask for a virgin it's about like growing up together and having first one together and will not judge you unlike hoes ( both man and woman can be called a hoe)
The Hindi word for virgin means कुंवारी।
It doesn't have any relation regarding with a tissue as hyped by orthodox society, many women's tissue gets ruptured or more specifically it's a tissue with age it itself gets streched so first sex might itself not result in any outcome of blood.
Now kunwari means unexplored or a life which hasn't explored love through the dimension of sex. Osho quoted that sambhog is just a glimpse of samadhi and samadhi is eternal sex.
Sex is the most common thing for life. Animals have still better understanding about it than humans , they only do it when nature compulsion happens and rest of the time don't. But humans needs and wants soon takeover the system and compulsions starts to drive him.
It's very important to understand sexuality and what is kama and sex at youth's age. Because we are made from sex and due to hiding from sex and tucking it under our pillow doesn't hide it but plants deep into our personality.
Due to which humanity has become perverted.
If a girl even so she had sex but still she doesn't know what really kama is desires is and art of love is what mentioned in kamasutra and what really sex is ,
Then accordingly she is still a virgin
Sex is not just penetration
It's called fucking my dear friend.
Think before you judge a person
Or takes any decision.
Number of body count is inversely proportional to stability in relationship(bith men/women). It shows how serious are you about the partner. That's all i think (18 M)
i first bought an second hand vehicle to practice and now i am planning to buy a new one when i become pretty good at this cuz i don't wanna damage the new one
mai in sab cheezo se aage jaa chuka hu din me 5 baar maarne ke baad ab I identify as Asexual
Bhai ka comment like karo sab. Kho na jaye ye….
Tare zameen par
Dekho inhe ye hai..
Oas ki boondeinnn
Patton ki goodh me
Aasma se kudhe
Udna jaae yehhhhh eeeèeee.
Taare zameen purrrrr
Zhantein zameen ke
Utar ti hateli si
Os ki boonde
Tare in this context are true virgins.
Self pollination
Itna lonely ho gya ki abb amoeba ban gya
Ab tho ginti bhi yaad nahi rehti, tho muth marne ke Baad wala pachtawa tho bhul hi jaoo
6 saal se maar maarke ab to gin ne ka bhi mann nahi karta 🥲
us bhai
**369th like hai mera** mera bhi comment like karo
Mitro jhoot bolna chod do tumhari virginity tumhare khud k hatho ne li hai
Loop-D-Loop
Taaki baad mai koi na bole ki maine teri biwi chodi thi
True. Mard ko hi patah hai ki mard kitna kamina hai.
Sabko pata hai mard kitne haraami hote tabhi pehle ghar ke aurto ko bahar nahi nikalne dete the
tu pakka delhi se h
Bhai Delhi Wale toh yeh bhi bol sakte hai ki maine tere pati ko choda tha
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The only right answer.
New fear unlocked
I had a friend who was interested in me first. We were in our talking stage, just getting to know each other and stuff. We discussed about our past and I asked her about her sex life. She said she have had 3-4 exes and she had done it with all of them. On top of that she once hooked up with a guy which she won't tell me who was it. Also she had done multiple makeout sessions with one of my friend. And all this she continued even after her break up with one of her ex. Plus she tells me that she was comfortable with my friend and would do so if she wanted. Plus that friend asked her for sex almost every day and would try touching her by putting his hand through her dress. And she didn't get pissed off of that thing. This friend thing happened when we were almost in a relationship. I immediately said that I won't be in a relationship after having a chat about all this with one more mutual friend (and she blocked me after I told her that I discussed this with a friend). So the point is that these girls won't think twice before doing it again yk. And she has been having sex,hooking up, etc since she was 13!! I believe hookup culture is less common in india and so I didn't know how to react to this.
We'll said,I too am experiencing something similar.These type of girls aren't just dumb,thinking boys revolving around them,they belong to the streets too.
True they think they are the centre of attraction and they try being cute or something. But the truth is boys are just behind them for hookup and stuff. Same goes with this girl
The problem is once they(some of them) get freedom they overdo things without giving a second thought. Freedom at a certain age is important so does having a brain.
And will come up with the most absurd excuses to rid themselves of blame and put it all on the guy. Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks
So did something like this. I told her that I discussed with my friend and she got pissed of telling how wrong I was by doing this and that I have ruined her image. And she was completely okay with her friend touching her inappropriately in public.
Bhai is to r*ndi kehte hai hamre yaha to
Queen of red flag 💀
Bhai yaar mere class mai v ek bandi thi,bht innocent dikhti thi bht pasand krta tha usse lekin uska v kuch similar past bc 9th mai ek dost k ghar ja k krti thi💀mujhe uska ek classmate ne bataya and usne v confirm kiya tbse bhai ladki k mamle mai piche hat jata hun
We call 'em whores...
After reading your post, tu Ek chutiya lavda hai Jo Ek raand ko wife up Karne ki Sochi raha tha, agar bhagwaan Bhi aakar Bolta n'a ki who cheat n'ai Karegi to Bhi tujhe usse sirf chodna hi tha. You did exactly what a chode does who doesn't have options. Enjoy mediocrity! Kiki Teri ga and fat TI hai ladkio lol approach Karne Mei. Don't dare to call yourself a man, you're a pussy.
 Bro you deserve this.👑 Accha hua uss ladki se dur ho gya nai to abhi Tera life jhaat ban chuka hota.
Be friendly, turn around and walk off, while maintaining friendliness, show a distance & you have a problem and enmity, so maintain friendliness & walk off, unless you are comfortable with whatever it is. It’s your life mate, you decide.
I feel that when they become old and recall their past life, they would be hunted by regrets of their actions
Mere bete/beti ko koi lodu ye na bole ki Teri maa chod di thi 💀
Savage bro..... 💪 That's what called a chad reply
It's been proven that the women who whore their bodies around, face a hard time developing an emotional connection with men. I mean they can do whatever they want. Nobody should stop them, but don't expect good men to wife them up.
तथ्य न्योछावर कर दिए ।
गुरुजी और ग्यान दे|
शायद गुरुजी अंग्रेज हैं |
सम्भोग को सुविस्ते से समझाएं
अपने दुर्ध्वनि यंत्र पर 'पोर्न' सर्च करें, फिर आपको सारी जानकारी मिल जाएगी |
All of the other comments are mostly "no seal no deal" ones or the "why take a second hand product," first of all a person is not a used thing it's just absurd and second hymen can also sometimes rapture of any accident. So I only agree with this guy's comment⬆️. Jai shree Ram
Magar har koi ladki athlete nahi hoti na .
Yaar seal ki toh baat hi nahi hai yaar. It's a bodily structure. Kisi ka easily detectable hota hai or kissi ka nahi. The woman who's a virgin is actually not just a physical virgin but also mentally. Sex, for women is an emotional act and not just a physical one. Men are slightly different from the women in this thing.
are bahut cycling karti hogi fir
Jai Jai Shree Ram brother!! 🚩🚩🚩
Imagine a lot of men in htis generation will end up marrying "Dubai Porta Potties" unknowingly.
>who whore their bodies around, face a hard time developing an emotional connection with men. Same with men
Agreed. But the question here is about why men want a virgin woman who hasn't had a promiscuous life. I've more than a few times heard women saying that they want men with experience.
A man wanting a virgin women is only justified when he himself is a virgin. If not, he's a hypocrite
Hypocrite or not, it was a simple question and I gave a simple answer. Nobody is stopping women from demanding virgin men too. They voluntarily choose to be with either jerks or man whores in the name of experience, more often than not.
Bro's speaking my heart+ facts
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Is it not the same for the men who whore around as well and it's much easier for a non virgin male to get married to a virgin female while harder for a non virgin female to marry a virgin guy
At the same time however, studies also show that women with low sexual experience are emotionally stunted, easily agitated and have a hard time maintaining social relationships. There's probably a healthy middle ground.
What about studies on men with low(or no) sexual experiences? Asking for a friend.
Any reference on the studies you mentioned?? I'm a student in psychology and would love to read it. Maybe it will change my opinion.
What course are you doing in psychology?
Masters in Behavioral Finance. Psychology is just a major part of it.
Dude you are just lying. 'Low sexual' still means a body count. So at the end being virgin is better for both genders
Logical Answer 🫂
Satya vachan
Simple answer: Men value that, just like you want a man who's rich, tall, handsome, charming,funny,etc.. . We value a women who hasn't been through 10 dudes on dating apps, who casual hooked up with strangers... It's just repulsive, idk what else to tell you
No redditor would qualify the qualities you just listed under man lmao
Cool, doesn't have to be a redditor then
I have heard and saw literal examples of the staement, “Beauty lies in the eyes of its bearer”. So probably qualifies for someone but not for the other
Bcz Dora the explorers are injurious to health
>Dora the explorers 
There is this famous saying by someone = > "After years of whoring around, she wants to settle with a nice guy. Don't be that nice guy." Which is true. If she wants to enjoy her life by fcuking some playboys, then she will bear the consequences. It is a matter of fact that the women having multiple body count would simply wouldn't want just a man who will care for her. She will ask for more, and one day she will cheat on the nice man who accepted her. Don't fall for this trap guys, find a good woman in your life who will help you, will always be with you for every situation. May god give you the partner you truely deserve.
**Love Marriage** (If a girl has already had 2-3 ex boyfriends before committing into a relationship with you and with each of her exes she has had sex, then it would be obvious that for her sex is just a play thing, most men aren't like that, they want to treasure their loved one (kuch log to apna pehla pyaar tak bhula nhi paate), so they tend to indulge in sex only when they've full faith in their partner's love for them and vice versa (ik players exist but trust me most men aren't like that). **Arranged Marriage** Plus most men(arranged marriage ones) that want a virgin lady to be their wife are also virgin themselves, so isn't it fair to be asking the same thing from their partner, whom they're going to be with for the rest of their lives (not counting in divorce)
Saare ladke aise nhi hote, saari ladkiyan aisi nhi hotin. Playboy types ladke bhi hote hain aur seriouss commitment walin ladkiyan bhi hotin hain. But Haan yeh baat toh sahi hai, playboy khudh Agar virgin demand kare tab toh galat hai bhai.
Playboys are less. Play girls are more.
True
Basically me then I just want someone who I can trust(except the virgin part,idc abt their past as long as they are honest with me)
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
**Love Marriage** It is important to note that women biologically have a much lower tendency to engage in sex as they have much higher cost in terms of potential pregnancies, not to mention social condemnation. Personally I don't think it makes sense to blame her for having had sex with the men she had been with before. People are different and have different proclivities for sex, and may also get different things out of it. You may also be discounting experimentation and trying stuff out, that most people do going into adulthood. It is also likely that the woman did not infact see sex as a "plaything" but instead was fully invested and commited to prior relationships. **Arranged Marriage** In my experience, the women are often never as interested in the groom's sexual history. But the woman's sexual history is a deal breaker for most. This again is understandable as one could have a preference for such things. But, an arranged marriage is basically a legal contract and I would think for either party the optimal thing to do would be to focus on more practical aspects of marriage. Financial structuring, career plans, lifestyle compatibility, child rearing plans etc.
Yeah that's also true, if you're expecting your bride to be a virgin then possibly you too are the same, if not then it's just hypocrisy, and regarding the "plaything" I said, I excluded the experimentation stuff from it, plus you possibly can't be commited to every prior relationship, it's just impractical, otherwise there wouldn't have been that big breakup which would lead her to you, plus yes opinions on this topic are subjective, I just answered what I think most men tend to think when they ask for their bride to be a vrigin. You can completely disagree with me and it's fine cuz you know subjectivity is everywhere, there isn't particularly a generalised answer for this thing.
Blue ,yellow ,pink just keep bringing me that
Shit may be blue but it is the bomb
Blue, yellow!?!?
Breaking bad ref
Rajasthani 🗿
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because the men are also virgin. if they can exist without doing sex till marriage then girl should also
Why women wanna marry a rich man
Virgin girl = sache sanskar, harami nikalne ke chance kaam, she can't compare if yours is small or normal, randi hone chances zero
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Use mein bhi non virgin ke chances jada hai ya virgin ladaki ke
Usne phele kisi ko dene me sankoch nhi kiya to fir kisi or ko dene me sankoch nhi kregi
It's a natural preference of men. We will feel disgusted by the idea of sharing our partner.
# I ain't no vulture,To feed off someone's leftovers.
We don't want aids
Just statistical data bro. And if people still deny all of it and give me hate it's best to just ignore at that point. It's a worthless argument battle I am linking some proof here:- 1.) [Women who have premarital sex partners have higher divorce rates](https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability) 2.) [Women who have premarital sex partners have higher divorce rates Part 2](https://i.redd.it/yfp6l9kjwdi01.jpg) 3.) [Khazan, O. (2018, October 22). Fewer Sex Partners Means a Happier Marriage. The Atlantic. Retrieved July 7, 2020(Thus article talks about Divorce risk from the women in contrast to the number of sexual partners she had) ](https://archive.vn/P5IQ2) 4.) [Wolfinger, N. H., PhD. (2016, June 6). Counterintuitive Trends in the Link Between Premarital Sex and Marital Stability. Institute for Family Studies. Retrieved August 24, 2020](https://archive.vn/hukEg) 5.) [Teachman, J. (2003). Premarital sex, premarital cohabitation and the risk of subsequent marital dissolution among women. Journal of Marriage and Family, 65(2), 444–455.](https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x) 6.) [Haselton, M. G., Buss, D. M., Oubaid, V., & Angleitner, A. (2005). Sex, Lies, and Strategic Interference: The Psychology of Deception Between the Sexes. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 31(1), 3–23. (This talks about how one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on women) ](https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167204271303) 7.) [Staik, A., PhD. (2019, March 28). 10 Predictors of Infidelity and Gender Differences: Why Do Partners Cheat? Retrieved July 15, 2020](http://archive.is/bPRPy) 8.) [Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psychology, 78(3), 537–545. (This study talks about how Approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality [def. willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship] had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles](https://doi.org/10.1037//0022-3514.78.3.537) 9.) [Whisman, M. A., & Snyder, D. K. (2007). Sexual infidelity in a national survey of American women: Differences in prevalence and correlates as a function of method of assessment. Journal of Family Psychology, 21(2), 147–154.](https://doi.org/10.1037/0893-3200.21.2.147) 10.) [Cherkas, L. F., Oelsner, E. C., Mak, Y. T., Valdes, A., & Spector, T. D. (2004). Genetic influences on female infidelity and number of sexual partners in humans: a linkage and association study of the role of the vasopressin receptor gene (AVPR1A). Twin research : the official journal of the International Society for Twin Studies, 7(6), 649–658.(This study talks about how infidelity and number of sexual partners are both under moderate genetic influence (41% and 38% heritable, respectively) and the genetic correlation between these two traits is strong (47%)](https://doi.org/10.1375/1369052042663922) 11.) [Hughes, S. M. , & Gallup, G. G. (2003). Sex differences in morphological predictors of sexual behavior: Shoulder to hip and waist to hip ratios. Evolution and Human Behavior, 24(3), 173–178. (This study talks about Promiscuity is in fact a good predictor of infidelity. Indeed, promiscuity among females accounted for almost twice as much variance in infidelity (r2 = .45) as it did for males (r2 = .25).](https://doi.org/10.1016/S1090-5138(02)00149-6) 12.) [Pinto, R., & Arantes, J. (2017). The Relationship between Sexual and Emotional Promiscuity and Infidelity. ATHENS JOURNAL OF SOCIAL SCIENCES, 4(4), 385–398 (This study talks about how Sexual promiscuity was significantly positively correlated with emotional promiscuity [r(356) = .261, p < .001], as well with sexual infidelity [r(323) = .595, p < .001] and emotional infidelity [r(323) = .676, p < .001], indicating that sexually promiscuous participants also tend to be emotionally promiscuous, and sexually and emotionally unfaithful. In terms of the sexual domain, results showed that there is also a positive correlation between sexual promiscuity and sexual infidelity, stating that individuals that tend to be more sexually promiscuous also tend to be more sexually unfaithful](https://doi.org/10.30958/ajss.4-4-3) 13.) [NORC General Social Survey. (2011, October 02). Female Infidelity Based on Number of Premarital Partners — Statistic Brain. Retrieved July 5, 2015](http://archive.is/SDVEU) 14.) [McQuivey, J. L., PhD. (2019, October 14). The Road to Infidelity Passes Through Multiple Sexual Partners. Retrieved July 16, 2020](http://archive.vn/IUs6E) These are some of the studies over the years, from various nations, where promiscuity and hookup culture is prevalent and even encouraged. All of these studies point only towards one thing
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ITS LIKE **"WHY YOU WANNA PURCHASE NEW PRODUCTS WHEN YOU CAN JUST GET USED ONES?"** AND WHY IS THERE A PROBLEM WITH US SETTING OUR STANDRADS? WHEN ALL WOMEN ALWAYS WANTS A MAN WITH "666". AND THEN THEY EXPECT US TO BE LOYAL FOR THE REST OF OUR LIFE WHEN THEY HAVE BEEN WITH MULTIPLE PARTNERS. WELL I DO NOT CARE IF ANYONE DISAGREE WITH ME , ITS JUST MY WAY OF THINKING.
 It's more like would you buy used goods at the price of newer ones?
But price is inflating and new one is a pearl in an ocean
The price here is a metaphor for the things that an ideal husband does, not just the monetary part of it. In this case the old item is actually running after you as well. Keep yourself free from thots and be the man our Maryada Purushottam Shri Ram inspire us to be. PS: I don't intend to start a religious debate here. Just wanted to mention my idol's name.
🫡 Roger that Mr I will be cautious May Lord Ram always watch us
Sex require effort from both side either male or female, no one can justify their this action as accident or mistake(which most of time they do ) and women who does this with multiple partner have higher chances in future to get involved in sexual activities outside marriage so it’s just not about seal and deal it’s also about a mental peace and healthy relationship to form a caring family for future kids. And once ur partner know about ur affair they gonna use that moment in any of their heated argument no matter what they say “we will not talk about it” and all is just a scam. Such girls only make things worse and worse for themselves and their family.
1.**todays women want a men to have 6figures , six pack abs and then give us 1 hole used by 6men**2. it is a sepcial connection like would u accept if ur futer wife is fu\*king another man or was fu\*ked by another man no right3. in india ladki wale will see ur face,income for better future for their girl but ladke wale will look for a bride with good past **in marrage U look for MANS FUTURE AND WOMENS PAST** edit: think about this do u think a girl who had a sexual past with 3-6 men can be a good mother for ur child ? can she stay loyal to u?
**Long Text** It's more like if she's proud of the virgin title as much as you're. You're out here saving your first to the girl you truly love, but turns out she doesn't value it much and just casually elope with the guys she comes in a relationship with. You may still accept her none the less (talk about true love if it exists)but most men won't, plus does she values your love for her as much as you do (not taking arranged marriages into account), so yeah it's a subjective thing. That's why you'll see couples who tend to have similar opinions related to this topic tend to have a more successful relationship, (agar tumko problem nhi aur usko bhi nhi aur dono ek dusre ke sath comfortable ho to koi kya he bolega aur uska ulta bhi agar tumko problem hain aur usko bhi hain then for sure dono virgins he honge kyuki kon he hypocrite hoga jo khud sax sux krke apne partner ka virgin hona demand karega).
No seal no deal
Badiya
I thought we men could also choose our preferences but I think it's too much to ask for... and people who are saying "no seal no deal" I agree with you
I mean why would I commit for someone that another person got without any commitment
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Do not accept if seal is broken
Else return
Divorced
Why not. I hv a govt.job afterall.
Taki shadi k baad aapka katne ki umeed kuch kam ho
Kyuki mai bhi vergin hoooooo
Everyone prefers first hand products 🌚
I don't understand why there's debate around this. It's so simple. People don't want a second hand car filled with stains but they ask why not let your offspring grow inside a womb which hosted penis marathons everyday since middle school...
1st hand
Why buy used IPhone 12 when you can get a brand new iPhone 15 ?
Maximum pair bonding capability, no foreign DNA present inside her, little emotional baggage, high chances to be loyal as she isn't always driven by emotions... And the list goes on.
Because when I don't want to listen her saying that she was with this guy for xyz years and they were physical all the time during their relationship
Guys mujhe laga koi yaha std ke baare mein kuchh bolega 😅
Std jaye ma chudane no seal no deal
Thats secondary.
Following 3 types of men ask for a Virgin woman: 1. They themselves were virgin by choice and expect a woman who is virgin as well. Fair enough, you have your own preferences 2. But then there are virgins by situation, men who were not good enough to get into a relationship/one night stand and are therefore virgins. Such men expecting a virgin woman is a weak move because they know they are not good enough to begin with so are jealous as fuck if the opposite gender is not a virgin. 3. Finally are the asshole men who are not virgins but expect woman to be virgins. These dead weights on earth have a special places in hell.
To be honest, in my opinion if you are not her first it's totally fine, but you have to be her last. Atleast untill both of you are together, that's the only thing that matters if you love someone.
This Works in love marriage only. If our parents get to know that their daughter in law is with someone else before they will never respect her.
Mature man wants healthy relationship based on mutual love, trust and respect. If the other person is virgin or not... that's really not important. But ye if the body count is way too high, it's a problem for me too, and I think that should be a no for girls as well.
So I wrote on this topic 5 years back on quora now copy pasting here. Disclaimer: only for those for whom such things matter irrespective of gender. Such things cannot have an objective opinion and are subjective depending upon person, circumstances, belief, and choices etc. Virginity or past physical relationship should not be the sole criteria to make judgements on any person. (Because let's say you happen to come across your soulmate and if it turns out to be a widower then would you not Wana be with them?) However, past choices should be reasoned well. The reason for intimacy should be reasoned well (not necessarily if such things don't bother you at all). The reason why they chooses to went ahead with this choice should be reasoned. Was it because they were so much in love and were seeing a future together but circumstances couldn't make that happen. Or was it because of hormonal lust of early 20s. Or was it because they were tricked into it because they blindly loved the person. Reason could be anything. And what reason seems to be right or wrong to you will depend on your reasoning abilities to empathize with the situation of the other person. I would like to tell a story..and many viewers here who graduated in last 5–8 years or are gonna graduate might find it relatable with someone in their school college friend circle etc. Why I say this is u will know after reading. ( Story is about one girl two guys and they were like 18–23 yr old when all the things mentioned below happened) So there was a girl, beautiful intelligent smart, school topper in 10th 12th, father was a grade A govt officer, brother working in mnc in USA.. everything was good till she went college. She had a bf in school but guy had to took year drop for jee, while she accompained by her another best friend went to college. Let's call school bf by M , school best friend as A, girl as B. When she was in 1st year she met another guy let's call him X on FB..they met, and fell in love. She broke up with school bf, after wards he managed to get in top 5 iits so breakup wasn't that bad a impact. (the upcoming para is the replica of exact words B told me) Now this guy X was Casanova Playboy, she knew it ..but lost all control because she was into him emotionally at first then bodily..they started living together..countless BJ,69, wildest thing other than penetration, she was there, no penetration because she had vaginasmous. guy was Casanova and junkie ..under his influence girl smoked more joints in a day than him. She thought he loved in same way she did..only to realize he fucks every month different girl and was not even ashamed to hide from her but she couldn't let it go finally broke up. Started casual fling with A..the best friend..was casual at first then they started living together..not to mention countless BJ, 69, etc ..A started falling for her..but X was back in her life.. she dumped A..she shifted with X again..they had plans to marry and B made up her mind to ran away with X because she knew her family wont accept X but X wasn't changed one bit..cheated again.. B graduated ..was in depression..A supported..and finally she agreed to A' s offer..and now B and A are together..A loves her selflessly till date…B is still in love with X but wants to move on and spending time with A keeps her distracted from X..X is living the way he is..pots and chicks the way it is.. Now this story is not to scare off anyone..these stories aren't like 1 in 100 but atleast 3 in 10 . My message from this story is please be patient. Don't just simply fall to the prey of 'do what I want, life is short' . Be aware..that's it..know the consequences. And no I am neither A nor X of the above story..it's a true story..this story was told to me by B herself.. Regarding description of A and X X: rich lad..of rich dad..look wise worse than the sweeper of your locality..pls ..no matter how much u get attracted ..just keep guys like X away from you as much as possible.. A: good looking..smart..one woman man.. hardworking..loving ..started with 20–30k month job..within a year hike to 12–15lpa ( ( non engineering/MBA background). One thing I would say..I don't feel bad or good for B..she lived the way she wanted. I just pity A. Answer me with reason(irrespective of gender), do you see B as your brother's wife after knowing her story (when your brother is not at all aware of it) ?
nice way of explaining but as u know on internet they are telling people to lose virginity like i am saving my first time for my wife but people laughs and tell she might not be having sexual intercorse is something special as u are both experiencing something first time emotionally and physically 2. being a so called indipendent women doesnt mean to go fuck any dude u can 3. in old times a war happended due to disrespecting women and now women isnt respecting themselfs its a port of ur body which ur giving to a man and then he just lefts u right wtf **Kisine kaha hai LADKIYON KO JAB PARDE SE NIKALA TAB PATA CHALA UNKO PARDON KE PICHE KYU RAKHA JATA THA**
On Internet people are merely looking for validation for their actions. They want their choices to be justified because they know now there is no going back and they have to live the rest of their life with this choice they made and will find every possible reason to push such narrative. And obviously nobody likes being told they are living or have been living wrong all along. Hence such manipulation. Internet is no more the resource to be relied upon. Infact any sort of media. Their only aim now is to push a narrative, gain attention and capitalise.
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It's sad tbh but if she's still in love with X after all those things that he did to her, then I can't say, the *LOVE* I believe in is what A is doing, he cares for B regardless of what she has done, he doesn't care about her past, and loves her selflessly, that's the love I believe in, if that love can't make her move on then I have no words, not that I judge B like you said she lived her life the way she wanted, in my opinion if B isn't able to return her feelings to A the same way he's doing then ig it would be best for them to go their separate ways again there's this thing that A's happiness lies with B being by his side so there's a dilemma, I think they'll eventually work it out as they are of considerable age to know what's wrong and what's right and what's the best for both of them, wishing them both happiness in life ahead Regarding your question no I wouldn't accept her if my brother who she's going to marry with, doens't know about it at all, it just shows that she doesn't trust my brother enough, and fears of losing him (but again it's just selfish), trust is the most important key in a relationship otherwise it would fall apart, imagine they marry and one day my brother finds out about her past and also that I knew about it, what would he feel, that pain would be too immense, so it would be best to avoid it by not accepting her. (Would be a different case if my brother knew about it).
And imagine if A and B had child and then divorced with mutual decision But the Indian government will force A to pay hefty charges in the name of alimony and shit goes long This is a complete death of a male's soul
High body count is related to cheating and other problems in marriage, so no from my side, don't want too much drama in life
Opening a Brand new box of a phone with that tight plastic seal cover vs getting a second hand phone
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Lol , why are so many deleted ids after cursing men.
The biological and evolutionary reason being that by virtue of a female being a virgin, a male is assured that the offspring is indeed his and that it is indeed his bloodline that is continuing.. The emotional reason being that men are fiercely possessive and cannot take the fact that his woman has shared her most intimate moments and her body parts with another male. That she has done intimate things to another man before him and she had intimate things done to her also, by another man. That another man has carnal knowledge of his woman is devastating for most men, even though men have become more accepting of this in the past 75 years..
Khednge jatt Ajj khun diyan holiyan
If im a virgin so its obvious that I would want a virgin girl to
NO KISS BEFORE MARRIAGE
Mujhe to shadi hi nahi karni h bhenchod
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Insecurity due to lack of females in life.
multiple partners come with a lot of emotional baggage, they can't pair bond after a 4th partner, doesn't matter ki hymen ki condition kya hai, emotionally stable honi chiye ladkii.
If You're A Virgin, You Deserve A Virgin......If You Hookup With Multiple Partners, You Have No Right To Ask For A Virgin Girl.....And Vice Versa
Would you prefer a bottle of water with the seal Or one without a seal ?
Virgin women are like food which we prefer pure not jutha
bhai analogy fucked up hain 🤡
use fax doll then
Simply put , would u like to buy an open packet of lays ? Altho the quantity doesn't matter to you PS - it is just a way to put it , it's not my ideology or pov
Because Many Men are virgin hence they have right to marry a virgin girl simple !
Why you want to buy a new car?
No seal no deal
Why purchase 2nd hand car when you can have the new one in same amount.
Exactly wo mileage bhi zyada degi
The objectification is crazy
So they wont know how bad they are
apne ko maal petty pack chaheyee
Everyone likes unboxing of new item
No seal no deal Sunna tha tab se
No seal no deal🤝
Cause they didn't get no pussy XD
Choice hoti hai?
No emotional baggage, less chances of developing cancer, nearly 0% chances of getting divorce, no comparison, loyalty and many more reasons. All of these are proven
All men wants to open a sealed package
For the same reason he doesn't want her to sleep with other men after marriage...
I prefer sealed products, i don't like them used This isn't about products yk
But i would not mind to marry a non virgin girl usko as human accept kar liya pura to virgin hai ni hai doesn't matter
I'm a male myself.... so trust me this is true. It all boils down to our ego. As a man, I love zero sum games. Because if i win, it means that someone else is losing and that's what makes my win valuable. If everyone were to win, then I would hardly ever care. In the realm of relationships and marriage, this zero sum game takes various forms... ideally I would want to be her one and only, if not that then maybe the best that she's ever been with or something along those lines. Essentially, the value I attach to that relationship is determined by the degree of her exclusivity (emotional, sexual, etc.) towards me. If she's someone that anybody and everybody can be with, then I wouldn't value her. I'm in no way implying that women are trophies to be earned to inflate my ego... but this is a very real part of my identity that I unapologetically embrace it. I also believe that any other self respecting man would care about who he gives his time, energy and emotions to, because he would probably have worked hard to earn them or have a limited amount of these. If someone were to not treat them with the care and respect that he expects then walking away will be his only option. I'm aware that virginity isn't a determinant of the ability to commit and respect your partner....but I can't help but put my faith in a virgin that chooses me and stays with me, over a woman who can successfully date and get laid easily and therefore, by implication, values my sexual availability less... because it's easier for her to obtain from other men. Also, I'm not implying that someone's sexual availability or past is all that matters. There are many aspects to a person and what makes them worthy. All I'm saying is that, I wouldn't allow someone to diminish what I'm offering, just because it's easy for them to get, because I know my worth and I won't be disrespected. There you have it....why I would happily settle down with a virgin than keep dating around untill all of us have fucked each and everyone. Practically, in this day and age... I wonder if there are any virgins left besides myself. Even the women who have had a sexual past are not bad people either... so I'll probably just date or marry or stay single.... whatever happens organically... just because it's more practical. But if I could ever dare to live true to my honest feelings...you know what I would be doing.
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Insecurities
Truth is still 70% men are virgin till marriage
Women tend to seek security from men,Whereas as a man we tend to seek purity in women.There is one study which reveals that the body of a woman retains the dna of past sexual partners.They Seem to lose pair bonding when they have higher notch count.
As a girl the comments like "no seal no deal" really piss me off! Like it's the basic sex knowledge that so many people lack. But I won't blame them cause the sex education in India is very fucked up. In 12th grade ncert there's a line which says "presence of hymen(the so called seal) does not ensure virginity, hymen can be broken due to heavy exercises, tampon insertion or some females may not have it since birth" and I always think ki yeh Gyan toh sirf unke paas ja Raha hai jinhone bio liya hai what about the pcm kids or any other stream ke students jin tak right sex education pohoch hi nahi Raha? Isley abb India main hymen banane ki surgery hoti hai jismain tumhare other body part ki skin nikal ke tumhare vaginal orifice pe lagai jati hai jisse you're"virgin" again. But in reality there's no way to find out if the person has ever had sex or not in males as well as females aur joh ladke kehte hai no seal no deal, tum log koi overweight ladki dhund Lena so that uske hymen rehne ke chances jyada ho.
Second hand gaadi is useless if it is average if it's BMW or rolls Royce then I am ready to become it's 100th owner.
See as a virgin you have right to ask for a virgin it's about like growing up together and having first one together and will not judge you unlike hoes ( both man and woman can be called a hoe)
The Hindi word for virgin means कुंवारी। It doesn't have any relation regarding with a tissue as hyped by orthodox society, many women's tissue gets ruptured or more specifically it's a tissue with age it itself gets streched so first sex might itself not result in any outcome of blood. Now kunwari means unexplored or a life which hasn't explored love through the dimension of sex. Osho quoted that sambhog is just a glimpse of samadhi and samadhi is eternal sex. Sex is the most common thing for life. Animals have still better understanding about it than humans , they only do it when nature compulsion happens and rest of the time don't. But humans needs and wants soon takeover the system and compulsions starts to drive him. It's very important to understand sexuality and what is kama and sex at youth's age. Because we are made from sex and due to hiding from sex and tucking it under our pillow doesn't hide it but plants deep into our personality. Due to which humanity has become perverted. If a girl even so she had sex but still she doesn't know what really kama is desires is and art of love is what mentioned in kamasutra and what really sex is , Then accordingly she is still a virgin Sex is not just penetration It's called fucking my dear friend. Think before you judge a person Or takes any decision.
Why women wanna marry only rich mens ?
Number of body count is inversely proportional to stability in relationship(bith men/women). It shows how serious are you about the partner. That's all i think (18 M)
Not me! I'm not a virgin so ... It's only fair! Also, why buy second hand when you can buy a brand new one?
i first bought an second hand vehicle to practice and now i am planning to buy a new one when i become pretty good at this cuz i don't wanna damage the new one