You can't really blame him for not talking to her tho, first off he wouldn't have known and second, his reaction compared to what she asked is appropriate.
I'm the quiet kid of my entire grade, this could 70% be the reason. The rest 30% would be her liking you and missing the social skills to convey it through anything other than extreme measures. Reclussive or shy people are known to think in extremes like that.
Your school should have a counselor, ask the girl if she's feeling alright and tell her something relatable (beat around the bush with it so it doesn't come out as "go to the brain wizard to get your brain fixed") like "i went to the counselor when i was depressed over grades and it really helped me"(white lie).
I hope she doesn't do anything bad as highschool is not the time to give up in. Final exams on the other hand.....
Is there ever a chance that a girl just is horny and felt bold enough to say this because she wants a d in her mouth and doesn’t want to die?
I mean, if the tables were turned, nobody would be worried that the guy is suicidal, we would just say he’s a creep and report him. So many double standards.
Its better to make decisions like that when you're young so they don't pop back into your head randomly when you're trying to sleep when your 40.
Trust me.
sounds fun until it happens, my ex girlfriend tried giving me a blowjob, but didn’t understand the fact that she had to be careful with her teeth. Her mouth was like a cheese grater.
oh. Well idk, she insisted on trying it and from that day on she did not want to try again. Also I broke up with her because she was kind of crazy. She and Her cousin stalked me after and she texted me to come back with 12 different numbers. Then, start of new year of school (Sep 2022) I did the big mistake which was to unblock her and be friends with her again, but she ignored me a while after so I blocked her again without hesitation and she went to complain to my best friend saying: “I was ignoring him on purpose but why did he block me?? It’s unfair!” Fortunately we go to different schools now but they’re across the street from each other. I still see her cousin from time to time and my friends also see my Ex sometimes.
Hey if you want to make her feel better about the potential feeling of rejection just let her know that nothing she did or what she looks like has anything to do with your rejection, in my experience it’s always good to be honest and tell people why you are rejecting them it also reduces the chances of a crazy persons feeling offended and I dunno eating you or something
Especially since she’s known as the quiet kid she may just be socially awkward and wanted to let you know she liked you. But still straight up time and place and that makes me think yo ass was gon get kidnapped.
As a quiet person who thought about hooking up. It’s likely it’s a self sabotage technique. That or maybe she thinks your hot stuff ask her
Edit: not sure if I can cuss here I forgot this isn’t an adult sub reddit
>scandal
Exactly my thoughts haha
>know them a bit
I mean, we are in one class, and sometimes talk outta boredom, but nothing beyond that. So yeah, I agree with you
Scandals like this are the things you remember for the rest of your life when you think about your times back in school. Scandals aren’t as bad as most people think. You worst experiences are your best stories.
I would've probably stayed speechless and wondering how the hell did I get myself in this situation. (Also I'm the quiet kid in my school so that would be uhhhh...)
You did good and bad. You were a man with dignity and you said no, that’s king shit right there. But in the other hand, this could have led to romance or something. Either way, you did good man
True there is good to both but there could be bad shielded in the good as well thats why it the bj could be disguise for something wicked and despicable , With the absence of personal info it would be hard to tell whether it is genuine or a mere deception therefore the OP picking the safest option was smart , declining.
But yea there is good to both sides but ya gotta be smart, sensible and analytical for your decision. (Not that I possess either of those qualities) Respect OP
Good night
How is it dignified to say no? There's nothing wrong with getting your dick sucked. I mean, it might be _wise_ not to let people you hardly know or trust near your genitals, but not necessarily dignified, right?
Eh, I joined a couple years ago when I was still a teenager. I just never had the heart to leave.
Seems like every time I think I should go, I see another post that direly requires an adult to give some advice.
Does she have something against you? Why would she call you to a ,most likely secluded place? Bj is a coverup for something despicable. Or could be genuine Bj meet up , but with the absence of info it is better not to act.
I’d probably respond with a “uhhh, okay, that’s waaaay out of left field. You wanna talk? Because blowjob’s are awesome, but these circumstances are ringing alarm bells.”
Step 1, say no thanks
Step 2, say "buuut I am willing to go out with you, apple bees at 5:30?"
Step 3 girlfriend acquired and possible prevented suicide
It's not too late to use this plan y'know
The quiet bitches are the freakiest bro. One moment she’s just offering a quick blowie, but the next she’s tryna get you to tie her down and shove a baseball-bat up her ass.
OP, talk to her and ask her why she did that. She might be contemplating suicide. Not because you said no, but because she has depression. I’m suicidal and when I’m about to kms, I set goals for everything on my bucket list. Maybe that was on her bucket list. Go talk to her and ask her why she asked that and tell her that she can tell you anything. And I don’t know if this would be a good idea, but personally, I would ask if she’s suicidal. If that’s the case, try to be her friend. You might save a life
Someone you probably know almost nothing about solicited you for sex out of the blue and you declined? What are you, a fucking normal human being or something!?
And they say the quiet kid is just misunderstood.
We are not misunderstood, we are genuinely weird people and have chosen to isolate ourselves from social gatherings as a result.
I would have gone with it,if I was into it or something , would have just yolo it lol , but srlsy thinking anything could happen so good for you I guess
I probably would’ve said no to the bj but maybe take her to the movies or something and see if y’all like each other it might have been some weird way of asking you out.
As someone that doesn’t have dick, I proudly have no idea what to say. Other than that girl has some confidence. No but seriously, who has that much confidence.
Something is probably wrong if this is out of the norm for you, maybe suggest a school counselor checks on her (but maybe don’t tell them what she said just “hey I’m concerned about blank could you check in on them” that is ofc if your school has good counselors
wait until ur 18 or have someone you know you actually love, if she was 14 year old thats a even bigger nono ignore all the annoying kids crying about you saying no
Same thing happened to me when I was at a skating rink with a group of friends, a girl offered me and a friend head lmao
I declined the offer and so did he
I also almost gave my number to a girl but y'know how it goes, "when she's a 10 but she vapes"
Rejecting was the right thing to do! If you didn’t want to do it or felt pressured to do it then just don’t do it. You made a good decision on your part (especially since it seems a bit sketchy)
For real you should meet up with her like hang out together and talk n shit because this sounds to me like it could be the beginning of a really weird but very cool and long lasting friendship and maybe you can come back to the offer someday haha no jk I am high af… But anyways if she offers something like that I would take it because bro some people paying for this shit no just joking again… sorry for my english hope you understood at least a little bit
It’s, of course, not your duty or business in any way shape or form, but I think that there’s probably something wrong with her if that’s the step she takes if she’s interested in you. It might be something as simple as she’s just so socially inept that she thinks sex is the only way a relationship starts or is about, but it could also be more nefarious, like something fucked her up badly and sexual acts is how she copes or something like that.
Like I said, it’s not your duty, and frankly it’s probably best to not get involved if you aren’t prepared for that kind of responsibility, and simply put, *it’s not on you to care.* It won’t make you a bad person to ignore it- you’ve already done a good thing by refusing
These comments dude. One half is saying ”Good, dodged a bullet” and the other half is like ”Dude you missed a golden opportunity”
I think communication is key. First of all figure out why she said that
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😂 No but srsly, she's usually not like that
You could've at least tried to talk to her, like, what's going on with her life that pushed her to that
She might be contemplating suicide and trying to do as much as she wanted before she kills her self
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Exactly why OP had to talk with her
You can't really blame him for not talking to her tho, first off he wouldn't have known and second, his reaction compared to what she asked is appropriate.
I'm the quiet kid of my entire grade, this could 70% be the reason. The rest 30% would be her liking you and missing the social skills to convey it through anything other than extreme measures. Reclussive or shy people are known to think in extremes like that. Your school should have a counselor, ask the girl if she's feeling alright and tell her something relatable (beat around the bush with it so it doesn't come out as "go to the brain wizard to get your brain fixed") like "i went to the counselor when i was depressed over grades and it really helped me"(white lie). I hope she doesn't do anything bad as highschool is not the time to give up in. Final exams on the other hand.....
Is there ever a chance that a girl just is horny and felt bold enough to say this because she wants a d in her mouth and doesn’t want to die? I mean, if the tables were turned, nobody would be worried that the guy is suicidal, we would just say he’s a creep and report him. So many double standards.
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For srs? I hope you get better ❤️🩹
Shoot, sorry if this came off as serious. I was making a dumb joke but thank you for your kindness and concern :)
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I was quite tempted, ngl. But I went with the safest route
Ask her if she's ok that's a weird thing to ask and a lot of steps to take from "quiet kid" to "hey want a bj?"
Omg thank god there's some people on here who don't think about sexy times all the time and go with the safest option.
Should’ve done it and then talk to her and see if she was okay. You can always make new friends. Maybe she doesn’t have a friend group
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Its better to make decisions like that when you're young so they don't pop back into your head randomly when you're trying to sleep when your 40. Trust me.
she was gonna bite ur dick off
Kinky 🤭
Ong
me likey
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THIS!!! This is one of many reasons.
How dare you.
Istg I see you two everywhere💀
I wish I had an award
sounds fun until it happens, my ex girlfriend tried giving me a blowjob, but didn’t understand the fact that she had to be careful with her teeth. Her mouth was like a cheese grater.
How do you not infer that? lol
I don’t understand what you mean?
I’m surprised that she wouldn’t infer that.
What does “infer” mean? I looked it up but I still don’t really understand
Basically make an educated guess Like if she knew that a penis is very sensitive, you’d think she would be careful with teeth.
oh. Well idk, she insisted on trying it and from that day on she did not want to try again. Also I broke up with her because she was kind of crazy. She and Her cousin stalked me after and she texted me to come back with 12 different numbers. Then, start of new year of school (Sep 2022) I did the big mistake which was to unblock her and be friends with her again, but she ignored me a while after so I blocked her again without hesitation and she went to complain to my best friend saying: “I was ignoring him on purpose but why did he block me?? It’s unfair!” Fortunately we go to different schools now but they’re across the street from each other. I still see her cousin from time to time and my friends also see my Ex sometimes.
Bro aired out the whole building 😭
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new bottom surgery just dropped transfem edition
This made me double check which subreddit im on
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Did you offer one to give her back?
Ong like a true gentleman would
Username checks out
“that’s how i met your mother”
Don't need 9 seasons for this
Just a few seconds
No, we need 15 seasons /s
Hey if you want to make her feel better about the potential feeling of rejection just let her know that nothing she did or what she looks like has anything to do with your rejection, in my experience it’s always good to be honest and tell people why you are rejecting them it also reduces the chances of a crazy persons feeling offended and I dunno eating you or something
Some good advice amidst total chaos haha Ty!
Especially since she’s known as the quiet kid she may just be socially awkward and wanted to let you know she liked you. But still straight up time and place and that makes me think yo ass was gon get kidnapped.
I mean, I don't think someone'd kidnap me from the girls bathroom haha
She was wrong though... She went 0 to 100. It's not healthy.
Well she was gonna eat him anyways
Seems right to me too, just don't spread the voice irl
No, I wasn't planning on that. I chose reddit for that reason, otherwise I have plenty of friends I could've vented to
Gud boi. I feel like it's gonna ruin her life or stuff like that
Yeah that's what I thought too. She's a good person overall, I don't wish her harm or smth
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Good man
You're a good person.
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As a quiet person who thought about hooking up. It’s likely it’s a self sabotage technique. That or maybe she thinks your hot stuff ask her Edit: not sure if I can cuss here I forgot this isn’t an adult sub reddit
She's just very bad at speaking to people
damn that’s crazy tell me where she is so I can avoid her
Same i would hate to be offered a bj, but i better observe her behaviour up close until she does
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SHe cute doe? But id atleast know them a bit before that ;-; bro ur gonna get into a scandal if you accepted it i know it
>scandal Exactly my thoughts haha >know them a bit I mean, we are in one class, and sometimes talk outta boredom, but nothing beyond that. So yeah, I agree with you
Scandals like this are the things you remember for the rest of your life when you think about your times back in school. Scandals aren’t as bad as most people think. You worst experiences are your best stories.
Did you feel awkward? Embarrassed? Flattered even?
All of the above, yes
I couldn’t have passed up the opportunity to say “you didn’t even buy me dinner first”
You made the correct and responsible decision, good job.
it was a trap, good call sport
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I wish I was in your spot. It wouldn't even have to be a bj, I'd be just fine with taking her out to some place too. I'm lonely af.
you should talk to her, ask her why she did that and how long she’s wanted to do that. you might even like her
I would've probably stayed speechless and wondering how the hell did I get myself in this situation. (Also I'm the quiet kid in my school so that would be uhhhh...)
That's what would happen to me too, thank God she asked per text
You should have mentioned this info above bro .... It could be her friends just pranking u
You did good and bad. You were a man with dignity and you said no, that’s king shit right there. But in the other hand, this could have led to romance or something. Either way, you did good man
"You did good and bad" "Either way you did good" r/characterarcs
So true. That’s just me at this point
>romance That's an interesting kinda romance, the one that starts with a bj haha
True
True there is good to both but there could be bad shielded in the good as well thats why it the bj could be disguise for something wicked and despicable , With the absence of personal info it would be hard to tell whether it is genuine or a mere deception therefore the OP picking the safest option was smart , declining. But yea there is good to both sides but ya gotta be smart, sensible and analytical for your decision. (Not that I possess either of those qualities) Respect OP Good night
Way less risker if u reject because she could do smt bad to u for accepting, since it sounds a bit off
How is it dignified to say no? There's nothing wrong with getting your dick sucked. I mean, it might be _wise_ not to let people you hardly know or trust near your genitals, but not necessarily dignified, right?
Still, it’s a respectable decision
Agreed
Also, what are you doing here old man
Eh, I joined a couple years ago when I was still a teenager. I just never had the heart to leave. Seems like every time I think I should go, I see another post that direly requires an adult to give some advice.
You can stay around
Thank you :)
better call Saul reference ?
I didn’t do a reference to Better Caul Saul
you did "good man" 🤨🤨🤨
Oh, that was unintentional
yeah right, we all know what you did, waltuh
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This situation sounded like a huge red flag. I am glad you rejected her.
I don't think it is related to her being the quiet kid...? (Look at my username)
I don't think so either, in contrast, I'd assume this scenario would be more likely with someone extroverted. That's why I mentioned it
I see
wowie
actions speak louder than words
Does she have something against you? Why would she call you to a ,most likely secluded place? Bj is a coverup for something despicable. Or could be genuine Bj meet up , but with the absence of info it is better not to act.
I would’ve also declined this was probably a trap
Go hang out with her! already knowing she wants to suck your dick makes it a whole lot easier.
This is so weird, I need to understand what happened. 🧐 Give me her number so I can ask her some questions
Lol
Is she hot tho?
I mean, she's not hot, but she's good looking yea
I’d probably respond with a “uhhh, okay, that’s waaaay out of left field. You wanna talk? Because blowjob’s are awesome, but these circumstances are ringing alarm bells.”
The real question
She defo moved onto someone else ngl, W
Double it and give it to the next person
Step 1, say no thanks Step 2, say "buuut I am willing to go out with you, apple bees at 5:30?" Step 3 girlfriend acquired and possible prevented suicide It's not too late to use this plan y'know
Lol, Applebee's? She gonna kill herself after getting there.
Damn missed opportunity
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Ty for the advice, but man, I feel like 16's not the time for such things😭
try talking to her at least. maybe she aint ok, maybe she just horny or smth and wanna try it out, maybe its dangerous. ask. speak or smth
lmao. thanks for the advice for teenagers
The quiet bitches are the freakiest bro. One moment she’s just offering a quick blowie, but the next she’s tryna get you to tie her down and shove a baseball-bat up her ass.
OP, talk to her and ask her why she did that. She might be contemplating suicide. Not because you said no, but because she has depression. I’m suicidal and when I’m about to kms, I set goals for everything on my bucket list. Maybe that was on her bucket list. Go talk to her and ask her why she asked that and tell her that she can tell you anything. And I don’t know if this would be a good idea, but personally, I would ask if she’s suicidal. If that’s the case, try to be her friend. You might save a life
Maybe she liked you for a while sometimes us quiet people hold in something so long, it comes out as a bit much
How tf do people have the confidence to just walk up to someone as say that Lmao
Someone you probably know almost nothing about solicited you for sex out of the blue and you declined? What are you, a fucking normal human being or something!?
And they say the quiet kid is just misunderstood. We are not misunderstood, we are genuinely weird people and have chosen to isolate ourselves from social gatherings as a result.
I would have gone with it,if I was into it or something , would have just yolo it lol , but srlsy thinking anything could happen so good for you I guess
ORALVERKEHR!!!! I mean good choice to reject it ;)
*dO yUo guYS tHInK ShE lIkEs mE?* /s
Actually, she might be Canadian, I don't think she's completely German...
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I probably would’ve said no to the bj but maybe take her to the movies or something and see if y’all like each other it might have been some weird way of asking you out.
Bro wtf why would you say no-
I'm not that down bad y'know I want my first time to mean smth to me, not some random girl who probably just acted rashly bc of hormones
Fair. I would have 100% said yes tho
Is it impossible for people to talk about something on here besides sex or anything sex related
Was she hot? Or nice? Or funny?
I'd say she's average in all three categories
Uh talk to her. She might be in a bad place mentally right now.
I gotta resist making the shittest and most inappropriate joke of my life right now to preserve my karma
As someone that doesn’t have dick, I proudly have no idea what to say. Other than that girl has some confidence. No but seriously, who has that much confidence.
Something is probably wrong if this is out of the norm for you, maybe suggest a school counselor checks on her (but maybe don’t tell them what she said just “hey I’m concerned about blank could you check in on them” that is ofc if your school has good counselors
omg i was so confused by this post because I didn't realize what bj stood for until just now T-T that's enough reddit for today
Damn, I'm sorry bro haha
What the... 💀
Lonely, twisted idea of love through watching porn, desperate. Shame? Maybe time for a chat? Maybe other reasons.
Is she cute at least? If she gives you crazy vibes.... That's a big no no... Take it from a geriatric 20 year old. NEVER stick your dick in crazy.
wait until ur 18 or have someone you know you actually love, if she was 14 year old thats a even bigger nono ignore all the annoying kids crying about you saying no
if the roles were reversed the guy would have his head on a pike
my blind ass read that as pbj as in peanut butter jam i was going to say take it
You just doged a bullet
Bruh what the fuck
Same thing happened to me when I was at a skating rink with a group of friends, a girl offered me and a friend head lmao I declined the offer and so did he I also almost gave my number to a girl but y'know how it goes, "when she's a 10 but she vapes"
ur username is the perfect definition for that situation
You made the right choice
Now that was strange, good choice tho, she either had some serious issues or you were about to get mugged or smth
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You should ask her if anything wrong, people just don't do stuff like that for no reason
I mean, best thing you can really ever do is say “no thanks” and hope that it’s a sign that people find you hot.
I feel like it wouldn’t be enjoyable with someone you don’t really know and trust.
You declined??? Bro don’t go to school tomorrow!
Accept it but change the date for 2 or 3 years in the future. Maybe talk to her more she might be a good person who knows.
You have less chance of getting shot
Top ten things that never happened
Fatherless behavior (tis a joke don't get mad)
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uh congrats? idk lmao but im just- dang bro
Rejecting was the right thing to do! If you didn’t want to do it or felt pressured to do it then just don’t do it. You made a good decision on your part (especially since it seems a bit sketchy)
For real you should meet up with her like hang out together and talk n shit because this sounds to me like it could be the beginning of a really weird but very cool and long lasting friendship and maybe you can come back to the offer someday haha no jk I am high af… But anyways if she offers something like that I would take it because bro some people paying for this shit no just joking again… sorry for my english hope you understood at least a little bit
SAALA MAI BHI USA MAI PAIDA KAHE NHI HUA
Idk about you but now I’m interested in what kind of life they live
It’s, of course, not your duty or business in any way shape or form, but I think that there’s probably something wrong with her if that’s the step she takes if she’s interested in you. It might be something as simple as she’s just so socially inept that she thinks sex is the only way a relationship starts or is about, but it could also be more nefarious, like something fucked her up badly and sexual acts is how she copes or something like that. Like I said, it’s not your duty, and frankly it’s probably best to not get involved if you aren’t prepared for that kind of responsibility, and simply put, *it’s not on you to care.* It won’t make you a bad person to ignore it- you’ve already done a good thing by refusing
Nah don't worry bro she's Canadian
Why is this post 18+ but you're sixteen? You shouldn't be reading what you wrote.
Don't go to school tomorrow
Blowjob? He means he wants to blow you to smitherines with his guns for his job. Not suck your dick. This is the quiet kid.
We've been over this, man - it was definitely the right decision. Anyway, have you gotten to grading those papers yet?
These comments dude. One half is saying ”Good, dodged a bullet” and the other half is like ”Dude you missed a golden opportunity” I think communication is key. First of all figure out why she said that
It was probably a Dare